Isn't that still considered as cheating though?

I think I see that behavior like very very ugly a man with wife and kids he won't flirt with stranger women. Who ever flirts with Uber driver has no respect and manor. It means she's cheap and has no morals and Clasess. Married man don't have a time for side dish

Why?

I only hear from them when i see them . I have none of their social media by their design , i have none of their cell numbers well mil but she hardly responds . Idk , i only find out events going on by my husband . I have an 8 month old and they only ask my husband how she is ,not me . I see them for 3 hours on holidays then its nothing . Is that a good or bad thing , is not like i havent tried but i leave them be anymore after 7 years of no contact .

My husband is learning a language. It's not too difficult cause he take it step by step but sometimes it is when theres other people. He's learning it for me. Is using sex as motivation a good idea or will it cloud his mind during his lessons

Does this happen in real life or in movies and books? If a married guy has a long-term affair with one of his wife's best friends, the friend of the wife wants her friends husband all to herself, so the husband and his wife's best friend manipulate someone to kill the wife. After it happens, let's say they have strong alibis and within a year they get married and start a family of their own and have kids. Does this really happen or it's just fiction from books and movies?

We have dated for 8 yrs. Met when I was 24 and he was 28. He is a beta male and easily to anger because his parents were irresponsible and he raised himself. He ended up in jail because of ex gf and I have been there for him. However he makes dumb choices, for example he let his car insurance lapse so I am currently driving him out of state to work and have to drive an hr to school. He has a suspended license. Meanwhile he has a good job and is giving hundreds to his low life friend who lies and says he needs money for his baby. The friend uses it for weed. My bf added me to his savings acct and I noticed he took $200 from it. When questioned he told me lots of bills were adding up that week. However a text that I saw showed that the friend had borrowed $300 for rent. My bf said he didn't use our savings but my gut says he lied. Recently he forgot his phone in my car and I looked. The friend is in legal trouble for dropping his baby causing her to get a fracture. He asked my bf to start a go fund me and asked him to use "the other acct" How on earth would this friend know my bf has two acts]; one of which my name is on it????? I promised him I would not snoop his phone but that is the only way I stay in the loop because he doesn't tell me things and lies to protect the friend. I love him so much but I am thinking lowlife would be if I was single and just get a dog and cat and have a happy life without this irresponsible man ....... What should I do? I am now 32 edit: *how life would be

Tonight I had garbage thrown on me because I dared to complain about the way I seen my wife neglecting our son. The end result was to be told that all I do is complain like a sissy, I'm stupid, dumb etc. I tried to explain that she cannot dry the clothes properly unless she properly hangs them out...that also inflamed her and she wouldn't listen to me explain that my son's pyjamas were all mismatched and that's why I was bringing in one top to dry in the dryer. She then threw used eggs at me. That's right, threw garbage at me. In discussions with my parents, they once again spoke of their disgust in me for living in such dirty conditions because my home has been slowly destroyed by her and her parents. Her parents are so dirty that I gave up on cleaning the mould out of the back of the kitchen sink because they leave it full of water. The unit was poorly built. I'm saddled with a car loan that has 2 more years to pay off. $800 per month is a lot of money. I am worried about not being able to see my son and being held back by having to pay child support for him. I want him in my custody. My parents will make a statement that my wife is like a stranger to my son which is true because she works so much. My dream is to get away from the abuse and rebuild my life but I'm so worried about losing my son and being forced to pay most of my wages to child support. My dream is to have a nice home in my parents' hometown and to live with my son. I don't care if I have to commute. A home to call my own and a nice front and back yard. That's all I want. But I worry that the cost of divorce and being 36 will prevent me from achieving that. Yet by the time everything is sold off, it will be a mountain of debt. Lawyers and solicitors wont give me a definitive answer on whether or not my wife's private loans are not my burden... Just because I don't meet her cultural expectations of what a man should look like, doesnt mean I should be called a sissy. I'm not Chinese and I have no intentions of becoming like one. I have no intentions of hitting her or screaming back. In China, I seen many couples scream and hit each other. I refuse to fight back which might have a lot to do with it. I'm too busy caring for my son and going on my own working and study course to bother with her bs. I got sick of the insults.

My boyfriend has been living in this location for almost 20 years. It is a dump building to begin with but I understand why he lives there the rent is super cheap and it's in a great location in a major city. However my boyfriend has really stopped caring about it because his attitude is 'I'm not living here for the rest of my life.' The place has gottten so bad that it's hard for me to sleep over. There is a huge roach problem. Where they are dead in the freezer, sometimes they crawl into my bag, and their dead bodies are everywhere. He doesn't own a vacuum and everything there is just dusty and disgusting. Yesterday I offered to clean for him so I would sleep over. He went into a whole discussion how cleaning is a waste of time and he didn't want me cleaning with his cat around. I don't understand. We've been talking about me moving back in and I told him I just want to give the place a good cleaning. He keeps saying no or I can't handle living there. I don't know what to do and I can't stand this mindset of him. He thinks I'm materialistic for waiting a clean place. He has no furtniture, I could really care less. But is this normal for someone to live in such unacceptable conditions? He grooms himself and showers at the gym. What should I do?

All women have vaginas so where is the problem that some men cheat on their wives despite being happy?

My wife is a teacher and she is doing private classes for students at my home. This new student she is teaching is 19 years old and he was doing really good. One day I saw a message sent by this student to my wife. "You have nice legs..Skirts and blouses look nice for you". I didnt take it as serious. But recently, my sister told me that she saw that student keeping hand on my wifes thigh. But however, my wife has pushed his hand away. Is this an act of flirting?