Friends: Question: Where is the best place to make new friends? |
- Question: Where is the best place to make new friends?
- Question: I keep getting bullied by friends and teachers, how do I stop this?
- Question: Im so lonley?
- Question: Advice to fit in at a new school?
- Question: Why are people always so cautious or feel unsure around people who are quieter than them?
- Question: Won t being myself just hurt others?
- Question: Is friendships really worth it? Am I making the right decision?
- Question: Why are girls so cliquish?
- Question: How to respond to bullying issues with a friend/enemy?
- Question: What should I do ?
- Question: What is an example from your life where kindness or compassion helped you delay gratification or strengthen your willpower?
- Question: Should I be mad if my gwo best friends kiss each other and don't tell me about it?
- Question: How to support girlfriend in this situation?
- Question: My friend read my message but didn t reply?
- Question: When you take a birthday friend out, can we agree amongst friends to pay some for the birthday person and they pay their own meal?
- Question: Was my coach wrong for doing this to me?
- Question: Help!! I got an F how do I tell my parents?
- Question: How can you make fun conversation?
- Question: Why does this friend act so strangely about this?
- Question: Should i drop them?
- Question: Letter for my best female friend. Need opnions? Preferably women.?
- Question: How to be more girly?
- Question: How can I stop being a loser?
- Question: COME POSSO INIZIARE UN TEMA SULL'AMICIZIA?
- Question: Parents won t let me go hang out at a friends house that lives right down the street because going over at 8 is to late?
- Question: A friend that never listens to me?
- Question: Am I a tell tale?
- Question: I'm very scared to tell my friend who I like?
- Question: How do you know if its a date or hang out?
- Question: I'm trying to make a CD with music from my best friend who lives far away, what are some good lone distance friendship songs?
- Question: Planning a trip of a week or two to Cancun, Mexico. what do i need? recommedations are highly appreciated.?
- Question: This person wants to ruin my life.?
- Question: Is it general that the most calmest/nicest/calmest people can turn voilent/ruthless individuals?
- Question: Please help! Feeling harassed by staff?
- Question: My friend doesn't celebrate Thanksgiving?
- Question: Is my best friend treating me like ****, or am I just overthinking it?
- Question: I need some help, I 'm getting sick of everyone????
- Question: Should I tell my good friend not to call me by a nickname?
- Question: How to stop Erections?
- Question: GIVE ADVICE WHAT DOES IT MEAN? WHY?? WHAT DO I DO?? NEED FEEDBACK!! BE HONEST READ!!?
- Question: Should I tell my good friend not to call me by a nickname?
- Question: Dilemma at my job?
- Question: Bringing our friends together for the first time, suggestions on making things go smoothly?
- Question: My ex-best friend turned really Emo.?
- Question: How can I hang out with pretty people in college if I'm not in a sorority?
- Question: What's up with my friend, why's she acting like this?
- Question: Friendship problems what do i do?
- Question: Best friend never contacts me. Please Answer.?
- Question: Can I tell my roommate not to have a mutual friend over that I m not friends with anymore?
- Question: How do I make friends in Brisbane?
- Question: Random acquaintance from high school all of a sudden starts messaging me? Should I be suspicious?
- Question: Do you thinks she's interested in me?
- Question: Should I buy her a present?
- Question: I need help! My friends are actually listening to stupid rumors someone is spreading about me.?
- Question: I just moved to a new school in a new country and i don't know how to make friends.. help please..?
- Question: Was my friend being rude?
- Question: A bunch of people's at my school hate me because of a little mistake. I haven't even talked to half of the people,?
- Question: Please read and answer with good advice? - Am I selectively bi-sexual?
- Question: How did priestly light the candile from outside for his experienet?
- Question: Friends don't invite me?
| Question: Where is the best place to make new friends? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 03:28 PM PST my friends are going down a bad road need new ones |
| Question: I keep getting bullied by friends and teachers, how do I stop this? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 03:18 PM PST Ever since my mother died, most of my friends started calling me 'mami boy' and telling me that I need my mami's signature to be their friend or talk to them. That's not the only problem though. My teachers are also doing the same thing and they are telling me that if I don't get my test signed by my mom, then I'll get an F, and they often push me and call me mami boy as well. I don't know what to do any more, can anyone help me? |
| Posted: 24 Nov 2015 03:16 PM PST I'm in college and I have my own studio apartment so I'm by myself at night. I have 4-5 good friends but they all have their own social circles that don't include me. They don't intentionally exclude me, but I just feel like I'm truly integrated into anyone's friend group. Plus I'm single. Its so hard to just start talking to girls I don't know. What can I do? |
| Question: Advice to fit in at a new school? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 03:11 PM PST I recently moved and am going to a brand new high school in the middle of the year. I've made several friends so I have people to talk to in class but it's not the same as back home. I was really well liked where I used to live, never officially in the popular group but I was friends with a few popular kids. I just got along with everyone, teachers liked me and I really felt at home. But at this new school the popular kids are vicious. They really are your stereotypical popular kids whereas back home they were human like the rest of us. I don't know any of the popular girls, just moved after all, but they talk to me like I'm inferior and very sarcastically. I don't understand how I could go from having tons of friends to being a second class citizen. I just want to move back home. Has anyone been in this situation. |
| Question: Why are people always so cautious or feel unsure around people who are quieter than them? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 03:04 PM PST I'm not complaining, bc most people seem obnoxious and bother me...but they tend to not joke around quiet people, overall act uncomfortable/ignore them, and alienate them. What about quiet people makes other people act like that? It's quite amusing, really, I'd just like to know the logic. |
| Question: Won t being myself just hurt others? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 03:03 PM PST I worry that "being myself" means not considering other people s feelings. The fact is that if I consider what everyone else wants, there s no way I can be myself and not hurt someone! This is creating a HUGE dilemma for me... how do I be myself and not hurt other people? For example, I m not a naturally good listener at all. I care how people feel so I ll try really hard to listen even when I don t care, but it takes so much out of me. I want to "be myself" and just ignore them when I really don t care, but I feel SO bad for them! I don t know what to do. |
| Question: Is friendships really worth it? Am I making the right decision? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 02:59 PM PST After being her friend since 5th grade (currently in 10th) and going through so much together,I just want to end it. Last year she s been stuck on her ex boyfriend that s been lying to her and just now found out the heart breaking truth. He changed my best friend which is a sister to me, I feel like I don t know her anymore.I understand she has struggles but everyone does. For the past year we ve been getting into countless of fights over everything and most of those fights I have to be the bigger person. She was obsessed or i guess in love with him but he hurt her many times, I tried to keep her happy even forgetting my own problems. Now I feel empty,out of it , I feel like I just can t live. I m losing motivation in everything. Her condition is just getting worst but so is mines.Lately she s been doing things that I do, it s like she s trying to take my place in our group (we are a group of 3 friends). I can t even express who I am anymore because she s taking away all that I have to live for.I tired to talk to her but I just can t take it anymore, is it right to end it? Does it makes sense that I think I shouldn t be her friend if I don t even wanna be near her at all? Everytime I put myself in a situation with her, she makes me feel like I m the bad person but I m trying my best. Do you think I m the bad guy?I just don t know what to do I need another perspective on the matter to help me think it through. Thank you for your time and for answering my questions(if you do) |
| Question: Why are girls so cliquish? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 02:42 PM PST Okay, so on Sunday my friend invited me to come over her house and I was not home, she did not text just called and sent me a snap chat. When I got home I was able to see what she sent, it was about three hours later... I felt so bad so I just texted saying sorry about my mess up. Both on texting and snap chat. My friend never texted back saying "you know it is totally fine don't worry" so now I am wondering why she has not texted me since then is that a good reason to be mad? and why are girls so cliquish? even friends? because I notice with my one friend that she can be all about you one day and then move on to someone new the next? |
| Question: How to respond to bullying issues with a friend/enemy? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 02:41 PM PST I know this girl through our moms. Ever since 3rd grade they (along with her cousins) would come over my house to trick or treat. We got along okay until in 5th grade when I starting being bitchy about Halloween. It wasn't anything personal, I just thought the group was too large and I wouldn't be able to get as much candy so they stopped coming over. Out of coincidence she was in my 6th grade homeroom. We never really talked until 8th grade when we had gym together. Everything went okay until when my brother was in serious condition. A few days before he passed away she messaged me via kik and saying stuff like "I bet he's going to die in a couple days" and "He's going to die so he doesn't need to do that" I stopped talking to her but she did kik me a few times after his death saying "Are you okay?" and "I think you need therapy". (Note: she rarely texts or messages me) She stopped messaging me until last week.I deleted the app and created a new one but TODAY she texted me a pic of her bday cake through my # which I never even gave in the first place. *couldn't fit it all in* I know she messaged me a week ago and today hinting that it's bday so I would get her gifts because when she was on rage with the mean messages she did say "Be thankful I'm getting you a bday gift". Idk what to do because if I don't get her gifts and she gets me gifts for my bday it would be completely rude but I also just want her to stop talking to me. It also seems like she's always in competition with me. For example she got a job but quit and never came back until she learned that I took that job. I never told her about it but she texted me out of the blue asking me about work and that she wants to come back. She never actually came back but she worked one day while I was out and she never said anything about it. I think she just has depression issues because I remember when we were still cool she was talking about how she needed lose weight (when she's perfectly healthy), her insomnia, etc. I was actually going to talk to her about it and say sorry if I ever hurt her before but right before I did she blasted me with mean things about my brother which is unacceptable. What should I do? |
| Posted: 24 Nov 2015 02:38 PM PST So today is my birthday. My friend (Let's call him Jumbo) wanted to be nice so he texted the girl I liked to tell me "Happy Birthday" and told her to hug me (Weird, but whatever). So I went through the day and she only told me "Happy Birthday" right after someone else said it, and no hug, of course. So I get home and I am talking to my friends on Xbox Live and Jumbo is texting her asking her and he started saying, "I am not going to tell Chris what I want to do." and then he said "Kick him from the party, I want to ask y'all something." Now they are ignoring me. What should I do? |
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| Question: Should I be mad if my gwo best friends kiss each other and don't tell me about it? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 02:19 PM PST My best guy friend and best girl friend kissed each other and they did not tell me about it. I found out through a mutual friend. It hurts me because she promised that she would never do it. What should i do? |
| Question: How to support girlfriend in this situation? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 02:13 PM PST we're both freshman in college and currently my girlfriend is incredibly tired and stressed because all five of her housemates ditched her last min for housing. she does have one friend that's still looking, but she's also currently under house arrest and fighting with her parents. when she first initially told them about her situation, her mom was understanding and seemed like she would allow her to live on campus next year, but after going home, an hour later she told me that her mom said "ill talk to your dad" and "no wonder they ditched you because youre so annoying and go back on your word, even though her mom just went back on her word when she said she can live on campus next year. right now, she's just done with everything, tired, and stressed because she's unhappy at home, but at the same time, her parents are threatening to make her live at home next semester and that'll leave her friend...what can i do besides just keep on texting her, telling her something will work out, and stuff? any actions that i can do?? |
| Question: My friend read my message but didn t reply? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 02:03 PM PST I asked my friend about a question for school and she saw it but never answered. I know that she might be busy but it was a text that you could reply yes or no to, and we re not fighting either. |
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| Question: Was my coach wrong for doing this to me? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 01:09 PM PST Today I have my varsity basketball game, and yesterday my team had practice. If we ask, we're always allowed to come in a little early before practice and warm up on our own(only if the coach is there, and he was). So I asked my coach if I could come in and practice and he told me, "no, no practicing before a game". My little sister had a concert a few hours before my game, and when I drove her to school, I saw some people on my team warming up early. Was it wrong for my coach to tell me no, and tell the other girls yes? To clarify things, my sister and I attend the same school. |
| Question: Help!! I got an F how do I tell my parents? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 01:09 PM PST I always get good grade usally always A but today I took a science quiz and I got an F imstudied the wrong thing how do I tell my parents because I want to have a sleepover with 2 of my friends?!?! How should I ask them |
| Question: How can you make fun conversation? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 12:42 PM PST Whenever all my friends at school start a conversation, they always have something interesting or funny to say and when they continue and get deeper and deeper into the conversation, they get funnier and more jokey at the same time. All my conversations are all serious though, I can never be fun in my conversations. How can i make a fun conversation without being so serious or awkward? |
| Question: Why does this friend act so strangely about this? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 12:42 PM PST My friend Dan recommended Meetup to another friend years ago, and it worked for him. Dan even chats with a person that our friend made through Meetup. However, when I joined Meetup on my own (I didn't even know Dan had recommended it to anyone), Dan gives me complete ATTITUDE. He even went so far as to LIE that he didn't know what it was!! And when I mention my friend that I made through Meetup, Dan gives me... this attitude like it's so lame I use Meetup. Why does he only accept our other friend doing the SAME thing, but not me?? |
| Posted: 24 Nov 2015 12:41 PM PST so anyways im really close friends with this guy from my church. But his cousins, around our age, is always saying how they should be included IN EVERYTHING just bc theyre his cousins. And i am friends with one of his cousins. Im not sure if i should say anything....so should i tell them off? |
| Question: Letter for my best female friend. Need opnions? Preferably women.? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 12:22 PM PST So my best female friend her birthday is coming up and i decided to write her a letter. Now i just need some opinions if i did it well or if i messed some parts up :p I've put the letter in an image in annex because it was too long. I changed her name in ZZ to keep it anonymous. Girls/women only: Would you like to receive a letter like this on your birthday? |
| Question: How to be more girly? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 11:53 AM PST Ok so I'm sick of being a tomboy. At the time I thought it was cool but now I want to be more girly. Not annoying girly, just like make up shopping girly. Today in social studies I was talking to my friend and I said someday I'm gonna have a wife and kids when I meant husband -.- that's kind of disturbing..... Lolololol anyway how do I become girly? Thanks! No rude answers! |
| Question: How can I stop being a loser? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 11:46 AM PST I do everything wrong and get confused about obvious things. I've had so many embarrassing and awkward moments at school it's hard to count. I get made fun of and hardly have any friends. Sometimes I wonder if the friends I do have even like me! Nothing goes my way, ever. I'm clumsy, awkward, insecure, and plain weird. I can't get my life together! No matter what, I always get nervous in public and do something to embarrass myself. Everyone at my school ignores me and knows me as the awkward one. I'm tired of being a loser. I want things to go my way... Help?! And I have a hopeless crush on a guy who's way too hot for me and doesn't know I exist. It's just a mess- everything has been making me upset lately. I need some tips on how to stop being awkward. I want to be confident and less nervous around other people and change my image. |
| Question: COME POSSO INIZIARE UN TEMA SULL'AMICIZIA? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 11:43 AM PST devo fare un tema dove devo descrivere una mia aamicizia che è finita per un litigio ecc...come posso iniziare? |
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| Question: A friend that never listens to me? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 11:25 AM PST He keeps asking me for advices ,i spend hours of my day listening to his problems and advising him and in the end of the day he doesn't even take them into consideration Sometimes i feel like im wasting my time because i know that he won't even listen to me And what's worse is that after some time he'll come back saying * you were right* .Like he knows im right but he never worked by my advice and this is REALLY exhausting me What should i do? |
| Posted: 24 Nov 2015 11:17 AM PST So in school during maths class I sit next to this boy. For two week this boy have been taking my pens books copies etc and won't give them back until the end of the class. He also writes on them with tippex and throws them around the room. He's not the only one in the class who does it but he's the only one who does it to me. Today I got really annoyed so I told the teacher that I wanted to move because he was annoying me. Some people thought I was a tell tail. Am I? |
| Question: I'm very scared to tell my friend who I like? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 11:10 AM PST I feel really scared to tell what girl I like. Because I feel that my friend will go up to her and tell her I like her? Should I just tell my friend? My friend wants to know who I like. |
| Question: How do you know if its a date or hang out? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 11:08 AM PST Me and this girl have worked together for a short time. We talked numerous times and I felt we had a good connection. I even felt there may have been some attraction. She quit the job and a few months later we texted and made plans to go out for lunch. Is this a date or friendship? |
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| Posted: 24 Nov 2015 10:29 AM PST last year i took a two week vacation trip to Puerto Rico, Aguadilla and it was phenomenal, stayed in Puerta del mar condo at Crashboat beach but it was mostly for sleeping and chilling. at night time basically around 11pm i was going to sleep and waking up at around 6am and head out to the beaches, i visited around 10 beautiful lonely beaches, how i knew about them? i have a friend from PR who has family members there and wrote me down directions on how to get basically everywhere, sometimes i picked them up which i did not mind company at all but this time i dont think i know anyone who has gone to Cancun. so i dont want an expensive place beacuse i won't be there a lot, i want to explore but here's an idea of i want to do. Driving-at least take a whole day to look around, bars, clubs, definally beach hunting most of the time, not a pro at surfing but i get to ride wild waters, snorkel, swimming and fighting against waves. last but not least a place where i can rent a car. oh and the best time of the year to visit. thanks all. |
| Question: This person wants to ruin my life.? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 10:28 AM PST Here's the deal. There's this dude in different High School, and (of course) he's popular, rich and has tons of friends. Now the thing about him is - he LOVES spreading rumors in order to ruin someones reputation. It can go from a tiny spread like "He's a freak, ignore him", to something extremely major f.e. "I heard he 'screws' with his own sister, and he's parents want to throw him out aswell", "He's mentally retarded, make sure he gets beaten up". And the worst thing about these rumors - people always believe it! My former 'best' friend, kinda teamed up with him recently and I simply KNOW I'm the next target, because he already told some people I'm pathetic loner. He often visits my HS aswell, so I'm worried that something might happen, maybe even tomorrow. So please, help needed! @Alicia, what can I say to the school counselor? A guy from DIFFERENT school is trying to spread rumors? There's nothing they can do about it, since he doesn't belong here. Sure I can tell my parents, but they will probably tell me that I should just ignore it. But thanks for the answer! |
| Posted: 24 Nov 2015 10:28 AM PST I have a friend (very silent, kind and helpful person) who was constantly annoyed by another person who would tease her with a name, back at school. During science class the mean girl happened to sit behind my friend and started sticking pieces of sticky notes on her back writing some trash words on it. My friend took them off and told the her nicely that she doesnt like it and to stop doing it. The girl, slapped my friend, telling her to look front, but my friend remained calm and approached the teacher, and was told to write a complaint note to the vice principal. This pissed off the girl (as she already had a dention earlier), she confronts my friend and my friend confronts back and again the girl slaps her. Then my friend again calls the teacher, the teacher scolds the girl and even my friend interferes and this time the girl slaps (for the last time) my friend hard. This is where my friend turns to rage and violently starts punching the girl all over (not using the traditional hair-pulling, cat fight), while cursing her at the top of her voice. This was obviously shocking, I mean my friend is a short cute girl, she was the type of girl where youd not expect her to use voilence, and the other girl, who was taller, *****-type thought that my friend wouldn't react. After this incident the my friend was never made fun of ever. Are most quiet people like this ? coz I think its cool ;-) |
| Question: Please help! Feeling harassed by staff? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 10:03 AM PST I just started a program at an institute. I thought everyone was just being very friendly, especially this certain staff. However, as he s pointed out, im his favorite student. He tells me to sign up for certain leader roles and i did. I have always been shy so i joined to help me get better at speaking out. But little by little, i have noticed strange things. When i got a few awards, he said i wish you could join in everything so i could give you all the awards. The way he said it made me shudder. If one of my classmates needed something, i tried to be nice and help them out. But that meant going to him. So i asked. He did say it couldn t be done but if i needed anything, he would try to his best ability to get it just for me. Im already feeling so uncomfortable that now im actually checking to see if hes not in the building before proceeding. But yesterday took the cake. The plane ticket was too expensive so i decided to stay on campus. I was looking for somewhere to sit. Quiet and peace. I go to the building since i thought everyone was gone. To my horror, it s not. He asks me what im doing for thanksgiving? I say im staying here. He then invites me to his home. All i can see is red flags at this point. I try to be polite and reply by saying can i Bring my friend? as an excuse to later say i cant. |
| Question: My friend doesn't celebrate Thanksgiving? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 09:40 AM PST It just seems so weird but I also feel bad for her. I asked her what she was doing and she said nothing because her grandma has to go to work at Walmart and her brothers are going to be with their dad so she's just gonna watch movies with her mom. This other girl said she thought she was lying for attention and then my friend started crying. Do some people really have to work on thanksgiving? |
| Question: Is my best friend treating me like ****, or am I just overthinking it? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 09:37 AM PST It's kindof alot to explain here, so it would really be better to talk to someone mature about it. you can IM me or email me at jessi6459 on yahoo. But basically my best friend moved away this summer. Her mom married this rich guy that she doesn't really like, but they moved and she and I talk on skype all the time, but she's basically just being really short with me and stuff and acting all conceited and bitchy and stuff. I can give you examples, but again it's too much to put here. |
| Question: I need some help, I 'm getting sick of everyone???? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 09:23 AM PST I'm so sick and tired of being the one who has to start conversation. On facebook, over the phone or in person. I wish people who stay they like me, would start some conversations with me. for some reason no one has anything to do with me. It's bs. I am not mean and I am fun to hang out with. I feel this wall is in between me and people. I am just tired of watching people hang out with each other. while they forget me. I don't understand how to fix this problem??? It is a problem because it's infecting my social needs!!! |
| Question: Should I tell my good friend not to call me by a nickname? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 09:18 AM PST My friend always did call me Samantha. Recently he started calling me Sam. I usually don't care what people call me, but with him always calling him one thing, it seems weird to me. How do I tell him nicely that I'd prefer for him to call me Samantha? I don't want to seem rude. |
| Question: How to stop Erections? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 09:17 AM PST OK so I'm 16 and basically today at school I had 2 boners one was beause me and this girl in my first block class that I'm friends with just stare at each other in the middle of class and have mini staring contest. The other was beause everybody was called to look at this model car in my third block and this girl literally was like shoulder to shoulder with me even though theres plenty and it happens when she lays on my shoulder. How do i make them stop so i dont embaress my self? |
| Question: GIVE ADVICE WHAT DOES IT MEAN? WHY?? WHAT DO I DO?? NEED FEEDBACK!! BE HONEST READ!!? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 09:15 AM PST There's this girl who is confusing me and creepy. The last two classes I haven't caught her staring at me but before I would catch her staring at me. Once a little over a week ago she literally couldn't take her eyes off of me according to my friend. She never tries to talk to me. She doesn't smile or say hi or anything. One time she followed me back from the library she was literally right behind e but hasn't done that since. The last 2 classes I catch her looking once or maybe a few times during class. My friend says if she really liked me she would smile or try to talk to you which she hasn't. I don't know what to do or believe. Sometimes I get the feeling that she is looking at me but when I look up she isnt unless she cant hide it well. Help me! The only time we talked was for a class game and it was awkward that was like 4 weeks ago though. My friend says shes a ***** and has attitude . He says not to ask her out unless u want to be hurt emotionally. She started talking to another guy in my class and they sat next to each other looking at stuff on her computer and talking about something. But the whole time i had this sick feeling in my stomach. I heard her telling the guy that she needed help with some book for class so they were going to meet after get got off work on Sunday at 9 pm at her house. He has no curfew. What does it mean?I don't see her again til Dec 1. If she wants me to do anything why is she meeting with the other guy at night? The guy isn't dating her. i think the guy has a girlfriend already. She just needed his help for something for a class project apparently. |
| Question: Should I tell my good friend not to call me by a nickname? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 09:11 AM PST |
| Posted: 24 Nov 2015 09:11 AM PST Okay this is my dilemma at my job. (Long Story) 1. I live an hour away and have to work from 6:45am to 9:15am. I have to come back to work for the afternoon shift which starts from 2:30pm to 6:30pm. So this means I have 4 hours of nothing to do. I can t drive home because that will be hard on my car driving an hour home and back to work. 2. The people at my job are very friendly. But it seems as if I am the third wheel. There is my manager whom runs the entire center. Then there is me and two other girls that work with me. The reason why I feel like the third wheel is because they always having conversations with each other, complimenting each other(excluding me) and soon as they come in they seem excited to see each other. Now maybe I m overthinking the situation but I don t like feeling like a tag along. 3 is a crowd and I had to deal with this at literally every job and in my own personal life. My bestfriend had another friend she liked..and then there was me. Come to find out later both of them were just being fake to me just for them to get closer. And the reason they got closer was because of the hate they had for me. I m nervous that this is happening here as well but I m not sure. I need some advice 😞😞😞😞😞 |
| Posted: 24 Nov 2015 09:10 AM PST This holiday season my fiancé and I are bringing our friends together for the first time. The concern is that our friends are polar opposites. My friends are more open minded and cultured while his friends are more closed off and limited in interests. My friends love to work a room and meet new people while his friends seem to naturally shut out anyone who isn't in their core group. It'd be great to get some tips on how to break the ice so that these differences in personalities/interests don't make things awkward. Edit: In response to one answer, I love my fiancé's friends however, in his own words my fiancé has said they were one dimensional and not open minded or welcoming to outsiders. This doesn't make them bad people or make my friends automatically superior in my mind at all. Just an accurate depiction of their social behaviors. |
| Question: My ex-best friend turned really Emo.? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 09:04 AM PST I am also emo, but more punk. We use to talk a lot and Hang out and she use to not be So emo. We were both known as the 2 emo girls. A year ago we had stopped talking and I started dyeing my hair and she also started. Everytime I see her she wears heavy black make up that she didn t use to wear and she always has her hood on and wears all black. People I talk to call her the really emo girl. I recently dyed my hair bright red and after 5 days so did she? Everytime we see each other she avoids me and walks away fast. It s awkward but I don t know if I should leave it or try talking to her again? |
| Question: How can I hang out with pretty people in college if I'm not in a sorority? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 08:54 AM PST I know that sounds rude and horrible but seriously what does one have to do to hang out with pretty people? Do I have to have money? A nice car? A lot of followers on social media? |
| Question: What's up with my friend, why's she acting like this? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 08:53 AM PST We're both 16 and met 3 months ago, since then we've been hanging out & we have our own squad with 3 other girls. we immediately clicked and our friendship is based on sarcasm & banter which is cool. so, lately she's been acting very weird. things have become complicated between us. she doesn't seem to want to talk me as much. i feel like she's taking me for granted. like, when i ignore her, she tries hard to get my attention back and make me not mad at her. but when i am paying attention to her, she's very mean. for example, yesterday she was supposed to go with us to a cafe, but ended up going with her friend. so i texted her 'WHERE ARE YOU?' & she just replied with the name of the location & it was very bland. after i went home, she posted in the squad chat group if we wanted to do something on friday, and i jokingly 'yeah so you can ditch us again' she noticed i was upset with her, so she spammed me on facebook with likes and funny comments and honestly that made my night. let's move to today. our friends & i were walking and she ran into us and hugged my friend, and when i came in to hug her, she was like no get away. so i got really mad and ignored her all day. she noticed that & before we went home she hugged me very tightly but i was still angry. and honesty, i thought she would text me asking what's wrong or whatever but she never did. i dont want to drop out friendship bc i like her very much, but this is emotionally draining me and i dont know what to do :( |
| Question: Friendship problems what do i do? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 08:36 AM PST I am trying to put back together a friendship that broke senior year(this year).These people were friends since babies and they just randomly stopped talking. any ideas to help them would be helpful thanks. |
| Question: Best friend never contacts me. Please Answer.? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 08:31 AM PST My best friend of many years never contacts me. When we were in middle school we became best friends and then she moved away. She used to call me and we would talk on the phone. Over time she stopped contacting me. I always had to be the one to initiate everything. It seemed like she did not want to be bother. I would confront her about it and she would always say that she is busy. She has been doing this for a long time. I decided to not contact her to see if she would call me and she never does. It was my birthday Sunday and she did not even call to say happy birthday. I made an effort to say happy Birthday to her. She didn't respond, so the next day I asked if she got my message. She said yes, and that she did not have time to reply back. It upsets me that she always pushes me off to the side, as if she can't make time for to talk to me every now and then, but can make time to do things with other people. I am hurt by this, as she is the only real close friend I have ever had. |
| Question: Can I tell my roommate not to have a mutual friend over that I m not friends with anymore? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 07:58 AM PST I moved in with my best friend a few months ago. We have a mutual close friend. The other week we got in a fight with her but it was blown out of proportion by the friend. This friend decided to text me the next day a whole bunch of nonsense and not want to make-up even though I wasn t mad about anything. Then she texted my roommate clearing the air and making plans with her. Basically it seems like this friend of mine does not care that I am upset we haven t meant and it seems like she doesn t want to be friends. My issue now is having her at my apartment. I don t want to see this girl because I ve always been there for her and I feel screwed over. Am I allowed to tell my roommate that she cannot have her over if I am home ? |
| Question: How do I make friends in Brisbane? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 07:10 AM PST I've been in Brisbane for about 4-5 months now and I haven't made many friends, just some friendly acquaintances. It's not that I'm unsociable; I'm shy but when I studied in another country before coming to Australia, I was able to make a lot of friends. I can take the initiative. But I feel a bit intimidated here in Australia. The people are super nice, but I feel like they don't really want international friends, especially as they have their own friends here. I've talked to many international students but maintaining friendships are hard because we don't have much in common other than not being locals (we only hang out because we're on the same boat, but have almost nothing to talk about, or we don't like to go to the same places). I'm not saying befriending locals may yield better results but I would like to be given a chance, especially because I like to meet new people. I joined a club in my uni but they all seem so close-knit and I feel like an intruder. Has anyone been in this position, and is it just a matter of time before I can make friends? And for any Brisbaners, if you met an international student who had the same interests and sense of humor as yourself, would you include them in your friend circle? |
| Posted: 24 Nov 2015 07:07 AM PST So just 24 hours ago, I got a facebook message request from a girl that I kinda knew from high school. I just graduated college so its been almost five years. Not to mention she graduated a year ahead of me, so thats SIX years! This girl, we werent close AT ALL. We were acquaintances at best. We started off as friends on facebook but I kind of do yearly facebook purges, where if I dont talk to you or see you on a regular basis, then you get unfriended (its sounds a lot worse than it actually is) and unfortunately she was on of those people that got unfriended. So yesterday I guess, she just starts messaging me out of the blue. Remember, we have no ties in which to keep in touch, we have NOTHING in common, except for the fact that we went to the same high school. So she starts by saying "hey remember me? and I respond with "oh yeah, whats up?" just to be cordial. and she replies with "nothign much just getting ready for dance" and in my mind im just like 'ok??' and I say "thats cool!" she responds with some more small talk . my point is, i feel really suspicous when people who I hardly know start talking to me as if im their best friend. Its just that I havent talked to this girl in like, six years. A lot has changed in six years. Should I just come out and ask her? Do I even have a reason to be suspicious? im not an extrovert so the whole "just be friendly" thing may not really work for me...any ideas? |
| Question: Do you thinks she's interested in me? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 06:34 AM PST There's this girl I know at a studio I go to, to record my music. There's a basement there with a microphone and a little stage. I was practicing. And a few people were sitting on the couches watching me. One of them was a girl i like. I sang a song from john legend for fun. When I looked up at her I noticed she was twirling her hair a bit and grooming it with her hands while looking at me singing. Do you think she was doing that cause she's into me or just coincidence. And I talked to her afterwards and when I left I gave her a hug and tickled her for a second and she let out a little laugh/squeal and said "hey dont tickle me!" But in a playful way. She wasn't mad or uncomfortable by me tickling her. It was a positive response... |
| Question: Should I buy her a present? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 05:59 AM PST I have a friend couple who had a baby earlier this year. I do not usually give gifts (birthday and x-mas) to my friends, however I was thinking of getting their baby a gift for x-mas. Would it be appropriate to do so without giving them any presents? P.S. One of them has been my close friend for 13 years (known him since I was 12) |
| Posted: 24 Nov 2015 05:03 AM PST Some boy that I don't even like gave me a ride home last night, and someone started a rumor and now all my friends are not replying to my texts. I really just need to talk to someone unrelated cause it's too much detail to list here. you can IM me or email me at jessi6459 at yahoo |
| Posted: 24 Nov 2015 04:53 AM PST Back in my own country, the only time where i ever changed schools was when i was moving from primary school to secondary school. It was not difficult for me to make friends then because i knew everyone was feeling the same way as i was, nervous and scared. So, i was not afraid to go and say hi, and when i did that it was not awkward at all as they obviously also needed and wanted friends as they also did not know anyone. But i just moved to and international school and i will be here for 2 years. Everyone is friendly and stuff, but since i moved in the middle of the school year, everyone seems to have their own friends. I just follow a bunch of girls in my class but it is just awkward. I sit with them at lunch but it feels like i sit alone since I'm sitting at the end of the table and none of them talk to me. They have inside jokes and stuff which i don't understand. Im just really scared that i won't make friends. I had 2 close friends back home and i knew and was friends with everyone in my level. I just don't know what to do. Im just so desperate right now. I have cried about this many times and I'm just so scared please help |
| Question: Was my friend being rude? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 04:37 AM PST Was my friend being rude when she said " I think you should braid my hair" as apposed to saying are you able to braid my hair please. Also I recorded her at karaoke singing a song and she's getting so defensive, telling me to delete it cause she don't know who I send my videos too. Also she took a picture of me without me knowing which was fine but when I took a picture of her she got so upset. |
| Posted: 24 Nov 2015 03:36 AM PST So about a week ago a fairly well known girl at my school was presenting a project. It was very serious as if she won she would move on in a competition. I was trying to hold in the laughter from a joke someone said and ended make a snort laugh. I kept giggling throughout the presentation without control. The girl seemed kind of sad. I did feel bad because I thought I made someone hate me even though we haven't talked before. Now, I'm fairly quite. Most of my friends are upperclassmen and I sit alone at lunch. I did this on purpose so I could have a low profile. This situation has kind've changed that. Anytime I talk to any of the girls friends they seemed very discussed by me. I was also put in a group with the girl and she whispered to another person a lot. I later found out one my friends got mad because someone back talked me. Hat should I do? Talking isn't really my specialty so I can't do that. |
| Question: Please read and answer with good advice? - Am I selectively bi-sexual? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 01:58 AM PST I'm 16. So here's the thing: when I see pretty celebrities, girls, grinds: I admire them, feel jealous sometimes, but I don't wish to pursue them or feel attracted to them the waA week later, I was convinced that I was straight, and stopped feeling that way towards her. The second girl: I recently met this girl who I think is a foreigner, she doesn't speak in our accent. Which makes her interesting. At first I looked at her and thought: She's pretty. Now I imagine myself doing something like kissing her and I don't really mind it. Although I don't feel this way towards random hot girls (that I wish I looked like) or hot celebrities, or my friends. I imagined myself in a romantic relationship my friend, who's pretty, and felt like throwing up. I don't feel infatuated by girls at all. It's only these two girls. Is there such thing as Selectively Bi? Do you think I am? |
| Question: How did priestly light the candile from outside for his experienet? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 01:49 AM PST |
| Question: Friends don't invite me? Posted: 24 Nov 2015 01:13 AM PST My friends and I were at a school sport together and we were all in a car ride back home and my friend starting inviting everyone to his house for a party, everyone but me and I was sitting right there while my 4 other friends were invited but I wasn't then my friend started calling people to see if they wanted to come over too. This is not the first time this has happened but I can't help but feel I am the problem. I need help to know why I am not invited |
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