I noticed that older women (Like middle-aged.) will give me dirty looks for no reason, and I do not understand why. Also, I'm 18 and a female. Update: Well, they shouldn't have a problem with a random 18 year old girl. They are DEFINITELY too old for that ****.

Let's say she meets a man online who says he's a college professor and a lawyer, and is a widow with two daughters.  A month later, the following occurs: 1.  She lets him move in with she and her 17 y/o son.  He starts verbally disciplining him, particularly since her son doesn't have a job, even though his graduation is 4 months away.  He continues to speak to him like he's spoiled and not doing anything w/his life, as if he should've been working as soon as he turned 16 — legal age. 2.  This man (who has 2 jobs) proposed to her.  Every day, he drives her car to pick her up from work at bus stop, while all day, he was home. 3.  Her son is clinically depressed, and she let her fiancé, who's she only known for a month, accompany them to therapy session.  He tells the shrink, "This man has never had a job in his life" and continues to put him down to the shrink, making her son cry.  She just sits there as usual and doesn't defend her son.  But the shrink low-key and politely defends him, "Well, he's only 17."  On the way home, the man (who's driving her car) looks at her son (who has an attitude because of the therapy session) through the rearview mirror, giving him a "don't test me" look. 4. This man says that her son's last name will be legally changed when they get married, and that the son's new last name will be on his high school diploma. 5. Finally, she never met his daughters/family, or at least seen pictures or spoke to them on phone. Is the woman not very bright?

As a person who has attention issues (surprisingly, I have not been diagnosed with ADHD), I want to know what I'm missing out on. How does it feel to be able to block out distraction and be able to focus on everything you want to do?

my dad tells me I better respect him or he will spank me? If I only show respect out of fear, is that really respect?

My bf and I have a mutual friend on fb that posts 'sexy' photos a lot. Sometimes most of her bare chest is showing, sometimes it's her bare buttocks, sometimes its even videos of her doing 'sexy' things. The girl in question posts a lot of suggestive things and posts a lot about sex and having sex and wanting to have sex with people, which is fine, you do you. But I'm just upset because my bf likes/hearts/wow reacts EVERY 'sexy' post she posts, he doesn't do that to anyone else including me. When this girl posted a thing about being upset he commented encouraging words to her and he doesn't do that for me, even in person, all he does is lay around and play video games but that's a separate issue. I'm concerned because my bf seems to be obsessed with this girl. She has a small following of guys that tend to be well..losers and I'm really embarrassed that my bf is one of them. Thoughts? My current method is to not acknowledge it or speak to him about it and ignore it hoping he will stop. I think he doesn't know that it's weird and that its hurtful and that he thinks I'm really chill for not saying anything and I don't want him to think otherwise.  I am willing to talk to him. Just curious if I should and what everyone thinks I should do. Can't ask people IRL cause no one likes my bf.  

I need some insight.  I am a regular at a spot. Most of the bartenders know me well, serve me first, even when it's busy.  I get free drinks occasionally and I bs with the cover girl for the venue a lot.   I'm familiar with most of the staff, but one evening I noted a man with a solid black sleeve tattoo (he will be referred to as tattoo).  I mentioned something to the girl I bs with about how it's rad and I always wanted one.   A few days later, my male friend and I are there bsing.  Mind you, I have always went alone previously.  Tattoo is making drinks most of the time directly in front of me.  He does not make eye contact or serve me, even though it would be very easy logistically speaking.  Only the bartender that knows me serves me. (No, I do not drink heavily or get drunk.) The next evening, I go alone, to a show.  As I am coming upstairs from the venue to the regular bar, I am one of the last to exit.  I am looking at the ground as I am walking through the main floor.  I feel a sudden and intentional shoulder check, based on the force & muscle use.  I presume it's another female or perhaps I bumped into someone in a crowded area.  I look up.  The only two people in the area are myself and tattoo.  As I am looking up, I am apologizing.  Tattoo stares at me, with intense eye contact for about one minute, then turns around leaves.  Other than that, we have never exchanged words.   What the hell is this situation?  I want to know, because this is my stomping ground. Let me be more clear - I said it was hot, but I was not speaking about him.  She knew that, I think.  She also does not seem like she would leak.   FYI - this is recent and I have not been there yet since.  I plan to ensure he serves me a drink, even if it's not my shitty canned beer. Ok, I was not clear - I am a female and he is a male.