Family: Question: Why would my 3 sisters ticke me? They did it in front of my girlfriend?

Question: Why would my 3 sisters ticke me? They did it in front of my girlfriend?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 12:52 PM PST

Question: Help with my sister!?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 12:41 PM PST

I love my sister so much! We are 6 years apart in age and she is 13 right now. She used to be my best friend. However, for the past couple of years she has been kind of rude. She calls me a b*tch all the time for the dumbest reasons and she even does it in front of my parents. I know sometimes I aggravate her but it seems as if her name calling is bit excessive. I can tell my parents are stressed because they have tried so many things to deal with the behavior, but to no avail. She seems to have no remorse. My boyfriend is even starting to dislike her because she called him a b*tch the other day. Her reasoning was because "he always has to be right." I thought that maybe she was jealous that I had a boyfriend. But we have been dating for over three years now, and they used to really get along. It upsets me she called him that because I know I would be very upset if his siblings said anything like this to me! We try to include her in a lot of the things we do and take her to some of the places we go so she doesn't feel left out. I also continue spending a lot of time with her one on one. I take her shopping, to the movies, etc. What can I do? I just want my sister to be my friend again!

Question: How to switch homes to my grandma's?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 12:40 PM PST

I am 15 years old and I want to switch and live with my grandparents. My dad who has full custody of me is (I believe) is unfit. He is constantly yelling and calling me names and never takes me to the doctors , dentist, or eye doctor which I really need. He is always sleeping anyways because he works at night, leaving me home with my 9 year old brother from 10p.m. to 7:30am. I do not want to live with my mom either because she is unfit considering she does not take me to doctors appointments and is married to a stupid asshole alcoholic who hates me. So I want to move is with my grandparents. How can I make this happen and will the courts allow it?

Question: Why would my mom and 3 sisters tie me to the bed shirtless and ticke me on my 15th birthday?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 12:32 PM PST

I am a boy.

Question: Should I care about my kid brother's future anymore?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 12:17 PM PST

I'm 21. I live with my mom and my brother (9 next month). I've always been investing time in him because I thought he's a smart kid. He's made honor roll every year since kindergarten. He reads SAT passages fluently. From pre-k to the beginning of the 2nd grade I've had this struggle because he just doesn't want to do his work and my mom would get home from work and tell me to leave him alone to which I couldn't say anything. He'd complain on me and she'd cut me down. This went on until he told her that she wouldn't do anything to him because it was just her. She just turned me into a punk for him. He knows I'm serious but he knows our mom's words wins. He seems to be a kid with a lot of potential but is too lazy to tap into it himself. He really doesn't have any real respect for either me or my mother, he does a lot of dumb stuff and he's starting to slack off in school; literally choosing not to do classwork. I spent this entire year teaching him about respect and having more responsibilities. I tried to let him feel like we were on a team. Encouraged him to do well but to not be too hard if he makes mistakes. This dude said to me one day "sometimes people misunderstand other people" and went on to explain. The other day he was playing a game, which is what he mostly does and I told him to say his time tables. He said his 2s while staring at the screen. Then after I said to get off, say it, then go back he walked out like I was nobody. Should I care anymore?

Question: How do i stop feeling depressed, lonely and angry?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 11:35 AM PST

im 35, and from a very wealthy aristocratic family, but its very dysfunctional and abusive. When I was growing up my father died when I was a baby, and my mom was very abusive. I had to leave home before 10, and was even homeless for part of my teens. muy mother was remarried to many rich but lower class men, mostly jews, and they were abusive as well, and did not allow me to even be in my house, the on my father left us. At 18 i gained control of some of the assets which were in my name,but were in her control. I went to university, and and invested in real estate, and at 30 i fell in love and got engaged. my mother had become broke bc she mismanaged the assets that were in her control of the trust, and she then cut me off from everything the courts. it was still in my name but had no rights to my property or their incomes. I lost my fiancé, and was homeless for 5 years while i fought this. I now have everything back, the homes and capital assets, and my mother is renting an apartment somewhere with little access to them anymore. She had a nervous breakdown and finally is being punished for all this stuff, but I've lost touch my my friends,and many have moved on. My fiancé who I love is married to someone else and has a child now. Its thanksgiving and I'm all alone. Its only been in the last 3 months that I've gotten my property back and its a struggle. alot of the things and time i lost bc of it I will never get back. and my health has suffered bc i was unable to have a good routine..livivng out of cheap hotels with no money and was unable to see a doctor or a dentist even. I had three beautiful homes when she did this to me, and was extremely healthy. she also mismanaged my commercial real estate investments which were part of the whole trust, but i built that business, and it has suffered alot, but its still very profitable. I've moved into the home my father bought for us, that i was forced to leave at 9. its creepy. Its a big penthouse on fifth ave with28 rooms. its empty though and alot of bad memories.

Question: Why is my dad acting so strange?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 11:30 AM PST

So my mom comes over and picks me up every Sunday and Wednesday. Well my dad doesn't spend time with me or anything. Well I was asking him almost everyday to come over and spend sometime with me but he said he was busy. I wasn't asking him to come see me everyday tho. But everytime I go over there is laying on the couch,using computer,or spending time with his friend watching nascar. Well today I'm staying the night over at their house for thanksgiving and going home on Friday. Well,I brought monopoly over hoping he would play a game well now all of a sudden he says no cause he doesn't like it. I don't know why he is acting this way. He has never done this before and this long. He has been acting this way for a few weeks now and I don't know why. I can't talk to him about it cause he will get mad at me and yell at me and maybe even cuss at me. My mom told me that he doesn't have anything to do with her either. So I don't know what is going on with my dad. I don't live with them anymore. I feel that my dad doesn't love me. I couldn't stop crying but now I'm fine.

Question: To take the shower or not to take the shower?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 11:20 AM PST

My mother has been abusive for years, but she hasn't done it to me in months. I live with her and four younger sisters. I'm 15, and I take a shower every school day or any day I leave my house in the morning. I have curly hair, and unless I want to go to school in my bed hair, which I slept on, I'm going to have to wet it. She doesn't seem to know that, and I'm sure she'd never understand as she wears a headscarf, therefore is forbidden to show her hair. She can not shower for weeks if she likes, not like anyone will see hers. I'm a guy, and I want to look good at school. I have always wanted to report my mother for abuse, but I always needed evidence or chickened out. But for tommorow she told me that if I showered she'd beat me. This is what I'm thinking. Tommorow I will shower whether she likes it or not. She will either beat me, or scream at me and tell me that I'm some kind of animal. Goat probably. If she does beat me, I will immediately call the police, having her arrested and make an investigation start. I don't realy love my mother, she has lost my respect a long time ago, so try not to use"she's your mother!" as a reason to not do this.

Question: My parents hate eachother???? PLEASE HELP!?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 11:13 AM PST

This has been going for 2 years now, and i dont know why are they still fighting?? My dad drinks oftenly and comes back home late at night, and my mom usually cries after a fight. There is no physical fight at all, but its still bad. I tried talking to them seperately, but its not stopping. During the day my parents arent bad to eachother and they help eachother a lot, but nighttime is different. My mother always after a fight says that we are going to move from my dad. I don t wanna do that! Is there anything i can do to put them back together? :(

Question: Can I call the cops on my sister?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 11:04 AM PST

Well idk what's wrong with my sister but she has some kind of bipolar or depression disorder and she never goes to school anymore she's 14 and hasn't gone at all this year she only went for like a few days and then she stopped going completely. She threatened suicide before and went to a hospital but they sent her back the next day. She cuts herself ALOT everyday she's posting pictures online of her cuts she even cut "fml" into her skin and it's getting out of control I don't want my sister to hurt herself she's been in the bathroom right now for like an hour cutting herself and my mom isn't here and I want to call the cops to get her help should I? A social worker also came to my house earlier because she's not going to school and my sister said she will be dead by the time she's 15

Question: I am spending the week at my aunt's and she has been getting really close to me?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 10:55 AM PST

She will always sit down very very close to me or even sits on my lap. When I talk to her she is always touching my arms or thighs and when she talks to me she gets very very close to my face. Just recently we were play fighting and she basically just ended up laying on top of me and my dick got hard I think she most likely felt it And after that she told me that I could stay the night in her room if I wanted to. My aunt is very sexy and I think this might have been an invitation to spend the night and have sex with her. Should I make a move?

Question: Why does my family hate me?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 10:38 AM PST

My Dad works every day and my Mom is frequently gone, leaving me to do a lot of babysitting. None of my older siblings ever help out and everyone is so rude to me and making me feel like crap and cry. I feel like no one understands and its so unfair, I try to not be angry but I don t know what to do. Plus my parents favor my brother even though they deny is its so plain to see. We just moved so I don t have any friends here so when I m on my phone texting or talking to my friends my family acuses me of being addicted to my phone and that I never do anything. I m tired of them being so mean and I really just wish my Grandma would adopt me :(

Question: My sister walked in on me jacking off?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 10:23 AM PST

So my sister is 15 and I'm 16 . After she realized what I was doing she didn't leave right away she stayed and watched. Neither of us said anything, but I'm thinking she's into it . Should I try and do things with her?

Question: Crazy or no?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 10:04 AM PST

My boyfriend is 23 and I'm 19 he's a family man and I kina am my mom favored my other sister so I was pretty lonley in my new home. But I moved in w my boyfriend and have been living here for 4 or five months and we are always at his parents even on weekends or babysitting her kids. Now since the holiday is coming up his dad gets sensitive about my boyfriend and wants to spend time w him, but I asked my boyfriend does his dad always get sensitive when the holidays come and he says no but all of sudden he is now when I am in the picture even though we are there a looot. They have been making a room out of the garage for two weeks now and are bonding and I don't mess w them and a mother family member joined to help them. but after two or three days of building he said he doesn't go over there much yet he does before the building. Then my boyfriend told me that if we don't visit them in a week at least then that's a problem but when we are over there on work days its : he goes to work, gets off, picks me up , drive to his parents which is down the street, starts working on the garage while i sit and sketch until 4-9 or 10, then go home and he falls asleep on me. And the schedule when he's not working on the garage is: he goes to work , picks me up, go to his parents , watch t. v. or w then until the game comes on stay there 4-9 , go home, he falls asleep. I understand he's busy w the garage but I wish I still had more private time w him. I do tell him though. But do you think its crazy how we don't visit them in a week then that's a problem? What do you think about all of this?

Question: I'm unhappy with my life?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 10:04 AM PST

I'm 15 years old and I'm very unhappy. I struggle with social anxiety and depression and sometimes I just feel like crying because I'm so tired. My grandparents raised me (mostly my grandma) I do love my grandpa but he's very lazy and spends all his time on the the computer literally 24/7, he uses the money we have on his cigarettes and his personality more often than not is terrible, he refuses to get a job, and it would really help if he did. My grandma can't work because she has a bad heart but she's so patient with everyone and I love her so much, she's like my mom. Shes obviously unhappy and I dont blame her. I'm not 16 yet so I can't get a job and I'm struggling with my mental health. I haven't seen my real mother in 8-9 years and the last time I remember seeing her it was when she was with her drugged out boyfriend who beat her. She was also terrible to my other sisters. My dad isn't like my mom but I'm also very bitter towards him. After he get custody of me he basically dropped me on my grandparents and went out to live his life. It's not like He's a dead beat but he was never really much of a dad. He's spent so much more time with his girlfriends than he has with me and I'm so angry. I feel like I'm leeching off my grandparents, they were never meant to take care of me. He's sort of trying to be a dad now but I feel like its only because he hardly has to do anything because I'm older. I just want a break from everything, I'm so tired.

Question: What is the best way to prepare a 3 1/2 year old for a new sibling baby Sister?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 09:59 AM PST

My Daughter who's 3 will be 3 1/2 once her baby Sister is born. Zoey my 3 year old has never had a sibling before and I don't want her to become jealous. What can I do or her Dad do to help so it's not so bad or not as jealous as much? This is her first sibling and I want her to know she's loved. She doesn't talk much in speech therapy so I try my hardest to explain to her. She's slightly Autistic too mild I am too both Aspergers. What to do now and after baby arrives?

Question: Is it legal to pull a plug on someone who asks you to?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 09:30 AM PST

Question: Parents are Paranoid Please help?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 09:27 AM PST

My parents are paranoid and think everything i say has a hidden agenda... i know a moderate amount of psychology so they think i'm always using psychology on them to get them to do what ever i want. its completely irrational. what do i do? I should also add I'm only 18 . please understand i'm talking above the "helicopter parenting". They think i'm using psychology against them on everything and then base assumptions on assumptions until they get to the point they think i want money because i asked to barrow a screwdriver... i just don't get it... I've studied Psychology and Sociology yes, but i'm not manipulative. if someone says no, that means no...if i ask for a tool, all i want is a tool. i am convinced this paranoia is unhealthy, what should i do?

Question: MY DAD BEATS ME!?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 09:11 AM PST

I m 13, and this has been going on every since I can remember. My parents don t drink.MY DAD BEATS ME! My parents wanted to talk to me about me wanting to ski for my first winter and how they would maybe let go once every three week and I argued that I wouldn t even learn anything if I went every three weeks and I want a season pass so I can go almost everyday and then they said then your not gonna go AT ALL! So after that I said "well dad how am I gonna do anything or go with my friends if I can t even go that much! So then he yelled back "FINE NOW YOUR NEVER EVEN GOING TO GO AT ALL!" I was so pissed, I ran up the stairs and slammed my door then my dad came up and threw me on the ground and started punching me and kicking me! What the hell! I never ever swore at my parents or anything, I ve never. Hit them, I just sit there and take the beating. Well I don t know what do, for some reason I can t bring myself to call the police and I don t know what to do. I m thinking of spending my last bit of money that I ve saved into buying a metal pellet shooting BB gun or a sturdy nice Pocket knife just in case. Someone please help and tell me what to do.

Question: Family Question...?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 08:56 AM PST

I am a single mom in my 40s, with one kid. I live on the other side of town from my mom and my sister.(I have lived where I do for 8 years, and they used to, but they chose to move). My mom acts like she can't ask me anything, and gets upset if I speak my opinion about anything. My sister acts like she doesn't understand why we don't spend more time together. She works different hours and lives with her boyfriend. She never wants to do anything unless he is included or at work. Every Thanksgiving is something I dread with my family. It's boring, my mom criticizes everything, my sister acts like we should be one big happy family. This year I chose to have Thanksgiving with just my kid. Just the 2 of us, and my daughter said she's prefer that too. But now my mom acts like I don't want her or my sister around. That's not it. I don't want the nonsense. I want to enjoy the holiday. Any ideas???

Question: Most awkward encounters/moments with parents?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 08:44 AM PST

My parents caught me watching ...

Question: My mother said something mean to my father pretending it was me?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 08:40 AM PST

I m not allowed to tell him that it wasn t me but how am I supposed to see him and talk to him like it was? She sent him a text from my phone but he responded thinking it was me and he said something very mean to me. I m disappointed at the immaturity of both my parents, how do i handle this situation? And reasoning with my mother is near to impossible...

Question: Domestic violence situation? Please help?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 08:36 AM PST

Ill sum this up quickly. My mom and my little bro dont get along becuase he reminds her of our father and my mom always puts him down So basicly we were on our way back from dropping off my nephew and my little decided to go to wawa to pick up money to give to my mom for thier phone bill. I sat and waited for him to get back to the car. Then when he got back my mom and little bro were arguing becuase he wanted to wait to get back to the house to give him the money. I put on my headphones becuase i dont like being in the middle of drama.we got back home and my brother got out the car and slamed the door then was walking towards the house. Thrn my brother came charging at my mother and they were scuffling in the yard. I tried to stop it to no avail. Then my brother took his cell phone out my moms bag and went to his friends house. My mom called the cops and took down our names and reports. And then headed to his friend house to arrest him. I spoke to the officer then packed my stuff and left to go to my friends house. I wanted to stay out of it and calm down and i didnt want to be around the negativity. Now my mom is mad that i left. Keep in mind that i am 24 and my little bro is 19 Was i wrong? : I moved out at 20. I was only visiting for the holidays I tried to stop my brother from hitting my mom and helped my mom pick up her things after the fight. I dont like when things get like this. I have mental breakdowns

Question: My rapist goes to my school, what do I do?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 08:35 AM PST

So, I m a 14 year old boy. My rapist is 16 years old, my cousins, and a girl. She goes to my school. I feel paralyzed with fear each time I see her. I ve told my parents, and they told her parents who promptly cut off all communication with us and denied everything. Lately she s been hanging out with people I know, and I feel unsafe. HOW DO I WARN MY FRIENDS OF HER AND HOW DO I GET HER AWAY FROM ME??!?!?!

Question: Parents are paranoid?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 08:20 AM PST

My parents are paranoid and think everything i say has a hidden agenda... i know a moderate amount of psychology so they think i'm always using psychology on them to get them to do what ever i want. its completely irrational. what do i do? I should also add I'm only 18. please understand i'm talking above the "helicopter parenting". They think i'm using psychology against them on everything and then base assumptions on assumptions until they get to the point they think i want money because i asked to barrow a screwdriver... i just don't get it... I've studied Psychology and Sociology yes, but i'm not manipulative. if someone says no, that means no...if i ask for a tool, all i want is a tool. i am convinced this paranoia is unhealthy, what should i do?

Question: Why is everything happening so fast?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 07:52 AM PST

Hi. My name is David and I am here because I feel everything is happening too fast. Let me first say, I live with my father and sister and my father was all like, "Don't worry, I'm done with women for a long time." I was happy with that because I just went through three years of hell with the last woman he dated and almost married until he became aware of how she was treating me. I won't reveal any other names. Anyway, now for the life changing situation. Just a few days ago, my dad's friend wanted to introduce him to a friend of her's. That day my dad was reluctance about the situation. That night he met her, he comes up to me the next day and tells me they are in love ON THE FIRST NIGHT! I don't believe in love at first sight but I was okay with it. Then two days later they talking about marriage and moving into a house together. He tells me I am getting two older sisters. They are 17 and 18. I actually preferred being mr Big Guy around but now I got the phrase, "Baby brother" My sister seems ok with it but me NO. I want my dad to be happy but starting a life with someone he JUST MET!? I don't know how to cope with this whole life changing situation.

Question: Gift giving for extended family!? Help!?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 07:47 AM PST

My Dad's side of the family is BIG on christmas presents, and every year I feel obligated to buy everyone a gift. Not only is it my grandparents, but a large set of cousins, their kids, and aunt's and uncles. I'm not particularly close with anyone on this side of the family, so I have always felt awkward about the gift exchange. In the past I have dealt with it, but this year we have a new baby, and my husband and I are worried that some family members will buy him a gift, and we won't have anything for their children. We are currently living off of one income, and it is going to be hard to come up with the money for immediate family gifts, let alone excess gifts out of obligation. Does anyone else have this situation, or have ideas about what to do? Inexpensive gift ideas would be great.

Question: Why don't my parents care about my happiness?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 07:36 AM PST

So ever since I was 10 I was very creative and I loved to take pictures. Now that I'm a teen I decided to set my goal on becoming a photographer and whenever I think about it it really is a good job for me. So ever since then, I decided that being a photographer is my dream job. I have multiple talents and my parents have NO idea on what they are. I'm great at singing, drawing and you know just being creative. My parents are forcing me get a religious education after collage but the thing is I don't want it right now. I just wanna achieve my dream job first. You know the usual, own an apartment, get my dream job and get enough money. But my parents won't give a **** on what I feel like. They just want their own happiness I'm pretty sure they don't give a damn about my happiness, same goes for my sisters. Whenever I tell my parents about my interests they just go "that's just stupid" or "as if you'll ever achieve it" and that seriously makes me so sad, do they really think that low of me? They have no confidence in me what so ever. They say that they have my life planned out. They always tell me like:" when you get religious education, you'll get married and have kids." While I'm just here trying to live a life! To be honest I don't want to get married, because I'm asexual and I have no interest in having kids, I just want to move out and live with my younger sister. I never have at least a little bit of freedom. Like none at all. I'm just a girl trying to live my life.

Question: What can I possibly do with my boyfriend for the holidays?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 07:31 AM PST

Last year and now this year my boyfriend has been wanting to be alone for the holidays. Last year he wasn't interested in spending time with my family. (I'm assuming because him and his family doesn't have a good connection. The 1 time he did spend time w my family, he enjoyed it. They are accepting and always for a good time) anyways, so I compromised Christmas by going to his house first where we watched movies and drank wine. Then I went to family's house by myself(Where they wanted to see him); I went since my grandmother was in town and I hadn't seen her in forever. For New Years I compromised by going to his house where we made pizza, watched movies and made love the rest of the night. Now, I don't even want to ask him to join me and family for the holidays, because whenever I mention family+ holidays, he's like "no, what are WE going to do. He's only been mentioning getting a room for Christmas (in the city) so he can be away from his people that he's "tired of" I understand his family situation and how they have used him and used each other so the connection isn't the best. But I see it as a good thing welcoming him into my family where we are a little closer. So what should I do about this year?

Question: What parent do I live with?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 07:15 AM PST

I can't decide what parent to live with my mom is never home and I'm living with my grandma and I want to live with my dad but I'm not sure what it'll actually be like. He takes off work every time I'm up there on weekdays so I don't know what it actually be like if he did it take off work because we always do fun stuff when I'm up here and I don't know if we actually do the same stuff if I lived up here. Like I mentioned my mom is never home she hasn't been home in four months and I don't want to leave my grandma because I'm basically taking care of her and I don't want to leave her hurt her feelings because she says I'm the only thing keeping her going but I don't want to be unhappy and have my decisions to be chosen like this

Question: How can I deal with my mother?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 07:12 AM PST

I am miserable living with her, have been since I was about 13. She is a MISERABLE, VICIOUS, SPITEFUL lady. My dad feels the same way and has for a long time. He on lives with us because he can't afford his own place. She screams at everyone every single day. Anything you say to her she takes as an attack and bites your head off. She's extremely defensive for no reason and gets pissed off when you tell her she's wrong because she knows were right. Any time you ask a question you get a rude sarcastic answer. She is upset all the time. She complains about the house being messy and when I ask what she wants me to do she says nothing and then bitches at me later. She is vicious all the time and everyone is always screaming at each other and unhappy because of it. She has cancer now, so I try my best to be patient but she's just CRUEL. And it's not only because she's sick, she has ALWAYS been that way. I feel trapped and it's impossible.

Question: Was I the one who was bad?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 06:58 AM PST

So my little cousins are coming up for thanksgiving. (5) year old girl and my dad comes into the kitchen and claims that she is sleeping in my bed with me. Immediately knowing she will keep me up all night, get everything sick, wake me up early in the morning, or break something, I kept saying "no way!" Then my dad goes- "you know, you can leave this house and go find another family. You re a little ****" And I say- "no I m not! Watch your language" And he keeps saying- "you re a ****, a big ****" Then I called him an *** And he called me a **** again and I raced upstairs, wanting to cut but I m trying so hard not to. (I ve had a bad past with my dad and cutting) Was I the one who was wrong here? Should I feel bad?

Question: My parents hate me . HELP !!?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 06:45 AM PST

Every one please show me a way to live like a normal child im 13 and my parents are almost crazy . I dont know what to do every day i come home my mother and brother they dont talk to me and they avoid having lunch with me . I cant go out and spend time with my friends i cant even have fun at home they just shout and shout . My mother throws everything she has at me and then she orders my brother to hit me hardly then she calls my dad to come home faster and then he hits me too . I cant really explain the pain of my body and in return i can play computer games for 2 hours. All of my fingers are bleeding all day. I dont know why am i not like my friends at school they all have a happy family and they have every thing they need. I always feel pain in my bones and i dont know what they really are . They are happy and they have fun with each other i feel i am adoubted and they really dont want me I feel so depressed i cant explain what should i do. Please help me.

Question: Why does my brother always take the easy way?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 05:57 AM PST

Whatever I have, whatever travels I have done in my life I have worked for. I've gotten a job, an education and I've saved money. It takes time but in the end it's the only way. I've tried guiding my brother toward doing the same but he wants the quick and easy way. When he was in high school he cheated on a lot of his tests, when he wanted a car he didn't save up money but he did favors and other things to get the car. I recently bought an apartment. Like noraml people I saved for down payment. My brother wants to buy one to. But not once has it entered through his head of doing it like a normal person. No, he will eaither do something illegal or borrow the money. And then of course he'll end up in trouble. Like he always does. But I told him that I won't be there to help him. I just don't understand. The amount of effort and energy he has put into cheating, into making excuses and doing it the easy way is unbelivable. He might as well have done it the legal way. I just don't understand people like him. If I give him $300 he will spend it my the morning. How do people like that work?

Question: Why do my parents want to move to Prescott from Mesa?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 05:50 AM PST

We are kicked out of home and my mom wanted to open a yogurt store

Question: Is it normal that an older sister (24) changes in front of his younger brother (22) when they are already adults?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 05:23 AM PST

Question: What do I tell her?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 05:17 AM PST

*Cousin Problems* Her name is PL We're both teens (14-15) So, lately I've noticed that my little cousin has been copying what I want or what I like. (Warning here comes the cheesy parts) Well, we used to have this big issue in the family because when we were little we would take **** about one another, after the incident passed my 2nd oldest cousin moved and PL (she's the 3rd cousin) has been copying me on what I like or do. I feel like she's annoying for doing that. Like last week, I told her that I wanted a Macbook Laptop and a Canon camera, so the next following days she said SHE ALSO WANTED A "Laptop and Camera" this really pisses me off. Then I said I liked Justin BIEBER the next day and guess what? She also said she likes him and many MANY OTHER THINGS. I even told her I wanted to be a Youtube for Fashion and Make up and she says the exact thing TOO! Geez! She is making me mad! I know she looks up to me but I want her to find new things for her liking and herself. Please tell me how you feel about this. I honestly feel like screaming my lungs out. Thx.

Question: What are you supposed to do when someone in your house hates you to the core and wants you eliminated?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 04:36 AM PST

Question: How to deal with my extremely rude sister?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 02:28 AM PST

My sister has a lot of anger issues. I am older than her (only for 1 year), and we share clothes and stuff like that. She has a lot of hatred for me because she thinks I have it better than her. She is still mad that 10 years ago I didn't help enough with the house works (now I do, since studying for school has finished). She is mad because her boyfriend sleeps here every night and we share a room so I am not letting her sleep with him there. She must understand that since he is coming here so oftenly, they can't be sleeping there and me on the couch. I run everyday, I am in university now and have early morning lessons + a one hour long ride to get there and back. When I am back, usually exhausted, he is at home as well. I feel like I need some space however I am not telling her anything until yesterday. Now she has decided to not share clothes anymore and told me to go to my room every night because she wants to sleep in the living room. I did as she asked because hopefully this madness will be over. The thing is; how to deal with her and her anger? She expresses hatred from 10 years ago or generally the past. I've been hurt by her in the past too, it's normal, but it doesn't affect me anymore... :/ Furthermore, her boyfriend is eating my foods and the foods my mom buys/makes for us even if he doesn't have a sleepover. I have a long distance boyfriend and when we bring our issues with her boyfriend staying here and being here so often, she brings him to the discussion as a proof I have it better than her. The last time my bf was here, he bought our groceries a couple of times and we were going out. If sis and her bf go out (it happened one time) my mom pays for both because he is penniless

Question: My sister's a *****?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 02:05 AM PST

She and I have always been very close, but even as kids she was terrible. She took my things and made me do things for her, and I was like clay in her hands. As we got older we grew closer from family problems, but she also grew bitchier. We get along very very well when we're not constantly together, but since we moved into an apartment and it's just the two of us in the house doing home school while our mom works and our brother is gone at college we've been at each other's throats. She hates everything about my personality and lashes out every time I speak. She says I "talk like an old person" and "tell her things she already knows". She likes to act like a kid even though she's 11 months older than me and lashes out physically. She deleted everything on my facebook when she saw me post something mean about her (she deserved it), and stuck my brother's shirt in the sink so he couldn't wear it the next day because she saw it on the ground of the bathroom. Whenever I tell her to talk quietly in the night she lashes out saying, "you're the one being loud! Shut up!" Then I get in trouble because my mom doesn't like to argue with my sister and I don't put up a fight. She is the moodiest ***** I've ever met. She lashes out constantly saying, "you're just fat and lazy," "I'm constantly cleaning up after you (when she's not)," and when I defend myself she flips out. She has Fs in every class because she refuses to work and when I talk to her about it she flips out. What do I do? To add to the above and answer any questions before their said, my mom hates arguing and doesn't try to solve any conflict between us because it's too much of a hassle. Also, about ten minutes or so after my sister is done being pissy, she'll act like nothing ever happened and get upset when I act like something's wrong. She expects that after she douses salt in my wounds by calling me fat and telling me to kill myself that I'll be happy.

Question: My dad is teaching me how to masturbate?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 01:52 AM PST

so my dad and i were on the couch the other day watching television. Then he gave me a few strange stares, like he wasn't sure if he should say something or not. I asked "is everything alright dad?" . He then responded "yes, yes son. Everything is fine. I just...". I then looked at dad and asked "you just...?" he then continued and resumed "I just think its time that we did something that every father and son do. it is perfectly normal, and every parent has to do it at some point. Son, this is just as awkward for you as it is for me, but it's time for me to teach you how to masturbate." I was confused, I had never heard the term "masturbate" before. My dad then leaned in close to me on the couch and told me to stay still. he then put his hands between my thighs and worked his way up. Soon he unbuckled my pants and put his hand down my underwear. He cupped my scrotum with his hands which were strong and warm. I moaned "uh, dad...that feels so..." . "good?" he asked. "yes" i replied. He then began to play with my shaft and rub it up and down. Soon i became erect. He then spat on his hand and began to rub my circumcized white penis with his strong hands. "this is masturbation son" was what he said as he continued to stroke me. i felt these strong contractions from the bottom of my scrotum . I was scared, but my dad held me down and said "it's okay son, just let it happen." . my heart rate increased, my breathing became rapid. then i came! its normal right? friends say no

Question: My mother threatened to beat me up if I shower tommorow Should I shower tommorow?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 01:50 AM PST

My mother has been abusive for years, but she hasn't done it to me in months. I live with her and four younger sisters. I'm 15, and I take a shower every school day or any day I leave my house in the morning. I have curly hair, and unless I want to go to school in my bed hair, which I slept on, I'm going to have to wet it. She doesn't seem to know that, and I'm sure she'd never understand as she wears a headscarf, therefore is forbidden to show her hair. She can not shower for weeks if she likes, not like anyone will see hers. I'm a guy, and I want to look good at school. I have always wanted to report my mother for abuse, but I always needed evidence or chickened out. But for tommorow she told me that if I showered she'd beat me. This is what I'm thinking. Tommorow I will shower whether she likes it or not. She will either beat me, or scream at me and tell me that I'm some kind of animal. Goat probably. If she does beat me, I will immediately call the police, having her arrested and make an investigation start. I don't realy love my mother, she has lost my respect a long time ago, so try not to use"she's your mother!" as a reason to not do this.

Question: What is proper protocol for a step grandma?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 01:30 AM PST

I am 32 years old. I have 4 children ages 12,9,8 & 5 I have been divorced once & just got engaged to a wonderful man who is 44 & has been divorced twice with 2 children ages 24 & 22 from his first marriage. We just found out that his youngest son is expecting his first child & this thrills me as my fiancé & I are both eager to become grandparents however I am concerned that I may be overstepping my boundaries as I m not really sure what they are? When my fiancé got the call he immediately announced that I was going to be a grandma & continues to refer to me as a grandma to be but I don t believe his boys are going to refer to me as or consider me a stepmother but rather as their fathers wife or at least that is my expectation. This brings me to my question... What is the proper protocol for a step grandma? I want very much to be able to be this child s grandma & I don t think you should treat your step children or step grandchildren any differently than your own but I also don t want to offend anyone or make the situation uncomfortable for anyone & while I want to be grandma I don t want to take anything away from his ex wife, she is a good mother & she is close with her sons. I would like to ask his son & his girlfriend what they would like me called but I m afraid that would make them uncomfortable & I don t want to put them on the spot at all. Thank you!

Question: Oldest daughter told little brother he was adopted? I played along in fun is this right or wrong?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 01:18 AM PST

I have three kids a daughter 12, and two boys 10 & 7 and last Friday night my oldest Veronica was downstairs with her brothers they were watching TV and doing homework when her little brother was walking by to his room Veronica said "Holla Hayden big night for you?" He said "What?" "We all tired to keep it a secret till you turn 21 but didn't you know your adopted?" He said "Am not adopted am asking mom" His sister "You mean Mrs. Johnston she not going to tell you the truth? To make a long story short he asked his older brother who said "Yeah just about a year before you were born mom and dad decided to have another kid." He got scared "Ahhh" and ran to my room really worried that mom and dad would want to trade him in. I could only picture the other two laughing. I didn't find out about this tell the next day during breakfast, and could see the enjoyment so I decided to play along in fun. We told Hayden mom always wanted another girl, but got a boy instead which freaked him out even more. After that I said ok that enough I gotta run some errands, but little did I know how far his siblings would take it! It's been a whole week! Wow! Help should I punish my daughter or not? What would be suitable punishment if she was so creative with the teasing? She even want so far as to create a fake birth certificate that she showed him.

Question: My friend lost her dad...?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 01:14 AM PST

My close friend just lost her dad 2 days ago, I believe to cancer (her dad was a smoker). I am fortunate enough to still have all my grandparents and parents, so I don't think I could 'relate' to what she's feeling. However I'll be visiting her tomorrow, and I don't know what to say, or what to do. I don't want to make her feel awkward or uncomfortable. What are things I can do and/or say to make her feel better and show my support? Thank you in advance

Question: Once again, I've been brought down by my surroundings...What should I do?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 12:42 AM PST

I get so tired of this whole family that I'm in. I get fed up with the family history. My dad really tires me sometimes, I just wish he'd shut up. I also get tired of this country that I'm in. Every day I get bad memories of crap that comes out of his mouth. My parents get me down a lot. They've brought me down so many times over the last couple of years. What I hate is company that gets you depressed. One time my dad self-indulged and spoiled my day and my mum, well, didn't really help. My dad talks absolute crap a lot of the time. A lot of his ******** traits really piss me off, a lot of stuff about this country pisses me off to the point where I want to commit suicide. What should I do? I didn't actually say that. I don't know "thousands" of people. If you read some of my other questions you'll know that I actually happen to take blame for things all the time. There are just a lot of times when I would rather not be around my family because they piss me off so very often. I was only talking about them, not everyone in the whole wide world.

Question: Is there any hope my parents get back together? What should I do?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 12:40 AM PST

They've been divorced for 7 months and both of them don't want me. I don't know why but as when they start to hate eachother, both ignored me too I'm living with my grandma now but I want them back. I'm not complaining, she's nice but I want to live with my Mom and Dad again

Question: Why do I hate when people get drunk or do drugs?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 12:39 AM PST

If you tell me you do drugs other then marijuana I will hate you right away If you tell me you DRINK Its the exact same . I can't control It, even If I try to pretend, deep In my heart I hate you . . why do I act like this ? I know the reason but I don't understand why . My dad Is crack head that sells drugs on the streets, my moms a alcoholic that gets SO angry and physco/bipolar when she drinks ! I hate her, from the bottom of my heart . Both of those things ruined there marriage and there 2 kids life's

Question: How to raise two kids on your own?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 12:29 AM PST

Hello im a single father of 2 beautiful kids. I have a son thats 2 almost 3 years old. I have a daughter thats 10months old. Im 23 years old and im currently living with my parents and it can be really stressful living with them. I wish i could move out and live own my own but i cant because i rely on my mother to help watch my kids while i work and theres times where i had to let go of past jobs just to watch them because my mother couldnt or because we had arguements. My kids mother hasnt seen them in over 2months and hasnt been in the picture for about 6months. Right now i feel hopeless and feel like even tho im trying my hardest for my kids it isnt enough. I would just like some advice on what steps i should be taking to better my situation.

Question: 17 with a child?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 12:22 AM PST

I'm 17 just had my daughter 5 months ago & my boyfriends family always tell me I'm automatically an adult cause I had a baby they argue with me saying I can get my out house my own every thing my mom says different & I belive her cause she actually makes sense what do I tell them they think they so right !?

Question: I'm being treated like a child?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 12:01 AM PST

Before I elaborate, I'm only 16. I know I am not an adult. I don't pay my own bills, I live in my parent's home for free, and I respect my parents. I get all of that. But I'm also not a five year old. Sometimes I want to go out with my friends and my parents will start the whole "who are you going with" "give me their mom's number" "don't forget to text me every hour". I understand they are worried about me, but I wish they would see me as more mature. And it's other parents too, I was going to go downtown to take pictures for my photo class and my friends' parents insisted on chaperoning us, even though I have a car and I can legally drive us both there. I had a job for a year, too, and I made my own money and paid for 3/4 of my car. I have great grades at school. I 'm just jealous of my other friends whose parents let them do things,(that are age appropriate) without it beig a big deal. I don't want to be the kid who's parents still look up movie reviews online to see if a movie I want to see is OK for me to see since it's PG-13. It's gotten to the point where I'm counting down the days until I turn 18 and graduate and can go out on my own. I have no idea what to do. I just want to be seen as an intelligent (not know it all) 16 year old who can (believe it or not) have an opinion. Thank you in advance for reading this!

Question: I proposed to my family that after the meal everyone cleans their own plates instead of just placing it in to the sink.?

Posted: 24 Nov 2015 11:53 PM PST

If placed in to the sink it will be washed later and it will take more effort to clean them and also one person will have to clean all the plates. Their response was. You are so selfish and that is why your idea is bad/stupid and our way is better. They also included the reasoning that when the meal is cooked by one I should then be excluded because of my idea. Even though it's not the same thing,but it can be taken as the same thing if you are crazy enough. To top it all,that stupidity comes from people that leave everything behind for someone else to clean/return in the right places. For example takes something from the fridge to make a sendwich and leaves cheese and salami on the table simply because of the logic my wife/mother will clean it up. -_- But what can one do when it's 3 vs 1.

Question: Should i be worried if i have no friends at highschool?

Posted: 24 Nov 2015 11:46 PM PST

Honestly I am pretty funny guy I can be annoying but I am very easy to get along honestly. I don t care who you are I can be friends with you. I feel like I can forgive people way to easy like when someone gets mad at me or I get mad at someone I feel like I want to still be your friend. People call me annoying talk to much and rude. But honestly I feel like if people knew me better I can be the funniest and awesome dude you ever know. But my problem is that no one wants to talk to me and evertime I try and talk to someone there always telling me to go away and hates me :( should I care because a lot of people don't like our school because people there are stupid

Question: Help! Step mother with Narcisistic personality disorder.?

Posted: 24 Nov 2015 11:26 PM PST

I live in a terrible household with a step-mother who clearly suffers from NPD. She is verbally abusive, trashes me to anyone she knows even friends of mine, acts superficial in public, always complains of how no one appreciates her while she's lazy, fakes in public, cares only about appearances and is materialistic as hell. She trashes her friends to other friends, always seeks pity from others or admiration, fishes for compliments, very untrustworthy, gets emotional over minor slights, craves attention and is very lazy. My father believes her lies about me and she exaggerates things that I do. She isn't too bright though except maybe cunning and street-smart but some times she seems completely helpless.

Question: Out of control sibling?

Posted: 24 Nov 2015 11:26 PM PST

I love my sister so much! We are 6 years apart in age and she is 13 right now. She used to be my best friend. However, for the past couple of years she has been kind of rude. She calls me a b*tch all the time for the dumbest reasons and she even does it in front of my parents. I know sometimes I aggravate her but it seems as if her name calling is bit excessive. I can tell my parents are stressed because they have tried so many things to deal with the behavior, but to no avail. She seems to have no remorse. My boyfriend is even starting to dislike her because she called him a b*tch the other day. Her reasoning was because "he always has to be right." I thought that maybe she was jealous that I had a boyfriend. But we have been dating for over three years now, and they used to really get along. It upsets me she called him that because I know I would be very upset if his siblings said anything like this to me! We try to include her in a lot of the things we do and take her to some of the places we go so she doesn't feel left out. I also continue spending a lot of time with her one on one. I take her shopping, to the movies, etc. What can I do? I just want my sister to be my friend again! P.S. I am 19, not 7!

Question: Why does no one love me.?

Posted: 24 Nov 2015 11:21 PM PST

My parents treat me like im trash compared to the rest of my siblings girls think i weird and my friends are completely unloyal my uncle kind of tries but he is crazy so he realy cant

Question: I'm Looking for Maria S Gizas born 08/30/ 1957 in N.Y. She is my mother, and I need to know is shes passed away.?

Posted: 24 Nov 2015 11:16 PM PST

I'm doing everything I can think of to find out is she is dead, or alive. I think she may have passed. She was not a good mother to us, but I loved her. Anyone that can help is welcome. I cant find any footprint of her online. I just want to know if she is passed on.

Question: How to deal with my sister?

Posted: 24 Nov 2015 11:08 PM PST

I love my sister so much! We are 6 years apart in age and she is 13 right now. She used to be my best friend. However, for the past couple of years she has been kind of rude. She calls me a "*****" all the time for the dumbest reasons and she even does it in front of my parents. I know sometimes I aggravate her but it seems as if her name calling is bit excessive. I can tell my parents are stressed because they have tried so many things to deal with the behavior, but to no avail. She seems to have no remorse. My boyfriend is even starting to dislike her because she called him a ***** the other day. Her reasoning was because "he always has to be right." I just want help on how to deal with it. Am I overreacting? I feel like I try being her friend for no reason! the word she calls us is b*tch. It was censored! Also, we were not raised to talk like this or to treat others this way. We were raised the same way, and I would never dream of speaking this way around my family! I definitely would not call my sister that, or any of her friends! Also, I thought about how she may be jealous about me having a boyfriend. But we have been together for three years and they used to get along very well. We try to include her in a lot of the things we do and take her to some of the places we go so she doesn't feel left out. I also continue spending a lot of time with her one on one. I take her shopping, to the movies, etc.

Question: Friend is being physically abused by his father what to do?

Posted: 24 Nov 2015 10:50 PM PST

First of all I want you to know that this is complicated. They moved away a while ago and I only have occasional contact with him and his brother. And other than iMessage and clash of clans (lol) I have no way to contact them. My friend got in trouble with the police a while ago, nothing major he was just a troll on facebook, he was making events called stuff like "9/11 2.0" to be a troll, obviously the police saw it was a troll thing and nothing happened. Anyway so I started talking to him after that and he repeatedly said that he hates his father and that his father always try's to piss him off, he didn't say much else. But today I was talking to his brother on clash of clans and I asked him how my friend is and he informed me that he has only gone to school for about 3 weeks this year. I asked the obvious question of why don't his parents make him and his brother said that my friend (roman) locks his door and doesn't let them in. I then "roman doesn't like your dad much does he" The response I got was "nah not at all" I asked him "do you like him (the dad)" And he replied "no he's an abusive little ****" I asked him what he had done and he responded with "Well where do I start? He chokes roman and I. He punches. He shoves us to the ground. He threatens to kill us. Much more." When I ask what more he said it would take hours to explain. And he said that it hard started 5 years ago. Roman is 16 and his brother is 13 I think and I knew them 3 years ago but had no idea.

Question: I'm 60 years old and have a Facebook account. My son in laws sister sent me a message telling me she reported two of my posts to FB!?

Posted: 24 Nov 2015 10:47 PM PST

She said that since they had flashing lights they may trigger seizures in some people. One was a nativity scene and the other was thanksgiving turkey. She is know to be a b....., but how would you feel if someone sent you a message "hi hope all well but..."! I hope it doesn't cause you any trouble! I don't want to loose my FB account I think she did it because she is not catholic and my my daughter wants to raise her kids catholic, and she is not too thrilled about this. She is kind of a sister in law from hell to my daughter. Advice? Defriend, block?