Family: Question: Would teasing like this be inappropriate or out of bounds at all? How would you feel if someone who's changed your diapers said this to you? |
- Question: Would teasing like this be inappropriate or out of bounds at all? How would you feel if someone who's changed your diapers said this to you?
- Question: My parents are only interested in me when they're trying to dictate my life?
- Question: Any way to ease household tension?
- Question: Custody of Godchild/Nephew?
- Question: My dad always says that I have no friends and I ask him to stop but he wont?
- Question: Why don't my parents like that I'm atheist?
- Question: I don't think I can trust anyone anymore?
- Question: Whenever I leave my dad on visitation I cry and become depressed?
- Question: My dad hasn't been in my life for a long time so at my Quenceneara my grandpa will do the father daughter dance with me. I need a song that we can dance to but won't be too daddy daughter theme.?
- Question: I'm 14 and have a crush on the man my mom's seeing. Is it normal?
- Question: How to get my baby momma to send me a naked pic of her?
- Question: Is it possible that a sibling/mom wants you to be dysfuntional too?
- Question: Can you tell me what would be a good theme for A Mother's day program for church?
- Question: What to do when you can't blend when your family like you once did?
- Question: How do I manage my brother's self-talk (Down syndrome)?
- Question: My parents are always disappointed in me?
- Question: HELP NEED HELP WITH MAKING MY MERMAID STORY D:?
- Question: How can I get my aunts to stop spreading hateful rumors that are destroying our lives?
- Question: How do I explain some pictures I have on my phone to my parents?
- Question: I need your honest opinion regarding parenting and responsibility.Thank you in advance.?
- Question: Why did my cousin point out all fat people after she had liposuction?
- Question: Boy names meaning lost or alone?
- Question: My sister makes me want to die, please help?
- Question: My parents basically took the rug out from under me?
- Question: How did this happen?
- Question: Why is my dad a d##k?
- Question: I'm depressed plz help?
- Question: Should i move out at 18 with my friend?
- Question: Would this be sexual assault?
- Question: Should I steal money from my dad?
- Question: Do I have to be with my dad for 6 weeks in the summer?
- Question: My neighbors stole our groceries and got away with it?
- Question: Whenever I leave my dad on visitation I get really emotional and cry?
- Question: Why is my dad mad at me my dad has tried to find any reason to yell. if i dont text him within 5 minutes he'll threaten me to take it away?
- Question: How do I get my dad to stop being a b*tch?
- Question: Why is my dad like this?
- Question: GoFundMe? Does this site work?
- Question: My dad is old and I'm still young?
- Question: Misunderstanding parent?Help!?
- Question: How to ask family to move with out ruining our relationship?
- Question: How could my brother do this?
- Question: How to convince parents to let me go to concert?
- Question: For my graduation, my brother got me a joke gift?
- Question: Was i sexually abused?
- Question: Why is my sister so rude to me?
- Question: How to protect myself and family?
- Question: Is this normal after a death.?
- Question: My dad keeps getting in the way of me being successful and issuing ultimatums based on whim?
- Question: Does my mom have mental issues?
- Question: I don't like my son's GF?
- Question: How can I help my siblings?
- Question: How do I get my mom to calm down?
- Question: Hi. My dad wants me me to be a doctor, but...?
- Question: Am i adopted?
- Question: I'm Scared: Somebody broke into my house?
- Question: Is it weird that a friends mom held me when I was depressed?
- Question: Should i move out?
- Question: What ways can I leave from my parents home legally; besides emancipation?
- Question: Don't know what to do with my brother...?
- Question: What makes a good father? What is a healthy father-daughter relationship like?
| Posted: 02 Apr 2015 12:54 PM PDT I recently overheard someone teasing their kid about changing his diapers when he was a baby. He said to his kid "hey I used to see your *rear* all the time when you were a baby" and the kid seemed pissed off. Would this be considered out of bounds? weird? or inappropriate at all? |
| Question: My parents are only interested in me when they're trying to dictate my life? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 12:49 PM PDT My youngest sibling is 23 years older than me, so I am the baby by far. When I was growing up, I was their pride and joy, so-to-speak. As I've gotten older and more independent, we aren't so close but I still make an effort when it comes to things I'd like to include them on such as college and where I'd like to go. It seems like they only care about me when they're trying to tell me what to do with my life and tell me where I can't go to college, when I'm interested in something that they feel will reflect badly on them, or when they're bragging to their friends about my accomplishments. Any other time I might get the occasional congratulations and that's it. Does anyone else have this problem? How did/do you deal with it? |
| Question: Any way to ease household tension? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 12:22 PM PDT So my 9 week old daughter, "A," is awesome. My bf has taken her in as though she were his. But her bio dad lives with us. He's kind of a huge jerk. When he found out I was preg, he immediately suggested abortion even though I was 4 months when we found out. He's hated A and I since before she was born. My bf and I are both VERY white, and A's bio dad is native american and hispanic so she's darker. Every time I look at her I am reminded who her bio dad is and it makes me so angry that he accepts his two preteen boys but wants nothing to do with A and it breaks my heart that one day she's going to ask why she's darker and when she tries to connect with her bio dad he's going to blow her off and not want her just like he doesn't want her now. Bio dad is like my bf's oldest and closest friend, and they still get along like champs. I can't ask my bf to kick out someone who he sees as a brother, especially since he'd have nowhere to go. I don't want to resent my daughter because her sperm doner is the biggest ******** I know. And it really sucks that this situation has lost me my (ex-)best friend because the 3 of us used to be the 3 musketeers and now I don't even hang out in his room with him and my bf anymore because I know he hates me and wishes me and A dead. Is there any way to ease the tension or am I doomed to sink further into this depression from this? |
| Question: Custody of Godchild/Nephew? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 12:21 PM PDT I just found out that my sister-in-law is a coke and heroin user. That's not the worst of it though. I'm her two month old son's godparent, the son she wants to put up for adoption. (My brother appointed me as the baby godparent before he passed away.) I love little Anthony with all my heart, I don't want to lose contact with him. Anthony is one of the last few things I have to remember my brother by. Please help. What I do? |
| Question: My dad always says that I have no friends and I ask him to stop but he wont? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 12:17 PM PDT What do I do |
| Question: Why don't my parents like that I'm atheist? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 12:15 PM PDT I'm 13 and my parents have practically disowned me because I've told them that I'm atheist. |
| Question: I don't think I can trust anyone anymore? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 12:03 PM PDT not even my parents and sister seem to love me they just use me and abuse me. Do love exist? |
| Question: Whenever I leave my dad on visitation I cry and become depressed? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 12:03 PM PDT I don't know why I do it. I used to never do it. It's to emotionally draining and I can't take it. I can only see him every 3 months because I'm in the Midwest and he's on the east coast. Please help I'm so confused |
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| Question: I'm 14 and have a crush on the man my mom's seeing. Is it normal? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 11:43 AM PDT My mom had me when she was quite young and she's slightly older than the man she's now seeing. He's 29 and so very handsome (he's an architect, and somehow this impresses me a lot). He's also such a sweet guy, even to me. I live with my dad and his second wife but I stay at my mom's place over the weekend. I have such a big crush on him that often I imagine making love with him. Is this normal? I feel guilty to my mom but I can't help it. It's not like I'm going to tell him, though... but sometimes I got this urge to "tease" him by wearing sexy bikini in front of him and being a little bit flirty. It excites me to see him get nervous and "flee". Is it bad or ok for a 14 y/o to do so? |
| Question: How to get my baby momma to send me a naked pic of her? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 11:42 AM PDT How can i get my ex girlfriend who.is my baby momma to senf me a nasty/naked picture of her? I want her breast and pussy her whole body. What do i text her thatll get hef to text me a pic? |
| Question: Is it possible that a sibling/mom wants you to be dysfuntional too? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 11:38 AM PDT Like ; leave eveything you have behind, join them in their cult and other outrageous beliefs |
| Question: Can you tell me what would be a good theme for A Mother's day program for church? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 11:34 AM PDT |
| Question: What to do when you can't blend when your family like you once did? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 11:32 AM PDT I used to be close to my family, but I'm the odd ball out. I am 35 years old and feel insecure as heck around my family. I feel like they're always talking about me behind my back. They do it about everyone else. So why not me? I try to talk to them, but it doesn't work. How can I cope with that? When I was a child they treated me like trash, blamed me for EVERYTHING AND I DO MEAN EVERYTHING. now I'm older and wiser and realize I do not blend with my family. At all. And I the only one in my family with a bachelor's degree. I just don't like being around them anymore. How can I cope with this? Please help. I don't want to cut them off but just being around them is frustrating to say the least. I just received a new job, been divorced, and staying with my gma. What do you suggest I do. I don't think I can live here for 6 more months. Ideas Or coping techniques please. Thank you. |
| Question: How do I manage my brother's self-talk (Down syndrome)? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 11:25 AM PDT I have a 21-year-old brother who has Down syndrome. I love him to pieces, and he's really cool when you get to know him. However, as most people with DS do, he talks to himself a lot. It isn't a huge problem when he's talking quietly or in his room, but he often does it in public. He talks to himself in stores, restaurants and in the bathroom, usually when there are quite a few people around. He also talks loudly, sometimes practically yelling, if he isn't told to be quiet by either me or my family members. In addition, he wanders around, flings his hands up and down, and makes grunts and various other noises. But worst of all, when we try talking to him directly, he has little to say, a few words at most. I ocassionally listen to him when he self-talks, and I can tell that he is far smarter than what the average person would believe he is. We keep encouraging him to talk to us instead of himself, but it hasn't worked. My goal is to let him talk to himself when it's okay to do so (it is normal, after all), but also to engage him in true conversation so we can learn more about him: his likes, dislikes, feelings, health, and state of mind. Does anyone have any advice on how to accomplish this? |
| Question: My parents are always disappointed in me? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 11:24 AM PDT Hi.. My parents are always disappointed. If it helps, they're Asian... My SAT score is above 2000 and my parents wanted perfect score. My younger sister never washes the dishes and I do it all. I Have a 3.94 GPA and I'm not even going out of state. Today I texted my dad I got an A- on a hard math test and he said, "disappointed" they're so controlling and I don't like them I understand but my mom only had a 3.8 and my dad couldn't even get into a community college?! They make me hate and push myself to the point where I just cry because I feel like a failure. Please help. I don't know how to deal.. |
| Question: HELP NEED HELP WITH MAKING MY MERMAID STORY D:? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 11:12 AM PDT *Please dont copy and no Rude comments* What i have so far on Wattpad: ''Luna, ''Luna, ''Luna... I kept on hearing my name being called ''Luna its time to get up''. I squinted my eyes while i was half asleep ''Hey Mom.''.. ''Good Morning Sweetie''. ''Your Breakfast is Downstairs Ok''? ''Ok''. I glanced at my Phone and Saw my friend Charlotte texting me. ''I carry myself downstairs to get some breakfast'' My favorite was Fish to eat for Breakfast Lunch and Dinner ''Who the Hell took my Tuna sandwhiche''? ''Looking for this''? my Little sister Mariam Chuckled ''Give that back its my lunch you make your own Mariam''! ''Ugh whatever She yelled ''! While throwing the sandwhiche at my face. '' Bye Mom 1. IDK what i should call this chapter 2. Good or Bad If Bad HELP? 3. Idk what should happen 4. I want this story to be good not kiddy im using thesaurus for stronger words too |
| Question: How can I get my aunts to stop spreading hateful rumors that are destroying our lives? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 10:51 AM PDT I'm 26, and I have been in a serious relationship with Edison for 5 years. Edison is 40 now. We met in a fairly odd way. Ed was in foster care for most of his teens, at 15 he was placed with this one family that he stayed with until he joined the Army. He then moved away from the city in which they live to be closer to his Army base. Not long after he left, I was placed in that same family's care when I was 5 and I was later adopted by them. After about 16 years Edison reconnected with my family which is when we first met. We are NOT blood related nor did we grow up as brother and sister but two of my aunts have took it upon themselves to call Ed an incestuous old creep and spread that throughout our small neighborhood. My aunts won't speak to Ed or about him unless it's something horrible. This causes a lot of arguements as we see my aunts at least once a week because one lives next door to my parents, the other a few streets away and the whole family gets together every Sunday. The rest of the family love Ed and don't understand why my aunts do this. Strangers have called Ed a "creep", "dirty old man" and other vulgar things to his face in the street and even infront of our child. One person even accused us of incest. Ed ignores it the best he can but I know it gets to him, he has suffered from mild PTSD after his time in the forces and with that comes depression so these jabs at our relationship are not good for his mental health. This needs to stop. What should I do? |
| Question: How do I explain some pictures I have on my phone to my parents? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 10:47 AM PDT Today, after getting dropped off to the bus stop by my dad, I realized that I left my phone in his car. On my phone are pictures of shounen-ai, or Japanese-style cartoons of softcare male homoerotica. My dad is pretty open-minded, but he's also pretty old-fashioned. While he treats gay people the same as he treats straight people, he believes homosexuality is a kind of a mental illness. Oh, and this also might be helpful: I'm female, and I'm completely straight. However, I don't know how to explain to him that plenty of straight females actually enjoy male homoerotica. In addition to my shounen-ai pictures, I also have a picture of me and my high school physics teacher together; I'm in my graduation gown and he has his hand on my shoulder. Normally, having such an innocent picture on my phone, especially because I already graduated from high school last year, wouldn't be such a big deal, but I had the biggest crush on him (it's still there, too!) and my dad knows it. He had already heavily advised me against listening to my physics teacher's garage band's music, or doing anything that reminds me of him, but having his picture on my phone perfectly contradicts that. .... So what do I do, y'all? I can only imagine my dad being pissed as hell finding the stuff I have on my phone. I'm pretty nervous right now. * softcore, not softcare. |
| Question: I need your honest opinion regarding parenting and responsibility.Thank you in advance.? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 10:45 AM PDT Do you think it's wrong for the parents with their 2 year old daughter to go to a friend's house to have a barbecue? The barbecue will be from 6pm till around 9pm, the father is a light drinker and the mother doesn't drink at all. |
| Question: Why did my cousin point out all fat people after she had liposuction? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 10:34 AM PDT it wasn't so funny when she was fat. So I don't get it. She wants to be so clean now too. |
| Question: Boy names meaning lost or alone? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 10:30 AM PDT I'm writing a book about a boy who feels lost and alone so I'm trying to find a name that reflects that. Thank you! |
| Question: My sister makes me want to die, please help? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 10:29 AM PDT She's older than I am and I have really bad depression issues that medicine isn't helping. She's constantly putting me down in whatever way she can whenever we're alone but whenever my parents are around she acts like a golden-child so they favor her, and whenever I tell my mom something or my dad something about the situation, they don't believe me or they mix up my words and somehow make it my fault that I "annoyed" her or some bullsh!t. Please guys, I've got some serious stuff going on and this is a daily thing, I need your help, this is tearing me apart, |
| Question: My parents basically took the rug out from under me? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 10:27 AM PDT I was expressing my idea of paying for my own school and trying to be more independent and my fathers wife says that I want to drop out for good because I am trying to take less classes. She says that I am un-motivated and won't go back to school full time. Which I told her isn't true because I have my own goals and my own life to live. I want to get my degree and I am only about 60 credits away. Well then my fathers wife starts talking about marijuana and starts asking if I smoke it beating around the bush, I strait up tell her I smoke weed occasionally. She then comes to my house, says I am living in a dump (its not the nicest of places though its close to campus and rent isn't bad so its nice). She then says I am going nowhere in life if I smoke weed, says I am un-motivated and that I will live in a trailer park and that all my friends are going nowhere in life. She then convinces my dad not to pay for any of my classes ONE day before school starts. I have a job, I can pay rent, live on my own comfortably and I am almost capable of paying tuition all by myself this quarter, but I am going to wait a couple months so I have some more money and am in a good situation to pay for school. Now I am on my own and I am kind of depressed because they strait up left me and my dads wife views me as someone that has no goals and says I am going nowhere. I am worried my step mom is doing this so my dad will by her a house in southern california and its upsetting to me. I know my dads wife has been really on him about getting a vacation house in california and she keeps pushing for him to get one. He has been somewhat on the fence about it since the house is really expensive. |
| Question: How did this happen? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 10:26 AM PDT I looked up to my brother. He used to let me scribble on his back and arms with a marker. Sometimes permanent. He would let me wake him up a few times in the middle of the night when I couldn't sleep. We would stay up playing cards until 1, 2, and sometimes even 3 in the morning. He was stern yes, but he always took care of me when i needed it. He wouldn't let me clean my own ears because he was afraid I would hurt myself. He loved tea and an amazing cook. One time when we were playing cards, around midnight, he made me tea. It was the most disgusting thing I had ever tasted. He laughed and drank my cup. He had three kids. Just from looking at him, you could see that he loved them so much. As well as his wife. Now, how could this man turn into someone who would get so drunk and almost kill his own wife by beating her? He is currently in prison for domestic abuse. I don't understand what happened. Was it because he felt resentment for something? Or was it because of our mothers death affected him so? Help me understand what happened to change my brother. |
| Question: Why is my dad a d##k? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 10:21 AM PDT The other day i puked at school and my dad had to pick me up so he had had to pick my bike and got mad at me for not using my own (since i think its to slow compared to other bikes)then he starts saying that im a spoiled brat and even when i told about the bike problems before he still doesn't give a s**t .now he wont stop for the stupidest things like for not answering the phone by accedint.and rven when hes not angry he doesn't care about my opinions or thoughts and when he does it only so he be the center of attention.besides that hes gotten me so depressed that i think about running away somtimes (even though it might not be a big deal and i swear im not on my period) and he depresses me alot and he never apoligizes to my face and the only thing that calms him down is weed.thanks for listening |
| Question: I'm depressed plz help? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 10:20 AM PDT I'm 19 and i have a twin sister I hate it how people compare me to her They always say she's prettier and it breaks me, it kills me, why am i not pretty? I'm a bit fat, maybe that is the problem She has a nice body I'm always sad Someone help me |
| Question: Should i move out at 18 with my friend? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 10:16 AM PDT Me and my mom are always fighting. She's verbally and physically abusive when she's irritated, she gets mad easily and it's affecting my grades. She's grounded me from my calculator, ripped up notes the day before my test and etc. I am currently 17 and will turn 18 next November. My friend and her mom are like family to me and they might be moving to Saskatchewan in Dec. I have already been accepted to college for Jan start and plan to work until then. But if i move with my friend and we do go to saskatchewan I might take a semester for grade 13 there in highschool then do college. But if i stay here I can start school right away and move with them after i graduate but i'll have to put up with my mom.. I know my mom wants the best for me and living with my parents is ideal and cheaper but i'm not so sure if our situation will get worse or better. we have always been on the rough side since i was small. what do you think? Saskatchewan has more job opportunities and the pay is better. My friend and her mom really want me to come with them but it's not final yet. The only downside is that going to college will be delayed and Im not so sure if me and my parents will be on the right foot .. Also if I do move in with them i'll learn to be more independant. her mom is in a wheelchair so i'll have to help my friend with grocery shopping, cooking, laundry and everything. I don't know if I'll be charged for rent but i am I think she'll give me a big discount. Even if she doesnt move to saskatchewan should i still move in with them? |
| Question: Would this be sexual assault? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 10:11 AM PDT Im 17 and my moms boyfriend does stuff when she's not home. When I'm in my room he comes in and starts to touch me down between my legs and touches my boobs and *** and throws me onto my bed and holds me there so I can't move and I have to let him to it. I don't feel safe there or when he's around me I don't know what to do im afraid to tell my mom or anyone the only person that knows is my boyfriend. Would I be able to get him in trouble and could I be able to go live somewhere else if I don't feel safe he does it almost everyday |
| Question: Should I steal money from my dad? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 09:51 AM PDT So, I had a fight with my dad because he has been abusive and bad to me (he says he buys me everything but in my room (very small room) i have only bed, shelves and my closet, and the only thing that i care about is my and my sisters xbox 360 that is in the living room), anyway the fight started because i asked him can i get gaming pc, we talked for 2 hours and at the end he just stopped talking and said to me: "go and dust the apartment, and then clean it" and i said no (he yelled) and went to my room, he then came and slapped me twice and said that under his roof i will never get a pc,and then i took my 600$ and gave it to him because i saved it for the pc, when i gave him the money i said here you go i don't need it anymore. He said:"you dont need it huh" and tore it.then he beat me up real hard. It has been 2 days since than, and my question is, should i steal his money to replace mine or what? |
| Question: Do I have to be with my dad for 6 weeks in the summer? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 09:49 AM PDT Okay so my parents got a court order saying that my sisters and I have to be with my dad every summer for six weeks and we start school mid August and if we go to summer school does and then go with my dad when summer schools over does that still I have to be with him and miss the first two weeks of school? Or is there a way we can get around that |
| Question: My neighbors stole our groceries and got away with it? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 09:42 AM PDT me and mom came back from grocery shopping (Costco) we carried all the heavy groceries one by one from the car to up to our apartment stairs and set them by our apartment, while there were still groceries outside the door, I went inside the house to pee real quick. My mom was still at the car bringing more groceries into the house and some right by the door.When she came back she and I realized (about RIGHT AWAY) the food was gone. The box that had the most/good food: there were onions, nutella, salmon, oatmeal, mangos, pastam etc.So from my intuition I KNEW they had opened their apartment door and just dragged the box of food real quick into their house. They live (2 feet) the apartment right NEXT to us. So we knock on the door they take about TEN MINUTES to open the door because you can hear them moving stuff and their dog was barking CRAZY the girl opens the door we ask her about it and they say no she doesn't know and she keeps saying no then she says that her boyfriend is a police and he was sitting at on the couch, we saw him. She told us we can search the house he said no we can't he doesn't want us to...First of all they didn't even ask us "Why are you accusing us?" second when we asked them why they took so long to open she said it's because she thought we were knocking on our own door (but who knows on their own door??we have the keys to our own house) anyway we called the cops and this time her cop boyfriend answered and knew/talked with the cops. the cops came back to us and told us they didn't do anything LONG STORY SHORT My mom and I came back from Costco, set our groceries by our apartment door our neighbors (2 Feet away) dragged the box of food into their house when my mom when back to the car to get more food & I went in the house to pee.When we (& the cops we called) asked they denied it and we of course weren't allowed a house search That is the thing they didn't accuse us of being crazy!! |
| Question: Whenever I leave my dad on visitation I get really emotional and cry? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 09:33 AM PDT I don't know why this happens but he does live in a different state and I only get to see him every 3 months. There's nothing I can do to change it. Please help I didn't used to fell this way. It's really wierd |
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| Question: How do I get my dad to stop being a b*tch? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 09:27 AM PDT It is Spring Break and I have helped my dad out with the house for the past 3 days nonstop. Today I wanted to hang out with my freind and my dad told me to call him even though I was about to. He gave me the phone but I said not right now because I was eating breakfast. So my b"tch dad calls my friend and tells him I dont feel like hanging out with him anymore. What pisses me off is he keeps getting into my business. It's my friend and I should be able to deal with when we meet. And I have been doing work for half my entire break and this is how he repays me? |
| Question: Why is my dad like this? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 09:21 AM PDT My dad treats me horribly. He wakes up each morning snapping at me and making me feel down. Then when I leave the room to get out of an argument he calls me names like an ignorant c*nt and a big pu*sy that I won't stand my ground. But when I do he starts giving out that I'm a cheeky bast*rd and he threatens me to hurt me. He said it's my boyfriend's fault but it isn't I was always this way. He is only using my boyfriend to blame. And right now he is on holiday and my dad is saying if I keep up my cheek then the 18 days I'm spending away from my boyfriend will be increased to me not seeing him ever again. What should I do? |
| Question: GoFundMe? Does this site work? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 09:08 AM PDT I want to use gofundme to raise enough money so I could gift my mother with a new car. I don't want to go too in depth here but will it help? What if I'm a teen and not 18 or older could you still use gofundme or no :/ |
| Question: My dad is old and I'm still young? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 08:53 AM PDT I'm 15 this year, and I'm the first out of two kids. What worries me most of the time is that my dad is 50ish already. It's just... I always have bad thoughts about this. You know, stuff like him not being able to live long enough to see me succeed and all that. Is anyone in the same situation like me? |
| Question: Misunderstanding parent?Help!? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 08:41 AM PDT I'm kinda having hard time these days. I'm passing my Bachelor degree exam in 2 months. It is a critical situation for me right now and I feel so stressed out. My father is not supportive at all this time. He wants me to have straight As and I too want to make him happy because he works hard for all of us Yet I can't manage to do so though I try so hard and he can't understand why. I really try and try , but the educational system is corrupted and teacher are on strikes . Now since only 2 months left it"s getting worse! I'm so stressed out and he doesn't consider that he just keep saying harsh words and came to the point of ignoring me . Yesterday I was torn out and asked him if he could drive me to my tutoring class after work but he yelled at me and cursed me telling me to stop bothering him (he cursed me the day before for the same reason) I couldn't handle that anymore! I justwent alone and got back home alone because i was pissed off. He asked me how did I got back I said alone. Today I asked him for money for sports class because I will pass the sport test in 3 weeks and there is no time left. He ignored me and he giggled and shut the door to my face! I became so furious and I started crying like **** I feel like if I'm not going to pass the exam this year.. it sucks! Help me! |
| Question: How to ask family to move with out ruining our relationship? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 08:35 AM PDT My husband and I have a small 3 bed 2 bath home that we rent. My Sister was going through a break up of a 7 year unhealthy relationship. She would come to my house daily and cry to me that she was going to be homeless with 3 kids. I was pregnant at the time, and it was just me and my husband in our home, he was just starting a new job and we were about to be 2 months behind on rent. My sister was getting a large tax refund and I offered her a place temporarily and we would split the rent. She would get on assistance and get a job to get her feet. She could help us get caught up and it would cover 4 months of rent for her.(we're 2 months in) I knew it would be tough, but when she moved in she demanded that she be able to decorate "to make the small space work." That ended up with most of our stuff going to storage. Also she couldn't live with the old carpet. The landlord offered to re carpet the house but she wanted laminate flooring and offered to pay for it. our agreement was she would share a room with her daughter, her two boys would share a room and my husband the baby and I would share a room. But now she has her own room her oldest son has his own room and the other two kids sleep in the living room. She yells at them any time they are here, and her Ex has even stayed multiple nights! My husband and I are now confined to our bedroom. And sick of being walked on. I don't know how to tell her it's not working and she needs to move with out ruining our relationship. |
| Question: How could my brother do this? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 08:33 AM PDT I looked up to my brother. He used to let me scribble on his back and arms with a marker. Sometimes permanent. He would let me wake him up a few times in the middle of the night when I couldn't sleep. We would stay up playing cards until 1, 2, and sometimes even 3 in the morning. He was stern yes, but he always took care of me when i needed it. He wouldn't let me clean my own ears because he was afraid I would hurt myself. He loved tea and an amazing cook. One time when we were playing cards, around midnight, he made me tea. It was the most disgusting thing I had ever tasted. He laughed and drank my cup. He had three kids. Just from looking at him, you could see that he loved them so much. As well as his wife. Now, how could this man turn into someone who would get so drunk and almost kill his own wife by beating her? He is currently in prison for domestic abuse. I don't understand what happened. Was it because he felt resentment for something? Or was it because of our mothers death affected him so? Help me understand what happened to change my brother. |
| Question: How to convince parents to let me go to concert? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 08:33 AM PDT I REALLY want to go a my favorite bands concert, there not coming to my city, but the closes gig is 4 hours away, there mainly saying no because of that, but in offering to pay and put in months of chores, my mom says she'll 'Think about it' but in scared it'll still be a no, is there anything else I can do to show them how serious I am about this? |
| Question: For my graduation, my brother got me a joke gift? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 08:01 AM PDT When I graduated high school, I wasn't really wanting any gifts because my family was really cheap. My brother proved this when he handed me a small box after my graduation and it was the most stupidest thing I could have ever gotten in my life as a gift. It was a plastic Hannah Montana hot pink bulky watch even a 7 year old would think it was too 'kiddy" and just horrendous. I looked at him thinking he was joking, he was wanting me to accept it and hug him. I hugged him but only because I was happy I graduated. How on earth do you give an 18 year old girl a gift meant for a 5 year old, I found it offensive. So I put it in my cabinet and never wore it I mean come on please, so he actually asked my sister why I never wear it. was he serious? I find it very heartbreaking that he doesn't know a thing about me, not my hobbies, my fav movies, food, candy, places, etc. he could have found out some of my fav things and gotten me something I would actually like, I don't even like pink and would never wear it. I was fine up until his wife's brother graduated high school two years later and he got him a ridiculous gift as in it was too much for someone you don't even talk to as much, hang out with, etc. he went to the mall and got him an expensive watch, I know it was expensive because mall have pricey watches unlike the one he got for me from walmart. anyway I was like wtf How did he think an appropriate gift for his 18 year old sister who is going off to college was a pink plastic kiddy watch, and he spends all that money on a person he really had no business spending on, even his own wife said it was too much to spend on her brother. I have never been able to get over this, it wasn't that I wanted something expensive but I would have been ok with nothing rather than what he did, which was a complete joke. he has always loved his wifes family over his own he is sooo much nicer to his wife's family than his own, he is way nicer to her brothers and sisters than with his own, what gives? I stopped talking to my family years ago but I wanna know why people do this, treat their family like **** and are so nice to the family they marry into. |
| Question: Was i sexually abused? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 08:01 AM PDT When I was small I slept with my mom sometimes in her bed cuz you know.....monsters lol. Well any ways when I was around 11 I woke up but didn't necessarily open my eyes I felt really close to my mom, she was talking on the phone . I felt my foot was in a very uncomfortable place , it was wet it felt like it was between her legs and I was terrified to open my eyes and when she got up and went to the the kitchen I couldn't help but cry and feel extremely bad, I started having sex dreams about my mom like maybe a few times a month and later started masterbating about her and instantly after ejaculation I would feel extremely depressed and guilty. my porn searches were incest related searches mom and son mostly and that kinda took my mind of my own mom but the thought of actually having sex with my mom SCARES ME and makes me want to kill myself.well since then i stopped masterbating about her and my porn searches have gotten quite normal ,actually since I got a girlfriend i haven't been watching porn for some time now, and about the foot incident well I don't think of that as much as I used to. I just kinda forgot about it but there's still times where I wonder if she did what I thought she did, I guess I'll never know. What do you think P.S. It doesn't bother me anymore |
| Question: Why is my sister so rude to me? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 07:47 AM PDT She always blames me for her issues. For example she is very self centered. I never say that to her but she calls me that. She says I am always late, she says II am slow and disorganized. She says I have no freidns unlike her. She talks so much and steals the spotlight and yet she calls me attention seeking but I say nothing. She is also making a book of all the times I am rude to her but she is the one rude to me. I just don't know How I am self centred when she talks all the time about herself and I never do. I NEVER TALK. |
| Question: How to protect myself and family? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 07:35 AM PDT I along with my family (my fiance, BiL, sisters, and mom yes we all live under the same roof) Have been raising my niece since she was 3months old from barely to no help from her parents (so yes my brother hasn't been part of her life since) she is about to be 5 years old. Her mother is on a thin line of life and death. Rumors are that her mother's side of the family is going to try and gain custody of my niece if anything shall happen to her mother. My niece's mother's side of the family for whatever reason has never liked my family and we know for a fact that if they gain custody we will never see her again and I fear that it is exactly what they want... I love this little girl more than life itself I will be heart broken if anything like this shall happen how do I protect myself and my family? We have no problem sharing her, but for whatever reason they do (we know from experience long story) is there any way we can gain full or at least half custody of her if this rumor comes to play? that away we can continue to raise her and be in her life. Even if it half as long as we have papers stating they have to share her with us is better than being isolated from her life. Please anything that we can do please share it with us. Also is there a way we can still gain custody if for any reason they have papers from her mom leaving them custody? My niece doesn't know that side of her family because they choose not to come around. I refuse to make her go through life confused. |
| Question: Is this normal after a death.? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 07:34 AM PDT My mother was 99 years old. She passed away a month ago. I was fine at the funeral, went back to work, was doing fine. Recently, it just hit me. I took a drive by my mothers old house & just sat there crying. I walked around the town I grew up in & just cried. Lately, I've felt depressed. There are many times I feel this urge to call her & ask her for advice on the kids or tell her what my sister has been up to. I keep forgetting I can't call her anymore. My mother & I talked daily & I visited her at her assisted living every Sunday for breakfast. I thought this would get easier. Why is it becoming more difficult as the weeks go by? Is this normal? Some days I'm fine some days I get down. Will I eventually begin to feel better? |
| Posted: 02 Apr 2015 07:33 AM PDT I've lost out of scholarships and at least one nice place to live because of his ultimatums. Now I'm in my 30s and I don't want to talk to him because he threatens my autonomy as an adult. Am I wrong for feeling this way? Am I wrong for acting this way? I feel like I'll never be a successful adult and responsible parent unless I start ignoring him. He badgered me for years to spank my son with profound psychological statements, like that I would raise a sociopath if I didn't spank my son. Spanking my kid gives me anxiety attacks; my parents were actually abusive and I don't want to be like them. |
| Question: Does my mom have mental issues? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 07:32 AM PDT Okay so we are a Hispanic family and Hispanics already have anger problems. But my mom has the worst. She will scrutinize every single problem in her life and if she can't fix it all he'll breaks loose. If someone forgets to do something for her they get her wrath. Yesterday I forgot to put away some boxes of soap away and she threw all of them at me. And lately it's gotten worse. She can't stop screaming at people. The other day my brother scratched a tiny little scratch on the car she's going to sell and she took it out of control. She hit things, she called names, and all her problems were bubbling up. A lot of other things are happening too but Idk how to handle it! Me and my sibling still live in her house but it's almost been unbearable this past week. Idk if it's stress or anxiety but something is defenitely up and Idk what. |
| Question: I don't like my son's GF? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 07:28 AM PDT I don't like my son's girlfriend. I'm his mom btw. Anyway, they're 17. This girl is constantly dressed like she's going to a LA nightclub or something. Always has some skimpy outfit on that shows too much cleavage. She'll come over and sit outside in her bikini and tan all day. You cannot hold a conversation with her, she has the IQ of a rock. Hand to God, she had no idea that Washington was the 1st President. Let me paint a picture and see if you remember this kind of girl in high school. Tall blonde, blue eyes, always has lip gloss on, airhead, cheerleader. Remember that girl? I've asked him why he's with her, all I get is " she's sexy". My husband couldn't be happier for him. Anything I can do about Nightclub Barbie? |
| Question: How can I help my siblings? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 07:07 AM PDT I've been going through hell in regards to my natural mother and her mistreatment of my younger siblings, and the way CPS has handled the situation... I wrote about this before here but long story short: my mother is extremely abusive, her various boyfriends are inappropriate toward my little sister (and me back when I was under her care) and CPS keeps removing them then putting them back in her care only for her to continue being a horrible parent. After I turned 18, my mother forbade my siblings from contacting me. We've tried talking in secret but it's very tough. Recently, I found out from my mom's neighbors that CPS removed my siblings AGAIN. They never contacted me. I called to complain but I couldn't get a hold of the social worker. I'm 20 years old, and still in college, and I live with my boyfriend. I know I wouldn't be able to adopt or foster my siblings but I have no idea what I can do to help them. I'm sure they're terrified and confused, and they need me. But it seems like I'm blocked from doing anything no matter what angle I try to approach this by. Both my mother and the system want to cut me out. I'm so sick of it. Is there anything I can do to help my brother and sister? Anything? |
| Question: How do I get my mom to calm down? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 07:03 AM PDT I'm only in seventh grade, and I do this program Kumon. I haven't been doing it lately and my mom has been getting really pissed off at me to the point that I can't have a conversation with her without her complaining and yelling at me. I can't talk to her about high schools I'm looking at or even a dress because she'll go and say 'speaking of dresses go pick up the one in your room'. Anyways, now she's saying I'm too lazy to do anything and that she's going to pull me from my current school (which I love) and put me in a public school because I have one C and all As and Bs :( how do I get her to calm really down, it's getting out of hand. |
| Question: Hi. My dad wants me me to be a doctor, but...? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 06:49 AM PDT I don't. Ok, so this has been going on for a while. A couple of years now. And with only two years left until university, it is more intense than ever. Why? He wants me to have a job that will be fitting of me (no joke) and a good pay. He will not take any other job. Except dentistry. Which I CANNOT stand. I am less interested in biology and more intrigued by physics and chemistry. He doesn't want me to make the same mistake he did, according to him, but I feel like pursuing my dream shouldn't be at the stake. So what do you think? Is my dad going to be correct with hindsight? What should I do? Thanks in advance and sorry for the long intro. |
| Posted: 02 Apr 2015 06:40 AM PDT My mom and dad is yellow and im Black. Do that mean im adopted????? |
| Question: I'm Scared: Somebody broke into my house? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 06:37 AM PDT Soo every morning I drop my boyfriend off at work, which doesn't take that long, it takes about 15 mins to get there & back to the house... This morning, as usual, I got back home, took my little girl out the car seat & unlocked the door to the house... right when I walked in, I was about to put her down but then I noticed the closet door in the hallway was wide open & the light was on. I stood there just staring at it, and then I heard someone in the room looking through stuff. That's when I quickly walked out n back into the car... I had left my cell phone inside the house whenever I went to drop my boyfriend off... So I couldn't call the cops... I went to my Grandma's. Which is about 3 mins from where I stay. I told her & my grandpa what happened & they came back to the house with me to look... nobody was there anymore.. And they didn't take anything. But they came in through the living room window & they made a big mess in one of the rooms. :/ I'm just scared & I really don't feel safe right now... I'm just locked inside my room with my little girl. Lol I really don't want to get out... what do I do??? Ahhh |
| Question: Is it weird that a friends mom held me when I was depressed? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 06:36 AM PDT I'm 19, guy, freshman in college. I stopped at a good friends house over the weekend. I slept on the couch downstairs and couldn't sleep. I've been kinda depressed lately, and was holding my head in my hands. It was 2 am and figured no one would be up. Randomly, my friends mom came down for a glass of water and noticed me. I tried to play it off like I was rubbing my eyes but it didn't work. She sat next to me, put her hand on my shoulder and asked me what's wrong. Eventually I talked about it, and got a little choked up. She pulled me in close and wrapped her arms around me and held me. I drifted off soon after. Around 6 am I woke up to her laying my head down and putting a blanket on me and She went back upstairs. I left around noon, said bye to my friend and his mom and acted like nothing happened. Do you think it was weird of his mom to care for me that much? |
| Posted: 02 Apr 2015 06:35 AM PDT I'm 19 and i make 1,000 monthly. I live with my mom and she makes me give her the money i worked for. I have no drivers permit or a car. The problem is that i have no clue where my money is going because she controls it. I'm living in a room with no electricity. Plus my family fights a lot and i feel my mental health would be better if i lived somewhere else. I know if i stay at home i won't get a car for a year. If i move out i would have to find a second job but i have no car! People don't want to hire people who have to walk to work. The lady who interviewed me at pizza hut was turned off by the fact that i didn't have a car. What do you think i should do? If my rent was 735$ a month would the extra 300 be enough for everything else? |
| Question: What ways can I leave from my parents home legally; besides emancipation? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 06:22 AM PDT I'm 16 I live I'm GA. I'm gonna start working soon , and my dad takes my money that I have, so when I get a job he's gonna take all of it and I will have no choice but to give it to home or I will get physically abused. I was forced to move here almost a year ago from Illinois because of him. I ran away for a couple of weeks then he started to threaten doing things to my girlfriend so I came to GA with him to protect her. He doesn't want to see me happy. He doesn't like the girl I'm dating he isolates me from everything so I won't talk to her and sometimes he hits me about it. She lives in another state but he still has a problem with it. All my life he has verbally and physically abused me. He constantly uses the line "I think I'm grown," which I don't understand because irony do anything the would present me to look that way. The said when I turn 18 he will not let me leave unless it's for school but Ive decided that I want to go to the national air guard after high school, but base in my home state (Illinois). We have been moving back and forth between the 2 states fir 6 years now but we aren't going back to Illinois this time. He is inconsiderate and selfish. He even takes my mom's work check. He controls everything. He has a wife and 4 kids but still has my mom, me, and my brother staying with them. He controls everyone in the house move. He's our puppet master. There's more to the story, and I don't know what to do, help? I heard it's not easy to get emancipated here. |
| Question: Don't know what to do with my brother...? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 05:29 AM PDT Hey guys! I'm an 18 year old female and my brother is 8. I really love him but every time we spent some time together- we get in a fight because I think he's spoilt. These days, when he sees me- he says "go away you evil thing, I don't want to see you!" . My parents say that he simply doesn't like me... I love him a lot but he keeps on hurting me by being rude towards me (nobody would like that, especially if it comes from someone you love).. I don't know how to fix our relationship, I feel helpless. He's still a child and I'm 10 years older. However, I still cannot manage getting along with him but I really want to. Next year I'm going to college and I'm afraid that as soon as I go- we will completely forget about each other and our relationship will simply become a never healing wound of mine.... |
| Question: What makes a good father? What is a healthy father-daughter relationship like? Posted: 02 Apr 2015 05:28 AM PDT What advice would you give to your daughter about life,friends, relationships,boys, love, family.etc? If your a father what is it like to have and care for a daughter? Where you disappointed that you had a daughter and not a son? or happy? How does it feel to be a caring father? What is that like? What is the relationship like. Thank you. |
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