My mom just came in my room and told me that I should have cleaned the litterbox even though I told her I didnt have time today because I was really busy.- I know its really asshole like to not clean it but I had really important things to do. So anyway- she got mad at me and said if I forgot to clean the litterbox again she d put the **** on my bed, is that allowed? Please tell me it isnt

Me and my sister who is a year younger than me share a room. Im the "neat freak" so I'm always the one keeping the room clean whenever possible. Actually I'm the main one that keeps it clean. I would have to ask her to clean up. She doesn't take any initiative. But whenever I clean up our room, she always gets upset when I move one of her things. I usually keep her items safe and a convenient location but I don't remember where I put them because I'm too busy keeping our room clean and organized. I try to talk to her about helping me keeping our room clean but she really never listens. She just continues to complain about me moving her things(even though it is in the way!) But how can me and my sister fix this??? I do like keeping my area clean. Makes me feel comfortable.

I'm 20 and I live at home with my 3 sisters. My little sister is 18 and my older sisters are 21and 25. our father is trying to kick us out. I work 3 days a week and have 4 classes in school. My little sister Is a senior in high school and he says she can stay here but we have to go because we arent doing anything. But that's not true. My oldest sister is starting college and working and my other sister just got a job. I'm his son and I feel like he doesn't care about me. I just hope he isn't serious because I need a place to stay and I'd be comfortable here. How can I let my father know that he's putting me in a bad spot. It's just so hard to talk to my dad and we have don't really get along because he's an alcoholic and thinks he's right about anything.

so i went into foster care since my mother and bio father are drug addicts and alcoholics. and now i live with my aunt and uncle. so i am supposed to stay away from my parents. well 2 days ago i saw my mom at casey's and she said my name so i would go over to where she was. well i said my brothers name and he looked over and saw her. he said let's go. so i went with my brother and his friend and i just broke down. i haven't seen her in almost a year.

my son keeps impersonating ben shapiro and it's getting anoying, he's pushed the boundary and i'm starting to think about moral punishment. how do i stop him?

My father is the definition of douche. He kicked out my oldest sister when she was 19 over her being a lazy teen, just because he is a neatfreak and always has been. He's called my 2nd oldest sister a ***** more times then he's been drunk. (That's saying a lot). He calls me "toxic *****" when my mom isn't around. and he emotionally manipulates my little sister. He will be screaming curses and my mom in the front lawn, and the very next night be so excited to play on the worship team. and my mom excuses him.i get it. He was beaten by his dad when he was a kid, but my best friend has been beaten by his father, and he's the sweetest person i know. (don't worry they kicked their dad to the curb). but my oldest sister still takes me and my sisters to lunch often enough, and we talk then, and we text often. Last week i told her about how i'd gotten really fed up of him treating us like crap and then demanding respect, and i FINALLY told him what i thought of him. (i used to be very shy and just grit my teeth and nod when he'd yell). I've become more of a target for his raging. He gets drunk and passes out, and yesterday, while we where gone he passed out while making dinner on the stove, we came home with smoke everywhere. i told my sister and she said she was going to talk to her friends who've gone to rehab, and some friends who work there. Did i screw up by telling her?

hit us with belts and slapping anything he could use to hit us with, once he hit me with a washing machine plastic tube it bruised my body. As I grew older I started feeling uncomfortable he would touch and bite me a lot I remember once when I was very young I was with him in bed and he licked/suckled my ear in a disgusting way and then I remember saying it tickles I was a child I didn't know any better I told him to do it again when he said no its not good if it tickles after that I understood and I took space but he would always make me feel weird few years passed he was biting me again then he gave me a hickey that was so brusied it was huge and purple on my neck. now I'm 19 I wear baggy clothes and I see him looking at my body whenever he wants to hug me I just bring my hands on my breasts so he doesn't "accidentally" touch my breasts whenever he tries kissing me or hugging me I feel nauseous. sometimes If I'm ducking to get something he slaps my butt in a very disgusting way so basically, I do nothing at home I just try to stay away from him. What makes me angry is that he was a bad father always humiliating us he slapped me in public I used to pee a lot in myself from the fear I had from him my father was a sadistic man anyway Ive asked my sister about it and she says she feels very uncomfortable around him too he kisses her & my shoulders and back in a disgusting way and even licked. If both of us are feeling something I think that there is something going is there?

He told me to "go get my job back" bc he didn't like that I was asking him for money. Now, he is upset that I got a job

My brother, has burned every breach family wise. including we now for the 3rd time. I needed his help, at first, but like before, pays the rent, for a few months, then is late, then is short and then misses rent. In the past I let go for a few months of missed payments. but now he missed last months, and is already late for this month so I told him he had to go. Besides no rent he has not bought house hold items, or basic food. So even when he pays the rent I only make out with $100. When I said he had to go, he threatened to kill himself. And mentioned he tried once before. Note he does drugs, and gambles. He makes $1000 more then I do, but uses most on drugs. If I cover his rent he does not care, its just more money for drugs.

would it be weird?

I'm currently living with my parents and it's making me feel really depressed. My stepdad is super controlling of my mom and everything should be the way he wants it to be. Around 2 years ago, he saw me talking to a male classmate and called me a slut. My mom told me I had to apologize for being a slut. I never even had a boyfriend at the time to be called that. I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and 9 months and I only get to see him when my mom thinks it's ok. My curfew is 5:30 or 6 the latest. Or else she yells at me and says I shouldn't be out so long. She's defended my brother from my stepdad but she's never defended me. I do everything she asks me to but I'm the one constantly being yelled at. She says I should "live life" but rarely lets me go out. "Living life" to her means staying home and cleaning. She doesn't want me to be a housewife but that's all she's taught me to be. She's never taught me anything because she says cleaning is the most important thing I'd ever need to know. I've asked her to show me but instead she wants me to take classes to help my stepdad with his business. She justifies not letting me do things because I'm a girl and I should be at home, not out in the streets. Recently, she found out that I was going to enlist in the army and she said she'd be devastated if I'd leave. When it comes to my brother, she always brings up God and she never really says anything bad about him, but when it's about me, God is out of the picture.

Let's say you have a 19 year old daughter who's dating a 18 year old male who cross dresses, models and he makes porn videos of himself jerking of while dressed like a woman. Your daughter loves him and they're like best friends. What would you do?

My sister recently has moved out with her boyfriend and my mom really hates him. My sister will come over sometimes and chat with us, but she won't let her boyfriend come over at all, even though my sister and her boyfriend have children together. I've asked my mom if I could go visit my sisters place to hang out with her, because I barely see her now that she's moved out, but my mom flat out refuses it. How do I convince her to let me visit my sister sometime?

Hello! I have a quick family question, along the lines of stepmothers. My father divorced a woman a long time before I was born (having 2 children) which means I have 2 step sisters under my father. Then he remarried to my current mother and they adopted both my younger sister and I (reminder: we weren't born when they were married and had kids) Is his previous wife my younger sister's and my step-mom or something else?

https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20180506231138AAVcwPE This is the explanation i asked on another question. I left my gf because of her habit and I want to get full custody of my son. I read that to get full custody i have to prove that his mother is unfit. I hate to do it like this but she needs to stop and get herself straight and I'm going to do whatever it takes to get my son since she's more concerned about weed. If she finally comes to her senses later then we will talk but as far right now I'm leaving. I just need help with the next steps. Weed is legal here And it's her right but i refuse my son or me to be second to some plant.

I'm a 13 year old boy. Mom wants to be my 16 year old sister's best friend- but I fix things and am expected to be strong/powerful. My mom blames things on me even if it's not my business. She doesn't even know my sister like I do! I know that she has body image issues and who she likes to hang out with. My mom doesn't, she just convinced my sister that she's her "friend" by making her run errands with her, shopping with her. My sister doesn't ask for much, but my mom asking her to pick a snack or a little accessory is enough to get her tagging along. Ever since I started looking older, I started having to be stronger too. My mom doesn't know our personal lives, really. I'm just the kid who has to be like a grown man, and my sister is just the girl that has to do stuff with her. Now that I'm thinking, does this have to do with gender? I mean, it could be that I look like my father? Or that my sister just looks smaller and acts quieter, so it seems easy to please her since she never speaks up?

He gets mad for no reason on things. Spending time with my mom and sister and we make some noise, he'll shout and start complaining. We're driving and looking for a parking spot and some people are walking too slow, he'll get frustrated and start yelling. He's obsessed with peoples appearances and says stuff like "look at her nose she's so ugly" "look at his nose he looks so ugly" "she's a good actress but she's fat" and he HATES most black people and calls them trash. He thinks our culture is superior to American trash and our values are more. And he thinks I should have no competition in school because i'm competing with "white people." (yet, high school is super hard) He's always complaining and always mad & I don't want to learn from him. But I feel like I AM. I feel mad when people do stuff extremely slowly like he does. The only different thing is I hide it. I'm also starting to talk like him. I DON'T WANT TO BE LIKE HIM! What do I do?

Their mother, my Mom's late uncle's widow, was a mean person. She called her kids names like "stupid" or "idiot" or "retard". She was a despicable person. She died last weekend and she leaves behind three kids all adults now. Two of the adults are screwed up because of her evil ways while one, the only son, turned out okay as his grandfather took him in. How does my Mom reach out to these cousins now free of their despicable mother? There are also 6 grandkids. Their father died when I was just a baby so I didn't know him but he apparently was a despicable person also who belittled his kids, hated blacks, and likely went to hell when he died like she probably did. Not one tear was shed at her funeral Friday.

I officially hate my family. My mom doesn't feed me because i don't do good in school. But i'm not failing just not doing so good. I don't tell my mom the password to my grades because she is absolutely crazy like she starts to take all my things, break all my things and hit me. i avoid talking to her by going outside and coming home late everyday. i never get a call saying come home for dinner or get some money. My parents both are financially stable, we live in a middle class to top class neighborhood. i'm surrounded by kids who get whatever they want and always have money. she refuses to buy me anything until my grades are good but its hard for me, i try really hard to come home to my mom yelling at me. sometimes when i yell back, my parents decide to lock me out of the house and make me sleep in the backyard and i live in new york so it gets pretty cold. This is very stressful and i decided to get a job but school is in the way of that. At this point im thinking about calling a family member and gonna ask if i can stay there but that will be very getting to school and stuff. I just hope someone can give me an idea on what to do.

Was it good or bad. I was miserable yesterday morning and then my aunt came to get me and I was fine through Noon today. I've been miserable for 6 hours today but now my Mom and siblings are home and I feel fine.

My aunt claimed my Mom was trying to win over her husband. My Mom says this was ridiculous as does my Dad. My parents are mostly estranged from this trouble maker aunt. So how do I know if my Dad still trusts my Mom or if he might secretly think my Mom did try to cheat with her sister's husband? Her sister's husband is nice but very ignorant.

I'm her little sister so I can't exacty get alcohol and my parents are strict parents so not a option I need something to buy and I can't spend like a insane amount of money

I have 77 people who RSVP'd yes and last year it was only 41 people. How do I entertain. It will be little kids, older adults, and some college age 1st cousins. Some of the 77 will likely back out between now and July and others will RSVP yes who haven't yet or come unexpectedly. Half the people I have only met two other times my whole life as they are 2nd and 3rd cousins.

Father has primary custody of the children during the school year. Mother and Father share during the summer 50/50. Mother and father have divided the holidays. Mother sees them every other weekend from 6pm Friday through Sunday at 6pm. Here is where there is a disagreement. Mother chose to move 200 miles away. She wants to be able to take the children to her residence on her weekend visits with the children during the school year. This would mean the children would be on the road 8 hours of their weekend. This involves both parents driving the children 1/2 way. The other alternative is that mother visits the children near their home and stay at a motel with them. Father would compensate for 1/2 travel and lodging. Your thoughts please as what you think would benefit the children the most?

Honestly I never thought I might be, until recently I started taking driving lessons and my instructor told to me to let go of the wheel in order to see how the car behaves and I went batshit crazy, almost yelled at him that he was crazy. wtf. it wasn't intentional.

she says she will use one tonight so what is it

Edit: What the heck? What is wrong with your daughter whispering something to you, are you guys crazy??

From the divorce my mom got me and my dad gets to pick me up from my moms and take me home to hang out with him on every other weekend and then bring me back to my mother at the end of the weekend. The thing is,my dads job is always getting in the way of me getting to get a full weekend with him or even a weekend at all. For example, this weekend I was supposed to be with him but his job held him back and made him work the whole weekend. Is this actually legal? I am just a kid but it doesn't feel right....

I sent videos of my husband and I having sex to his mother I totally regret it and can't take back what I did... it's a long story on what pushed me that far to do something so messed up but is there any way I can make it up to her? She's Muslim they are from Algeria and I know she's hating me right now I really love my husband but he's so secretive. Some times I think he's only with me for his green card but I'm not too sure but he seems to actually love me. I'm American (African American) please help me is there anything I can do to make it up to her?