And I met him online dating and we've hung out and made out like twice but I made a big deal out of telling him that I don't want to go all the way yet and that I'm not interested in anything just sexual. And he said he wants a relationship and really likes me Soooo the next day after this text conversation, I kinda want to text him to ask if I can come over and cuddle and make out but I don't know what to say because I don't want to be like "I'm not all about making out and I'm not ready for sex yet....." and then the next night be like "hey! let's make out really heavily and get worked up and then just cuddle!" What do you guys think I should do?

We're in a long distance relationship. We haven't called nor see each other for a month already, just texting. Is this normal?

About 3 weeks ago, it was my housemate's birthday and she had a party. At her party, I met her crush and we hooked up. We were both really drunk and it didn't mean anything but she is a really close friend and I knew she liked him. But, in the moment I wasn't thinking about it and I just saw him as another cute guy. I know it was a really messed up thing to do and I really regret it. The next day I had to tell her and it took me a while to tell her that we hooked up bc I was really ashamed of it and my roommate told her first (and she heard it from me right after). I apologized a couple days later and she told me she needed some time, which I understand. It's been 3 weeks now and both her and my roommate have not talked to me. My roommate especially has been completely ignoring me and hasn't even talked to me for practical reasons. I also recently overheard that my friend thought my apology was forced and I was only doing it bc I had to (which it wasn't I feel terrible about it) Are they being reasonable about this? I feel like what I did was bad but they're making it a way bigger deal than it actually is. Also, should I approach them? Should I talk to my housemate again and should I say something to my roommate??

Sometime I can't help but just stare at that sweet little thing I can't look away. I sometime I catch my self wanking a little just thinking about him. Should I confess to him or just be awkward the rest of my life living with him?

My partner has cheated on me more then 5 times, he knows I know about every single one. Nothing too serious, he's kissed other people, flirts all the time (because he thinks hes the ****), and has slept with maybe one other person while we're together. He admitted most of this because he doesn't believe I'll break up with him, and if I say I will he freaks out and says that he needs me and stuff. I don't know if I should keep giving him chances. I think the obvious answer is no, but what would make it a yes? how could he prove his loyalty? is a cheater always a cheater?

I have a crush on someone and on saturday me and him tried to kiss but i got so nervous and i couldn't do it, whenever i get nervous i would start being giggly and its hard for me. Anyone know what I should do??? 

I want to know if this relationship sounds fixable to any of you. I won't specify my age or this persons age, just to make things easier, but there is a large age gap (maybe this is what plays a part in our downfall). We have been together for four years now. We used to be pretty happy and consistent, but then we didn't see each other for a few months. When we started talking again you could say I had "grown up" a lot more. Now my partner doesn't seem to like me as much, or is as attracted to me as before (they think I was a lot brighter, happier and easier before). Even being very attracted to this person, I can say that they are pretty manipulative. When I propose maybe taking a break or breaking up, they intentionally make me feel guilty and say things like "whatever you want" or "If that's what you choose". Our main problems are some of these - we don't consistently get along, my partner feels that hes responsible for taking care of my problems and it stresses him out, we don't understand each other like we used to, and many more that I won't list. I think that some of this is that he is older and wants to settle down. Hes been through many relationships and just wants to find the one. I, being much younger, want to have fun and spend time with someone who I'm attracted to. I think about him all the time and I'm in fantasy land, but then when we see each other we never get along. At the end of the day, we say we love each other. But did we lose our spark? can it be fixed? More Info 1: It's hard to explain our relationship, so here's some more examples of what we're like. You see, I get lonely a lot, because if I don't constantly get affection and attention I feel like we're not getting along or something. My partner stresses out about this. He is getting tired of me having problems, which I think is fine, If I were him i'd be frustrated too, but he's usually a jerk about it. He tells me that instead of crying about it I should tell him my feelings right away... More Info 2: but when I do that, he tells me to "just fix it" or "get over it". Then this results in me being sad and even more lonely and then I cry even more.. I'm not even a crier or a sensitive person with other people. I never complain to my friends or family and would never cry to them, but for some reason when I'm with him all of my feelings spill out. And I know it's not because I trust him with my feelings, because I really don't. I find myself not wanting to tell him anything because.. More Info 3: I know it stresses him out so much. Another issue is that he really doesn't get along with any of my family and many of my friends don't like him. I'm a big family person, I love inviting my partner to family gatherings and stuff, and I don't know how this one is going to work.. At this point you're probably 100% sure we're not going to work, but there are good moments with us too. First off, we don't want to give up what we have because when we do get along, we really love... More Info 4: each other. We don't want to throw away all of our good memories from about 3 years ago. When we do get along, we have fun and can talk about a lot of things. I'm really attracted to this person too.. I think about him all the time when we're not together, and he gives me butterflies and can make me feel really special. We have both agreed to try to change ourselves, and hopefully save our relationship.. because he's getting tired of me and I just want to be stable and happy... More Info 5: But I just don't know if we can save it.. Anyone have any questions or advice? It would be really helpful. And thank you if you've come this far.. my story is very long. 

So my friend and I were walking in the hallway, I whispered to my friend "she is cute" , surprisingly my friend knew her and he told her what I said and I got scared and punked out into talking to her, And I still want to. Idk if she still wanna talk to me. But then when I went to my next class I have another girl I like and I was talking loud to my friends what happened in the hallway to seek help, and after I was finished talking one of my friends told me "your crush was easedropping and that girl you was talking about they're both on the same cheerleading squad" what should I do? oh the girl in my class supposedly likes me too Also I went to be a weirdo and walk pass the class , (the girl I wanted to talk to) staring and walk pass the class again 15 seconds later and I had a hall pass, and I just did it just to look at her like a weirdo and she seen me the other time, am I ****** over. Sorry for all the words and questions I'm getting anxiety over it 

Here is the problem he sent me:

So my girlfriend just moved in with me; she I  "rescued" her from an unstable home environment.   My friend, who has ran into financial difficulties, needed a place to stay. Since he's been good to me, I decided to let him stay with us.  When I first told my gf, she says great. She's been so I asked what was wrong, and she said she wishes it was the two us, and that's all she was wanting, and she feels like my friend will get in the way. I said this my place and Tom has been a good friend, but her attitude has changed. In fact she changed plans for our date next week to be with friends.  Is she being petty since it isn't her place? How do I handle this situation? 

I started seeing this guy, So we've been hanging out we've been friends for a while. When we are together it's amazing. We vibe out and it's great and he seems interested  But I recently asked him if we should stop seeing each other and that kind of pushed him away alittle. I just wanted to know because I noticed he's not really making any moves. I'm just confused he says he likes me but that he's dealing with a lot. But ever since I asked him that he's acting funny. I don't know what to do. I really like him.. And he's also not writing back... 

Say you talked everyday, and all of a sudden he just stops texting you. You text him, and the conversation goes good. Then he suddenly stops again and there's absolutely no response after a week. Would you still text him? OR men, would that make a woman look desperate? I ask because this person has clearly been online in between those days we have not talked. I feel like its a clear sign he might not be interested? 

I'm considering getting my boyfriend a guitar for Christmas. He already plays ukulele and has expressed interest in learning guitar, but I want to be very sure that he is very interested in it. How can I gauge his interest in it to be sure he'll really enjoy it, but without being obvious about it?

She said that it started happening when we got back together 2 months ago she doesn't know why but she has been a little distant and doesn't want to be around me as much I need to figure out for myself the reason cause she doesn't know why and I have a job right now and we started out seeing each other twice a week on my off days Back in june she broke up with me for another guy he used her for sex then she realized that I am the one for her so we talked for 2 hours then reunited then she told me the reason she broke up with me was bc I gained weight and she had lost attraction for me but she's helping me lose the weight now she says that I've always been the same good person it's just that I looked a lot cuter when I was slim 

We broke up a year ago because he cheated on me. After about 4 months, I forgave him and moved on from it. We became friends after that. And we're really close. The problem with that is, I still have feelings for him. He was my first love and it's just really hard to let go. He doesn't make it easy either. He's a super affectionate and in general, a really nice person. He's always complimenting me and telling me I'm beautiful when I'm feeling insecure. Or calming me down when I feel anxious by simply giving me this really gentle smile. Or today, he said my hair looked really pretty and he just ran his fingers through it. And it just sucks because I feel like every time I'm around him, I just keep falling deeper. He's just such a great person and it's practically impossible not to love him. Everyone tells me I should just try dating someone new. And I have. I dated a girl for about 3 months. And I broke up with her because I was never fully there. I wasn't happy in the relationship. And I think part of me just wanted to make him jealous. People have also told me I should tell him about how I'm feeling. But I can't do that either. It'd be so awkward. And even if he did feel the same way, it's not like we could start over. I'm not going to risk being hurt by him all over again. I'm just so confused and frustrated with it all. I don't want to be stuck loving him my whole life. I just want to get over him and move on.

Been talking on and off with this guy since April of this year. I had recently seen him when I was out with my friends going around town. I've seen him walking in the street pretty tipsy/drunk with this girl who seemed to be drinking the same amount as him. They were walking pretty close to each other. Once they walked towards me, I recognized who it was and gave him a hug, said what's up, etc. He recognized me by that point too and said he'll text me later and began walking away without saying anything else. He got distant from the girl he was walking with, he whispered something in her ear and then went across the street leaving the girl to follow a few steps behind him. What could it possibly mean?  Side note: he's still in my DM's to this day asking me to go over his house and all that. I've even brought up the fact that I know he talks to other women but I've never really seen/confirmed it and he usually doesn't say much about it until Ive seen him recently. 

My boyfriend wants us to move in together. A part of me actually wants to, and that is scary by its self because I never wanted to live with anyone else before.  My dad however already hates my boyfriend, and he's extremely old school. Living together is a big no no unless you are married. Staying the night if different room is a big no no.  I want more with him. I don't know why, but I want just more, and I want to be with him. I know apart of me is holding myself back because of dad. It makes me scared. Advice? My dad would flip

Met a guy online about 6 weeks or so. Hes 30 & Im 27. That same week he wanted to hangout but I didn't because i wasn't comfortable. Eventually we kept messaging and he asked me for my #. We continued to text & we eventually ended up hanging out. This was about 3 weeks ago. I think it went great because he kissed me at the end & later texted me he had a good time & 3 days after that he asked what I was doing the next weekend and we hungout again. The 2nd time we hungout we got take out, chilled out at his place,watched movies, talked. It was fun.  He had a planned trip & he mentioned multiple times how he wouldn't see me until he got back. I asked him as I was leaving his place if he really wanted to see me & he said: "Its pretty obvious that I do." The days after we last hungout the 2nd time our conversations became sparse. I spoke to him maybe 2 times that week. I messaged him the day he left to wish him a good trip.He continued to text me. I left to Cancun the same weekend (Thanksgiving). We talked here & there he would send me pics/videos of what he was doing during his trip & so did i. Well, I haven't spoken to him since Tuesday. He left me on "read." He's back and he's been online. I don't want to message him again cause I feel like ill give off the needy/desperate vibe off. To be honest i feel like he has lost interest. I don't know if its because we would talk all the time & now we really haven't. My friend says i need to give it more time.What do you think? The day I texted him to have a good trip I told him that I hope he takes lots of pictures cause I wanna see them when he got back. I feel like I clearly stated there that I wanted to see him when he got back too.. 

Ok so I was walking today and I saw a white guy and the white guy was looking at me and it felt like he wasn't looking at me because it felt like he was looking at me to the point where he forgot what he was doing and I don't know why he did this. Why did he do this? 

We are literally just sitting down in silence in a room together And after I make eye contact , he smiles more and chuckles

My bf has been acting distant and quite ever since I told him. He told me he wanted to children and now he is acting completely diffrent.

Why me

How long should I wait until I realize he's not going to text me? We went out on our first date Friday night, after the date he said she would like to go on a second date. I texted him later saying I had a good time, he said he has a good time as well. The date seemed like it went well. But now it's Sunday and he hasn't texted me since that night. Should I give up on all hope of him texting me? 

im no longer friends with this girl because she told me she had feelings for me when i didnt and it madee our friendship very weird and uncomfortable. I also still dont and never will like this girl because i dont find myself attracted to her at al. all of a sudden now since then whenever imagine me making out with a random girl she just pops up in mind instead and replaces the random girl i am thinking of and its annoying cause i clearly dont like like this girl and i know that deep down as well that i clearly dont and never will be attracted to her. I dont know why she pops up though when i am pretending or imagining kissing another girl cause i clearly know that i dont find myself attracted to her and never will. I dont know why though its happening because everytime it happens i get grossed out because i know i dont want to ever be with her because i clearly am not and will not be into her but its also frustrating because the thoughts make it seem like i like like her even though i cearly dont and dont find her attractive at all. I try to imagine me making out with a different girl and not her but she keeps popping into my mind instead even though i am not into this girl. so whats happening cause i know for sure i am not into her but the thoughts of it make it seem like i am even though i am 100% certain that i am not into and never will be because thats the truth and dont say i might be because i know i am not. The thought of me having sex with her really disgusts me and i never want to ever have sex with her at all. Again because i am not and never will be attracted to her at all or never 

So whenever he says "I love you" I said "I love you too" then he says "I love you more" and I don't like this game bc it's really cheesy and annoying. Why can't he accept the fact we love each other equally? And how do I get him to stop? I played a long a few times but he does this all the time. How do I get him to stop? It's going to hurt him if I stop saying "I love you too." I did it once and it broke his heart. I don't want to do it ever again

It seems that I have a great couple of dates with the guys I have gone out with and all of a sudden, I don't hear from them? Im 27, I recently started dating again after being in an on and off thing with my ex boyfriend who I finally got over.  In march I was asked out by a great guy, he was working on his PHD. He seemed to really like me. We went out 3 times, and we were supposed to see eachother after I got back from a trip. He never got into contact with me. I did text him but we never hungout he just apologized for being so distant. I heard again from him 3 months later, he took me out to dinner. That only led to not hearing from him again. Often he'll like my stuff and view my stuff on social media. Thats just about it. A month ago, I met another guy online. We have hung out twice. We seemed to have really hit it off. He had said he wanted to see me after he got back. During the time he was on his trip during Thanksgiving I went to Cancun. We kept in touch but I haven't heard from him in about a week. I know that he's back, he told me when he was leaving and when he was coming back. I feel like he also dropped me. A lot of people tell me I'm gorgeous, have a great personality, have my career and very responsible. That any guy would be lucky to have me & why am I still single. Ive never been a woman to brag about her looks, if anything I feel like what is on the inside is what should matter. Am i just cursed or Is this Gods way of saying these guys are not the "one"? Makes me feel bad when people always ask me why im single because its like should I say: "I haven't found the one," or "Guys are just unsure about me" I also get alot of crap from my aunts that why am I still single, when am i going to bring a boyfriend home. It all honestly makes me feel really bad, and makes me insecure Never hooked up with either. FYI

I'm 16 and nobody loves me. I have no friends and my family doesn't love me. Nobody does. I try to be nice to everyone but for some reason nobody likes me. I don't know what I did to deserve this. Why am i not loved by anyone

Anyone else ever tried this:  I used to date a woman who would have me eat her out while she was in the doggy position.  One time for flirtation I just spontaneously decided to blow warm breath in her butthole.  She actually liked it and started asking me to do it while she played with her clit.  She said it was the quickest way she reached orgasm. and any other unique things to try to get the woman a nice orgasm?

Before I say anything else, please I don't need people judging or being cruel. I am aware that my actions can hurt people and I will deal with my consequences. It's no one intentions to be this person. Anyways, I've been really good friends with the guy for over a year almost 2. I am aware that he is married but their relationship has been on the rocks. We did not intend to but our relationship became more than just friends seven months ago. He told me in the beginning of our relationship that I will be the side chick and I agreed to it however if I understand right the side chick is usually the secret in his life. So it became a surprise to me once we started dating that he introduced me to all his friends and family, His kids adore me, his mother approves of me, and I've met everyone close to him except for his wife. Of course when he introduced me to his family and friends he introduced me as his friend but they're not that stupid and they know that we are more than just friends considering that they see us together almost everyday. So I guess my question is is he really treating me like a girlfriend or just a side piece and what does it mean for our future. Any thoughts.

I have a girlfriend I was in a relationship for 5 years she's 20 I'm 22 she clam that she loves me but when I show love sometimes she says I'm annoying but when I don't show love she gets kinda mad help me please this **** is stressful to me but she's on her period 

My girlfriend and i have been together for 8 years and im 29 and shes 28 and i couldnt break up with her because i love her but i work and make money for us while she sits on the couch and watches netflix all day or hangs out with her friends, shes extremely overweight even though she used to be skinny, she smokes in the house, she farts and burps whenever she wants, and shes just all around nasty, she doesnt use deorderant and doesnt even shower except once every 2 weeks, i hate even going near her and she refuses to work because she says its to hard anytime she tries to find a job she fails the interview

There is a girl who talked to me on Tinder & I just want to find her so I can apologize because my app crashed & I just want to talk to her again, to let her know I'm interested in her, I'd do anything for the chance to find her, but I need a solution, please help somebody. I attached an instagram photo of her, just to Tineye so I could find out if she was a hacker or fake profile, please somebody help me find her.

Now before you say "not even in your dreams" because that's how negative the world is and always trying to ridicule people. I mean by them giving signs of them liking me, staring, trying to be around my vicinity so I can approach them,  etc there's many clues. I just don't even bother with them anymore. I'm 23 years old. I've had a few relationships but I just don't desire any of that and prefer to focus on myself. Anything that'll make me a more high value male. I just became fed up on how weird and disrespectful women are. They act like they own the world and think they are better than everyone . Do you think I will regret my decisions 30 years from now??

25 years for me. We were college sweethearts

My boyfriend and I are really in love and I need to know how to do this.

I've been hit on while on campus, in the library, in ubers, in stores, and this happens atleast 4/5 times a week. The thing is I have no self confidence to ever pursue a relationship with guys I like because I feel ugly. I'm 19 and I've never had a boyfriend. I was extremely "unattractive" growing up, I thought that once men found me attractive that I would start loving myself but that has not happened and I am losing hope. I have a huge crush on someone right now but I'm too scared to pursue it because I feel ugly but I know others don't see that. Please help I am not going to be young forever. I can't tell if it's anxiety or not but I'm desperate to feel good about myself

I went on a first date with a nice lady last week. We really got along well and have texted each other every day since then. We have talked about getting together again when she gets back from a trip for her job on Dec. 5. As for my job, she knows I work at a grocery store but doesn't know that it is part-time. She also doesn't know that I'm a female impersonator, but I want to tell her soon. I am straight and this is only the second relationship I've had since I started this job in January. I enjoy entertaining and many people think I'm really good at dressing up and acting as a woman. Outside of my sister (who loves the fact that I have this job and is my biggest fan), my tax lady and my co-workers at the club, nobody knows that I make a living "as a woman." The first relationship was with a woman that saw me perform and she wanted to compliment me after the show. She assumed I was gay like the other performers I work with, but said yes after I asked if she wanted to get together for coffee. The relationship lasted 3 months. Now I want to tell the new woman in my life that I'm a female impersonator, but I don't know how but she obviously should know early in the relationship. I'm afraid that I'm going to lose her, but as my sister said, I have to tell her soon otherwise she will wonder why I took so long. When and how should I tell her? Also, ladies, would you date someone that is a female impersonator?

I am a girl in a relationship with another girl who is a few years older than me. I am currently going through a depressive episode after the death of my father and last week, she said she didn't want to have sex for a while because I was in such a sad and weak state of mind that she didn't want to take advantage of me.  Yesterday I was crying to her on the phone and she told me to come over. I brought alcohol with me and drank some, but she didn't drink anything. Once the alcohol hit I got dizzy, so I laid down on her bed and closed my eyes. I was completely drunk, and she draped me over her lap and started trying to have sex with me. I said, "I thought you didn't want to have sex for a while," and she brushed it off and kept going. Throughout the night, she encouraged me to drink more. To be honest, I was so drunk that I can't even remember if I explicitly consented or not. I know I liked it during some points, but now I'm looking back on it and wondering if I could have sex with my girlfriend after she was sloshed on my bed and grieving the death of her father. I don't think I could.  Was I taken advantage of, or am I overthinking this because we're dating?

soy hombre de 36 años, de fisico normal, les pido no ser tan idiotas para salir con: ya llegara, paciencia, eres joven, roto para descocido, no todas las mujeres son iguales, debes salir mas, conoce a mas mujeres, sigue intentando, seguridad, actitud, autoestima, bla bla bla

Me and this guy aren't total strangers but we don't know each other personally. I used to hang out with some of his family years ago and met him a few times. After I went through a big breakup in January, I have taken a break from dating and texting guys. Well he has been persistently asking me out for the last few months. Id tell him I wasn't ready to date then he'd wait a few months and ask again. Well this time I said I'd be ok hanging out as friends first and then seeing where it goes from there. He said he was ok with that. So last Tuesday we agreed to meet this Tuesday (I would have met sooner but I can't till then) We texted some Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday with the conversation going great. Last thing he said was that I was gorgeous and we said goodnight. But I haven't heard anything since Thursday and now it's Sunday night. Should I send a "Hey we still meeting Tuesday?" Or wait it out and see if he'll text?

So i recently found out my boyfriend was downloading a dating app on his phone. This is the second time i saw the app on his phone , but my first time going in it. When i asked him what he downloaded it for he said for his old pictures that are on there. So i log on and see he has asked a female on a dating app does she "have a man" , so i asked him about it and he blew it off saying "i don't want her , i was just asking. This is the second time i caught him asking a female something like this. I know i'm probably stupid for staying , but i really love him. . Some advice would be helpful. 

We stay in a very small 2 bedroom apartment. Myself and my bf in one room and him in another. My boyfriend wanted to give him(his baby brother) a good start in life by giving him the opportunity to save up money for the year. We have allowed him to stay with us for a very cheap amount(200) and he doesn't have to help with any utilities and he doesn't chip in with groceries or toiletries. He is starting to make it unbearable to live with him.  He doesn't clean at all. While he does keep to his room for the most part, his friends leave messes throughout the entire house. He leaves his dirty dishes everywhere, toothpaste everywhere, his pubic hairs all over the bathroom. Now his gf comes over everyday and is even dirtier. I now have to pick up behind both of them, including when she's on her cycle(I don't like cleaning up another grown woman's used pads).  They are consistently loud during the times that we are attempting to sleep without any regard to them not being the only people in the house. His gf is now attempting to make rules but she doesn't contribute to any kind of bills, rent, food, etc. my bf had a talk with him about a month ago and things seemed to get better. He just started back up with all this again last week.  I don't mind helping but I didn't sign up to raise a grown man & his gf. My bf is telling me to just wait out the lease but it's been 7 months and this man only has 300 dollars saved up. He makes over 2000 a month. I feel taken advantage of.

I met a guy online about 6 weeks or so. Hes 30, and Im 27. That same week he wanted to hangout, but I didn't because i wasn't comfortable. Eventually we kept messaging and he asked me for my #. We continued to text & we eventually ended up hanging out. This was about 3 weeks ago. I think it went great because he kissed me at the end & 3 days after that he asked what I was doing the next weekend and we hungout again. The 2nd time we hungout we got take out, chilled out at his place,watched movies, talked. It was fun. He had a planned trip, and he mentioned multiple times how he wouldn't see me until he got back. I asked him as I was leaving his place that last time if he really wanted to see me & he said: "Its pretty obvious that I do." The days after we last hungout the 2nd time our conversations became sparse. I spoke to him maybe 2 times that week. I messaged him the day he left to wish him a good trip.He continued to text me. I left to Cancun that same weekend (Thanksgiving). We talked here & there he would send me pics/videos of what he was doing during his trip & so did i. Well, I haven't spoken to him since Tuesday. He left me on "read." He has been logging on to the app where we met. I don't want to message him again cause I feel like ill give off the needy/desperate vibe off. To be honest i feel like he has lost interest. I don't know if its because we would talk all the time & now we really haven't. My friend says i need to give it more time...What do you think? He told me when he would be back, so yes He is back from his trip...