Family: Question: Do I look middle eastern?

Question: Do I look middle eastern?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 01:16 PM PST

I'm middle eastern but no one believes me for some reason. What do you guys think?

Question: Should I move in with my boyfriend's parents?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 01:10 PM PST

My life at home is stressful beyond belief, my younger sister is setting herself up for a path of destruction, she wants to quit school when she's only in 8th grade, she throws tantrums like there is no tomorrow, she throws things at people around constantly, and on several occasions I have caught myself bleeding. My parents are doing nothing about it, and the worse part is I seriously think there is a good chance that I might find myself in the hospital sooner or later. My mental health has only been taking a turn for the worse, yesterday, I nearly stabbed myself with a knife due to all this built up stress, the only one helping me through this was my boyfriend who is seriously worried about me. My boyfriend has explained my situation to his parents and they have agreed to let me stay at their house if I ever find myself in serious danger. However, I am afraid of the consequences that may lead up to this. First of all, my parents are extremely strict and they wont let me get a job no matter what, and they refuse to have me move out until I graduate college which will be another five years. They have even suspended all chances of my chance at getting a drivers licence, even though I already have my permit. The only thing really stopping me from moving out suddenly is the financial aid I am getting from the school. I am really worried that I may not be able to apply for financial aid next year, since it requires my parents' tax reforms.

Question: Why doesn t it feel like my grandpas gone?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 12:50 PM PST

Hi I m 14 years old and one month ago my grandpa died from cancer that had started in his pancreas and spread all over his body. He was diagnosed with cancer in June of 2015 (4 months before his passing) and me and my family watched him wither away. He was a larger man and we watched him get very thin and loose his hair. I am lucky enough to have two grandpas but I was especially close to this one. He took me to school everyday last year and always no matter what came to all my soccer games and track meets and the football games where I played in the band. His last two weeks my whole family stayed in the hospital and hospice house with him. The day he passed away was hard. My family all grieved in different ways. My mom and aunt got drunk. My uncle and his wife organized my grandpas house planning out who would get what. And I didn t know what to do. I ve never had anyone that close to me die before. I mainly stayed in my room replying to I m sorry texts and calls from my closest friends and family. I just don t know why it doesn t feel like he s gone. I feel like I can still call him and tell him about my day and I feel like I could still walk to his house anytime and watch let s make a feel or jeopardy with him. Someone please help me I need an answer to why I don t feel the pain and the loss that my family does. It just doesn t feel like he s really gone.

Question: Is it illegal to make my own human centipede?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 12:48 PM PST

I'm fascinated with the idea, and if you have seen the movie, you would understand why I actually want to do this. I was planning on getting 3 people, sewing their mouth to each other's anus and create a human centipede here's how it will work, when the front person eats, they poop In the other persons mouth so all 3 of them will eat, and so they won't be thirsty, I will connect them to something to give them something to drink. I have all the basics down, first I cut their knee caps so they can't walk, then I sew their mouths. Put diapers on them, cut holes so they can eat the poop and since the last person has no one connected to their anus, I will put a diaper on him so he won't poop on the floor, I just want to create something. I am currently looking for 3 men to be the triplet centipede. Do you guys think this will be illegal? Thanks.

Question: Am I being abused?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 12:28 PM PST

14 turning 15 female. Sometimes they're are nice but sometimes/most of the times they r like this: Dad: - ALWAYS threatens to hit me -hits me(just now he just slapped me then punched me in my leg and spit on me bc I told him to put this food in the kitchen) -tells my mom to beat me up -always in my business -tells me to shut up -Yells at me a lot and calls. Me names( he just called my fugly) -makes me fear him. Tries to always seem smart and superior. -DOSENT take no for a answer and if I say no he starting yelling at me and calling me names -always blames me Mom: - sometimes gives me dirty looks -yells at me -makes me do everything - threatens to tell my dad everything( sometimes so he can hit me) -sometimes hit me -cares and loves my bro and cousins more than me( I think) -always blames me Bro: - yells at me -Threatens to hit me/ sometimes hits me -calls me names -blames me -uses my stuff(sometimes without asking) - tells me to shut up whenever I speak Idk is this abuse? Please help me. Also my dad sometimes looks at my chest or butt and it's bothering me.

Question: Is it right for a married woman to provide food to a place where her 2 sons live who are 25 and 29 year's old?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 12:20 PM PST

Question: I don't think my husband is beautiful anymore since he shaved his eyebrows. Should I disucss it with him?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 12:19 PM PST

Question: Does anyone know where I can buy a pink plastic Tyrannosaurus Rex for my 4-year-old daughter? Please help!?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 12:18 PM PST

Question: Girls a mature question?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 12:12 PM PST

she was 18 and i was 21. We dated for a year on/off. It was nothing serious so this includes no sex because she was a virgin etc at least she claims. Well we now been broken up for a year and we started to hangout lately nothing big. I'm got really close to this girl so keep in mind i feel comfortable. She's now 19 and i'm 22 . I asked her if she's dated anyone? and she said "nothing serious". I asked how far she got with them? and she wouldn't answer it. She'll keep speed walking and covering her ears. Normally if you were to ask someone a question it would be a yes or no answer. I then admitted i slept with one girl since i'm no virgin mind you. Why would she act like this? the only reason i can think of it's because she's still a virgin right?...

Question: How can I be happy again?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 12:01 PM PST

I am a boarder line alcoholic everybody I have loved has has betrayed me I am sick of it llife its cruel I feel like the sun never shines I have nothing I was thinging about killing myself a few weeks I had lots of pain killers I was drunk I left my door open my friend he walked and stop me he made me flush the pills down the toilet but he betrayed me he attacked me for nothing and I beat the $$H!T out of him he was my only real friend I thought I could trust him and I have a cousin he was the closet thing I had to a brother but he is a Junkie he broke into my dads house that's why I was going to top myself I am sick of this I am sober I staying off the drink i just want to be happy no on.e cares about me my own sister sticks up for someone who got me chased with baseball bats and she defends someone who use to bully me my family are snakes i sometimes feel better when I drink but most of the time it makes me feel worse and when I smoke weed it makes me feel good but sometimes it makes me feel weird I just want be happy I want to move away some where out theroad but I have not got the money I live in Scotland I want to move to a good part of glasgow

Question: Drug addict dad?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 11:58 AM PST

Basically my dad is a drug addict and has been since i was born.My parents recently divorced and my mom told me and so did my dad, that he was (and i believe still is) a pain killer addict.I didnt know because i was so used to it.He lived with us but wasnt for my birth and is always drowsy and in a bitchy "**** it" attitude.It makes me want to cry writing this because it makes me mad he blames my mom for the divorce.How do i get through this?

Question: Im 13 I have no freedom my mom treats me like I m 5 all I do is play on my phone and stay in my bedroom bc I can t leave the house help pls?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 11:55 AM PST

Question: How do you cope with annoying ex in laws?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 11:55 AM PST

I appreciated my former in laws because they babysit my children a couple of days a week and have generally been nice to me although they are not the most moral people. My former father in law is overly nice to me and often will like all of my Facebook photos but never like ones that my current husband is in. Keep in mind my current husband is a better father to my children than their real father is but gets no respect from my former in laws. Even though they are nice to his face they do very passive things that can cause problems such as thy are very pushy about being invited to holidays at my mother still even though I'm divorced they express how we should still be family. However they have nowhere else to go since they no longer speak to their own family. They use my children as an excuse so I give in and invite them and my ex husband. This make my current husband uncomfortable. How do I cope with this?

Question: How to tell me step dad to f*ck the h*ll off?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 11:54 AM PST

So he think he f*cking tell me what to do. Right now, my not even 2-year-old brother is screaming and crying and my step dad wont let me help the baby bc apparently, the baby is being "spoiled". So I asked my stepdad HOW the baby was being spoiled and I got no answer. My step dad was just eating the food that MY GRANDMA MADE FOR ME!!!!!!!!! FOR ME AND MY OTHER SIBLINGS!!!!! HE WAS F*CKING EATING IT!!!!!!!! And he does f*cking NOTHING for this family. (background info: Im 14 female and my sis is 13 female. We were born before we met me step dad. Then he comes along, marries my mom when im 11 and has 2 kids with her. One of them is a boy (not even 2 years old.) and the other one is not even 2 weeks old female. My stepdad came up to me yesterday and started bossing me around and telling me that I "have a lot of problems". wtf? Im SO beyond angry. I have major problems with my family. They all hit me and treat me worse than any person in this world should ever be treated (and im not exaggerating). I found a switchblade on the ground a few weeks ago and have managed to keep it hidden. I think it's time I used it. This is f*cking ridiculous.

Question: Converting children to your religion?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 11:37 AM PST

So I live with my mom and my younger sister. My mom has very recently found a great place for herself within her church, the problem is she's always been an extremely controlling person & is relentlessly trying to convert my sister and I to Christianity to the point of forcing my little sister to go to church with her by threatening to ground her from what little social interaction she has if she doesn't observe Sundays (I'm 18, so she's sort of leaving me alone with the ultimatums). She wants this to be a 'Christian home' and says she's thinking about not giving us a choice in the matter. I deeply respect all religion, but my personal beliefs are more Eastern and I don't feel a connection to the church. Idk, I'm curious to see what people's thoughts are on making your children adhere to your newfound religion beliefs when you didn't raise them that way. Is it a Christian thing to do or even a fair thing to do? Should she be able to do that because it's her house?

Question: I caught my sister making out with her teacher?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 11:31 AM PST

I m 14 and she is 18. She is. senior and I caught her making out with her 25 or 26 year old teacher. She begged me not to tell my mom or step dad. Idk what to do because she is 18 and they both said they love each other. And I m just really confused right now

Question: What to do in San Francisco?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 11:28 AM PST

hi, I am going to the city tomorrow with my girl cousin, Claire (20) she just wants to take me (boy age 14) because we don't feel like we know each other that well. we live across the street because she moved right next door to my parents house. it is a 20 minute drive to San Francisco. she has the 2012 Cadillac Esclade for her first car. should I bring my USB cord for my phone for music? she said I can bring it if I want to. should I text her and see what we should do and see in the city tomorrow?

Question: MONEY AND CHRISTMAS HELP PLZ URGENT?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 11:19 AM PST

Hello, I need a honest answer. I am a pretty good kid and my parents are nice people. MY mom is a very hardworking busy stay at home mom and my dad is a IT manager in the Hospital. Honestly we don't make ALOT of money but we are living day by day on it, and it is only almost 100,000 a year. Im too young to work, and i do everything from not turning on lights and doing DIY projects instead of buying, but I'm tired of it. I want nice clothes but i am wearing the same clothes I had since 6th grade, thats three years. I mean my parents DO have money but I'm relectant for spending it. How do I help them? I want something for christmas, but I don't know and I think we can only afford little things? is 100,000 enough for a 5 person family two kids two adults one cat 2 parakeets 1 goldfish THANKS AND MERRY EVERYTHING

Question: Why arent there any gay couples on kids TV shows?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 11:14 AM PST

Like on shows like Henry danger, or the thundermans it's always a boy crushing on a girl or a girl crushing on a boy. You never see gay couples on those shows! Why not? Like for example, on henry danger, Henry is straight. They could of made his character gay! Is anyone else annoyed by this?

Question: Where could the Elf on the Shelf be?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 11:07 AM PST

I looked in my room for it because my aunt said she wants to see it for the Christmas party my mom and dad have every year. I looked in the living room and the family room. my aunt said she does the gifts, so if I don't find it (my sister thinks we might have thrown it away), should I Email her and tell her to get my sister and I a new one for the party? (she is 11 and I am 14). it's always fun to do it.

Question: Should I tell my baby daddy's mother about how he's not helping out with our daughter?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 11:04 AM PST

I know it's not her problem but, she thinks her son does so much for my daughter. My baby is a week old and he hasn't bought her anything. All he does is lie, saying he's going to do this and do that. She is talking to me on facebook about how she wants to see her, which I agreed to let her...it just upsets me that her son, won't do anything for our daughter..Should I mention it?

Question: How do I persuade my mom to give me another chance to go to my grandmas?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 10:47 AM PST

My mom is being super mean to me, and she won't give me another chance even though I said I was sorry and all I did was forget to put towels in the dryer. Now she's yelling and slamming and throwing things. She also won't let me help her clean house, even though I'm begging her to help her clean it. And I'm pretty sure once she's done, she's gonna rant about people not helping her. What do I do?

Question: Why are my parents so angry?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 10:37 AM PST

I am very confused. My parents used to be really nice and understanding and always did nice things for me and my brother. Now they always seem upset and angry. We have been having a little more money issues, that I know of, but money was never just a luxury. Do you think this is because we are older and they think we have more responsibility? I hate hanging around them because they are always upset or frustrated with my brother (11) or I (16). This makes me very stressed and unproductive. When my mom talks to me it is in an angry tone of voice even when she is telling me things for the first time. Can someone please try to help me understand or is there something I can say or do to make them happier?

Question: How much does a PO box cost? Are they expensive to get?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 10:23 AM PST

Question: How to celebrate birthday with only 4 dollars?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 10:15 AM PST

we were planning on going to Florida for mine anf my sister's birthday but my dad likes my oldest sister better. Not the one who's birthday we share a week a part but my oldest. my parents would take my older sister and her son instead of me and my other sister. this kind of stuff happens a lot I mean whatever but they're not really doing anything for me for my birthday they're just having us stay home and they go on a trip with put the birthday kids. I don't care really because my older sister is the favorite but whatever I'm used to it. I only have $4 with me and not getting a birthday present. I'm 11 my sister that we have the same birthday is 17. What do I do?

Question: My mom always thinks she knows ALL. It's never right but she says it is. Why doesn't she just be quiet. Doesn't she want a good child?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 09:56 AM PST

Question: Should I tell my baby daddys mother about how he's treating his daughter?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 09:44 AM PST

I know it's not her problem but, she thinks her son does so much for my daughter. My baby is a week old and he hasn't bought her anything. All he does is lie, saying he's going to do this and do that. She is talking to me on facebook about how she wants to see her, which I agreed to let her...it just upsets me that her son, won't do anything for our daughter..Should I mention it?

Question: I need help on my step daughter serious.?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 09:39 AM PST

ok she's 21 got 2 twins a year old today. Her husband is 22 a deadbeat pot head. Step daughters name is Jan. ok she's not working cant hold a job..she's they don't live here.shes never asked her mom for cash she demands it..the bad of my wife she gives it to her..so my wife wants to stop its like its to late for that..jan txts every other day, telling her mom I want 40.00..if you don't give it to me.i will be over there and make everyone mad..so my wife says its better to just pay her than listen to her mouth. The thing is im not a pushover. Even my hands are tied.shes over 18,i cant touch her.i cant get a restraing order,you have to have all this crap to get it...so we don't know wtf to do that's leagle?? I NEED REAL HELP HERE..I cant stand her.ive scremed,cussed everything..I wouldn't punch her but love to. Its really getting to me..i know my wife's been paying her cash since there dad past. She never got much growing up her dad was a DRUNK. We need to stop her in her tracks. She goes to my wife's work demanding cash..my wife should be able to say no and stop, Jan keeps pouring it on..she wont budge even me..even though she's scared to death. WHAT CAN I OR WE DO?? thanks.

Question: Join Custody sucks!?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 09:38 AM PST

My mom and stepdad are getting divorced. My stepdad moved back into his parents house and my mom lives in our house. They were together for about 6 Years and I feel very close to my stepdad, he is like my dad. They have been making us spend one week at my moms house and then one week with my stepdad at his parents house. I hate this arrangement so much. It is so hard having to bring all of my things to a dofferent house every week. I m in college and I don t have my own car so my parents have to drive me to school. My mom also travels a lot and is never home when we spend the week with our stepdad. I hate going to my stepdads parents house. I have to share a room and a bed with my sister. It is so frustrating because I normally have my own room and I miss my privacy and being able to concentrate on my schoolwork. My grades are going down and I feel so miserable every time I have to go to my stepdads parents house. I don t feel comfortable there and I just want to live in my normal house. I hate that my parents are doing this to me and my siblings. I always tell them how terrible the arrangement is and how much it is taking a toll on me and they don t care they say that s the way it has to be. I m so sad and frustrated I have no idea what to do. They won t listen to me. How should I deal with this situation?

Question: My mom is mad then locked herself in the room? What do i do?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 09:34 AM PST

So my mom came home, she was acting very strange. She locked herself in her room and every time i knock, she won't anwser, plus she took all of the keys with her to the door. What should I do? I'm getting worried. Should I call the police? It's been an hour. PLEASE HELP!!!

Question: Me and my mother always seen to be fighting nowadays? I need insight please help!?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 09:04 AM PST

Ever since I turned 18 my mother and I always seem to be tense with each other or fighting. I have no idea what happened or what suddenly changed but I just feel like she s constantly disapproving me. I know a lot of it is probably my fault as I m probably going through a belated teenager phase but I just can t shake the feeling that she s disappointed in me and disapproves of me. And this leads to all sorts of fights and tense situations... I just. I don t know anymore and I just can t take it anymore. How I m always kinda jealousy of my younger sister because my mother pays more attention to her and while she would get mad at me for doing something, uf my sister does the exact same thing or even something worse it doesn t get any reaction out of my mother. Can someone please help me out? I don t know what s wrong here.... please help

Question: Why does my 9 year old brother cry over everything?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 08:55 AM PST

He cries if he has to clean up his own trash, toys, clothes, dishes, and any other mess he had made. He cries if someone stare at him. He cries if someone laughs at him. He cries if he can't over eat (hes a big boy). He cries if he is told no. He cries over everything and it is so annoying.

Question: What are the likely chances of society allowing me to attend such programs if I was blacklisted by parents?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 08:53 AM PST

My parents have permanently excluded me from programs that aims to make males femenine/metrosexual ever since I missed out from attending when parents took my teen siblings and 27-year-old violent, macho brother. I got blacklisted from.such thing even though I was always a male who is self-conscious, non-violent (unlike my brother who assaulted both parents and siblings) .

Question: Should I move down south?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 08:33 AM PST

I'm 15 years old, and my family wants to move. My dad travels all the time so it doesn't matter where we live, so my parents wanted to try something new. For some reason I can't explain I wanted to move down south to the country. Is it good for me? The only thing I care about is that I can play hockey, other than hat I don't mind much

Question: If my parents say I'm crap, then why must they force this crappy lifestyle in me by having me blacklisted from these programs?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 08:19 AM PST

Parents and siblings (including 27-year-old macho brother) have all attended 2 separate programs without me since I was occupied with other things, and now they have all permanently blacklisted me from it where they think they can simply force this crappy lifestyle in me since they think I was that kind of crappy person in the first place. Here are 2 things I missed out where they also forced me to be the exact opposite of each of them. 1 - I missed out on my Christian/Catholic Christian indoctrination when I was also baptized Catholic as an infant, they have me permanently blacklisted since it makes them feel very special knowing one missed out. 2 - I missed out from a program that makes males feminine/metrosexual, they also get me permanently blacklisted from such thing where my dad forces me to be my brother's macho self since he is changing. My dad has also caused severe psychological damage by blaming, bossing and scolding me while also bullying me in the hopes I would turn into a violent macho man (my brother) I'm actually a male who was always non-violent, self-conscious, sensitive and was more of a metrosexual male by nature. I'm feeling very frustrated by my treatment.

Question: My sister and her husband didnt let me stay in their country?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 08:05 AM PST

i went abroad to study and stayed in my sisters house for a while but later moved to my own room eith a roomate. they told her bad things about me and she never let me stay there. they made it hard for me to live with them. i had a mental breakdown. i was doing well in school and i wanted to stay. my parents arent letting me go back and are taking my sisters side. help what do i do.. i even have a boyfriend there snd i cant go bsck. this is so bad

Question: Why do I feel depressed because I have failures as parents? If other poor people seem happy and seem to love their parents?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 08:01 AM PST

My mother is a waitress and my father a drunkard. When I was younger I saw other kids with better parents and made me jealous that I didn't have respectable parents like them. For example, my friend's dad owns a restaurant and hotel. His mom is a stay at home mom who always wears expensive clothes. I always wished to have that kind of family. My family is worthless. Never able to help me financially. They have advice, but never good advice. I feel that perhaps I'm too intelligent to relate to my family. My parents didn't use the internet until 10 years ago for example.

Question: Is my time on electronics bad?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 07:59 AM PST

I spend around 7.5 hours on a school day on iPad/TV/ps4 and 10 hours on the weekend. I am a bit chubby but I am not weak and I enjoy P.E in my school. I get good grades and I am above my age when it comes to my thought process ( I think like an adult, not a child). My mum is fine with this but me stepdad is constantly nagging me saying I get no excercise and that I spend way too much time on screens. What should I say to him?

Question: Should I block the father of my child out of my life?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 07:59 AM PST

Well, my whole pregnancy he has did nothing but disrespect me. He left me for the first mother of his child. He didn't help me with anything. he says he is going to do this and do that but does nothing at all. he did come for her birth, and that was the only time I seen him in 7 months. He still hasn't bought her anything. Today, she is a week old and hasn't tried to see her yet. he did sign the birth certificate, but I just dont understand why he wont provide for her or help me...He said I could pick up some stuff for her the other day, but when the time came he lied..I just feel like he's going to hurt my daughter one day by not being the father she wants him to be. I grew up without a father so I know exactly how it feels to have your heart broken by your dad...I am putting him on child support. He uploads pictures of her on his facebook talking about how much he loves her, but he hasn't done anything for her...I'm just really sad, I don't want my daughter to be hurt by her father...any advice?

Question: My parent(s) won't let me travel far alone what do I do?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 07:52 AM PST

My parents let me travel within Europe on my own I live in the UK. I travel to my home country Malta on my own a lot and I wen't to Ireland and Amsterdam (couple of times). Hear is the problem. I wan't to go to Japan on my own I have enough money to book flights and hotel. I learn Japanese when I was a teenager from books, video games and anime. My dad let me go but my mum won't let me only I go with friends.... All my friends are not interested to go with me so I told my mum about that she still won't let me to go Tokyo on my own... If I book the flights & hotel show to my mum she'll force me to cancel the tickets I paid... I'm almost 25 years old I have rights to go far away on my own. What can I do?

Question: Terrified for my first trip alone with my dad?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 07:49 AM PST

I live with my mom. I've never had an overnight with my dad and now we are going to his family for 4 days for Thanksgiving. On top of this, I've never spent Thanksgiving away from my moms family. I don't have a good relationship with my dad. So I'm very anxious about the whole thing. (My sister and I chose to go because of other reasons, we aren't being forced, but I don't get along with him very well)

Question: Is my mom right in expecting her to be more important than my husband?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 07:33 AM PST

I got married a little over a month ago on a trip to Hawaii.Only two of our friends and my mother were invited.My mother only speaks polish and I have told her many times that we are treating the trip as our honeymoon as well and that we have many activities planned out that everyone agreed on.Well long story short my mom began being rude to me on the trip because I was speaking English to our other guests and "choosing strangers" to do activities together. When I told her that I would always chose moy husbands company especially on that trip she went as far as to say that I can get married 3 or 4 times but I only have one mother.There was also a night (2 nights after we got married) that my mother came to our hotel room and knocked around 10pm...my husband and I were in bed already doing you know, what couples do after getting married, and now she is also mad because she heard me telling him not to open the door! She said we should've invited her to hang out in our hotel room but instead I just "stuck" her in her room and left.I wanted her to spend time with us but she chose to be grumpy and not come with us on adventures. I explained that I came to Hawaii to get married and see things, not to sit on the beach all day.She thinks I should've chosen her over my husband and the "strangers" our friends of 10 years were. I just need help.She won't talk to me now and said I needed to go to a psychiatrist to test my head when i suggested we go to family counseling together.

Question: My mom is not allowing me to buy my own lingerie and she keeps bragging about my money?!?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 07:24 AM PST

I'm 17 years old, and every time I ask her to let me buy my own lingerie, she tells me no and makes fun of me. Then she gives me hers and buy the style she likes, who in the world does that to there daughter! I wanted to buy Calvin Klein underwear, unfortunately they sell it online but with good price and I think it's a great idea to order it online, so my mom disagreed and she said no. I don't have a credit card nor my mom, only dad and I'm not allowed to order online although I never did to be prevented from ordering online. She makes me wear my old bras and ripped panties. And she'll then go lie to dad and tell him that she has good underwear and he believes her. And I swear to God that I have ripped panties and the pieces of iron in the bra sprung out. And I told her I'll buy it from my money and she ends up telling you won't have money anymore, like why can't she leave me alone. It my own damn money. They keep forcing me to buy stuff that I don't want and when I wanna buy something from my money,they make a big fuss out of it ! I need some advice please! Help?

Question: I'm 14 years old, and I have 1,62 Meters, can I reach 1,78?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 07:18 AM PST

My Father have 1,73- 1,74 and my mother 1,63 I'm a boy

Question: I think my foster sister killed someone?! What do I do?!?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 07:11 AM PST

I know this sounds ridiculous and unreal or whatever but I have nowhere else to say this to that won't land her in jail and I am getting more worried by the second about this. I live in a foster home, and we're around 5 children altogether, and we have a foster mom and a foster dad. One of my foster siblings is a 17 year old girl, and she HATES it here so much. She's always rude and cocky and arrogant to our foster parents as well as to us which is fine I guess not against the law, but now I think she's committed murder because our foster mom was supposed to come back from a business trip 7 DAYS AGO and she hasn't come back yet, and everyone is like super worried and scared, but she's just so calm and cool about the whole thing! She doesn't care! She even smirked and giggled when the police came over to our home. Not to mentioned she was missing for an ENTIRE NIGHT the day our foster mom left for the business trip. I know she hates our foster mom so much, so what if she did this?!

Question: How to I handle my little brat cousin?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 06:49 AM PST

Ok, so Thanksgiving is coming up and I have a VERY annoying little cousin. She is 4 and I am 10. And when I say I don t want to play she tells her Nana and we have the talk about cousin love. Her are reasons she is annoying. 1. She "needs" to have a shower with me. My body changing. 2. She messes with my stuff and repeats what I say. 3. She "needs" to sleep with me. 4. she is a brat and she cries when she doesn t get her way. Help me

Question: How to ditch family Thanksgiving and spend it solo?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 06:44 AM PST

I can't think of a way to get what I want without getting my mother all upset; any ideas would be welcome! I am scheduled to fly halfway across the country to my brother's house, and our parents (who live far away, too) will come. The trip is to last from the Friday after Thanksgiving until the Sunday after Thanksgiving. That's fine, but: (1) I have had a business trip come up. I'm scheduled to arrive home at 5pm on Sunday after Thanksgiving, and then I have a 6am flight the next day. (2) I have a ton of work, which can't start until Friday after Thanksgiving (due to clients) and is due by Monday after Thanksgiving, meaning that I'd have to work the whole time while at my brother's house. (Client demands.) As always, I'd be looked as antisocial or whatever if I work, but it's not my choice. (3) My sister in law hates me and my mother. (4) My mother tries to guilt me into spending more time with my niece and nephew. She even says that I have to invite myself to visit my brother (and SIL who hates me) for days at a time, even if they don't like it, to spend time with my niece and nephew. (5) My mother says that my brother doesn't invite me to visit because I usually can come only for a day or two--I am required to come for more than 2 days. (Thus I can't shorten my trip to see them, apparently, although coming for Friday and Saturday would suit me). (6) I LOVE my parents' dogs. I'd gladly fly there and work, solo, at their house. So...any alternatives here? Thanks.

Question: Does your mate favor in anyone in your family (brother, sister, parent, aunt, uncle, grandparent)?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 06:11 AM PST

Question: Estou montando meu curíiculo, É relevante eu adicionar a experiencia como Barista , além de operadora de caixa e atendente?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 05:37 AM PST

ps: Porque meu objetivo não é trabalhar com a área alimentícia...) Mas pode ser bom para meu currículo?

Question: Create a family?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 05:30 AM PST

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Question: Often think about running away?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 04:58 AM PST

I'm nothing but a burden on my parents lives. I want to leave so that they don't have to worry about their own future. Maybe my mom can quit the job that she hates if I leave.n But I know that I can't do it. It's almost winter. I have money, but most of it is in change. I don't think I'm old enough to get a job (14). And even if I was, I'd be all dirty from living outside so they wouldn't want me.

Question: Why are older brothers often portrayed as being bullies to their younger siblings?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 04:48 AM PST

An older brother, or any family member, should not be a bully. I personally see bullying and sibling bullying as being very detremental. I just don't get why older siblings, especially brothers, are portrayed as being bullies.

Question: Any Wisconsinite?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 04:26 AM PST

Which place would be the cheapest to live? My parents may not support me anymore, and I definitely don't want to end up homeless.

Question: Dad is suddenly being silent?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 04:17 AM PST

we were having a typical asian argument, he took my laptop, I took it back, he asked where it was and I said I wouldn't tell him He said that wouldn't let me use the laptop and just walked away. The next day, contrary to his word, he did nothing at all. He didn't talk to me, he didn't even show any signs that he knew I was in the house. No one has really noticed this besides me. It feels like my dad is plotting something, to be honest.

Question: My daughter's father wants me to let him have overnight visitation and have her jump from house to house right off the bat?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 03:23 AM PST

My daughter's father is trying to tell me that he is gonna have our daughter three CONSECUTIVE nights a week starting a week after the baby and I get home from the hospital. He also thinks that along with those three consecutive nights a week, he should get her everyday until he has to go to work, even when I am not yet able to go back to work. He also believes he should not have to pay child support because "a mother should be able to provide for the child on her own" When I said everyday, I meant during the day and he would bring her to me during the night until he got off and then come get her again.

Question: My cousin's driving is dangerous. Is there a way that I can stop my uncle from buying her a car?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 02:58 AM PST

Earlier this year my cousin started to learn how to drive with my uncle. Many problems here.. While she was driving she saw a boy with a neon shirt on and almost hit someone's mailbox b/c "the shirt was too bright and distracting". Then we were on a highway with no cars close to us and she decided to close her eyes and rest. Lol she thought that since the road was straight and no cars around its fine if she closes her eyes for a bit. She also drives in the middle of the road and gets on the wrong lane when she makes a turn. My uncle wants to get her a car to practice on around the neighborhood while he goes to work. I dont think she asked for a car, her dad just wants her to have one so i cant blame her for it. Oh and her mom told her dad that she doesnt want him to get a new car but he likes giving Ashley everything he can afford. (not complaining about that either bc she shares her stuff with me everytime her dad gets it for her) only complain ill make is with her driving lol

Question: Girls mature question?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 02:39 AM PST

I ask because you know a girls body language/how girls act in genral. Long story short she was 18 and i was 21. We dated for a year on/off. It was nothing serious so this includes no sex because she was a virgin etc at least she claims. Well we now been broken up for a year and we started to hangout lately nothing big. I'm got really close to this girl so keep in mind i feel comfortable. She's now 19 and i'm 22. I asked her if she's dated anyone? and she said "nothing serious". I asked how far she got with them? and she wouldn't answer it. She'll keep speed walking and covering her ears. Normally if you were to ask someone a question it would be a yes or no answer. I then admitted i slept with one girl since i'm no virgin mind you. Why would she act like this? the only reason i can think of it's because she's still a virgin right?

Question: Do I keep on lying?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 02:32 AM PST

I'm 15 and my mother can be abusive. But for the last 3 months she surprisingly hasn't done anything physical to me. I've been considering reporting her for a while though, and the when my 14 year old sister was sent upstairs without dinner and grounded just for coming home late, I went up to her and suggested that she talk to her teacher about my mom's strict punishments and abusive nature. Well, I geuss that's something I should have done myself, but she came back with a ton of bad reasons why that was a bad idea. Apparently she thinks that she will be taken away along with my siblings and I, and when I said that perhaps she is saving us by having us taken away, she just said that she wasn't interested. Now, a week later, she decides to tell my mother that I'm thinking of leaving and going to child protection services and gave her suggestions. I geuss I panicked a bit, so I decided to lie that everything she said was her manipulating the situation because she is the one who wants to leave. Surprisingly, it actually worked, my mom has no idea who to believe but I can tell she'd rather believe it's my sister and not I. Should I keep this going? My mom has been crying about this for days and suggested to my sister that if she wanted to leave, perhaps live with her aunt for a while. At the same time, I'm not ready to report all this and my sister pushed me into a corner by making all this known.

Question: How to deal with a horrible family? And where to live after I graduate?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 02:28 AM PST

My parents are getting a divorce after years of being unhappy. My father is abusive and my mother has the mentality that she needs a man in order to be valid. They were both cheating. My mum has revealed she's in a relationship with a man she's been working with for years. Everyone is happy for her. That man is also going through a divorce and he and my mum are now living with their parents. I told my mum I'm bothered by her being in a relationship so quickly and that she should focus on herself/getting on track financially and emotionally. She disowned me and started playing the victim saying she needs a man in order to survive and she deserves it. I wasn't disagreeing that she should be happy, but the fact she's leaping from one man to another with no time to heal is unhealthy, and I wanted what was best for her. She told her parents not to talk to me and that I'm evil. She also told my brother and he punched me in the face. My dad lives alone and I don't have much contact with him. I'm at university but I graduate next year. I would hate to move in with either of them. I just feel really shitty because I genuinely don't think I was at fault here. I'm now spending Christmas alone and I'm terrified of graduating and having to move back in with them (I don't have a job because my degree is so demanding and there's no way I could get my own flat immediately after graduating).

Question: Why is my friend obsessed that I don't do anything?

Posted: 22 Nov 2015 01:58 AM PST

I have a friend that I have known since childhood, and she constantly brings up jokes that I don't do anything. I am now engaged and she has made jokes that my ring is shiny because I never get my hands dirty. Today I finally asked her why she constantly says this. Her reply was that my older sister, who had been friends with her first as they are closer in age, always complained I didn't have chores. She said she believes her as I always was in my room whenever she was over, or watching TV. I realize now she is stuck on how she saw me as a child of 10. Now of course I had chores, but I don't want to be petty and go into details with her as why am I defending myself over something so stupid? I have told her before I had chores but she doesn't believe me. I don't want to get in an argument with her over this as it is silly; yet I wish she would stop.She is now telling my fiancee that I need to clean more but he has defended me by telling her that I clean his apt when I am over.Honestly this is stupidly bizarre. Why do you think she is still obsessed on this notion that I don't clean or do anything? The way she announces what she thinks of my doing chores are quick jabs where she laughs and then talks about something else soon after. I feel like if I were to go back to what she said and try to talk to her in more detail that it will result in a fight. I'm annoyed that she's stuck in the past. Why is she always bringing this up? I don't live with her so I don't understand this.