MY WIFE SHE IS ABOUT TO DELIVERY OUR BABY AND I CANT BE THERE WITH HER THAT DAY,CAUSE MY JOB AND I DONT WANT TO LOSE MY JOB SO IM THINKING TO ASK MY BEST FRIEND TO BE THERE FOR ME?

So i made a post about two weeks ago , my husband and i moved in with a woman. Our kids and hers. We met her online. Literally the following week she says " i made a mistake you two need to leave i don't want to do this, this is weird" so we left. Luckily my pregnant best friend let me move in with her. So myself,'my two kids and husband are staying with her. Until we get a place. My husband is pissed and says next girl he's picking Although we agreed I'd always pick since last time he picked. He cheated and slept with the woman behind my back/ i feel like I'm losing him. He says he wants to leave me and has hated me for some time now and regrets marrying me. We've been married for 9 months and i just don't want him running back to his ex and their kids! Me and him have kids and he needs to be here for us. What can i do to keep him? Should i just give in and allow him to pick the girl? a hour ago he said " I'd never be this miserable if i would've stayed with my ex" but than says " next time I'm picking the girl" so does that mean he isn't really leaving?

I was at the phone shop with my partner. He isn't very tech savvy. I explained the difference between the device password and his email password twice but he didn't understand. So I used the analogy of his home's security door and front door. He told me he wasn't a moron. I found that rude and left. When I returned 5 mins later he told me to never talk down to him again. So there are obviously 2 perspectives here. Which is more valid?

Even if he settles with someone later in life? Will she think, that she can always have him again if she wanted? Because she knows he's not loyal, how can his new spouse deal with his past?

I have cousins there's one sister and two brothers when I told her I'm looking for a guy for marriage she said " should I talk to my brothers?" what does she mean? even last time when my sister saw me she asked her what I think about that girl? I'm a female. thanks.

I sent videos of my husband and I having sex to his mother I totally regret it and can't take back what I did... it's a long story on what pushed me that far to do something so messed up but is there any way I can make it up to her? She's Muslim they are from Algeria and I know she's hating me right now I really love my husband but he's so secretive. Some times I think he's only with me for his green card but I'm not too sure but he seems to actually love me. I'm American (African American) please help me is there anything I can do to make it up to her?

So we were talking on the phone the other night and I decided to have the "what are we" talk. She had told me previously that I'm not in the "friendzone". I told her that we've been talking for so long and haven't sat and discussed what we are. She talks about us dating "eventually" and her dream day involves the two of us cooking together and cuddling. She says I'm a hunk Anyway, I told her that I felt like we've been in the talking phase for a very long time and that after so long it either happens or it doesn't. She relied with "I'm not going anywhere. I'm closer to you than I am anyone. I could never replace you. We're more than friends, you're my love and I care so much for you. You didn't know any that?". I explained that I didn't and that recently when someone asks what we are I tell them "she's my girlfriend". She said she likes that and asked jokingly Her: you're not going to run off and get married are you? Me: not unless it's you Her: good answer

I am the only one who works. I left a job I loved to another where I pushed myself for a promotion so my husband could leave his job and stay at home to take our daughter to school, and work on his table top gaming stuff also so he could attend more tournaments since his job consumed alot of time. I pushed for a promotion where I make enough to support us three. I never ask for anything, I constantly get pointed out what I do wrong or how to fix it.. all I hear is complaints on the people we live with. He legit bought a table top stove so he didn't have to leave the two rooms we have upstairs.. he washes dishes in our bathroom and does laundry.. I hate it howev3r I never complain. Like it's to the point where he gets mad at me and makes me feel like trash if I leave the room other then leaving or going to work. He gets upset that our daughter does the same claiming we can live like this..ontop of that I work 58 hours a week and am extremely tired.. I scheduled a vacation just the three of us.to get away from the people we live with and for time together .. however he is finding every reason that it is a bad idea. Like he is okayw itb taking away the one thing I want and need a vacation... shouldn't he respect me enough to not want to ruin this?

21 years old and I've been cheating on my wife. Not currently since I was caught not long ago. But I can't help but look at women. I'm good looking but not crazy good looking because I've gained some weight but my personality attracts women. So it's easy for me to strike up conversations with women and I feel really bad because I'll get numbers and stuff but won't text because I know it'll just get me caught again. I tried going to a sex addicts anonymous but it was weird because I felt like everyone was some type of buying prostitutes chronic masterbating pervert so obviously wasn't the place to get help to stop cheating. But I can't stop myself from talking to women with big ol bootys or titties. My wife is gorgeous and we have a daughter together now.. I feel so bad but don't know if I'll ever be able to stop playing with fire. I don't want to lose her or ruin my family. What do I do?

My husband&I have been together for 10yrs/married 5. He told me he liked to wear woman's panties before we were married. I thought "this is different, but I can deal." After we were married his crossdressing began getting increasingly worse. For the last 4yrs he completely changed into a woman while privately at home - makeup, shaving, tucking his penis, forced me to call him by his female name. He painted his toes & began wearing woman's sandles around town. When I told him how lonely I was&unattractive to him he would snap at me&say mean things. I realized that our sex life had been a lie & wasn't about me & him at all, just about him fantasizing about being a woman in a "lesbian" relationship. He's told me he's thought about transitioning but wouldn't do anything that would hurt our young son. After 10yrs of this, 1yr ago I finally had enough and threatened to leave him. He burned all of his female close & went into therapy. He never told me what happened in therapy, we went to marriage counseling but he refused to acknowledge that he had a problem. He's been "white knuckling" his urge just so i wont leave him, but still treats me like garbage & has become increasingly controlling. Hes locked me out of all our bank accounts for over a year . We are close to finalizing our divorce now. But he still does not want me to leave, and makes me feel so guilty about divorcing with our 2.5 yr old son.He is a good dad. Am I right for divorcing him?

Hi, i am married to a wonderful man and when i was pregnant i wished to have a baby girl but we had a gorgeous boy! The wife of my husband's brother just had a girl, she's the 1st girl in our family which i wished i had! I adore my boy but i am jealous from her and all are giving her attention... She's ruining my life and i am upset most of time even with my husband Help me plzzz to overcome my bad feelings which i know it's wrong and bad from me

I'm married in India , I'm from Europe..i love my husband , he's a nice man and shows much attention and love towards me but still i am so lonely.. I have no friends here , i can't go out alone, most of days I'm on bed , in my room ( i don't go much out of the room cz we don't live alone but with in laws n i can't communicate well because they don't understand English well but i understand their language only not able to respond back). It irritates me that most if the time i do nothing , i can't even concentrate on my own work, I'm a designer and i think i need to go out more often for inspiration , hiw can someone do work and be inspired when sitting all the time in one room? Is it even possible? I don't know why i can't go out alone, maybe not so safe cz it's india..how should i live on my own? I'm depended on my husband totally.. I talk only with him n when he's at office, works at night i Also don't sleep cz I'm alone.. all night on ohonr,tv or i start designing something then i get negative thoughts n leave it.. I'm so fed up, always home.. i loved to do makeup now i don't do cz i go nowhere , also have no strength to get up sometimes maybe my body has become lazy.. M i even get mad when my husband goes out cz I'm alone..work os fine but see I gave uo on everything and I'm here with him , why shouldn't he do little for me and spend time with me? If he wants to go oyt he should do it with me.. I think of suicide often but i know I'm not able to do it..

The wedding is today. Here's why I really don't want to go. My mom and I aren't getting along. I've recently realized that my mom has been gaslighting me. She's very uncomfortable to talk to and be around. I've been hospitalized for the anxiety she causes me. It is not a healthy situation, not even for a minute. My sister was admitted to the hospital yesterday so hanging out with her at the wedding isn't an option. My go-to date (my husband) is not able to attend with me because he's currently living in another state for work. The cousins on this side of the family aren't people I get along with. So effectively, I'll be at this wedding completely alone. I am socially awkward and have a ton of social anxiety in this situation. I don't know what to do. By the way, I absolutely love the cousin who is getting married. We played together as children. I don't want to miss this, but I can already feel a panic/anxiety attack coming on and I haven't even gotten out of bed yet.

of his wife together on his FB page. Only pics of his kids and him. His wife not even mentioned. Where it says relationship info, there is nothing. He and his wife are in their 30's.

My husband loves to go to the shooting ranges. I'm not a huge fan so he often goes by himself. He came home today all excited and told me he met this really cool girl who also loves to shoot. He said they plan to meet again Sunday and go shooting again together at the range. I'm a bit concerned. He seems very smitten by the fact that she's as into shooting guns as he is. Is this something I should be concerned about? Or am I overreacting? What would you personally do?

I give my husband sexy photos, I try to make them like girls on internet, but he still masturbates in office computer, I know he does it. I'm not ugly, I think I look sexy, but he would rather be with other girls. he does give me oral sex, but that's it.he doesn't even want sex with me. I said I wanted to see what kind of girls he likes, he yelled at me.

When my bf and I hang out he NEVER gives me a set time when he's coming over or coming to pick me up so often I'm waiting around for him. He will be busy doing what he needs to do around the house THEN he comes over. He will (on rare occasions) say he's coming over at 6:30 but won't show up till 8:30/9:00. Example: today he was supposed to come to dinner with my family at 6:30. He called me at 5:00 to tell me he couldn't make it because he fell asleep after work and still hasn't gotten his grass cut. He then called me at 9:30 after he was done looking to come over. It's driving me INSANE!!! Any suggestions on what to do?! I've tried talking to him but nothing is changing

I checked my wife's data usage on tmobile.com and within the past few weeks she has been using 200+MB of data at weird times throughout the night and at times during the day when she is at work. I confronted her and she says she has no idea why it says that. So I downloaded a data usage tracker on her iPhone to try and find the cause of it, and once I downloaded the app and she knew I did, coincidently the huge amount of usage stopped for a day. But then it was right back to the same thing of using 200+Mb of data at odd times through the night and during the day. The data usage app uses a VPN and I have checked it a few times and so far twice the VPN/app has been shut off causing it not to track the usage. I confronted her and asked why it was shut off and both times she said she has no idea how it got turned off and said she does not even no how too. I believe something is going on but I am not sure what. Does anyone have any ideas on what she could be doing to use that amount of data??? I would greatly appreciate any feedback because this has been driving me crazy!!! I just checked her usage again on Tmobile and she used 657mb of data at 11am which was when she was on lunch break at work and she said she was in the cafeteria, and then used 300mb of data at 1:15pm which was 15min after she left work. Like what the heck could she possibly be doing?? I checked her phone and it said that 48% of her battery in the last 24 hours was used by recently deleted apps.... I checked to see if she had any apps hidden, and she does not. So I'm not sure what could possibly be using that amount of data