I am looser, I 33, married and have kids, my wife and kids can do well without me! no set job, no savings coz I never made enough money.. I went back to study to change my future and guess what I am struggling and if I don't pass my exam I won't go into 2nd year.. I never had any progress in my jobs ever... I think I should stop being a liability on others. My sister doesn't speak to me coz I am such a looser, my dad doesn't show it but I disappointed him, my mother had passed away 2 months ago. I can't speak to anyone thought posting here might give me some light.

I spent my childhood in racism and discrimination at school. At home I had relatives who never loved me. I remember wanting my cousin's affection but they would push my face away laughing calling me crudelia e telling me I was spoiled. Mind that I was a child who went to construction site with her dad cause no one could take care of me. I had a grandma but she just cared about my uncle's kids and once told me "you wont have to put your nose in their properties". I was just 10. I had to eat pasta made at 6am at 4 pm as I came back from school there was nobody to take care of me and make warm meals. Anyway. My cousins are all married with the same race who bullied me. They made half gipsy kids. A cousin had a baby now that I am in sweden trying to start a new chapter in a more normal country. I didnt even look at it. I wanted to reply 'I hope your kid dies and is bullied the way I was, even worse' hope he dies of cancer. I know it's mean, but I really felt like writing it though I did not, because I spent my childhood alone and in poverty, started self harm as a teenager, and no one cared. By the time I had depresion my cousins were hanging out with everyone except of me. I really hope all these mixed kids in my family die.

her girlfriend's chest, has a sad expression while looking into her eyes, and she just hugs him and caresses his face? They both look sad. The guy is the first love of the girl, and they're not sad because one has cheated on the other, but because the girl has had depression and the guy doesn't want her to be like that, and tries with his kisses to give her all the love he can

She was bullied for many years. Her previous doctor thinks she's overreacting and underestimate how bad it was to have loved such a childhood as a mistreated kid. Since she went away from that country she's feeling better but still has ptsd. she doesn't want to cross the border of the country where she was bullied, and doesnt even want to speak the language. She has started to have racist opinions towards the country were she was racially bullied. She says now I'm free. I have only met her now, so dont know exactly what happened, but she told me the mistreatment lasted years and it was something like, teachers would scold her for coming to school early and dont say anything to kids who came late or were loud. She was pushed and beaten, and teachers wouldn't care, not encourage her but just kill her motivation by lowering grades to her and raising for other local kids. She says sarcastically that they were humans and she as animal and hopes they will get the worst illnesses or be hit by a car and laughs. She has relatives who have married with the same ethnicity people who bullied her. She doesn't have any contact with her relatives and hopes their mixed, dirty blood kids will die and be bullied just like she was (which wont likely happen cause they're half local). These kids are darker than her. My girlfriend is white but the other kids look gipsies. She says her brain is messed up becausw of the whole life she had. Is this serious? What should we do? She's always angry

Today, my guy friend who I think likes me had this skin product. He asked me told the back of my hand out. I placed the back of my right hand out and he put the product on me and started rubbing it for a pretty long time in a gentle way. He did touch my hand for a pretty long time. He has touched me on my hand before a few times and hugs me. I think it's really nice when he does this. What does hand touching mean?

my daughter is 26 and has been with her boyfriend for several years. she spent the night with him about two years ago in a hotel, i gave her permission but her found mom found out and went ballistic, she was calling our daughter about a thousand times and cursing at me for letting her go, telling me i don't care about our daughter. I told her just don't come home pregnant and call me once you've arrived to your destination. our 19 year old son laughed and said " you're not stopping anything. she's been having sex for years. Don't ask me how i know, i just know." Daughter claims she is a virgin, that's what she told us and we don't believe in shacking or spending the night before marriage. My wife allowed our 22 year old son to spend the night with his girlfriend but the difference is that he's a boy. she doesn't want her daughter spending the night with anyone because she can wind up pregnant. now my wife is away from the home for two weeks and my daughter thought since the wife is away i was going to allow her to spend the night with the boyfriend.I told her she still wasn't going to do anything crazy like spend the night.

We got back and she blames me for what happens and we arent allowed to talk to each other anymore. What do I do? I am lost in life with out her.

My ex's mom and sister used my credit card to buy all these clothes in the US. They weren't approved for a credit card at Macys and they asked if they could use my card. Unfortunately they like to shop and although they sent me money it's not enough. The bill is 900 dollars which I don't make enough to just pay it. And my boyfriend is moving back to Malta (that's where they're from) and is breaking up with me. How do I ask for the money? My boyfriend doesn't own a credit card and this is his family in a nut shell. They spend all this money on cheap clothes, but don't have any credit, and think I am rich American but I am not, I just work very hard. Is this normal for families to do? I've paid so much for this family and my boyfriend. Sure I have. A place to stay when I visit but that's all they've ever done. We've dated for 6 years!

3 dates in. I waited a year almost to date her. She's the one my dream girl I don't care what others think

So my friend and I both prank called thisdude down the street and he figured out it was me and laughed and then asked my friend what she looks like and then my friend said I'm a step worse than Tina (aka me) and he said oh well then you can't be that bad cause Tina's pretty cute. Then my friend asked " what do you think of Tina's dad"? And he said "I don't think he'd like me if I told him his daughters smoking hot" and then right after he said just kidding. We're 15 and he's 40 with a family was that being friendly or weird?

I hugged this guy today and I hugged him with both arms and we hugged for a little longer than normal. I did something dumb where I lifted my hand kind of and placed it back on his back. I dont want him to think I see him as a friend. Also afterwards, I let go slowly while we ended the hug. Are there some key signs to tell when a hug is romantic? We did talk after more and he seemed like he wanted to keep talking.

I have looks but I have severe social anxiety when a woman makes eye contact with me I look down or close my eyes

He takes off my shirt and starts kissing my chest, sometimes he even suckles it as if he was a baby. When he does this and gives me that puppy look with his eyes, my heart stops and I feel something weird in my stomach. Then I hug him putting my arms around his head and he lifts up his head to look at me and I feel warm, weird, emotional and all sorts of things at the same time. Why does it happen? How can he make me feel so many things at the sale time? He tells me I am soft, I have the bet smell of the world and that I am his angel. I don't know if he just says it to male me happy.

...it's always question #1. You know it is. And have you ever judged a man buy anything other than his income?

me and my boyfriend broke up in Feb, he filed for marriage license with someone else in March, and he married her in May. We broke up on good terms still continued to hang out and talk every day. He failed to tell me he was seeing someone much less getting married. I found out via FB that he was married.... keep in mind after we broke up I asked him numerous times if he was seeing someone and he kept saying no. Even the Monday after his wedding I asked him if he was with anyone and he still said no. When I finally confronted him about the marriage he again tried to deny it but the Pictures proved it all. I asked him why he got married so fast and he said "to help her", I asked what does that mean he said "its complicated" Him and I were together for 7 years, I felt like he could have told me at this point what was the secret. At this point I feel angry hurt and deceived, I stood by this man, through his addiction, I held him down for years.