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Question: Name the family: Mom Dad Sister Brother Sister Brother?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 01:47 PM PST

Question: Can someone tell me what to do? (i hate my brother...)?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 01:33 PM PST

Well im going to tell you my history, im from here (US) from my mother and father but i have a half-brother which his mother is from Chile, since we borned, we are different in everything and thats why we dont get along very well, he always shame me saying "You dont have friends" "Get a life" and the thing is that he is living in Chile in this moment with his mother, but the problem is that he"s coming this year and i dont want. I can say him other things such as: "You were adopted" (which can be for real) or "You are just a black indian" Please help and tell me what to do here you have a photo of him... we are the same age 13 years.

Question: Why did my dad turn grumpier all of a sudden?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 01:27 PM PST

Since he got in his 50's he got all grumpy, complains about everything and everyone, he used to be a really calm and patient person and, all of a sudden, he gets angry for every little thing. I feel like his humor got really unpredictable, one moment he is telling jokes, the other he is complaining. It's annoying because we ask him what's wrong and he says it's nothing.

Question: I can't even find a job and when I mention working at hot topic or Starbucks or a art studio to my dad he said you won't be able to do it?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 01:20 PM PST

I'm really bad at math and money and I'm a 23 years old female and have failed technical college twice and no one wants to hire me, I get Yelled at by my mom, dad, aunt, cousins, brother , I'm really really lost please help Im not allowed to get a drivers licenses or do the drivers test and theres no job i could i walk to and the worst thing is my parents will never let me move out i don't know how to pay bills or cook or do laundry i have terrible social anxiety

Question: HOW do you handle two jobs, being a mom AND school?? :(?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 01:20 PM PST

I need some advice from anyone in a similar situation! Im a single mom of a 3 year old who I have shared custody with his dad. I have a full time job, M-F from 8:30 am-4:30 pm and then my second part time job is Wed-Fri from 5 pm-10 pm and then Sat from 10 am-6 pm. I have Sundays off but of course I have my son. I also go to school full time (online) and Im studying to be a naturopathic pediatrician so I have a lot on my plate. I don't doubt that I can do it, I just need some advice from mommies and people that are this busy! how on earth do you do it all without breaking down sometimes? Sometimes I just feel so stressed with everything and then other times Im ok. UGH! Help. I don't have any help either. my mom lives an hour away from me and cant do much because she gets super tired very easily. So help is not an option. He goes to Montessori school daily that closes at 6 so that is the only help I get

Question: How do I tell my parents that I sleep naked without making it seem awkward?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 01:17 PM PST

Got into the habit of sleeping naked a week ago and I love it. Luckily, I woke up myself everytime and didn't get caught. I know I'm gonna end up being woken by my parents eventually so I just wanna avoid getting embarassed being caught in my birthday suit.

Question: My family are really messed up, and I want to go live with my grandparents, can I?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 01:08 PM PST

I'm a 15 year old guy and I'm having troubles with my older sister. She's really mean to me all the time and her and her stupid flock of friends always find me in school and make fun of me. I'm really unattractive, so they're not the only one's, but still. Aren't siblings supposed to support each other instead of put each other down? And now she's told her boyfriend to start making fun of me to. Every time this happens, I get really sad. I'm in the bathroom right now, and I don't know whether I should just go to class, or stay here until the end of school? Honestly, I just want to leave my house and go live with my grandparents. They're the sweetest people ever, and at least there I won't have my sister being nasty to me.

Question: What in the hell is WRONG with my older brother???? PLEASE HELP and READ...Quite confused???

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 12:29 PM PST

So my brother who is 26 still lives at home...He doesn't work,drive,anything..He just stays up all night and then stays up til around 12 then goes to sleep until like 5 or so in the evening...and when he is awake he's just playing on the computer doing whatever,usually has his door shut too most of the time too..Anyway he does no house work at all,nothing..He just is so odd and it's making me uncomfortable too they way he acts...It's like he is not right or something with him....He is 26 and still lives at home and does nothing to help nor works..I'm confused at this,I try and help out as much as I can but why doesn't he?? what could make him this way???? I'm worried he is nuts or something,..but yeah anyway what could be wrong? is he depressed? he isnt sad I just dont understand why he hasnt moved out yet or TRIES to do anything with his life..my other siblings all did/do..and idk he just doesnt do anything with his life...He literally just stays in his room 24/7..He rarely even leaves the house to go to town or even walks outside..Its making me very uncomfotable and confused with the way he acts..What on earth could be up with him? Im quite woried for him Something isnt right and its making me very worried and uncomfortable in my own house

Question: How do I tell my husband I want to move without offending him?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 12:20 PM PST

My husband and I chose to move in with his parents to save up for a house but the living situation has taken a toll on me. The problem is living with his father has made me uncomfortable, father in law impregnated my mother in law when she was 13 and he was 20, the only reason they were married was because he obtained a false birth certificate. Being someone who was abused as a child I have a hard time being comfortable around this man. I feel much more comfortable working long hours or visiting my parents to spend as little time possible there. My husband thinks I'm avoiding him because of how much time I spend away from home and being to create tension; I don't know how to tell him how I feel without offending him.

Question: I don't know where to seek help! I don't even know/understand what's wrong!?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 12:12 PM PST

When I graduated college I was determined to find work in my field. I worked 3 retail jobs & an internship until I got my job. 2 months into my new job, my mom got cancer & I was forced to quit & move back home to help her. During the time my mom was sick & I was living home, I was fired from 3 different jobs for poor performance (I'd never been fired in my life by the way) I found work full time unrelated to my field. I loved it & stayed 8 months until the company went bankrupt!! Now, I clean desks at a college 10 hours a week. Students take exams & I wipe down & sanitize the desks after they finish. My mom passed away. I've been looking for a 2nd even seasonal job with absolutely no luck I'm "Overqualified" they tell me or they don't want to work around my 10 hour schedule. Family & friends say things like "I feel so sorry for you" & "you have had more jobs then anyone I ever met" & the worst "what are you going to do!?!" I've NEVER been a quitter. Even in the worst of times, I tried to network, I tried to get out there. Now, I'm slowly distancing myself from everyone. Some days I'll sit 12-13 hours applying for jobs & networking. Other days, I can't even find the strength to get out of bed or answer the phone. I feel almost frozen like I don't want anything at all. Im 4 years out of college cleaning desks for a living?! Living off money my mom left me when she passed away. What is wrong with me?! I can't even figure out how I'm feeling

Question: What to do? Parents bad with money and are hinting at wanting to move in with me?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 12:04 PM PST

Long story short. My parents are both past retirement age and have no nest egg. Nothing. They have debts. They have no savings. They have constantly asked me to borrow money in my adult life. Sometimes I do help if I feel it's for something they really need. I don't want to see them on the streets. They constantly buy stuff they don't need. I brought up their situation and told them they need to do something, figure out how to get a nestegg going so they can retire (despite how late it already is in the game. They are 71 and 73). They said collectively, "Well if we can't work anymore we will just have to move in with you." I'm in between a rock and a hard place. My hubby and I work hard to do things right and the parents did not do things right. Did not contribute to retirement even though the option was available to them most of their lives. I feel obligated to take care of them, and I'm an only child, but my husband is not having that. He is in a very "They reap what they sow" mindset about this. I can empathize because we are trying to raise our own children. We don't need two more mouths to feed, not to mention the lack of privacy. My parents were constantly bailed out by their parents when I was growing up and even when I was in college / early adulthood. What do I do?

Question: How do I balance grieving with my wife's family's holiday celebrations this year?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 12:01 PM PST

My father passed away earlier this year. My mother passed away six years ago. Thanksgiving and Christmas are now upon us this year. This will be my first time without both of my parents for these holidays. The first holiday without my mother was rough. I do not see that it will be any easier this year without the two of them. I've been married for four years. I have hated these holidays since my mother passed. I really dread them this year. I was talking about this with my wife a few nights ago. She told me that I have a tendency to think that things are going to be worse than they really are and that it might not be as bad as I think they will be. My wife is a big holiday person We had a fight the other night over Christmas, as we have also had in the past. Her family does a Christmas stocking for everyone. It is her mother's tradition. I don't want to participate because I don't want them to spend money on me. I am also not in the Christmas spirit. Her mom is in declining health and my wife is really pushing Christmas this year because of it. I don't want to ruin it for her, but I don't want to participate in Christmas and Thanksgiving as well. What do I do?

Question: Does this count as play-fighting with my older sister?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 12:01 PM PST

A few days before Christmas 2014, my younger brother, my older sister and I were bored in the living room just listening to anime and show/movie songs-like Dragon Ball Z and Fairy Tail and Avatar:The Last Airbender and The Hunger Games and How To Train Your Dragon and Big Hero 6. So my older sister, Jasmine, was saying some **** to me while she was on her headphones listening to music on her phone. So I got up from my seat and went to "attack" her. I got up and used my one hand to stomach claw/tickle her belly and she was laughing and kicking me and I started punching her. But my brother said "no roughing". So was this counted as play-fighting between me and Jasmine??

Question: Should I write my Mother in Law out of our life?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 11:51 AM PST

Question: Is it possible that there are people that aren't good enough to date and are meant to remain alone?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 11:45 AM PST

I've NEVER had a boyfriend. EVER! It's just I'm starting to feel a bit down about it because my whole entire life a guy has never asked me out, let alone notice me. If I ever displayed a subtle level of interest in a guy they would start acting odd with me, avoid me and make fun of me. Guys are VERY disrespectful and VERY mean to me. They constantly use words likes unattractive and ugly. It must be true because I can't help but notice that guys would like the girls next to me, behind me, in front of me but never me. If a man takes interest in me its because I'm LAST option and they don't see me as good enough to be 1st. I'm starting to come to the conclusion that there is simply something wrong with me and I'm simply not enough. I would describe myself as a bit quiet and shy, but I am a sweetheart and love to laugh and try to make jokes. Personality wise ppl would describe me as easy going and amicable. I even make sure my hygiene is in check and put effort into my wardrobe. I have tried doing things for myself that would boost my appearance like changing my hair, put on flattering makeup looks, go out and see new places. I was always optimistic and hopeful that one day I would meet a guy that would attracted to me, but no luck. I've even tried online dating (OKC) and that was BAD. I'm NOT rushing it or forcing it even though I have been trying for 5+ years, but my family is asking me what's wrong with me why I can't meet anyone. https://www.instagram.com/luna_songz/

Question: Am I right? Or is this acceptable?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 11:24 AM PST

3 Months ago my two year old niece kicked my BFs volleyball into a lake. My sister knew about this, but did not apologize to me or my BF, nor did she try and get the volleyball out of the lake. My BF and I eventually got the volleyball out (it was a pricey volleyball). Needless to say, my BF was rather upset. Fast forward 3 months later and my nieces birthday is coming up and where they live is about a 3 hour drive. My BF says he does not want to go, because he feels my sister disrespected him. Of course, I still have to go. That's my niece. Now I understand that my sister was totally wrong for showing a lack of concern for the ball, or even apologizing. She has apologized to me since then. But really, my BF not wanting to be around my sister AT ALL now because of that? Is that too extreme? I feel he should go for the sake of me, and that's it. Regardless, my sister will be in my life for the rest of my life, so I don't see the purpose of his behavior. I could be wrong. What do you think?

Question: Should I be angry?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 11:24 AM PST

So I had a very strange childhood. In fact it's so strange you would think it was a book. Anyway I live with my brother and his fiancee. I didn't find out I had a brother until I was 12 because my parents gave him up for adoption. My parents went to jail for abusing me so I got sent to live in a foster home. During that time my brother's fiancee decided to look for my brother's birth parents and they found out about me. They had always told me they took me in right away however they waited a year. My brother's fiancee told me this was because she was in her last year of school and couldn't 100 percent take care of me. She said they took care of me from afar. She said she spoke to my foster mom every day and sent them money often. Should I be angry at them for not taking me in immediately?

Question: How do I let my Daddy down easy?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 11:14 AM PST

Ok.. so I'm married and we have a 3 year old daughter together and I'm currently 3 months pregnant with baby #2.. My daddy invited us over for Halloween to take our daughter trick or treating in his neighborhood because he wanted to be a part of it and then he invited us to sit around the fire and eat grilled out burgers... All fine and dandy and honestly I'd like to make that a tradition because it was a lot of fun! However.. since then he has asked us to come over every Friday or Saturday evening to sit around the fire and cookout again.. He lives about 45 miles from our house.. And as much as I love spending time with my Daddy (and I really really do, I'm a daddy's girl!) I just sometimes want to stay home and enjoy my family in my neck of the woods for the weekend.. Yes he is my family too but I just don't want to go every weekend.. It's not that it's not fun or that I don't enjoy spending the time with him and I know that he enjoys spending time with his only granddaughter.. But he has asked us again if we will come over tomorrow night and I don't know how to tell him no without hurting his feelings or making him think we don't enjoy ourselves when we come!! Please help!!

Question: My dad has anger issues help me?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 11:07 AM PST

Okay so im going to tell you exactly how he acts without leaving ANYTHING out. A few months ago i was telling him why should he get to go out with my mom and get good food for himself and her but leave us here just to eat macaroni every single day (Me and my little sister) He walked up to me and slammed my face into a table and busted my whole nose. I was bleeding everywhere. Dripping blood everywhere. Ofcourse i had to forgive him. And ofcourse my mom sat quiet like nothing even happened. Yesterday i noticed he filled the plant with too much water and when i told my mom he said "Shut the hell up your the one who dropped the plant and made all the soil come out" (Which i didnt so that was a lie) I said no i didnt and he says " your a liar leave my f***ing plant alone" All i was trying to do was drain the water out of it because it was way too much water. I did as he said and walked over to my mom and she said "i don't want the plant to die" and i said " i know i drained the water it should be fine" This man gets up and walks over to me and grabs my arm as hard as he can now mind you hes like 300 pounds and im only 70 so i have no meat on my bones and it hurts. I cant fight back. Then he tells me to get out his face and go in my room. then he comes up to my door and threatens to bust my a**. When i didnt do anything but drain the plant from water. And ofcourse my mom didnt say sh** I always say to myself this isnt normal. normal parents dont curse at there children idk Also i have no family we moved to vermont and my family lives in florida all of them

Question: How do I tell my parents that I smoke?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 10:53 AM PST

Hi, I am 18 and a smoker (cigarettes, and my parents don't know that I smoke. However I don't want to keep ot a secret from them, but at the same time, I don't want them to be dissapointed in me. I just want some advice on the easiest way to tell them and make them understand. Also: I know smoking is bad for my health so don't waste your time typing out comments about how I should quit.

Question: Calling a relative when they won't even accept your calls?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 10:51 AM PST

I recently wrote in about my dad not wanting to come for Christmas to see his grandchildren. After the conversation where he rejected the invitation, things have been somewhat strained between us. I've always been close with him, but since his grandchildren were born, he has been trying to pull away. I believe it has to do with our decision (mine and my husband's) on how to raise our children, religiously speaking. My dad has been hounding me to attend this Church that he insists we will like. Neither my husband nor I are interested in attending the Church he recommended. We are very happy where we are! Now, my dad is not even accepting my calls, but yet he complains that I am unreachable in the event of an emergency. What if I have an emergency regarding the children, and he won't even accept my call to tell him? And now with the holidays coming up, I'm thinking of just letting him have his space, and if and when he is ready to talk, then he can call me.

Question: Should I move out at 18?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 10:48 AM PST

I have a full time job but I only make minimum wage. If I were to get a job where I make at least $10-$12 an hour would it be a good idea to move out of my parents house? I have six younger siblings living with me, my parents are always in my business (I know it's because they care but still) and I'm a full time college student. I get off of work around 12:30-1:30AM most nights so it'd be nice to come home to an empty house so I don't have to worry about any late night activity disturbing my family. Plus my siblings are all cramped into three tiny rooms and if I move out they can spread out more. Should I wait until I'm older or go ahead and do it?

Question: Friend is in love with his sister?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 10:33 AM PST

Question: Should I forgive him for not helping a brother with cancer.?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 10:25 AM PST

A brother has cancer, me my sis and a bro can well afford to assist him in in his financial cost, we all have good jobs abroad, esp the brother who has a high position in the govt of australia. Our bro decided he is going to stop helping. Me and my sister were shocked, whenever he is in Canada, he asks all these favors of us and we give it to him. Now he is not going to help, when it used to be split the cost 3 ways, now my sister and i will be forced to shoulder the cost. He said he is going to help only when he wants when he feels like it. He doesnt want to be part of a group. My sister somehow forgave him, but I can't. I felt betrayed, with him showing his true color. I know money is no problem with him, for those who would say I dont really know what is his financial status, I KNOW. And its not like a huge amt, a few hundred dollars every now and then.

Question: Parents overprotective with phone?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 10:17 AM PST

I am a 15 year old girl. I have a smart android phone and an iPod touch. My parents read all of my messages. They don't let me text guys (they immediately think I am sexting or something because I texted a guy 6 months ago and I told him I liked him) They force me to be homeschooled (which I absolutely HATE) They don't let me surf the web, or go on youtube, or do anything that could expose me in any way to what real life looks like. I need privacy. The reading messages things go way too far. Help?

Question: How do I deal with this situation with my mom?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 10:13 AM PST

My mom has this thing where she asks me or my 2 brothers to do some of the simplest task that she could do herself. She isn't impaired, has no sickness and has all her limbs. Which is good. She has an easy part time job. She isn't old yet, only in her 30's. We reside in a small apartment, nothing is far away. A small walking distance of 10 secs less anywhere. This has been going on for a long time. Before her job and after. Everyday for as long as I can remember. For example, she would ask us to get her a glass of water but she'll be in the kitchen where the cups and water is, she's empty handed. She would ask us to bring food to her 1-5 times that night, and she'll be in bed watching tv or something. She's getting fatter by the day. It's worse on her day offs. I think it's just lazy. It drives me up the wall and annoys me so much i just want to throw things out the window (I haven't yet). Especially because now I'm in college. When I'm studying or writing my papers, she'll ask me to do the **** tasks. When I'm done, I forget where I was or what I was going to do or write. I'm too young to move out (not 18 yet) and my mom won't let me move to a dorm. My brothers have just started high school and I do not think my mom should carry this on anymore. Its pretty distracting for all of us. It's not that I hate her, it just super annoying. My brothers agree but don't wanna say anything. I have two more years of this. What do you think I can do to deal with this situation? I can't ignore her. Believe it or not, I've tried that. She actually gets up and throws stuff at me or simply pisses off. Then we're all in trouble. Next thing, I tried not being at home most of the time. She got really upset, and says I can't be out after 5.

Question: Anyone else experience this?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 10:01 AM PST

My husband only buys me gifts he knows he can use or like. Like for my birthday I told him 100 times I wanted a Nike. A new one. He got me a watch because he thought it was cool. The watch cost more then the bike. I even showed him what i wanted. But he does this everytime. I show him exactly what i want and he only gets what he thinks is cool and I don t really like the watch so he has been wearing it. Anyone else experience that?

Question: Married my uncle will i have to register my marriage?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 09:43 AM PST

hi iam akalya from tamilnadu india. i have three elder sisters and i am the last in my home. my father expired when i was 2 years old. my mothers family only looked on us. my mother having one brother who is only 5 years elder to my first sister. my eldest sister was married to my mom brother(uncle) itself. he only take care of us. he only provide money for our studies. the other two sisters marriage also done by him only. i also like my uncle very much. the problem is my first sister dont have child. my grandmother started crying. he is the only son in my mom family and if has no child means the property will goto someone. my uncle has lot of properties. after one year of discussion my mother told my grandma that to marry me to her brother. my sister also accepted. my mother came to me and told that she also worried about her brother, so she told me to marry him. my uncle came to me and told its your wish and we are not compelling you. after serious thoughts i agreed to marry him. life went on smoothly and i gave birth two daughters. there is no problem between me and sister. but now my sister gave birth to a son. my husband taking care so much of my sister. from there i got little complexion. he is also saying my son is the holder of his properties. one night i told him i want a son, so that he also get half of the property. but he told me one son is enough. i am fearing about my daughters.

Question: Should I move away from family?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 09:40 AM PST

Recently I have seen the kind of people my family are. The only people I really care about are my parents and sibling. My extended family was very close with me and now I know what they think of my and why I am no longer being contacted as much. I am not talked to at family gatherings as much anymore. I was the person they loved so much growing up and now I am no one to them. I want to move and not let them know and I am only letting my parents know about my desire to do so. Is this a stupid desire? They meant so much to me and now I know I was just being used the whole time. I don't want to remain in contact with any of them. I want to let my parents know they can only talk about me if asked about by them. And not tell them where I am going.

Question: I feel guilty...?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 09:29 AM PST

Veterans' Day passed, and I forgot about my dad who had served in the military years ago. I remembered the hard way from my dad through text, and he said "Do you even care for Veterans Day?" I never answered after that. I don't know what to say, I feel ashamed and just one thought of it causes me to tear up out of guilt I am feeling right now. What should I say?

Question: OMFG what should I do????��?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 09:22 AM PST

Shortly, I walked on my parents.

Question: Why are mothers so annoying?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 09:21 AM PST

Seriously, my mom and dad was yelling at my brother because he wouldnt go to school and after that my mom drove me to the dentist and in the car I said "It wouldnt surprise me if he killed himself, and it will be your fault" and after I said "because he has no friends and is overweight" and when we came home from the dentist she freaking told him I said that. She even said the reason was because I thought he was overweight. Can you believe it? That was between me and her. Why do mother have to tell everybody what you tell them? Why can't they just **** off in a hole or something

Question: Am I being selfish?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 09:19 AM PST

Ok so mom has terminal cancer (Thank God). The doctors said she has 6-8 months to live. My 18th birthday is coming up and I want it to be extravagant. Unfortuntely my stupid family said they can't afford a real fancy birthday party because they have to use it for my stupid mom to get her treatment. Like wtf she only has 6 months to live just let her die already. I deserve a birthday party because I only turn 18 once. On top of that my family wants me to help take care of her. I am not taking time out of my busy life to take care of her, she deserves it. Maybe if she wasn't a smoker she wouldn't be in this situation. Take care of her yourself because I don't want any part of it. I am more concerned about how much money I will get once this slutbag dies. So is my family just being stupid or am I really being selfish?

Question: Is it normal to hate kids?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 09:17 AM PST

I've hated kids ever since I was 4 years old. I have a story for this as well. Ok my mom told me she was taking me shopping so I went with her only to find out we were going to the hospital because my mom's friend was giving birth. She knew if she told me I wouldn't want to come with her. Once they started passing the baby around my brother tried handing him to me and all I said was "what am I supposed to do with that ugly thing?" And my brother was like "hold him" and I said "um no" and just left the hospital room. At age 4!! My brother said he found me punching a wall next to the room my mom's friend was in. My brother to this day says the look on my face was terrifiying and it still makes him shiver. I've always hated those demon spawns from hell. Even to this day. If a kid is crying I roll my eyes and say "shut that ****** up" it may sound bad but it's just how I am. Is it normal to hate kids as much as I do? I should also add I've had a lot of rage in me ever since I can remember. I'm the youngest in my family so the "attention" thing is irrelevant. I personally hate getting all attention on me it gets me anxious even at a young age. I just hate so many people and things and I have no remorse if I hurt your feelings. It sounds horrible but that just how I am

Question: My friend was turned on by his sister by accident?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 08:55 AM PST

He saw his sister by accident when he opened the bathroom door.

Question: Does he like me? More than a hookup?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 08:54 AM PST

I reached back out to a guy i went on a date with months ago just to hook up. (its been almost 2 years since i have done it). Since i reached out we have done it 6 times (in the past 2 months). All times he is cuddling with me A LOT (too much) and playing with my hair, kissing me on the forehead a lot, pulling my tight close to him to fall asleep and holding hands. He always asked me to text him when i get home and he would text me again the morning after asking how i slept/woke up/made it to work. One time i left in the middle of the night without saying goodbye. He texted me the next morning "Hey! You snuck out on me :)" like he was disappointed. He texts me every other day asking how i am doing. He finally called me. The past 2 times were more passionate and when i was leaving he pulled me in and said to cuddle for 5 more minutes. He told me he loves my smile and that he can't last long with me in bed. He does text me throughout the week even early morning to ask me how I'm doing. Kisses me when we meet and say goodbye. Now he has mentioned that he wants to hear about this class I'm taking over wine and cheese at his house. I feel ok about the whole thing but is he interested in something more? He's a doctor and busy, i work in finance and am busy. Hes 33 and I m 24. Is this a normal hookup? I think im showing signs that I'm not interested in more The only thing we haven't done is go out on a date date or not had sex when we hang. I haven't mentioned it.

Question: Step sister is a b*tch?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 08:50 AM PST

So heres the thing, my mom and step dad moved in with each other last year along with my siblings and his two boys (whom i like). i get along with his two sons but recently, his other daughter (my stepsister) flew in from Texas and currently lives with us and heres the issue, shes such a b*tch! I know its mean but its true. Im 18, shes 21. Like, she thinks shes entitled to everything and can tell us what to do. And shes ALWAYS trying to get me in trouble. Like, yesterday, i was getting my shoes on and car keys and she says to me "Where you going?" And i told her mcdonalds because i wanted some food and she got somewhat pissed and got up from her chair and started hitting me saying "NO, you cant go! were gonna eat dinner soon!" And im like, "okay? I can eat twice" and the i left and she was pissed. And like the other day, i come home from the gym and shes sitting on the couch watching tv and said to me "Hey the garbage needs to be taken out!" And i thought "You couldnt have done it?!" But i did it anyways considering im not lazy. She has a job and all but she needs to be put in her place thinking she can tell me what i can and cant do. And she wonders why every guy has cheated on her. Any way how to deal with a b*tch of a step sister? Thank you!:)

Question: Do you see any logic with my parents blacklisting me from such event and forcing masculinity in me?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 08:35 AM PST

I missed out from attending an event that makes males femenine/metrosexual where they also have dance moves that involves hand and arms, and now my parents permanently blacklisted me from such thing since they took my teen siblings and violent 27-year-old macho brother to such event. My dad has now been much more inclined at scalding, blaming and bossing me around while trying to feed my foods very high in protein. I'm just a guy who is always self-conscious, non-violent and had acceptance and adherence as part of his personality. I'm now denied from ever getting a hairstyle where I would also be ridiculed if I try to he like everyone since one of my siblings also took a photo of me and published it somewhere.

Question: My mom is acting strange during the last year.... Is she getting crazy?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 08:33 AM PST

I am 19 and i've moved with my family to the US 1 year ago.. My mother is around 44 years old, she has thyroid for years. She gains weight easily, she cares A LOT for her body, she goes for 3hour walks in the morning and all day she eats some fruits, low fat yogurt and plain (sugar based) cereal. I believe that by not eating properly she damages her brain. Her feelings change rabidly, she is most of the time in bad mood, she can't remember simple stuff and she does not think normally, me and my father are struggling to keep ourselves calm, i sometimes get really angry with her and for that we don't have the best relationship during the last couple of months. I have to say that she misses our house back home because it was really big and beautiful, but the other members of my family don't. What;s wrong with her? shall we take her to a psychiatrist?

Question: How do I deal with this kind of creepy situation and how to drive them away from my kid? I really need help.?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 07:52 AM PST

Recently, my daughter's behavior seems different and sometimes she is acting weird. I just found out (with the help of my cousin) that my child has an elemental spirit guarding her (a male dwarf to which my kid calls "kuya"). My cousin has sent my child to the medium twice and they have same answer. I don't want such kind of element surrounding my daughter.

Question: My boyfriends mom calls me all the time because he never returns her calls! I feel awful having to let her down when we cant visit!?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 07:49 AM PST

My boyfriends mother calls/texts me all the time to see when we are coming to visit them. For background, both sets of our parents live hours away (His 12 hours, mine about 8) and we both work full time with limited PTO, so it is difficult to see either set often. Thanksgiving is approaching, and I have been asking my boyfriend for over a month if his parents are coming out to see us (they had mentioned it when we were visiting them in September) or if it was ok for me to tell my parents that we would be visiting them (I have not been home in over a year and last time was for a funeral so not the most joyous occasion). He said his parents are not coming and that it was only fair that I get to go home to see my family. So I of course told my mom to expect us. This morning I get a text from his mom asking where we are meeting on thanksgiving this year. Needless to say, I have no idea how to tell her that it is my turn to go visit my family and her son will be joining me. I know we aren't married but we do live together so we are kind of a package deal.

Question: What should I get for christmas?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 07:34 AM PST

Hey everybody, for christmas I can either get a brand new 32gb ipod touch or my sisters old used iphone 5s with scratches and dents all over it. People are telling me the iPhone is better but idk. I already have a phone. I wanted an apple product for apps, internet, and games. Which one should I get?

Question: I have a situation that I really do not know what to do?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 07:17 AM PST

I don't really want to visit my mom for the holidays because my brother is once again living with her, he's 43. He is and I am not lying here a sociopath. He lied about having caner to get money, he attacked my husband, he's a raging alcoholic. And overall a very disturbed person. I feel bad I do not want to visit my mom for she lives in another state, but I do not want to be around him. It's not like I am driving 10 hours to go for day we usually stay a week. I don't know what to tell her. I can maybe tell her my husband has to work. It disturbs me she also keep taking him in.. She even had a restraining order on him and dropped it and took him back in.

Question: Are some people in this world suffering from a bad fate or a bad karma??Is it possible to change it at least when they are old?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 07:14 AM PST

My life was painful since birth...my mother inherited schitzophrenia from my granny and my dad dumped me at birth.My grandpa from mums side had an undiscovered cancer and died in 2007. My grandpas older daughter and her children hate me coz my grandpa loved me more than them and talk always in ugly manners. When my granny dies i am alone forever...can i hope at least a decade before i die to have a peaceful life?? I am 31 this year. Please no trolling.

Question: I changed my maiden name to my married last name. However, when receiving emails from a new person still has maiden name?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 07:12 AM PST

Question: I'm an iranian...?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 07:09 AM PST

I was A dentist and I have got enough money to live rest of my life in high quality. I have 1000000 dollars age 30 Married without children now I want to leave iran and stay in all best cities in the world. I want to change my city annual can I do that?

Question: How can I check my families history?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 07:09 AM PST

I am from poland

Question: Do you have any suggestions on how i could get my mom to realize she's being a Hypocrite?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 06:21 AM PST

My Mom Is not willing to let me cut my hair short or dye my hair. I was talking to her the other day and she brought up cutting her hair shorter than I had planned to cut mine and lighter than I had planned to dye mine. Even though she has suggested this, she still refuses to let me cut/dye mine. any suggestions?

Question: Honest opinion on my life right now, just wanting to know.?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 05:53 AM PST

First, just let me say I'm doing this for fun bc I didn't know what to ask. At 19 I married the woman of my dreams, perfectly imperfect. 1 month after we married I went to navy boot camp. I went to ATT and A school d passed both top of my class. My wife moved down here with me and we have an off base apartment in town. I've been in for 1st navy birthday is coming up and so is my real birthday. I turned 20 in boot. My wife holds a job making $11 an hour. We have our first born on the way and she is in her scnd trimester.. We are preparing to move to San Diego. We bought a car here, the best I've ever owned and share it to get both of us to work. Right now we live a minimalist lifestyle as we will be moving to ca. Soon and don't want to move much. Both of our families support us. It feels nice that my wife has such faith in me, I asked her if I were to really attempt at becoming president and go through the whole process would she back me up and does she think I could and she said usher believes fully I could do anything. We are both Christian and try to live life by our faith and believe fully that God has credit for all of our blessings. So tell me what you think. Just doing this for fun guys

Question: What can I send in a protective/padded envelope? Can you send some objects or just paper like a regular envelope?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 05:13 AM PST

Question: Is there anyway to tell if I m pregnant the day it happens?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 04:50 AM PST

So I m in a relationship with a sailor, today he s leaving for deployment. Anyways, I went to my sister-in-law s house to meet the family and play a card game. Family including my mom and her dad. Well my mom likes to make jokes about how it s a competition on who s getting pregnant first, so she kept cracking jokes about how if I get knocked up by my sailor, I ll be set for life. Now, my sis-in-laws dad has a freaky thing where he can predict pregnancy and tragedy and so on. He s acurrstely guess three pregnancies and two miscarriages. Sadly, he ruined my good mood by saying to my mother "oh, she is. Has been for about five hours now." And naturally that scared the hell out of me. See my sister in law he s been trying with my brother, therefor, haven t used protection unlike my partner and I, but he kept saying it was me. It makes sense because earlier we did have sex, though it was over five hours ago. So now I m asking, is there anyway to know I m pregnant even though I just got this news last night?

Question: How should I go about helping my 6 year old daughter?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 04:29 AM PST

I have 4 children, 3 sons who are 9, 10, and 12, and then a daughter who is 6. Ever since she was 5, she's been saying that her siblings have been bullying her. I work late hours, and so I don't get to see everything that happens. Whenever I come home from work, she walks up to me crying saying that her brothers take her stuff from her, break her toys, and wrestle her until it hurts. She says that she hates being the youngest. I however was also the youngest child growing up, and I also dealt with this. I'm telling her that it's normal, and that her older brothers love her. Just recently, though, I heard her crying from her room. I rushed inside and saw her brothers holding her down and another one holding a worm over her face. I told them to get off get and they ran out. I asked her if she was okay, but she told that her brothers don't love her. I know that they do, but I still see it as them being typical older brothers. I'm telling her I went through it and I'm okay now, but she's still crying. What should I say to her to stop her from crying? I just see the incident as regular sibling conflict. I remember me feeling hurt growing up, but all of those hurt feelings went away in adult hood. I'm thinking that the same will happen from her. It could also toughem her up and she can look back at these memories and laugh. I was bullied by my older brothers and now I look back and laugh at the about being the cry baby.

Question: My mom shows favortism to my sister and dont respect my opinions?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 04:16 AM PST

My mom shows favortism to my sister, age 14. My sister Anaya has recently been diagnosed with depression. One day she couldnt get what she wanted and she said she wanted to kill her self. My sister's attitude and disrespectfulness was horrible before. She was always spoiled and whenever I had a problem with my sister ( I've always watched my sister while mom was at work), mom would ignore what I say and disregard my opinion. I am 18 now. Now that my sister has this depression cushion, her attitude and disrespectfulness is just as bad, just for the fact that she uses her depression for a excuse and leverage. We have a family plan on our phones (me, mom, sister) of $225, which I pay every month and my sister just recently smashed her phone on the concrete on purpose. I voiced my opinion on it and my mom still ordered her a phone the next week, so now i'm paying off two phones. My sister misses the school bus on purpose and mom demands me to take her to school. Whenever my sister dont get her way, she tells mom "you're annoying" and "I'm sad" and as usual, mom bows down to her feet and does whatever to satisfy her. My mom never listens to me and just tells me to ignore my sister. I'm just so tired of never having an opinion and mom not ever doing anything.

Question: My mom shows my sister favortism and won't let me have my own opinion?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 03:57 AM PST

Question: After rape I fear men including my dad. What do I do?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 03:49 AM PST

Hi, I'm 15 years old and female. I was raped by my uncle when I was 14 and never told anybody. That uncle is dead already, so he doesn't matter. I think I suffer from complex post traumatic stress disorder (googled the symptoms) and I've developed a serious androphobia (fear of men). This androphobia extends to my father as well. Don't get me wrong - I love my dad to death! But, there is always that fear deep within me... I hate it the most when he scolds me or parents me in any way. I react with hostility and anger, inside I'm fearful and insecure. And I'm sad...my dad has never treated me badly! I love him but I can't stand it if he disciplines me! I ignore and threaten him (like a scared animal) when he does that. Afterwards, my mom punishes me and thats ok by me. Even if my moms punishment is 3 times worse, I rather let her ground me than my dad. What do I do? How do I get him to leave the discipline to my mom? I do want to have a relationship with him but not like this. I will NEVER feel safe when a male has authority over me - even if it's dad!

Question: I plan to kill myself when my parents pass?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 02:44 AM PST

Question: How to be honest with my parents?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 02:35 AM PST

I've always lied to my parents, even as a child I'd lie about little things, but now I'm 21 and I lie to them constantly about stuff.

Question: They keep them from grandparents too when they want to punish grandma and grandpa! They need to grow up!?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 02:34 AM PST

Question: How to get mom to trust me?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 01:21 AM PST

I'm 17 and I have NO freedom. I'm not allowed to date, not allowed to hang out with friends (they're all good, hardworking people), and I can never talk back to her. She wasn't always like this but I think she started to change after she found out about my boyfriend last year. I didn't want to keep it a secret from her but I was too scared of telling her (she's the type to get made if I talk to a guy). I know I'll be moving out in a year for uni but I want to enjoy my senior year. I've tried talking to her, explaining, and everything but my patience is running thin. She seemed okay with my ex but I just feel that after that she isn't letting me do ANYTHING. I've had a best friend since I was 13 and my mom's met her tons of times but she's not even letting me hang out with her anymore. What do I do?

Question: I am almost 17 and have never done chores.. Can you tell me what I should know how to do by now so I can start teaching myself?

Posted: 12 Nov 2015 01:05 AM PST

This is my situation.. I turn 17 next month but I don't know how to do most house work. I do know how to do some though. My parents tend to get annoyed at how I don't do alot around the house. They didn't want me to do any house work while I was a kid and a pre teen. When I turned 14 then they started expecting me to start cleaning the house. They never pushed me or forced me to clean, they just expected me to. But back then I was SO lazy I and I was used to just sitting on the couch while they did everything for me so it was toooo too hard for me to get myself to clean. Now if I don't start getting used to cleaning the house I may not do well on my own as an adult. I have the attitude and im willing to take responsibility and do whatever is needed to be done. Though my mom still doesnt want me to touch the laundry so everything besides that.