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Question: How do I deal with my roommate inviting her boyfriend all the time? Posted: 08 May 2018 05:07 PM PDT I'm an exchange student studying a year abroad in USA. I had a roommate at the beginning of 1st semester who was really nice but left as she got promoted as RA so she moved to a different flat on campus. Towards the end of 1st semester I got a new one. She is not so social. Whenever i invite friends over (not often) I would tell her beforehand but she wouldn't kindly repay me the favour. Many times my friends would want to visit but I would say sorry i have a roommate & it wouldn't be fair on her. Since she moved in she often invites her boyfriend. They try to predict my schedule but they don't know my schedule. I have a lot of free time but often choose to study in the library. Whenever I would see them I would leave the room and give them space. There were some days I felt sick and wanted to rest but because they were in the room I would leave feeling sick. Today I saw my them in the room again I thought to myself i'm not leaving. At the end of day I paid for my room so i can come to my room as much as I like. When they realised that I wasn't leaving, they started whispering like kids playing chinese whispers. I overheard the boyfriend saying, 'I should leave' then my roommate says, 'you don't have to leave' and then he says, 'it sucks'. Then he leaves, 10 minutes after he leaves she storms out of the room. This happened all because I came back home earlier than expected so they were angry. I was not mean and the only thing I said to them was 'hi'. |
Question: Is my best friend ignoring me? Or is she really busy with other priorities? Posted: 08 May 2018 04:27 PM PDT We have been best friends sense high school . We both went to college together but last year I dropped out and she did to we both work but we use to make time to see each other or even just talk on the phone or just text. This has been happening for a few months now. She's just been promoted to a manager at a fast food place about the same time she stopped hanging out with me. She didn't even wished me a happy birthday t me like she usually does. I don't have a car and she does. We are both working on moving out but now after not hearing from her/ hanging out idk she told me that she found someone else to Move out with awhile ago but she didn't tell me if she's even moved out yet. Idk if she won't tell me anything. I actually thought I made a best friend for once. When I always become friends with someone they always leave me within a few months she's the only one that has stuck by my side until now. I'm really am just thinking about suicide .... Ik ive posted a few suicidal questions in past but now I am really am questioning my life. My birthday sucked. One of My managers harassed me on my birthday and I just don't know what else to do ... I'm not really asking or pleading for help or wanting atttention. I've just had a hard life and when I thought my life may have turned around it goes back to hell . So I guess this is a two part question scenario I'd appreciate any advice on what I should do. |
Question: Best responses for miserable friend? Posted: 08 May 2018 04:22 PM PDT I have a friend (let's name her A) who has been trying to conceive for couple years now. I had a baby this January and my other good friend (let's name her B, also her sister in law) just found out she's pregnant. Friend A has been saying really horrible things about it. She says stuff like they shouldn't have children. Their marriage is toxic ( it's not ). She also says stuff like their only trying to get pregnant to save their marriage. (Seriously nothing wrong with their marriage...lol) friend A is being extremely obnoxious. I can't believe she can say that about her future niece. Anyways I've just been staying quiet changing the subject but she just can't let go. What would be some responses to her rude comments. |
Question: Why does my cousin and my sister have so much drama with their friends but I never do? Posted: 08 May 2018 04:11 PM PDT I'm a 14 year old boy - my cousin is in 5th grade herself and my sister is in 10th grade. They both have friends that are catty, crying and dramatic. Even 5 years apart, it's the same immaturity with these girls. Everything is a big deal, but neither one of them ever talk it out and deal with their problems instead of making others mad. I'm talking about two different groups of friends - 5 years apart, different schools, different situations... yet both are equally dramatic. The older kids can hide it more but it happens just as much. |
Question: Is my friend being reasonable? Posted: 08 May 2018 04:07 PM PDT My two friends haven't been talking to each other for 2 weeks. Let's call them A and B. A just got a boyfriend and she's been spending a lot of time with him. B and I don't mind that they're hanging out but we don't like how she always tells us she doesn't have time to hang out with us. One day B asked A to have a sleepover but A said she couldn't because she doesn't have the time. 3 days later A tells B that she lied to her mom saying she was going to B's house for a sleepover when she was going to her boyfriend's house. B is not only upset that A lied to her mom but because A has time to hang out with her boyfriend but not B. B thinks that she's annoying A so she distances herself from A and even tells her why she's doing that. NOW A is doing the same thing but we don't know why. We asked her why she stopped talking to B and she just ignores us. A talks to me but I hate how she's ignoring B without having a good reason. B doesn't want to lose her friend because she already lost her best friend before because they chose to be with their boyfriend and not with them. What's up with A? |
Question: Why did she end things with me???? Posted: 08 May 2018 03:44 PM PDT Im 22 and i met a girl last year at work, we would talk and text once in a while. but in late February we began talking more and more and we began to develop feelings for each other. we also started hanging out and we would always kiss, She admitted she was going through some personal problems on her life soo she wanted us to take our relationship slow.. But she always talked about being my girlfriend in the future. We would text everyday but Eventually I noticed she was giving me the cold shoulder for 1 whole week. Soo later She told me " I really like you but I just have no chemistry with you. I had fun hanging out with you because we hangout as friends but I'm sorry for hurting you.". We don't text anymore and she smiles at me at work but I can tell everything is awkward now. She even avoids me at work, I feel like there's more then when she told me......any advice please???????? I'm confused about this |
Question: I need someone to talk to? Posted: 08 May 2018 03:25 PM PDT I have nobody. |
Question: Why does it feel more offensive when someone points out your insecurities? Posted: 08 May 2018 02:31 PM PDT I don't get why? Like I know I'm insecure about some things and some things I need to fix and get better at and sometimes I'm able to joke about it with my friends but when my friend points out in a crowd that if I didn't something it "wouldn't be good" why does it kind of hurt my feelings? I KNOW I wouldn't be good at doing it but it still kind of hurt when that was said. Do you have any ideas? Thank you |
Question: My "friend" follows me everywhere, help? Posted: 08 May 2018 02:13 PM PDT There's a girl that was really just a classmate on good terms; let's call her Kate. Kate used to be friends with another girl, who we can call Lily. Kate and Lily would always be around each other. One day, they stopped being friends, and she auto clinged to me. At first, I had no issues. It was normal. Now, she's getting too clingy. At lunch, she sits right by me. When she first stopped being friends with the other girl, she tried to sit next to me, but another girl pointed out that other people were sitting there. Before, another girl sat next to me, but she had disputes with someone at our part of the table, and moved. Now, Kate quickly took her place. Everywhere i go, she follows. Taking the bus home, conversations, lunch line, even assemblies she sits next to me. When I talk to my main friends, she comes in the Convo and sits right next 2 me and awkwardly stands or sits there, only talking 2 me. She didn't even actually talk to me that much, before she and the other girl stopped being friends, and now she acts like my shadow. I can't even hang out with my main friends, cause she's always following me, and asking to hang out on half days, and I don't wanna be rude and say no, but we're nowhere near besties and she's acting like we're twin sisters. I don't wanna be rude, but how do i tell her that she's too clingy? I can't do anything without her glued to me, and I want to go back to hanging out with my other friends. Plz help ;_; |
Question: How do I help my friend through her heartbreak? Posted: 08 May 2018 12:46 PM PDT My close friend has recently not been herself because her best friend who she had a crush on started dating a a friend who was close to her. How could she get over this, and more importantly, how can I help? |
Question: What does it mean when a girl replies to a msg after 10 days? Posted: 08 May 2018 12:36 PM PDT I saw her on social media commenting on random posts so she probably was not busy |
Question: Was this funny or tacky? Posted: 08 May 2018 08:33 AM PDT I was at a wedding of a couple of my friends recently. They both have an unusual sense of humor. As the bride entered the back of the church, she was escorted down the aisle by her former husband. There was an audible gasp from the audience. When the minister asked who gives this woman ....... her former husband said I do. There was applause from the audience and some laughter. The theme of the wedding was out with the old and in with the new. Do you think that was funny or just plain tacky. |
Question: Why can't I bring myself to make a nasty remark to my old friend? Posted: 08 May 2018 08:00 AM PDT I used to have an old friend and he still owes me a lot of money. I sent him a few polite emails about paying me back. I got no response from him. I'm starting to get angry that him won't pay me back. I've been wanting to send him a nasty email now. Four years after he was in high school his mother passed away from breast cancer. Also his family is not normal either. On his wife's side they are religious nuts. Now I do want to write an angry email back to my ex friend saying "You deserve to have your mother dead." For some reason I can't bring myself to do that. I do want to say that his family are freaks. That is easier to say but I still can't bring myself to say that. |
Question: Why does this girl act weird in bed? Posted: 08 May 2018 07:20 AM PDT Im pretty confused about this girl. Weve been talking for 6 months now and everything is cool i think. We get along great and go out together a lot. She told me she likes me multiple times and is always all over me. But the thing is she's weird in the bedroom She told me when we first started talking that she's not as sexual as most girls. I thought "ok thats cool" so had sex various times not many times but we did mess around a lot too. I always last long. Like over 30 minutes each time. Its just difficult for me to reach an orgasm. She told me she doesn't like giving blowjobs. So i never get them from her. I ate her out a lot and made her orgasm so many times. She told me how "that was great" or shell just be so out of breath. But the PIV sex is awkward. The last time we did it i told her to get on top and she just sat on top and i had to really tell her to go up and down. She told me "it hurts"... she had one boyfriend before for a year and lost her virginity at 19. she's 21 now. Im 24. And when were having sex shell moan quietly but lay there like a dead fish sometimes. Other than that shell text me and always enjoy my company but man she acts so weird in bed. Also, the past 2 times We hung out she asked me to dinner and after i told her to come to my place to smoke and she was all weird about it, saying "i got to study for finals and pack" which is weird |
Posted: 08 May 2018 04:50 AM PDT Our friendship is three years old, it was healthy for two years, then this year, we became dependent on each other, we liked the feeling, but after a few months my best friend got out of that emotional dependency, i didn't, so i started being needy and overly emotional about our fights, I was terrified of losing her and being replaced, one day she decided to end things with me, for good, after endless nights of crying and guilt, I wrote her a letter apologizing for my needy behavior and told her I would change, I really meant it, she said that she forgives me but she doesn't want me in her life anymore, now I'm just so depressed and regret everything I did, what should I do? |
Question: My friend is gay, why did he have to come out..? Posted: 08 May 2018 02:02 AM PDT Man, I feel weirded out by the fact my own close friend is some homosexual. You see I've known him since we were little kids and now we're 17, and he tells me that isn't into girls and he said "I'm sorry about this". This is just too much for me. I don't mind homosexuals, as long as my OWN friends aren't one. Yea I know that's a bit rude or judge mental, but what can I say? |
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Question: Is it normal to complain about your best friend? Posted: 07 May 2018 10:45 PM PDT A few days ago my best friend who is female asked me to go to her friend's party with her. She then told me that she will ask her if I can join. She didn't inform me. I was angry at the fact that my friend didn't inform me that she said no. I also saw that she changed her profile picture to her with her friend at the party. I was complaining about it to a close friend, a cousin and my parents. I didn't hear from her the whole Sunday. My anxiety was also getting the best of me. I was thinking a worse case scenario. Yesterday evening she texted me, telling me that she was busy with her college assignments and it was putting her under tremendous pressure and stress. It's also ruining her life in a way due to the fact that her study group is making her do most of the work. She is coming to my birthday party this week and I'm nervous to see her as it has been 6 weeks since I have seen her. But anyways is it normal to complain about your best friend? Is this a part of being friends? |
Question: Why do others want to compete with me instead starting a friendship? Posted: 07 May 2018 10:40 PM PDT I have the hardest time making friends because of this. Others always want to out do me in everything I say and do |
Posted: 07 May 2018 09:13 PM PDT She has two friends who are always over and they're very annoying. I just got back from college and am staying with my parents till next year. Like they're dumb pranks like putting a note in my mailbox, pretending someone broke in her house and just being obnoxious. Her parents are both deceased so she lives with her brother who's in his mid 30's. He's VERY strict so when she's with him she'll behave like an angel but when he'll leave she'll be a devil again. She honestly is a good kid she's kind, innocent, and naive. She doesn't party or drink/ do drugs. So obviously I'd rather have her as a neighbor then a rebellious teen. It's hard to remember she's 16 since she looks so young and acts so young. Should I tell her brother? I just don't want him to be too harsh since he's EXTREMELY strict and is always yelling at her for the dumb things and overreacts. I know she's young and thinks it's funny and isn't doing it in a malicious way but it gets annoying. What should I do?? |
Question: I don’t fit into any particular groups...? Posted: 07 May 2018 07:38 PM PDT I'm a junior in high school and I still have yet to find a friend group. I don't really have interests besides doing my makeup and sleeping. I occasionally smoke weed which kicks me out of the group of kids who are more religiously or acedemically motivated, but I find a lot of the other kids who do smoke kind of annoying and obsessive about it. I absolutely hate sports and theater, and the art kids make me cringe. I have my boyfriend who's mother hates me, a friend from my school that my dad has banned me from seeing, and an old friend from California that I visit once or twice a year. I've found out that most people actually find me annoying because I can get a little loud sometimes when I get excited (I often don't speak at home so when I'm around ppl that I feel comfortable with it all just sort of comes out). I literally have no idea how to make friends at this point in my life and I'm starting to think I actually might be autistic (I'm not joking I'm actually concerned) because I don't really understand a lot of social ques. I really just want to be liked by people and make friends but it's getting really ******* hard and I'm starting to think it's way too late for me to be learning how to socialize. |
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