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- Question: Im livin in florida im not acitenzen how do i divorce myhusband in jamaica?
- Question: Can I marry again.My D.O.B is 22.10.1955 At 11.55pm.?
- Question: How do I help get my wife to stop being so cold harded and get her back?
- Question: I'm divorcing my wife. Is it legal for me to sign a paper to allow her to actually blackmail me?
- Question: Getting legally married to my girlfriend?
- Question: I'm afraid of committment?
- Question: Do I have a case to pursue primary to give my daughter the stability she needs, that I can provide? Legal professionals or similar situation?
- Question: Need relationship help?
- Question: Social security administration for separated couples?
- Question: How do I start this conversation with my husband without hurting his feelings?
- Question: Who writes saying i promise?
- Question: I have proof my dad is cheating.?
- Question: Why are divorced women desperate for inheritance money? Why don't they get a job?
- Question: Should I stay married?
- Question: My husband wants me to help him pay child support but I don't think I'd be able to afford it. What should we do?
- Question: So if a person chooses NOT to marry, that individual is immature selfish?
- Question: Why Won't My Husband Give Me Oral?
- Question: Please help me understand my wife (divorce) My wife and I have been married for 3 years. OUT OF NOWHERE. Got very upset at me on Monday night when I tried to talk to her about her texting her cousin while we tried to talk a problem out.?
- Question: If you are a couple and divorce in your 40s or 50s what is a chance to find a new partner?
- Question: Why is it seen as immature to not want to get married?
- Question: Child support on myself?
- Question: How do I tell my wife that I'd like a divorce?
- Question: Would I regret doing cheating?
- Question: What does my dad mean when he says some girls are just for fun but not for marriage or to have kids with?
- Question: For marriage, how do you figure out if a woman is likely to cheat in the future?
- Question: What to do with a cheating husband??
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: Is their a term for ppl who get angry and defensive when you don't agree with them?
- Question: What is the secret you're going to take to your grave?????
- Question: What is the point of marrying when you can get the same thing as a boyfriend as you would as a husband?
- Question: HELP!!!!!?
- Question: Do most husband not enjoy kissing?
- Question: Ladies is it a major turn off if you don't "finish" after sex with husband?
- Question: So, um, how about them marriages? How expensive was the wedding to get yours? Did the "father of the bride" pay for it? Did you JOP it?
- Question: Anyone else have this problem and what do you do to resolve it?
- Question: Ladies how would you feel in my place?
- Question: Getting married through court?
- Question: Couples married for 10+ years... an anniversary question?
- Question: Can’t help falling in love with a married man, and I’m also married.?
- Question: Loving and affectionate but hardly says I love you. Would this bother you?
- Question: Wives , Do you enjoy vacation sex more than at home or is that just a ploy used to encourage your husbands to take you traveling more often?
- Question: Should I stay???? HELP PLEASE?!?
- Question: Am I a bad wife for going on a paid trip to france while my husband is away at work for 1 month?
- Question: Husband left and involve with another woman... anyone else who has been through this, please share?
- Question: Married men I have a question for you?
- Question: I absolutely can not get over how my husband slept with his stepmom when he was 16.?
- Question: Best april fool's joke for husband (over the phone)?
- Question: Where can I go to find the exact location of my spouse?
- Question: Poll:guys what do you like most about the girl on Top sex position?
- Question: What can you do about a husband who leaves for days and doesn't care how this impacts his family's life?
- Question: What does it mean when I don't want to come home to my wife?
- Question: What does it mean that marriage license are only valid for 90 days? Does that mean that after that I'm not legally married orrr?
- Question: I need help and advice, please?
- Question: My husband is in icu .. His sister blocked me from contacting him . She has always had a say in our relationship.. But what are my rights?
- Question: Do you ever really get over your high school girlfriend?
- Question: Should I keep it short?
- Question: 23 years my husband left me for another woman my heart is broke my 3 babies are missing their daddy what do I do?
- Question: 2 years my husband left me for another woman my heart is broke my 3 babies are missing their daddy what do I do?
- Question: My wife is cheating on me, should I divorce her?
- Question: Does ur husband have sex with u?
| Question: Im livin in florida im not acitenzen how do i divorce myhusband in jamaica? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 09:19 PM PDT |
| Question: Can I marry again.My D.O.B is 22.10.1955 At 11.55pm.? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 08:54 PM PDT I want a divorce And remarry. Is it possible |
| Question: How do I help get my wife to stop being so cold harded and get her back? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 08:50 PM PDT Well I been with my wife for 3 years and I messed up alot and she gave me so many chances, I been trying to be better and change my way, and so far it is going well, but my wife said she is done and that she doesn't see a future for us. But she still loves me. She been so cold harded and really stone walling me. I just want to change and be a better man for the woman I love so deeply. I been trying everything and it feels like nothing works. My friend said thing will get better as long as I get back to good gracious with her and everything will follow. He said I'm in punishment. Plz help if u have anything nice to say. Please don't judge me I'm only human |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2015 08:29 PM PDT ....with my permission? I know she hates me so she wont have a problem doing it. |
| Question: Getting legally married to my girlfriend? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 08:27 PM PDT Okay we are both 18. We both live in the state of texas. My family and all her family DONT know we have a plan to get married. I am an hour away from her at this moment. I plan to leave at 3:30 or 4 in the morning to her...yet I'm extremely scared if my aunt and uncle catch me leaving or something. I'm staying at this place that may end up being mine. I once brought my gf to this place and they knocked on the door. I was so upset the fact they found out and checked if it was really us. What do I do? Should I really leave at 3-4 am? My uncle and aunt don't go to work until like 6-7AM. I'm scared they're gonna pass by my place because it's on the way to their work! Plus I want to avoid traffic getting to my gf and to the city hall. |
| Question: I'm afraid of committment? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 08:23 PM PDT my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year, and we've talked about marriage and at first it was great but now talking about marriage is deathly scary to me because I fear that the marriage wont last, I'll get cheated on, or worse I will wake up to him one morning and realize that I don't love him anymore. Things have recently happened in my life that have made me look at it from a different stand point but now I am afraid to get married. and at first I was afraid of commitment, every time I tried I ended up getting hurt, but once he came into my life he is the greatest thing that happened. I know what I want in life and where I want to be, but im afraid that he probably wont be in it. what should I do? |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2015 08:23 PM PDT My daughter(7yrs old) has zero stability with my ex wife. Constantly late to school. Sleeps in a garage. No climate control. May or may not stay with friend or relative during school nights. Has been sick for the last year. Ex wife wasn't forthcoming to her doctor about the garage. Has consistently put her needs and wants before our daughters. Insists she calls the married father of two that they live with "daddy", even tho she doesn't want to. Guilt trip. So much more too. But is there a chance to make this happen for my daughter. I'm entirely engaged in my daughters life. But I pay a size-able portion of my income to child support, so I'm trying to feel out whether or not I stand a chance, or if I have nothing and will end up losing the case and hurting my daugther. My ex has not attempted to change one bit. No remorse. Our problems are dead and gone, but I can't sit by and idly watch what's happening. Trying to fix it every 1st, 3rd and 5th weekend. I can give our child stability. Home every night, her own real room, her bed, her things. To school on time and picked up on time. No guessing games. I can't really afford legal representation. So I'm trying to flesh out my odds and options as best I can before going forward and representing myself. I don't want to cause my daughter any pain by involving her. Not if I can help it anyways. Ex won't talk. Tried it, and she always tries to start an argument. I don't engage, but I don't accomplish anything either. Please advise |
| Question: Need relationship help? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 08:20 PM PDT Me and my partner were almost together for 3 years. We live 6 hours away by car. We recently broke up because she caught feelings for a dyke and left me one morning with a text saying "I can't do this anymore. I'm breaking up". My heart was shattered into a million pieces and I would cry feeling like I valued nothing. I had a lot of suicide thoughts. After two weeks things didn't go well with my partner and the dyke because the dyke was a really big player. My partner would cry over the phone when she would tell me how the dyke would play with my partners feelings. I still talk to my partner.. I love her to death I would die for her. I want to marry her I'm just crazy over this person.. So I told her if she wanted to get back with me. She said when she moves closer so we can have a normal relationship and because she needs time to get over that dyke.. She moves in a month and we haven't been together for 2 months.. I don't know if she deserves me. I'm loyal, and I love her, we both lost our virginities to each other and we are both 18.. I know I'm young. I'm just in love with her.. She tells me she loves me but it's hard to believe sometimes. I wish I could get over her. But I cant.. She doesn't text me like we used to. I'm going crazy. I love her but I believe I deserve somebody better.. I just don't believe I will have something like this with somebody else.. Our parents introduced us to each other a little over 3 years ago and we were together since.. Please give me advice |
| Question: Social security administration for separated couples? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 08:17 PM PDT for a couple that are married 30 years ,but live separately for 35 years and live in different states what are there rights after separated ? |
| Question: How do I start this conversation with my husband without hurting his feelings? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 08:15 PM PDT I'm going through a hard time emotionally right now. I turn 30 next month and I'm not where I wanted to be in life by this age. I recently quit my job to stay home with our 2 kids--which, dont get me wrong, is such a blessing, but its so stressful. My kids will be 1 and 4 in June. I'm having a hard time with potty training my oldest (girl). That, compiled with the other stresses of being a mother, is bringing me down and I throw pitty parties and call myself a bad mother. In addition, I, like every other woman in this world, am self concious about my weight. My youngest child is now 9 months old and I'm having a very tough time losing the weight. My husband (and me too--i just never get to go) has joined a gym (so that he can lose some weight to join the air force) and has a personal trainer. I was son the bandwaggon for a while, but when I didnt see any results, i lost my motivation. I want my husband to compliment me and support me and motivate me. How do i have this conversation with him without hurting his feelings? On top of going to the gym twice a day, he works 50 hours a week. I dont want him to feel like a bad husband, because he isnt. Help!!!! |
| Question: Who writes saying i promise? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 08:12 PM PDT Who in this world writes an email and says. I promise? Sales people, cheating husbands, worried girlfriends, etc |
| Question: I have proof my dad is cheating.? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 08:11 PM PDT So I was using my dads computer and I saw a Skype message pop up from someone with an outlandish name and my dads last name. My dad and mom got divorced a few years ago because my mom thought my dad was cheating. My dad currently has an affair with a local woman and had an affair with another outlandish woman a few years ago. Part of me wants to tell my 4 year older sister which is 17. I don't want to confront my dad or tell my mom. But I'm very confused and don't really know what to do. |
| Question: Why are divorced women desperate for inheritance money? Why don't they get a job? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 08:10 PM PDT If a husband inherited a large amount of money, some of these women will do anything to get the hands on his money even after divorce. Why? |
| Question: Should I stay married? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 08:05 PM PDT I've been with my husband for 4 years . I love him but I don't know if I should stay with him . Every time I see my future I don't see him in it . He slowly started pushing me away. When we have sex I think about someone else . I know that sounds selfish . We have 2 daughters together and my fear is for them to grow up without a father like I did . I honestly don't know. I really think I need to see a therapist but it's too expensive . |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2015 07:58 PM PDT So my husband recently confessed to cheating on me. He had said it happened months ago so I wondered why he would feel the need to bring it up if he had gotten away with it. It turns out the woman he was seeing is pregnant and he felt the need to let me know. He said it was all a mistake and that he didn't want to leave me or to divorce. He claims to have no feelings for this woman although he slept with her several times. So we did in fact stay together but as this woman's due date is approaching they have begun to discuss child support. My husband is not working and I am the only source of income between the two of us. However this woman claims she wont allow him to see his child if he doesn't pay something. So he asked if I could pay it for him. I do want him to be able to see his child but working as a public high school teacher doesnt exactly pay a lot. It was never an issue since we have no children the pay was perfect for the two of us now I'm not so sure. How much would child support cost? Would they base it off my income or his lack of income? Even if he doesnt pay as much as she'd like can she really keep him from seeing his baby? Thank you for reading my long question and I appreciate any answers. |
| Question: So if a person chooses NOT to marry, that individual is immature selfish? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 07:51 PM PDT "Because the majority of people want to get married & most immature selfish people don't." This quote I read from a female user. Why is it immature and selfish if someone doesn't want to get married? https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20150401184553AAwScYa you didn't have to answer... To bonn... If a person chooses to protect him/her self financially and avoid divorce marriage? Thats immature and selfish...? how can women be trusted? |
| Question: Why Won't My Husband Give Me Oral? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 07:15 PM PDT My Husband and I have been married 4 years, I'm in my early 20's and he's in his late 20's . I preform oral on him every other day but I can't help but to get upset because he won't return the favor !? I've asked him why he doesn't do it but he just gets mad. I truly love him but Idk if I can live the rest of my life wanting my husband to go down on me !!! Anybody who has gone through this please help ! |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2015 06:54 PM PDT She got very defensive and said she was tired of me always complaining about something. I then told her that I was sorry but I did not mean to complaint. She then said she wanted a divorce bcus we do not agree on this. I told her I respect her decision and if she was not happy with me, I would give her the divorce as much as it hurts me. She then tells me she loves me but she feels we argue about the same things all the time. I have been sleeping on our bedroom floor for the past 2 nights. I wanted to give her some space. Today she came from work very sick . I offered some soup, medicine and her gummy bears *she liekes them ). I came home w/ soup, she ate it and asked me to watch a movie. Then I extended my arms and she looked at me with a weird look and said "what?" I responded "when you feel sick you tend to lay on my chest, so come on!" she said "No". I leaned her towards me and she then got comfortable" I asked her to take a nap, she agreed. I gave her medicine, and looked at her directly at her eyes and said" Why are you so stubborn about a divorce?" she responded with an "I do not know". I then got up turned the lights off in our bedroom leaned forward towards her and gave her a kiss, she did not look away or anything she accepted it. . We have a planned 6 day cruise for April 25 which is FULLY paid. She wants to cancel and wants to split our money (we keep one joint account). She wants to cancel the purchase of our first home because of this divorce idea she now has. |
| Question: If you are a couple and divorce in your 40s or 50s what is a chance to find a new partner? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 06:51 PM PDT Men vs women? Or are you going to remain single? |
| Question: Why is it seen as immature to not want to get married? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 06:45 PM PDT |
| Question: Child support on myself? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 06:23 PM PDT im a guy who is trying to put child support on myself, the reason why is that i want to support my child and also because my ex and her parents wont let me see him.my son is growing up without knowing who i am, and i really dont want that. so i would also like to request a visitation schedual, is that possible? shes 17 im 21 and our kid is 2, |
| Question: How do I tell my wife that I'd like a divorce? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 06:16 PM PDT When we first got married, I feel like our love was pure. Though, since then, I feel like it's diminished and it's no longer true. I was so happy to be with this woman, but now I'm so reluctant to be with her. It's gotten awkward and forced to be with one another, and it's incredibly painful. I've been contemplating it for such a long, long time now. I just want her to be happy, with another man that truly loves her. The man I know she's in love with this entire time... But I can't seem to find tje right time to say it... I know Yahoo! answers isn't such a great place to ask this, but I'm desperate for advice. No one else seems to want to help in my life, and even though everyone here is a stranger, I need all the replies I can get. |
| Question: Would I regret doing cheating? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 05:54 PM PDT When I married my husband, in first 2 years he did so much damage to me, emotionally and was physically abusive to an extend too. Now that period is over but the damage has remained. Sometimes when I see signs of what he has done to me makes me hate him so much that I want to go cheat on him. I sometimes really hate him. Does anyone else feel this way about their spouses? I try to let go but it has affected me significantly is many ways. Would I regret cheating on him? Now he has become a good person but I don't even feel he truly loves me but I guess he feels bad for what he has done and he treats me really nicely. Is this kind of hatred toward one's spouse normal? FYI he has not cheated on me but he has done something as bad as cheating. He has damaged me emotionally, mentally & physically. I do not hate him all the time, but when I think about the pain he has given me I hate him. I put up with him till now and NOW I divorce him? I don't think so. |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2015 05:44 PM PDT He never told me which ones are the ones for fun and which ones are the ones for marriage ? so i am kind of confused and what does he mean by just for fun and just for marriage and to have kids with ? |
| Question: For marriage, how do you figure out if a woman is likely to cheat in the future? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 04:33 PM PDT Please see this link below. Its by a woman who cheated on her husband simply because he was not satisfying her emotional needs but overall he was a good husband to her. Whats surprising is that a user name KissMyTiara (3rd answer) posted she cheated because she wanted to get out of a bad relationship. How do you determine if a woman is likely to cheat due to emotional neglect or lack of sexual satisfaction. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/marriage-life-partnerships/infidelity/46071-stupidly-cheated-my-wonderful-husband-divorce-going-thru-week Thats the most childish and immature reason to divorce someone, "he is not emotionally satisfying me." |
| Question: What to do with a cheating husband?? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 04:03 PM PDT |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2015 03:11 PM PDT Im so unhappy with my husband I wanna leave him so bad but it's so hard cause we have a kid together. I'm really unhappy don't know what to do but I know eventually it will end |
| Question: Is their a term for ppl who get angry and defensive when you don't agree with them? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 03:02 PM PDT I tip toe around my husbands "love list". And when Im honest and say I don't like that he gets defensive and acts like an idiot. Says I "never like what he likes and I do it on purpose"!!! It can be something as simple as a brand of cheese:( :( I think its a emotional disorder!!! |
| Question: What is the secret you're going to take to your grave????? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 02:40 PM PDT This is an anonymous forum. Spill..... What really happened at your bachelor/bachlorette party? Where you really went when you told the wife you were going fishing? How much you really spent on that dress?...... Why bother saying you don't have secrets? |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2015 01:31 PM PDT husband just means she has way more expectations of you and you gotta work harder than if you were a boyfriend and have more duty and responsibility also entitles her to split assets and property with you in the event of a divorce so when you take all that into account wouldn't it be better to be her boyfriend than her husband you get all the same things and benefits like sex but at a lower cost Also as a boyfriend you can just leave whenever your not satisfied and no harm you can't really do the same if you were a husband if I'm going to marry it would have to be something worthwhile she's putting on the table that is exclusive for husband only like she will only have sex with man she marries then ok that is a good deal makes sense worth marrying and she gives husband special treatment compared to rest of previous boyfriends |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2015 01:17 PM PDT Been married for over 12 yrs. How do you deal with someone who refuses to take accountability for their mistakes? Please do not suggest talking to her or marriage counselling; done both and both failed! All I want is what my wife expects of me when I make a mistake and that is to acknowledge it and apologize. Now is that so much to ask for? |
| Question: Do most husband not enjoy kissing? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 01:14 PM PDT Maybe this is a silly question, but it seems like my husband is never happy with a spontaneous lip locking session say in the kitchen or wherever we may be; he will always get handsy or motion for the bedroom and it's frustrating! He says he can't help it and that I'm just irresistible... (This changed after marriage, by the way. Married 2 years) |
| Question: Ladies is it a major turn off if you don't "finish" after sex with husband? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 01:14 PM PDT |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2015 12:45 PM PDT I got lucky, my parents only had to pay for the booze. I suppose in some families that would be a triple bill compared to the wedding, but my wife and I are straight edge so... The category "Weddings" are for people planning their weddings. The category "Marriage & Divorce" is for discussions about the legal aspect of getting married (like this question) or the legal aspect of getting divorced. The only reason there are drama questions end up in M&D is because the regulars that sit here (like myself) aren't in "Other - Family & Relationships" to answer them in the correct category there. |
| Question: Anyone else have this problem and what do you do to resolve it? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 12:39 PM PDT I realize we all have to pee and poop but almost every time my wife goes poop she dirties the toilet and leaves it for me to clean and I am getting real sick and tired of it. (I feel like I am living with a 5yr old) Does anyone have any ideas on how to put an end to it? Before you ask I have spoken to her about it and she just laughs, and walks away. |
| Question: Ladies how would you feel in my place? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 12:38 PM PDT Been married for a couple of years now. I do love my husband but I feel so hurt. We have sex like once in 2-3 weeks. And that too he looks at it as a duty. I am reasonably attractive and work out and all but I dnt dress up for him around the house. he never kiss or hug me even. He does not even share a blanket. But he is still a great person..and he is very committed to me. Yes I dnt look hot like when I was single but I thought love goes beyond just looks. He is not cheating and I understand he is tired after work too but sex should be fun if you love someone I think. I am just tired to trying to make myself look good for him instead of being just simple and clean and be myself. He simply does not like me even bring myself.. He usually wants be to act less like myself. For example reject him for sex will turn him off instead of being myself and be open to wanting to have sex. Any advice. what would u do.? |
| Question: Getting married through court? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 12:24 PM PDT Okay, so I plan on getting married through the court at 18 but I have no idea what the process is. I just figured out I have to get a marriage license, THEN I get married. Where do I do both of those? And how do I get both of those? Please don't tell me I'm crazy or stupid for this, I'm going to be 18, and I'm tired of people believing this generation doesn't know how to make last. The man I'm marrying is going to be 20, and we both know that this is what we want, and we both don't believe in divorce. So I don't need any of that negativity around here, I just need answers, thank you! |
| Question: Couples married for 10+ years... an anniversary question? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 11:54 AM PDT My husband and I will be celebrating our 10 year wedding anniversary this summer (yikes!) and while we ordinarily just do dinner out somewhere nice, I'd like to do something special this year to celebrate. What did you do for your 1o year anniversary? Any exciting ideas? We live in the US, if that has any bearing on your answer. |
| Question: Can’t help falling in love with a married man, and I’m also married.? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 11:22 AM PDT Met an old friend whom I hadn't seen in over 20 years, and that night we started texting ea other non stop until the next morning, and it was more than a regular texting, if u know what I mean. We never met again physically, but we enjoyed ea other company and have been texting every day, then it led to sending pictures then videos. A month after that he stopped texting, and my world fell apart. 3 mo later he responded, saying there was something wrong with the connection, then we started again. At times he would stop texting for several days/weeks. The excuse is always either the connection or his phone. For the past few mo I'm always the one starting the text, and if I don't do that he won't initiate. I feel great when we text each other, and I feel that I am so in love with him and the whole activity is so addicting like I'm on drugs; I find myself checking my phone constantly, and when he stops I get depressed and devastated. It has been a week since he last texted me, and I'm sad. We both are married so this is wrong, but I can't stop and I long for him. He lives in another country, so this is the only thing that stops us from meeting ea other again. Why doesn't he text me as often anymore? Do men lose interest after a while? Am I being to needy/clingy and it scares him? What's the best way to get myself to stop thinking of him and wanting him so badly? |
| Question: Loving and affectionate but hardly says I love you. Would this bother you? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 09:16 AM PDT My husband is very affectionate. He wants to always hold hands even when just sitting on the couch, constantly hugs and kisses, gets me flowers for no reason every couple of months, compliments me, cooks, wants to spend all his free time with me (which sometimes makes it hard for me to do things with others), uses sweet names, but what puzzles me is that he rarely says "I love you." I hear it probably a couple of times every couple of weeks. It varies but it definetely isn't everyday or multiple times a day. I know he loves me and his actions say everything to me but I wonder why someone who's so loving with me barely expresses it verbally Is this odd or should I not give it any importance? |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2015 08:51 AM PDT And yes this question about husbands and wives is intended for the Marriage & Divorce category , no need to move it . This worked out well , each time you move the question it gives me something to copy and paste to send to Yahoo as examples of the malicious category changing . Thanks so much for your participation : ) |
| Question: Should I stay???? HELP PLEASE?!? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 08:46 AM PDT My husband and I met when I was 18 and he was 21. We got married when I was 19 and we have a 1 year old son now. We fight so much and we have more bad times than good times. But when we have good times everything is alright and he is a good dad. But im not happy and haven't been for a while. Its so hard to leave and i care about him. We currently live with my mom and he has a good job. But he can't save money at all. He has horrible credit. His license is suspended. He doesn't have a car. I feel so stressed out and i feel like he is just bringing me down. He is so controlling , jealous, has a temper and gets mad at every little thing. He doesn't want to have a facebook or twitter , he blocks all the guys that send me requests on instagram. He doesn't let me go to the gym. He doesn't even let me have friends. He says "well im going out to the strip club or drink with my friends then" when all i do is go out to eat with my friends that doesnt even compare! I also found some craigslist ads that he posted to go on dates with women and having sexual activities while being married! He says he posted it but never went through with it. Sometimes i just wanna be single and find someone better . What should i do???? |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2015 08:35 AM PDT My little brother is in his 1st year of college in france, and my mom offered to bring me with to visit him with my aunt & sis. My husband has to go away for one month for work and we would be in France for a little over a week during that time. And I plan to get back before he comes home if everything works out. He's upset, feels left out, and said that it the tables were turned, he'd never want to go because it wouldn't be fun without me. He's in the military, and he has to go to this school for one month. He doesn't have a choice. So no matter what he is leaving and I will miss him a TON no matter what. Yes if I go to France it would limit our communication for about 8-9 days but he deployed for 9 months with limited communication and we still survived. I appreciate his feelings and have vocalized that, but honestly for me, I WOULD WANT HIM TO GO IF THE TABLES WERE TURNED! Anyways, long and painful and stressful story short, we can't seem to get on the same page and I am having a really hard time making a decision because of it. He says I should "just go" but he's said it with spite in his voice. I'm not looking for anyone to tell me what I should do, but I just want to get some outside opinions on this situation. I want to go but at the same time I would feel so wrong and cold and shameful for going because of my husbands feelings. Ugh. Any thoughts? |
| Posted: 01 Apr 2015 07:57 AM PDT He was leading me on since September 2014, not really telling me. He did not call or see our sons, 9 and 13 on their birthdays or even buy them gifts. Christmas either. I had to get a private eye and eventually found out that they are living together. I moved down here to Florida the end of November with the intention of trying to save the marriage but figured if it didn't work out, Florida is nice anyway. I had to wait for a job transfer. His job doesn't have insurance/benefits. By the time I found out for sure, she ended up calling me and he was taking her side, saying nasty things to me., conversation was mostly texting. He figured at that point he messed up things with us completely. The sad thing is he has completely abandoned his biological children and supporting this woman who doesn't work and has two kids from 2 different guys. And oh, not supporting our children voluntarily, but I am waiting on child support. I am a Pharmacist so I make good enough money to be ok. Anyone else in a similar situation? |
| Question: Married men I have a question for you? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 07:50 AM PDT What would you have done if your (now) wife was the one to propose to you, before you decided the time was right to propose to her? Would that have been an end-all? Not related to me at all, I'm just curious about your answers. |
| Question: I absolutely can not get over how my husband slept with his stepmom when he was 16.? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 07:19 AM PDT I don't know what to do. It makes me nauseated every time I think about it. I found out last Christmas when I first met her. One of his friends texted me and told me. He said she came on to him. But I found videos of her giving someone he claimed wasn't him a ******* in his phone and a picture of her breasts and He said they were old and he forgot about them. He's only 21 now. I just don't know how I can move past this, or if I'm even capable of doing so. |
| Question: Best april fool's joke for husband (over the phone)? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 04:57 AM PDT My husbands currently away on business so we only talk on the phone... But, it's april fool's and even though he's not here, I still wanna get em. If it helps, he's pretty easy to fool.. lol Thanks! |
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| Posted: 01 Apr 2015 01:49 AM PDT This last year my husband has made some new friends and he has taken to just going with them after work and staying at their house for 1-2 days and turns off his phone so I can't find him.Then he comes home 1-2 days later like nothing happened and we should be glad to see him. I've told him how disrespectful this is and how he is setting a bad example to our kids but he takes the attitude that if I don't like it I don't have enough to think about. And it doesn't bother the kids only me. He clearly isn't going to change. It's now about 3 am, I don't know where he is and I'm wondering if I should consider leaving him or just accept this disrespect/bad example because if we divorced life would be really hard plus how it would impact my kids. I really don't know where to go from here but tonight I realized it was never going to change. If I change the locks can't I get into trouble for blocking entrance to the house? I've told him before he will be looking at a divorce but I don't think he believes me. A divorce will be incredibly hard on my family. Is their another solution besides putting up with it, which I don't want? Seriously what am I supposed to do. Sure I have confronted him on another woman but he swears not (naturally). If I stalk him by following him after he leaves work that is considered psycho. I don't understand how I am supposed to MAKE him stay at home. I have tried talking and reasoning with him and he just says "It's just who I am". |
| Question: What does it mean when I don't want to come home to my wife? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 01:09 AM PDT |
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| Question: I need help and advice, please? Posted: 01 Apr 2015 12:34 AM PDT We ve lived together for more than 10 years and have two -almost teenage children. 1. My husband has photos of his parents, sisters and brothers on his phone but not mine. I ve asked him before but he won t give me a straight answer. What shoul I make of this? |
| Posted: 31 Mar 2015 11:41 PM PDT My sister in law , has always pried her way into our marriage , she intimidates the crap out of me . My husband and I have been separated but on good terms . He was in a accident . ICU . His sister blocks me .. What should I do ? Without kicking up dust , and handling this the right way? |
| Question: Do you ever really get over your high school girlfriend? Posted: 31 Mar 2015 11:05 PM PDT I'm 31. I've been married for 6 years. I love my wife, more than anything. She's my best friend. She carried and gave birth to our son, who I would truthfully kill or die for. This is our life and I couldn't be happier about it. But there are cigarette moments at night when I can't stop thinking about the girl I loved most in high school. It doesn't feel like a "what could have been" fantasy, because I know we were both kids, but I was in love with her in a way that I've never been since...even with my wife. I really need to know that this goes away, because the internet makes it really easy to compromise your life. Thanks |
| Question: Should I keep it short? Posted: 31 Mar 2015 11:00 PM PDT So I've picked out the perfect ring and I'm still deciding where to "pop the question" and what exactly to say. There's so much I want to say about us, how I've been crazy about her since high school (when we first met), how I love watching her sleep in on weekends, how I even love the sound of her voice. I mean it's things I've said countless times before but I still feel strongly about, but should I just keep it short and just ask? The proposal itself has been a long time coming, we've been together three years and I moved across the country with her for her job so it's not going to be a huge suprise, but I want this to be perfect. So should I keep it short? |
| Posted: 31 Mar 2015 10:59 PM PDT We had a good life in the last three years we lost both of our moms and his brother and our son was still born he turned to another woman and I got mad because he gave her my time I guess I pushed him away |
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| Question: My wife is cheating on me, should I divorce her? Posted: 31 Mar 2015 10:20 PM PDT I caught my wife cheating on me. After 20 years of marriage I thought we really were gonna make it. I was with her when she almost died in Guam. She was with me when I got adult onset diabetes. I am absolutely devastated. She cheated on me with my ex best friend Marcel. Marcel and I were like two peas in a pod. We used to drice our mopeds around the city together. One day he crashed his moped and I kept driving cause I thought it was just hilarious. When I visited him in the hospital he ended our friendship and then upon his release he f*cked my wife. My wife has had an ovarian cyst recently so I hope the jokes on him. OH I forgot we have 3 kids. 2 of them are really ugly actually. Like they are always crying about getting picked on in school. BOOHOO I am dealing with my cheating WHORe Wife. I have cheated on her before don't get me wrong but women shouldn't be allowed to have autonomous thought. I cheated with a prostitute. She was black as night which gave me a sick little thrill I felt deep in my plums. So the question arises, do I divorce this idiot woman? I just can't tell and I don't want to pay alamoni okay? Idk I need help on this one, her name is Janice by the way. |
| Question: Does ur husband have sex with u? Posted: 31 Mar 2015 10:14 PM PDT My husband likes only getting *******. He never touched or kissed me. I don't like having sex with him either. It is so painful ( we had sex 3 times to get baby ) because his penis is huge. I give him only ******* whenever he feels horny. Is it normal? Is there anyone like in my situation?? We are married however sometimes I feel lonely so I asked him to touch me but he just ignored. When I asked him if I can go see another guy. Then he hits me. Does your husband have sex with you and do you feel good??? Don't you feel like having affaires??? Thanks , my English might be bad..... |
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