I did something terrible that hurt my favourite teacher a lot...and it hurt me also and we are pretty close....i will apologies to him..can I hug him after the apology 

My wife and I have a 6 month old daughter. We both love and adore her. Shortly after her birth, my wife Ari was diagnosed with Post-partum depression. She was put on new anti-depressants and seemed better. Then on February 8, she unsuccessfully tried to kill herself. She was in the hospital for a few days, she repeatedly apologized, swore she'd never do it again. She said wants to be here for our daughter. She felt guilty afterward and acted weird. She wouldn't do basic life needs. Her mom came here to help. Finally like 2 weeks later she seemed like Ari again, mom went home, and I no longer worried. We even went on vacation for a few days. Well ever since we got back, she seems off again. And I'm not sure it's just PPD. She goes to work, but then she comes home and cries. She won't eat much. She's not sleeping well. She's even slept-walked a few times. And she's wet the bed twice now. She's taking care of our daughter, but it's like she's ignoring her needs. The constant crying worries me. This isn't like her! She's usually a normal, happy, 36-year-old. She's going to therapy. I don't know what to do. I try to help and comfort her, but I'm scared. Should I call her mom again? What can I do to help her? Please help. 

So I hung out with a guy that I really like and for the most part it went pretty well but three things happened and I am curious to what others think! So the first, we went to his house and he was a bit overwhelmed and had laundry all over his bed and he said  "Can you please do these for me?" (His socks) Which doesn't sound that bad but he was frustrated when he said it. And then we ended up having sex and he went in my *** - I don't know if he realized but I was a bit taken back by it and I just let it happen and then afterwards I said "did you realize you were in my ***?" And he said "I thought I might of been, you're a tough cookie" and he drives a bit fast... I'm 26 and he is 25, I've been in weird relationships before and was wondering if any of these sounded like potential red flags - thank you!