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- Question: My best friend is never able to hang out with me what should I do?
- Question: Why am I so awkward?
- Question: Best friend troubles?
- Question: Is it normal to go months without a face to face conversation with another person?
- Question: What do I do if my best friend is ignoring me because she s mad at me?
- Question: How can I stop being alone?
- Question: Is it normal for male friends to fight (like punching and stuff)?
- Question: Minor sent me sexts. Need help knowing what to do now.?
- Question: What to do if your friend won't respond?
- Question: Do men say this to women they have sex with? (10 points for best answer)?
- Question: How to get rid of ex? Need advice asap.?
- Question: Will I be in trouble with the police?
- Question: Am I the jerk, or was I right?
- Question: Do anyone want to be friends with me? I want to have friend from other country.?
- Question: Should I've said something after he said this to me?
- Question: I feel like I hate people because I'm often misunderstood?
- Question: Is it normal to feel weird after an argument?
- Question: Do I deserve an iPhone?
- Question: Girl dipper?
- Question: Is it ok for a 17 years old to be frineds with a 26 year old or its messed up?
- Question: What would you do if you were my place?
- Question: I'm a touchy-person?
- Question: Am I going crazy?
- Question: Why is my BFF hiding from me the fact that she has a boyfriend?
- Question: Really really bad with people... :(?
- Question: How do i make friends in university?
- Question: Is it rude to start a conversation by saying to someone that your are bored and need someone to talk to?
- Question: Why won't she say she loves me back?
- Question: I feel alone?
- Question: What should I get my friend for Secret Santa?
- Question: Help My friend's personality has changed!?
- Question: Why don't I have friends?
- Question: My mom is only inviting a little people to thanks giving 10 points!!!?
- Question: Losing friends?
- Question: How to ask my bestfriend if I can touch her boobs?
- Question: Did channel 13 fire Jen Epstein?
- Question: Help - Whats some good things say to comfort someone?
- Question: Ending a friendship with a best friend?
- Question: Am I the only one out there, who just feels like deleting their social media but can't because of peer pressure by friends?
- Question: Have you ever gotten off to your partners friends?
- Question: Very lonely?
- Question: My best friend suddenly annoys me a lot?
- Question: Do you think she's waiting for me to come back?
- Question: Is it important to have guy (opposite sex) friends?
- Question: I'm really nervous around people?
- Question: "Friend" I don't like is coming to my new school?
- Question: Why my cursh doesn't answer my message? I got his number yestersay but he doesn't have my number so I write my name?
- Question: Best friends kissing?
- Question: How do I stop feeling so lonely?
- Question: If your foreign friend is visiting your hometown and does not know what to pack, what suggestions do you have for him?
- Question: One of my newer friends keeps talking about my other friends behind their back. Also, she is very jealous of my other relationships.?
- Question: Why is my older friend embarrassed to hang out with me in public?
- Question: My dad is so annoying!?
- Question: Left out from my group of friends?
- Question: Is there a word to describe people in life whose names you hear enough to remember, but whose faces you never see?
- Question: I'm a transfer student but I miss my old school?
- Question: Problem with this girl?
- Question: I have a coworker who I have been friends with for one year. She keeps making plans, and forgetting, and making empty promises to me.?
- Question: Hi I am very scared of big butts, but no one believes me when I tell them, (including my best friend). WHat should i do?
- Question: How should I react to a friend who just finished playing the piano?
Question: My best friend is never able to hang out with me what should I do? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 04:59 PM PST I ve been best friends with my best friend since the 8th grade we are juniors in high school now. And out of all those years we ve only hung out like 2 times, all in the 8th grade. I personally think it s her parents, I think they are racist towards me as I am black, and she is Puerto Rican. The reason I think that is because she s allowed to hang out with every other friend she had except me, she is even allowed to hang out at her boyfriends house! And her parents are pretty stick so this just drives me crazy.and I don t mean to be the annoying clingy friend but she always post on snapchats pictures of her hanging out with other people, and I get really jealous and upset because whenever we try and make planes her parents always tell her "oh we might be doing something then." And I don t want this to be something to end our friendship but we don t really talk much in school, so not being able to hang out outside of school is kind of making me feel like I m loosing her as my best friend..I don t know how I should handle this situation. |
Question: Why am I so awkward? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 04:51 PM PST I don't know what to do with myself. I feel like I've struggled with this for a super long time. I just have this rollercoaster of being awkward and then not being awkward. It's like I'm not comfortable in my own skin with people. Or like I feel I have to put on a performance. Just tonight I was hanging with a friend I've had for three months (I'm a college freshman), and at first I felt like I was doing fine for the most part. But then she said she was going to the cafe and I said I would join, but from there on out I felt like I was kind of making her feel uncomfortable. This has happened to me a lot lately. I can tell I make people feel uncomfortable because they don't really look at me they when talk to me. It makes me feel awful about myself. I just want to be fixed. I don't want to be awkward anymore, at all. But sometimes I think I'm just socially or mentally deficient. And I'm scared that the friends I have now won't want to be my friends because of this. I mean I've told some of them that I'm kinda awkward, including the one I was with tonight. But I dunno. I'm scared of ending up alone and I'm scared of being awkward for the rest of my life. Often I make progress. This last month or so I was doing really good. But now I feel like I'm back in that stage again. Is there any hope for me? |
Question: Best friend troubles? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 04:50 PM PST I feel like my best friend always tries to out - do me. Not just her also her mother. Whenever my family would visit a place, the next week, they would go the exact same place we did & post it all over social media! Not only that but after my parents got a new car, she told them she'd be getting the exact same one! Color & all! Her mother is bragging all over social media that her daughter is taking "introduction to fashion classes!" Have in mind my friend doesn't like fashion what's so ever. In fact, she's very sporty! She's shown no interests in the arts at all but after I show my artwork or interest in fashion, she's all over it?!? One more thing, she gets aggravated when I don't invite her over but when I do, she lies that she's not feeling well in order to go home. Please tell me how I should react to this or if I'm being too dramatic? |
Question: Is it normal to go months without a face to face conversation with another person? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 04:49 PM PST I'm at college and haven't had a face to face conversation with another person for over a month. Right now it feels like I'm almost going crazy. Is this normal? |
Question: What do I do if my best friend is ignoring me because she s mad at me? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 04:48 PM PST She wanted me to go to her church dinner but I didn t want to because she leaves me and goes with her other friends making me feel left out. She s been asking me to go with her for a week but I didn t know how to respond to her cuz I knew she would get mad so I kept saying "I ll think about it". I texted her last night saying my answer was no and that I was sorry for delaying the answer. But her response was "whatever". Me, her and another friend went to the movies but she hasn t talked to me at all. Not even eye contact. What do I do? I don t like being ignored. My other friend did this so she doesn t even like her anymore :( |
Question: How can I stop being alone? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 04:34 PM PST Most of my life I've been alone. Even back in middle school I would always get rejected from classroom groups and had very little friends I'm usually quiet and respectful when I meet someone new, the more i get to know them the more I open up. I think this is out of fear from past experiences where I would get bullied for being myself. So that's why I'm always really quiet and everyone tells me that. I moved to a new city, I'm going to a community college, and working a part time job but still have only a coworker as a friend and that's it. I don't hang out with him outside of work because he's got his own life in highschool. Can somebody give me advise on what could work for me to make new friends, I'm honestly willing to try anything out but I can't think of anything myself. |
Question: Is it normal for male friends to fight (like punching and stuff)? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 04:27 PM PST Last week my boyfriend and his friend got into a huge fight at our house to the point where I called the cops. Now this week it's like nothing happened. They still go and drink and watch football together. |
Question: Minor sent me sexts. Need help knowing what to do now.? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 04:13 PM PST I was on Facebook and a friend of a friend asked to chat. I was bored and saw no problem in chatting. So I opened up the chat box. As the conversation progresses it starts sounding odd but I didn't think anything of it until she sent me a nude picture. I immediately ended the conversation and requested that she not send any more. I am 19 and I am almost certain she is a minor. Is there anything I need to do besides end the conversation? I live in Washington state if it is dependent on local laws. Please help. |
Question: What to do if your friend won't respond? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 04:08 PM PST My friend didn't respond to a text from 3 days ago. She is off and on with responding. She is older than me, and is in college. I look up to her a lot. She is like a big sister and gives good advice. I know she was probably busy, but I want to talk to her. She came home to surprise me and see me in my first high school show so I know she cares about me. She told me when she was home that I am not annoying. How do I reach out again without getting annoying? |
Question: Do men say this to women they have sex with? (10 points for best answer)? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 04:06 PM PST I had sex with a guy and when I tried to pay him for some work he did for me this is what he said. First he said that he had been inside me and that he can't charge me. Then he said I'll give you anything you need you don't ever have to worry about paying me for anything just let me know and I'll assist you in whatever way I can. I'm not trying to use anyone and I don't think he'll ever let me pay him even if I don't have sex with him. |
Question: How to get rid of ex? Need advice asap.? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 03:52 PM PST I need the best advice possible. So I had an ex. The ex of exes. Who ruined me emotionally for a long time post breakup. Short story- he didn't like his own group of friends so he took mine away from me, and became besties with my ex best friend and probably more. There was a lot of trauma with that because I had to start over and let that group go, thanks to him and my "friends". This was 5 years ago. Currently, I have started a new life after letting friends go and staying as far away from my selfish ex as possible. Over the years he has taken it upon himself to befriend every single person I ever knew. During the midst of all of the non sense I had a new friend, whom I found through my job. We became best friends and stopped speaking almost 2 years ago over something stupid. This past week i couldnt help but think about my best friend (the one from 2 years ago), because we were two peas in a pod and every where I go it reminds me of things we did together. I reached out to him via email and he responded saying that he missed me too and we should meet up to clear the air. I agreed to do this.... So now, after snooping which I wish I hadn't done, I find that his two closest friends are somehow friends with my EX. I dont understand how that even happened, and I am tired of running from him but want absolutely nothing to do with him at the same time. He is a shady person, with no life obviously. Should I even bother rekindling things with my friend? |
Question: Will I be in trouble with the police? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 03:49 PM PST my so called best friend was talking about me then I remembered that My so called best friend took pictures on my phone and I zoomed in on her face and sent them to one of her friends and my so called best friend saw them and she cried and said she was calling the police I'm not sure if I'm actually gonna be in trouble I think it's kind of dumb to be honest but I don't know |
Question: Am I the jerk, or was I right? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 03:46 PM PST The other night I was chilling with my buddy frank. Frank's a nice dude but he's too nice to women for some reason and let's them take advantage of him. This girl frank knows asked if he knows anyone who can give her a ride somewhere. I had to go that way anyway so I said I'll give her a ride if she gave me gas money. Frank paid me instead of her. When we pulled up for some reason frank got out and went in the back seat so she could sit in the front. As soon as she got in she was very bitchy. She said my car was an old piece of ****. I told her flat out she can walk if it's so shitty. She rolled her eyes but I let it slide. Then I stopped at a gas station because I was running on E. She started bitching about me stopping. She said "holy **** frank, your wonderful friend here is wasting my time" so after I filled my tank I kicked her out of my car and drove off. Frank was saying I was an a*s hole for treating a women like that. I don't care if it's a male or female. If I'm doing someone a favor and they act rude I won't put up with that crap. Am I a jerk or did I do the right thing? It wasn't a rough area either but even if it was I might have done the same thing. |
Question: Do anyone want to be friends with me? I want to have friend from other country.? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 03:42 PM PST |
Question: Should I've said something after he said this to me? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 03:22 PM PST Last night my guy friend and I were hanging out and he was laying on top of me with his head on my chest and he looks up and says I'm in love with you baby girl. I've been in love with you for about six months. Then he said You don't have to say anything until you are sure and ready to say it. Then we kissed and he laid his head back down on my chest as I continued to run my fingers through his hair. He was shirtless but had jeans on. Should I've said something after he said this to me? I have deep feelings for him, but he's been staying with me because we have over a foot of snow where we live. We're both 26. |
Question: I feel like I hate people because I'm often misunderstood? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 03:21 PM PST I'm not saying I'm perfect: we all have imperfections. I'm not always the best at reading people. But then again: people don't always read me well either. People have gotten mad at me for being bold, adventurous and goofy—cuz they wrote me off as "serious" and "boring". The older I get, the more I notice this, and I'm just done dealing with this crap. I know in my heart I will never have many true friends, because I'm not some simple "what you see is what you get" person. Advice? |
Question: Is it normal to feel weird after an argument? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 03:09 PM PST I had an argument with a good friend of mine a few days ago. I said something that offended him and I asked him what had offended him and I really understood where he was coming from and I felt terrible for saying what I said and I apologized. He apologized for lashing out instantly rather than telling me what was going on. In the end everything got resolved and we both apologized to the other for our part in the matter. I still feel weird though. Since the issue was settled I haven t contacted him and I don t know how to do it without being weird. I just feel like when I talk to him I ll be reminded of how I offended him and keep feeling terrible about it even though I already apologized and the matter is settled. Any insights? Has anyone been through something like this? |
Question: Do I deserve an iPhone? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 03:03 PM PST I'm 13 years old and in 8th grade, plus I'm rather mature for my age if you compare me to some of my peers. I do pretty well in school plus I'm in a lot of honors classes plus in the NJHS and in an Art/Writing Scholarship program. I play sports year round and volunteer at my church a lot. All of my friends have the latest greatest of whatever phone and I'm stuck with a $20 TracFone I've had since 5th grade- honestly it's a best embarrassing, lol. My parents are really strict and have high expectations for me so it's hard to convince them for things that are kind of expensive like a cell phone. Please respond and no rude comments please. :) I don't have an iPod/iPad or anything to really talk to my friends on or use social media on. All I have is a Laptop that doesn't support Kik, Instagram, iMessage, Snapchat etc... (Obviously). |
Posted: 21 Nov 2015 02:50 PM PST Hey y'all I'm 16 I'm a girl and I dip (chewing tabacco) , I ran out of dip last Friday and I gave my brother some money to pick me up 2 cans and it's now Saturday, it's been killing me and my brother hasn't got me more he opens my txt but doesn't txt me back so he basically took my money, I was kinda thinking I should ask my dad to buy me some since well I don't know any other 18 yr olds, I really need dip rn and idk how to ask and talk him into it since I'm a girl and some people don't think girls should do it. So if y'all got any advice for me I'll be glad |
Question: Is it ok for a 17 years old to be frineds with a 26 year old or its messed up? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 02:43 PM PST Friends* |
Question: What would you do if you were my place? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 02:40 PM PST I know a secret about my best friends family I heard it about my parents but neither nor her parents told as directly and we are close like family friends but I didn't say to hear that I know it's green light We are family friends and we are close something came up and they have to marry their to girl who got a pregnant and his sister is my best friend she didn't tell me but heard it. From someone else should I tell her that I know |
Question: I'm a touchy-person? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 02:22 PM PST I'm a very touchy person but at the same time my friends hate it when i hug/touch them i don't have any friends who let me hug them for along time... or cuddle with them i don't have cuddle friends... sadly i'm just stuck with no one to touch (instert broken heart) I'm 16 by the way.. and yes i am a girl but i get touchy feely when i'm around women and (i'm attracted to women) My friends are bisexual and then they know what i am and it's just yeah its complicated.... but some of them are straight o-o |
Posted: 21 Nov 2015 02:15 PM PST I ve been at home doing nothing for a week a literary didn t leave the house I barely left my room it was a week off . I wanted to go out tonight but due to emergencies in brussels I couldn t. I m new here. I barely have friends they always have other plans and are busy at my home country I was a very social outgoing person I really wanna go back I feel like I m losing my mind. I don t have a social life anymore I m 21m. I also can t go back to my country at this moment because of my studies here . I really need help. Am I going crazy? Or is this normal? I ve been here for almost 2 years I still feel new plus like I said I barely have friends. Please tell me if there is something wrong with me. Should I just move back? |
Question: Why is my BFF hiding from me the fact that she has a boyfriend? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 02:06 PM PST Ok, so I hang out with a group of 5-6 girls, and one of them is my BFF. She had a bad breakup recently, and I was VERY supportive of her, I was there for her 24/7, I even stopped talking to her ex, even though he is my friend, as well, just because she told me to. A few days ago I found out from a girl that's not even a part of our group that my BFF has a new boyfriend. After some checking, I found out that everybody from our group knows about it, only I am left out. Why didn't she tell me?!!!! |
Question: Really really bad with people... :(? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 02:02 PM PST So I moved to a new school last year, and I m not a super social person so making friends wasn t my first priority. By about halfway through the year I had made a couple tentative friends with some people in my classes, but they quickly fizzled out. Since then, I haven t really been able to keep a friend for more then a couple weeks because they lose interest. This year I ve kinda come out of my shell and I m more friendly, but really people just ignore me and I m starting to get a little sick of always eating alone during lunch and never having anyone to talk to or hang out with. Is something wrong with me? |
Question: How do i make friends in university? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 01:52 PM PST I'm a 19 year old guy who changed majors, so i'm a year older than my fellow students. I have trouble finding friends.I got into a friends group of people who know each other from highschool. 2 of them are cool, but the others are very childish. One of them tried to exclude me with his social politics, didn't work for him. Half of my classgroup is immature and wants to fit in.I decided to ditch them, this week i met 2 guys from my group (50 students) and it really clicked, just because they're mature. One small problem is, when we go to a bigger classroom (of like 200 ppl), they rush to their highschool friends and don't introduce me to them. I found some interesting people on FB who are in my year who i never heard of, though they're not in my classgroup. Only chance of meeting them is ending up sitting next to them in the bigger classrooms (600 people). It's just completely random who you end up sitting next to. Most people just stick to their highschool friends and don't think it's okay to talk to others. I once got invited for a beer after class, the guys seemed really cool, but one guy kept talking over me really trying hard to fit in, never let me say anything. I left after my beer was empty. How do i make friends? I went to the freshman parties, i was the only freshman, because my fellow students don't dare going alone to a party and most of them commute home every day. I want to find friends who party, hit on girls and get drunk. I don't want to relive highschool. |
Posted: 21 Nov 2015 01:41 PM PST So today someone sent me a message like and I just thought it was unnecessary and maybe even rude telling me they wouldn't have spoken to me if they weren't bored ? |
Question: Why won't she say she loves me back? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 01:34 PM PST Lol okay friend we text ever other week she said she glad we are friends and she also said she cares about me and love me so much, and I said what make want to say that? She said cause I care about you. So Today I visited her and asked her can you read the messages so she was reading them out loud and when it got to the part she said she loved me she said uhhhh???? that's it,iI mean it's not a big deal to say youyou love your friend. |
Posted: 21 Nov 2015 01:28 PM PST My aunt is having twins. I feel like no one ever pays attention to me anymore. I am the oldest out of 6 grand kids. I am 14. All the attention is given to them. I help all of them and care about them. But no one ever respects me & I fear soon everyone in my family will eventually not care about me anymore. We buy them things all the time and think about them all the time but they have no emotion 4 my little sister & I. She will most likely be having the babies on my 15th birthday next year. I will probobly not be able to celebrate it. She also decided to have her wedding in my birthday last year also. How should I be handling this? Thank you for your time. All the love |
Question: What should I get my friend for Secret Santa? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 01:20 PM PST On my cheer team we all put on a paper some ideas and our name and then we picked somebody. On the paper I got it says food, pandas, peace rings, clothes and a hot guy. I don't really know what I should get for her and I will probably be getting it all online so if you have any ideas that would be great! |
Question: Help My friend's personality has changed!? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 01:16 PM PST So Ive been friends with this person since the 6th grade. We were always productive and found many fun things to do while hanging out such as skateboarding, airsoft, baseball, basketball, going into town to get food, prank calls, etc. But since high school started I started to notice a change in him. He has been really lazy, doesn't wanna do anything productive except play video games, doesn't try in school anymore, and doesn't even like it when I record him and me hanging out on snapchat like normal teenage kids do. He also has started to become more negative since meeting this new kid who I sometimes hang out with and shoots down any ideas I have. I dunno if he is depressed or something but I just want him to be back to normal so we can go back to enjoying life and being good friends. I'm a guy btw. |
Question: Why don't I have friends? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 12:54 PM PST I honestly don't understand it. The problem isn't really that I don't have friends, because I do, but it's complicated. I don't have a group of friends or a best friend. I used to, but my best friend outgrew me and became popular, so now I don't. All of my friends are in different groups. I'm a cheerleader and all of the girls on my team are my "friends" but we never hang out. When I ask people if they want to hang out, they just ignore the text every time. Sometimes I'll ask them in person, but I always have to text them to confirm and they just ignore it. Now I feel like I can't even text them anymore because after they ignore you like 5 times it's embarrassing to even try. I never have plans on the weekends and I feel so lonely and depressed. Is there something wrong with me? Why doesn't anyone want to hang out with me? |
Question: My mom is only inviting a little people to thanks giving 10 points!!!? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 12:53 PM PST i want more people more YOUNG people what to do. |
Posted: 21 Nov 2015 12:51 PM PST Recently I've been noticed by some popular guys and now I hang out with them and stuff and one/a few of them like me. I've also been talking to some more popular girls and drifted away from some of my old friends. It's not that I'm trying to be popular, I just don't really want to be friends with some of the people I was friends with before I met these new people. We just don't really share similar interests anymore. How can I drop these friends without coming off as rude or them hating me? Should I just stop talking to them or what? |
Question: How to ask my bestfriend if I can touch her boobs? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 12:30 PM PST I'm a guy and she's a girl we're both 17 and I was wondering how to ask her if I can touch her boobs. We've both agreed multiple times that we will never be in a relationship besides Besties for the Resties. |
Question: Did channel 13 fire Jen Epstein? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 12:24 PM PST |
Question: Help - Whats some good things say to comfort someone? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 12:06 PM PST My of my best friends tried to kill herself. What should i say to comfort her? Nothing cliche please. I need stuff thats actually meaningful. Im at a loss for words and i love her so much but i don't know how to respond. Please help me. |
Question: Ending a friendship with a best friend? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 12:04 PM PST Thank you in advance for taking the time to read my question. I'm considering ending a friendship with my best friend of 5 years. I finally forced myself to see her for the massively narcissistic, attention seeking person she really is - and how I've always been a punching bag for her emotions in this unhealthy friendship. Last week, I told her that I will be renewing my work license in New York (I live in Philadelphia) for two days during my day-off when we were talking about work; out of nowhere, she mentioned "I guess you don't miss and want to visit your friend in California afterall". I just don't understand why she always takes my words out of context in order to make me feel guilty and be manipulated by her. When I was talking to my family when she was calling, she left a message saying "I won't bother you by calling anymore if you're busy". What would you do in my situation? I just don't know what to do anymore. I will miss her very much. But I won't miss the friendship. I won't miss the friendship at all. |
Posted: 21 Nov 2015 11:59 AM PST I really want to delete all my social media. I am currently on snapchat, twitter, tumblr, instagram and vine. But those are also are my only ways of connecting with my friends. My friends told me that if I delete I will then be a nobody. Even though, I do not care about being a nobody, people are just very quick to point out the bad on my social media, which is just prompting me to delete them. I mean social media used to be fun, (back in myspace days where you posted goofy photos with friends) but now you have to make sure your pictures are **** and span. I have a crooked overbite smile, which i have just accepted as a part of me, I posted a picture of me smiling and everyone is just like eww why are you smiling. Delete. I seriously just have a love hate relationship with social media. Good for raising self-esteem but also good for lowering it... What are your thoughts on social media?? Anyone else have the same love hate relationship with social media? |
Question: Have you ever gotten off to your partners friends? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 11:56 AM PST My friend said he does it all the time, but honestly I've never considered it. Is this a normal thing? Kinda strikes me as a bit odd. |
Posted: 21 Nov 2015 11:23 AM PST Hello im 16 years old boy I can't make new friends at my school or anywhere I want friends has a same age On internet |
Question: My best friend suddenly annoys me a lot? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 11:21 AM PST So me and my best friend have known each other for about 6 years but we stopped talking for about 4 and now we ve been best friends again for a few months. Everything was going great until a week or two ago. She makes rude comments about my boyfriend and hardly ever talks to me anymore and pretty much excludes me in any conversation and we got in trouble by my parents a little while ago and I ve been grounded ever since and the reason we got in trouble was mostly her fault anyways and now she just makes rude comments about my parents and idl she s just been making me really mad. The smallest things she does makes me mad. Like when she misspells something when we re texting or when she acts like she s all that. Idk I ve just started to notice how big of a ***** she is. I m not sure what to do. |
Question: Do you think she's waiting for me to come back? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 11:18 AM PST We're not friends we're not enemies we're just strangers with some memories. Anyway I used to be really outgoing when we were friends and popular too but we split up and now I only have 2 best friends (friends before were fake friends) anyway she got brainwashed because she got involved with the wrong crowd. Anyway I told her straight off I wouldn't be her friend anymore because of how she preferred the company of my worst enemies. Anyway she started talking to me again after 9-10 months well warming up to me I might say. She knows my 18 year old friend is going to college and that my other friend might ditch me because I've become really studious by the way I'm a girl. So do you think she's waiting for me to come back? She always looks at, she's not the same sincere honest person I knew she got corrupted by my worst enemies. She knows I will have no other friends because I'm foreign. Look people I've not a guy I'm a girl and also I do not clearly think I'm stupid, I'm just asking a question I do not hold an answer to I was only wondering what other people think, this person really meant a lot to me and I just can't let it go that easy. I question the fact as to why she observes me and talks to me if she is so happy with my haters? It makes me think if she's actually happy or if she's faking it. No rude answers please because you're not judging me you're judging yourself. |
Question: Is it important to have guy (opposite sex) friends? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 11:13 AM PST I am in highschool and don't currently have any anymore. Is that important when it comes to after highschool, or dating? |
Question: I'm really nervous around people? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 11:11 AM PST I only have this with people I don't know well, it gets really tiring to talk to people I don't really know. It's kind of hard for me making new friends. I don't have this with my mother or friends I've known for 2-3 years. Just want to write it off me bye |
Question: "Friend" I don't like is coming to my new school? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 11:09 AM PST this is probably gonna sound really shallow but I really don't want this "friend" I have to come to my new school. She doesn't like her old school and since I'm in this really good high school she decided to join me. the point is I really don't want her to come bc I don't like her at all...... she is so quiet and annoying and I'm scared that I'm gonna be her only friend.... like I don't care about popularity and all that but I don't want to lose friends bc of her. this is so shallow and I'm so ashamed of writing this but it's how I feel. what should I do??? |
Posted: 21 Nov 2015 11:06 AM PST |
Question: Best friends kissing? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 11:06 AM PST So. I am a girl. My bestfriend that's a boy named John is dating one of my bestfriends that is a girl, Annie. Me and John have been bestfriends for 2 years. If I kissed John, would that be betraying Annie too badly?? |
Question: How do I stop feeling so lonely? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 11:04 AM PST I am a fifteen year old female. So basically I have been moved through different communities my whole life (lived in asia until I was 4, then moved to Holland into an english speaking community, then to a dutch community of immigrants and now actual dutch people). I've always been on the shy side, but up until last year I've had at least a small group of friends, but that changed when I moved schools yet again and I just didnt fit in and felt awkward and less attractive than everyone else. I have my one best friend I hang out with after a school and a few people I talk a bit to during school and my teammates. I've had a lot of anxiety related breathing problems lately and I've just started seeing a psychiatrist. My question: is this just a teen phase? Will it go away? Of course I know I have to work on it, but right now I can't even talk to boys without stuttering. But will it get better with time? I really hope so, because I hope to broaden my social life in the future. I constantly feel lonely the whole time, like I'm missing out on the whole 'teen experience' and it's been bothering me everytime I sit alone. I've always liked solitude, but now it is finally really getting to me and it might even been causing depression for me, I don't know. |
Posted: 21 Nov 2015 10:56 AM PST |
Posted: 21 Nov 2015 10:37 AM PST Note: S, V, an O, are what I'm going to call my friends. So, one of my newer friends (well call her L) is a lesbian. I'm not okay with that, but I still don't say anything. So yesterday (Friday), we were at school, sitting at our table, when she said this: L: S,V, and O are so homophobic. they don't support me being lesbian. I'm glad you do, Me: first off, I don't, that's gross. Second of all, don't be talking about my friends to me, because I'm just gonna go tell them what you said. L: are you replacing me with S? She just moved here. Me: no, I'm not. I just expected you to understand that I haven't seen her for 6 months. Is that a hard concept? L: No. Are we friends? Me: I suppose, why? L: because your always talking to S! Every time we get our break, you go a pond sit over there with her. And you always sit with her at lunch! Me: Wow, I spend an hour a day with her. And I spend the other seven hours sitting beside you. An hour compared to seven hours is a long time, isn't it? L: yea it is. Anyways, I was here for you first. The whole time she was gone in Washington, I was here for you. (Me in my head: you were not here for me first, S was. ) Me: yea, sure you were. L: Your replacing me. Me: no, I'm not. L: so we're equal? Me and S are both your best friends? Me: yea, sure. Whatever. L sits next to me, so I'm forced to do everything with her (ex: library, computers) What should I do? She's always following me when I try and hang out with other friends and bugging me when I try to work on the assignments. (We are both in 8 grade btw) |
Question: Why is my older friend embarrassed to hang out with me in public? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 10:35 AM PST I'm 24, my best friend is 43. We have been through so much together & are so close. She's always calling me her best friend, and is my best friend behind closed doors. However, to the general public, she sometimes acts as if she is embarrassed to be my friend. This is so hurtful. I understand how she could feel embarrassed by hanging out with me in pubic with the "visible" age difference, however age is just a number & I do not think it should be a factor. I have absolutely no problem with our age difference, I'm proud to call her my friend. Even though she would never say it, I know she feels differently. I feel as if she's embarrassed or ashamed to be seen with a much younger person out in public. How do I help her get over this feeling or let her know how much this in unintentionally hurting me? |
Question: My dad is so annoying!? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 10:28 AM PST So, my dad is so embarrassing and annoying. First of all, I am 13 and male. I was talking on the phone with my friends and he came in screaming at me because I took a home phone, so he was digging through my room to get another one, and then when he couldnt find one, he was like "BYE" and then hung up. I explained to my friend. Then, the other day I was playing Roblox and when I went to the bathroom, my dad took my laptop and went on my account, and PRETENDED TO BE ME." Another thing- I posted a picture of my friends and I on Instagram, and he somehow found my account, and commented "Why are you guys on Instagram, you little f***s. Grrrrrr he made me so mad so I reported him hahaha. Anyway, it needs to stop. What do I do!? |
Question: Left out from my group of friends? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 10:26 AM PST I'm constantly being left out from my group, for instance tonight they've all had a sleepover-all 9 of them and I'm basically the only one who hasn't been invited. they're putting pictures and stuff in snapchat and I just feel like crying, even my 'bestfriend' is there and hasn't attempted to talk to me. I have not others friends I don't know what to do. I'm 15 by the way. |
Posted: 21 Nov 2015 10:09 AM PST |
Question: I'm a transfer student but I miss my old school? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 09:58 AM PST I am 19 years old and a sophomore in college. I used to go to a school 3 and a half hours away and wanted to be closer to home so I transferred to a school only 45 min away thinking I would be happier being closer. Now that I'm at my new school, I am not happy here. At my old school, I was really homesick but as the second semester came, I started to get over my homesickness and I was happy there. I had a lot of friends and was having fun there. However my parents always wanted me to transfer to this closer school and I listened to them because I thought what they what wanted is what I wanted to. I live in an apartment at my new school with a friend I've known since kindergarten but she's pretty much my only friend there and she has work a lot so I get lonely and bored easily. My best friend at my old school stayed there and I miss her and miss all my other friends as well. I also am talking to this guy who lives in the college town that I transferred from and It's hard because if I would've stayed at my old school, we wouldn't have to do the whole long distance thing. I feel like I'm missing out and every weekend I basically come home to my parents house and am always bored. I feel like I'm not living life where as my old school, I felt alive and was having a lot of fun and felt like I was really becoming into myself. I'm actually crying as I type this. I'm glad that I'm closer so I can see my parents whenever but i regret transferring and I can't transfer back... |
Question: Problem with this girl? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 09:31 AM PST Well... Theres this girl that I really wanted to be friends with because shes really cool and we have the same interests. But for some reason everytime I talk to her she snaps at me. I texted my other friend that sits with me at lunch and he says that she says she doesn't like how I'm always touching her when I barley know her. I haven't touched her. One time I saw her down the hallway and swatted at her hair playfully and she has hugged me before. I dont know, I just really want to be friends with her and its making me upset. It's kinda stupid. I texted my friend that sits with her at lunch and I think he got annoyed about the whole thing and stopped texting me. When school starts back, I'm gonna feel so awkward. What should I do? |
Posted: 21 Nov 2015 09:27 AM PST I've talked to her about this, no change. The other day I was indifferent to her, she thought something was wrong with me, it's never her. What should I do? |
Posted: 21 Nov 2015 09:17 AM PST |
Question: How should I react to a friend who just finished playing the piano? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 09:15 AM PST My friend just played a piece on the piano for me. But to be honest it wasn't that great. Of course, I didn't want to tell her that, but then I didn't want to lie to her and tell her it was amazing - she knows herself it wasn't, I could tell. How should I react? |
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