Its seems like any girl that shows an interest in me she gets jealous n doesnt like it. She starts having an attitude n has such a wierd look on her face. She really attached to me, she wont stay out of my life. Im just looking at her like, your being really wierd. You trying to be my girlfriend or something, like WHAT THE F. Im totally creeped out. She making me feel so uncomfortable right now, its making me feel sick. Shes older than me by 5 years. Whatever, dont talk to me like im stupid. I know what i see. 

My mother and sister are always asking for my money. And when I refuse, they either yell at me and insult me or they just repeatedly ask, and I'm not sure what to do. Update: I do not give money often but when I do, it's usually because they always nag me. Update: @The Taxpaper, what do you mean?. Also, I try to say "No" but they just try to guilt trip me and yell at me.

My mom died earlier this month and I am looking for ways for my dad, brother and I to stay close together. My brother and dad live together but I am moved out, I'm wondering if there are any weekly traditions I can start up so we see more of each other, like Sunday Dinner or something like that. Let me know!

My 14 year old daughter is terrified of thunder and lighting, something we have often at our house. When we have thunder and lighting at night she will crawl in bed with one of her older brothers where she says she feels safe and secure. When the storm is over she goes back to her own bed. Her brothers really like her and are VERY protective of her. However they are afraid if she tells her friends what she does, they will accuse her brothers of incest, something they WOULD NEVER DO. Please give me some suggestions on how I should handle this. Do you think therapy would help her overcome her fears and if so how much does it cost. THANKS FOR ANY HELP.

My girlfriend and I are in a committed relationship. However, for the past year she has been isolating me and made me feel ashamed for parts of who I am. If I do what I enjoy doing, (often times playing video games) whether shes present or not, she gets angry. I dont ignore her, she gets mad because I'm not working on the house day in or looking for another job day out. It's like if I'm not working constantly she gets pissed off and let's me here it. When my father passed in september of 2018, she got mad and argued with me because I wanted to spend that thanksgiving and christmas with my family. I have no savings and no money live check by check, but her check (which is significantly more than mine) often times isn't spent as carelessly as she cares to spend mine. She hassels me frequently about how she believes my sister-in-law (who've I've known for many years and is like a sister to me) is constantly trying to steal me from her and when I defend my family at any measure she makes me feel like sh*t by either ignoring me or hanging up on me or bashing my family. I've helped support her and her 3 kids. Last December I took a lone out from her savings to buy her and the kids gifts and she often times complains when I dont pay her with my check saying "even if it's just a little bit each check I'm okay with it" but she has a sufficable savings and my loan didnt put a dent in it. I'm afraid to see my family and do what I enjoy doing. What would you do?

He is adhd, and has a stepdad (my dad). But I do not know what is wrong. He punches me and pulls my hair. And he is an adolescence.

I saw on youtube some parents destroying the PC or PS4 of the kids because they were addicted and it caused bad behaviour. One kid spent his mom's credit card on fortnite and the mom cut his headphones. One college student yelled at his parents because the parents didnt like him spending 24/7 on the living room playing xbox. The dad lawn mowed the discs. I understand these parents. THey want their child to be disciplined and mature. Also the parents spent on those console and games so they can do what they want. However, let's say this teen worked as starbucks barrista until he reached $700, spent on the upcoming ps5 and the launch games and gets addicted. How can the parents handle his addiction? I don't think it's a good idea to destroy the ps5 because it's not their money.

I am looking up my estranged father's family just curious about them. I was several months old when he left and have an adopted step-father. I have no desire to be contacted by my bio-father or his family and that is why I did not do the DNA kit. However, if I just look at other family trees on Ancestry and glanced at one person's profile (an apparent half-sibling) can they see I viewed them or will they have no way to since I did not message them? I am a little worried now that I looked.

She loves her two daughters but hates her son. She even wrote to all the nieces and nephews a 12 page letter informing us how bad her son is. Her son's wrongdoings are all normal teen stuff. His mother is a narcissistic parent, he does not glorify her and so she hates him. My sister does the same stuff with family but fortunately has never married and is childless. 

Hello, to make a long story short, I'm 25 years old and I am working on my Master's in Business and I will be done Summer of 2020. The problem is that I have a mother that tells me that I won't find a job immediately after graduation. I live in California and I am planning on moving out of state to Florida or Texas for work and she makes it sound like calif. is the only state with jobs. I literally can't sleep because of thinking that she may be right, but I know there a lot of jobs in my field, and I think it's easier now than ever to look for a job thanks to the internet, but am I wrong? Is it really that difficult to find a job after college? PS.....How long did it take you to find a job after graduating from college and are there any tips you can give me?

I love my sister a lot+ I know no one is perfect + neither am I. But my sister is kinda mean a lot. Not always intentionally, + never for the sake of being mean. But let me give an Ex) I accidentally hurt her because I have long nails; she started bleeding a bit l, but she has a low pain tolerance + it was a deep cut. She was so upset with me, + she got rly angry with me. I kept saying I was sorry + it was an accident + I kept asking if she was okay. She told me she didn't want to hear me say sorry one more time,+ she was yelling at me for not being careful with my (new) long nails. I got upset * told her to stop being mean + making me feel worse. She insisted that she wasn't being mean. I asked her if she thought 'making someone feel bad+ yelling at them because of an accident' was mean. She said no. The sad part is idk if she rly believes that😂. But I tried to tell her off + I yelled at her for trying to make me feel worse than I did, but she got defensive and upset that I was calling her mean all the time. She doesn't want 2b thought of as mean because she doesn't like feeling guilty. She HATES feeling guilty, + attacker's + accuses anyone who makes her feel like she's done something wrong/bad. I rly don't know what to do at this point. I spend %80 of my time with her so it's hard to put up with it sometimes. Especially since being rude/mean is my pet peeve. There's nO reason to be mean or rude to anyone. Is it too much to ask for people to just be civil or simply nice.

I don't have any schooling in yet.. i'm debating on weather I should get a job on top of my full time job and do it that way or go to school and risk being in debt. i'm a millennial i'm not lazy I work a full time job and make 15.00 an hour doesn't seem like i could live off that decisions decisions. plus finding good health insurance is impossible my boyfriends deductible is 8,500 dollars before he receives and benefits! mine is 3,500 when i get off my moms i meant to say any benifits

I'm taking off of work to go see my parents in California and I bought plane tickets and was leaving this weekend but i just got a jury duty notice and dont know what to do

I'm a Georgia Resident , I had "hyperemesis gravidarum during my pregnancy nothing the doctor gave me worked but marijuana, I was able to have an appetite and eat normal and keep food down. When I had my baby I had thc in my system but my baby DID NOT. Of course CS was contacted came to hospital to talk to me i was honest with her and told her why. She said that she would come to my home make sure baby had everything (which he does) I had to sign a paper that my baby was in safe care , she told me what they are really looking for is "hard drugs" so I'd have to take drug test. I haven't smoked since I had my baby so I know I'll pass urine . She told me someone would come to my home and drug test me so we can get my case closed. TODAY I had my test I had to do both urine and hair follicle which was weird to me. I did them both I know I'll pass urine but hair follicle go back however long it will still be detected. Will they take my baby? He is in good care so I don't know if hair follicle is to see if I've been doing hard drugs or what(which I don't) someone please give me answers I'd be devastated if my child was token away from me. I'd feel like DFCS lied to me but I hope this case gets closed And i only did thc nothing else

I was the best man to my girl but I never messed with a girl being with her I just wasn't there for her during her pregnancy because I went threw an anxiety episode that lasted for months and didn't show a lot of affection didn't show love like I should and sometimes I get mad and call her names that I didn't mean we have two kids together she left been gone for a month and she 8 month pregnant I better myself ever since she left now she don't believe me that I am a better person she say she sees it and I tell her but she scared to believe it what ok do I lied to her and everything but I'm human she done stuff to me but right now she looking all the stuff I don't to her and got our relationship on trial and she with her parents that don't care for me what do I do ..I love her and want to be with my kids so I was willing to be better 

She is obsessed with her friends so may not want to, it feels like I'd be acting disloyal not to see them. The aunt is on very bad terms with her sibs, two of the 3 don't speak to her. A 4th died in 2001. 

My parents are so overprotective of me. I'm not allowed to have any apps on my phone unless they say so, I can't go out with friends unless they meet them, my phone's checked every minute of the day. I don't have any freedom. I can't wear leggings unless my shirt cover's my butt. My mom even threatened to isolate me from the world so I'm safe. What do I do? I sneak clothes out that I wanna wear and make-up and stuff like that

Sounds like a simple "No" but hear me out. I get good grades, never get in trouble, do as I'm told even if it's unfair, and do extra things just to make people happy. But my mom still looks through my phone cause she feels like it. No, I have nothing bad on my phone, just teenage stuff that I don't want my mom being nosy about. She doesn't give me a reason other than "I'm your mother". Which makes me mad cause I feel like she has no valid reason to go through my privacy. Do I have a right to be mad or am I overreacting? 

So I'm fifteen and I have an eleven year old sister. I can't remember when we started hating each other but literally even when she was a baby she hated me. I'm sick of people saying that I'm over exaggerating or that I do actually love her and I'm just too immature to know that. But I don't. I've never loved her. I hate everything about her. Her voice how she talks even how she walks I hate. She disgusts me. I hate her. If she were to die the only thing that I would be sad about is how the rest of my family would be sad but I would feel absolutely zero grief. I've had fantasies of her dying. I feel absolutely no love towards her at all. I get it's also irrational. To hate everything about a person even their voice. I think maybe part of it had to do with how my moms always loved her more than me but even if my mom treated us equally I'd still hate her. She's the most bratty, annoying, stupid, idiotic *****. I'm so sick of telling people that I hate my sister and then them being like "oh yeah siblings suck my sisters really annoying too but you know I love her". Even my mom has said that she's "never seen such blind hatred towards a human being" that I feel towards my little sister. Every time she walks in the room I feel so angry. 

My step dad cheated on my mom, lied about and had a child with his side piece(now his new lover) in the midst of the separation.  He also ran up a large on my moms credit card and EZ Pass during the drama and got me involved by lying to me about what was really going on, I wanted no part of it but my mom was always calling my phone cursing me out asking me if he called me and I told him don't call unless it's something important.  It just a huge mess of drama and 40+ year old adults acting like high school kids. I also found out my step dad didn't pull his weight financially around the house during his marriage to my mom for almost 20 years.  I honestly wanted and still kind of want to beat the **** out of him after all this and break everyone of his ribs but I have a career and girlfriend now to think about. PS: My stepdad is not a bad guy, he did a lot for me and my mom, but I never liked his *** from day one when he came into my life at 8 years old, I hate step parents and the thought of another man dating my mom, I know it's ignorant but I really don't care, my mom is no saint herself, she has a ego and can be very verbally and emotionally abusive, but I told my step dad when I was young not to be blind by love and marry mom, but since he's a sucker he did it anyway despite already having problems before they were married, but either he disrespected my mom and that's a no no for me, he even has the nerve to approach me like we cool like that,he has to answer for all this

I known tylor since I was a kid. Tylor is also adopted by his sisters family. Technically his sister is his adopted sister. Does that mean if my brother and his girlfriend get married tylor wouldnt be related to me ? And would that be ok? I dont know but I really like him but I just feel wierd about it and I dont want to ruin my family tree. Like if I have future kids with him per say my kids and my brother kids would just be normal cousins right ? Would be incest or not because honestly hes not related to me even they get married.????? PLEASE HELP!!UPDATE:

My mom has always been my best friend, we were inseparable. Honestly besties. Ever since Thanksgiving at my Grandparents house where she got really drunk she's been mean to me ever since, as well as my brother. Yes, my mom drinks occasionally, but not enough to be full on drunk. She's been nasty and rude, she doesn't think about me or my brothers input or our feelings. Whenever we try to explain things to her she takes it as disrespectful back talk and yells at us. She has overall been very nasty and rude, like a mom you see at a Chinese restaurant asking for a refund cause she didn't want the fortune cookies. Sometimes she'll be nice again but then she'll snap back to being nasty. I don't know what to do, I'm currently bawling my eyes out because I was supposed to take a shower, I was finishing up a cosplay and decided to get in the shower when I was done with makeup and taking pictures/videos. She knocks on the door, then barges in, yells at me before I can even explain to her my thought process, then she slams he door and tells my dad that I'm doing "some stupid costume ****". She never used to be like this, she was nice and patient but ever since that Thanksgiving she's been so nasty. I don't understand, she knows I'm sensitive and that some things really hurt my feelings and that I'm prone to self harm so she's always been careful with her words, but now she doesn't seem to care anymore. I feel like she's permanently drunk. Cause she does act like this when she is drunk.

Their dad is somewhat involved in their life, but I am their main provider. I have full custody. I have little help where I am now as far as babysitters go and we live in an overall shi**y town in ohio. I want to move with them to alabama where we have more family and more love and support. The dad does not have a home for them..he lives with somebody. He never pays his child support. In some ways he is okay. Should I feel bad about moving? Or should I stay in this same crappy town forever and raise my kids around a half a** dad

So Im 19 and I was at my girlfriends house hanging out with her over thanksgiving break and my mom called me and i answered and she said she wanted to see me since im in town before i go back to college and i told her ill think about it (i dont have anything against her she is just annoying) and the next day she called me again and i just ignored it and the next day i continued to ignore her while at my girlfriends and the day before i went back to my house with my girlfriend to get some school supplies and my mom said hi to me and i just ignored her and before i left my mom started crying asking why im so rude and i slapped her and told her im an adult and to just get out of my life, im at college now but this week ive been feeling really bad that i was mean to her and wondering if i should apologize or just move on

I'm a 15 year old female and I was in my justice class and my teacher looks to be in his 60s and since schools started hes always treated me special and nice and complimented me and today after everyone left he called me to his desk and told me he admits he likes me but cant do anything because he is married but just wants me to know he likes me like that and asked for my number and i gave it to him and this evening hes been texting me and even calling me, i know its illegal but im sure hes harmless so i just dont know how to react to it

So my friend broke up with his girlfriend after she cheated on him for another guy and he was mad and messaged the boyfriend that hes dating a cheater and messaged everyone associated with her to ruin her life so i wanted him to show me what he said because i was curious and he said hed show me later then he said later again and over a week he kept putting it off and i was like what and he said he just doesnt want to deal with it and then said hes blocking me for no reason

My brother and his wife have been trying for 2 years to have a baby. They both had medical tests to see what the problem was. It turns out my brother has a very low sperm count. The doctors told them they had 1 in 500 chances that he could impregnate his wife. They checked out sperm banks and they were very expensive and it took a long time to finish the paper work. His wife now wants me to be a sperm donor. My brother agrees. They said it is simple, fast, and no costs, no one will know about it except the 3 of us and they will never tell anyone. I am would be happy to help them in their time of need but I am afraid I will have some unexpected trouble in the future if I do this. Should I consult a lawyer about this or am I worried for nothing.

I'm 16 and I'm doing indoor track. My parents really want me to do it. I really don't enjoy it at all, it ruins my day knowing that I have practice. The only positive from it is getting out of the house. Some of my friends have left because they don't like it either. My question is: Since I'm not going to be making nationals or any big event, when will indoor track end for me?