Hey guys. So i texted this girl if she wanna hang out but she was like " I wanna have a thing over the summer but nothing serious" what does that mean

I got into Job Corps, and I'm debating whether or not I should tell my mom. She's schizophrenic and refuses to get help. She physically abused me and my little sister and her visitation rights were taken away when I was 10. I told her that I won't talk to her until she accepts that she has schizophrenia and gets help, so obviously I wouldn't tell her directly. I would ask my aunt to tell her. I would make it perfectly clear that I don't want her visiting me, and I'll tell the people running Job Corps not to let her in even if I DON'T tell her, just in case she finds out somehow. (Surely there have been other students who were abused by one or both parents.) Should I tell her?

I still miss my mama like crazy and it's almost Mother's Day and I'm spending it with a family that isn't mine .

I'm 19 and have a part time job 20-30 hours a week in a clothes shop. I am currently full time in college also studying pharmacy studies . My parents constantly tell me I'm not doing anything with my life that my college isn't a good enough college and my job isn't good enough either . It's reslly putting me down and make me feel really low. I'm doing my best . I can't become a qualified doctor overnight at 19 . Need some advice on how to handle this situation

Like since middle school, she use to scream at me of i gain weight. She wanted me to be beautiful, and she use to buy me clothes and do my hair and get medicine for acne. We are Lebanese, and she thinks beauty is VERY important. She use to hit me if i gained weight. But I am very shocked why she thinks my beauty is so important. These days nobody marries a girl unless she is in college.

Let me explain. I'm a senior graduating college and my parents come up to see me. I'm not very close with them. I was up all night enjoying my last night at college. I just got a call from my mom and she swore at me 50 times saying that I better let her in and using vulgar words, threatening she had to take a piss and would pound on the door and embarrass me if I don't let her in. What should I do?

So when my dad would love on me, he would touch me in less...common or appropriate areas and then he'd deny that he even did it right to my face and he'd throw himself a little pity party where he's the victim and I'm just overreacting. He also gets super upset for no reason and I always assume its my fault because it usually is...One day I got fed up and I decided that I wanted him out of my life, and that's exactly what I did. I told my mother that he was still being clingy and overbearing (also like to mention that he shows her 0 affection which makes me feel like he's legit trying yo cheat on her with me) and so after she found out, she called my dad up in the middle of the day saying that they needed to talk about something later and he decides to drag me in his office and vent to me about how they're probably going to end up splitting up because of me. WELL SOORY YOU'RE a FCKING PERV *shrugs*. SO ya. Now he does nothing but mope around and dictate me all because I wouldn't be his little sexual/emotional teddy bear for him to lean on for support. It's sick. I'm tired of it. I'm aware that I have made some very hurtful decisions towards him, but geez. That doesn't give him ground to stand on to grope me. Can't believe I'm saying this but I think I hate him. I've been craving to ruin his life for months now. Every time I grew angry at him, it's all I wanted to do. I've accepted the fact that I'm probably evil, and I'm proud of it...It's whatever ig.

I am always called lazy, selfish, stupid, etc. I am a college student that has class everyday, makes all A's, &has two jobs. I pay my car insurance and phone bill every month. Everyday I'm woken up by 7am to my mom bitching. Whether it be to do the dishes that weren't there before I went to bed, or to do my 15yo brothers chore by taking out the trash. My brother has no consequences. At a young age, I was told that I cannot date until I was 17. My younger brother has been allowed to date whenever. I have seen him do different drugs, picked him up from sneaking out at 4am,&opened the door for a police officer bringing him home at 2am from sneaking out &walking around the neighborhood with his friend. When I confront my mom about his actions, she's not phased &never gives any consequences. When we are w/family, she talks about how terrible of a person I am& fails to give the troublesome details about her son. My boyfriend has been living in my house for a few months due to his home being flooded in the hurricane. However, he's now moving back home and I am debating moving in with him. I am afraid that my mom will try to do something psychotic if I move. She has done things like this before. Ex).getting my dad, who is most of the time not in my life, to terrorize me. She might tell him to stop paying for my college, which is the least he can do for me. I have two small siblings that live with her. I'm afraid that she will threaten me ¬ let me see them. I'm 18.What should I do?

your mother is deceased or you are estranged from your own children?

My daughter is 16 - she's always been a few years behind in emotional maturity ever since early childhood. I worry about the day she turns 18 or in her 20's. It's estimated that she would have the maturity of a 14 or 15 year old girl by then. She may struggle even more with adulthood. Most young adults are staying at home longer these days, but even then, I wonder how she will cope. If you put a 9th grader with college age students every day and must do some things on their own, they'll most likely struggle a lot. Her schoolwork is great and she's on top of that. It's just the social and emotional skills that are delayed. I don't think having the maturity of a 12 year old girl is helping her make friends with other people her age either.

Okay, so I'm a military wife. I've been wanting to start a family for a while. But I've been thinking about going back to college. I thought about going to college and being pregnant, but that seems easier said then done. My husband actually wants to start trying once were together again. The college course I would take would only take a year (maybe a half). Anyways please help, not sure what to do.

My father bought me a pair of yoga tights and a top for my yoga classes and gym. He told me to send him pictures in them, which he usually demands when buying me new clothes. I didn't really want to as they are pretty tight... I'm also underweight and they make me look even skinnier. I took a decent picture and sent it after my father insisted again. He said "I dont understand how they fit you (I told him they fit me very well), send more that are more clear" after which I felt very disgusted...my father texted that as if he was a creep. I told him I don't want to take any more. Do you think it is normal?

Now lemme just say, I do love my dad no matter what. But sometimes it feels like I don't. Ever since I was a kid until maybe my early 13yr age, he had a quick temper and got irritated quickly. I always tried to talk to him, ask questions, and ask if he would do something with me. He has responded with some offensive things, including a time all I did was walk in the room and he said "(My name) go back down stairs I just need some alone time. It's how he said it, that's what got me. Not long ago me my mom and my dad were watching Lord of the rings. Legolas came up on screen and I went "Woah", by accident out loud. They both looked at me but then looked back at the screen. When they were in battle I asked did he die and my dad said "Who, the white one?" I was.. EXTREMELY offended. Cuz first of all I didn't know race mattered (I am African American), and second he said it out loud. Anytime I liked someone who was white he would point it out. He even thought that I thought that Caucasian people were better than us AND I NEVER SAID THAT! Sometimes I like him, and sometimes it feels like I don't. There are a lot of things I could say about him on this, but it's too much to type. Anyway I felt like I forgave him, but I feel like I didn't. And I don't know what's up with me. (I'm 14 btw)

He's 6 years older than me. (I'm 20, he's 26) We just sort of started talking just a normal conversation. I told him I think it's bad idea to purse anything other than a friendship but he asked me out. He's close with my brother and i know my brother would freak out. He said he wants to talk to my brother about taking me out. I'm so scared I told him not to, and that we should just stay friends to avoid drama. What do I do? What if he tells my brother?

i am 15 and my sister is 14 . i have a Jeweled Moray Eel and my sister went to feed it some shrimp when i was not looking and she stuck her whole hand in the tank. When I saw her I said " hey dumba$$ there is a reason I use feeding tongs. that eel might bight you. They do not have good eyesight".

I'm sitting in traffic right now thinking about how great it is, realizing It represents love and connection with other people. Like why would you want to go to Burning Man for a spiritual awakening when you can just sit on the 101- south and connect with other people ? through the motor oil producing exhaust pipe You can breath in the positive spiritual exhaust fumes which will produce a surge of serotonin and happy thoughts. Sweating in stop and go traffic in a 100 degree car is just the gorgeous mist of the river of life. Yes that's it now get me out of this god dam car

I still love them, but they put so much stress on me. I'm not afraid of my mom, because I'm used to her slapping me to the point it doesn't hurt anymore. My dad on the other hand will push me across the room, throw me onto the floor, and he spanks me (which leaves bruises) for something stupid like not answering a question, but in all fairness he was mad at me at the time. My older brother acts superior to me. He once spilled burning candlewax on me because I was "back talking" and Hit me on the back because I wanted to see my birthday cake. Also my parents make me go to a sport I absolutely hate, and if I don't I get punished. Now before anyone says "try talking with them in a calm manner" I have. They just got mad at me and told me I was crazy if I thought they were bad parents, (which I didn't even say.) And before anyone says "Talk to a teacher or someone you trust about it." I am homeschooled so I can't talk to a teacher, and I hardly ever get to go out, because my parents are overprotective. And before you say "Call the cops or child services." I still deeply love my parents and I do not want them to end up in jail. They say this may be abuse in the law's eyes, but (since theyre Christian) they say that this is what god wants, just because of some verse in the bible saying something like "spare the rod, not the child." I am suicidal. I've been cutting, and my mom caught me once, then says how I am only doing it for pity and she doesn't care if I cut myself.

Two years ago in June I moved into my apartment. I was 18 and the youngest leasee. There are a few families with little kids but among the grownups, at the time I was the youngest. The lady across the hall from me is 77. She's older than my grandmother was. When I moved in within the week she baked me a loaf of zucchini bread as a welcome to the building kind of gift. For a few months that was about all the contract we had except to say hi in passing. After a few months she poked her head out of her apartment and ask if I would bring up a couple 12 packs of cola she got at the supermarket. We live on the third floor. I told her it wouldnt be a problem and if she would let me know when she was going to go to the market, I'd help her bring up her groceries so she wouldn't have to wait. Then she started bringing me leftovers. Stuff she would throw out otherwise. Since about the first of the year she's mentioned several times how good looking I am (Im alright looking.) Then things got kind of weird over the weekend. I was going out when she was coming u p with her mail. I was wearing shorts and a polo and she told me the polo needed pressing. I told her I didn't even own an iron. After trying to put her off i gave her my shirt and she said she'd be back in a few minutes when she gave it to me and I was putting it on she said, "I suspect that men of your generation are not as particular about who they take their bed as they were in my generation." At that point I told her I was going to be late meeting friends and had to go. I've avoided her ever since. I go back and forth from thinking that I just took it the wrong way to thinking she is seriously hitting one me. The whole thing is .....ICK!

I'm having a hard time dealing with my mother's death. She died in June of last year. Since I was 10 years old my mother had been abusing prescription medication and alcohol for 12 years. I never got to be a child because I was scared I would find my mom dead. She was bipolar, she would be very nasty to me at times, shouting at me to kill myself, I was the worst mistake of her life, ugly, a failure ect. At other times my mom would be fine. I really feel like I never actually got to have a mom, and yet none the less, I loved her like she was the best mother in the world. Sometimes when I was a teenager she would be high on her medication and I would get so upset about it and she would yell at me, or hit me, or kick me out of the house. I'm filled with so much regret because I wished her dead to her face so many times when she would treat me that way, My mother had a troubled youth and was in foster care, and tried to kill herself once at the age of 15 by jumping off a bridge onto a highway, but just ended up killing other people instead. She tried to kill herself twice that year before she died, but I found her both times and called 911. I was by her side everyday trying to help her but I wasn't enough and she finally overdosed because she didn't feel loved. I don't know how to deal with this. I wasn't enough for my mom to want to live. She thought I hated her no matter how much I showed I didn't. I feel guilty and empty all at the same time.

My 20-year-old cousin has the most unnecessary rules. I went over her house to spent time with her and family. Her mom said I could go upstairs to her room until she comes back from work. I've seen a piece of paper taped to her wall with my name on it. Rules said, 1. I have to clean up her room if I make a mess 2. Don't sit on "her" bed 3. No one isn't allowed to touch my "her" things 4. I have to cook your food since she had to cook for me since she was over my house. 5. If I break my "her" stuff, I will have to pay for the damages When I told my mom about it and I sent her the picture, my mom said that going too far. I shouldn't do anything, her mom and dad aren't helping at all. I have rights to do what I want, I don't need her permission to do anything or what not.

So for a long time i have always gotten the short end of the stick in terms of my immediate family. I got the least attention and because i wasnt exactly the way my mom wanted to be, she talked down to me a lot. Didnt agree with what i wanted to go to school for, where i wanted to go to school, etc. I hardly had a social life in high school bc she always got pissed when i went somewhere or had someone over. She even accused me of being pregnant because i had the stomach virus and dragged me to the dr just to be told i had the stomach virus all because she was paranoid due to one of my sisters having gotten pregnant a couple times and losing the baby in high school. Anyway, after i graduated , i got into a serious relationship with my now fiance and started to live my own life. However, my eldest sister was not ok with it and started saying things about him that are not true at all and trying to make people hate him (keep in mind she is 7 years older than me and has 3 children).

a) yes b) no When you answer, can you give me an explanation?

My husband and I are Christians. He claims that he is "spiritually accountable for me" and can tell me what to do and force me to do things because of his leadership role. I have told him that when we were separated, it was not appropriate morally and legally that his parents spread lies that I have aids/stds/cheated based on screenshots they illegally took from my iCloud. That said, he is "rewarding bad behavior" (Dr Phil always says not to do this) by allowing his parents to traipse around and see the kids behind my back this weekend without my blessing. He tells me that I am "not allowed to dig up the past and hold others accountable and that he will not be doing that to his parents". Yet, in the next move, he is trying to get me to forcible apologize when I was not the one who lied to relatives 1200 miles away about cheating that never happened. My reputation is tarnished & my husbands entire family hates me because of lies his parents told when they were angry. They have said I am not allowed @ their home and tried to shanghai him into divorcing me, which he would not do. 1) is he really allowed to boss me around and hold me accountable 2) should he be demanding or insisting that his parents apologize and "make it right" with me based on their slanderous remarks. Now he is going back saying he would be able to press charges against my mom for past things and projecting about stuff that is not even related to the situation with his folks! I told him when he came back that I will be #1 in his life NOT his parents and that he will be defending me. He thus far has only told them off once. Should they be allowed 2 see the kids given their repeated character assassination on me and continual bringing up of personal things I did from a decade ago "Olga hung out with an ex boyfriend at the mall years ago." They had apologized for bringing themselves into that personal matter before only now to "dig up old bones" and harp in it again. They do this a lot!

My parents are divorced for 5-6 years and I ve lived with my mom the whole time. My dad lives close and I see him often. Recently my mom lost her job due to her employers letting people go. She cant find a job in her field anywhere around here so she is moving across the country for a job very soon My sibling (who is only 20) is moving back home. I will have an entire 5 bedroom huge house with a 2 acre yard to me and my sibling. I am not coping very well. I feel awful for my mom because she doesn t want to go but she feels as though this is the only way she can provide for us. I am going to miss her a lot and I am horrified of the responsibilities ahead of me. I am only 16.