Marriage & Divorce: Question: Family hates me because her ex wont let her go.? |
- Question: Family hates me because her ex wont let her go.?
- Question: My separated husband of a year refuses a divorce. Refuses me sex. He lies. I am at the point of disgust. I can t look at him anymore. Help?
- Question: How to get over your first real relationship ?
- Question: I absolutely love my husband but I don't enjoy sex.?
- Question: What is your favorite position to make love?
- Question: How many of the divorced/single senior citizens here are tired of people urging them to find a mate?
- Question: What do you think is a good age to get married?
- Question: Does anyone else still secretly desire their ex spouse?
- Question: Poll: Do you have low opinions about people that have been in a marriage and failed, whether their fault or not?
- Question: Marriage pressure..what to do?
- Question: My husband accused me of sleeping with his brother?
- Question: Can I marry my step brother in Maryland as my husband?
- Question: I'm ready to learn some family law?
- Question: My abusive ex got me charged with stalking and malicious use of telecommunications in Michigan?
- Question: It's been 4 years since my wife and I split.?
- Question: What would you do if your husband or wife said they are now gay?
- Question: Court with My ex-husband over child's Schooling?
- Question: HELLO MY NAME IS LAURA I WANT TO KNOW WHAT TO DO IN MY MARIAGE?
- Question: How do you know you're the primary parent?
- Question: Can I draw benefits from my ex-husband's account if we were married ten years?
- Question: Can a husband sue a wife over this?
- Question: Why is it always the women who get to be house wife's and be at home with the kids while the man has to get the education and get a job?
- Question: I am going through a custody battle with my ex husband for parenting time in wayne county michigan. where can i get free legal help?
- Question: How can you measure the effectiveness of counseling?
- Question: Poll for women 35-45 (only, please)?
- Question: How to deal with my marriage when theres no trust or respect anymore.?
- Question: There are huge energy problems between me and my wife. What can we do about this as it impedes progress more than my questioning everything?
- Question: My ex husband and his family are angry with me for wanting to do seperate holidays, why is this?
- Question: Husband expects chores if I say 'no' to sex?
- Question: Should I sleep with a married woman?
- Question: Why is my ex husband mad that he is no longer invited to thanksgiving?
- Question: How much money should I have saved up for young married life?
- Question: How long can I put off a marriage without putting my newly engaged lover over the edge!?
- Question: How do I get my husband back after 6 months and he has a new girlfriend? I left him but now want him back?
- Question: What would you do if this were your husband?
- Question: I disappoint my husband because I am not the wife he wants me to be. How can l live with the constant anger and judgement I feel from him?
- Question: Please help!should i confront him?
- Question: Why do people act like cheating is the worst thing that can happen in a relationship, but then let other serious things slide?
- Question: I work from home office and when husband is home he is a distraction - what else can I do to get him to understand?
- Question: MAJOR ADVICE NEEDED: Do we stay there & try to make it work... or move in with my mom?
- Question: Is it possible to know that you want to marry someone after only knowing/dating them for two months?
- Question: How do I bring up child support with my ex?
- Question: My fiance wants me to sign an prenup out of the blue. I am hurt and feel betrayed. Should I cancel the wedding?
- Question: My best friend is falling or is in love with my wife. She says it makes her uncomfortable? What should we do?
- Question: Should I be upset that my husband sent his ex-mistress a friend request on Facebook? Why would he do this?
- Question: My wife cheated on me with her Step Brothers Ex Wife?
- Question: Struggling with thoughts!?
- Question: Marriage without paperwork?
- Question: Husband wants to take his mom on our getaway plan.The argument doesn't end well and i feel like he puts his mom before me.What should i do?
- Question: What exactly can happen to a marriage when the married couple begins having more than 5 kids?
- Question: Go back with my Husband or stay with my Boyfriend?
- Question: Should I let my wife drive 15hrs by herself for a funeral with my 5 year old daughter by herself.?
- Question: Should I let my wife drive 15 hrs away for a cousins funeral with my 5 year old daughter.?
- Question: Is it ever acceptable to cheat on my husband?
- Question: Would you tell your husband that they smell bad sweat?
- Question: What is my husband doing?
| Question: Family hates me because her ex wont let her go.? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 08:59 PM PST Im in love with a very special woman. She recently signed her divorce papers after being seperated for over a year. She divorced the same guy twice. Married at 18 she had two kids with him. He chose money over family and she left him. Ten years later they remarried and he did it again. He lost her twice and both times he never will let her go. Its to the point he tells her i put my ex wife in the hospital (never happened) turns her kids against her. She even gets sucked back into believeing him. How do I help her see how toxic he is? He has even raped her in the past . She didnt do anything about it |
| Posted: 16 Nov 2015 08:33 PM PST We ve been married 9 years, together 3 years. My kids are grown. He s 49. I m 48. He had an affair with a 29 yr old co worker. Denied it. Still saw her. Refused sex with me for 3 years, he s cheated several times. I m done but he wants 2nd chance. I m to the point I can t stand the thought if him. We married in Vegas and never danced in our 9 yrs of marriage. I sat in an apartment for a yr closed off and I was made into a disgusting fat person. Turned out I had MS. I will never trust him ever again. |
| Question: How to get over your first real relationship ? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 08:32 PM PST How to get over your first real relationship ? my boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me because he wanted to read my group thread Between me and my two girlfriends/bestfriends. I told him no because that's girl talk and they sometimes tell me stuff that's private . He said he never wanna see me again. I'm use to seeing him everyday so it's hard , he thinks I'm Hiding something but I'm not |
| Question: I absolutely love my husband but I don't enjoy sex.? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 07:38 PM PST We've been married 6 months and I can count on 1 hand the number of times I've actually enjoyed sex. The rest of the time I'm either waiting for it to be over or it's painful because I'm not turned on enough. I feel horrible because he tries so hard to make me enjoy it and I just don't, nothing seems to work. We were both virgins before marriage so idk if it's just still learning what works, but after 6 months I would think SOMETHING would have worked. We can spend like 45 minutes on foreplay and I still don't enjoy sex. I haven't faked an orgasm but I have pretended to be more into it than I was so he wouldn't feel bad. But he can tell I'm not loving it and it's causing tension. I've tried to masterbate to figure out what works for me and I lost interest after about a minute. What can I do to actually enjoy sex because this can't be normal? |
| Question: What is your favorite position to make love? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 07:37 PM PST Missionary is mine too ha! |
| Posted: 16 Nov 2015 07:18 PM PST What is a good line to say to these types. I also get tired of people assuming have Grandchildren & thinking I need some of those too! What can I say without sounding like an old grump? |
| Question: What do you think is a good age to get married? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 07:11 PM PST Personally I don't care what statistics say. Everyone is different, at different levels of maturity, at different levels emotionally, ect. I know a lot of people say any age below the age of 25 is "too young" because of the statistics and the brain not being fully developed. That's true, but that's also the average. Some people develop faster than others due to different events in their life. It all depends on the person. I don't think there's a "right" age to get married at. I do however, think 18 is too young. That's just a divorce waiting to happen. I personally feel like I would be ready when I turn 23 (I'm 20 right now.) I feel emotionally ready, I feel like I'm mature enough, and I'd also be finished with college and in a stable career. Enough about my opinion, what's yours? What do you think is a good age to get married? My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now. By the time I want to get married we would be together for 5 years. I'm not rushing into anything, just making that clear. I'm done playing your game Jay, if you get some type of sick pleasure from pestering random people on the internet.... I actually feel sorry for you. Get a life. I've reported you, troll. |
| Question: Does anyone else still secretly desire their ex spouse? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 06:53 PM PST |
| Posted: 16 Nov 2015 06:06 PM PST I do, and here's why too. It's your fault for not knowing, for not taking your time to see if he or she's the one and what their true character as a person is. YOU not only failed yourself but your family and that ex-significant other. You have no one to blame but yourself. If you're the cause of the failed marriage, then shame on you. |
| Question: Marriage pressure..what to do? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 05:54 PM PST How Do I deal with this.I come from a culture where there is pressure on a girl to get married FAST. If she doesnt she is some kind of "failure" My mom is liberal in a way but she gets pressure from back home.I have uncle sof uncles,uaunties of aunties asking who dont know me. People at work ask my mom when these "2 pretty daughters" are getting married Why is it theri business? and how do I handle this? Im a pretty grounded person and I dont cave into pressure but its just starting to get to me. Especially working in retail where I see many couples and many of my coworkers are married with kids or engaged or pregnant. |
| Question: My husband accused me of sleeping with his brother? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 05:41 PM PST My husband let his brother stay with us for a little until he gets on his feet. Yesterday he came home yelling at me saying what was I doing that I couldn't answer the phone because he called several times. I was in the shower and my brother in law was in his room which location is downstairs. My husband grabbed me so hard he gave me a bruise he kept asking me if I was ******* his brother. His brother came upstairs telling my husband to get off me then they started fighting i have never seen my husbad so furious. I feel horrible I love my husband so much I would never do something like this to him. I'm not sure where this is coming from. When my husband is at work me and my brother in law i never communicate. Most of the time he is not even home my heart is so heavy and I hurt so much. I don't know what to do I am 23 my husband is 36 and his brother is 25. I'm not sure if he's insecure of our close age . Please help I love my husband and I don't want to leave but hes completely in the wrong. Ps my husband has always been a jealous man Sorry if my English is bad it's my secondary language. |
| Question: Can I marry my step brother in Maryland as my husband? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 05:09 PM PST |
| Question: I'm ready to learn some family law? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 05:00 PM PST What book would be the best to get with knowledge on family law in California? |
| Posted: 16 Nov 2015 04:58 PM PST How likely is it I can get these dropped? I have witness statements to the domestic abuse, I tried to get a ppo, so I have that and he sent me sex tapes. I have forwarded all of this to my lawyer. With that taken into consideration will it get dismissed? oh and he has pending charges for assault and battery against my stepfather. Now, Idk what the prosecutr has, I did call him several times on two occasions from a restricted number because I was pissed he abused me and then my family member. He broke my phone and went to the phone store, got a new phone, put my old number on it and hacked into my email to erase gay craigslist ads from when he was cheating when I was pregnant. I am so scared. I have retained a lawyer, not court appointed |
| Question: It's been 4 years since my wife and I split.? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 04:56 PM PST I thought she filed for divorce when it first happened. I recently found out she didn't go through with it. We have no kids and no property disputes so it will be pretty much uncontested. What's the cheapest way to go about getting a proper divorce. |
| Question: What would you do if your husband or wife said they are now gay? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 04:24 PM PST |
| Question: Court with My ex-husband over child's Schooling? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 03:41 PM PST We can't decided on which school our child should attend. We both live twenty minutes apart from each other, Only problem is we both have step children that go to school and he said it be easier if he goes to the school by his house and I get weekends. We both have the same amount of custody. This would be our Childs first year of school. I forgot to mention, I gave him shared custody in court last year, I didn't want be mean, I mean it's his child too you know. On the court papers we have to agree on all health, education, and other needs. Yet it says custodial parent by my name. |
| Question: HELLO MY NAME IS LAURA I WANT TO KNOW WHAT TO DO IN MY MARIAGE? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 03:25 PM PST |
| Question: How do you know you're the primary parent? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 03:17 PM PST My husband left me for another women then decided to come back months later. We went to court for a few years and just last year we decided on 50/50. We have the same rights, but it says on the court paper I'm the custodial paper and he's the non-custodial parent. Does that mean i'm the primary ? |
| Question: Can I draw benefits from my ex-husband's account if we were married ten years? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 03:05 PM PST |
| Question: Can a husband sue a wife over this? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 02:57 PM PST Say a woman doesn't want to have children but the husband sabotages her birth control and gets her pregnant then the wife gets an abortion behind his back can the husband sue her over that?. This is NOT my case. I was just curious. |
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| Question: How can you measure the effectiveness of counseling? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 02:34 PM PST |
| Question: Poll for women 35-45 (only, please)? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 02:24 PM PST This poll is purely for my curiosity, not for collecting data. (and to settle an discussion with a friend) Age: Marital Status: Kids: Work: (stay at home, work full time, part time, work at home, etc) How often do you get together with girlfriends without kids around? How satisfied are you with that frequency? If you're not satisfied, what is keeping you from doing it more often? (lack of child care, lack of available friends, etc) Lastly, if you're married/attached, does your partner do more or less than you with his guy friends? Thank You!! |
| Question: How to deal with my marriage when theres no trust or respect anymore.? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 01:20 PM PST together 19 years, married 17 with no kids. Ill try to explain best i can. the first years together were pretty good. Then things started to go downhill. He was drinking heavier and smoking pot. Even had a stint with something else at some point (cocaine? idk). Around 8 years into our marriage things about his past came out. Things I had no idea about but should have. We had been together 10 years by then. We had talked before marriage about our future and what we both wanted in life. Beliefs and other such things. We seemed to be exactly on the same page. However he kept things from me. The manner in which they came out was a drunken rage, screaming them 2 inches from my face in the front yard as I tried to leave in the middle of the day. His shouts echoed through the entire neighborhood as did his, and some of my, most personal things . There was also several instances of physical abuse that day and at some point I thought I was going to die. That was the 1 and only time that ever happened. Since then he switches between verbally attacking me and telling me how much he absolutely loves and is so grateful to have me. He tells me jokingly, but not really that he would go crazy if i left him. That he wouldnt be able to take it and he would probably take others out with him. I can no longer talk to him anymore if something bothers me. He sees it as a personal attack no matter what it is and severely blows it out of proportion. Also, his disabled mother lives with us. |
| Posted: 16 Nov 2015 01:18 PM PST My wife is an introvert and needs time alone to recharge her batteries. I am an ambivert and I need the right amount of time BOTH socializing and time alone to recharge my batteries. In my wife's case, she just needs a few hours alone and she feels good. Mine is very delicate as too much of one will actually hurt the process and stress me out more than I was; so it is a very delicate balancing act. We both work using our brains NONSTOP. When we get off work, her brain is fried and all she wants to do is go home and introvert; me on the other hand though, I need to socialize with her so I can get my energy boost and then do the remainder of my energy boost when I get home where we both go our separate ways and be selfishly alone to recover from our strenuous mental energy expenditure. it's actually been this way for 2 years now. And when we are being alone to recover, we aren't doing JACKSH*T to benefit the family or the kids or the marriage. We've quite literally "checked out". And to make matters worse, we don't even know what kind of foods to eat for mental effort other than coffee, sugar, and fat (which isn't the answer obviously). I honestly don't know how people do it. I work a 40 hour work week but I easily have 55 hours of work I do in that week. My wife works a 40 hour work week but she easily has 60-70 hours of work she does in that week. I struggle with short attention span to boredom; she struggles with dyslexia. Any suggestions on how to get more energy? The mention of coffee, sugar, and fat should not have been the center of the question. The point is we are salary and both working the equivalence of two people's jobs just so we can make our bills then we are too burned out to do anything when we get home. Any suggestions on how to handle burnout when we BOTH are tired, that would be great. |
| Posted: 16 Nov 2015 12:39 PM PST My ex husband and his parents are unhappy with me because I am following the court agreement to start doing seperate holidays. We have two kid together and my ex husband has no boundaries and only want to see his kids if he can come over to my place and see them. Him and his parents are also used to spending their holidays with my family because they dont get along with their family. I told them I'd like to start doing seperate holidays and he could take the kids for half the day with his parents but they were no longer invited to my families house. My ex husband went off on me. Why is this? |
| Question: Husband expects chores if I say 'no' to sex? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 12:34 PM PST If he asks for it and I tell him no, he'll get upset (not angry, but irritated) and then go on to list some chores I should do to make up for it, like some sort of compensation. "Ok, since we're not doing 'that', have you... ?" If I don't do his assigned chore, he'll keep asking me why I haven't later and then sometimes even the next day too. It's driving me insane! Is there anything I can say at this point to make him see how demeaning it is? |
| Question: Should I sleep with a married woman? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 12:20 PM PST I've seen her many times but she was out of my league so I ignored her. I see many guys talking to her and she struck me as someone really decent because she looked innocent. We started talking and we just clicked. During our last conversation, she hinted that she has this crush on me and invited me to get together with her and even stay the night.. I am raised Catholic so I know this is wrong. But she is really hot. What would you do if you are in my shoes? |
| Question: Why is my ex husband mad that he is no longer invited to thanksgiving? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 11:32 AM PST My ex husband and I divorced over two years ago. We have two young children together. I was allowing him to come to my moms house for holidays with my family still even after the divorce through the transition period however I feel we should start doing our own holidays together for a number of reasons. I told him he was welcome to take the kids with his parents for half of the day on thanksgiving. We could split it up. He got very angry with me and said I was selfish and called me names and yelled at me. I want to have separate holidays because he does not respect my boundaries since we divorced. He will only see the kids if he can come to my place and see them and he stops by my place unannounced. My family also never liked him and did not invite him this year. The sad fact is that him and his parents usually come to my moms for holidays because they have nowhere to go because they have burned bridges with their own family and no longer speak to them. He also cannot be around our children unsupervised because he is being investigated(not charged) for illegal online actives involving children for the second time in 3 years. He also went over a year without helping me with the kids at all financially and didn't start helping until the court order kicked in. Why is he mad at me because I want to start having separate lives and co-parenting with boundaries ? |
| Question: How much money should I have saved up for young married life? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 11:31 AM PST currently 19, never had a job due to parents who fortunately allow me to just focus on my studies. I graduate in 2019 & plan on marrying shortly afterward (maybe a year or 2) & at least moving in w/ him before then (not 100% sure). I'll be 22/23 by then, he- 23/24. I want to start working up until I graduate. how much should I save to move out of state, rent an apt, wedding, honeymoon, etc. no kids. I'm wondering what's a good amount to have saved for the beginning stages of young married life ADDITIONAL DETAILS- he works and has been for years. we live in georgia and want to possibly move to colorado. I am into small, simplistic weddings, nothing too fancy at all. we'd probably rent a cute little apartment. I will probably be going to grad school a year or two after graduating with my bachelors (psych major). he wants to major in business/finance. |
| Question: How long can I put off a marriage without putting my newly engaged lover over the edge!? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 10:55 AM PST My beautiful girlfriend and I got engaged on my birthday this year after being together for nearly three years, she has lived with me for about two and half of those years! She is amazing to me and my two sons. My wife pasted away a few years ago, and I really wasn't looking for love, and it just appeared one day! She is so great with me and my kids! It feels meant to be. I was thinking a few years for our wedding, she is thinking in the next year or two.... what would you do? |
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| Question: What would you do if this were your husband? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 09:34 AM PST My husband and I are 2.5 years into applying for permanent resident status for him. We have been together for 3 years and have two kids together. I work my a** off for him and the babies. All of my income goes towards the bills, and what little he makes, goes towards childcare. I took out of my savings to buy him a used truck, so he has a way to get to the different jobsites (he's a contractor). Lately, he's been calling me, "Gorda," "Cochina," and most recently, "Stinky Feet." Yes, I admit that I still have some baby weight leftover. After two back-to-back pregnancies, how could I not? And again, I don't process foods like I used to. Nowadays, the blander the food, the better. But he always insists on cooking with a ton of spices, and always only wants to make pork, which I couldn't even stand before pregnancy. I don't know why he's being such a douche, but it's starting to remind of my ex who used to do the same thing. Leaving with the kids or kicking him out has been on my mind lately, but I don't want to "throw in the towel" so soon. I mean, he does have a lot of good qualities, and he adores the little ones and helps to take care of them. I've asked why he calls me those things, and he replies, "Because you are." It's crossed my mind that he only intended to carry on a marriage and family just to get his residency status. |
| Posted: 16 Nov 2015 09:23 AM PST I know that I don t have my act together ... Too much to do and not enough time...I am disorganised by nature and struggle to improve. I am overwhelmed by my day to day life and also over the past years have had to face many personal tragedies. I struggle with facing and handling these more or less alone. I fall asleep early and don t do my share of the housework and am not there most evenings to keep him company. But I also have a 2 hour commute every day whereas he works close to our house. He acts angry and judgmental around me. I need support and love at this point in my life and I thought that a husband would be that for me. I am not sure what to do. Should I look elsewhere for this loving support? Divorce is not an option for me. But life is painful and guilt ridden for me. |
| Question: Please help!should i confront him? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 09:20 AM PST well my husband travels alot for work...so today i was just cleaning out the closet and i saw this product called stud male gential desensitizer spray in his luggage...should i confront him about it..cause i dont see him using it when we having sex nor tell me about it..could he be cheating on me or what?.i dont know what i should do... |
| Posted: 16 Nov 2015 09:10 AM PST VIOLENCE is accepted by many women. So they forgive their dear husbands for blacking their eye in front of the kids. Heaven forbid he confess to an infidelity. Then they hightail it down the road with kids and tow and not enough resources to support them. There are women who also abuse their husbands, it's common with elderly incapable me more so than you think. LAZINESS is another thing and I'm calling you women out. A lot of you take advantage of your husbands and don't pull your own weight. If a man works a 12 hr day and you don't... Clean the house, you and kids all need baths, cook a meal that did not come from a box. In fact, making a man's home so uncomfortable that he hates coming home should probably be considered a form of mental abuse. VERBAL ABUSE is one of the things We don't take seriously as a society. Name calling, fat-shaming, ...all that is just as bad as cheating because you are disrespecting your spouse. |
| Posted: 16 Nov 2015 09:01 AM PST I've told him repeatedly that if he takes a day off and spends it at home he has to be quiet and respect the fact that I am working and on conference calls. He doesn't seem to get it. This morning he walks past my office humming the Stars Wars theme, and then goes downstairs and turns the loud TV on. I can't close the door because it gets hot and stuffy in the room. He'll also ask me questions while he's downstairs by yelling because I'm upstairs. When I get upset with him over it he says it's his house too and shouldn't have to tiptoe around because I'm working. He took the whole week off this week and I'm going to have to deal with him lounging around being a nusiance while I work. Help! |
| Question: MAJOR ADVICE NEEDED: Do we stay there & try to make it work... or move in with my mom? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 08:28 AM PST I'm a Stay at home mom. My son is 9 months old. My husband does tree service- therefore he is gone all day, everyday (he normally heads out about 8:30am & returns home around 8:30pm-9:00pm. It's normally just my son and I... Which can be lonely & extremely boring... Because my husband does tree work... It's hard to prove he has an income because it's 'under the table' work around here. My husband found us an apartment (we have been living with his mom up to this point). We paid rent on the 1st of this month & have yet to stay there due to ROACHES. I cried when I saw them because there were SO many & TONS of babies... They were everywhere- we told the landlord, she said she'd spray... The apartment is a triple- meaning, a family lives next to us and another live above... The neighbors aren't the cleanest... They smoke weed allllll day & you can smell it in our side... I don't want my son breathing that in or have our things smelling like weed. I'm afraid of getting bed bugs from the neighbors. & On top of all this, I don't want to be left home all day by myself considering we have no stove, no fridge, no washer, no cable/internet, or dryer right now... My question is- do I stay at our apartment (which we signed a 1 year lease)... and deal with the weed, the loud neighbors, and the bugs... or move in with my mom where we have everything we need here BUT it's a house full of people (6 other people currently stay there) and there is usually drama... |
| Posted: 16 Nov 2015 07:37 AM PST Say this person just got out of a two year relationship and literally the next day they got in a relationship with someone else who also just got out of a relationship. Is it possible to decide after only two months of dating/knowing them that you will marry them? |
| Question: How do I bring up child support with my ex? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 05:01 AM PST This is not a deadbeat dad situation. He actually has a great deal of money and we have shared custody/visitation. The law says whoever makes more money needs to send child support. So sometimes it s the moms too. AnywAys I ve given him a reduction and things were going fairly regular for the past 5 years. Suddenly the payments happened less frequent and now nothing for the past six weeks. He just got remarried and had a baby. He s been over accommodating I m sure because of the money. It s a touchy subject so I m not sure How to bring this up without causing a bigger rift. |
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| Posted: 16 Nov 2015 03:29 AM PST My wife and i have been together for well over a year now with a 2 month old son. A long time ago she moved in with me and we were completely in love. We drink and go out, at least we used to. My friend Brian would come over and the three of us would hang out and drink. One night we were all really drunk and she was shaking her *** and i wasn't in the mood really to get some to the rap song so she started to do it in front of Brian. Ever since that happened he had doner things line try and rub her neck. I told her several times he's got the hots for you since you shook your *** in front of him. Then last night me, the wife, and brian went too a pub close by and he was sitting there listening to my wife talk worth these eyes like of total lust admiration , basically like he wanted to crawl up her ***. She told me today that she knows now what i was telling her because she saw the way he was looking at her. She says it makes her feel very uncomfortable. So now i just doubt know what to do. But shaking her *** that night i think has got him thinking he might have a chance or something idk. And he's fine when he's over and he's sober but he starts with the flirting bad when he's drunk. |
| Posted: 16 Nov 2015 02:21 AM PST He deleted her after I caught him a year ago and now he wants to be Facebook friends with her again. Do you think he has feelings for her? |
| Question: My wife cheated on me with her Step Brothers Ex Wife? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 12:41 AM PST On 09/2015, My wife of 5 years with 2 boys was having an affair with her step brothers ex wife.The girlfriend lived with us for the time being.They left to get groceries, and the girl left her phone. I looked through the phone and saw pictures and sexual texts! At this time, I think all the time what they could be doing sexually and things like that which really kills me everyday! What should I do??? I cant find a solution to help myself overcome this. She's in a relationship with her now! |
| Question: Struggling with thoughts!? Posted: 16 Nov 2015 12:07 AM PST I am struggling with thoughts and images in my head of my wife with her past lovers. She has told me that she has nothing to do with her past anymore. But I still sometimes feel that she cannot just erase her past like that – especially the sexual stuff. I sometimes ask her questions about it and she refrains from answering. Is it wrong to ask her about her past? Why wouldn't she want to share about her most fav sexual experience with me? Would it have any effect on our marriage/relationship? |
| Question: Marriage without paperwork? Posted: 15 Nov 2015 10:34 PM PST Okay so my boyfriend has been married twice before, to complete whores that have screwed him over. We have been dating quite a while now, and he wants to marry me. However, he said he wants to do it without the paperwork. He said "signing those papers changes everything". My sister has been married twice as well and she completely agrees with him. I have never been married, so I don't know exactly where they are coming from, but I have seen all they've been through and the difficulty in ending a marriage. It kinda makes me feel like he already feels like we won't last, but he constantly says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. His idea-"we will have a ceremony, wear the rings, and get your name changed, but no paperwork". Is this completely insane? I mean, I want a marriage ceremony and I don't want to still be calling him my boyfriend when I'm 50 years old, but technically he won't be my husband... thoughts? |
| Posted: 15 Nov 2015 09:46 PM PST I was married for this guy for like 6 months (after 9 years of relationship) and we lived with his handicapped mom and a maid. He mostly take care of his mother (bring her to medical center every 2 days&sometimes took her to overseas hospital). Anyways, I and my husband decided to have a one night NYE getaway stay at a downtown hotel. As I browsed for it, he suddenly said that he intended to bring his mom as well. I honestly feel really upset about that. I jst want is alone 2 days with him. He said that he can do 2 times drives (frst to take me&my goods, scnd to take his mom, the maid, & their goods). He told me his mom&the maid will stay in a different room,&we can strolling along the street without her.I'm not sure about this since he should prepare the meals for her&it would interrupt our time (you know, youre walking around the street&have to come back to the hotel for his mom's meals). I tried to talk to him that i want an alone time with him, without thinking about anything else. It's not going well since We had a huge argument about this, end up with he calls me a selfish heartless, that i would be upset if my future children don't want to take care of me. I was getting really angry as i said "okay,lets cancel our plan!Don't bother about me,you can just go with your mom". Then he pointed his finger towards me&said "OKAY!AS YOU SAID!",kicked the chair and storm out of the room. Now i feel like he puts his mom before me&it makes me really, really sad.What should I do? :( Thank you! Thank you so much for your answers! Really appreciate it! :) |
| Posted: 15 Nov 2015 09:43 PM PST Lets say a married couple ends up having 5 to 8 kids ... what can this do to a marriage? |
| Question: Go back with my Husband or stay with my Boyfriend? Posted: 15 Nov 2015 05:21 PM PST My husband & I had been together for 9 yrs. We had a relationship in which we both made mistakes (no cheating involved). 16 months ago he said he was tired of our fights and me criticizing him for everything, he could no longer take it and asked for a divorce. I was devastated, begged him to stay, but he said he no longer was willing to keep trying. Our divorce is almost finalized. I know is unbelievable but there's been no physical relation between us. However, we clearly care for each other still. During our separation, he lived w/ a girl for a few months but the relationship apparently did not work out, so he moved back into our house. I have a BF now, who keeps me busy & i learned to love however, we do not share similar goals: i want kids (he doesn't), i want to travel (he doesn't), & he doesnt love me nor is he willing to give me his heart. i cant fool myself, I know I've no future w/ him (or do I?). We have been dating 11 months. We're both teachers, he's 15 yrs older than me. My ex is begging for a 2nd chance, he knows about the mistakes we've both done during our separation. No one has ever understood me the way he did. We still share the same goals in life. But Im afraid to try it again, even though I know we can be happy this time, but Im afraid of what people will say if they Im back w/ my ex after I made public to be w/ someone else. What do I do? I have a psychiatrist that I go see, but I want ur opinions about how society will see me. |
| Posted: 15 Nov 2015 04:54 PM PST The cousin is distant cousin. my job won't let me take off for a distant cousins funeral so im in a hard spot. We were driving next week but this came up. My fear of something happening and I can't get to my family is my issue. She says I can just catch the plan and catch up to them on my day that start my vacation and she will already be there. I at a loss because i just know if im not going along with it she is going to be upset and made I didnt give her my blessing. She might just go anyway |
| Question: Should I let my wife drive 15 hrs away for a cousins funeral with my 5 year old daughter.? Posted: 15 Nov 2015 04:52 PM PST Also we were scheduled to be home next week for the holiday. My job will not let me take off for a distant cousin my wife has but her job will. I just don t feel safe letting her drive so far without me helping. She says she will be fine and I can catch the plane and we drive back together when our stay is over but I say she flys and I drive the 15 hrs but I guess fear of planes for her and my fear of car crash or strangers on the road for me is the delima |
| Question: Is it ever acceptable to cheat on my husband? Posted: 15 Nov 2015 04:52 PM PST My husband and I were high school sweethearts, and got married two years after graduation. We have been married for eight years, and have two wonderful children. About a year and a half ago, he was involved in an accident at his job that left him paralyzed in one leg. Doctors still don't know if it will be permanent or if he will start to get feeling and movement in it again. I love him, and he has been a good husband and a caring father. However, since the accident, he has taken to drinking and taking pills more often than he should. This leaves him either completely out of it, or in a foul mood. The accident also left him unable to perform sexually. It's strange because it's something we almost never talked about after the accident. Sex just kind of went away. I have returned to working full-time since his accident, and started hitting it off with one of my male coworkers this past summer. He is married, and also has kids. Our talks have become more flirtatious, and he recently asked me out for drinks after work. I don't want to leave my family, but I definitely feel sexual urges towards my coworker, and I know he feels the same. I know it all sounds so slutty, but that is not like me at all. I just have gone too long without it, and am too young to just stop having it forever. Is it ever okay to go through with something like this? |
| Question: Would you tell your husband that they smell bad sweat? Posted: 15 Nov 2015 04:41 PM PST would you tell your husband that they smell bad sweat? If yes, how? If you would not tell him, how do you deal with bad odor? he takes shower in the morning...after a busy day, he smells in the evening...he does not use deodorant! he puts perfumes on his chest! go figure! |
| Question: What is my husband doing? Posted: 15 Nov 2015 04:35 PM PST Married for 5 years to an Indian man. He has been emotionally and verbally abusive toward me. He lied about his life to me before we got married, now he is calling me names, including things like "not smart-he does not say stupid, not as good looking as so and so" dismissing my views and opinions on things, acting like he is the expert on several things that he is not. For example he just started taking swimming courses only two weeks ago, now he lectures me about swimming which makes me upset because I have been a swimmer for 21 years, competed even in races.... When I see he acts like silly in subject, this makes me both sad and upset. He also pinches me various parts of my body when we are just talking about things, then the conversation is turning ugly. I feel hopeless about relationship. Whats can I do? |
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