I've never had one, so I'd like to know how it was.

to American girls like Costa Rican men, I am physically white with light brown hair and dark brown eyes, tall and thin, they think of men Costa Rica. like I always asked me how are the American girls in love. ? I'm 17

it's like ---I would respect them more if they just asked for a gift. at least that's being honest. when they ask for a loan there is a 95% chance they are trying to scam you.

We are going to call my friend z well SHE likes a boy and they have been friends since kindergarten. She s only 13 and he s the same age but he always talks about other girls and she wants to know what to do any advice

There is this girl that I feel has everything. She has all A's, extremely popular, class representative, she is in many clubs, does two sports, and now she is joining my favorite sport. I understand that the sport is not just for me, but I can't help but feel discouraged and jealous that the one thing I have that she doesn't have- she now has. I would feel less jealous if she was nice, but she is extremely rude to a lot of people, and i have heard her talk bad about her own "friends". I see her cheating on tests and copying other people's answers, I feel like she has the best luck because she never gets caught and she never faces the repercussions of her own sins. I know I sound ridiculous, but i don't want to be jealous, I can't help but feel that way.

Bueno tengo una novia ella 21 y yo 28, llevamos saliendo un tiempo y la pasamos muy bien, la quiero un monton. Pero el 31 día q salimos a un bar a celebrar halloween la noté extraña, y anoche me dice por el whassp .. yo debo decirte algo.. es que... a mi me esta gustando otra persona y es mujer. Yo adoro a esa mujer, al rato se fue y se desconectó. No he vuelto a hablar con ella. No se que hacer. Necesito un consejo urgente 😞

I hang out with old people and me and them talks to each other without any issues at all. When i talk to people my age 27 its a different story. They take the way i word things and irrationally say something like ' oh you reveal secrets i am never gonna tell you my personal stuff again' Also they are very smart aleck with me. If i say something that comes out weird than they are making fun of what i say or just be plain rude to me over it. I tell them i dont mean anything. They get loud with me over dissagreements and are often rude and tell me like it is. They are also sassy and just plain difficult. I tell them i hang with old people because of this and they say 'oh you are so gay' And they start to mock me over me getting offended over the way the act. I have no problem with old people talking to them.

during the last 6 weeks or so I have noticed a change in MY behavior. out of nowhere I have started to have hateful feelings for my best friend. she hasn't done anything but she just really annoys me now and it has been a sudden thing. i don't know what this means or what to do with it. i no longer want to be around her and if she starts having a conversation with me i ignore her. it's not that i'm trying to purposely do it, it's just that i can't stand this hateful feeling. i now this isn't fair for her and neither is it for me, that's why i want answers. help?

I caught my friend stealing from me for the 3rd time so I ****** up her hair with some scissors and cut holes in most of her clothes I lowkey feel a lil bad but the ***** shouldn't have been stealing from me am I wrong for doing that?

So everyday at high school there are these lame guys that get out of there 4th period class a few minuets early and come to my class and act all awkward like were good buddies and stuff. Then they follow me out to my truck and expect I give them a ride to lunch. This all started when this one guy asked for a ride and I gave him one then he asked for rides everyday. And then he just started bringing all these people with him and didn't even ask and just expects me to give them rides. This guy has a car but no lisence but he drives anyway but he wont bring his car to school. It's a small town!! And he just think ohhh well i dont need a car when i got my good buddy me to give him a ride. I don't have a problem with these guys other than there lame old men who don't do anything but use me. So the guy that started it all rides with some other girl now but all those other people still come to my class 5 minuets early. I dont want to be seen with them because they are losers. I know that sounds terrible but they really are some sad excuss for a teenager.

Every day in the morning and afternoon when i get on and off the bus, there's this one girl that always looks at me and gives me a cheesy, yet adorable grin. She may accompany the grin with a hello or "have a great weekend." And btw, I'm a senior in high school, she's a freshman EDIT: she only does this to me, nobody else getting off or on the bus. I find it intriguing.

I am 20 years old and this past weekend I decided to try Molly with a group of friends. They took care of me and it was great, but I felt like I truly found myself through the drug. I realized I get uncomfortable when I'm around a group of people I do not know (my friend went to go to the bathroom), I care about a lot of people even if I barely know them, and I love people feeling good about themselves. My question is basically asking, is it possible to find yourself through a drug? I'm not saying I will continue doing this, I'm just wondering if it's possible?

So the story goes that I was throwing a small get together party at my house. The party is great and we all engage in nice conversation, until we took a turn. We start talking about some really deep stuff about ourselves and that's okay, I'm comfortable with those people, but later my best friend decides to name the group a "squad", and how we are all best friends now, and I was cool with that, except that I really wasn't. I felt pressured to become best friends with one person in particular. We don't have any classes together nor do we have lunch together. But we do have advisory and lunch on Mondays and Fridays together, where I sit with "said person" and we chat. I had never invited her to house, but I thought why not, she's chill. I was wrong. She's really not compatible with me, loud and obnoxious. I just want to go back to the casual friendship we had, but I feel pressured to now include her in everything because my best friend tells me she will be "pissed" if I don't. And on my "best friends" comment I felt stuck. I really don't want this. How can I reverse and go back to being casual friends with this other person, while not offending anyone?

Okay so this question is kind of random but I want to know. Most of my friends are immature but in a physical way. For example, they will throw stuff at you, crumble up your paper, take your books and mess around with them, and in general just things that will damage you or your possessions. I am a different kind of immature. For example, I will steal things from my friends and then later I will tell them they forgot it for fun, I will talk really loudly (only because my friends are loud as f***), have funny conversations with my teachers, mess around with teachers that I hate (i.e. ask a lot of questions or confront them about their bad policies which I ended up getting 7 detentions which was bad but it was worth it because now the teacher is less strict), and in general just things that will make people laugh without physically doing anything. Anyways my friends were talking about who was the most immature and they were genuinely arguing about it because they thought it was an achievement to be the most immature. They are now all trying to be as immature as they can. I want to shut them up and put them in their place by acting the most immature (which I definitely can do) but I do not want to embarrass myself and ruin my reputation (I would lose a lot of respect from other people). Should I participate or just let them do their thing?

I always see it in movies and have never seen that in real life.

Im a highschool senior, and Ive always followed the rules. Ive had major mental medical problems from ages 9-15 with eating disorders, self harm, etc. Ive always been maintaining good grades with my APs and honors classes, and I go to one of the best schools in the state. My parents wont let me have fun, Im not allowed to talk with boys (even friends), go out with friends ever, go to parties. I know limit substance and drug wise, its a boundary I dont cross. But my parents keep yelling at me about how I cant go anywhere. I lied about going to a party because I wanted to go so bad because its event list sounded like a blast and all my closest friends were attending so I knew I would have a great time. But I knew parents would shut it down. SO I told them it was a bday party of a female friend, even though it was a male friend. UGHHH...now they are so MAD, because I would ask every month about some party and they would say no, and this time I went on my own way and had fun. I came home by 8 on my fruition. I had so much fun and regret nothing. Just pissed off that my parents got nothing out of the whole situation. They just assumed that I am some lying sociopath who is selfish and manipulative. IT WAS ONCE AND THE FIRST TIME.

Should I be upset? I saw some mutual friends at the wedding so it wasn't just family. Whenever he is in town, we would hang, and he even told me he was planning to propose to his gf. I even support him financially every month for his non-profit job. Should I have been invited? I am starting to think that the hanging out was just to ask for financial support.

Hi, I'm a 7th grader and I'm having an issue. Here's how it began. I went to the school dance and danced with a girl, and it turns out that she likes me. Anyway, now all of my friends know and only two of them are listening to what I'm saying, but the rest keep trying to make me go out with her. I don't like the idea of it, I don't feel good about it, and it keeps bugging me. On top of that, I'm too young for this stuff. I have a lot of stuff to do rather than worry about girls. So, what do I do? I don't want to say yes, but I also don't want to be rude and say no. My friends keep forcing me to try and ask her, and if I don't, they will try to go and ask her for me. It's really annoying, and I don't know what to do. Just because she likes me doesn't mean I need to ask her out.

I met a really nice girl not long ago, and we've since become friends. She's 17 (im 16) and recently got kicked out of the house. She's been staying with friends, but her friend's parents just came home and she had to leave since she wasn't supposed to be there. She's in the middle of nowhere, and there aren't any bus stations nearby, she needs wifi to contact anyone, and she doesn't have the money for an uber or anything. I can't drive down there since I live quite a while away from her location, and wouldn't be able to get someone to give me a ride (I can't drive) and I really want to help her but I don't know what to do. I'm not really comfortable with wiring her money, just because I've only known her for a little while. I'm afraid that if I call the police they'll just take her back home. And I don't know if she would be okay with me doing that

I know I'm just being silly and all, but my feelings are very hurt. She ditched me for another group of friends, but they're all my good friends, too. None of them even bother to talk to me. =( What do I do?

I have a group of friends, 5 other girls, who I am very close with, we are all best friends who love each other and have so much fun when we're together, but just about every weekend, we argue about something. Sometimes it's because some of us "ditch" the others for boyfriends, parties or other plans. And we get mad at each other about the dumbest things, how can we stop arguing every weekend and be best friends again like we used to be, cuddling upon the couch watching movies together?

So I m 16 years old and got drunk for the first time on halloween, I was with my friend and all her friends in a different area since she doesn t live in my city. Anyways she had two guy friends with her and basically as a joke they said we were their property (they were dressed as thugs) anyways my friend is very experienced and she was just dancing and sitting on her guy friend, so I tried to do the same but admitted I cannot twerk, so the one whom I was "owned" by (lol obv not really owned) just pulled me against him and told me to just move, and so I did. Anyways during the night I basically ****** him with clothes on (dancing wise) and he grabbed my *** as well as my breast multiple times. But he never kissed me nor actually ****** me. (Obviously I didn t want to be f*ckef but I ve never kissed anyone so I was hoping... Anyways does this al make me a terrible person? I ve never done anything like this EVER!

So earlier this year I moved in with a new roommate. We got along in the beginning but we dont hangout much since we both have busy lives, but when we do see each other in the house, we ll have a little chit chat. She has a small bar where she has a bunch of liquor. One night I was really stressed out about school and life and wanted to buy some alcohol but I couldnt find my ID. So I then decided I d take some of my roommates liquor, I only wanted a couple shots. Long story short she texted me the other day that found out that I took some and was pissed. But I get it, I knew it was wrong and I apologized and even offered to buy her a bottle to make it up. She didn t respond back, so today was her bday and I decided to buy her a card and wine cuz I thought it make up for it. I saw her on the couch and wished her happy bday & brought her the wine & card, and she looked annoyed and didnt care. She rambled on how I stole some of her liquor and I owed her a certain amount of money because of it. I wasn t trying to deal with any problems so I agreed to pay her. Then she said "I dont want to talk about this right now" So at this point I dont know what else to do but just keep my distance from her. Do you think she s overreacting?

Hey guys, So I'm going to try to make this as short as possible. I'm stuck and I don't know how to go about this. I am an addict off prescription drug opiates. 3 years ago I was doing prescription pills for 2 years faithfully. Me and my brother always hang out to this day and we live together. We had both met a friend and he came from Miami we all became good friends, but he brought drugs into me and my brothers life. My brother never liked them so he never did them but me on the other hand became hooked. After a year of doing the pills. behind my back my brother and .him finally told me they were dating they were gay and going out and that's fine with me I have no problem with that. On the third year my friend and my brother got arrested getting caught selling prescription medication. My brother got 1 year and my friend got 3 years. While my friend was in jail I had time to become clean and sober. I was sober for three years! Felt the greatest I have in a while.

So I'm friends with this girl and she gives good advice and all, but idk if she's my real friend. Today I asked her,"What's your favorite ice cream flavor?" And she responded "Why do you care?" And then she followed by mumbling"F... off" but smiling while she said it. I don't even know her favorite color yet. She mostly hangs around her other friends, so its hard to talk to her away from them. Is she my real friend? When she said, "F... Off" was she kidding or did she mean it Like"Go away"? Also, let's just say she is part of the "popular" crowd, which I don't mind but most of the time gets annoying etc, waiting for friends at class blah blah and I have barely anything to talk to her about bc I get bored with the whole popular actions and sayings like cursing or listening to rap music, but I'm definetly not a loner who follows her around or something

I was asked a bunch of silly questions this morning and I was not in the mood for it. I was asked to give someone gum and I gave them some. One of the guys said that I didn't give him a piece even though he got one so I gave him another piece. I had to repeat myself constantly even though I've already told them the answer and they asked me again just to annoy me and play with me. I went to see my counselor today and she told me that she is busy so she said that I can quickly tell her what I need to tell her. I said to her that I needed to write what occurred on paper but she didn't even try to make time for me even though it is a serious issue. She is the worst counselor ever because she is rarely available or barely has any time for me. Counselors should have time for those who need them and make time for them no matter how busy they are. I'm terribly angry and stressed and I don't know who can help me. My friend tried to help and she ended up saying to me whatever when I told her how I handle the bullying instead of helping me. No one understands what this feels like or even cares about helping me. Can anyone help me?

So my friend and I have been secretly having a friends with benefits relationship going on, hiding it from the rest of our friend group. They previously knew we had a fling but he and decided to lie and tell them "we were just friends, except on the weekends". This worked fine, we snuck around and it was all fine. however, this weekend we both got extremely drunk and did some things together-nothing out of the usual even when were sober. the next day, i couldnt remember anything. my friends(who are also his friends) were concerned because no one knew what had happened. Eventually, i remembered and told 2 of my friends about it, one of which is his roommate and best friend, so i thought nothing of it because i assumed my friend would tell him anyways. Fast forward, our mutual friend (his roommate) tells me that he is extremely mad at me for telling "everyone" what happened, and will not talk to me. i understand why he is upset and just want to apologize- i left him completely alone for three days before even attempting to apologize, to give him space. However, when i asked if we could talk he completely ignored me. He will not talk to me or let me apologize and i just do not understand why? He has done way worse things to me that i have forgiven, and he usually does not stay angry for this long. Why will he really not talk to me or even let me apolgize- honestly, even if he still wants to ignore me after i would respect that, but he wont even let me apologize at all!

Sooo its my crush's birthday soon, and want to give her a present other than candy(cuz everyone gives candy). Mabye a gift card? Any ideas?

2 brothers from my high school have been letting me hang with them after school for the past few weeks but i slipped and said something and now they won't let me anymore. they aren't rich but they are pretty well off and their parents buy them a lot of stuff. i was playing the ps4 with them and i accidentally said this "i like hanging out with you guys. well not you guys but the stuff you guys have is great". i didn't mean to say that but that is how i kinda felt. they told me today i can't chill with them anymore because i was only hanging with them because of the cool stuff they have. i think they're being over dramatic

I have two tickets to see a concert in December. Since my girlfriend couldn t go, I asked my best friend, who is not a big texter and is usually super busy, but she didn t respond. A few days after I asked her, an old friend from home was chatting me up on Facebook and after a few hours of talking, I brought up that I had two tickets to a concert in December as part of my "end-of-semester" plans. He asked if I was going with anyone because he really liked the group and he d seen them before and I said "No, I m not currently going with anyone" because at the time I assumed my friend would probably say she d be too busy or had a final that day. I told him we could make arrangements closer to the date (so that nothing would be completely set in stone). However, today he told me he just booked a hotel suite that had two rooms for that night and then a few hours later, my best friend responded saying she would love to go! I feel terrible that I would prefer to go with her, but I know that the guy used to have the biggest crush on me but I never returned the feelings (because I m gay). I was already feeling incredibly uncomfortable about the hotel suite and I know it sounds dumb, but I feel like my friend saying she can go is like a sign saying that I shouldn t go with him. Just wished she would ve accepted sooner. TLDR: How do I tell an old hometown friend, who s already booked a hotel suite, that he can t go because I want to go with my best friend instead?

Please tell me if you think my friend could most likely be gay or bi based on my descriptions about him. We are both college aged males and I am bi myself. We been friends for over 6 months. -Out of the 24 friends he has on Facebook, at least two I know for a fact is gay, because one has a boyfriend and the other is pretty open about it. One other friend has a picture of himself with a pink long-hair wig and cross dresses. Another has a rainbow profile picture previously, which could mean he just supports the LGBT community, but he also looks gay to me based on what I saw. That's at least 4 gay male friends on FB out of only 24 friends. -My friend has a previous PROFILE picture of a male pop star with both his hands touching his collar as a pose. -He walks FAR away and out of sight to answer his phone calls virtually EVERY time someone calls him. -He admits he's shy around "lots" of people, including me. -When is is texting/chatting with people on his phone or laptop, he tries to hide the conversations from me, even though I don't care who he's speaking to. -He rests his head on his dad's lap or on his shoulders, when he lays down, and he is freaking 19! He crosses his legs with one knee on top of the other. -While he doesn't talk much, when he does, he NEVER talked about girls once. -One time I had a magazine with a almost nude female on the cover and I asked if he's interested in it, and he said "no." He considers even women a few years older than him to be "old." What's the best way for me to ask if he is gay or bi, that would also increase my chances of an honest answer? I understand I need to respect his answer, but I need a very good way to ask him this. This would be surprise of the century for me if he is really straight because read the hints and tell me what you REALLY believe.

I have no friends. I have a couple of internet friends but no friends that i know in person. I do online/homeschool so i cant meet anyone there. Im too skinny and weak to do sports. I just dont know what to do. Im so lonely. All my friends that i had stopped talking to me for some reason. Did i do something wrong? idfk.

I was at a party on Saturday and I was a little tipsy. I normally don't drink alcohol out of fear of doing stupid things. But my sister's friend was at this party and I'm very attracted to her. During this party is was particularly very horny so I walked over to her and showed her my dick and started to wiggle it and flip it around. My sister is also angry at me. I normally don't drink alcohol out of fear of doing stupid things. After this I don't plan to drink again. How Should I apologize to her? I still have a crush on her and I now think it's just awkward.

theres this one girl that doesnt like me and we used to be in the same like "friend group" but now because she doesnt like me, the other friends in our group are kind of distant and i just feel completely isolated and find myself wishing that this school year would be over so I could move onto high school and find new friends. But that really is a long wait considering its not even been 1/4 of the school year. Im just really confused. I do have a few other friends but they live far (its a magnet program) and barely have time to hangout since our houses are around 50 minutes away. Im constantly going places with my high school friends and I just feel lonely at school. Help. Also a lot of people like that girl that doesnt like me so I feel like if I were to stop being friends with her I don't have many other people I could be close friends with.

My friend threw me a surprise party that I expressly told her I didn't want. I was looking forward to going out to a special place with a small group of couples and had been looking forward to it all week. It was a milestone birthday and I felt strongly about not calling attention to it. Also, my friend knows I am on a restricted diet and didn't have anything I could eat. I was expecting dinner and came starving. All there was to eat was a bunch of cheap appetizers that she conned other people into bringing and nothing else that she knows I can eat. To top it off, she added some kind of chemical scented oil to the cake thinking she was being a gourmet and it tasted truly like she mixed in a chemical soap. I'm not exaggerating! Nobody ate more than a bite of it. I went along with things for the night for the sake of my poor friends who got dragged into this but now I am livid. I feel as though she secretly hates me or is jealous of me (I recently dropped a lot of weight), I don't know what to do about this. I hate the expectations this whole party that I never wanted has put on me and I am finding myself furious with this woman.

I know that friends drift apart, but it's getting ridiculous to me. I used to have a few friends who were part of an even bigger group. I thought they liked me, but apparently not. Usually, if it's a case of drifting apart, the entire group would drift, right? But the entire group is intact (this is a group of around 12 people or so), but I'm left out. I would talk to them, but I have really bad social anxiety (its been a while since we've talked, I'm not used to it anymore), however they don't have anxiety issues, so I don't understand why they won't talk to me. The real problem is that I want to be friends with them so bad, because they're the only people in the school who share my interests in a variety of topics, but I don't think they feel the same. Please help!!!!

This girl wont stop bothering me, she always wants to hang out, but I just don t have time. I m always busy, and I keep trying to tell her that. She doesn t understand, and she keeps giving my phone number to all her friends. I don t even know these people and they are calling me. Hellpppp. she wont stop?!?

So earlier this year I moved in with a new roommate. We got along in the beginning but we dont hangout much since we both have busy lives, but when we do see each other in the house, we'll have a little chit chat. She has a small bar where she has a bunch of liquor. One night I was really stressed out about school and life and wanted to buy some alcohol but I couldnt find my ID. So I then decided I'd take some of my roommates liquor, I only wanted a couple shots. Long story short she texted me the other day that found out that I took some and was pissed. But I get it, I knew it was wrong and I apologized and even offered to buy her a bottle to make it up. She didn't respond back, so today was her bday and I decided to buy her a card and wine cuz I thought it make up for it. I saw her on the couch and wished her happy bday & brought her the wine & card, and she looked annoyed and didnt care. She rambled on how I stole some of her liquor and I owed her a certain amount of money because of it. I wasn't trying to deal with any problems so I agreed to pay her. Then she said "I dont want to talk about this right now" So at this point I dont know what else to do but just keep my distance from her. Do you think she's overreacting?

Ok so I'm polish, and I go to Poland every summer, I live in England, but I go to see my sister there. I have many wonderful friends In Poland and in England. I keep in contact with my Polish friends and we speak every day. I also have a polish friend here and she is becoming very close with my other polish friends. Everytime they talk I feel, sick and start shaking and i don't know why. I feel like I'm being forgotten, why?? They sometimes become secretive and it makes things worse

So... I have a best friend of seven years. This year, we had our first... I dont know if I would call it a fight, but... A disagreement, nonetheless. I apologized profusely, and I cant help but think that she still has beef with me for it... It really hurts because she doesnt talk to me a lot anymore, but thankfully she doesnt avoid me. We go to different schools, and we havent hung out, facetimed, called or anything ever since this whole thing happened. What should I do? Its breaking my heart...

I started a new college in September and I still haven't made any friends yet. There are 6 other girls in my class and they're all good friends now and they always hang out with each other at lunch, but they've never really asked me if I wanted to join them, too. I think the reason why is because I'm really quiet and because I don't speak much because I have some anxiety issues. I would ask them if I could join them instead, but I'm too scared to do that in case they don't want me to. I go back to college tomorrow after 2 weeks off (half-term) and this time I want to try to be more confident and more sociable because I'd really like to make some friends now. Does anyone have any tips/advice? Thanks in advance.

my friends r bossing me around r they using me or r they real friends if thr r using me tell me wat 2 do ASAP

my name is Christine I have ben bullied for 2 years and it is still effecting me they say no one cares about you ever no one ever will.and they keep saying I am ugly they push me sometime they say I don't think they ever will care about you . also to say I am 11 right now then a boy said I rather date her then her . even church they don't care about me they are so rude to me I do not even have friends .everybody says your horrible to be friends whith everybody at church they don't notice me they hate me they don't say hi to me they leave me thief like if I was a wall I feel ugly everybody calls me that well I really have long brown like dark light hair and brown eyes light littlie lips

We've been friends since about 7th grade, so four years. We're great friends and do everything together. Although, I'm starting to hate things about her. For example, she's annoying and kind of abusive towards me. She is very immature; she acts like she's 10 years old and I can't stand it! She sure as hell isnt helping me with anything in my life or bringing any positivity to it. I could easily stop being friends with her, but she's anorexic and very self-depreciative, I'm worried she'll try to hurt herself if I leave. What do I do?

Picked up my friend from a party yesterday and he was high on something but he doesn't know. He's OK now, but doesn't remember much. He told me he didn't remember taking anything but he remembered walking around for hours and being lost in his own world. He seemed very mellow and relaxed but seemed determined to keep on walking. From what I know he is clean and rarely does any drugs but he was definitely a little off.

Okay so I had this friend and on September 8th she reconnected with a guy she dated back in highschool and she's just not been the same since then and he's all she would talk about and it was getting really annoying to because it's like she wasn't even interested in what I had to say and she just kept on talking about him and she wouldn't hardly let me talk because she just wouldn't be quiet about him and I deleted her off my Facebook and ever since I did that she hasn't texted me or anything as to why I deleted her so has she just forgotten about our friendship? Oh and when I called her about like 2 weeks ago I asked her if we were still friends and she said yes twice and she sounded irritated

She's always nice and wants me to walk down the hallway with her but is really annoying. Not a lot of people like her. I don't have very many friends yet and it's the fifth week of school. She wants to sit alone at tables where no one else sits. This makes it even harder to make friends if I'm not sitting with anyone. She always interrupts the class and asks if I want to sit with her at lunch. If I say no, people might think i'm mean and I definitely won't make any friends. Since she has no friends and no one likes her I won't make friends either. I feel like I'm in a no-win situation. What do I do? Should I say yes or no? (I know this sounds really mean but I tried running away and she still found me!) I would want to be her friend but she is Korean and she has an accent. It makes it hard to understand her and I don't speak Korean at all. I've tried ignoring her and she comes up to me and asks. I have a friend in class and he asks me if I actually wanted to sit with her and I say no. I've been sitting with a friend at lunch since school started but she really hates her. I've also been sitting with a group of girls at lunch, but they don't like her either and I feel like it's been ruining my social relationships with others. I don't want to hurt her feelings but do I have to? I've been sitting with her for two weeks and what if it's too late to say no? She rid everything right! Everything I look for in a friend! Can I make an excuse? I'm new and I have friends Idk about her..

I study hard. I do all homework, i study for tests and i act very polite to the teachers. I used to joke around some years ago, but i stopped now. Now i try to get good grades (i still joke around friends), but teachers always judge me before they've even met me. Last year, we got a new teacher who seemed really nice, but my friend asked me for a pencil, and she shouted my name, and asked me to shut up in class. The people behind me were allowed to talk though. My friend asks me for help with a task, when i try to help him, the teacher says she's got to move me, and i have to sit outside the classroom. It was embarassing and everyone laughed. I used to be bullied alot, and this wasn't helping me get confident with my new classmates... All teachers act like that. I don't talk, still get the blame. I guess it was because of what i did years ago, but this other guy who joked alot more than me, (he pulled down someone's pants once) isn't harassed like this by the teachers. They just like him... I would call this harassing, giving me special treatment like they do. We have this teacher in (it's a class in my country, i don't know what i should call it in english) but it's about cooking and stuff. The teacher there's the biggest ***** i've ever met. She yells at me without reason. My friend was singing Snoop Dogg songs, and he was standing next to me, and she yells at me, and takes me out of the room. She says she's so sick of my "shenanigans" She threatens to remove me from that class and fail me. Last time, i just entered the room, and she just came up to me, and said i had to hang up towels the whole time... I spent 2 hours of hanging up towels to dry. It's so fricking retarded! Also, a girl i've liked since 4th grade was in my group one time, so i made a little joke about the food we were cooking. She laughed, the teacher ran to us, and put me out of the group. We have a grade for "Behaviour" it was on perfect, she put it down. Worst part of the "behavior" part is that i'm the first to have it put down in my class. It's very rare that it happens, and when it's put down, you know your close to be suspended for a week... I don't deserve it! I don't see how i do, at least. I was 2 minutes late one day, our car wouldn't stop because of snow, i got a mark. My best friend (he's ususally late) was 6 minutes late, he didn't get anything. He never does his homework, haven't gotten any mark for it. WHY ME?

I'm a 21 yr. old guy that's new to a college town, and have a job as a door guy at a club. I'm pretty easygoing with people. I have an issue. Our manager says we're not making as much as we should, and he doesn't know why. I do. See, a lot of the college girls are cute, REALLY cute. And I'm supposed to charge a cover. But a lot of the girls, when I say that...awgh man! They tilt their head, put on a flirty face...or push their hip out, prop their hand on their hip and smile cute RIGHT AT ME. I'll try to keep focus...but I can't, ugh. It doesn't work on em. I'll look down...hip out, hand on her hip...look up-right at the cute face...UGH! So I just kinda bow my head and tell em to go ahead, not pay. How can I ignore that??? Is there any way to, because I can't! It's hard, I mean, I didn't think they'd be this good at it. Please help!

I have a crush on my councelor, She is 24 and im 19. she is super friendly. and she is beautiful. I really want to tell her because I really need to get it out its really bothering me. How can I tell her without being creepy. please I need advice im not expecting anything from her, I just really need to say something

So this kid threw down my other friend who is 2 years younger than him and smaller and ended up hitting his head on the ground. And then later my friend was calling him out and stuff so he threw my friend on the ground, and bare in mind he weighs 80kg and my friend like 50 and he was on top so I pucnhed him multiple times in the jaw from behind him and now I feel like that was a p'ussy move

We went to course together so that I could drive with him. He has a drivers license from another country so he knows how to drive a car. But it's not about that. It's about driving the way they want you to drive. You have to think about eco driving, engine breaking and you have to look in the mirrors and the dead angle. They are very, very strict. My father had a drivers license in another country for 10 years and he still had to take the test 4 times before he passed. And it costs $200 every time you take it. I sit there with him and he is goofing off. I get kind of annoyed at him and I tell him that he can goof off another time. He says I need to get angry at him. I say: "I'm not here to get angry at you. I'm giving you advice to help you pass the test. Weather you are going to listen or not that none of my concern". Maybe I should tell him to just pay to go to a drivers school? If he's not going to listen to me then what is the point?