Marriage & Divorce: Question: I'm getting a divorce, can I keep my NFCU account? |
- Question: I'm getting a divorce, can I keep my NFCU account?
- Question: I got my heart broken by my first love. Please help?
- Question: How do i help my *teen* friend during a divorce?
- Question: Why I does my hubby get mad if I want to watch porn?
- Question: If stoning a woman to death for cheating on her husband was law then how come seducing a married man was just a slap on the wrist?
- Question: Is there anything wrong with the fact that I like to shave my pubes?
- Question: My husband doesnt ever want sex and turned down BJ?
- Question: I want to share my asian wife with a black man. She is ready too? Any one out here in London let me know?
- Question: My wife is wanting to get a full body massage by a masseur and I'm wondering if something out of the ordinary might happen or is it safe?
- Question: My husband wants me to include the words 'Obey' and 'Submit' in my marriage vows? Is this normal?
- Question: Confused.. need relationship advice.?
- Question: Divorce, or tough it out? (details below)?
- Question: What are 'feelings of affirmation' in marriage?
- Question: My fiance is pissed at me and I haven't heard from him in two days?
- Question: Relationship?
- Question: My fiance is pissed at me and I haven't heard from him in two days?
- Question: My fiance is pissed at me and I haven't heard from him in two days?
- Question: I have a very competitive wife who only competes with me. How do I give her other outlets for her to compete so she stops fighting with me?
- Question: Overreacting or Right?
- Question: She is my wife?
- Question: What does it mean if guy wants my opinion about divorce in general? We are not dating but I secretly like him?
- Question: What kind of man lets his wife order him to get rid of his dog?
- Question: What can I do to change the way he treats me?
- Question: Wife raised Christian and I was raised agnostic; since I don't believe in following typical Christian gender norms, is this marriage doomed?
- Question: My girlfriend lives in Canada and I live in New York, and we are thinking about getting married. What would we have to do to get married?
- Question: Sex before marriage.whats your take?good or bad?
- Question: Why are american women seemingly incapable of being faithful these days?
- Question: Custody issue with ex-wife?
- Question: My husband burned all my clothes among other things..Is it possible to recover these damages in a divorce?
- Question: Struggling with fact that my husband insists on going to his exwifes for the holidays. We've been together 20 years, his kids r in there 30s?
- Question: My Wife is tired.?
- Question: A little over a year ago my husband's ex wife came into my place of work and cussed me out. can this cause PTSD?
- Question: I'm 100% sure my husband likes my friend.?
- Question: Reasons to not get married, but still stay partners?
- Question: Is it bad if I don't want to go with my husband to his family's house for Easter?
- Question: My husband wont clean up after himself?
- Question: If your wife cheated on u will u stay or go[[?
- Question: What is the difference between 'divorced' and 'separated' ???
- Question: Should I be mad at my husband?
- Question: Can my ex get custody of our son?
- Question: We've been separated for 7 years, but haven't divorced yet.?
- Question: Do I trust again or divorce?
- Question: Who are the husband and wife team that write books?
- Question: Confronted husband about cheating?
- Question: My husband makes me feel small about myself and makes me feel insecure?
- Question: When do people usually get married? Age wise?
- Question: I just want to know about my marriage lincese without paying money to do so?
- Question: Wife thinks I'm looking another woman's chest? What to do?
- Question: What would my husband have or be doing, to daily leave tiny fibers black between toilet seats. He is bi I've found this out 2 years ago.?
- Question: I can t have sex as often as I want and my husband is sexually frustrated. I try to help him as much as I can but we still end up fighting?
- Question: Would it be okay if I punish my wife by not having sex with her?
- Question: Is it a good combination in a marriage : a Weak man and a strong Woman? talking about character,will....?
- Question: Husband lacks passion in sex!HELP!!!!?
- Question: How can I handle this ex wife problem?
- Question: Ladies if you dropped in to see a church friend and found her husband wearing her Easter Dress while you was making alterations?
- Question: Why do women marry men for security and not love or the person who he is?
- Question: Why Palestine is still under pressure?
- Question: Do I give him another chance?
- Question: My ex is not transferring the house loan back to her name?
| Question: I'm getting a divorce, can I keep my NFCU account? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 09:11 PM PDT I'm dicorcing my military husband, which means I will no longer be affiliated with the military. I opened up a NFCU a checking account while we were married. Will I be able to keep and actively use my NFCU a account after the divorce is finalized? |
| Question: I got my heart broken by my first love. Please help? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 09:01 PM PDT Hi, everybody. I'm a 25-year-old teacher. I fell deeply in love with this guy, and he completely broke me. I feel so awful and I don't know how I can get over him. I think he might have been my first love. We were going to get married. When I met him, he changed my entire perspective on marriage. But he was such a jerk to me. He broke my heart twice before. He had major insecurity issues because I want to go for my PhD while he's a Shop Rite manager. He made promises that he never kept. He also loved to make me feel guilty if I ever lost my temper with him. We broke up a third time because I just couldn't take it anymore. He said that things would be different, that he would do anything to keep me close, but then he blows me off to hang with his friends and curses me off for getting upset. Mind you, I left my job early just to be with him. I know I have to get over him, but I can't stop crying. I am so scared that I'll never find love again. When he's not in my life, I'm miserable, but when he's in my life, I'm still miserable. How can I move on? :( Thanks so much for reading this. Be blessed. |
| Question: How do i help my *teen* friend during a divorce? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 08:52 PM PDT my friend, rach, just texted me at 10:30 pm telling me she's going to move. she says her parents finally cracked and she's probably moving to Chicago. we live in Texas. how do I help her figure this out? what do I say? what do I not say? she's my closest friend, so please help!! ☺thank you!! |
| Question: Why I does my hubby get mad if I want to watch porn? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 08:51 PM PDT |
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| Question: Is there anything wrong with the fact that I like to shave my pubes? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 08:35 PM PDT Here's the thing; I like to keep it clean down there (by the way, I'm a male) because it feels smooth, but my wife doesn't like it when I do. Honestly, she'll say we won't have sex until it grows back, but she really won't accept that I like it when it's hairless. Am I in the wrong here? I wish she would accept that I like it this way. I don't make her get rid of hers. If anyone else is in this situation, tell me how you handled it. |
| Question: My husband doesnt ever want sex and turned down BJ? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 08:26 PM PDT I just dont understand. My husband and i have been married for 1.5 years and together 2 years and 3months. He never wants sex and hasnt for the last year. We usually go 2 weeks to a month without it. I am always willing. I try to turn him on a lot. Not constantly because that would be annoying, but even when we do have sex he does not instigate it. Today i even offered him a free BJ. As in i dont need anything back and return and to feel up my boobs. I understood before last september because i was pregnant and he said he just wasnt into the pregnant sex thing because his sone was in there. Then after i gave birth he wanted sex constantly for a few weeks. And then nothing again. I dont feel like is attracted to me or wants me at all. My sister also passed away a few weeks ago and the whole greiving process he has been very VERY mean to me. I even left the other day, but came back in the morning and he never asked me to stay or come back home. Today i asked him about it when we were fighting and he said that he wouldnt be losing everything that matters to him becausw i cant take the kids away. I confronted him about possible cheating because of the way he has been treating me, doesnt even hold my hand in the car anymore or kiss or anything, hes hardly ever home because hes always working, etc.He told me maybe he would be happier if he was cheating I dont know if he is or not because he does not try to hide his phone or anything from me.He wouldnt care if i looked. Need advice. |
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| Question: Confused.. need relationship advice.? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 07:48 PM PDT I have currently been with my bf for 2 years now. It started out great just like any other relationship, but as we hit our 1 year mark he began to change.. He started to become more self centered.. And no matter how much I'd try to talk to him about it he'd become stubborn and we'd never accomplish anything.. So time kept going by and I began to find out that he was talking to other girls. I was furious and confronted him about it, he'd feel like **** and tell me that he would change.. And he did, for about a couple months and then returned to the same old ****.. And of course me being so naive and stupidly in love I stayed with him.. There came a point where I was just not myself anymore, I was a grumpy and nagging person.. I lasted like that for a couple months until I realized that I shouldn't be the dumbass and began to change back to my old happy ways.. Yet my bf was the complete opposite and kept talking to other girls.. Idk why I stayed. I think I was scared of being alone.. And we recently hit our 2 years and We had an argument. He said certain **** that broke my heart, I would never say anything like that to him even if I were mad.. I left to my moms house for about a week and not one single time did he call or text.. He came looking for me once I had packed all my things. I gave him a chance to talk to me and he promised that he'd change .. That he couldn't picture his life without me, that he feels lost and alone.. He seems so determined to change.. But idk what to do.. Plus I've began to talk to someone else.. Idk if I should give him a chance or jus. Move on? |
| Question: Divorce, or tough it out? (details below)? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 07:43 PM PDT I met my husband when I was 21, we married two years later--we three kids, one from a previous marriage and two of our own. He's seven years older than me, and it's safe to say he's set in his ways. He's arrogant most of the time, but can be kind. Not generous or giving at all. He's mean, selfish, antisocial and an asshole and proud of it. He's an asshole to everyone, including myself and our kids. He does what he wants, and cares nothing about anyone else. ALTHOUGH, he has never cheated on me, and has never physically abused me. I've grown and evolved, and we have nothing in common anymore. I am adventurous, outgoing, goal oriented, driven, and have the potential to do amazing things for myself and my family, but he feels like a dead weight and sucks the life out of me and our kids. I love volunteering, but he refuses to let me do any of it because it doesn't directly benefit him...little stuff like that that adds up. His selfish attitude and center-of-the-universe complex disgusts me to the bone. Should I treat this as if it were just a phase and ride it out? In his defense, I knew who I was marrying from the start. I am the one who has changed, so it's a hugely selfish on my part to suddenly call it quits, when he's still the same person. Is this a "you've made your bed, now lay in it" situation for me? |
| Question: What are 'feelings of affirmation' in marriage? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 07:36 PM PDT I was reading a study sexual satisfaction in marriage and it said "feelings of affirmation were related to joyful sexuality" but as shown above I'm not sure what feelings of affirmation are. |
| Question: My fiance is pissed at me and I haven't heard from him in two days? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 07:27 PM PDT I've been dating this wonderful guy for 4 years now, he's incredibly amazing, he treats me right, he makes me happy and I love him so much. We have been engaged for a year now but we won't get married for about another year due to financial problems. He and I have so much college debt and neither of us has a good paying job yet and we have a 2 month old daughter together. However that's not the problem. Last week this lady showed up at our apartment and when my fiance saw her he got so mad and said we should stay away from her, he said he doesn't want me or our daughter near her and he just slammed the door in her face. On Thursday my fiance was out and the lady came back to our apartment saying she was his mother. I never knew his mother or anything about her, whenever I asked him or his brother about her they would get mad. I invited her in and naturally asked lots of question. She said she has been trying to find him for the past 7 years because she made some bad decisions and caused her to lose her son, she said he and his brother ran away on the day he graduated highschool. I never knew any of that, then my husband came home and saw her. He got so mad and told her to get out and she kept saying sorry. He then cursed me for an hour because I let her in. He then left and called me a couple hours later saying he's going to stay at his brother's house for the night. I called the next morning and his brother's wife said she hasn't seen either of them. He was really pissed at me and I don't know where he is and I'm so worried about him and our family.He has been mad at me before but he would just take a walk and come back and we'd then apologize for whatever and have some great sex after but being gone for so long worries me. I have no idea what's going on and I'm so confused. What should I do? |
| Posted: 04 Apr 2015 07:11 PM PDT Why do I keep constantly think about having sexual relations with another woman behind my wife? I have not had an affair on her but my body and mind keep telling me I should why would this be? Thank you for all answers |
| Question: My fiance is pissed at me and I haven't heard from him in two days? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 07:06 PM PDT I've been dating this wonderful guy for 4 years now, he's incredibly amazing, he treats me right, he makes me happy and I love him so much. We have been engaged for a year now but we won't get married for about another year due to financial problems. He and I have so much college debt and neither of us has a good paying job yet and we have a 2 month old daughter together. However that's not the problem. Last week this lady showed up at our apartment and when my fiance saw her he got so mad and said we should stay away from her, he said he doesn't want me or our daughter near her and he just slammed the door in her face. On Thursday my fiance was out and the lady came back to our apartment saying she was his mother. I never knew his mother or anything about her, whenever I asked him or his brother about her they would get mad. I invited her in and naturally asked lots of question. She said she has been trying to find him for the past 7 years because she made some bad decisions and caused her to lose her son, she said he and his brother ran away on the day he graduated highschool. I never knew any of that, then my husband came home and saw her. He got so mad and told her to get out and she kept saying sorry. He then cursed me for an hour because I let her in. He then left and called me a couple hours later saying he's going to stay at his brother's house for the night. I called the next morning and his brother's wife said she hasn't seen either of them. He was really pissed at me and I don't know where he is and I'm so worried about him and our family. I have no idea what's going on and I'm confused. What should I do? |
| Question: My fiance is pissed at me and I haven't heard from him in two days? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 07:05 PM PDT I've been dating this wonderful guy for 4 years now, he's incredibly amazing, he treats me right, he makes me happy and I love him so much. We have been engaged for a year now but we won't get married for about another year due to financial problems. He and I have so much college debt and neither of us has a good paying job yet and we have a 2 month old daughter together. However that's not the problem. Last week this lady showed up at our apartment and when my fiance saw her he got so mad and said we should stay away from her, he said he doesn't want me or our daughter near her and he just slammed the door in her face. On Thursday my fiance was out and the lady came back to our apartment saying she was his mother. I never knew his mother or anything about her, whenever I asked him or his brother about her they would get mad. I invited her in and naturally asked lots of question. She said she has been trying to find him for the past 7 years because she made some bad decisions and caused her to lose her son, she said he and his brother ran away on the day he graduated highschool. I never knew any of that, then my husband came home and saw her. He got so mad and told her to get out and she kept saying sorry. He then cursed me for an hour because I let her in. He then left and called me a couple hours later saying he's going to stay at his brother's house for the night. I called the next morning and his brother's wife said she hasn't seen either of them. He was really pissed at me and I don't know where he is and I'm so worried about him and our family. I have no idea what's going on and I'm confused. What should I do? |
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| Question: Overreacting or Right? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 06:02 PM PDT So my husband is a manager and the CEO of the company is in town. Anyways they've been having business dinners with customers and going to bars, which is fine with me, but then my husband tells me he's going to sleep at the CEO's hotel tonight because they'll be out late and he cant drive while drunk. I don't doubt my husband in anyway whatsoever. I just think its immature to sleep in a hotel, just because your CEO is in town. I could careless if it was Obama in town. You can go out and have fun, but come home even if its 3 in the morning! Am I overreacting or does anyone agree with me? |
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| Question: What kind of man lets his wife order him to get rid of his dog? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 05:09 PM PDT Just a story I came across. I thought it was absurd. Poor guy has a Labrador Retriever. His screwed up wife wants him to get rid of the dog. Ummm, I think he should get rid of the wife and keep the dog, always. I don't understand why men get married. I really don't. And, I'm female, lol. I think you all are walking into a trap. Keep dog. Read it here --> http://www.reddit.com/comments/cmiyy/my_wife_is_attempting_to_get_rid_of_my_dog_and/ |
| Question: What can I do to change the way he treats me? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 05:07 PM PDT My husband and I have been married for three, bumpy years. We have a decade long history and two young children. I recently found out he never ended an affair he had told me was over (after having moved back home and me shredding our divorce papers ) I went and got new papers the day I found out. And told him I can't trust him and have no choice. I fought for our marriage, tried again and forgave, I gave it my all. Tearfully, I told him he hasn't proven he will do what's necessary and he said it won't happen again and listened. But now, two days later, that I bring it up again because I see no action put to the words he says, he won't speak to me. He said there's no point in talking. I told him it's very difficult on me. And he's only making it worse on me. In all honesty its caused me to become anxious and depressed 24/7. I don't know how to get thru this. I don't want to be enemies. He was once, a long time ago, my best friend. He will always be my children's father. I don't know how to emotionally overcome this. How do I get him to listen to reason. I know I can't change him, but I just want him to be cordial at the very least. |
| Posted: 04 Apr 2015 04:53 PM PDT My wife stop being a practicing Christian at the age of 13 when she moved away from her church and her community with no replacement church in mind after the move. She is now 33 but she still expects herself and me to act our roles as it were taught to her. Meanwhile, I am agnostic turning atheist; I hate everything the Bible stands for and I think it is bull crap that men have to act in such rigid and self abusive ways in order to conform to the gender ideals of Christianity. So I fight for my right as a human and my wife constantly pigeonholes me to these sexist norms that she was taught as a little girl. She expects me to keep my feelings in, be respectful to women and children (even if they aren't respectful to me), and she expects me to have good manners and good etiquette. Basically, she is house training me like you would a dog. Men who normally conform to these rules get sex and compassion in exchange but my wife feels like she is entitled to these things for her "hard work" as a Mom cooking one meal a day (we work full time and she only cooks dinner, whoopty freakin' do - I go shopping and have to deal with 300+ people in the grocery store for 2+ hours each trip and you don't see me expecting special treatment)... I know the lot of you are already Christian so telling me to turn is the easy answer, but why is it Christians can't accept that their beliefs aren't the ONLY beliefs and they need to compromise?!?!? I'm so furious right now... |
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| Question: Sex before marriage.whats your take?good or bad? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 04:06 PM PDT |
| Question: Why are american women seemingly incapable of being faithful these days? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 04:02 PM PDT whens the last time you heard an unfaithful husbanf say something like "i only cheated because she made me feel special and wanted. She told me i was really good looking so thats why i did it." Nobody would buy that because 1. Theyll still think u just wanted to f*ck her. 2. You come off as an arrogant piece of sh!t. in fact...I KNOW thats one of the things women ***** about. "Oh you just expect me to throw myself all over you and worship the ground you walk on?!?!?" Then they ***** about u to all their friends including that one guy friend they swear is just a friend who is really just a dude waiting for an oppurtunity to bang her. Lets keep it real. Guys know it. Women dont for some reason. Even though thats generally how we all got our foot in the door but they seem to lack the ability to see the pattern. Anyway...Then what happens? That guy friend is just soooo understanding and he listens and hes genuinely cares and he says all the right things and hugs u because thats what she neeeeeds....sound about right? next thing u know ur old ladys getting railed by jimmy john or even worse....... Tyrone Johnson. Yeah you know what im talking about. -_- |
| Question: Custody issue with ex-wife? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 03:41 PM PDT single dad..divorced for over 2 yrs. the ex and i have actual "joint" custody of our child. she lives in a different state than us, and i have had our child since she left. my ex has asked, and been very nasty to me about it, to have our child go and live with her for an entire year. to which i am opposed, for the reason that pulling her away from all she knows and her stability. also, on 2 occasions she has gone to stay with my ex and on both occasions, my ex and our child had to leave where they were staying due to an anger episode from her boyfriend, now her husband. these two reasons are why i am saying no to this request. i am not trying to keep our child from my ex, as she says i am. i want her mom in her life, but this i cannot go along with for the safety and well being of our child. my ex does not understand this, and is turning it into a "me vs. her" thing, no matter how i try to reason with her. she is threatening legal action now, and of cours ei do not want it to go there. i want a rational adult agreement to take place. wondering...anyone else gone through anything like this? any advice? |
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| Posted: 04 Apr 2015 03:12 PM PDT Hear from kids mostly when they want something or need a place to stay. I am feeling like a convenience...husband is making it difficult to have any kind of relationship or enjoy holiday times with his kids without an argument! |
| Posted: 04 Apr 2015 03:02 PM PDT Every day when my wife comes from work she is tired. Its understandable because she works and we have a new born. But she is usually always lethargic and likes to sleep a lot. She is a great mom.. but I just don't like the fact that she is usually always tired. I am thinking of giving her some energy pills or something to help her energy. We both work and we both attend the baby. Her job is not too hard she is a teacher aide. Am I wrong? I just want her to be more energetic. And help with cooking and not complain about her being tired or just going to bed. |
| Posted: 04 Apr 2015 02:37 PM PDT I feel severe anxiety when having to deal with her. My body involuntarily shakes and I feel like I could literally throw up sometimes. |
| Question: I'm 100% sure my husband likes my friend.? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 02:34 PM PDT We've been friends for several years. I allowed my husband and her to hike a couple of times. However, I see changes of behavior and flirting between them. It also seemed like my husband had been finding faults about our sex lives and about how I raise my kids (I'm a stay at home mom). We've been married for 12 years. He's also our bread winner but we never share bank account though we share debts. What would you do in this instance? Should I just let him go? My friend's marriage is also falling apart because he married someone way oldere. I can't really tell if she's just acting the way she is... being flirtatious that is. She did mention that my husband and her are pretty close. Is it time to take a hike? I love him but I want to see him happy. The word divorce came out of his mouth a month ago... mainly after I found out they were texting each other pretty frequently. |
| Question: Reasons to not get married, but still stay partners? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 02:19 PM PDT |
| Question: Is it bad if I don't want to go with my husband to his family's house for Easter? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 02:05 PM PDT We've gone there every year for the past 15 years. My family does not celebrate Easter. I don't feel like sitting around their house for an entire Sunday. Is it really bad if he goes and I don't? |
| Question: My husband wont clean up after himself? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 01:57 PM PDT The situation is he works and I stay at home. We are both fine with this. I don't mind doing all the house work and cooking. (No children) but sometimes especially he treats me like a maid And expects to do every little thing. For example, today he was playing online gaming and got mad and went for his drink of chocolate milk and accidentally knocked it over. It spilled all over the table, floor, and a little in our xbox. I got up to hand him a towel but he gets up and goes to take a shower and leaves it. Doesn't even ask if I could clean it up for him. Doesn't even attempt to clean it up. I would have left it but I cleaned it up because it was all over the xbox and my headphones. This happens all the time. Everytime he spills something. One time I was sleeping in the bedroom and he slept in the couch (he was watching tv until he fell asleep) and he spilled a soda can over in the middle of the night. Didn't clean it up I wake up in the morning and walk by th e coffee table to a sticky wood floor. I wiped it up and all he has to say is "I'm sorry I was just to lazy to clean it up" I've talked to him about it and he said just leave it and he will get it, but he never does. I'm annoyed because in a few months we are moving and I goibg to start working and I honestly don't think I'll have the patience to clean up after him like he is a toddler. I'm 23 he is 26, we've been together 7 Yeats married for 5. |
| Question: If your wife cheated on u will u stay or go[[? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 01:24 PM PDT |
| Question: What is the difference between 'divorced' and 'separated' ??? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 01:14 PM PDT |
| Question: Should I be mad at my husband? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 01:13 PM PDT |
| Question: Can my ex get custody of our son? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 12:53 PM PDT My ex husband and I had a messy divorce years ago. He cheated on me and got another woman pregnant. I told him if he wanted to save our marriage, he'd have to cut ties with the other woman and her then-unborn child. He refused and divorced me. We do currently share custody of our 6 year old son. The last time my son went to visit my ex, I told him to never acknowledge his half sister as his sister. I told him to call her a worthless bastard. He listened and my ex husband spanked him. When my ex dropped him off, he came in and slapped me across the face and called me a c*nt b*tch for telling my son to do that. He said I was a horrible mother and that he is going to fight for full custody of our son. I told him if he did, I will tell the judge he hit me. My ex said the judge won't believe me. Who's right? Should my ex get full custody? |
| Question: We've been separated for 7 years, but haven't divorced yet.? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 12:25 PM PDT My husband and I have been married for 10 years already. We separated because we both came to realize that when our daughter passed away, we weren't in love. We had married each other just because we had a daughter in between us. We live in the same household, but don't even speak to each other. We sleep in separate rooms too. He brings other woman home sometimes, while I go out with other men. We don't talk about divorce at all. It's something difficult for the both us. I don't understand what our relationship is. |
| Question: Do I trust again or divorce? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 12:22 PM PDT Husband and I have been married for 9 years with 4 kids, he moved out 5 months ago and still is big pat of kids life, I just don't know off could ever trust him again. It's to a point we either try more time or file for divorce. I have been stay at home mom for 9 years and he ownes a buisness. Seems like everything is coming out and found out he has been lying our whole marriage about everything from financially, gambeling problem (found out he has been doing it during buisness hours and winning and hiding it).forving my name on taxes for several years and he owes a lot in back taxes, found email from exes about hooking up even when I was 8 months pregnant, and so much more... And now his family hates me cause I can't forgive him already and no one will talk to me for last couple years cause he has been telling all kinds of lies about me that all this is my fault and that I'm the mean one and that I'm a lyer. I have been trying so hard last few months to forgive and move in but I feel like he just hasn't respected me out whole marriage. Everything has always been his house his money, his buisness, nothing is ever ours. He has a temper and has punched doors in the house, thrown a laptop at me and broke it, told me I'm not allowed to talk to anyoneand and has screamed at me and called me names and is always threatening me that he will take kids and the house away. And now he emailed me saying he wants to go to mediator instead of attorney cause it is cheaper. |
| Question: Who are the husband and wife team that write books? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 11:55 AM PDT |
| Question: Confronted husband about cheating? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 11:45 AM PDT My husband and I are newly weds. I had a gut feeling that he was cheating. He was bery distant, sneaky about his phone, and even though he works nights and come home around 11pm he would stay up till about 6am. I then decided after much research to buy a boice recorder. After 3 weeks of recordings and goibg through all of them, I felt like I had enough proof to confont him. On the recordings i heard lots of times lants were un zipped, secual moans and what slunds like bed or furniture squeaking, and whispers of sexual innuendo. The rcorder sucks so it is very hard to hear, but after lots of review I believe that I caught him. I brought it up to him, he denied and told me to show him the proof. I told him no and he needs to tell me the truth now. I told him we can work through it and I'm not so concerned about the cheating as I am about the lieing and the lack of reapect. He denied. A week later I finally gave him the proof and he says he admits he was watching lorn at night. I am ok with watching lron but this was multiple times..and it aounded like the same girls moans. Any waise I told him to sleep in the guest room last night. He woke up today at like 9am (usually sleeps till noon). I woke up around 11 and text him to ask where hes at. He said out to lunch with hus best friend/our best man in the wedding. 2 hours go by and I tell him to come home and talk to me. He said hes really "******" up over this and that I won't believe him that he would never cheat. What should Ido |
| Question: My husband makes me feel small about myself and makes me feel insecure? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 11:27 AM PDT Mine is a love marriage. I am from India. I met my husband at my former work place 5 years back. I have had previous relationships including a secret wedding which is now annulled and all these things I had told my husband very clearly before we began our relationship. He has never had a relationship before me. So whenever there were arguments and fights he would always use abusive language and he would always say I am whore and I have done so many stupid things which makes me unworthy and I dont deserve the life I am getting cause he is so good. I agree on the point that he is great guy, his family has great standing in the society but that doesnt mean I dont deserve a better life. Its been a year and half since we have been married and I quit my job to be at home...I am now pregnant and any small thing at home he makes me feel very small. He says really mean things which hurt me and my parents. My parents are not well off and they have invested a sum of money in his business and at evey situation he mocks me about money issues..And if there ever is a situation where i would like to share my feelings he never lets me, he says i only piss him off when he doesnt even listen to what i have to say. He always takes offense and never lets me talk to him. ...I am unable to be in a normal relationship with him. I love my husband dearly. He is very nice person but I dont know how to handle this/ I am very depressed about all this. Please anyone? |
| Question: When do people usually get married? Age wise? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 11:22 AM PDT So in my last post I mentioned how I desperately want to be married soon because I'm 24 and its about time for a serious relationship and marriage and babies. I got a ton of crap for that so I'm curious when people usually get married? I feel like it's not uncommon at 24 to be married or want to be |
| Question: I just want to know about my marriage lincese without paying money to do so? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 10:56 AM PDT |
| Question: Wife thinks I'm looking another woman's chest? What to do? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 10:15 AM PDT Wife thinks I'm looking at this woman's cleavage. How do I convince her I was looking at this woman's necklace. There's nothing wrong with checking out fine jewelry. |
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| Question: Would it be okay if I punish my wife by not having sex with her? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 09:10 AM PDT |
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| Question: Husband lacks passion in sex!HELP!!!!? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 08:39 AM PDT Our sex goes one way (me giving him oral and him telling me to ride him maybe he'll do doggie after or not) or the other (he gives me oral and thats it or doggie or missionary). He's fit I'm fit. He knows what i like. But he never just grabs me and F***S ME! I want to be woken up to passionate sex sometimes or rough sex out of no where. Its getting boring and making me not even want to give him head in the morning due to i know exactly what he will do after. Im so bored and dont know what to do. Im losing interest in sex with him and I'm sure as i do and as it shows he will make it my fault and confront me but i don't know what else to say i give hints big hints lol. He has had surgery awhile ago that causes him pain even during sex he says which i cant tell he's pretty good about not letting things stop him from pleasing me but man i am so bored and worse off he will be back working next month so no more free time to do things as he does contracted construction jobs. PLEASE ADVISE. NO I DON'T WANT TO FIND A FLING WITH ANYONE ELSE. like last night he said o ur gonna have to give it up in the morning i was like hell yea since we both was knocked out lol but nothing he's in there watching cartoons with our son. Im sure its my fault smh. |
| Question: How can I handle this ex wife problem? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 08:15 AM PDT I am divorced but I am on friendly terms with my ex wife Ann. I wish her all the best in the future. She has remarried and is getting on with her life. I got an email from her current husband that said "Ann's spending is our of control. She is wasting all of her money buying clothes. She should be saving that money so I could buy a boat. He said "how did you control her spending when you were her husband?" I am not sure what to do about this email. This guy sounds like a jerk to me but what he and Ann do with their money is NONE OF MY BUSINESS. Should I just ignore the email or tell him I didn't control Ann's spending when we were married or something else. I don't want to add to any problems they might be having and it sounds to me like they are having problems. How they spend their money is something they have to decide without any input from me. I thought about forwarding this email to Ann but would that just cause more problems for her or is it something she should know about? Should I just stay completely out of their lives and block all future email from her husband? |
| Posted: 04 Apr 2015 08:00 AM PDT would you probably keep it to yourself ? they both had a laugh at my expense but now I am worried that this gossipy lady will bring it up when my wife wears the dress to church and the brunch afterword If it comes up how do I defend the fact I was in her dress, slip and heels ? |
| Question: Why do women marry men for security and not love or the person who he is? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 07:41 AM PDT There are some women who marry men for who they are. There are some who marry men for financial security. And these women are not hard to spot once you ask for a prenup and the typical answer is, "you don't trust me." Whatever happened to marriage vows, have they gotten trashed aside or what? Or is marriage just a business partnership for additional monetary gains? If people marry for love, why is it that if a man is unemployed, she will leave the relationship for another man who is. How many stories do you hear of women marrying a poor man for who he is rather than how much he earns? Men will marry women regardless of her salary but why don't women? |
| Question: Why Palestine is still under pressure? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 07:39 AM PDT |
| Question: Do I give him another chance? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 07:33 AM PDT Husband and I have been married for 9 years with 4 kids, he moved out 5 months ago and still is big pat of kids life, I just don't know off could ever trust him again. It's to a point we either try more time or file for divorce. I have been stay at home mom for 9 years and he ownes a buisness. Seems like everything is coming out and found out he has been lying our whole marriage about everything from financially, gambeling problem (found out he has been doing it during buisness hours and winning and hiding it).forving my name on taxes for several years and he owes a lot in back taxes, found email from exes about hooking up even when I was 8 months pregnant, and so much more... And now his family hates me cause I can't forgive him already and no one will talk to me for last couple years cause he has been telling all kinds of lies about me that all this is my fault and that I'm the mean one and that I'm a lyer. I have been trying so hard last few months to forgive and move in but I feel like he just hasn't respected me out whole marriage. Everything has always been his house his money, his buisness, nothing is ever ours. He has a temper and has punched doors in the house, thrown a laptop at me and broke it, told me I'm not allowed to talk to anyoneand and has screamed at me and called me names and is always threatening me that he will take kids and the house away. And now he emailed me saying he wants to go to mediator instead of attorney cause it is cheaper. |
| Question: My ex is not transferring the house loan back to her name? Posted: 04 Apr 2015 07:33 AM PDT I have been divorce for 2 years, my ex got the house, but the loan is still under my name.(she is the one is paying it). Lately I need to buy a house, so I went to the bank to get a loan, they told me that I still got a loan ( my ex house), so my new loan pretty much will not be approved. What can I do? My ex is not getting me the paper, she is not transferring the loan, re finance, or showing she is paying for it. Can I go to the bank and discontinue the loan( they can do whatever to the house)? What else I can do? |
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