I already have an account but my sister did not know they had that rewards program, every time she has purchased things there my other sister gets it with her account and she just pays her for the stuff. Well her birthday was two days ago, can she still go sign up at the store and still receive the birthday gift?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XesDygYTmWo OMG, is it true? Look at dem photos! Dem photos show Hitler with Obama's grand parents! Why aren't we learning about this in school! ? It came to me when I waz watching this video. Subliminal messages told me the whole story! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BysVzAnR9MY&index=3&list=PLg6GOzpOffb-laNCU_yZsNZagHKfF6elF

I'm not going to write a whole paragraph about how I'm depressed and self loathing etc etc etc so I'll make a list of all the bad things in my life. 1. 25, Single *I'm gay by the way* and living with my parents, while at it having aspergers syndrome 2. I still live with my parents whom I can't stand. Me and my father have nothing in common and my mother I consider to be a moron 3. I failed 2 semesters of community college which made me steer clear of education and lost all desires to try again 4. My friends live too far away to move in with them 5. I'm going to be out of a job soon because I'm leaving it due to having too many meltdowns *My last day will be on December 31st.* and I have no idea in what to find as a replacement since I do pay part of the bills my parents get So that should give you the basics of what I'm going through right now. I don't know if I'll gain anything out of this but better than nothing.

I know I have asked this question a bunch of times and I am not mad but I just want to know how to deal with this. I am the youngest in my family and my family has always been protective of me.My family fights a lot with each other but when it comes to me then they all band together to be there for me. Well my mom is very protective of me because I am the youngest and I do live with my parents. Then my mom's best friends family is very protective of me as well. For example if someone tries to bully me then they defend me and that especially comes from my mom's best friends oldest son. Another example is that at first he was encouraging me to date but then as soon as I started dating he became protective of me and I am thinking in my head; dude I am your friend not your little sister. Then he told me the reason why he acts like that with me is because of the drama he went through with his last girlfriend and he doesn't want me to go through that. Will I listen to him; probably not but then if I don't he will probably rat me out to my parents. Then my older siblings are worse; they always lecture me if I do something wrong and if I don't do what my parents say. Don't get me wrong I am not some helpless little kid. Why does my family act like this?

My daughter turned 3 last Tuesday and I was happy and very emotional. Well, I waited by the phone to see if anyone would call her to wish her a happy birthday. Sadly, no one did. Back in October my cousin was about to turn 18 and my Aunt was going to throw her a surprise party. My mom wanted me to send her a birthday card, but I couldn't due to financial issues. Well, my mom said to call her up on her birthday, my mom bugged me to call her. I wrote on her timeline on facebook and wished her a happy birthday. I went through all that for my cousin but the same wasn't returned for my brother or my daughter. Even though I couldn't get her a card or call her at least I made the effort to message her on Facebook. It broke my heart that no one called or wished my daughter a Happy Birthday on facebook. I know this may sound dumb, but her birthday meant something to me, she might not remember it but I will.

My mom and I am very close and I am the youngest child in my family and I want to join the army but my mom thinks I can't handle the stress and she wants me to ask the doctor to psychologically test me. I have been overly stressed before and I was almost depressed but now I am in control of myself than I was before. I don't need to see a psychologist but my mom thinks I should. How can I tell her I don't need one? @Faith: Yeah I understand and I am not sure what the process is, to join the army. @pepper and riku: I think that will make her even more protective because she will think I am being rebellious.

I'm a 13 year old girl. I just got my own room (I used to share with one of my sisters). For the most part it's great. There is a huge drawback: my parents are next door and I can hear them doing it all the time. It's really disturbing to hear your parents doing it so much. My mom says things to my dad she would kill me for saying. I feel really uncomfortable talking to my parents about it. What am I supposed to say? 'I can hear you two doing it all the time next door and I want you to stop?' Even asking them to quiet down would be awkward. I don't want to move because that means I'd loose my own room. How can I stop hearing the sound of my parents having sex without talking to them about it and sill be able to keep my room? Also, for whatever it's worth it really bothers me the way my mom talks to my dad when they're doing it. She can get incredibly sexually explicit in her language. I know they're married, but it still bothers me that she has a bit of a double standard with that. I don't want to talk to my mom about it because it would be weird, but why would she think that double standard is OK?

Like being able to hug like it s nothing and talk about just about anything? Is it not suppose to be like that?

I have three women to buy for this year, my Mom, my mother in law, and my step mother in law. They are all 55-65 years old. They all have everything they need and more. And when they want something they go out and buy it. But I still want to get them something for Christmas. But I don't want it to be someTHING. They don't need knicknacks, picture frames, jewelry, etc. If anything all three of them need to purge some stuff. I find gift cards very generic and not very personable for a close family member (in general, there are always exceptions). So please help! I want to get them something thoughtful but not something that will clutter up their house.

I got grounded yesterday, with my phone being taken away. What happened was that I accidentally misplaced some coupon books I was selling for my choir class and couldn't find them. As a result, my mom had to pay $25, which she is angry about. I'm grounded for this entire weekend, and I might get ungrounded on Sunday if my attitude is good. I'm really trying to get ungrounded then, so what can I do? I also have relatives coming this weekend, and I plan to be polite with them. Is there anything I can do to ensure I get ungrounded on Sunday? All help is appreciated! :) I forgot to say this, but I told her that she can take $25 out of my birthday money so she can have money back. My birthday is coming up soon, and I used this as a attempt to get in less trouble

So I'm 18 currently looking for a job , but my mom bosses ne around alot and makes me do stuff for her when she's lazy she don't got a job , I clean and take care of my siblings and I can only go out when she feels like it I've had seasonal jobs and when I did she would want to take money from me too , point is I feel like she plays the victim and verbally and physically agresive towards me to get what she wants done I wanna get freedom without being disrespectful.

So my dad looks my my butt sometimes and I told my mom because I thought someone should know, now she feels like crying and she's like telling all my family and talking to my dad and **** not I feel like crying and kinda having a proper anxiety attack please God help what do i do

I reached back out to a guy i went on a date with months ago just to hook up. (its been almost 2 years since i have done it). Since i reached out we have done it 6 times (in the past 2 months). All times he is cuddling with me A LOT (too much) and playing with my hair, kissing me on the forehead a lot, pulling my tight close to him to fall asleep and holding hands. He always asked me to text him when i get home and he would text me again the morning after asking how i slept/woke up/made it to work. One time i left in the middle of the night without saying goodbye. He texted me the next morning "Hey! You snuck out on me :)" like he was disappointed. He texts me every few days asking how i am doing. He finally called me. The past 2 times were more passionate and when i was leaving he pulled me in and said to cuddle for 5 more minutes. He told me he loves my smile and that he can t last long with me in bed. He does text me throughout the week even early morning to ask me how I m doing. Kisses me when we meet and say goodbye. Now he has mentioned that he wants to hear about this class I m taking over wine and cheese at his house. Sometimes he goes through periods of alone time. Im ok about the whole thing but is he interested in something more? He s a doctor and busy, i work in finance and am busy. Hes 33 and I m 24. Is this a normal hookup? I think im showing signs that I m not interested in more The only thing we haven t done is go out on a date date or not had sex when we hang. I have it.

I'm 19 and she's 18 and really hot. I just met her about a week ago for the first time. My grandmother and her grandfather are siblings but she doesn't feel like family to me because I never knew she existed. Even our parents that are first cousins aren't close to each other. So should I make a move on her or should I let it pass? I don't wanna be a weirdo.

My mother-in-law is extremely overweight. When a doctor tells her she needs to lose weight, she gets another doctor. She is very stubborn. If it wasn't for her husband at her beck and call, she would end up in assisted living. She recently had surgery and was home and started to have an allergic reaction to the antibiotic. She refused to go to the emergency room. My husband and her husband finally convinced her to go to the emergency room. I, also recently, had surgery and needed to get home to take my medication, at a certain time, under doctors orders. My husband said that this situation was more important with his mother than mine was. Mind you, if I don't take the medication on time, it could mess my blood up and my test results. The doctor said it will be several weeks before I feel well again. I just could not feel sorry for my mother-in-law. I feel guilty about feeling that way. It's just hard for me to have empathy when a person refuses to listen to their doctor and refuses to take care of their own health. The conversation turned to the holidays and that I should host them. Cold meat sandwiches were discussed in my haze of dozing off. I am trying to get everyone to go to a restaurant. I was very tired at the ER from my prior surgery and ended up going to sleep in the chair. A bell must of rang off in my husband's head, because we went home after that. Am I wrong feeling this way or am I being heartless.

I'm trying so hard not to knock the piss out of my mom's mouth and the rest of the dull tartar that makes her tooth decay.I was sitting on the computer when she came in and started talking to my aunt on the while cursing talking about worldly things etc.I turned the tv up loud so I could hear, while the tv had beem turned up when she could've easily went to her room to talk about whatever she needs to talk about she instead sat on the couch loud as hell while I couldn't hear.I had the tv turned up and she had gotten mad at me while she was on the phone at the same time trying to showboat and talk tough as if she does that while off the phone.Im really trying because last time my stepdad had to hold me back before I had created a good reason for myself to go to Juvie.I've never hit her but still, i'm trying to be nice, last time I had got in her face my dad had told me that she called him crying when she was the one who was being the A S S H O L E for no apparent reason. Please help, i'm not asking help for me but help for the peace of this household and partially for her.I am a not a bad person i'm very soft-spoken and kind at heart. Im a guy btw

My dad has been forcing hyper-masculinity in me by being more inclined at bossing, scalding and blaming me for everything around the home while also feeding me foods very high in protein, and he has been doing this ever since I missed out on an event that makes males femenine/metrosexual when parents took my teen siblings and violent 27-year-old macho brother to such event. He has also made me do arduous work where I was made to use all my strength and anger while he scalded me. I'm actually a male who is self-conscious, non-violent and sensitive. My personality was also close to being a metrosexual male before he forced this hyper-masculinity in me. I feel very conflicted, annoyed and frustrated.

Hi I'm 14, and I have really been wanting to move to a different town since I started middle school. I believe I have a somewhat special case, but anyhow, I feel guilty for wanting to ask my mom if we can move, because ultimately my mom is the adult and I feel like it's not really my place. I know it sounds like a bratty thing to ask but let me tell you my reasons for wanting to move (in no particular order) -There is only one high school in my small town, and I had to leave it and switch to online school because of bullying from both student AND teachers, because I have large bald spots on my head from alopecia. -I have no friends or siblings, and my dad doesn't live near us, and because our town is so small I cannot find a good place to make some friends (seriously, we're basically a village) -I would really like to go back to brick and mortar school, because I feel like I'm not learning as much at my online school. -My mom lost her job this year, and she's been talking about moving anyway, I just want to convince her more, because I know if I stay here I will not get to do the things I want to do.

I'm really self insecure and i post a lot of questions here under anonymus but revently i bought a new phone and was out and my old phone was at home and after i got back i found out that my mom gave it to my sister and she managed to break the lock idk how . The problem is that i was signed in on yahoo answers and my sister saw all of them and she and my brother are sort of making fun of me and trying to use this as blackmailing and i don't know how to live with it ??? How should i react ? My questions were sort of depressing and really embarrassing things to talk about .

In my teenage years & early twenties I used to be immature, needy, depressed and petty. I admit it. When I turned 25 after the death of 3 loved ones in the space of a year, I began doing some soul searching. I kept to myself for a while and really started to know myself. That time was amazing. I learnt so much and I began seeing the world in a totally different way. I have completely changed my lifestyle; I became a vegan, I do yoga and I have become spiritual. I am really very happy and grateful. Now heres the darkside lol, unfortunately some people cannot let go of my past and who I used to be. They brings up things that I said or done 4/5 years ago (when I was in my late teens early twenties) or things that they heard about me many years ago. Some people still treat me in a way that is a reflection of my past. They have seen my changes in the way I talk and act and have begun calling me names like fake etc. Unfortunately, it seems like my partners family are the most sceptical and have made it their duty to 'catch me out' Fortunately, my friends and family have just flowed with the changes and realised that I'm just humbling, growing up and learning. I love my partner and I love his family too. Because I am at a place where negative opinions don't hurt. I know who I am. The only problem is that they watch me like a hawk, every word I say, every joke, every look & my social media just so they can catch me out and say 'FINALLY'. Should I stop communication?

So, first off I would like to say I apologize if I come off as a " begger ", or " troll ".. But this is a serious question. I'm a 15 year old girl, live with parents, small income family. We can hardly afford basic needs, but I really do I appreciate what we DO have, even though it stresses me a lot, but, my father is a very hard worker. I have rather older parents, than usually. My mother is 58, and my father is 67. They had my sister and I when they were a bit older.. Anyways, I've been going through heaps of depression, and anxiety, and well as most of all tons of stress. I wish things sometimes were easier, but I guess that's just life. We've been having to go to food banks most of my life, and having to get help from others, especially when it comes to paying for bills.. Seems like no matter what, we just barely have enough to get by on our own. My father works at a local grocery store,but at his age, I just don't like the fact he is still working, I really want him to retire, but he always says he doesn't have the money to. Anyways, I know you guys aren't up for hearing my pathetic life story, and I'm sure as hell no one is willing to send money out here, but that wasn't actually my point exactly. I was wondering, if any of you know of any site that will do so for people in need, or any special organization. Any advice, is very much needed just as long as it's beneficial and helpful to me. Thank you so much guys for reading this all.

Not that I just don't want them, but I genuinely do not like them. I think they are ugly and annoying, and have no redeeming qualities. This is true for anyone under the age of about 15. Yes, I know I was once a kid, so how can I dislike what I was myself. I don't know the answer to that, but I do know that I do not like kids and do not understand how anyone can. They are not cute. They are not funny. They are annoying.

I mean I dont hate my dad but the things he does makes me god damnnn maaaadddddd.... Like starts talking with someone in the middle of the night with freaking loud voice,ok you might have work or other important stuffs to talk about but think about other people too ,but never listens. goes and ***** my electronics up,god damn it. talks every freaking embarassing stuffs about me in front of others,why do you love insulting me infront of the world?? yh I have asked him some of them but never listens. tell me your story.

What do I do? I am living with my fiancé, we bought a 1 bed flat which is big enough for us. My mother lives abroad and is coming back to work. She keeps asking to stay with us on the couch for a few nights when she returns twice a month. I don t mind every once in a while but it s becoming a frequent occurrence and we just want our own space! How do I tell her we don t want her coming to stay all the time without hurting her feelings? Thanks x

I have been trying to talk to her over the phone. I call her once a week because if I don t call her she gets annoyed. I called here few times in 2 weeks she never answered my call. Today she finally called but on my husband s number while I was outside and she left a message saying she had asked for me! I was annoyed by her response. If I stop calling her she cries and yells infront of her son that I ignore her. If I do call her-she ignores my phone. Any suggestions on what do I do? How do I annoy her back without upsetting my husband?

Not always obviously, but most of the time we're home alone. Because we find it very comfortable

My family has never been supportive of me. When I was in high school they told me to drop out, the same goes for college. I was bullied at school and my at home life was abusive and disruptivet. I was recently diagnosed with PTSD and have to take medication and attend therapy to keep myself from going crazy. My sister (who has a degree) held me back from attending college. She and her 3 kids (from different fathers) came to live with my mother and I when she lost her job. While i was attending college she intentionally ate all of our food, destroyed our house, yelled all of the time and destroyed our finances by racking up our electric bill and consuming large amounts of food without contributing anything to help us .I was forced to withdraw from college because my mother could not even afford to put gas in our car- let alone buy me a bus pass. I worked a seasonal job, but that job soon was gone. We believe my sister did this to us on purpose - we almost went homeless because of her. Now I am out of college, attempting to get back in. I believe my chances of being successful are better this time now that my sister is gone and that I am attending therapy. But sometimes my family treats me horrible and it really makes me sad. I hate my sister for what she did to my mother and I. She was able to go to college and get a degree, but she didn't want to see me do the same.

lots of days have passed away .. , and i still feel alone my dad my mom doesn't love me anymore when come to my dad store and i ask about 5 dollars and he did give it to me, but he doesn't look so happy and he was yelled at me ''you just come here to ask for money you idiot'' and i was feel really sad and i ask them that i want to work they just don't care they didn't love me anymore and doesn't care about me i have no one anymore no one's love me i tried very hard to geta money but i was 14 and i can't do annything . sometimes i just cry .., even in my class i cryng. my pocket money i was saved in my piggy bank and i doesn't eat anything at school just drinkin water . i like to be alone at my school and think about my family that doesn't care about me again. i need some solution from you guys ty

so it all started last month, she was so secretive about he facebook. whenever i would walk in and shes on her facebook, she would close it immediately and id ask her why and shed be like its none of ur business. today morning , because im so nosy, i checked her phone and i found that she has been sending nudes.. bear with me,. sexy nudes to this guy idek. she was like im ur slave and **** like that like its so disturbing seeing those pics. and i know for one it isnt my dad bc my dad doesnt speak italian. so i really dont know what to do. i want to confront her but im in denial and my dad atm is going through so much, his bank is not doing well, his mom passed away recently and he might get fired soon. to make matters worse, i read in the messages that shes gonna see him in december when we go back to italy 4 christmas (my dad wont come he has work). I installed a hack in her computer that lets me know her fb account where she messages him as well and etc. so i can know more about this guy. SHE MADE A NEW FB WITH A FAKE NAME TO CHAT WITH HIM. what should i do?! i dont want to break my dads heart at all. i feel so bad. should i just block The guy on my moms phone or something? so she takes it as a hint? TO MAKE MATTERS WORSE, im gay and only my mom knows and she supports me whereas my dad threatened to kick me out of the house. im only 16 and theyre both assholes so help me im so desperate

I'm a 14 years old girl ! I live in normal family,we're not reach ! And not poor ! My dad Is always saying that he loves us , but he is not letting us to talk to my mom's relatives which I love them so much ! He always says that they're bad ! And his relatives sucks! They're always lying and talking bad about people! My mom is working as a doctor! But dad's company doesn't have much work lately so we are living by mom's money ! He is using the money ! And whenever I say that it's mom's money so she can use it too ! He will hit me or tell me that I should shut up and I must not speak on his business! He didn't buy me phone so I collected money and bought it ! He is alway checking our phones(me and my siblings and my mom's) and he doesn't let us have any secrets while his whole life is secret! An no one dares to touch his phone or laptop! He is good with strangers! But not with us ! He is always getting angry! If I read a book or watch anime or read manga he'll say that I'm wasting time ! he doesn't let me to wear what I want!Be friends with who I want ! And I told him that he's a dad and he should get money ! He hitted me and told me lots of bad words and that I have mental sickness and told me that you should dare to say that to your husband when you get older ! He is always shouting at me and he doesn't let me to do what I wan to do ! Always making fun of my stuff! Is this love?Am I the one who is sick? And my country sucks ! No one cares about child!There is no right to us!

My parents have been very overbearing. I thought things would become different once I graduated college. I'm currently studying Visual Graphic Design, a short course. As soon as I enrolled, I also tried to apply for a job so I can contribute. Unfortunately it didn't work out and now I am applying for another job as a financial advisor because it has a flexible schedule and it's a modest career. However, I'm still starting out and I still have to depend on them financially. My boyfriend whom I have been dating for 2 years is also helping me financially. My parents have been criticizing every decision I make. Especially the career I chose. Today they caught me lying, I was over my bf's place. I tried to plead them to at least give me a bit independence to decide for whatever I want and go to places I want to. I told them I'm starting out my career and my bf ihas been a big help and we're not doing anything wrong but they won't hear me out. They talk as if I'm the worst kid in the world when in fact I never had undergone the so-called rebellious stage. I graduated marketing. I obtained a partial scholarship for being the chief artist of our school publication. I wouldn't have been one if my bf didn't recommend me. He's a nice guy who brings out the best in me. No parents to support him ever since his mom died and his father became an absentee. My bf and I both have dreams. We don't drink or anything. Heck we don't even party. We only like to read books and eat out. My mom talked as if we're the worst. I'm really trying. I just finished training for the job a few days ago. Me wanting to contribute and trying to find a job while studying makes them think I'm stupid and insulting. They've also put curfews for whenever I go on dates and call me like very few hours and whenever I go out, I don't really enjoy. My mom is still mad at me. My dad too probably because I lied about not going to my bf's place. Even if I don't lie about it, they'll jump to all kinds pof conclusions and pressure me to go home. Now my mom told me I'm free and that she doesn't care about me anymore. She also took the ATM card which held my allowance which was okay because I can't stand using it anyway if she's only going to use it against me I just don't know how to go about being in this kind of situation. How I'm going to live a normal life staying in this household with them when I'm still working my way into financial stability and if she really meant what she said. I bet they'll guilt trip me whenever I do things I want.

My mom is overweight, not just overweight though, she is pretty large, she doesn't need any "assistance" or anything like that but she does have trouble with everyday common tasks even though she IS NOT crippled at all… Here are some examples I don't even like going to restaurants because of the looks we get, and she cant fit into most booths. She never makes her own food, because that would mean she has to walk downstairs to make it. SHE NEVER GOES DOWNSTAIRS FOR ANYTHING! Dinner, feeding our dog, breakfast, lunch, laundry, cleaning, FRESH AIR! She has to sit down for every 50 feet she walks basically. I do everything for her, I even go into the store to buy her tampons and I'm a dude! I cook, I do her laundry, I clean her bathroom, especially the TOILET, I get her things from all around the house, I do all sorts of stuff for her because she cant do it. I feel bad for her too, she doesn't get to wear what she wants, and I've seen old pictures of her, she was pretty, she doesn't get to go certain places, she has swollen feet so she has to wear duct taped sandals. I get it though, I am her son and I should do anything for her, but it gets really annoying sometimes. Bottom line is, she is extremely dependent, and lazy… BUT I love her unconditionally, and she is amazing and generous, and creative, and thoughtful, and funny, and smart, and good at her job > (web designer)

I m 18, a recent HS grad, and in my first year of uni. I work full time as a teacher for adult ESL from 7-3 and have classes from 3:30-7, and when I get home, my mom leaves niece with me til my sister (her mom) gets home at 10. My niece is in her terrible twos and she s such a handful, and my sister doesn t give me any compensation (she pays my mom $90/month so I don t ask for a cut), so it s not like having another job. It barely leaves me any time to contribute chores and I need to work a few more months to make enough for my rent and deposit but we re getting ready to go into finals and also my job I need to create my tests and lesson plans as homework also, and my mom makes me feel guilty for not wanting to watch my niece and says I should help her. How do I manage my time?

My parents always watch regional channels from morning till evening - some daily soap episodes, which keeps repeating. I am out of my country, and my wife is with my parents. Today, on a skype call I told my parents in front of my wife that My wife might hesitate to change a channel so give her some chance to change the channels. My daddy became a bit unhappy and he said that if you wish so then get a new tv in her room. Is it bad to do so? Does it sound bad? Have I done any mistake in saying that?

Hi all I met this 15 year old boy here on Yahoo Answers who said his Mom's Boyfriend had molested him and then his Mom called him a liar when he told her what happened. Well no one else but me here believed him except me and I befriended him and I emailed him the contact information for the Center Against Sexual Assault In New York where he was at. So he contacted them and they assigned him a counselor. In the meantime he told me that he never knew his real Dad and that his Mom told him really horrible things about his real Dad. So with the help of the counselor he got in touch with his real Dad who was living in London England. So he then found out his Mom was lying to him all these years and when he told his Dad what happened to him he immediately flew to New York and fought for custody of this boy. In the meantime the Mom sided with the Boyfriend and wouldn't get rid of him and blamed the boy for what happened. In the meantime the Dad won custody and the boy found out he had a Grandma and even a half brother with the Dad. And the Dad and the Grandma showed this boy more love then anyone ever did. So I thought all was well and he was safe now right? Wrong. I get an Email from him saying he left the Grandma and the Dad even though both begged him not to leave and he went back to the loser Mom and the abusers home and told me no court is ever gonna make him leave. So I wrote him that he crapped on not only me but everyone who tried to help him and save him and if this is what you're doing then don't ever write to me or contact me ever again. So my question is am I jerk and an A$s for doing this? And am I wrong? I can't help but feel like he just wasted everyone's time by in the end wanting to go live with the abusers instead of his Dad and Grandma who loved him to death

Hi all I met this 15 year old boy here on Yahoo Answers who said his Mom's Boyfriend had molested him and then his Mom called him a liar when he told her what happened. Well no one else but me here believed him except me and I befriended him and I emailed him the contact information for the Center Against Sexual Assault In New York where he was at. So he contacted them and they assigned him a counselor. In the meantime he told me that he never knew his real Dad and that his Mom told him really horrible things about his real Dad. So with the help of the counselor he got in touch with his real Dad who was living in London England. So he then found out his Mom was lying to him all these years and when he told his Dad what happened to him he immediately flew to New York and fought for custody of this boy. In the meantime the Mom sided with the Boyfriend and wouldn't get rid of him and blamed the boy for what happened. In the meantime the Dad won custody and the boy found out he had a Grandma and even a half brother with the Dad. And the Dad and the Grandma showed this boy more love then anyone ever did. So I thought all was well and he was safe now right? Wrong. I get an Email from him saying he left the Grandma and the Dad even though both begged him not to leave and he went back to the loser Mom and the abusers home and told me no court is ever gonna make him leave. So I wrote him that he crapped on not only me but everyone who tried to help him and save him and if this

Is it inappropriate for a brother to be in the same delivery room as his sister or is it inappropriate for a son to be with his mother ect?

My boyfriend is going to be a phlebotomist and I'm almost done with my associates in early childhood education to work as a teacher in a child care. I'm most likely going to open an in home childcare or maybe my own child care center.. But altogether we will be maybe around 50,000 together and we both want at least 3 kids. Keep in mind we both weren't raised with anything so we're really not big spenders or wish for the big things in life, we're happy with the simple stuff.. But is that going to be enough?

Any tips on how to put an end to this? It's mostly my son. For example, was taking kids to the neighborhood I play ground they both stopped their bikes because I asked them to wait for me to catch up (I was walking with them and giving them landmarks such as a mailbox as a waiting point) and when I got there he shouted move at his sister and ran into her bike on purpose. I immediately had him get off the bike, we went and dropped it off at the house, and then he had to walk to the playground and his sister had to ride. On the way there I told her not to run into a trash can and told her good job for getting around it, and then my son asked me why I didn't tell him good job(because he was walking and not on a bike). It is always ridiculous things like that. She is 7 and he is 5. He eats up all the attention so if anything she's the one who's missing up. It makes me sad because I love both of my children equally and I want so badly to enjoy my little boy but I don't like his behavior.

My parents have always been in financial problems. They both make an average waige but have 5 children. Ever since I can remember my dad has been yelling and blaming us for being born and I can't take it. I have only 1.5 years to college but I don't know if I can take it anymore. He is 64 and my mom is 50. I know it is not my fault and my siblings and I almost never ask for money, even lend them sometimes. It really hurts when he swears at us, tells us we should of been aborted or that we should just jump under a train.

I m looking for a link to a support group, or something to get me started. She s 85. She forgets things, and sometimes she has trouble thinking. So far her driving is ok. Accept that she doesn t know where she s going. She know where she is, and she can drive the car, but I need to remind her where she s going. And she forgets words. The current problem is that she won t go to the doctor. I ve given her about half a year now to go to the doctor. And as far as I know she still hasn t told her doctor about the problems. I hate the idea of interfering in my mom s medical problems.

My mother spends $70-80 a week even if she can t afgord it without my fathers paycheck. She always talks about "Well we need to do this for the family." or "I earn my money." when all she does is lounge around and make her children sometimes go without something that we ve been asking for/needed for days or weeks. All I want to do is break the damn Galaxy Note II THAT SHE GOT ON EBAY FOR $115. What do I do? I know she s my mother. She s also not a man so I can t knock some sense into her. What do I do?

I love my husband very much and knew when I married him I would have to be a step parent. I was up for this role even though I do not have children of my own the thought of not having my husband was too much to bare and I decided to take on being a step mom. He has two kids. One I enjoy and get along with great however his youngest son is 6 and I do not enjoy being around him. He is very charming and perfectly behaved in school and in public and puts on a great act however at home he frequently throws tantrums, is very spoiled and used to getting whatever he wants and does not like to hear no. I do not enjoy being around him the majority of the time. HIs father (my husband) always gives him the benefit of the doubt and says I just don't like him but the sad fact he is right. I don't like him nor his behavior. One day he hit me out of the blue for no reason while we were sitting watching tv. He also throws fits if he doesn't get whatever he wants and does not listen. He will barge into our bedroom at 6am and loudly watch tv and play with is toys in our room with no regard that I work nights and need my sleep. He never says please or thank you, he demands things without having manners and bosses us around. We have to tell him each time to say please. Is this wrong and am I a bad person for feeling this way? when he acts up I just leave because I don't like being around him when he acts this way which is often.

My parents say I am her aunt...But I think we re cousins. Can someone explain it?Thanks!

I don't know why, but I get the slightest hunch that my own people are also against me ever since I missed out on attending an event that makes males either a metrosexual or hipster where they wear slim-fit pants, have hairstyles and dance moves that invovles hands and arms. My parents and siblings have now permanently blacklisted me from such events ever since I missed out from attending and when parents took my teen siblings and violent 27-year-old macho brother to such event. They also try to hide events from me where such people are likely to attend. I'm just a person who is always non-violent, self-conscious and sensitive before they blacklisted me and my father forcing hyper-masculinity in his 23-year-old son since he took my macho brother to such event.

I know it sounds bad, but I never told my sons dad about him. Something ended up happening and he left. I found out I was pregnant shortly after but I couldn't get ahold of him for the life of me. Just recently, though, my brother, who had no idea about my relationship, introduced me to his friend, who just so happened to be the father of my son. My sons dad figured it out soon after that but he had already been introduced as a friend, and I just don't know how to go from there. I'm just curious, how should I go about introducing him as my sons dad? What things would work best on a 6 year old?

I'm something of a womanizer and I love it. My daughter was the product of a relationship with a stripper who wanted only sex. I never have said this before not even to my own daughter but I did want more than just sex with her mother but the woman was shall we say not marriage material by which I mean she treated me horribly strung me along played the most aggravating mind games and then dropped off the radar four years later she leaves our daughter(who at that point I had never met) on my door with a note that read "Your problem now." Needless to say I had to make lots of adjustments. I still am a bit of a womanizer but I don't bring the women home ever. I actually try to hide it from her. Only she found out and now she hates me I don't know why I am this way it's like I'll try to not go out and meet a woman(in my spare time) but I get this weird compulsive urge to go out and meet a woman. Yet my daughter's mother is never far from my thoughts. That's crazy right? Loving someone who comes in and out of your life to constantly tear your heart out? The woman comes when she wants never asks about our kid ever I don't even think she knows our daughter's name (perplexing I know) any way my daughter knows about my lifestyle(she found out through the great vine) now and nothing about her mother and I have no idea how to fix things because my daughter thinks I'm the bad guy now for some reason. How do I get her to see that despite my faults I'm still her father and love her? I don't get why my daughter hates me because all I do is have one night stands and what not. I do not lie to these women I'm always open and honest I don't her them or anything. She was dropped on my door years ago she's a teenager now and I know she's mine for a fact! Also how dare you suggest kicking any child to the curb?

So, long story short, I m 14 in 9th grade and I pretty much hate how I live my life. I wanted to be myself and shop at hot topic, dye my hair, and even watch my anime in peace. But, my mom wants me to be a picture perfect girly girl. With amazing grades, dresses galore, cute and adorable outfits, and basically JUST LIKE HER! I ve tried telling them that their makin me someone I don t want to be! I ve wanted to be an artist but with such little free time I get I can t practice my drawings! My friends have no clue what s going on because none of them have had to experience this two of them basically live their own lives. I m 14 I understand who I want to be, but my mom says, you re only 14 you won t know what you want until you are at least 18 to 19. WHY??

I've been in No Contact from my sister for the past year because she's an emotionally abusive narcissist, so the best way to deal with that was to cut communications with her However, recently she lied to the police that I've been diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia just so that they'd come with her to my apartment for a "wellness checkup" at 7 AM. She even threatened to get a court order if I don't open then door. They left after coming into my apt and noticing that I'm sane and ok. Should I forgive her for coming up with such a lie just to try to see me again? If she had come alone, I would've considered taking her to breakfast.

I reached back out to a guy i went on a date with months ago just to hook up. (its been almost 2 years since i have done it). Since i reached out we have done it 6 times (in the past 2 months). All times he is cuddling with me A LOT (too much) and playing with my hair, kissing me on the forehead a lot, pulling my tight close to him to fall asleep and holding hands. He always asked me to text him when i get home and he would text me again the morning after asking how i slept/woke up/made it to work. One time i left in the middle of the night without saying goodbye. He texted me the next morning "Hey! You snuck out on me :)" like he was disappointed. He texts me every other day asking how i am doing. He finally called me. The past 2 times were more passionate and when i was leaving he pulled me in and said to cuddle for 5 more minutes. He told me he loves my smile and that he can't last long with me in bed. He does text me throughout the week even early morning to ask me how I'm doing. Kisses me when we meet and say goodbye. Now he has mentioned that he wants to hear about this class I'm taking over wine and cheese at his house. I feel ok about the whole thing but is he interested in something more? He's a doctor and busy, i work in finance and am busy. Hes 33 and I m 24. Is this a normal hookup? I think im showing signs that I'm not interested in more The only thing we haven't done is go out on a date date or not had sex when we hang. I haven't mentioned it. I'm worried to bring it up because 5/6 months ago on our 2nd/last date i asked him what he was looking for he said he wasn't sure because his last relationship drained him and he knows he should be in a new relationship but enjoys only worrying about himself at the moment. I understood and it died off for a few months until now.

everythings wrong.My grades are dropping my mom hates me, dad has job probs. my sister hates me my friends hate me. I dont want to kill myself becuase i know my dad loves me a lot and hes my role model because of everything. he has a nice porsche turbo s,big house and everything but my life is just so depressing. Most of it is educational. Im getting bad grades but i want to go to a good college like stanford(i live in the los altos hills so its close by) help. If u go to an ivy leauge school plz give me advice. Im a freshman in high school don't say i cant go to a good college because i know i can

Here's the dilemma, I need to move with a friend so I can complete the rest of highschool. The problem with where I attend now and with my household is that I'm not getting proper education through this district, I need to attend another district I once attended they offer many options and the program I need. I have never had a bad wrap sheet with them, never broken trust etc. My grandmother and mom yes have a concern for me and want me to do my very best in which I completely understand. They feel that if i move it will cost my friends family expenses that they can't afford to divide for me, they also have a concern that I won't follow through and attend school or keep my all time high grades, I have worked so hard the past few years I have a high GPA so they expect a lot from me because of my potential.. This decision to move isn't because of regulations or for fun, it's for my future and schooling in which I'm all about.. Personal I've asked others and of course there response are very blunt, and it's not a good point to argue "if they care as much as they say they do they'd allow you to move." Any ideas on how to go about this and detour their decision to show them the potential?

I don't know if this is right or not, but I would appreciate some input. I'm seventeen, and I recently moved in with my partial guardians. They gave me a room with no door, on the main floor: kitchen, dining room, bathroom, laundry room, and living room. They have a woman and her daughter who is in her late twenties/early thirties, and a programmer in his twenties renting out rooms upstairs. -My sleep schedule is based on when the last person goes to bed and when the first wakes up since I can hear everything on this floor. This results in six hours of sleep a night, or so. -My aunt sits out in the living and dining room all day while listening in on me, and I mean all day. She wakes up earlier than me (waking me up usually) and goes to bed around 11 pm. I feel like I have no time to be me, or even to cry when I need it without someone getting in my face about it. -They monitor the way i spend MY money. Even when I'm buying something for myself, like coloring pencils or sketchbooks, they'll pick out which ones for me and force me to buy them with my own money. Same with the groceries. -I lived alone most my childhood, and I love my alone time. They force me to be social and go to many different events though, and when I'm REALLY alone happens for about five hours once every one or two months. -They tell me to cook lunch and dinner for/with them almost every day, and sometimes they'll walk right in and say "Come entertain us." I'm starting to feel stressed and suicidal.

Ever since dad passed away four months ago she's been more restricting than ever and there's this friend of hers that she's considering moving closer to but i don't want to.Everything i have and need is where I am at right now and she says she's all alone but i keep telling her she's never alone when she has family please help!