All they want are nudes and I'm so sick of it. When will I find a guy who isn't a douche bag? I'm not selling myself short and showing my body to some piece is **** who could care less about me.

Three months ago I was at a friends wedding (7-8 hours away, and where he lives) and the best man seemed to take an interest in me. I had messaged him on Instagram the week before asking for help with a wedding gift and he was very polite and helpful, At the wedding we kept making eye contact and eventually he asked me to dance a couple times. After the wedding we both finally followed each other. About a month ago I was back down there visiting friends and ran into him at church and went to lunch together with a group and before we left he hugged me and threw out the idea of dancing. I let him know I was more than down and when I was available, we settled on a day and gathered a small group to go. Ended up being obvious that me and him were a pair for the night. Anyways, fast forward and we now message each other probably close to once a week about something or another. We have a similar taste in music so I sent him the new tour dates for one of my favorite bands and told him I was going to the closest one to me, which happens to be about half way and he pretty much assumed he would meet me there if he could. Turns out he couldn't get off work and wont be able to make it. He starts the messaging sometimes and me others and he always sends very thought out messages. I'm not too concerned about me and him ever becoming a thing, just bored and curious what the internet thinks, lol. Also I'm about to move making the distance 12 hours and I'm quite a bit younger but both in 20s.

So, like my question said, I really want sex, but I think my anxiety keeps getting in the way. Every time I hype myself up to do it, I always somehow talk my way out of it. The most popular version; 'I can't bring it up now! It's just getting to the good part of the movie/tv show'. It's honestly driving me insane. I'm super sex shy and can't really bring it up to him without feeling like an idiot. Whenever we actually try to get down and dirty, I either have a panic attack, or talk my way out completely with stupid reasons like 'sex is too much work'. I'm completly lost when most self help guides say 'get out of your head' but don't actually describe how.

We got this manger in about a couple months ago and she is very beautiful. I think about how nice it would be to have sex with her. I even think about my sexual fetishes about her. I even masturbated a bit and thought of her. I really don't want to have sexual thoughts about her since I have to deal with her on a business level.

(girl age 17) Hey so I moved schools at the beginning of the year and Im in grade 12. I haven't made ANY friends this year. I only got two girls snapchats and one of them texted me today saying "do i know you." It made me really sad. the other girl moved after two weeks of being there. I'm graduating soon and I would've hoped to take pictures with people, go to the grad party, etc. I hate being shy. I'm almost not that pretty so maybe that's it.

I'll try my best to explain our relationship as shortly as possible in order for advice to be given! I tried to make this easy on the eyes! So basically, I met Adam (which is not his real name, just keeping it confidential) and we really hit it off. Within a few weeks, we were dating. Truthfully, we were going very fast, as in we were seeing each other twice a week and I was spending the weekend at his families house with him. Fast forward, almost a month later, he breaks up with me. He tells me it was because he has no feelings for me, however, what he later says and judging by his actions prior to him saying that he was falling for me and would often talk about future plans with me. Yet the biggest reason as to why he broke up with me was because he had mixed feelings with his ex-girlfriend and it wasn't fair for me and he didn't want to use me as a rebound. Adam was still in contact with her due to the fact that her belongings were still at his place. Adam and his ex- Daisha, lived together for a bit but then he dumped her since she was emotionally abusive and manipulative. He reassured me many times, even after the breakup, that he would never get back with her again because he knows how she hurt him. During the breakup, he told me that he felt bad for me and that it wasn't fair for me (because he still had mixed feelings for her). Before doing research on getting my ex-boyfriend back and the no-contact rule, I had sent him a paragraph of just explaining my feelings and the confusion that I felt. I wasn't begging for him, just was hurt and how come "good girls" always get hurt. And he said: "You are a good girl." and basically ended it at that. He said a bit more, but for context purposes, it's easier to end it there. Another thing was I had asked him about his job which he wanted to get in order to make money again. But then he said stuff like: "I don't need a job. I just want one." When before he said that he was doing his best to catch up on schoolwork because he wanted to work again. He replies to that question was curt. Finally, the text messages that had me mostly confuse was: - "I'm sorry for wasting your time." > to which I replied that he never was a waste of time and that I didn't regret meeting him. - "I'm great." > After I had asked how he was doing and how he was handling the breakup. At this point, before I start the NC, he would just read my messages and not reply despite saying that me texting him doesn't bother him (he is very honest, so he would tell me) and he still views my Snapchat stories and Messenger stories as well.

Me and my ex just broke up a few months ago and we told each other that we'll stick to being friends. It was his decision of breaking up because he was stressed . He has a girlfriend now so I kept my distance but we always bump into each other during school. He's always messing with me and trying argue with me about dumb stuff. I just don't understand why? And he's always playing around like pulling lightly on my jacket and when I look at him , he's looking somewhere else as if he didn't do anything.

I went out on a date with this girl we made out and held hands and she turned me down after asking her out. She says I move too fast. She couldn't make up her mind to see me again. I was a complete jerk to her after. Telling her I do not want to see her again and do not want to waste my time. Later on that day I told her I had sex with another woman. I did not think things through I just acted out of anger. I am shocked she has not blocked my number. I told her I am sorry and tried to call, but she did not answer. Am I a bad guy? I really feel like **** for what I did.

So about a few days ago I got this girls contact, we texted immediately after. We talked and all and it seemed good, but that same day she asked my friends contact which kind of threw me off guard but then she said it's because she wanted help moving her stuff to her new room(we live in dorm houses btw). She knew I couldn't help cause I was on security watch and you can't really leave. I told her he doesn't give his number out like that, plus he wasn't out in town. So I offered to help by coming down to help even when I wasn't supposed to. After like a good 2 hours she said she did it herself. After that text, we talked more. She then disappears until like the next day and leaves me on read. Been happening since then. I would text her again we talk for a bit and she disappears onto the next day. She disappears around 8 pm a lot. So day before she failed a really important inspection, and was pretty annoyed. So I texted her asking her favorite snack. She told me and I was pretty much on my way to the store, so I asked if she wanted any. She said no but thanks. I told her why I asked, she then changed her mind and wanted cigarettes instead. So I got her those and her favorite snack. We talked when met her in person to give it to her. Talked about fitness. I left, and texted her afterwards, after a couple of texts she left me on read. I didn't speak to her at all yesterday cause I felt like she might need space. Now I'm thinking... am I wasting my time? What's her deal?

I'm a guy and I'm not sure whether he is gay or not, I'm afraid that would ruin our friendship but I can't keep it any longer, it hurts me. :(

Okay this sounds crazy I know. There are so many details but it would take forever to type. My boyfriend has an ex that hated me and she always got jealous of me. He started getting feelings for me and left her and we hung out for a bit and then I got with him (We took our time) (btw during their relationship whenever she was jealous she would self harm that why it didn't work). She had long light brown hair and usually wore blue jeans with a white shirt. I have shoulder length black hair and i have an edgy style. She was home schooled and randomly showed up at my high school and she cut her hair shoulder length and dyed it black and wore outfits i would wear. I didn't think much of it i thought she was just trying to try something new but she started to always walk around me and stare and make sure i noticed her, she would also use different accounts to check my social media. I don't know what to do I want her to stop. Please tell me what to do and also tell me why she is doing this. Thank you so much if you read all this.

When should I tell her that I like to wear unused plastic garbage, trash, bin bag/liners as clothing in private.

So we were cuddling with his dog and he was like "my dog will eat u out.. he loves fish". Which I took offense to that. My PH level has always been off.. that's just how my body down there works. And I have meds for this condition and I make sure things are fine there but it still got me in the end! Idk what to do. Do u think he didn't mean it like that or he did. Thx!

I am fat too.

Am always out of the house, and it doesn't make a difference whatsoever. I get rejected always and I don't know what else to do.

Plenty of men respond to photos posted with triggered comments, the moment they spot a woman grabbing a male athlete by the *** or some other guy. Assault on a female is much different because for one, the males doing it are much dominant and have other motives, but seriously, is a male feminist going to cry if he finds himself touched the same way by a woman, especially if is non-consensual and done for laughs? If you try and report her for sexual harassment, you do realize that you will be laughed at, right? You're a man, deal with it.

My ex-boyfriend was very emotionally manipulative and abusive. Here recently, he apologized and owned up to his issues (which he has never done in the past). He stated that he very much wanted to be friends, practically begged me, and I agreed. But ever since then, he ignores me. He never wants to hang out or talk. He'll initiate conversations, say, "Hello," but then, leaves my messages on "read." I don't really see the point in staying in contact if he is never going to actually hang out with me or talk to me? I told him this, and he said, "Well, let's hang out then," we spend 15 minutes together... and then he left, and then repeated the same behaviors of ignoring me immediately afterward. ??? What is the point in staying in contact?

I have known this girl for years and since I met her she jokingly teases me quite a bit. She blushes a lot and has blushed next to me. She couldn't look me in the eyes and would get red with a big smile on her face. She stares at me when there's more important stuff going on like she should be paying attention in class or working. Well if I make eye contact with her she has a long lingering stare and doesn't stop and has a smile. We've paused in conversation and she doesn't stop the eye contact or smile I have to and it feels weird. I went to where she works to eat and she's in one spot and moved to another that had a straight view of me she stared at me a little bit and looked. I ran into her drunk and MAYBE she was staring at me before but I look over she makes eye contact and doesn't stop only to stare back at me and not stop. She drops whatever she does to do this, she freezes to stare in my eyes. I worked with her and saw her after it. She seemed embarrassed then, I put on a jacket while she's talking to someone else she's not engaged at all and facing me staring at me. She's staring at my arms then chest and not sure but my lips or eyes and doesn't look away or stop. I look away and she doesn't stop. I can be talking to her or we're pausing and she does it. Why would someone make eye contact and not stop? ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.1.04

I've known this girl for 1-2 years, I met her online and we've talked a lot. Anyway I live in Kentucky and she lives in North Carolina and we're both 16 about to be 17. She has mental issues like lack of self confidence, has a hard time trusting people and calls herself ugly etc. I want to ask her to be my girl but i have know idea if it would work out or even if I should avoid it at all. I think her issues will clear up some if she knows I'm there to support her, she also lost her father at age 10. She's really sweet and I want to know if it would be a good idea to ask her to be my girl. I'm sure we would meet up soon after we turn 18/19

I went on a date with a guy .The date was a bit awkward for both of us because I was extremely shy but nevertheless we managed to sit through it. And it didn't turn out too bad , he even asked me to go with him to grab dessert but I kindly passed on it .At the end of the date he asked if I would go on a second date with him and I said not really. Then he joked about how weird our date was and how he usually gets at least a second date. He then told me if I change my mind I can contact him but he won't reach out to me but has a feeling that I will. Then after we parted ways I decided to text him that I was kidding and would like a second date with him and I explained that I was really shy and that's why I acted akward. He asked to meet up with him this upcoming weekend on the beach. I told him I could not this weekend coming up due to mother's day and moms birthday but I can possibly see him during the week . He told me no worries and that he will contact me as soon as he sees his work schedule to set something up and that he will see it on Monday . So far it's wednesday and he hasn't contacted me. I contacted him on Monday asking him a silly random question but to my surprise he never responded. ?

So I met my boyfriend here at college in February. We're both freshmen and we started dating in mid March. I have always been super attracted to him, more than anyone else ever. So, I think about doing stuff with him a lot. We're both virgins. The thing is he's really religious, and he plans on waiting till marriage but always says it's gonna be really hard for him. Whenever he invites me over, we make out a lot, but that's about it. He usually makes us stop when things get too heavy. For instance, tonight we were making out on his bed for a good 15 minutes and I tried unbuttoning his pants, and he just took my hand away and interlocked his and kept kissing me. I whispered to him that I was really wet, (sorry tmi) which I never do, and he practically ripped my clothes off and felt me up and fingered me. But during this, he said I love you for the first time and I said it back. I just got back to my room and he keeps texting me saying he's mad at himself and he shouldn't have done that even though he really liked it. He hasn't mentioned what he said, but I'm wondering if it was legit or just something said in the moment. I may ask him eventually, but what do you think?

It's like they only want a guy who is unemployed so they can be unemployed together and spend all day together

So i know her favourite type of creatures are dogs and frogs and her favorite color is purple. That doesnt narrow things down enough for me... Im a Gemini and making hard decisions is big for the personally type. So if any ladies can offer me a good idea of a ring, and size. I would appreciate it a bunch. Gentlemen if yall have ideas im not oppsed to them either. Im just... Nervous i guess. Plz halp.

if i tell chicks i'm into recycling, and global warming, and windmills, and saving the rainforest and whales, and all that cr@p and bs, will i get laid?

Okay so i am a female and so is my friend. We both are into girls but have never kissed a girl and i want to. I want to kiss her but i don't want to ruin our friendship if something goes wrong. So do you have any suggestions on what to do? I know i could play truth or dare or something but then it's possible that she might not want to kiss me in front of people. Anything will help. Thank you!

I posted up a pic of making mango cheesecake on social media and talked about how much i love it, and a cute guy friend posted up a picture of him eating mango cheesecake at a fancy restaurant and than posted a video of him eating another mango cheesecake again the next day?

what should I do when my mom does not like my dad and nether do I and I hate my moms boyfriend cause he's a dick I mean its at the point now where I just wanna end it all. I feel that no one likes no loves me my girlfriend broke up with me.

I'm 14, and really insecure about a lot of stuff, people say I'm beautiful like my mom and whatever but I have trouble believing them. I'm really insecure about my hairline, because it is a rectangle and kind of receding. I hate looking in the mirror and looking at photos because I only see my flaws. I'm about to go to a bigger private school then I was at before and I don't want to look not confident. When I visited I noticed people (guys) looking and I don't know if they see me as ugly or pretty.

Im in this bible study and there's this girl i that I like and I'm sure she likes me to but she comes like once every 2 weeks and we go 2 times every week. I can finally talk to girls (I'm 18 almost 19) haven't been able to for my whole life pretty much. Now that i can the teachers and people in the class say i should focus on my relationship with God and i know that I can do both. If you have answers like God isn't really so dont worry just don't answer or act like it's a very important class.

Not being mean

I've been seeing this woman for a month now and she was ignoring me for 3 days, opening me messages and not replying back. But she's still snapchatting and stuff. So I started ignoring her for 3 days and she called me out asking why I was ignoring her and I told her because she ignored me. And she told me it doesn't work like that. Wtf is that supposed to mean?

We were together since summer of 2016 and then a week ago she leaves me a long message saying she doesn't want to be together anymore and that she's found a new boyfriend. I was in a panic and before I could do anything I saw she blocked me on social media. And I tried calling her but she blocked my number so I couldn't get in contact with her. Now it's been a week and she's unblocked me and said she made a mistake and wants me back and is deeply sorry for her behavior. What should I do?

I didn't like him because he was chubby at that time and unattractive. He's now really good looking. He's taller & has leaner muscular body & handsome face with perfect hair. What to do? He also has a girlfriend now and she looks like Kim Kardashian. I regret treating him so poorly back then.

It's kind of depressing

I met a guy on tinder and he asked me to be his girlfriend. I agreed. in december he wasn't meeting me so I dumped him. I told him " hopefully you'll treat your new girlfriend better " I was.pissed he begged to get back. we got back and finally met after that again he refused to meet me I dumped him and we got back again he refused to meet me and said he wants a three way relationship. he said imagine how strong will the love between us grow if I can have you and another girl I immediately dumped him. he blocked me everywhere sure he didn't ask to get back I tried to get him back, in February I said let's get back he said only if u find another girl for me so we did get into a three way relationship but he refused to acknowledge that she agreed to date him he flirted with her and talked to her only ignored me in the group chat and the girl didn't want me and him to meet I left the group chat and dumped him and blocked her since then I'm trying to get back with him he never wants to meet, he has the same excuse three days ago he said " can you not talk to me for a long time?" I said till when and he said " till I text you. it's not you it's me" I asked him what happened and he said he just got a gf today and wants to focus on the gf Nd not talk to me for a while he said " leave me alone for a while " after I told him I'm gonna block him I told him never to talk to me again and we both said bye I told him he was never my boyfriend I blocked him

Basically this guy was rude to my girlfriend today and I ve been single a long time and I really like her a lot, but he called her a cheat and looked at me to say as if my girlfriend is bad. That really pissed me off and he started telling people about me and her so I ran after him and slammed him on a wall and told him to stop chatting sh1t about her. Should I beat his ***?

Ok so I go to golden corral and its my first time ever interacting with the girl she comes up to me says Hi how are you I'm sewing so here to take care of you blah blah blah she's smiling hands behind your back and I know the chicks has to be somewhat attracted to me at this point cuz I've seen her before flash to be Smiles at our got a few smiles back so she's definitely like I don't know some kind of way. Long story short I start talking about Wi-Fi cuz I don't want the conversation in she jumps right back and it's saying no sorry we don't sound like you think that have Wi-Fi blocks the restaurant it is cuz I know right then she starts talking about her phone about having date on it and she starts talking about what type of phone she's got and she said it like 3 times a type of phone she's got so I don't know if she's like trying to hint to me to get her phone number and take her on a date also she didn't seem like she was tryna to get a tip she also says to me who you on the phone with laughing at? Like old was she maybe flirting with me? Or tryna to get my attention? Help?

Somebody says it is crime while some says it is legal. What is the right answer?

So for college swimming the seniors get goodbye cards. It's not a big thing, but it's a nice little gesture because we are like family. My girlfriend made it a point to sign everybody's card and made it a point to get her friend (ex friends with benefits) a card. Later, I found out she didn't even sign mine. Am I wrong for being a little hurt for something so small? Should I say something to her?

ever ?

I posted up a pic of making mango cheesecake on social media and talked about how much i love it, and a cute guy friend posted up a picture of him eating mango cheesecake at a fancy restaurant the very next day?

Is that wrong?

I have been dating this girl for two years now. We have really great times together and I never want to ever lose her, but there is one problem. I keep having doubts about us and if it is going to last a lifetime. I have a lot of anxiety and I cannot tell if i am only worrying about it because I care about her, or if the relationship is declining. Please help I am so torn and I just want to be happy with her.

Bf & I met 3 months ago on tinder. I'm 22, he is 28. I'm in college. We got 2gether on our 1st date. He has a son & 3 other possible kids by different girls he had serious relationships with.He is an ex felon(4 a robbery)he got out in 2016. He works at la fitness and bouncer at a club. I let him stay in my dorm with me bc he was living with his mom to help her out & they were bumping heads. He use to have his own place. He owes 3k for his liscense. He wants a car & trying to save. He wanted me to quit my job making $8.75 to drive uber so i can make enough to help him get his l's back. i'm not comfortable driving. He says he will buy me a car and teach me. We have our fingerprints on eachothers iphones. He does take me out and is very sweet. I pay sometimes. He talks about the future & living 2gether . He says he could get his own place if he wants but he comes out here in elmhurst w/ me bc he wants to spend time with me & knows if he didn't we would never see eachother bc he works 6 days a week,no car. He said if i dont finish college he cant be with me bc he is not taking care of a woman. He got his own place 6 days ago, still talks to me & i visited him at his place but he wont come to elmhurst anymore bc its out of his way & his new place is close to his jobs.he wants me to come to him or meet in the middle. he knows i dont have any money bc i quit my job. I asked him was he using me to be his breadwinner&he dumped me & blocked me bc he is tired of proving that he loves me

I'm in a fwb currently and the guy posted a picture of a girl on his snapchat story saying "wcw" (woman crush Wednesday) just wondering if that's acceptable lol

1) I was 10. Cousin was 11. Cousin exposes me to sexual things, then does sexual activities to me that I do not want. Some of the activities are consensual. I felt consistently guilty for partaking in activities. 2)I go on date w guy in car at 15. I blow him consensually. I then want to leave. I try getting out of car, he grabs me and forces his dick in my mouth. I try to get away repeatedly, he continues to shove me back down and holds me down. He then continues to grope me against my will. 3) Guy takes condom off without me knowing 4) I'm on acid and guy says, "I'm going to put it in your ***. If you don't like it I'll stop" then puts it in *** 5) I dated this guy. When I didn't want to do something sexual, he threatened to do it to me anyway, just to freak me out. He told me that when he hurt me sexually it "wasn't fun because you liked it." He liked making me gag on his penis and told me I didn't deserve to be treated well. When he got mad he called me a whore for doing the same thing he did. He'd pretend to not be mad at me, then have sex with me and ghost me. 6) Guy has sex with me and I wanted him to stop. He does, then keeps trying to shove it in my mouth. Then when they're relaxing he kept trying to put it in my vagina and kept saying "only for a few seconds, only for a few seconds."

The school year is ending and I want to confess to my best friend... I for sure know that she's not straight, but she's dating someone else and I'm moving over the summer. I know it's dumb, but I want her to know how I feel and I kinda wanted to sing the song Would You Be So Kind by Dodie Clark to her... which is cheesy but whatever. I just don't know if I even should. nvm im a pussy and decided not to rip... my other best friend told me I should wait until the last day of school and it was her idea to sing a song to her so that's where I got my confidence... now she says that I probably shouldn't so I'm guessing I shouldn't if that's what she thinks...

I just found out that my 30 year old girlfriend had sex with a 60 year old man (before we started dating). This really freaked me out. Is this really weird or am I just overreacting?

In the beginning their always into me and chill, than later they become cold and show disinterest (the worst part is when I feel comfortable / open my personality up with no more holding back) is when they end up being cold to me - I don't want to play mind games or act a certain for any women. Any opinions are appreciated.