As people says that if a wife had slept around with everyone would know what she wants and it should benefit the marriage, but in reality its opposite and instead the divorce rates goes high in such marriages? Then, is it a false notion that sleeping around before marriage enhances the durability of marriage?

We've been friends for 8 years. Dated for 3 years and got married a year ago. We are both 35. The entire duration of our relationship she's never shown any attraction towards me in a sexual way. She likes to kiss me but it ends there. She has never initiated sex not once and doesn't really act like she's into it whenever we have sex. She claims she doesn't have a high sex drive but it seem like she don't have a sex drive at all at least around me. She claims she love me but her actions tell otherwise. She acts weird when I touch her too. Most women like to be touched by their man. I feel like she really loved the man she got with before me but she's only with me because I'm " safe". She knows I'll never hurt her. All her other exes cheated on her. Dogged her out. She could never find a man willing to committ. She lost her virginity to me, but when she was with her ex who she dated before me she told me she initiated oral sex not just one but multiple times. I just feel like she views me as a really good friend. But she's staying with me because she knows no other man will treat her the way I do. I let her be a stay at wife give her lots of shopping money, she doesn't drive so I drive her everywhere. She knows no other man will do that. But what do I do. Also she doesn't support my musical passions I'm a song writer on the side. Music is my passion. She doesn't listen to any of my music until I tell her to listen to it or send her the link.   She will support her male friends all day long. She goes to their buisness events, she shares their buisness pages etc  I told her things are not getting better and she might be better suited with one of her male friends that she seems to get along with so well and supports all their buisness ventures. She said she doesn't want anyone but me. She started crying hysterically and said she will kill her self without me. I really didn't think she liked me enough to kill herself over me. I'm so confused with her. 

I love and care about him, and I really don't know why but the sound of his voice makes my blood boil I can't stand to be around him. He did nothing wrong just can't stand him anymore. Is that enough reason to divorce someone? I don't want to hurt him since I do care. I have suggested marriage therapy he refuses to go

So I have a former friend named aaron who is now an hater and a bully and he is tearing my life apart. I am 25 years old and I have autism and so that is really making my life hard already. It is affecting me not being able to get a drivers license cause I can't remember what I studied. The other thing is that I'm having a hard time getting a job cause I can't even get an interview. Aaron was talking to one of my friends earlier today and he told my friend that he has a better chance at getting a girlfriend than me cause he can drive and has his own places. He said no girl wants to be with a guy who still lives at home with his parents and is unemployed and takes the bus all the time. He says that I will remain a virgin forever. Hearing that hurts me a lot cause I am struggling trying to get my life together and I really wished I have a significant other. I'm so lonely and I have no local friends. My only local friend I had moved away last july and I only get to see him once or twice a year. Not only that I lost almost all of my friends earlier this year and I only have two friends left. I am just so upset and I don't get why aaron thinks its ok to do this to me. Why is he being so cruel to me ? How come aaron thinks that no girl wants to date me because of my current living and life situation ??

In his defense, he never made a pass at those women.

Before I could. She has also on occasion lectured me about how I go about things running my house. My wife will complain about me to her when she's aggravated and this woman 1) doesn't like me much 2) has an arrogance about her relationship to my family knowing that we aren't very friendly. I appreciate her but I don't like something about her. Anyway I tried to buy a gift for my kids last week and my wife told me to hold off because she could get it for free. It wasn't really free because she got it from her friend for the cost of some groceries. Later my wife takes a picture of me giving the gift to my kids, posts it on FB, doesn't tag me, but credits her friend as the gift giver. I'm pissed off. But my wife isn't sympathetic at all to my feelings. This cuts at a father who works his tail off to provide for his family. What to do?

We have been married for 3 months now, and I think she's letting herself go already so soon into our marriage. Before we married, when we were dating she KNEW that I liked her because she waxed everything and kept it ALL hairless. Now she has stopped waxing, and started shaving every 2-3 days and that means I have to see and feel stubble and that is not going to work for me. I told her that and she got defensive. She is becoming immature and not talking to me. I have thought about cutting off extra funds since she doesn't work... I am not sure how I can repay her the disappointments I am facing. It may sound like a punishment, but she is punishing me for changing herself so much after our vows. That is not the woman I said I do to.

So me and my husband have a 4 month old baby and she is a blessing but has really taken a toll on our marriage. I no longer feel that spark with my hubby I once did.. which is kinda sad considering I am 24 and he is 27. About a month ago I went to the bar w/ some friends and ended up cheating on my husband.. ever since I find the thought of having sex with my husband repulsive.  Idk what to do or how to get over this feeling. I just don't crave sex with him anymore and the thought really disgusts me 

My wife is scared of having kids she was watching 16 And Pregnant this girl had twins she and her mom and her husband were arguing he got mad started screaming then her mom started running around having a mad fit screaming like a little kid. Shes worried that will happen to us it won't I keep telling her but she doesn't believe me shes seen this stuff happen its happened to a lot of her friends. She wouldn't wanna be stuck at home with kids alone all day she wouldn't be able to handle it we're not stupid teens who ran off and had sex were adults who did it the right way got married then waited a year not many couples do that anymore. It seems like when there's twins on this show theres always twice the drama I'm surprised it don't get violent to where they throw the kids against the walls the way these parents act. I don't get why girls like these shows. Or how they can watch them and not be traumatized by it. Me and my wife are having our first baby in July she's really scared she hopes we don't end up that way we won't were older we made the right decision I'm 22 she's 27. How can I help her feel better ?

My Grandmother, God bless Her, but WOW She is very dumb. This is a woman who divorced Her husband to "get back at him," basically. Not only that, but since She never had a career or earned a decent income, at the age of 80 She has to rely on old alimony payments, welfare checks, and social security to scrape by. She also can't seem to stop overeating. She has doubled the size of Her dog by feeding it people food constantly, and weighs about 300 pounds Herself. She currently lives in low income housing that's full of mentally ill neighbors.

okay for about a month now there has been nonstop marriage jokes.    Some examples, and no they weren't all said in 1 day    Jokingly saying he put money aside for wedding [don't really think he did?]  Talking about what the wedding would be like.  Jokingly saying "we should just get married"  Drove past a ring place and he was like "oh I need to go there to get your ring!"  Joked saying I don't know what hes getting me for Christmas and it'll be a real knee jerker, and joked about getting down on his knee.  Brought up noticing a wedding dress place.  Joked about proposing for Christmas and that's what I get for christmas    Etc. Probably more.      Weve been together almost 2 years, and we have a 1 year old son. Just last year it kinda freaked him out I think, but I don't really bring marriage up Ive never pressured him, never felt pressured my own self.     Am I crazy or is he thinking about proposing?    Lol I have no clue why he keeps joking about a Christmas proposal? I feel like he wouldn't tell me it and do it that day especially because he actually works that day? I don't know

She jumps out of bushes and tries to put a wedding ring on my finger. She tells me that I just need to "grow a pair and step up to marry her," And she says, "I'm shockingly available." My parents had to change the locks on the doors because I woke up one night and she was standing over me with a preacher, and she had a marriage contract in her hand and she tried to force me to sign it. I don't even understand why she wants me, because I'm 30 years old, and I'm unemployed, and I live with my parents, and I have no teeth, and I have a medical condition that causes severe body odor, no matter how much I bathe. I'm the LAST person that any woman would want to marry. Aren't there plenty of better men than ME that she could propose to? Why is she so desperate? Why is she lowering her standards to stalk someone like me? I DON'T WANT TO MARRY CHARLIZE THERON! I WANT HER TO LEAVE ME ALONE!

My favorite and most flattering lipstick is beso by stila but I ran out of it and can't afford to splurge right now. It's $24!! I'm going to an event and think that color will be perfect. This is the perfect red for me I'm in love with it and get tons of compliments when I wear. There is nothing like this lipstick. The formula and color is perfect. Should I wear the lipstick for my event and return it when the event is over to get my money back??

My sister divorced her ex husband shortly after their first child was born. They were together for 18 years and she has never dated anyone else. About two weeks after her divorced finalized she met a man 14 years older than her. He was recently divorced (a month prior to her) and has two teenage boys. They started dating right away and less than three months later, they are engaged! I'm worried about my sister but I know I need to let her live her life. What should I do? What are the chances this will actually work out for her? 

Okay, long story short, I'm sick of having arguements with people. I don't care who is innocent, guilty, right, or wrong. I'm just fed up with having arguements with people. I also can't stand hypocrites. I even made a page that makes fun of them. Shoould I just never marry anyone or have kids or live with anyone (other than my dogs/cats). Something tells me, I'll be better off living with nobody and it will bring me peace. I constantly have to say things in the back of my head (saying them outloud is not always a good idea)

I think Lori Loughlin and her husband should have taken the plea deal. Maybe jail won't be bad for her. I hardly doubt she will beat this. The Prosecutors and the judge are already celebrating their victory, since the jury is favoring them over lori loughlin. She should take the deal and start over.