Friends: Question: If any of you girls knew me in real life and knew what I liked would you still be my friend (JUST FRIEND) even if you know what I liked? |
- Question: If any of you girls knew me in real life and knew what I liked would you still be my friend (JUST FRIEND) even if you know what I liked?
- Question: Why did my friend grab my waist?
- Question: Good things to do for a party for teens?
- Question: How to be a good leader at my school?
- Question: I'm a freshman in college... should I apologize for being mean in high-school?
- Question: I like one of my best friends.... But my other best friend likes me?
- Question: Why can't people decide whether or not they're my friend?
- Question: My friend asks me to spend the night with her EVERY weekend. but when I go all she does is argue with her mom and we just sit in her bed?
- Question: My mom hates my best friend? She's racist?
- Question: Should friends be doing this?
- Question: Good girl squad names?
- Question: I want to make an Instagram, but I m scared I won t get any likes or followers.?
- Question: Why do people call me mean?
- Question: Scared friend of mine will commit suicide?
- Question: What are some songs that explain this situation...?
- Question: I feel like sticking a stick up my friends ***?
- Question: What should I do about my best friends brother ?
- Question: My friend has feelings for me but I'm not gay?
- Question: Why does my guy friend like it when I wear leggings?
- Question: How can I get my revenge on someone you don't like?
- Question: Help!! I have two options: let my dad buy me a brand new car or keep my moms 2006 Chevy Malibu and my dad give me $13,000 along with it?
- Question: All of my friends are at a party except me?
- Question: Why does my friend only care about her interests? Why does she copy me too?
- Question: This girl is really annoying me?
- Question: I want to get a hotel room have a gathering of friends for my birthday, but is this possible?
- Question: Do you ever lose your best friend?
- Question: What to take from this girls reaction after i complimented her?
- Question: Friendship anniversary?
- Question: I hate my friends mom?
- Question: Will she let me enter her life again?
- Question: If someone does you wrongfully would you expose what you know on them?
- Question: How do I end this friendship with my bestfriend of five years?
- Question: My friend tells me to text her, but never texts me first?
- Question: Are my friends going to turn their backs on me?
- Question: I need help with a friend situation! I have known her for 12 years(we r 13) and she is turning into someone I don t want to hang out with.?
- Question: Was I stupid to think we could of been friends still or no?
- Question: What is wrong with him?
- Question: Is it normal for members of any social group to ridicule a poser, and do I sound like one?
- Question: How to convince my parents to let me have a sleepover?
- Question: My friend always corrects me?
- Question: HELP! This girl is obsessed with me?
- Question: Me and my friend like the same guy?
- Question: My friends always hang out without me?
- Question: How do I make friends?
- Question: I beat my best friend when he punched while drunk?
- Question: I'm not invited to a party?
- Question: Why does my Nan keep dwelling on this?
- Question: Is it unusual to have no friends in your 30s? I jyst don't have the desire to "hang out" anymore. Anyone else feel this way?
- Question: Why do black people refer to their friend as 'homeboy' and white people say 'buddy of mines'?
- Question: Abusive friend.. advice?
- Question: HELP! This girl is obsessed with me?
- Question: How to get a better score than my friend?
- Question: A group of friends are being assholes...?
- Question: Is she really my true/real friend?
- Question: Should I ask her to come over?
- Question: Why my ex boyfriend tells me that Im ugly when he sees me at the street with my friends , but he tells his brother that Im pretty?
- Question: Social anxiety??? I need help???
- Question: Husband wants "mistress" as a friend again. How do I go about telling him I am NOT okay with this?
- Question: Friend brags ALOT.She brags when she works more than me,having more money,results betteretc.I still want to be friend but how do I stop her?
- Question: How can I get new friends and leave the other ones?
| Posted: 13 Nov 2015 05:04 PM PST For example: I like hentai (not real life porn), cute stuff, video games, pokemon cards, anime and k pop music mostly. Also I may ask weird questions like: can I play with your boobs please? and weird things like that. You can say no And I would be ok and we could change subject and talk about something else. As long as I don't physically control your free will would any girl still like to talk and just hang out with me? (if you knew me in real life and I did that to you would you still be my friend). |
| Question: Why did my friend grab my waist? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 04:56 PM PST So, I was walking with my friend to my next class. And a friend came out of nowhere and grabbed my waist and held me like really hard and we talked for a little bit before I had to go to class. I am a lesbian but I don't know about her. |
| Question: Good things to do for a party for teens? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 04:56 PM PST Hello! I m turning 14 and my parents are trying to figure out what to do for my birthday but I m low on ideas.... For previous parties I ve gone to a trampoline house, main event ( they have bowling, laser tag , arcade) & just home parties. But I want to do something fun! that ll keep people on their feet. Or maybe just a good mashup of things? I m not gonna have a huge party & I m only inviting VERY close friends bc of budget. So like in total 8-12 people. We are more matured so don t say like chuck e cheese or zoo. I was kind of thinkijg I invite people to my house and then we go eat somewhere then frozen yogurt and then a sleepover but I want to do something more creative and sormthing that won t have my parents having to sit there bored.Thanks for any help! |
| Question: How to be a good leader at my school? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 04:49 PM PST Okay, so I'm in Middle School, and this is a new school for me. I have always been a super good leader at my other school, but im just not comfortable enough around the people here to actually try. There is one girl, she is popular, but she does everything. I want to be able to help more, and make people know and acknowledge that Im actually there. Its kind of like a fear of mine to not talk to people I dont really know, and right now im just kind of in the background in class. Is there anyone with ideas on how to be more comfortable at my school and a better leader? Any advice helps! |
| Question: I'm a freshman in college... should I apologize for being mean in high-school? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 04:43 PM PST I was a student leader in a club/class (it was an elective class that had student leaders in charge of running things- weird, I know) in highschool my senior year and took it too seriously. A couple of times we had meetings about people who were not pulling their weight and I lost my temper and cussed. A mother wrote the teacher that her son was upset in the class and that he was cussed at. I assume this was about me. At the end of the year we got surveys from the other students to rate our leadership and I got very poor ratings. I know that I was the strictest of all the student leaders and didn't try to be as friendly with the other students as other leaders, but I didn't have the patience for it. One girl even sent me a death threat because she thought I was sabotaging her grade in the class. At the end of the year I wrote everyone cards thanking them for all of their hard work and wishing them a good summer. Some people threw them out and no one ate the cupcakes I brought. (Basically, I know they are still unhappy with me.) My question is if I should reach out and apologize to the people who I know really don't like me. If so, how should I go about doing that? [I don't want to write them letters because I don't want to put it in writing and make it something permanent that they can show because I feel like some people would take advantage of it.] |
| Question: I like one of my best friends.... But my other best friend likes me? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 04:42 PM PST I like one of my best friends, who likes my other friend, but my other best friend, who i only like as a friend, likes me. Help?? |
| Question: Why can't people decide whether or not they're my friend? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 04:29 PM PST Okay, there's this person I talk to at school and she is SO INDECISIVE. One day, we're friends and laughing and I'm helping with schoolwork, then the next, I'm shunned, ignored and told off about the smallest things It's not even just that one person. Another person, whom I've been friends with for about 5 years, but half the time, she absolutely refuses to talk to me, specifically walking away whenever I try to say anything. And both of these people don't even so much as ask if I'm okay when it's clearly visible that I'm feeling bad. My question is, why are people like this? |
| Posted: 13 Nov 2015 04:23 PM PST it s really boring but I feel bad when I say I can t all the time. How do I tell her I don t like going to her house without coming off as rude? |
| Question: My mom hates my best friend? She's racist? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 03:59 PM PST My mom is a racist *****. My best friend is biracial. His dad is a Native, and his mom is a German/Finnish women. My friend looks like his mom more- white, blonde/light brown hair, brown eyes. You wouldn't really think he's Native until you mention it, then you'd be able to spot his features more but... I saw him in a store and we were talking and I guess my mom saw him with both of his parents and when we got in the car, she started swearing and ****. She was calling him a halfbreed, a savage, dirty Indian boy, etc. It's pissing me the **** off. I'm half German and that would be like someone calling me a Nazi. He's my best ******* friend. What do I do? Of course I won't stop hanging out with him but seriously? How do I deal with her? I'm pretty sure she is a white nationalist or something. My friend doesn't even look Native and she still hates him? He looks white. I understand he's still mixed-race but really? 'Dirty indian boy' ?? |
| Question: Should friends be doing this? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 03:56 PM PST my guy friend and I love caressing one another and running our fingers on each other. We are single and in our 20s. We've been friends for 3 years and have slept naked together before. Should friends be doing this? Do you find it wrong? would you ever do this with a friend if you have feelings for them? we don't have sex but just sleep naked next to one another and stroke one another. I'm female and he's obviously male |
| Question: Good girl squad names? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 03:53 PM PST My "squad" is a mix between girly girls and tomboys. Our names start with A, G, J, C, C, M, M, C. I am looking for a clever name for us |
| Question: I want to make an Instagram, but I m scared I won t get any likes or followers.? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 03:53 PM PST I know that this is such a petty fear to have. I just want somewhere to post my photos and get some recognition for them. But I can t help being scared that no one will like my posts or follow me. I do have friends at my school who will most likely follow me back if I do make one, but I m worried that they ll judge me if I don t get enough followers or likes. Does anybody have any tips or words of encouragement to maybe get passed caring about what other people think so much? Thanks! Your replies and time are greatly appreciated. |
| Question: Why do people call me mean? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 03:53 PM PST So today me n my friends went to Starbucks after school. So since its literally by our school. People from my school go to Starbucks. Well these kids came in . And i was fooling with my brother. N they said "i thought she was nice" n that hurt😐 im like the nicest person you can meet n i will do anything to make some one happy n to see them smile. Even my mom calls me mean. And it starts to hurt my feelings because they think they know me when they don't. 😒 but how do i make people stop calling me mean. |
| Question: Scared friend of mine will commit suicide? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 03:37 PM PST So two of my friends got together and it went around 4 hours until I met the girl in the couple. She regretted getting together with this guy as she doesn't really know him. She likes one of my other friends. I asked her if she really wanted to break up with him after just 4 hours. She said yes so I encouraged her to do so. Better to break up with him quickly then lying to him for longer. She did it after a while and when I look back at it now the way she did it was kind of harsh. Now another friend sent me a screenshot of her chat with this guy and he said "Scared it's too late now, I'm already gone". I don't know the exact meaning of those words, but they made me worried. Any thoughts on this? |
| Question: What are some songs that explain this situation...? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 03:18 PM PST Ok so I lost my best friend...well actually I left her because I was tired of hurting her. So I feel like I shouldn't be sad because I'm the one that walked away. And it's kind of too late to get her back and I would only continue hurting her even though I don't want to. But so are there any songs that explain this situation any genre. |
| Question: I feel like sticking a stick up my friends ***? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 03:15 PM PST My friend got mad over absolutely nothing. Literally. So she decided to take it out on us by ignoring us and being a little b***h. So I got mad because I have bad attitudes and I walked away but my other friend came and got me. When I got back I apologised and my friend told the angry person to apologise, she did but she didn t mean it. She walked off and didn t come back until my friend had to leave. And even then she just gave us her keys and told us to leave. I felt really angry how I had to wait alone in her street crying because of her waiting for my sister to pick me up. when my friend and I were walking back we started running at one point because there was a creepy man looking at us and apparently my friend came after us at the point thinking we were running away from her. She said she s sorry but I think what she did was stupid. She asked me something would you have come back for me if Alexandra didn t come get you I said I didn t know but I truth is I wouldn t of because when she gives this attitude I don t feel like being her friend. I want to ask her if your phone wouldn t of died would you have come back and even said sorry if Alexandra didn t have to go would you have snapped out of it but because I m too scared of what she would say I just say it s okay. She thinks I m okay but I m really not. I m sorry if this didn t make sence but what do I do? |
| Question: What should I do about my best friends brother ? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 02:57 PM PST My friend and I have been close for almost 9 years . I first went to her house when I was 11. One of her older brother who was 15 at the time was always mean and rude to everyone , especially me . His behavior in school was bad so he got sent away for a couple years . Now I m 15 and I m at my friends house once again . Her brother was moving back in so once he got to the house he went to her room . He didn t notice me at first because he said I "looked different " . He kelt saying that I grew up nicely . He was acting kind of inappropriate lay saying " Sports has really blessed you with nice legs "and "When do you turn eighteen " I was kind of uncomfortable but my friend didn t think much of it so I let it go . Now it s like he s so different around me , always trying to make me laugh and be around me . He s 19 and I m 15. What should I do about him ? |
| Question: My friend has feelings for me but I'm not gay? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 02:47 PM PST Two of my friends texted me saying one of our other friends was going to ask me out. I don't know what to do you know, that's my friend. I don't want to let him down but Im heterosexual. I doubt it's a prank because my assistant showed me an email where he was asking for advice. What do I tell him without hurting his feelings |
| Question: Why does my guy friend like it when I wear leggings? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 02:44 PM PST |
| Question: How can I get my revenge on someone you don't like? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 02:42 PM PST This girl at school talks about me and I wanna be nice and not kill her so how can I just make her life miserable btw we aren't friends and I don't know any one who is friends with her so I can become friends with her and use what she tells me against her |
| Posted: 13 Nov 2015 02:24 PM PST And I'm not rich, my parents are not rich. |
| Question: All of my friends are at a party except me? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 02:10 PM PST I don't know the host, but I know about everyone invited. The host doesn't want any other people to come, but I really feel so excluded right now, and I don't know how to handle the pain of seeing like 100 pictures on peoples' stories about how much fun they're having. I'm not there and I feel like I'm missing out on so many moments, and as if I'm not going to be a part of the crowd that's going to get invited to parties since I'm not there or anything. I feel so anxious about the fact that I'm not there but all of my friends are. I want to ask them if they can sneak me in but I'm not that kind of a person, don't worry, I won't do it. But it still sucks. Anyone know what I can do? |
| Question: Why does my friend only care about her interests? Why does she copy me too? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 02:00 PM PST Before she started copying me, she started kind of avoiding what I like. I cant tell if she doesnt care or if she is being rude but it makes me mad. Just a few minutes ago I told her how much I loved one direction's album and she sent me a picture of her new bathing suit ..... ????? What!!!!!??? And other times I'll bring up stuff and she'll start talking about HER favorite thing. I hate it because I never get mad at her for it. Sometimes, when I get fed up, i'll say one thing against her opinions or thoughts and she'll say: "I dont like your attitude" It leaves me so shocked that usually I just ignore her and mull it over in my head, because I never did anything wrong. She, of course, takes my thinking as me being mad at her, when im not. Also, I noticed her doing things I always do. She started wearing high tops with socks, over the knee socks, and doing her hair like me after I did it a certain way. I dont get her, why is she like this? |
| Question: This girl is really annoying me? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 01:36 PM PST My seat partner in language arts is probably one of the most annoying and obnoxious people I have ever met. Today, we were supposed to be writing and she kept drawing or doing other things and she kept looking over at my writing which was getting annoying. Then she said "You're not supposed to write it like that or you'll get points off" which was the last straw. She's not even focusing on her own work and instead focusing on mine and telling me that I'm doing something wrong. I really wanted to tell her that I think she should be focusing on her writing, not mine, but I thought that would be mean so I didn't say anything. How can I tell her to mind her own business or focus on herself in a nice way if she does that again? |
| Posted: 13 Nov 2015 01:24 PM PST I want to invite some friends to my hotel room, have food, drinks, and some music but is this possible. Like can you have music playing in your room? Like how many people can I have ? I don't want to waste my money. I need advise or something |
| Question: Do you ever lose your best friend? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 01:20 PM PST I haven't lost my best friend, but things aren't going as well as they used to now. I'm a sophomore in high school and I've had the same best friend since 7th grade. Well, there have been some issues now. He gets really angry with me, yelling "Good God (my name), no wonder my girlfriend gets mad at you!", even though his girlfriend has never been mad at me. Also, there's a friend of his that is mentally unstable that I don't pay much attention to and he got angry at me for that. (I'm not saying I don't care about him, I'm just saying that I don't really pay attention to him if he's acting crazy) Why did this happen? He used to not act like this and I can't recall doing anything that would make him act in this way. |
| Question: What to take from this girls reaction after i complimented her? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 01:10 PM PST i told a female colleague as i was walking past her that her hair looked great as she dyed it to a new colour and she said thanks good to see you and she smiled |
| Question: Friendship anniversary? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 12:58 PM PST My best friend is a guy. Our one year anniversary is coming up very soon. We no longer live in the same state but our friendship is as strong as ever. What are some awesome gifts to get that would really represent a friendship? |
| Question: I hate my friends mom? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 12:53 PM PST I'm 17 now and I've known her since I was 5 and she's always been rude and kind of a ***** to me. She's one of those moms that's in her 40's but still try's to act like a teenager. She always makes fun of me in front of her sons football friends to impress them. When I was 13 my buddy frank (her son) stayed over my house. He snuck a bottle of booze with him. My parents found out, I got grounded and I wasn't allowed to hang with him for a while. After school I told my parents I was doing a school project with another friend but I lied and went over franks house. His mom told me I quote " you tell your b*tch of a mother if she has a problem with my son to say it to my face". Well last weekend there was a party over franks . His mom kept talking about she was the most popular girl in high school and stuff. Then she started talking crap on my parents right in front of me. Saying they were losers in high school and how her husband used to beat up my dad just because he was a nerd and stuff. Then when I was in the bathroom. I heard her ask franks football buddies why they don't kick my *** because I'm apparently a weirdo. Then she was laughing and talking about how ugly I am and how no girls wanna be with me and stuff. I just went home without even telling anyone. I honestly regret not saying something. Why is she such a *****? |
| Question: Will she let me enter her life again? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 12:52 PM PST I had a friend who I had feelings for, I was 19 she was 23. she only wanted to be friends, but she was the nicest friend I ever had. she used to text me everyday but from last year in October we got distant so we beraly talk. she would text me once a week to say hi but now we don't talk anymore. ive even messaged her a couple times to say how much I miss her. but it still doesn't bring my friend back. she's not rude but she still sweet when I explain how much I miss her. can I ever be friends with her again. we got distant because I liked her soo she thought it wasn't fair for me to be around her.....but im okay with just being friends |
| Question: If someone does you wrongfully would you expose what you know on them? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 12:49 PM PST Exposing them would let others know who they truly are. These people pretend to be friends to others when they are telling me all their secrets. I don't know what to do, what would you do? Not only have they told me secrets about other people...others have heard them do this also. No one wants to expose them due to their high status in the church. I just think it's so wrong. |
| Question: How do I end this friendship with my bestfriend of five years? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 12:42 PM PST I am at the point where I truly believe that it would be best for us to part. Recently I have begun to realize how toxic he is. He constantly degrades me, he calls me whore, slut, *****, ****... you name it and thinks it's funny. Like he is joking around but I honestly just think he is mean. Also recently I was on his phone and I found in his picture gallery a file that had nude little boys. How can I end thus friendship in a simple, mature yet firm way? |
| Question: My friend tells me to text her, but never texts me first? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 12:40 PM PST I know this sounds stupid. But I hate being the friend that texts or makes plans first all the time. I have a friend that says things like "text me" or "we should hang out". But the problem is I always have to make the plans or text first. I know she is very busy because she has more friends and does more activities than me. But I feel like I'm making all of the plans. A lot of times we'll try to make plans, but never confirm them so they fall through. I have recently begun to distance myself from her because of this. I have around 6 other friends. I only text her every few weeks and hang out with her every few months. She calls me her best friend. But she calls around 20 other people that too and I consider her more of an acquaintance. |
| Question: Are my friends going to turn their backs on me? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 12:36 PM PST So I've been friends with these two kids since 8th grade, and we are all Juniors now and for the most part everything's been going well. Never any arguments, fights, etc. and even now things are going pretty well. But as of late, my two friends have been talking to this other kid I go to school with who I never really clicked with yet my two friends and him are really getting along with him. One of my friends is in the same class as him and they had to film a project together outside of school, so they ended up doing the thing and I soon learned that my other friend went over just to film it even though he isn't in the class and I didn't get invited to hang out. Could this be a sign that I could slowly be drifting away from their group? I'm also asking this because I used to have a group of "friends" in middle school and they would always hang out without me and eventually they kicked me of their group and started a bunch of rumors about me and I fear this is going to happen again. |
| Posted: 13 Nov 2015 12:30 PM PST My friend talked to my boyfriend A LOT (probably flirting) and he eventually tried to cheat on me with her so I had to break up with him. I had told her many times to stop talking to him. She went to football games with him and was going to ask him to help her move. He was the first relationship that actually meant something to me. I later found out that she had sent nudes to a lot of people and she won t admit that he was one of the people that got send a picture. She has dated 5 people in the past month and she has kissed almost all of them. We are only 13. She goes in her basement without the lights on and sends me pictures of them kissing in the dark to try and make me jealous. I stopped talking to her when I found out she sent things. and She doesn t want anyone to know that she sent nudes to people so I haven t told anyone yet even though I was really mad at her. She wanted to talk about a week ago so I did. I told her that I didn t tell anyone but I had many opportunities to tell the whole school but I didn t. She said that I threatened her and she told a lot of people. Everyone that knows about the nudes and all of her boyfriends is calling her a slut and I really don t want to be called that too. I blocked her on everything except for texting and she wants to talk to me and now idk if I should respond to her or not because she will turn it into something else if I do talk to her because she likes drama and attention. What should I do? |
| Question: Was I stupid to think we could of been friends still or no? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 12:27 PM PST I had this guy as a friends with benefits before but before we were best friends. Anyways I have a b/f now. I told him about it ( which btw I was scared to even tell him) Anyways now he said unfortunately we can't even be friends now. Supposedly it will cause problems but yet I don't see this. Am I wrong? |
| Question: What is wrong with him? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 12:27 PM PST Lately my buddy steve has been getting on my nerves. We are both 20 years old. I new him since high school but I didn't really hang with him until a few months ago. Nobody really liked him in in high school, I always thought it was just because he's weird but now I think it's because he's an idiot. He tends to act kind of selfish and childish. He can say anything he wants to anyone but if you make a joke back he acts like you are bullying him. 2 nights ago laid the icing on the cake. First he was saying my cousin is a creep because he's 37 and he's engaged to a 29 year old. And he kept going on and on about how "he needs to get a girl his own age" I'm actually happy for him because she's nice and really hot. Then later that night Steve was talking to my brother about the military because my brother just got home from marine boot camp. Steve said " no offense to you but I'm too confident of a person to join the military, I'm to proud of myself to let some sergeant yell in my face, plus the military is full of ignorant morons". My brother kind of got offended by that remark. What he hell is wrong with this dude? He wonders why he has no friends. It's like what goes through his mind? I've tried talking to him about it. I told him he sounds arrogant sometimes and he thought it was a compliment. He was like "haha I speak my mind". The ****? He's way too confident but honestly has nothing to back it up. He honestly has no friends besides me and everybody thinks he's weird. I feel bad about the weirdo thing but he is real socially awkward and stuff. But the cocky arrogance is irritating. |
| Question: Is it normal for members of any social group to ridicule a poser, and do I sound like one? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 12:21 PM PST I'm being ridiculed from a social group that places an emphasis on being a male who has hairstyles, wears slim-fit pants and has dance moves involving the hand and arms. And now I'm just wondering if it was normal for them to ridicule such person and if I sound like a poser I'm actually a self-conscious, non-violent male.. |
| Question: How to convince my parents to let me have a sleepover? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 12:18 PM PST I'm 17, turning 18 in July and a senior in high school. Well, first off I think I shouldn't really need to convince my parents to let me sleepover someone's house at my age. A major reason they may not trust me is because sometimes I get too drunk and get caught because I have to go home, but this never happened at a sleepover. This happened last Friday at my boyfriend's (of more than a year) house and his mother took me home. I didn't get in trouble, but I want to ask to sleepover my friend's house and I feel like she will say no because she doesn't trust me to not drink. Here's the thing. I haven't had a sleepover since Sophomore year, which was two years ago! I only drink once in a while, but everyone I know drinks and parties and do drugs! No, I'm not saying "well everyone else does it, so I should" but these people are going out to parties with a lot of people and I never go to parties and I feel like I miss out a lot because it's my senior year and the only thing I'm really allowed to do freedom wise is go to my boyfriend's house, and come home around 12. This makes me so upset because all of my school friends (school friends because I don't talk to them outside of school) party, have sleepovers, etc. And I don't really care for partying, but I would love to be able to sleepover my really good friends house, but I feel like my mom won't trust me! I'm almost done with high school, and then going to college.I had more freedom my sophomore and freshman year of high school! |
| Question: My friend always corrects me? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 12:11 PM PST Any time I say something wrong or misspelle a spelling she always calls me out on it she always says I'm doing stuff wrong and she thinks she's like one of the smartest people alive she's not , she likes to correct people all the time she's soooooo arrogant and cocky as well as big headed I was telling something today and she was saying no no that's wrong no you're soo stupid and I'm really hurt by it what should I do , has anyone got any smart remarks to say back to her and make her think ... |
| Question: HELP! This girl is obsessed with me? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 11:55 AM PST So I'm in year 11, (in high school), I've been friends with this person for a bit more than a year now and we are best friends but recently, things changed. The thing is, she used to like me and asked me out twice but the second time that she did, I told her the truth - I am gay. I think that she likes me too much and doesn't understand that I will never like her (as in boyfriend and girlfriend). She was fine with me being gay but then, when I told one of my other friends a few days later, she was there and apparently her mouth was wide open (in shock I guess.) Recently, we were talking about how we both wrote stories and here's the weird part: she wrote a fan-fiction of me being in a couple with her. Like WHY?! I didn't say anything mean but still, I'm really annoyed that she still likes me and sends me those Facebook romantic emojis and then pretends that she "pressed the wrong key". I don't think that she understands the term GAY. She might be in denial maybe but I'm starting to find it annoying. Otherwise, she is great but it's annoying that she always does that. :( Also, I haven't said "hi" to her yesterday so she though that I was ignoring her. She even told me that it hurts to be ignored but I was very busy and I told her that. Honestly, I don't know what to do. I'm scared that if I tell her that she needs to stop liking me, she will start crying or sending me those horrible Facebook messages pretending that we "broke-up". What should I do? Sorry if this was long. I only didn't say hello to her for one day. ONE DAY. It's not like I've ignored her for months or anything. :( |
| Question: Me and my friend like the same guy? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 11:52 AM PST so i work backstage for my school plays and stuff, and i started talking to this guy (call him dex) and ive grown quite fond of him over the past few days, idk what exactly it is about him but i got a small crush on him. well, one of my closest friends who does backstage with me (call her sally) texted me yesterday and told me that she told dex that she had a crush on him. she said he didnt really have a response to it, but they continued to talk to each other. she didnt know him much longer than i have, so its wasnt a "who liked him first" situation. she already has a major huge crush on this other guy, and used to never stop talking about him, so she says this isnt a big big crush (on dex), more like an attraction, but enough to call it a "crush". i didnt tell her i felt the same as she did, but i hinted it by saying that hes "cute and sweet and i see why (you) like him". i dont think she picked that up, lol. what do i do from here? obviously im not letting him get in the way of the friendship, but i want to know if i should give up on whatever i feel towards him? how do i control my feelings about him? not so much about me wanting to get with him (though id like to) but idk how she would feel about it if worst comes to worst and he does end up liking me you know |
| Question: My friends always hang out without me? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 11:40 AM PST Well, i've been in this friend group a long time. 4 years, to be exact. I don't want to complaint, but should i find new friends? I've got three friends. My best friend (A) and i have been hanging out for like, 8 years. He's always been like a brother to me, but he has become very popular the last 2 years, but i'm okay with it. I'm still a bullied loser, but i guess it's not his problem. Friend B is a guy i pretty much only am friends with because we live close together. We have fun together, but his sense of humor is... well... If you find "magic **** machines that jerk him so hard his *** paints houses white" is funny, hang out with that guy. B and A have become very close, so close that i even joke about them being gay, but i guess i just say that to make them pay attention to me, because they are always talking. Then C is also one of my buddies. C goes up to B, asks him to meet him "at the usual spot" and i said to B later "didn't know you two hanged out that much." because they never seemed like friends. I didn't mind much, went home. Then i see pictures of them hanging out together, all three. I forgave them, but found out that it wasn't the first time... I said it looked like fun and all when they sent me pictures, but... is someone your friend if they have to be reminded to invite you? I made a nickname for them "The Three Muskequeers" and i said the only reason they didn't invite me was because i wasn;t gay and i TOTALLY got that as a joke. But even though i joke about it, i still feel left out. Should i just leave them? They were hanging out this weekend, the only reason i was invited was because this other guy said i should be invited. We where just going to "hang out" at a place we've been before. I came there, i wait for half an hour, and they don't come. I come home (i live very far away from that spot, spent 1 hours walking home) and they just said to me "oh, sorry, we moved it". Why didn't they tell me? No, im not "clingy". I know i don't have to be there all the time. But why not invite me? Do they even consider me a friend? I don't really care, if they don't want me, i just leave. But still, why do they do this? What to do? |
| Question: How do I make friends? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 11:35 AM PST I'm about to graduate high school which is online. I have recently moved to a small town of 50,000. I am currently friendless and do not know where to go to meet people. Any tips are appreciated. |
| Question: I beat my best friend when he punched while drunk? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 11:24 AM PST Long story short, my best friend got into a fight while drunk. I tried to my very best to break it up. Then, he ends up punching me out of anger. So, I beat him, kicking his head a few times. (Don't worry, it was kind of a pushing kick. He was sitting on the ground.) The next morning, he threatens to beat me up, kill me etc, while blaming his actions on alcohol. I decided to sever my ties with him. What do ya'll think? Did I do the right thing? Was I suppose to just take the punch and let him beat me up and let it go? P.S. I don't take **** from people. P.P.S. He's no longer threatening me. He's just in shock that I kicked him in the head. |
| Question: I'm not invited to a party? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 10:24 AM PST There's this party tonight and I wasn't invited. A few of my friends were invited and so on, but apparently there's this super strict guest list to avoid the party going crazy, so I can't really go with them. I'm kind of stressing out because I feel very bad about the fact that I'm not invited. I don't know the host, but I'm kind of friends with her best friend. And I know that the host's best friend has invited both some of my friends and a few people she doesn't evven know, even though she has told me that there are no available places. I really don't know what to do right now. I want to go to the party but I can't crash it, because I don't have the address and I really just don't feel like being that person. I want to convince my friend to invite me but she keeps telling me that her friend just won't allow any more people. I just don't want to miss something important tonight. I feel like I'll be missing out big time if I don't go, and that everyone will keep on getting to know each other and becoming great friends while I'll just be at home. I've told people that I'm going to another party if I can't come to this one so that I won't feel as depressing, but honestly it's not helping me that much, more my reputation. I am often invited to parties, but I just don't want to miss out on this one (plus I'm worried I'll miss out on other ones in the future if I don't come now). How do I deal with this? Any advice on how to fix this? (I don't know about any other parties btw) |
| Question: Why does my Nan keep dwelling on this? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 09:57 AM PST So I have a friend I met through Facebook. We met like 3 years ago and we've been there for each other. The problem is, her mom doesn't like me. She doesn't like any of her friends or her boyfriend. I haven't told my Nan this because, she'll just say "oh see racist. white people hate black people" I don't know what to do. My friend isn't racist. Her mom is really overprotective or whatever. |
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| Posted: 13 Nov 2015 09:29 AM PST Why do blacks and mexicans refer to their friend as 'my homeboy' and white people as chinese people refer to their friend as 'buddy of mines'? |
| Question: Abusive friend.. advice? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 09:15 AM PST I have this friend I met through other friends. He s older than me and long story short, he became homeless and he lives in a homeless shelter but they have internet and he talks to me sometimes. He got surgery on his hand and it causes him pain because it s getting cold. Last night, I was showing him something I had written on my blog and he literally went off on me. I really didn t care about the nasty things he was saying to be honest because I have been bullied and abused half of my life and I learned to block it out because the things aren t true. He called me selfish, which everyone knows i m not and I know I m not, called me a cun^, a racial slur, and he tries to say he s sorry and he was just in pain this morning. He acted as if I ever said I was perfect and attacked every single thing that I ever have done or try to do. I don t know how to go about it because friends don t say or do things like that. Being in pain is no excuse for all of the things he said to me. I don t want to hold a grudge.. though.. but it s hard to just, "get over" Advice? |
| Question: HELP! This girl is obsessed with me? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 09:13 AM PST So I'm in year 11, (in high school), I've been friends with this person for a bit more than a year now and we are best friends but recently, things changed. The thing is, she used to like me and asked me out twice but the second time that she did, I told her the truth - I am gay. I think that she likes me too much and doesn't understand that I will never like her (as in boyfriend and girlfriend). She was fine with me being gay but then, when I told one of my other friends a few days later, she was there and apparently her mouth was wide open (in shock I guess.) Recently, we were talking about how we both wrote stories and here's the weird part: she wrote a fan-fiction of me being in a couple with her. Like WHY?! I didn't say anything mean but still, I'm really annoyed that she still likes me and sends me those Facebook romantic emojis and then pretends that she "pressed the wrong key". I don't think that she understands the term GAY. She might be in denial maybe but I'm starting to find it annoying. Otherwise, she is great but it's annoying that she always does that. :( |
| Question: How to get a better score than my friend? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 09:11 AM PST |
| Question: A group of friends are being assholes...? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 09:06 AM PST So, we're all seniors in high school. I'm going to say their name because I don't really care. Anyway, they keep saying that I d*** suck one of my other friends Chris. D*** sucking is when you're always trying to kiss up on him. I don't d*** suck Chris though. I know I talk to him a lot through the school day, but he usually comes to me! And the group of assholes keep saying that whenever I see Chris in the hallway, I always hit his chest in a friendly manner. BUT HE DOES THE SAME **** TO ME, AND ALL OF OUR FRIENDS! I also have another group of friends I hang out with. And my "friend" named Ali, keeps saying that I'm fake because I hang out with them too, and that I have to choose who to hang out with. But the thing is, I hang out with them all the time. We've done a bunch things outside of school, such as the movies, bonfire, etc. And my friend David does the EXACT SAME THING, but they say nothing to him. He also told me to not act like my friend Zion is really my friend. When in reality, he is. Over the summer, I worked with him at a grade school. While working with him, we've grown to become friends, and he considers it too. This whole thing is pissing me off, and I feel like I shouldn't even have friends anymore. What should I do? |
| Question: Is she really my true/real friend? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 08:57 AM PST I've known her for 5 years and we're now best friends. She only have me as a friend and does hear me rant. She's rarely angry even if I'm late for our meeting. However, she likes to put me down. She tend to compare with me everything, I'm more sociable so I tend to start convo with others while she doesn't but now, whenever I'm talking to my other friends, she would try to start convo with boys esp (idk why).She too does not support me with most of my decisions for example, i was telling her that I want to work at A shop but she disagree with me and after few weeks she suddenly told me that she got a job position at A shop. She also ALWAYS make things awkward in between my friends and I.for example I have a boy bestfriend and she clearly knows that we're just purely friends and she like to say things like 'oh what a sweet couple' 'you two look like couple' which makes things really awkward and she would smile when things are awkward. I'm not sure how I'm feeling towards her becos it's kinda hard as I have some hard feelings at her but I really want to keep her as a best friend but some things she does makes me annoyed and think if she's my true friend. Every single time I decided to tell her the truth but I can't say it out becos I'm afraid that she's hurt. What should I do and is she my true friend ? |
| Question: Should I ask her to come over? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 08:53 AM PST 20 in college now, very little experience with women. Been acquaintances with this girl for more than a year now, and in the same friends group since March. But we never really talked until a couple of weeks ago. Got along well, even if the conversation tended to be a little slow. We flirt a lot and make a lot of sexual innuendos and such. She let me touch her butt the other night, she danced over me while drunk and me lying on the floor. We've been to lunch a couple of times now and she asked me o join her and her one girlfriend to lunch yesterday. After which me and her got ice cream and talked for a while. Our texting conversation are sparse but light-hearted and fun. She said the other night that me and her should watch a movie with pizza and wine sometime. But I'm not sure if she meant it considering one of our mutual friends was part of the conversation. She expressly said just me and her. Another thing that makes me doubt whether I should invite her is I messaged her goodnight last night and she just ignored it. Been 24 hours and still no word from her. So, should I? Any other ideas? |
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| Question: Social anxiety??? I need help??? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 08:51 AM PST Ive had social anxiety my whole life (im 16 now) and i never ever had any friends. Now i finally met people who dont bully me and i actually have a chance to be friends with. Buuut everytime i talk to them i feel like i annoy them :/ and besides i dont know what to tell them. Can you give me advice on what to do? What to tell them? Thanks . ps: sorry for my bad english,but its not my first language |
| Posted: 13 Nov 2015 08:39 AM PST My husband had an emotional affair for about 8 months with a friend. He said he didn't cheat on me but the things he wrote to her should only have been said to me. From what I read, none of it was sexual, just more talk of loving her and admiring her. I found out about 5 months ago and he dropped her (no texts, calls, emails). Then I found out last week he contacted her again because he wants a friend that is a girl back in his life. He swears it won't turn into that kind of relationship again but I cant bear to think about her being back in our life again. What can I do to let him know its more than a jealousy thing and that she is toxic for our marriage? Am I in the wrong here for wanting to move on WITHOUT her in our life? |
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| Question: How can I get new friends and leave the other ones? Posted: 13 Nov 2015 08:35 AM PST Ive been friends with these people since 6th grade. In 6th grade i really wanted to be friends with them (I don't know why). From the being the always treated me like the lowest of them all. From 6th - 8th grade I grew to be the "leader" if you would. There have been so many signs that I shouldn't be friends with them but know I'm in 9th grade and I'm done. I want to make new friends and leave them. I play soccer with 2 of them and they are kinda cool. I like hanging out with one so I want to stay friends with her and peers with the other one. Any help on how to mix in with other people? One of my friends already left and i want to do the same. I hate hanging out with them. (Rn: I don't really hang with them too much but I totally want to cut some of them off) They are just no rude and negative. I don't want to be rude when i leave, I want to eave on a good note if that makes since. |
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