So I am female, and I caught a male friend of mine in a lie and learned he cheated on his wife. When I confronted him, it ended up turning into an argument over text. At some point, his wife saw some of our texts and questioned him about what we were discussing. She especially got upset over one text, which talked about the night he went out (which didn t correlate with the story he told her). The next thing I know is I m getting emails from his wife, telling me to back off and she was not going to let me disrespect her husband, and wants me to stay away because she doesn t trust my intentions. To my surprise, instead of coming clean, he made up some elaborate story that involved me. I don t fully understand what he said, but basically something about how I kept pushing him to hang out with me that night when he didn t want to and trying to demand a position in his business where he didn t need it (???). Now I generally live by the "keep your mouth shut" logic in a cheating scenario because it s none of my business. But I m being portrayed as the bad guy and blamed for something that never happened! I don t know his wife well, but I know she has some trust issues, and now she believes I m disrespectful and have a thing for her husband. So my question is: do I just suck it up and let it go, or do I stand up for myself and tell her the truth?

I am attending a wedding next Saturday at a ballroom during the evening. However the bride is arab but the groom is mexican. it is a mixed wedding. I am unsure of whether i should wear a light colored dress (blush pink, mint) or a dark colored dress?

Unfortunately me and my family can't attend my cousins wedding due to distance, timing, and finances. She does have a registry, but we can't afford anything from the registry. We would like to send them a visa gift card. Would this be an appropriate gift for my cousin and her husband to be?

My marriage with my husband has been on the rocks since I cheated once after a fight we had. I have been trying to earn his trust back even though it seems like he has hardened himself up from ever showing emotion to me. I still love him and it's killing me that I have ruined our marriage. It has became worse now that his ex girlfriend came back, she makes me feel like I am losing him even when she does nothing. She would Skype with him till the late nights and hear him laughing at her stupid jokes. She wanted to meet him for a drink few nights back and being jealous I went to her and asked her to please stay away but she told me she wants him and nothing is going to stop her wanting him. She even dared me to watch from a far that night, that she would kiss him and bring him back to his place. I wanted to tell my husband to not go but part of me wanted to see what is his choice by the end of that night. It happened as predicted, she just leaned in closer to him and he just kissed her the way he used to kiss me and she slowly took his hands to her place. I went back home and just broke down from the pent up rage, regret and sadness inside. He came back the next morning and he knew that I knew what happened. He just looks at me like a stranger now and I know his exgf has slowly took control of him. How do I fight for my marriage when another woman has the heart of my husband. I don't want to lose him but I feel like am losing him. Has our marriage finally come to an end?.. He has been staying at that girl's place for some nights now and we have tried counselling already.

how many guests would you invite to your wedding?

We are having a small wedding (80 guests) and found the perfect venue about an hour and forty five minutes away from where most guests live. The ceremony and reception are in the same place. The only closer option requires us to settle for a morning wedding and isn't my idea of perfect, but is only a 30 minute drive. Any opinions?