All I do is watch YouTube videos about billy mays and memorize all his catchphrases he says and research facts about billy mays, I have been reading fanfictions about him and my girlfriend is slowly hating me because of it. I need help quick .

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My mom is a nice and fun mom... I love her so much but she stresses me out! She forces me enter contests, and I am grateful that she cares about my future, but its too much I can handle... I have enough projects, and homework as it is and I have a social life too! I love her to death but she makes me really angry sometimes... But I am able to keep my emotions stable and set them aside. I just need some advice. I don't want to confront her. What should I do besides confront her about my feelings? I am getting super depressed. My mom says that depression is just all in my head but its affecting my daily activities... Please help.

I'm 15, he's 16. I'm mixed with white and quarter Mexican, he's mixed with black and white. his mom is white and dad is black. he lives with his sister and brother, his mom and step dad. his step dad is white and so is his mom. he's a great guy, he dresses proper, act and talks proper. makes good grades, has a scholarship for playing baseball, strict parents, and overall a great guy. his last relationship lasted for a year, and has had a deep conversation about how he doesn't date just to date. although we do not date because I don't want to go against my parents, he's such a sweet heart. he constantly tells me I'm beautiful, and just says sweet stuff. now here is where my parents come in. I'm not aloud to date, let alone a mixed boy. and I respect my parents, that is why him and I are not serious. my parents believe all black people are bad, but I believe they're not as he is living proof all black guys aren't the same. I think if he wasn't mixed my parents would really like him. I just don't think they will be able to get over his race, so what I'm asking is do you have any advice? how can I introduce him to my parents? how can I get my parents to except him? what should I say/do? thank you in advanced!

My abusive ex messed with some of my colleagues and now they are blaming me for the threaths the recieved because if it werent for me he would not have done that? They are calling me selfish for only thinking about myself and disregard the possible effects of my breakup on other people. I never introduced my ex to any of them...he tracked them down himself I dont wanna get fired in the end. How do I prove that I have no control.of his behavior and left.him because he abused me and I had to because what he did to me was awful and I had to think of my own well being (he messed with my colleagues because I left him)

lesson learned **** all you sarcastic assholes i was tryng to get a different perspective, i wasnt "snooping" we live together and i was packing.. i do have alot of things i can post about but i needed help, a different perspective not stupid answers..if anything you are here as well.. online because you have nothing better to do than troll people

I'm 18 and I haven't had sex in 2 and a half years the last time i had sex or kissed a guy i was almost 16. I have only had sex with 2 guys and I'm 18! I have only kissed 3 guys so I'm really too innocent for my age and it really bothers me everyday! I'm afraid i will never get to kiss or have sex with a guy ever again! What should I do?! I'm so ashamed I've only had sex with 2 guys:/ I don't have a license or car right now so I have no way of going anywhere right now but I plan on getting it soon. I feel like I'm going crazy. I feel like I want something bad to happen to people that have sex. It really bothers me. I can't say I've really experienced sex yet. I'm practically a virgin. I'm really pretty and a lot of guys say I'm hot but I don't feel as hot as other girls because I've only had sex with 2 guys and they've probably been with atleast 4 or more. I've already have sex and it's hard cause I had to give it up after I exprienced it It's embarrassing to tell guys I've only been with 2 guys

I'm 14, but my little brother is 10. because of anger he's been put in a group home where he lives there but he can ear time home if he's good. Friday my dad and me went to pick him up for these next 5 days. he went to the office and i waited in the hall. when I was there, this 1 boy maybe my brother's age was yelling and cussing in the hall. this 1 sorta chunky older woman, like 40 or 50 comes out and lays him on his belly on the floor, the puts his hands behind his lower back and puts 1 leg over his and sat on his upper legs, 1 leg of hers o each side of his. he cussed and tried to push her tush off but it never moved at all. he tried to push her legs out but they didn't move either. he cried and tried to free his hands but her hands were strong and held his behind him. she stayed sat on him. he saw me and cried really loud, cussed at her. he begged me to help him push her off, said he can't! she saw me and looked serious at me. she goes, "you need to leave please." I looked at how frustrated he was, sat on by her and she said, "NOW, ok?" I didn't wanna get sat on by her like he was, so i did what she said! my brother came out ad said that boy is pretty tough too. she KNOWS how to sit o him though, ugh. when we go back, what can I say to him, to help him? is that fair? he got sat on by her like that, that's ot fair is it? how can I help him?

I just got hired as a caregiver in a group home for mentally disabled patients. My shift is Saturday and Sunday 10pm-6am. I will also have another worker will me. I was just curious what kind of work goes on for third shift?

I am sorry. I should say, "is it possible that people pay money *to get what they want* from others, in order to avoid meaningful relationships with other human beings.

I feel like such a fool. Dang ! I took a telecommuting job ( i work from home) and my male boss asked that I open a shared gmail address. Since we work closely together i developed strange unrequited feelings for him.. Anyway Now it hit me that Google monitors all my activity and saves it and all my activity is being saved in the google account. I feel so dumb that i didn't even realize that!!! I had this inherently wrong illusion of privacy !!!! I am very embarrassed because he probably sees things about me that I would never reveal to anybody - that i feel sexually attracted to him, what i really do in working hours, etc. I don't know what to do???? Should I resign??? I feel duped and naive.. Plus I really need the money and i receive a nice salary...but i think i have made such a fool of myself that i can't talk with him in a professional manner anymore. I can't believe what had happened to me. Please help me... And don't tell me I'm dumb because I know that already :(

Just by looking into their eyes that they are in trouble or how they behave around others?

Hola me llamo Roxana y soy Cubana. Yevo aproximadamente 5 años viviendo en Miami y tengo un novio de 24 años hace 6 meses y algo. Yo tengo 14 y no estoy embarazada pero planeo estarlo pronto como para los 16 porque estoy a 15 dias de cumplir 15. Mi mama esta de acuerdo y la familia de el tambien. La pregunta es si el iria preso si eso yegara a pasar. Nosotros nos amamos y apesar de que tengo 14 no me considero inmadura, yo creo que soy lo suficientemente madura para asumir mis responsabilidades y cargar con las cosas que yo misma me echo ensima. No es por ser irrespetuosa pero yo se lo que estoy asiendo y no piendo que este mal aparte tengo el apoyo de mi familia so si no ban a hacer un comentario constructivo porfavor ahorrencelos porque de verdad soy muy feliz y me encanta la idea de ser madre porque eh cuidado niños antes y los adoro aparte trabajo y mi novio me apoya mucho y nunca me deja sola. Gracias.

u know i got out of some bad relationships wit guys online recently... and it made me realize, there are nice and not nice ppl out there, and i just have to open my eyes and open my heart to the good ones.

Me and my husband have daily sex, and its very hardcore. We are in our mid-40's, and we love each other. The other day, we ACCIDENTALLY left a little creak in the door to our bedroom(usually we lock it completely shut), and when I opened my eyes, I saw my son peeping. I immediately stopped my husband because he was kissing my boobs and neck, and my son quickly ran away. My hubby was on top of me with his face buried in my chest area. I don't mean to brag in any way, but I have pretty big breasts, and additionally, my hubby's face was buried in my cleavage, so Im pretty sure the majority of my breasts were visible. Also, I was moaning (it felt amazing!) so I dont know if he thinks daddy was hurting me. But thank god we had a blanket on! Phew! Now, I don't know how long he has been there watching us because I only noticed him watching once and then he ran away. Of course then we didn't want to talk to him, so he went to sleep, and we locked the door and continued till my husband was done. This whole day he hasn't even talked to us, and is locked in his room and I don't know how to approach him. Me and my husband don't plan to stop having sex, but we feel that our son is till too young to know about sex(he is 11 yrs old). Please tell me what to do!!!! Im desperate!!! We both have great jobs and we love our family, so please just answer the question and don't judge us!!!!

I know this guy who has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend. He is into me and I am somewhat into him. He said he wanted to know what my kisses were like and I said the same thing to him. It would be a one time thing only. (experimenting) However, I realize it would be a bad idea and now I feel uncomfortable with it. I need a way to tell him no. I love my boyfriend dearly and would never do anything to hurt him. What should I tell this guy? Help!!!

My family told me that we will be having a turd stay with us for the winter. I know I should be happy, but I just can't help but feel frightened . I am worried about this turd coming into our home. I want him to feel at home. What can I do to welcome him to his new life?

So the thing is, my mom had a brain (cerebral) stroke one day due to all the anxiety that built up in her and my dad had been very verbally and emotionally abusive throughout his life to me and my mom. He was even physically abusive in certain phases not to the point of beating the blood out of us but you get it (just leaving scratches). My dad got laid off of work where ever he went and my mom had a lot of contacts and used to work in his industry as a recruiting agent at one time in her life as a freelancer so she could somehow plough him through for the job. Nobody paid for my mom's treatment and none of our relatives from either side of the family were there for us when my mom had a stroke just coz of my dad's misbehavior. Plus my mom's relationship with her brother was bad after her marriage since my dad always made fun of my mom's brother's wife so my uncle lost respect. And from there it went downhill. I couldn't pay my school fees due to dad's callousness and was pushed back a year and had to write privately. My grades weren't too good either due to constant abuse at home. My dad just closes all the windows, curtains and just makes the rooms stuffy. Always eats junk food and just puts down people and makes them feel bad. He resorts to name calling and all that crap. Lately, I've reached a point where I even feel scared to sketch at home. Drawing is something I love and drawing out of fear is just.... Idk. My dad even had a physical fight with me (bottles)

hes mad at you for smashing his phone or you did something wrong as a parent

Okay so back when he was 15, he had his first love who broke his heart and they had a terrible off on again relationship. She cheated on him and even had another baby with someone else when they were together and she is 2 years older then him. He and her brother became friends through that relationship and remained friends ever since. Anyways him and I met our senior year of high school and have been together ever since. He and I are married and are awaitinghe arrival of our first son. This ex of his was furious when he dated me because she is racist and I'm biracial (black and white) and my husband is white. Anyways, I have no problem with my husbands friend (he's like a brother to him), weve gone on double dates and he's really nice and its not like I feel my hubbys ex is a threat at all. I just think its weird that her brother could be the Godfather of my child, but then again he should get to make that choice right?

How do I prove that I have no control.of his behavior and left.him because he abused me and I had to because what he did to me was awful and I had to think of my own well being (he messed with my colleagues because I left him)

We recently had a field trip at school where we shared tents but only with people of our own gender. It was a beach fcamping trip so most of my stuff got dirty and since i ate in my bathing suits and i wear underwear under my bathing suits i got spicy sauce on my underwear. my mom was washing my clothes for me and she saw the sauce on the edge and thought it was blood and thought that i was raped or had sex with the boys, but i didn't, i actually hate the opposite gender and have never ever liked a person in my life. i shared a tent with my very best friend and we shared a bed together but this it i didn't have sex but my mom thinks that i bled from sex but i didn't. sigh

Im a white dude but it seems as though as every white dude i run into is like this. They 'Tell it how it is' They get rude and loud with you at times, and talk abusively to you, and people around just ignores it and tells you 'well he can be a jerk at times' White guys usually unwantedly tease me (in a hurtful way and yell in my face and make fun of me). If i tell them to back off they call me baby and weak. Me telling them back off just makes the situation worsen and i send up coming back at one and he backed me in a corner yelling insults in my face like he is gonna fight me. I talk to an authority and lose all of my white friends due to those white dudes talking about me to them. I have notice that every white dude that im around loosely uses the word gay and makes really crude statements like 'oh you dont have a girlfriend, you look gay so maybe you should be, its alright being gay, dont be scared' they say this mokingly to me. I tend to talk to people about these white guys behavior and they just tell me that they are just being normal. I tell them that i am not like that and they say that im not normal. I personally was never raised with any brothers or had a father, and was raised in a area where the majority was black and foreigners. Im not trolling but am i wrong or are they?

We had a unique connection, but I knew right when he said he had to go across the states are relationship would go downhill. I needed to see him everyday. I would not be able to anymore and he needed to go for his own benefits. We were also not just dating we were the best of friends. No matter how many fights I get into with him something strange keeps drawing me back to him every time. I'm not sure if that's normal but for me it is. I have been mad at him for 2 months now. He wouldn't take my advice, He was letting other people use him for his money ( still is). He thinks the whole world is family well he tries to (He's adopted) ,and very insecure and people always have taken advantage of him for his good hospitality I can't stand it. But, He won't listen to me. He just wants people to like him. And they steal him from me and make up rumors and tell him I'm bossy.! So, What did I do? I got a new boyfriend who I like a lot.. their is a connection but it isn't as strong.. but I broke up with him so violently I decided to make amends now he wants to go back out ! I'm so confused ... It was a battle of why do you have to talk to those stupid dummies? while I was with him but ..... WE have fought so many times and I still find a way to go back to him. My Bf now is good though. The annoying thing is my mother likes my ex better, but he's honest which is a trait my ex lacked not maliciously but yes. Which caused a lot of my anxieties. Please help me with some advice thank you.