Family: Question: 16yo I want/need to move out.. but can I? I'm being verbally abused...?

Question: 16yo I want/need to move out.. but can I? I'm being verbally abused...?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 12:45 PM PST

I m 16yo and I live with my Mom, my parents are divorced. I see my Dad on weekends and some holidays. I don t want to live with my Mom because I am so tired of the constant verbal abuse... and if i cry while shes verbally abusing me she gets louder and louder and the words get worse. I don t want to live with my Mom but I don t want to live with my Dad either because my Dad is the same way and I absolutly hate my step mom and both her children one 11yo with ADHD and the other 12yo with suicidal threats and anger issues. I also have a blood brother 13yo and neither are abusive to him in any way its just me because he s the favorite he can do no wrong. I so much as fill the washer slightly too full and I get 3hours of being screamed at that I never help and that I am lazy etc. I work for my own money, I work at Mcdonalds all week long its not much at all but its a little i pay my own food, car insurence, phone, gas and other things like clothing etc. I guess my question is can I move out and live with another family member like my sister? shes 21yo and has her own home and she told me she d take me in but idk how that would work because certianly my parents wouldn t agree and i have a little brother would they force her to take him in? who would I talk about this to?? Idk I just need out 18months is too long to havee to go through all this....

Question: Why do people complain they have no money when they do?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 12:38 PM PST

So basically im 18 and my grandmother is 64. Pretty healthy and so is my grandfather. Anyway my grandfather had an amazing job (85k a yr) and has a great pension. But my grandmother always complain they have no money, my grandfather says they do which bring me to my question. Why to people complain about having no money when they do?

Question: My daughter will not talk to me or admit to me Santa isn't real? Please read!?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 12:38 PM PST

She is 13 years old and I know she doesn't believe in it by the way she acts. But when I talk to her she won admit or say anything it is just uncomfortable staring. I kinda have to buy her presents from "him" until she admits though, and since my son is too old to want anything it will be way too hard. Also, with my divorce I don't have that much extra money. What do I do?

Question: How t tell my mom that i sikp 2 periods?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 12:34 PM PST

Question: How do I not embarrass my nephews?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 12:32 PM PST

Question: Is it bad for me to have romantic feelings for my half-sister's fiance's half sister?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 12:29 PM PST

My sister and I have different mothers. Her fiance and his sister have different fathers. It's become obvious that we like eachother and it's not a lusty kind of attraction, it's an affectionate attraction. Would that work out?

Question: I'm in a relationship with a woman who already has a child. Should this change anything?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 12:27 PM PST

I've been seeing someone for around two years, and I care about her and her little girl a lot, but is this relationship long lasting? I'm 25 and she is a few years older but I have a few friends who say that I'm too young to be tied up with someone who already has a kid. I let things influence me too easily but there's another side telling me something different. I love them both, that's all I know.

Question: I want to move out but I'm afraid of leaving my little sisters behind with my mother?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 12:20 PM PST

What do I do? My mother is a complete ***** and is verbally abusive towards me. And has been for years. On my birthday three months ago she assaulted me.(just turned 17) it started with a hit in the face. Because I wasn't able to complete a task she asked me to do. And after that she chased me to my room and tackled me to the ground and started hitting me. She then kicked me out of the house and I lived with my friend for a few days. Then suddenly my mom wanted me back home and I had no choice but to go back. My friends family has offered to take me in and take care of me and pay for my school EVERYTHING I would have my own room and I would be taken cared of. I've know these people for years and they make me happy. Today they said they'd even get me a lawer about my rights but I'm really concerned about my sisters and I'm scared to leave...I know they're not my responsibilty but...who will take care of them? I'm always home to watch them. I Fix them dinner. How will she treat them once I'm gone?

Question: Am I spoiled or do I just wish to be spoiled..?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 12:18 PM PST

When I was younger I broke like 3 tablets and 2 3ds. I broke my xbox 360 and I asked for a new one and I always got it. Now my parents are kind of poor so I can't really get more stuff right now I just have an iphone 6s and a macbook pro and ipad air and ipad mini that's all. My mom lives in a really cheap apartment and my dad does to so I don't think I'm spoiled but I do think I used to be since I always broke my stuff and asked for new ones. What do you think? And please don't be harsh. This is just a simple question, that's all.

Question: Dad got me the wrong poster for Christmas?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 12:08 PM PST

I sent my dad a link to a John Lennon poster I wanted for Christmas, and I have been telling him I wanted it. I went on his email to read an email from my teacher and saw that he bought the wrong poster, and it was more expensive then the one I wanted. He also bought the wrong Bob Dylan poster. I'm pretty mad but can't tell him he got the wrong poster, because then he'll know I saw what he got me. What should I do?

Question: I want my dad to die?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 12:05 PM PST

My Christmas would be so much better without him. Has he ever considered offing himself so I can get his money and buy presents for people that matter instead of that annoying old prick? He false assumes everything!!!!~ he thinks I'm cheap and always use my little brother for everything (Long ******* story btw). I just want him to die and spend time with people that matter instead of that old prick who's not even my real dad, anyways.

Question: I ejaculated on my girlfriends face while she was asleep?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 12:04 PM PST

She got angry and she took all the left over peacon pies from thanksgiving. She is at her mothers house right now is she ever gonna come back it was a joke why does she have to act all crazy for jeez

Question: Is this child abuse?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 11:53 AM PST

Recently my mother slapped me in the face knocking my glasses off of my face because "I was embarrassing her with a messy house" She wanted me to lift heavy furniture up stairs by myself and since I couldn't do it she started yelling and hit me in the face. Is this considered abuse? I'm 17

Question: How do i tell my family about my internet life?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 11:52 AM PST

I'm a home schooled 15 year old who never leaves his bed room. I've met many friends on the internet for the past year and my parents don't even know i have a twitter. They're all older than me but none of them are older than 21. I've seen their faces multiple times and i know for a fact that they're not dangerous in any way, I'm just scared my family will be mad at me for not telling them for over a year. Especially because some of them swear and have inappropriate language.

Question: Anyone else dislike the holidays?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 11:47 AM PST

Am I the only one who doesn't like holidays? I'm embarrassed to admit this to my friend and loved ones. I loved the holidays when I was a kid but now that I'm an adult I find them to be stressful and slightly depressing. Im stuck between entertaining my husbands very large family that includes ex wife and her parents or spending time with my dysfunctional self centered narcissistic mother, step father and brother. I find holidays to be quite stressful and makes me feel inadequate to a certain extent.

Question: My family and friends keep thinking that I should get a girlfriend, but I can't, and besides I won't. What do I do?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 11:43 AM PST

Not only do I have bad people skills, but I know fully well that dating and marrying isn't worth it if you're broke and you still have grad school ahead. As a grad student I know it'd be stupid to date when I most need to focus on just passing classes and working hard to get at least have a chance at getting a half-decent job since most women worth their salt wouldn't date a broke grad school guy anyways, especially a guy who wants to be a professor since professors are considered low on the food chain anyways. Maybe they're desperate for me to date since I've always been single and a virgin by choice. So what do I say to them? I'm tired of them trying to say I should date and that being single, and probably not keeping any pets either, means my life will be miserable.

Question: My mom caught me naked!?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 11:33 AM PST

I sleep naked and walk around the house naked when nobody's home. Yesterday morning I heard the door shut so I went out into the kitchen to eat breakfast (naked) and my mom say everything. I'm a 12 year old boy

Question: Annoying younger cousin?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 11:22 AM PST

- She's 10 and she has the most b*tchiest attitude ever. - She won't ever shut up. ever. and it's worse cause I'll be doing hw and she'll sit next to me screaming. and locking the door doesn't work cause she'll just keep banging it and screaming. - She thinks everything is "dumb". like she'll hog my xbox or laptop and call it "dumb". If you don't like it, stop playing on it and give it to me omg. and it's not just that, she calls EVERYTHING dumb. -She curses a lot too, I feel so uncomfortable with a 10 year old saying sh*t.

Question: Do you think my mom has Tourette's syndrome?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 11:18 AM PST

My mom clears her throat, coughs, and sniffs alllll the time. Like 10 times per 40 seconds. It's gotten so annoying that me and my dad will tell her to stop and shush her whenever she does it. She tells us she has something called "Post Nasal Drip," but I did some research on it and it's not something that is chronic. I know all these things are symptoms of Tourettes, and I've noticed she always sniffs, coughs, and clears her throats at certain times. After every time she yawns, when she says something awkward, after every time she laughs, she likes to do it especially loud when she cleans dishes, and when she exercises she does it like crazy. She also does this thing with her eyes where she opens them really really wide for a few seconds. My friends have noticed it and they'll be like "Ok why does your mom keep doing that thing with her eyes it's so creepy?" The last thing is that I have a few tics myself. When I was younger it used to be a lot worse but now it's better. I used to sniff all the time and my parents would tell me to stop, I would open my eyes like her but i stopped, I used to blink like 100 times per minute but i stopped, and now I just wiggle my toes like crazy. Do you think I get this from her?

Question: My parents are discouraging me about my dreams what should i do and tell them ):?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 11:14 AM PST

Question: Should i cut my dad out of my life?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 11:11 AM PST

My mom may as well have been a single parent because my dad was useless. He was in the home but he never interacted with us kids much. I don't recall ever spending time with him- we never went out with him, never played with him. Then my parents divorced when I was 15 and from them on I'd see him once a month or so until I was 18. Now I'm 26 and I see him about twice a year despite the fact that he lives a mile away. He randomly texted me last week, saying he knows I won't come and see him over Christmas and basically he's playing victim. Acting like us kids are horrible people for not making an effort with him. He was the adult and he didn't make an effort with us. And now we don't need him. We never built a bond so no, we don't miss him, we don't think to call him. We're not interested. It's too late. Should I block his calls? This isnt me being spiteful. It's just the truth. Essentially we feel like we never had a dad. Now it's coming back to bite him on the @ss when he's older and lonely

Question: Can I deny my toxic sister's demand to let my daughter be her flower girl?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 10:59 AM PST

My sister is a very toxic person to be around even in normal circumstances. She is very controlling on everything. She threatened to take custody of my daughter for putting my daughter's father on the birth certificate and for him being in the operating room when I had my c section. She also has called my daughter a ****** on numerous occasions. I honestly do not want to allow my daughter to be in her wedding because my sister has already made it clear that she is going to be a major bridezilla. I do not want to give my sister the opportunity to be hateful towards my child (even if it is her wedding) being that my daughter will not even be a year old by the time her wedding comes around. Can I deny her demand to have my daughter in her wedding?

Question: What age did you move out of your parents house?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 10:55 AM PST

I am 18 and think I'm ready to move out. I have 4 younger siblings and I feel like it's time to be on my own. Besides living under my parents roof and eating food they buy, I am very independent. I work part time and I am starting at a community college in 2 months. I don't really want a roommate because I feel like I can handle it. I know it will be a big responsibility but I'm willing to try. I need more space personally and I feel like my family could use my extra space. If anything were to go wrong, I know my mom would help me out or even take me back in, if necessary. I want feedback on how things worked out for you when you moved out. :)

Question: Why does my 8 year old sister get a phone and not me? (If you read this, answer this question)?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 10:47 AM PST

So I'm a girl (13) and my sister is the youngest. We have an autistic brother who is 11 years old. My dad gave me a phone when I was 10 years old and I had it for about 7-8 months. Fast forward 3 years and you have my sister and I. My sister gets my mom's old phone in April of this year (2015). Mind you it was a SMART PHONE and I got a a SLIDE/FLIP PHONE. And this was both our FIRST PHONES. She has it well into the summer when she loses it in August because she left in at Kmart. (I told her I would hold it for her but NOOOO she wants to hold it herself. Wtf) So this month my dad gave her ANOTHER smartphone. (The first one was a Kyocera from boost mobile and this time it's a tracfone). He said, AND I QUOTE, "It's because she's been helping me." ***** WHERE. SHE WOULDN'T EVEN LEAN OVER AND PICK UP HER TRASH IN THE CAR TO GIVE TO MY MOM. And yet, YET, somehow she gets a phone. My dad keeps saying that I don't have one because: I'm not "responsible" enough. MY SISTER PLAYS ******* GAMES AND WATCHES MY LITTLE PONY, ALL THE WHILE HER HOMEWORK IS ON THE TABLE UNCOMPLETED. I don't help enough.SO? It's not like my sister has been helping when she got her phone. I play too many games. -_- What the actual ****. He took my iPod because I was "playing too many games" when I was really on social media waiting for my grandmother to make me breakfast. (Which she does every morning) I don't have an "interest in communication". MAYBE IF I ACTUALLY HUNG OUT WITH PEOPLE. But nooo, I can't hang out with people he doesn't know. I'm not jealous of my sister, but I can't comprehend what cleaning your ******* room has to do wit getting a phone when I made the honor roll. She doesn't even talk to people on her phone I lost the flip phone in the 6th grade and my dad says I "threw it away" when I didn't.

Question: Why are my parents so bitter?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 10:46 AM PST

I am currently living with my parents, who are in their mid 60s. Since we moved interstate 3 years ago, my parents had slowed down and my dad has been cranky. My dad is more likely to shout us down more or tell us to be quiet. They only go out two or three times a week, and seem content on staying indoors, reading or surfing the internet on their laptops. I respect my parents and strive to help them around the house, but as far as socialising goes, they don't talk much. I try to engage them in conversation, they say very little, and even when they talk, it's brief and almost cutting in tone. My dad is cranky most of the time and I don't talk to him often. It's quite depressing. It can't just be age because I know a lot of happy, upbeat old people.

Question: What do i do to gain my daughter's love ? Please help ?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 10:30 AM PST

I'm 23 years old and i got pregnant with my daughter when i was 18 years old, me and her dad are not married, & getting pregnant with my daughter wasn't planned we were just young and stupid, anyways... after i gave birth to my baby girl i had an accident and i was in coma for 4 years, i don't know if god wanted me to live and gave me a second chance, but all the doctors here in california told me that my case was really a miracle, When i woke up everything was different, my daughter's father was married to another woman, that she stills call "mum", and my mother was taking care of her too, while i was in the hospital, mum was the only person who never left me she had hope that i will wake up eventhough everyone gave up on me, she didn't want to let me go... Now my daughter doesn't recognize me cause she never saw me in all this time, she thinks that the other woman is her mother, I've been trying to visit her, i buy her toys and things, i'm even planning for her birthday party right now, But she doesn't love me as much as she loves her father and his wife, they told her i'm just a friend to not shock her, she's still a baby she doesn't understand anything, The other woman tells me to stay away, because she and the girl are now attached to each other, and she can't live without her, she says that she loves her more than anything, and she raised her for 4 years, but i want my daughter back, how do i tell her the truth and how to gain her love ? I'm so scared of her reaction ?

Question: What is the purpose of my life and how can I change everything?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 10:24 AM PST

I haven't been feeling too great lately and I have so many things spinning in my mind. I'm still 17 but I've been through a lot and it's starting to affect me pretty badly. It's been almost 6 years since I lost my mum and that pain won't ever go away. I live with my dad and two brothers and I'm studying as much as possible to do well in my life but often I feel really numb. I'm often really happy but I have moments when I struggle a lot and it's something I cannot control. We've recently just moved and I no longer have that closeness with my friends. We talk but it's not the same.

Question: My parents always think I'm in the wrong, no matter the circumstance.?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 10:20 AM PST

Everything is wrong. What time I wake up, when I take a shower, when I do ANYTHING, my hobbies, what I think is funny, what I don't think is funny. The list goes on and on, and contains a few sensible things and a vast pile of ridiculous, nonsensical JUNK. If there is any way for me to persuade them to let me live at least a small portion of my life as an independent individual, I'd love to hear your answer.

Question: Calling out of work for Christmas eve? help?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 10:19 AM PST

Im a college student working in retail. I go to school about 3hrs away. Therefore, I really only come home to work on breaks (one week for thanksgiving, and about a month for winter, then spring break week) and of course in the summer. This year they put me to work Thanksgiving so I didn t get to eat with family at all, and I also have to work today for Black Friday, as well as tomorrow before heading back to school sunday. This week has been stressful and they ve loaded on the shifts and for a college student who stresses over her studies at school and barely gets to see her family anymore, it was very difficult for me to miss Thanksgiving yesterday for a stupid, money-hungry occasion that retailers succumb to. I get a month off for winter break coming up in a few weeks and I was wondering if it would be terrible to tell them I may be going away to visit family for a few days, causing me to miss christmas eve? I don t want to miss another holiday with family this year as it has been a very difficult and emotional semester for me at school and being home is the only thing that allows me to decompress. I ve had a lot of personal issues, so imagine my excitement coming home this week to find out I was only getting 1 day off for a part time job. Would it be terrible to call in and tell them about xmas eve?

Question: How to make my parents get a job?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 10:05 AM PST

Question: Why does my mom hate me?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 09:51 AM PST

I get that I'm not the best of kids. I scrape by with barely-A grades and spend a lot of time at my barn (which I have to pay for by myself) with my horse (again, paid for all by me) and she has to raise me alone with no support from my father, but she just hates me so much and I dont understand why. For example, we always do a deep clean of the house on Black Friday. This morning, I woke up "too late" to be useful (I woke up at nine, which is really not that unreasonable because we were at a dinner party with my aunt last night that went until two in the morning and we got back home at two thirty). I explained that I was just really tired from the party, but I could have my room and the bathrooms cleaned by this afternoon. She told me that it had better be done or I would be "out of here" again, which means she kicks me out of the house and I can't come back until it's sunset and I have to basically beg to be let in. She does this all the time because she "can't stand to look at me" no matter what state of undress I'm in. One time she kicked me out when I was wearing spandex gym shorts and a sport's bra. I luckily got to my friend's house, which is really close, and he let me borrow a t-shirt and a pair of his sister's flip-flops. She yells at me all the time about how I really need to shape up and get better grades (I'm a straight-A honors student) and how I'm turning out "just like my dad" and how "you'll be a drunk drug addict in two years, I swear" Why does she hate me? I also never mentioned that she refuses to support any of my decisions. I love theatre, because of my uncle, and I'm on the stage crew for my school. She refuses to offer me a way home. She doesn't drive me to the barn (which I fund with money from working there) so I have to beg neighbors to drive me. I have to buy my own lunch every day and dinner at least twice a week because "the food in this house was paid for by me". Even if I buy food to keep, she eats it and says its her house anyway. My dad left when I was two months old. Haven't seen or heard from him since. He hasn't paid a cent to my mom to help support us. Even if I did get in contact now, I'm not sure I would want to have anything to do with him after we had a long sit-down chat.

Question: Is it ok for a brother to hit his sister?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 09:42 AM PST

So for years my older brother who is now 15 hits me when ever he doesn t get what he wants or things don t go his way. I m 14, and when ever I tell someone they don t believe me and call me a lying brat. I m honestly so tired of this happened because it s a daily thing.

Question: What should I do about my aunt?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 09:39 AM PST

My aunt is a terrible person, and, no, there's no good in her at all. None. She hates my mom, spreads lies, called children's services to take my epileptic nine year old little sister away, tried to get me committed into the psych ward, and tried to kill my mom. We - my mom, other aunt, sister, and I - might move soon, but we know if we do, she'll suddenly have problems with her husband and try to move in with us or move close to where we might live. According to my mom and my other aunt, she always does this; she moves to wherever my mom goes. It's honestly terrifying, especially when I found out she tried to kill my mom when they were in a car. My aunt yanked the car, and my mom hit her head on the dashboard. She then said she was trying to kill her and it was too bad it didn't work. She starts crap, she gossips about us, and recently, when we went over to Thanksgiving, she said she didn't invite us when we left. So, yeah, we were never welcomed even though she said we were. So, here's my question, what should we do if we do decide to move? I don't think any of us can take it if she follows us again. She also threw a phone at my mom when she was pregnant with me.

Question: Does anyone know what social group and type of dance moves my macho brother has permanently blacklisted me from?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 09:34 AM PST

I was permanently blacklisted from a program that would've suited my personality quite perfectly, and this program basically gives each males hairstyle ideas and dance moves involving hand and arms. Here's something about my brother who got me permanently blacklisted after parents took him and my teen siblings without me since I was sick. My 27-year-old macho brother is a violent person who had assaulted parents and siblings on a number of occasions, is very immature for his age where he still lives with parents and doesn't work. Their dance arm/dance move appears to be a cross between tecktonik and this one https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=El9DpZLvi6A

Question: Is my Dad out of line looking at my gf stuff?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 09:24 AM PST

My parents came for the Holliday. My Dad kept going down stairs and i went down and he was in our bedroom looking at my gf dirty underwear. Said he was cleaning. Im like right. My gf and i had sex that morning and she left her clothes on the ground and we always shut our door to our bedroom and it was shut at this time too. My dad shouldnt be in there

Question: Hey, My sis who is 10 is having trouble breathing. She said when she lays down or just out of nowhere it gets hard?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 09:22 AM PST

She told are mom BUT of course she says its nothing but im a little worried. Is there a house hold item that will help her Im only 12 on my sisters account so i cant buy anything Thanks sooo much anonymous but are dad thinks the same thing Now if you see this question PLEASE answer because im me and her are home alone and I dont have my phone here I left it at my friends and my sister cant breath at ALL R.I.P. Zoe, My DEAD little sister. Yes she could not breath an now she is dead. ): So now my question is how do I not feel sad

Question: Is love really THAT blind?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 09:14 AM PST

my cousin is dating a gangster's daughter!! no need to tell me how dangerous it is. i'm fully aware of the risk. but my moron of a cousin doesn't. he think he's in one of those romeo and julliette movies. he's gonna get himself killed.

Question: I got in trouble for something i ddidnt do?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 08:53 AM PST

so i was grounded rrecently for gettting into a ffight. which thre is nnothhing wwrong with that. i was not allowed off the property. one day, i went off to my front yard too relax. then mmy sister came home and assumed i went off the property. she then told ym parents that i went to the store.. i tried to explain to them thhat ii ddidnt leave the property. but they only lisstened o my sister for an extra week. i cant change that, but i want to try to prevent this from happening again. how can i do that?

Question: What would you name these three characters?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 08:52 AM PST

1.Born on May 18th 1998. She hazel eyes & long brown hair. She is average height at five feet eight inches tall. She is sweet, smart, loving, caring, gentle, & kind. She married her high school sweetheart. She loves literature so much she went to college to teach it. 2.Born on February 14th 1999 She is the tallest of her sisters at six feet tall; she has dark brown hair & brown eyes. She is an artist; she is very close to her younger sister. She loves to paint; she went to the same college to study painting as her sister attended to study photography. They even shared a dorm room. She is stubborn & independent; she is also very protective of her family especially her younger sisters because they are so close. 3.Born on October 22nd 2026. He is closest to his only brother because they & their father are the only boys in the house but that doesn't mean he doesn't love his 7 sisters, he does & he is very protective of them. He is also sweet, polite, loving, caring & kind and the combination makes him a chick magnet which his mother despises. He has broad shoulders, brown hair, & brown eyes. He is 6 feet tall. One would think that because of his appearance he was a football player & liked sports but it's actually quite the opposite. He is artistic like his mother & her family. He especially loves to draw. He was going to go to college to draw but when he became a single father to a little girl at the age of seventeen he changed his plans & became a high school art teacher. 1. These are character sketches from a story. 2. Please include three names: first, middle, and last for best answer. Also include a married and maiden name for the first one who married her high school sweetheart. 3. None of these characters are related. They cannot have the same last name. 4. Feel free to use two first names or two middle names.

Question: My parents favorite my siblings and they are adults should i talk to them about it?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 08:42 AM PST

(this is kind of a rant but whatever) Ok so i am 14 and my older sister is 24 and my brother is 21. Since it's black friday today i asked my parents if i could go school clothes shopping (They never took me bc they spent my school money on my brother) and they said they had no money since they are helping out my sister with money issues and stuff. They do this whenever i ask for anything. They treat me like i have a job and i have a lot of money and complain when i ask for them to buy something for me like pants or a binder for school and tell me to get a job. But if one of my siblings are in trouble they instantly pull out money for them and say they do more than i do and they have a job. Its annoying i love my siblings but my parents are shoved so far up their *** its annoying. When my brother was a teenager my mom would buy him expensive shoes and he would ruin them in a week(keep in mind this is when my mom worked at a supermarket) but if i ever thought of doing that now they would murder me(now my mom makes a ton of money). i dont understand, they always contradict themselves and say they would do anything for me but when i ripped my pants on my locker in gym they complained and said im too expensive even though i had those pants for 2 years and they refused to buy me new ones bc 'moneys tight'. I probably sound like a whiny teenager(i am tbh) but i can't be the only one who see's the strong favoritism my parents have for my older siblings.

Question: PARENTS FIGHTING?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 08:36 AM PST

I have no idea why my post got removed. My parents fight about stupid stuff,and threatened to divorce. But never do. I want to move out but I am too young. I can't wait till I graduate. I can't talk to them and just tell them to divorce because I've tried it and it never worked. What to do?

Question: What age group is puberty?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 08:30 AM PST

Question: My family didn't call me on Thanksgiving! What should I do?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 08:22 AM PST

I have a terminal illness and am now housebound. I've lost down to 84 pounds and am too weak to drive. My dad lives several hours away but he always calls me on holidays. My two brothers are hit and miss so that's par for the course but my father didn't call and hasn't called. I'm confused and I know I could call but I'm wondering what I'll confront. Advice? Thanks for all the answers. I should have also said that my entire family is pretty large and there's a system we have so that no one goes without getting information so if something had been wrong I would've known. My mistake not saying that. That was the reason I was so confused. Anyway, I called and apologized for not calling and he said it was because I was so sick he didn't want to bother me but I'm still thinking something else is going on but I guess I just have to accept that.

Question: Is it wrong to be rude to my grandma if she makes me like crap all the time?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 08:19 AM PST

... So me and my dad don't get along much, so my grandma takes his side most of the time being her son and all. So when she makes my feel like crap for not getting along with my dad all the time is it wrong that I don't give a bunch of respect? What should I do?

Question: HELP ME WITH GIRL!! NEED ADVICE!! WHAT DOES IT MEAN?? WHAT DO I DO OR SAY?? READ FULL BE HONEST?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 08:06 AM PST

There's this girl who is confusing me and creepy. The last two classes I haven't caught her staring at me but before I would catch her staring at me. Once a little over a week ago she literally couldn't take her eyes off of me according to my friend. She never tries to talk to me. She doesn't smile or say hi or anything. One time she followed me back from the library she was literally right behind e but hasn't done that since. The last 2 classes I catch her looking once or maybe a few times during class. My friend says if she really liked me she would smile or try to talk to you which she hasn't. I don't know what to do or believe. Sometimes I get the feeling that she is looking at me but when I look up she isnt unless she cant hide it well. Help me! The only time we talked was for a class game and it was awkward that was like 4 weeks ago though. My friend says shes a ***** and has attitude . He says not to ask her out unless u want to be hurt emotionally. She started talking to another guy in my class and they sat next to each other looking at stuff on her computer and talking about something. But the whole time i had this sick feeling in my stomach. I heard her telling the guy that she needed help with some book for class so they were going to meet after get got off work on Sunday at 9 pm at her house. He has no curfew. What does it mean?I don't see her again til Dec 1.If she wants me to do anything why is she meeting with the other guy at night? The guy isn't dating her i think the guy has a girlfriend already. She just needed his help for something for a class project apparently

Question: I hate being 21?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 08:05 AM PST

I feel 18-23 is the worst part of your life. You are too old to be considered a kid, but not quit a grown adult yet. Now I live like an adult, since I was 18 I've had my own apartment and job. I have bills and work like any other adults. But then some 60 year old will come round and look at me as some dumb naive kid. It actually depresses me sometimes being at this age, everyone treats you like a kid yet you are expect to act like an adult.

Question: My sister hates me and disowns me I don't know why?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 07:58 AM PST

OK so I have two sisters. My sister Amy is driving me insane. I'm depressed and she makes me feel worse she always tells me I'm black hearted, pathetic, stupid, and asshole and failure. She yells at me for being depressed and she always tells me she hates me and wishes I was dead or gone. It really hurts me. I always cry because of her. She always goes to my older sister and tell her that she loves her. And hangout with her and it's like I'm not even there. She always like's to see me hurt sad. I can't take it anymore she always yell at me I'm feeling very low. And i hate myself because of her. I had a rough life I was abused physically and emotionally by my aunt for years and I felt worthless and I'm hurt but my aunt stopped abusing me 5 years ago my sister said that I deserved it. And when I talk about how i feel to everyone she says I'm pathetic and I have black heart. And i should leave .I'm seriously hurt I don't know what to do I feel like I'm alone in the world no one support me. Thank's for the advice and for your time I don't know why I care what my sister thinks I just don't know why she hates me

Question: I am 13 and my step-brother is 15 and ......Plz help!?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 07:53 AM PST

OnE night as usual mom and dad went out for dinner I got sleepy.I told my Bro that I am going to bed.he hold my arm so tightly pulled me towards himself.And made me sit on sofa it was weird then he push me to la on sofa I didn't wanted but he was powerful and made me lay then he lay on me put his hand in my night pajama and kissing me I tried my best to push him away but he was too powerful then he take my hand and place it in his pant I told him to stop! But he lick my ear and said don't you do such things with your boy friend and I don't do these kinda things.I didn't talk to Bro for at least 3 weeks and WE DIDNOT HAVE SEX.he tried but I manage to escape and lock the door.And he is still looking forward to do such things with me.

Question: Do you come from a family that is very close to each other?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 07:46 AM PST

My family is very close to each other and we have family reunions, thanksgivings, birthday parties, and funerals together. I am the youngest in my family out of all my cousins so my cousins and aunts and uncles are really protective of me. It sucks sometimes because no matter how old you get, they will always see you as the baby. Everyone in my family annoys the hell out of me but if someone outside of my family tries to mess with me, then they will go missing. This is not a complaint, only a real life story.

Question: How do I get my sister to realize her behavior is inappropriate.?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 07:26 AM PST

My sister is 18 and I'm 14. My sister has anger issues, is disrespectful, and lies frequently. Let's begin with her anger issues. She'll get mad over nothing, I was once in her room petting the cat, and when I picked up the cat, she scremed "STOP, PUT HER DOWN" really loudly. I calmly told her there was no reason to get angry. She does this with almost any situation. She is also extremely disrespectful, my parents were upset that she didn't call them and tell them she would be home late when she was with her friends. She said she'd be home at 9 and ended up comming at 10:30. They didn't say anything to her but I just over heard them talking. I told her when she got home, and then she started saying that she hated my parents and that they give her no freedom. She constantly says she hates my mom, this is extremely disrespectful because my mom does so much for us. My sisters frequent lying has become intolerable. She lies about almost anything. She told my dad she was going to the beach with some friends, but she actually went to Connecticut. We live in Massachusetts. She also puts her friends before family, and this is extremely sad. She told me she'd take me Black Friday shopping if my parents agreed, then today (Black Friday) she said "I'm not taking you" with a smile on her face. I asked her if she knew she wasn't going to take me then why did she promise me and she just ignored me. How do I have her realize her actions are not appropriate, this is becoming a major problem.

Question: Can you teach some body empathy?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 07:12 AM PST

Really? I love my fiance he is so good to me but the one thing about him I cant live with is he soi cold toward some ppl. His family is really well to do and he has always had money and he is kinda spolied. And OK I had a realy shtty time when I was a kid Like my parents had no money and kinda ignore me. And like start about 7 grade would just give me like 20 bucks and say go by clothes. And I went to school in like stuff from good will and looked like a fcking crack whore really. Id go to the bath room and cry I would see other girls with new clothes. I had to go to school in winter with sandals and freeze I couldnt buy socks or under ware or nothing and I felt like a fcking crack whore. And heres the thing he knows that and he is so good to me but he still treats homeless ppl and poor ppl like there nothing. Like yesterday this there was an ad on for NY Food Bank and he said yea right like they dont all get food stamp any way. It kind of hurt me. I love him so much and he is so good to me but some times he just acts so cold to ppl who need help. I dont know how to tell him that.

Question: My dad is too overprotective?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 07:02 AM PST

I'm 16, and I live with my dad. I don't have a mom around, unfortunately. Anyway, my dad and I are incredibly close, and I'd put him before anyone and anything. However, while he would say the same for me, he takes it to an entirely different level. I feel like as if I can't breathe, even. I'm not allowed to go anywhere by myself, because he swears that I'll get abducted. When he allows me to go out with friends, he guilt trips me by saying things like "Be safe, be careful, I don't know what I'd do if I lost you." It worries me, and makes me not want to even leave sometimes. Whenever I tell him of someone that bothers me, he confronts them personally and scares them. Once, when my guy best friend had playfully hit me, my dad snuck up behind him and TWISTED his ear all around, whispering "You don't EVER put your hands on a woman." It's scary, and overwhelming. I think he may be like this because my mother died when I was 2, and now I'm all he really has left. How can I get him to stop, though? I hate seeing him act like this. I'm just a kid, and I need my father for more than what's offered. Help, please.

Question: My mother wants me to go to my room when my sisters' friends come over?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 06:57 AM PST

I got 4 sisters, all younger than me, and when they come my mom wants me to go because I look bad. Well, if she'd let me take a shower, maybe I wouldn't look like a crazy person off the street. I take daily showers, she demands I stop. I'm sick at home and not take a shower, "go upstairs son, they're making fun of you. Why do I have to lock myself up in my room, why can't she not let those girls in? Someone wil probably wonder why I look bad. Well, I've got 5 inches of curly hair, and when I wake up in the morning I don't look good. I therefore shower every school day.

Question: How to tell my 'dad' to basically f off?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 06:43 AM PST

The father basically hurt us physically and emotionally over the course of our lives. Like put us through lectures that pertained to him and not us for hours, chased us into the bathroom with the intent to hurt us, smacked us and alot more. So I am so done with him and havent talked to him in months. He has been trying to be aroumd me more and try to get my forgiveness by talking or being near me. He only said sorry once but he still emotionally and psycally tortures us. My mom doesnt talk to him either, only a few times about money and him going overseas for work. I dont want him in my life and every day hes here is an awful day. How can I tell him to f off?

Question: What do I do if my brother played with my morning wood?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 05:25 AM PST

We just stayed overnight at my grandparents for Thanksgiving, and we had to sleep on the same blow-up bed. (There's no more room anywhere else) We were sleeping side by side. I was sleeping shirtless with like gym shorts on, and he was sleeping with a t-shirt and boxers. When I woke up this morning, he had pulled back the covers and had pulled down my shorts, and was playing with my morning wood? He was rubbing it and pulling it back to slap it against my belly. What do I do? I just pretended I was asleep and he went away but what do I do tonight?

Question: My younger sister hates me and she disowned me?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 04:56 AM PST

OK so I have two sisters. My sister Amy is driving me insane. I'm depressed and she makes me feel worse she always tells me I'm black hearted, pathetic, stupid, and asshole and failure. She yells at me for being depressed and she always tells me she hates me and wishes I was dead or gone. It really hurts me. I always cry because of her. She always goes to my older sister and tell her that she loves her. And hangout with her and it's like I'm not even there. She always like's to see me hurt sad. I can't take it anymore she always yell at me I'm feeling very low. And i hate myself because of her. I had a rough life I was abused physically and emotionally by my aunt for years and I felt worthless and I'm hurt but my aunt stopped abusing me 5 years ago my sister said that I deserved it. And when I talk about how i feel to everyone she says I'm pathetic and I have black heart. And i should leave .I'm seriously hurt I don't know what to do I feel like I'm alone in the world no one support me. Thank's for the advice and for your time

Question: My sister wants to move in on a more permanent basis. What would be the best decision?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 04:55 AM PST

I left my family to live with my girlfriend and we lived together for 4 years and were together for 7 years but that all changed a few months ago. The break up took a lot out of me and I'm still struggling to deal with it all especially since she moved out with our 2 year old daughter. My sister has had some problems in her life and at home and we always try to be there for each other. I'm 25 and she's 19 but we're practically best friends and I'd have crumbled without her advice and support. She's been hanging around a lot lately and has really helped and started to pay her way too. I like having my own independence but it feels weird not having anyone to talk or share things with. I miss not having my daughter around. My sister and I never had a father figure and our mother is so career driven. It's difficult.

Question: He is so cruel?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 04:40 AM PST

So yesterday on Thanksgiving my boyfriend and I went to his sisters for Thanksgiving lunch. Then we were to go to my daughters for dinner. He told me one hour into the time with his family (which he complains he never sees) he was tired and wanted to go home. His sister told him to take a plate of food home for dinner. I drove him 38 miles back home and then left for my daughters 45 miles in the other direction. Spent time with my daughter and did not fix him a plate to take home because his sister already had. I got home and was yelled at and ordered to go back out into the rain/sleet mix to go find him something to eat somewhere. I offered to fix him a frozen pizza because itw as getting slick outside and I didn't want to chance an accident. So he agreed. My daughter put the pizza in the oven and I got out of my wet clothes and put my pjs on. Then after he eats the pizza he says he wanted turkey. I offered to run to quick trip and get him a turkey sandwhich then he began to complain about pie. I then offered to go to wally world and buy a pie and bring it home for him. He began to call me names and I got out of him that after 6 1/2 years of which 2 we have been engaged he finds me fat, ugly and disgusting. I had suspected this for some time as we have not had sex in two years and he is not affectionate with me.

Question: Dis-owned by a brother or sister?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 04:23 AM PST

My brother disowned me two years ago, and it still hurts on the holidays. He was cruel to me as a child, and used to beat me to the point of knocking my breath out when I was little. As a teen, he used to call me "fat and flat". We became friends when he was an adult. His daughter put me on a MMG, which entailed her idiot friend messaging some guy ten times a day. Me, and everyone else saw the whole "romance" play out. In finally texted to this girl, hey, you know that EVERYONE sees the things you text to this guy. She wrote back, rudely, saying the of course she did, and then spun it back, like what am I doing even being awake at 5am. I said, because you're keeping me up you stupid ****. So, my brother got massive backlash from his daughter's school for this, and cc'd our parents....bty, we're both in our 30's, so it's ludicrous to involve our mom and dad in this. He gets with strippers behind his wife's back, so he should shut the f up. Point is, does he have a point, or am I just an idiot?

Question: I am trying to help my girlfriend mother find a job but they are so protective of her?

Posted: 27 Nov 2015 04:11 AM PST

She lost her job recently. Her mom is a very gently woman. She is not one to take up a lot of space, she loves her family more than anything and she's not had many jobs. She used to work in a school cafeteria and that was the perfect place for her. Then she worked in a catering business with easier tasks and such. I've called every larger kitchen in the city. Most don't really need anyone right now. It's the restaurant business and people quit to the left and right so something might turn up. But I asked my gf if maybe she could work with taking care of the elderly. But she was complately against that. They view their mom as this woman that needs sheltering, nurture and care. They don't want her to over exert herself. My other suggestion is that we all help her and her husband. All their 4 kids, including my gf and I, give her $250 each. Their father gets some money from his pension, plus $1000 from us. That should be enough. I don't know what else we can do. Especially if every job I can think off is beyond her.