Family: Question: Grandmother won't let me go to school?

Question: Grandmother won't let me go to school?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 01:30 PM PST

I am in 8th grade and take the bus every morning and afternoon. Currently my parents on are on a cruise and have enlisted my grandma to take care of me. I just want to say first of off that I really hate this woman .Ever since she has been here she has been nothing but crass , Racist, and her voice sounds like gargling rocks. She also happens to have a fear of the "downtown area" because it's "n-word ville" (she actually says the n-word when talking about my school no matter where we are and my whole family is white.) My bus driver is constantly late and sometimes doesn't even show up. Usually my mom will have to drive me once every two weeks to school or from school which is no big deal for me and not really for her either. Although due to my grandmas "phobia" she says that if the bus doesn't show up she won't drive me and won't take me home either. So on Tuesday the bus didn't show up in the morning so my grandma made us stay home. I missed two tests that day and would have had to make them up on Wednesday but she bought three bus wouldn't show up again so she's been keeping me at homenuntil my parents return (3 weeks) I'm not going to school. I have tried everything with this woman and since my parents are overseas I cannot contact them in any way. I really want to sneak out tommorow morning and go to school but if he doesn't pick me up this afternoon I may be stranded at school. She told me if I went to school she'd call the police before she drove there to get me.

Question: My brother acts like hes my parent?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 01:25 PM PST

my brother is 25 and still lives at home and he constantly yells at me for not cleaning my room or other chores that HE gives me. i am so sick and tired of it. just now he texted me and yelled at me but i dont know why he thinks he has to right to yell at me, i know hes older but its so annoying he acts like he is in charge of me. should i confront him? or what do i do

Question: Should I tell my dad I bought a shot gun?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 12:46 PM PST

I'm 30 and a female who is in college while living with parents. My parents live in a bad neighborhood so I decided to buy a shotgun. Only thing is my parents are against having guns in house. Should I tell my dad? If so how should I tell him? I'm a very attractive so I have weird guys following me to my home.

Question: Have I had a 'bad' or 'rough' life?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 12:40 PM PST

I know many people have had a much worse life but in my situation I'm unsure whether it's bad or not as I'm used to it and haven't known any different. My mum is an alcoholic and constantly verbally and mentally abuses me, and on rare occasions has hit me. She will be drunk for weeks and insult and disown me then sober up and not even say sorry. Once my elder brother asked me (age 10) to look after my mother. So I stood in her room watching her whilst she was downstairs.she yelled at me to get out so I stood in the hallway. She continues to yell so I stand again the banister. She then comes up to me and places her hands around my neck in attempt to strangle me and I scream. At that point my brother ended up rugby tackling her to save me. We also ended up playing piggy in the middle with the house keys. I threw them to my brother but my mum thought I still had them and bent my fingers back. She once threatened to stab my dad. She also kidnapped me many times. I walk in town and police officers know my name. I once had to call the police and get her arrested because her and her alcoholic boyfriend were fighting my dad, sister and auntie. She's turned up drink many times. Once I got the blame for my best friend being bullied and she smacked me around her face. I had a social worker for 5 years and I am required to keep a police officers number in my contacts list. There are MANY more situations I could ramble on about. Is my life rough? Thanks!!

Question: Is my anger at my flatmates justified?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 12:27 PM PST

I live in a flat with 4, other people, we all get on really well and are always hanging out - we rarely argue. However lately there's one thing that's really bugging me. The two girls keep going in my room without asking. They don't, as far as I know, do it for any malicious reasons, just to take out the plugs, make sure I've turned off heaters and didn't leave any candles on. (I'm usually away for few days at a time) But they don't ask for permission. I noticed for the first time last month and very firmly told them that I wasn't okay with it, they had to ask first. But they don't see it as a big deal at all. And they're mad that I'm mad at them for it. Maybe I'm just being overly private but the idea of someone being in my room without my knowledge or permission makes me angry. I'm a paying member of the flat, not a family member. We're not allowed locks on the doors otherwise I'd lock it. So, is my anger justified, or are they right and I should just leave it be? My heater, lights, candles and plug sockets are always off when I leave, they go into my room to check.

Question: Is this a stupid idea for 2 month anniversary?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 12:18 PM PST

My Girlfriend is staying over at mine for the first time the morning after is our 2 month anniversary... I was thinking about doing something small such as running her a bath with candles, petals with the number 2 in the center and then getting her new shower gel and a new cloth (I know it's sounds so stupid) but WHAT DO YOU THINK?

Question: I hate myself. My parents and my friends hate me. I want to die but I believe that suicide is not a good option to choose at your 16.. help?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 12:18 PM PST

THE PROBLEM HERE IS THAT my parents always yell at me, even if my brother did sth wrong. I can't handle this anymore. Today I was eating and I asked my mum if I could have some more because I was hungry and I hadn't eat anything all day, and she said "what do u mean??Isn't your stupid stomach full yet??" I didn't know what to say.. that was. i don't know what to say about that..so I told her that I didn't ate much.. she told me to shut up...after that, a few minutes ago, I helped my brother with his hw.. and my parents started yelling at me, bcause I helped him.. when I don't help him they yell at me, I get it, but why are they yelling at me now? They told me a lot of mean stuff about me I HAVE NO IDEA WHY and after that I told my mother to yell at my brother because he is the naughty one not me.. and then my father wished I was dead. THAT COMPLETELY BROKE ME. THEY CAN'T SEE MY BROTHER'S FAULTS THEY ONLY BLAME ME FOR EVERYTHING. I DON'T WANT TO LIVE WITH THEM ANYMORE.. I'M TIRED OF CRYING, CUTTING MY SKIN, TAKING PILLS AND HOPING TO SLEEP FOREVER. I JUST CAN'T ...this is not about my parents.. my friends replaced me with someone else and due to my silence they told me that I ruin their day because I look miserable. I don't talk with anyone that much. I like silence. This is me. I also tried to be more social but I find it really difficult. I also am very sensitive and I take everything so heavily.. please tell me what to do with my life because I can't live like this anymore.

Question: Disappointment?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 11:49 AM PST

This is my first year in college , and I was caught cheating , so am suspended for a semester , and when I told my parents they were shocked , and my mom started crying , I felt so guilty , I wanna succeed next year and make them proud , but am so sad and guilty right now :(

Question: I did something that I would die to take back?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 11:26 AM PST

As a teenager with parents I my mom has always been "mean" to me and I couldn't take it anymore. I was so desperate that I talked to this women with a "child protection association". And she gave me choices once I complained to her about what my mom does to me. She reported it to DSS of my county and I had no idea what was all involved. I feel so stupid because maybe it is my fault that we argue sometimes. I didn't know that my parents could loose their jobs over a CPS case above their heads. I don't know what to do now. I didn't know that they would've actually came in my house and talked to us which they did today. I didn't know anything. And now my dad and mom are saying that they are embarrassed because they would look so bad with a CPS case. I feel stupid, "abuse" that I complained about wasn't even abuse. I mean maybe but it might be my fault. I feel like I want to die because I feel bad. I don't know what's gonna happen and I'm just crying and wanting to die because I was just so desperate and didn't know anything. Any advice PLEASE GIVE TO ME😭😭😭

Question: Should I go on a cruise with my family or stay home?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 11:20 AM PST

I have three job interviews on Friday and the ship leaves the next day on Saturday. I need to make a decision fast. On one hand, I don't want to go on the cruise because the companies I interviewed with may try and contact me while I'm out in the middle of the ocean with no internet or cell service. That may impact their decision on whether or not they want to hire me. My friends are also coming home from college during that week and I don't want to miss out on the chance to hang out with them..I don't get to see them that often anymore. My parents also get quite annoying when you are forced to live with them in a tiny closet while stranded out in the middle of the ocean with no internet or cell service. But on the other hand, I want to go on the cruise because my brother is staying home and he is a major pain in the @ss to live with, we don't get along well at all and all the other times I've had to stay home with him it's been awful. And I also feel like I might regret not going on the cruise for years to come...stay home from a cruise you could end up regretting it for the rest of your life...go on a cruise and if it happens to go horribly you might only regret it for that week and then just forget about it later on. Anyway it's a super tough decision. I am just completely split down the middle on this. What do I do? EDIT: I will be out of town for that entire week, not just the weekend.

Question: I'm not worried about baby John, he will be enriched by having two homes and 4 paretns and better prepared for the world?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 11:10 AM PST

Don't worry OK? I'm sorry I've put you throuhg so much...I will spend my time making it up to you,from now on, I promise... I love you John I want to make you deliriously happy... Teach me how...

Question: What s my rights, if any?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 11:09 AM PST

I live with an overbearing, comtrolling, manipulative, mother who lies, and switches the truth around, crititsizes and judges..everything. I am a single mother who is 40, and is working on finding new dwelling soon. I am also in a happy relationship, and my kid is pratically driving on their own. Financially its been hard to get on my feet. my mother puts on a nice face, when others are present and makes me look insane. She makes me so angry then stands in my way when I want to leave the room, a few times I made a mistake as to nudge her out of the way.. she does a pivet thing and looks like she s stumbling, now I am regarded as abusive and she is threatening to call police.. do I have any rights in this matter? I am in therapy for her mental abuse already.

Question: Will God punish me if I kill myself for the right reasons?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 11:01 AM PST

My Grandmom is old and on her way out. My grandad is also like this. All I have now is my mom, older brother, aunt and uncle. I'm 34 and don't have a family of my own. The world is a cruel cold dark place. I do not wish to make it a better place since that is out of my hands. I just want to leave it all behind. Never was I able to flirt with girls I like and had bad experiences with girls who toyed with my emotions by giving me false hope. I'm tired. So tired. What's normal is fading and I don't like this planet very much anymore and have lost the will to live. When my last remaining relative goes I'm going to kill myself. I have it all planned out in my head. Will God forgive me? I'm not hurting anyone.

Question: Getting custody of my sister? (Texas)?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 10:58 AM PST

I'm 17, but I will be 18 in a few months. I'm really trying to see if I can get custody of my sister because my dad is doing too my drugs and my mother is TDC. Or how would I go about letting my aunt get custody or power of attorney so me and my little sister can leave this hell hole. I won't deal with cps taking her very well.

Question: I'm considering suicide, but i think of my family?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 10:55 AM PST

Especially my parents. It'll definitely ruin their lives, my brother and sisters. My uncles, aunts, cousins. Even my friends. My girlfriend. I think of them all, but i can't go on like this forever. I'm in so much pain. What should i do? I'm stuck with 2 terrible choices. Leaving them behind or suffer for the rest of my life.

Question: Why does my stepmom hate me? Everytime my dad and I start to hangout and stuff my stepmom like starts to become crazy. Why is that?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 10:48 AM PST

Question: My letter to America?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 10:26 AM PST

Listen up America... I DON'T operate on your whims, I operate based on how I see it. I AM BORN, NOT ELECTED and I don't operate on popularity from YOU. I won my swimming race to be born, not YOUR f)uckin' election.. YOU are nobody to me, and I don't give a f)uck how mad you, or all 318 million of ya want to get... because I don't f)ucking need ya... I don't need ya, I never had ya, and NONE OF YOU are welcome in My house... I DON'T give a f)uck about any of you... And what you all can do, is go f)uck yourselves.... because You're nothing to me. Now.... Go get mad about that.... AmeriC)unt motherf)ucker. And you're also NOT going to tell me how to live either. Go get mad about that too. f)uck you ! And you are going to hear my thoughts.... and I don't give a f)uck about how you feel about my thoughts. f)uck you. Now go get mad about that too *****. F)uck you I aint doing sh!t that AmeriFag says do. Go f)uck your mom for me b)!tch. I just now screamed on a blow horn... n!ggerland, n!gger... n!gger n!gger n!gger chimp boy, boone cricket, Jungle Bunny, Come get your Fried Chicken and Watermelon on your EBT card... Through my windows.... Go complain to CNN b)!tch

Question: My daughter had a party when I was out?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 10:18 AM PST

I was out earlier and came back and there was garbage everywhere. What can I do?

Question: Choose your 4 children?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 10:03 AM PST

Child 1: Sex- Male or Female Name- Must begin with R or J Middle name- Must be common name Age- 3, 8, 11, 12 or 16 Zodiac Sign- Aries, Cancer or Leo Child 2: Sex- Female Name- Must include the letter "Y" Middle name- A flower Age- Must be the youngest Zodiac Sign- Libra or Virgo Child 3: Sex- Male or Female Name- 4 or 5 letters long Middle name- Must begin with vowel Age- 5 or 17 Zodiac sign- Your choice

Question: Help with my sister in law?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 09:57 AM PST

My husband cosigned on a $30,000 car loan fro his sister's husband.. I had no idea until about 7 month ago. He's been on it for a little over a year. He is a marine, only an E3 and is command has told them several times that they can't cosign on any loans unless the other person on his loan is his spouse. They don't know he's on this loan. He told me his sister called and asked him to be on the loan. Her and I don't get along. She went on a couple thousand dollar shopping spree at the mall with his card when he got out of basic, cussed out my mother, put us in a bad financial situation .. So I wasn't happy to find out she got him to sign the loan.. The bank told us that his debt to income ratio is now so high that if for any reason wanted to take out a loan ourselves we can't.. It's already been delinquent a few times. It's gotten his bank account flagged.. he's been asking her to take him off of the loan for 5 months for all of these reason and she won't do it.. Even though it's messed up his credit and he now can't get any loans himself.. And he won't get angry with her.. She won't even give him her husbands number so he can just ask him directly.. Is there a way to go around them? I'm also curious if I should confront her about the way she treats him, me, and my family.. He lets her walk on anyone in his life she wants to and I don't know what to do about it.. Whatever she wants from him she gets. My mother has schizophrenia, and can't work. We help her out with what we can. She said my mother was a loser and a leech that was living off of her brother. But with a lot more colorful language

Question: How is she staying home with baby John?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 09:55 AM PST

OK I I try not to think about all this stuff since I can not guess from my situation what is going on... Don't panic she will be the kind of parent she think she should be he is lucky to have you and me and that's that... John, have you ever thought that he should live with us full time? I will support you whatever you want to do... And don't worry, he is a happy kid and loves and he will be an awesome human being... Tell him step mommy coming we will have so much fun:) John, you are the best husband this world could ever produce and I see no reason why you wouldn't be jsut as good dad, so he is a very blessed small perosn... Don't worry... Tell him he will soon be able to write better than step mommy can :D

Question: Are girls/women protective of younger brothers?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 09:48 AM PST

Please state your age if speaking from personal experience.

Question: Is it evil?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 09:46 AM PST

Scenario: 2 children are planning and saving to put their 93yo mother into a nursing home. She has plenty of money, her health is good and is showing some signs of dementia. She wants to stay home and can afford to pay for help but the children have ignored her and are planning to sell her house asap and start vacationing.

Question: Ever younger women calling me asfather grand father uncle brother wat can do/?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 09:39 AM PST

Question: Care about mother sister says i m self centered?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 09:38 AM PST

Question: I caught my mom single mom having sex with a married man would I tell the other woman tell my mom what she did What should I do ?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 09:36 AM PST

Question: How do I get my sister to leave me alone?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 09:18 AM PST

Shes older than me but so annoying. Shes never gotten up before 2 pm in her life. And all of a sudden when I come home shes there bugging me and telling me to clean up and do this not that and help me with my makeup and singing and screaming purposly to annoy me. How do i make her leave or shutup?

Question: Should I go to my dads wedding?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 09:13 AM PST

The reason I don't want to go is because 2014 Christmas my step mom left my dad because he cheated on her all through the time they were dating they're married and they met when I was about 16. So why should I go to a wedding by the parties committed adultery one of the seven deadly sins and if I do go to the wedding I'm going to wear a red A my suit can you see why I really don't want to go to the wedding well I know they're not gonna get married anytime soon fear it may be sooner than I make things and Morley actress taco to let in adultery wedding

Question: How do I get over my fears?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 09:07 AM PST

Hello. I am a 24 year old currently living in Ireland; I am a homosexual and I have a boyfriend (22) who I have been with for nearly four and a half years now. Our relationship is relatively perfect until it comes down to the ideas of sexual intercourse. Let me start off by saying, my boyfriend can be a bit controlling. He loves perfection, gets easily annoyed or quick to throw a tantrum if he doesn't get his way or what he wants. Neither of us a virgins, but he seems to have a fondness to pain during intercourse, whereas I tend to like to take things slow and cautious. He gets mad at me because I refuse to do things like bite or scratch him, hit him and be rough. So mad that on a few occasions he has slapped me and left the bedroom or the house completely, when I refuse. He is something of a treasure to me and the thought of hurting him or causing him pain, even if it is for pleasure, really tears me down. I would hate to see any marks on him come from my hands and he hates that I am not doing just that. This morning he told me if I can't give him what he wants, then he will leave me for certain and I don't want to loose him over something like a difference in sexual needs. He's upset with me and on the verge of leaving. How do I get over my fears of doing these things to him? How can I allow myself to let go of those fears to give him that gratification that he is asking for? I can't loose him. He is my very life. I need help figuring out why I am afraid and how to change.

Question: I don't know where I'm going and I'm worried?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 08:54 AM PST

I got picked up from school early and my dad wouldn't tell me what's going on. My mom is also in the car. All my dad said was that something came up and that I'd see when we get home or when we get to the destination they plan on going to. I'm scared that someone had got hurt or someone passed away. What can I do to stop worrying and calm down?

Question: Think my daughters scared of me?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 08:28 AM PST

She's 14. She doesn't ever talk to me about her private life. Idk know why but whenever she gets yelled at she starts crying And it angers me very much. She said she can't help it but like cmon. Also she is homeschooled and she has no friends. She is not allowed near boys. Boys only want one thing. And yeah. Idk. She also breathes really hard and bites her clothes and does these weird things with her fingers like rubs them together. Like she's really nervous. Today I had a bad day. Then this test she needs to redo and I've been yelling at her to do it for 2 weeks. She says the due date isn't until Thursday but I don't buy that. I never got a message from her teacher. (Online school) I yelled at her and she started crying. Ugh. Also she went on a walk and she didn't answer my phone call. She said she didn't hear it and that pxssed me off even more. She has these dumb episodes where she doesn't wanna talk to strangers so she'll do anything not too then start crying when i tell her that she's dumb?

Question: Emotional abuse or not?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 08:26 AM PST

Okay so my mom keeps yelling at me to re do a test i passed and im about to have another test in a few days. Then she laughed at me because i didnt get all my over due assigments done. I did 5 and yeah. She tells me how stupid i am. (I have an a+ average. How lazy i am ( i do a ton more than what her 30 year old daughter living at home does) She also tells me i eat too much (i hardly ever eat lunch and never eat breakfast) and yeah..and she litterally controls my dads life. My sister is a whole nother story but my mom sides with her 24 / 7. Im 14 and honestly wish ive never been born..also because of her i have no family because they all hate us. So its just me, mom, dad and sister. I do have a friend's house I really wanna move into and in my state they will let you do that if you know them really well. Icps here sucks. Thats what my sister says..then again she's usually wrong but she's a criminal justice major. She's been in college 6 or 7 years... Today my mom told me I was acting dumb..I didn't want to talk to strangers so looked store window and no one was there. Then she told me I pxss her off for crying and acting dumb. I can't help it when I cry. I try my hardest not took but I can't stop it. Also I cater to my sister. One time i was sicker than a dog and my sister made me get up to get her headphones. I was sitting in the other room and it turns out she was sitting on them. But i ask my sister to check my homework when she had a cold. I got screamed at by my mom.

Question: I want to run away?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 08:11 AM PST

i'm 13 i will be 14 next month

Question: Why do I get in trouble for speaking my mind?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 07:56 AM PST

I'm a 17 year old girl and everyone tells me (even my mom) that I'm too quiet/shy and that I need to speak more. However, whenever I do say what I need to say, I get in trouble, or called a b****. Why? I'm so sick of this. Yes, I am quiet and I understand that there is a time to speak and a time to be silent; but it's not fair that people expect me to talk me and when I do, I either get in trouble or they totally ignore what I say. What can I do to prevent this from happening again?

Question: How do i convince my parents that i regret from my former mistakes and more responsible now?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 07:54 AM PST

Question: In a fight with my mom, what should I do?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 07:52 AM PST

I'm 17 and my sister is 14. She's always been a spoiled brat but recently she's gotten worse and gets in really bad fights with my mom and destroys stuff. I feel horrible because there are 5 kids in my family and my mom works super hard to clean and cook and take care of us and has a job. My dad does too. Whenever my sisters gets mad at someone for something stupid my mom yells at them and tells them go away, even if it's my sisters fault. I feel bad for my little brother and sister when it happens to them. It happened to me this morning and I got mad at her. She tried hugging me and saying sorry but I grabbed her arm and pulled it off me and told her I'm tired of her doing that to everyone. She started crying and saying sorry and she didn't know she did it and didn't mean to. I said its my sisters fault but still feel bad. She dropped us off to school crying and I feel horrible. I'm super mad at my sister and her boyfriend because she's gotten worse even since she met him. I wanna kick his *** cuz he's a scrawny little punk. I also feel like crying because of what I did to my mom. What should I do? Should I ask her to sign me out I can't focus im just really sad

Question: 24 yrs old, still living with parents and working in dads company?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 07:36 AM PST

Since I was 17 years old I have been working for my dad. He came to America when he was very young to find work as many other immigrants do. He became a U.S. Citizen and down the road became a business owner. Thanks to that business, we were able to move out of a bad neighborhood and move on to a two story home. Now I am turning 24 this year and I still work for him. I have had one other job and he really resented me for taking it even though I only worked one day a week for 5 hours. When I was in high school I knew I wanted to become a make up artist. It is something I am passionate about and I am actually very talented. My dad said it was a waste of time. That it would get me no where. So I gave up on my dream. I ended up attending community college to get an associates in business admin and accounting. Mainly to help my dad. But there is no passion in it. The reason I am writing this is because I want to know if I m doing something wrong by working with my dad We live in the same house together. It s like work never ends. I wake up and he s there (my boss) talking about work. He gets mad at Both my mom and I (my mom works with us too) early in the morning. I feel like I have wasted so much time with him dreams. He says we don t care about the business like he does even though it s what puts good on the table. But he always hangs that over us I feel as though I don t care enough about the business because it s not my passion. Should I not feel this way?

Question: Is,it normal for brothers to be protective of their little brothers?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 07:25 AM PST

I am a guy and no I don't need anyone to protect me but i have nine protective brothers. They always watch me and my autistic brother all the time. When ever I stay over at my brothers house my other brother that stays with him always acts all protective and bossy when ever we are in public and yet at home he always mess with me and always wrestles with me an pins me down when I don't want to. Then when I tell him he is not the boss of me he always says "yes I am" just because he drives me every where. Then one of my other brothers is in the marines and twice already he threatened to raise me himself if I don't straighten out my attitude. Then the last five I always see and they are the worst protective. For example one of them is very protective of me especially when it comes to dating and he has been like this ever since his last girlfriend and that break up was not pretty, I saw the whole thing. Then one of them is protective but not that much and he only interferes if I do something stupid. Then the rest of them just act all protective. Like the one that is protective of me when it comes to dating is super protective in general. Like one time he took me to six flags for my birthday and he was just protective. Then one time we went camping and he would not let me leave the table until I finished my food. I am 22 now and these events were in the past and I am not mad and I am not annoyed and in fact I actually like them being overprotective.

Question: Why does my sister lie to me but get mad and paranoid if she thinks I lie to her?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 07:19 AM PST

I'm just done. (Not killing myself lol) I'm just done with her.

Question: Is it fair to make me do chores?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 07:07 AM PST

I'm 22, recently graduated from college and moved in with my cousin because she offered and I pay no rent, but, she assigns me so many " chores". Everyday I - do the dishes - walk the dog - clean my room - clean her room - vacuum - clean the kitchen - take out the trash and I do all the laundry. Unfortunately, the job search is not going well so I stay home and do this. If I do express frustration her go-to move is. " Remind me again who works, makes the money, pays for rent, food, tv, internet, and electricity?"

Question: People hate me?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 06:52 AM PST

So it's like this, I'm a very annoying person and I'm also very stubborn, in school I call a few boys my family for example, 1 is mommy 2 is daddy 3 is grandpa 4 grandma, take note that they r boys even tho I call them mom and grandma and auntie etc. so basically everyone hates me now but Idrc so like what shall I do?

Question: Why do my sister treat people like crap?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 06:52 AM PST

My 30 year old sister tend to treat people like crap. The thing is she is a bum. She is sleeping with an 80 year old man to live in his house, she has never had her own place, never had her own car, etc. She works as a hairstylist, but struggles to pay her phone bill. Her phone bill is literally like $200 a month! What the hell! She likes to call people "losers, stupid and bums." I once told her that I wanted to go to school to become a dental hygienist (I'm 16), she told me "Why do you want to do that? They make no money! You are just trying to take the easy way out." She's never even did research on the profession, but is still making these claims. The reason why I picked to be a dental hygienist, is because I do not have the luxury to go to school for 7+ years, and accumulate a ton of student loan debt. She want me to go to school to become a lawyer or something. I don't think she realized how messed up the economy is, yet. I'm making a decision that is best for me, not one to make her feel good. What do you guys think? Is she just out of her mind?

Question: Do people normally care when one of their grandparents die?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 06:15 AM PST

Personally don't care and was wondering if that was normal as most of my cousins seem upset by it and my brother is also to a seemingly lesser extent Ok so I am not the only one then to not care about Grandparents. As a follow up question would it be normal for someone not to care if their parents died? or is that really just the same questions?

Question: My mom is doing WAY too much, i feel like I'm in a relationship and my partner thinks I'm cheating and I'm doing NOTHING wrong. should I go?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 06:11 AM PST

ok, so my mom and I don't really get along. I feel like I'm a good person. I have a job, pay all my bills myself and I'm getting in school soon. I'm 20, I'll be 21 very soon. I used to just stay in the house everyday and go to work, that's it! but I've been through a lot of things lately so it depresses me and on top of that, I just want to live life and enjoy myself sometimes. my mom thinks "I changed" I told her that's not true. I don't even do too much. I'm literally just with my boyfriend a lot, and I have a right to be. being around him lifts my spirits, and brightens my day, he's like my breath of fresh air, literally!! all she does is question me nonstop!! I work at night so she's always asking if I'm really going to work, I left work early one night b/c I wasn't feeling too good and she was upset then the first thing she asked was if I was pregnant-_- when I'm outside she's constantly calling me saying I need to be home before she goes to sleep, every single thing I do is a problem and she is always questioning me and I hate that. she's pushing me away and we're ALWAYS arguing now. I just want her to realize I'm young and I want to enjoy my life! at this point of my life I'm really depressed and if I tell her she doesn't take me serious, I can't ever talk to her about how I'm feeling when it comes to anything because she acts like she doesn't even care. I know she's worried about me but she does way too much. is it time for me to move out?! please help!!

Question: Sons father wants to be in his life PLEASE READ/Need advice?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 06:11 AM PST

My sons biological dad and I were dating 7 years when i found out that he had another family behind my back. I left but still pushed for him to be in his childs life. I ended up dating my long time friend going on 5 years now and we are engaged. He has been helping me raise my son since he was a tiny baby and once my sons real dad found out he went insane saying that he doesn't like that i have my son around another guy. I didn't understand that at all!! Even though he then changed his number i continously would reach out to him so that he can be in his childs life and meet my fiance to gain comfort , he never responded. Well now that my son is 5 he contacted me yesterday saying that he wants to meet about maybe getting back in his sons life. I told my fiance and although i knew he would say its okay because hes a really nice person, he was still kind of upset saying that he cant just pop into his life after 5 years and confuse him because he thinks my fiance is his dad. I agreed but i still dont want to be a bad person by saying no. Also my son was diagnosed with epilepsy and we contacted him everytime he had a seizure and he would,never call and check on him or anything. My fiance and i have tried to reach out so many times up until he turned 2 and no results. I need advice please?

Question: How to convince my parents to switch schools?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 05:31 AM PST

I live in Asia and I used to go to an international school but my dad wanted me to go to a public school since he was raised here. So I go to a public school now and I am not happy. I don't fit in because English is my first language and I'm more into American culture so I have no friends and I'm sure everyone hates me. Maybe it's a psychological problem (theres a lot going on my life right now) I told my dad and he gave me to options: if my sister goes to a college in America WHICH IS NEXT YEAR AND I CANT FREAKING TAKE IT ANYMORE then we will tag along. My sister wanted to study abroad so she can be free. So she won't be happy. Or if my sister stays here then I get to go to an international school. Either way my sister won't be happy. I feel sorry for her because I know how badly she wanted to leave. Anyway, I really wanted to move schools this summer because I'm becoming a freshman in high school. And I don't want to come later while everyone already made their groups and I will be alone again like now. Im behind because in education I'm actually in 7th grade now due to the graduation date but I'm pretty smart and I know I can catch up if I quit club and start studying. I don't want to go to America because I'm scared if I'll be bullied because I'm Asian or I'm weird and different I don't talk to my parents about anything so I won't feel comfortable saying why I'm not happy. Should I talk to a counselor and tell them everything so they can talk to my parents?

Question: Why do I love emo girls so much?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 05:31 AM PST

I'm 13 and in 8th grade, and I love emo girls so much and I think they're adorable. At school I'm friends with all the emo girls. They all love to rub my long hair they say it's really soft. They tell me I look like Solid Snake (my favorite video game hero). In the gym when I play my 3DS they will surround me and watch me play and fight over who gets to rub my hair. My bestie is an emo girl named Sarah. She rubs my hair more than any of the girls like she pets my hair like I'm a cat. Is this weird? Why do I like emo girls so much?

Question: Wife is very difficult with me and blames me constantly for everything and tried to down talk me like a disrespectful child, why?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 05:10 AM PST

I ll start by saying that she has a stressful job and her employees are always calling out on and aren t taking their jobs seriously so she has to cover those shifts since she s the manager. Her kids who are 19-20 left the house since for the last 9 years her youngest have given me crap and treating me like dirt. We ve gotten sued over her, she s come home drunk, she s stolen, she s come home pregnant and then got an abortion and etc. After enduring all this from the kid I put my foot down and things got out of hand so to make a long story short she had to leave the house (my house and these are my step kids of 9 years) and soon after the 20 ur old left. I have a 12 yr old son from other marriage and it seems like I ve been getting crap from my wife every time my son comes to stay with me. She avoids us, she s always in a bad mood and sometimes she down talks my son like if he was an adult. I would intervene and have thought my son to stay quiet and don t talk back to her even if she s out of hand. I then will tell her that she was out of line and there was no need for her to treat him like that. She never reprimanded her kids like how she does my son and she never intervene when her daughter cursed me out. When we are alone at the house things are good most of the times but then she ll complain that hug, kiss her 2 much. Lately living with her is like living with my sister and as far as a sex life, we don t have any. I m 36 and she s 40 so this ain t normal.

Question: Is it inappropriate to have massage by mom?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 04:30 AM PST

It happend 2 days before when i had injection on my both butt. There is swelling in the morning i told my mother she massage my hips 2 or 3 times. This thing i inform to my friend and he told me you are nedest. I dont know why he is thinking like that. She is my mother and i'm her 15 years old son. I dont think that she should not see my private.

Question: Should I support my daughter and her husband?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 01:33 AM PST

My youngest has never been the golden child more like the black sheep. I blame myself because I never protected her from her father. I was afraid of her father and I know its no excuse I failed as a mother that's the bottom line. Anyway she ran away when she was fifteen and now that she's 18 she's marrying an older man and he's my old high school boyfriend and I now believe karma has a twisted since of humor. Apparently she was working as a stripper in a nearby city and was at his bachelor party when something happened to him and he ended up in the hospital. She saved his life and was the only one who cared enough to make sure he was okay. Now they are getting married and she's pregnant. He's 45 same age as me and I don't know how I should feel. I mean he owns the club she strips in and I know I'm not perfect but her leaving was a wake up call for me I turned her father in to the police after I lost her. The situation is weird and unusual and my daughter says he's helping her new career in film and by film I mean porn. Strangely her husband my ex and I both agree that she's naive and immature. I asked what he really thought about her and he said "She's bratty, immature, and a bimbo but what she lacks in common sense she makes up for in book smarts and her big heart I just think it's sad you never taught her to value anything other than her looks." My daughter wants me at the wedding but I don't if she wants me in her life is it too late to start over with her?

Question: My mum hates me lap dancing and is threatening to kick me out? Please help xxx?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 01:21 AM PST

I just don't know what to do I've had loads of normal jobs respectable as she says but I just got got finished from a boring *** call centre job and I was actually so happy I started lap dancing again and earning loads of money and she said if o find out hoot doing that dancing I will go ballistic and tell everyone your dad Facebook .. Basically making my life hell when I love doing it... And everytime I go anywhere she's always like where have you been etc I can't buy anything she's like where you got money from oh a new jumper? Making me feel **** I'm 22 aswell!!! Feel like just saying I love you but I'm gonna move out then she will go mad argh someone help me I will find a proper career just now earning good money for few months!! Xx

Question: My mom is mad at me and won't talk to me. What should I do?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 12:56 AM PST

My mom has planned a family vacation to her home country to visit extended family. She insists that I must go but I have many reasons not to go. First, I have social anxiety and depression. I need to get help/therapy but she thinks it's all in my head…that I am fine. Second, I plan on attending graduate school, and I would rather save money for college than spend it on a family vacation trip. After all, she can't help me financially towards that degree, so it's all going to come from my pocket. Third, I am vegan, and in her hometown (there aren't any organic and healthy food options). I would have to binge on junk food and meat because it would be offensive and rude to my family members to tell them (no, I can't eat your food). I am thin/fit, and I would lose all my fitness gains/goals thus far. My mom isn't understanding even though I am an adult already, and I can make my own decisions. She is forcing me to go because she says that she can't leave me alone and fully enjoy her trip. She won't talk to me, and she says she's hurt by my actions. She has even threatened to kick me out of her house to live on my own and to stop giving me food. Do you think that my mom cares more about her extended family than me? Why can't she understand my reasons?

Question: Was I doing hand to hand combat sparring with this girl?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 12:53 AM PST

Yesterday, I was in my Taekwondo class and the sensei partnered me up with this other black girl in my class. We had to practice punches and high blocks and low blocks on each other. First she did the punches and I did the blocks and then I did the punches and then she did the blocks. So does this count as hand to hand combat sparring with this girl???

Question: Should I tell my parents?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 12:15 AM PST

Hey everyone. My name is Charlotte. I am a 22 year old who is a sister to an older brother (24), twin brothers (15) and a sister (7). I moved out when I was eighteen and recently went to go visit my family for a week; tomorrow being my last day. My twin brother's have always been extremely close to each other, really similar, but different at the same time. They have a shared room downstairs in the basement that they have been in since really little. Quite a few hours ago my parents were at work and I made lunch for my siblings, went down to go get the twins and when I did I walked in on them being intimate with each other in a very sexual manner. I didn't say anything, just walked out and left them to their privacy, but it worries me that they are doing this with each other. I mean I could understand if it was someone else from their school; I get that at that age you have urges and what not, but to do that together when they are twin brothers and related just seems unnatural. I leave after tomorrow and I am not sure if I should sit my parents down and tell them what I saw, or let them find out on their own? I don't know if it was a one time thing or something that happens often. I don't know if I should let my brothers come out to them about it or if I should talk to them about what is going on and leave my parents our of it? What should I do about this? I want to handle the situation, but I don't know how. I don't want to put them in the spotlight. What should I do?

Question: Am I retarded and Jealous?

Posted: 03 Mar 2016 12:00 AM PST

I have a deaf/hearing disability and I have speech problems. Am I retarded? Because people thinks that I can't do stuff on my own like paying bills, holding responsible. Also everyone thinks I'm the jealous sister. They love her, her friends don't like me. My family, including my aunt loves my sister more than me because she can do stuff on her own. In fact all of my families love her more than me. Now I think people are just feeling bad about myself.

Question: Moving out of state with my Boyfriend How to tell parents;-;?

Posted: 02 Mar 2016 11:36 PM PST

Okay, so me and my fiancé have been together for two years now. We are both originally from NY. And when we met I was 16 and he was 19. And now he is 21 and I am about to turn 18. Thing is my patents wanted to move to AZ so I being 17 at the time was forced to move with them. He put his whole life in hold for me and moved with me. We both strongly about wanting to move back to NY on my 18th birthday. But my family wants me and him to stay her. And we mentioned moving back and they threatened to kick him out for being ungrateful. So I said okay we will stay and my birthday is coming up and we both still want to go back to NY. Problem with this is I am close with my mom I've had a horrible childhood and tat caused us to get close. I know I can't mention it be now because they'll kick him out. And I know either way they're going to be hurts. Now my fiancé has a stable job back in NY and his father offered to help us with rent and everything. My fiancé has told me to just up and leave the day after my birthday and leave a note. And I am torn and don't know how to handle this anymore. I am a people pleaser I always put them before me, I can't expect my fiancé to throw his life away for me and he tells me I need to decided. I need help figuring out what I am supposed to do. How do I go about telling them??

Question: My mother is holding me back in life?

Posted: 02 Mar 2016 11:35 PM PST

I started an HVAC business a few months ago and its finally taking off. In about a years time my partner predicted that we could quit our day jobs and I may be able to afford a mortgage on a house. There's only one problem though, my mother. She relies on me for everything, My fiancee and I decided to buy a house in the suburbs because city living is too expensive. My current job gave me a company car that I use, so my mom uses my personal one to get to work and back, when I quit I am going to need my car back and she will have no way to get to her job in the city and she doesn't make enough to buy her own car. She has a boyfriend she could live with, but every time I bring it up she insists that she isn't ready to live him. My fiancee and I pay all the bills and what my mom makes barley covers her own expenses. I have to tell her what she should or shouldn't spend her money on, or she will spend every penny on unnecessary things or somehow get the impression that she doesn't have to pay certain things. My fiancee is, understandably, growing tired of holding my mothers hand and so am I. I am 29 years old and I want to start my life. My hope is that she will decide that living with me so far from the city isn't worth it and she will live with the boyfriend but a part of me fears that she wont and this will be what my life is about until she dies, But at the same time, I don't want my mom to be forced to live with a man she doesn't want to live with. I don't know what to do.

Question: Help at home?

Posted: 02 Mar 2016 11:16 PM PST

I know this sounds like a typical teenager situation and I'm justill going to rant about how "ridiculous" my parents are. Just hear me out. My family and I have had a rough couple years. My uncle passed away and my mom moved away to go live with my cousin to help him through his schooling. That left my dad and I and we got some good bonding time and we made it work. While my mom was gone she questioned divorce with my dad however. She met another man and wasn't sure what to do. After coming home for good and working it out with my dad they decided to give it another go. She however picked up a fond liking to alcohol during this time. She was going to get help but skipped out on her therapy. For the past few months every night I come home we end up in a screaming match over some ridiculous thing. I will say something like " I had a great time with my friends!" And she will turn it into 'you're not happy at home now huh?' I don't know what to do because no matter how calm I stay and no matter how hard I try not to say something wrong I always end up adding to a fire I didn't even know was existing. I've tried having her talk about what's been bothering her and so have others but she says she's OK then lashes out like this. I'm literally miserable coming home now. I don't know what to do. Please help. I'm not sure how much more either of us can handle

Question: Can I call the cops if my bf won't let me see our son?

Posted: 02 Mar 2016 10:59 PM PST

We live together. We're together. But he locked me out the house and won't let me in. we got into a really big argument and he's just acting so dumb right now. I want to see my son but he won't let me!! I have the keys to the house but he put the chain lock thing on the door. What do I do? I don't think I can call 911... and we're together well before all this so its not like we have joint custody or anything. he's just mad at me. My son is 5 months so he doesn't know what's going on. what do I do sorry if this doesn't make sense or something but I'm on my phone and it's really hard to type atm