I've always loved giving oral sex to my wife. I find it incredibly sexy to suck on her vagina. When I can hear she's aroused it turns me on more and I go wild. Do any other men enjoy giving their wives oral?

I had green discharge. I went to the DR. She swiped something and said I just have a lot of mucus. (but the discharge wasn't coming out green, she prob got a clear part) I never had sex that time either. never had sex, ever. scratch that, "that time" out

I never really understood this. All of my questions about the construct just get tossed in random sections, all drama questions seem to remain in the category, and all questions that have drama that's not easily solved by cultural/religious dogma seem to go to Psychology or Mental Health or Sociology. So what exactly is the role of the Marriage & Divorce section?

It's kind of a trick question because they both suck, but which can lead to more problems? The over-thinker who thinks he sucks at marriage but he's just insecure, lacking confidence, and lacking self esteem? Or the under-thinker who thinks they are awesome at marriage but he's struggling daily to keep his marriage together, can't communicate with her (then blames it on her being a "woman"), and would rather be out with the guys to not have to deal with her crap (thinks his sh*t don't stink and it's all her fault)? I would think that being great at marriage but thinking you suck has got to be a better scenario (albeit a sad one) than being really bad at marriage and thinking you are the best spouse your mate will ever have. Even though I might have embarrassed myself in the past and gave a different impression, I'm an imposter. There's not a day that I don't question my ability to be excellent. I have no idea where my skills are or where I am compared to my peers, all I know is that I feel like I could do better and I'm very humbled by how well other people SEEM to be doing compared to me and my wife. And when things do go well, I have a tendency to say that I just got lucky and that I only did what came natural to me so I didn't do anything that anyone else would have done. I've had Dunning Kruger Effected friends, they over-estimated their abilities on everything; so when things didn't work out for them, they blamed everything but themselves for their failures.

My husband and I chose to move in with his parents to save up for a house but the living situation has taken a toll on me. The problem is living with his father has made me uncomfortable, father in law impregnated my mother in law when she was 13 and he was 20, the only reason they were married was because he obtained a false birth certificate. Being someone who was abused as a child I have a hard time being comfortable around this man. I feel much more comfortable working long hours or visiting my parents to spend as little time possible there. My husband thinks I'm avoiding him because of how much time I spend away from home and being to create tension; I don't know how to tell him how I feel without offending him.

When I say inquisitive I don't mean asking if she's cheating on you over and over again; I'm saying asking the hard questions and trying to get into their psyche and know so much about them that you can say "yeah, I know that's how my wife would behave because she told me so".

I seriously can't tell the difference between my wife verbally noticing that we aren't the same (extroverting her thoughts) and her giving me a hard time (conflict). What is the difference between these things and what are telltale signs? P.S. - my wife is not the kind of person to tease someone for their differences, so when she thinks out loud I can't help but notice her serious tone and think she's bringing me a fight When I feel like I am being attacked due to her noticing (out loud) our differences, how do I best handle my emotions? Remember, I come from a back story of many REAL conflicts that started as disagreements, so I just expect all communications to fail this way now (I'm a bit of a pessimist when it comes to communication these days).

Do attorneys just play this off or do they really insistent on making sure you know the repercussions of hiding assets during a divorce? It has to be awkward when it becomes obvious that you are omitting some things like accounts, retirement, cars, or boats when totalling up all the assets to be split in a divorce. Please describe if you have been in that situation where your attorney knows you have not been entirely truthfully about everything. I am looking for people's personal experience.

Out of all my questions on here, this is the one question I've never had answers for. When people have "presumed as true" assumptions about marriage", where do these (often radical) ideas come from? Are they self made through anxiety or personal bias? Or are the given to us by a system?

My husband cheated on me badly. We were together for 6 years. He left me for someone then came back but when we were separated, i meet someone else. I thought i would be happy and officially left my husband. I just had it in my head all the things he did to me and it made me hate him more. After a while my husband begged me back and i finally gave in. One week later he runs into his ex (sons mother) after not communicating with her for so long and now they are back together. He uses the fact that i moved on and he cant forget that but yet he did so much worse. I know i might be stupid but i wanted to know if anyone had a simular expiernace and if you think he will finally come back? They had such a horrible past and fought a lot i did so much for him and he doesn't want to hear it. I made a mistake and just want him back.. It seems impossible he said he loved me then 2 days later changes when his ex is back... Please don't judge me. I need real advice..

STOP MOVING MY QUESTION TO OTHER SECTIONS AND GET A LIFE!

The answers here will be very interesting because success can on only be realized if something is measured; I'm very intrigued to see what you people value enough to measure in your lives and consider "successful".

This seems so backwards to me or is it just me overthinking...... I was about 8 or 9 and my parents had some friends over one day, they were all a little drunk and I was snooping on them. Anyway, i heard one of my dads friends said "guys want sex often because their sacs are full & they need the physical release, besides it makes them feel loved & close to their woman." Then his wife said "That may be true but we dont want sex with you often because you dont make us feel loved. We may want sex as bad as you but if we dont feel loved & close to you, its not going ta happen." A friend is divorcing a cheating husband & it made me think if the root of their problems were what my dads friends said that night. Its like the most popular questions, husbands stop romancing and wining & dining their girl then complain when she wont have sex; and woves deny sex then complain when husband masturbates to porn or half nude pics on social media. My question is, #1. Why is it that when dating, people are selfless and think about doing everything to get a mate but once they marry they become selfish and think only about what they want? #2. Do you think that after marriage both parties would be more inclined to step up their game so their marriage will remain exciting & fulfilling?

First, just let me say I'm doing this for fun bc I didn't know what to ask. At 19 I married the woman of my dreams, perfectly imperfect. 1 month after we married I went to navy boot camp. I went to ATT and A school d passed both top of my class. My wife moved down here with me and we have an off base apartment in town. I've been in for 1st navy birthday is coming up and so is my real birthday. I turned 20 in boot. My wife holds a job making $11 an hour. We have our first born on the way and she is in her scnd trimester.. We are preparing to move to San Diego. We bought a car here, the best I've ever owned and share it to get both of us to work. Right now we live a minimalist lifestyle as we will be moving to ca. Soon and don't want to move much. Both of our families support us. It feels nice that my wife has such faith in me, I asked her if I were to really attempt at becoming president and go through the whole process would she back me up and does she think I could and she said usher believes fully I could do anything. We are both Christian and try to live life by our faith and believe fully that God has credit for all of our blessings. So tell me what you think. Just doing this for fun guys

My wife and I moved in with her parents after I had a stroke caused by stressed related migraines. I was out of work for a few months and was evicted out of apartment we lived in. My vehicle was also reprocessed. The first month or so of living with my in-laws was ok. But it got to the point where they were pushing me to get a job and help out with the bills, even though I wasn't cleared to work yet. I found a job working nights at a oil plant about a week and half ago making close to $20 an hour. The in-laws are still pushing me to find a better paying job which is stressing me out. They threatened to kick me out if I didn't pay them back in full all the money I owe them for rhe bills. I called my parents and explained to them the situation going on, and offered me to live with them rent and bill free until I got back on my feet. I would have to quit my job necause my parents live 3 hours away from my job. I explained that to my wife, but she threatened me with divorce if I decided to leave for my parents. Should I stay with my in-laws which would possibly cause me to have another stroke and stay with my wife or move back in with my parents and possibly being served divorce papers by my wife?

We divorced she remarried. We fought over the fact Im a shameless womanizing jerk. Then she slept with me behind her current husbands back. Then her husband threw her out and she moved back in with our daughter and we're making a go of it as best we can. The only problem is she admits to loving me for being a jerk and I don't want to be that guy anymore. I just want to be a better husband this time around and a better father. That means I'm kind of done being a shameless kinky womanizer but now she's breaking out of her "shell" and I'm worried I've become to mundane for her. Will she leave me for not wanting to continue like I have? Actually I slept around on her when we were married. Then she cheated on her second husband with me. Now we're kind of back together and I'm trying to be a better man but she doesn't want me to be a better man she wants the old partier I use to be. Which is kind of ironic.

Hey guys, so my husband is in his mid 40s and i am late 20s. We have a beautiful 7month old son. Thing have been very rocky in my marriage lately and i bought my husband having inappropriate conversations with other females while i was pregnant and post pregnancy, I was in shock and this caused a huge problem in our marriage.. Now i do not trust him as much but working it out with him. Only problem is when he talks to female friends, i feel the need to question him and he gets all mad about it and this has been going on for a while….now he told me that either i get over the past and not accuse him or he is done with the marriage…. This is so sad because we said until death do us part…should i even continue a marriage knowing that my husband will snap and leave me if he doesn t get his way? what do you all thing? Caught ***

My husband and I met over three years ago, and have been married for about 15 months. Over the course of our marriage, we have both notedly become more lazy and passive, but he is getting to the point where he will come home from work, plop down on the couch, and watch sports while using his computer. I playfully pull him into the bedroom and dress him in clean clothes, trying to make it fun(ny), and I have found that I nearly have to beg him to take showers every couple days. We used to have a routine where we would wake together, get ready for work, come home and change, cook dinner together, shower, relax, and go to bed together. Now it's hard to get him to take a walk, listen to some music, or just have a conversation. He's lethargic. But the main issue is him showering. Any ideas?

I recently caught my husband sending pictures of himself to a random number, saying the length ans following with are you atill interest? Nobody answered back. When he was confronted he said he was looking for a couple to swing with. I ve never been okay with this. It makes me nasuated thinking about him with another girl and it hurts me severly thinking about how he is okay seeig me with another man. I just had a baby. We have sex as much as I feel up to it. Which is about 2 times a week. I go out of my way to make him happy but he thinks we are going through a rough spot. I m not sure how to feel about this. I m numb. I m hurt. I m sick. And I m frustrated. Nos when he tried to be romantic and put moves on me all I think about is him wanting to be with another girl and me with another man. Has anyone gone through this?

I would never have sex with another man,I just want to go on dates,my husband doesn't work he take care of the kids?he doesn't like to drink out smoke which is great he likes me to go out,but I don't like going out by myself.

Me and my husband just got married Sunday Nov.1st 2015.... before we got married we had our fight just like any relationship,,, he works nights and he would always send me a "i love you" message always but 3 days after we got married i stopped getting those messages... we been fighting a lot lately... i kinda want to call it quits... i tried talking to him about how i feel and i want to work it out and he gets like so bugged by it... i obviously love him and don't want to leave him but his attitude is starting to get me pissed off... i'm trying and hes not.... ugh first horrible fight after getting married.... we haven't fought so bad in like 6 months ...

Do this means he dosbt owe me back childsupport anymore. What do i do?