I don t mean the semen, or skin. More so, something to cover or coat my shaft and make it taste like... Well, candy for instance. It s fixing to be valentines day and my girlfriend doesn t like chocolate, but she does like candy. I know this might be an uncomfortable question to answer but... Well I ve been curious for quite some time.

The first boyfriend I ever dated and had was unhealthy, he was older and more experienced. But I finally realized that I didn't deserve to endure any more pain and I decided it's time to leave home for someone who treats me better and I decided I don't want to waste my time for as long as I did with him, so I wanted to try dating more than one guy just to keep my options open this time, and this time not feel in love blindly for the only guy who gives me attention. Back then I never dated anyone, but now I wanna give myself a chance to date around and see who I get along with best, or if anything, just to have that experience that I believe young people should be able to have. I don't want to commit myself fully to one person anymore after y first unhealthy co dependent relationship that I became unstable in. I want to be social too, and have a life outside of just one person. Dating seems fun to me, and doesn't ,ran I have to sleep around, if anything, it's more of just going out to me. But what worries me, is those guys wanting to act creepy with me, I'm afraid that after a while that I'll feel trapped. So how long is long enough? Like I said I'm not serious about them if they wanna be serious quickly, that's a red light to me! I'd have to know them really well, like their likes, dislikes, manners, all that, and they can't be the way my ex used to be, they need to have a job, and be a gentlemen. And treat me right and withl respect of course

I dream about my crush. Well, not just centered around her but she will appear in them. This happens often. I have been thinking about her a lot so this might be why...

okay about a month ago I started dating this guy. I've known him for a year now but I never ever thought we would end up together. I never really saw him like that until a few months ago. I guess I should tell you guys my age, I'm 15 & he's 16. Yes I know we're both young but please don't pay too much attention to my age, I just want advice... Alright, so I met him through my mom in January at her friends son party. He's my moms friends nephew.I guess I should tell you guys my age, I'm 15 & he's 16. Yes I know we're both young but please don't pay too much attention to my age, I just want advice...My family and his family are really close, so when I decided I wanted to have a quinceanera, I asked him if he wanted to be one of my chamblanes and he agreed. He would come over like twice a week for practice, I eventually started to develop feelings for him. From the start I didn't really want anything to do with him like that because he just seemed like the player type. I mean he would flirt with me while he had a girlfriend. So that was the first red flag, I guess. The day of my 15 finally got here, I got a little tipsy that day, I'm a lot more outgoing when I'm drunk so I started flirting with him, and he did too. So that went on for about an hour and then he finally kissed me. The next day when we were driving home we made it official and decided to tell everyone (including our parents). Everything was good for the first few weeks, we would go out to eat with his family and go to the movies. It was all good. but i lowkey always had a feelimg he we wasnt being failthful, and i told him too.. so last week he was acting really shady so asked my friend to friend request her on fb to see if he would try to talk to her. AND HE DID. he asked her if she wanted to kick it and told her he didn't have a girl. so of course i confronted him about it and he didn't even really apologize. he basically just got mad and preceded to ignore me that day. the next day he finally answered my calls at around 11pm, he was being really quiet, I just knew we were going to break up...we did. at first i cried, then i thought about it but i know damn well i was a great girlfriend plus his family LOVED me so i was like whatever, his loss lol. yesterday tho, i guess reality hit. I couldn't stop thinking about him, all I wanted was to get him off my mind so i snuck out

I'm an 18m and never really was interested in guys but had a gay experience this weekend and dunno how to feel about it. my gf and i broke up and i was at a party getting pretty drunk. i remember talking to some girl and then when she left her friend was talking to me and after a while i realized he was holding my hand. it was kinda weird but i was drunk so figured whatever. he asked me back to his place to hang out and drink beer and i guess i shoulda realized what was going on but i wasn't thinking straight so i went. and yeah, obviously back at his place he went pretty slow, put on a movie, sat on his bed, he sorta moved his hand onto my thigh, eventually he was rubbing my crotch. it felt weird but good and i figured it wasn't too bad if he stayed over the clothes. so yah, eventually he put his hand down my pants and ended up going down on me. we did more stuff but i won't go into details. ended up spending the night and now i don't know how to feel. it felt good but also strange, like i couldn't believe i was actually doing it. any advice?

This guy in my workplace is really nice to me. He's super nervous around me and shy during work, but outside, he's super loud and hyper. He brought me a vanilla donut yesterday and I smiled and he started stuttering nervously and said that if I don't like it, then I can hit him and make him buy me another one. I ate it and told him later that I liked it and he smiled nervously and said, "Cool, I'm glad". Then he walked away. Today, I was wearing a dark dress and he complimented me on it and said that it matched my personality. He then started to stutter and he looked cute as he was looking down and turning speechless. He put his head down and told me that I could hit him if I was upset and i hugged him and told him he's cute and I saw him blush and he didn't say anything.

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years but the cute messages have stopped. It's been long gone. Occasionally he says babe and Hun and kissey faces. But we see eachother almost everyday and it's good then. Does the texting always die down? We're both in our 20s.

Guy 1: He's a family friend and about 8 year older than me. He tried to get with me during spring last year and I was nice and gave him a chance. It turned out he didn't have good intentions and was not even what I was looking for so I stopped talking to him (in his mind we broke up), but we were never dating. A couple months ago he messaged me on facebook, I replied hi and he told me he missed me and asked if I missed him. I didn't reply. A couple days ago he messaged me again. Guy 2: Met at school. Wasn't interested in him at all but again, gave him a chance. Turned out to be a jerk who just really wanted someone to manipulate into having sex with him and he kept asking me if he can sleep over. I stopped talking to him and replying to his text. He still messaged me multiple times and even called me, I already deleted his number and didn't know it was him so I picked up, told him I was busy and hung up. He still texted me again. I don't know whether they don't understand or they refuse to give up. There is no good that can come from talking to them. Could they think I'm weak and can easily be manipulated or something? Thanks

First of all I'm 13. I have sent nudes to two guys who live in different states. They're both 16 and I am completely aware of the dangers out there such as revenge porn so I never show my face in the nudes. I'm obviously still a virgin and I never touched a guy sexually. Am I a slut? And what would you do if I was your daughter and you found nudes on my phone? I am not trolling.

Signs so far: quick glances, staring, when I tease her she laughs and plays a long with it, she introduced herself and shook my hand had good eye contact, she did it again today when I told her she didn't know my name, she again laughed at my joke when I said "keep pimping it", sometimes I get a nervous vibe from her, and sometimes she smiles showing her teeth like that genuine smile. Today we had a 6 sec stare down like 7 feet away and she had a soft smile the whole time, so did I. Were really close to the same age. Could she like me?

Give advice such as why a guy should never put a girl first but himself. It should be about the individual and the individual about the relationship. Also, may I ask for your advices as well personally.

So Ive been talking to this girl for about 3 weeks now We went on one date to the movies. It went pretty smoothly. She said we should do it again some time. Since then weve been messaging back and forth every day. Ive been telling my friend that I really wish I could find out how she feels about me. My friend got on facebook typed her a message saying it was my friend and asked if it was ok if he sent it. I being dumb said yes and he sent it. He said it was my friend and that he would like to know if she liked me more than a friend. She seemed to get really upset and said that information does not pertain to him and also weve only been on one date. She then said thanks for the Unwanted question! I saw that and my heart dropped I then got back my facebook and told her I was sorry and my friend had gotten on my facebook and messaged her. She read it no reply. So I sent one more short message that said honestly I am sorry. No response. What do I do? I really like this girl and wasnt expecting her to get mad over this. I do not want to ruin my chances or annoy her. How can I let her know and make her less mad at me? thanks.

I understand that she felt trapped but why did I don't understand why she said she couldn't go back when Quintin found her

So I know for most girls, if they found out a guy liked one of their friends, they would tell them immediately. So I'm wondering, are guys the same? I'm asking because a couple of my guy friends know I have a little crush on one of their very close guys friends. Which makes it even more of a possibility that he knows. BOYS let me know!

I'm extremely shy and there is this guy at my school who is interested in me he would put effort into me. Like trying to talk to me numerous of times or some how connect with me but I turn into a sick puppy and I don't know what to do. So now finally he stopped pretty much giving me any of his attention, although once I saw him staring at me from the back but then ignore me altogether do you think it's too late for me to try something? I don't want him to think I play games and now he acts like I don't exist

There's this girl I like shes not gonna go for me easily seeing as I'm trans. When I bring it up she says she needs to focus on school, I'm a good friend she's afraid if something happened we couldn't be friends an she'd rather be safe than sorry, or we've been friends for so long she's adapted to that an doesn't know what itd be like to see me anything more. one of her friends said I got brought up and that she told her the same thing about the situation that she bc she's focusing on school. then she was talking to another one of her friends an said it's bc I'm trans and she doesn't go that way but that if she did go for me she was afraid if something were to happen we couldn't be friends. I talked to her an said if it's just me and I'm the problem and I'll never have a chance tell me because with excuses I have hope an with hope I can't give up which is what i think she wants me to do. she still stuck to her story about being friends and didn't know if she would ever see me as more but she wouldn't admit it's just me. She said she trusts me, I've made a good impact on her life an she values my opinion more than most an she's glad I care about her bc it makes her feel important. Before valentines I was thinking I would give her candy and a rose and give it to her an tell her I want her to be happy an if that requires me not pushing her to give me a chance that's okay and tell her I'm letting go but I'll always care and then give her a hug and walk away. Thoughts?

What tips do you guys have to get over a guy that you miss?

I know some people say im ugly but girls said im sexy too. I know how to finesse girls into things they don't want to do until i talk them into it. This one girl gave me her whole check just because i told her i loved her and kissed her neck and rubbed her body. This other girl is taking me out for valentines day because i told her i have no money, but she said i was sexy and sweet so she would take me out.

So there's this girl I've been crushing over we sometimes message each other during school but, we do lack actual communication like one on one...I was wondering if I should ask her to go to the mall with me this Saturday. Just hang out and eat :b we are both 17 if that matters.

After The game she told me good game and we went outside and she kissed me but I didn't pull back and I feel horrible if I don't tell her she might not never find out but I feel horrible and I'm not sure if I can tell her what do I do.

Relationship between me and girl I was talking was strained. How do i mend it so we can go back to how we were? I have been talking to this girl for a month. On our third date we went out drinking and she ended up coming to my house and we slept together. However I had a bunch of guys already at my house when we came and they didn t know she was a girl that I was talking to they thought she was a random hoe I met at a bar. One of them (they were all drunk by the way) kept asking me if there could be a threesome and kept bothering her about it and I kept telling him no and at one point he tried coming in my room and I had to almost fight him. Well all that cooled down and we ended up sleeping together. The next morning I had to leave for basketball practice and I left her a note telling her I would be back. Apparently while I was gone another guy tried to get into bed with her and she told him no so he left. But I guess it was horrifying for her and I don t blame her I was furious when I heard about it. Needless to say those guys aren t welcomed here anymore. Our relationship has been kinda at odds now she says that will be hard to forget. I know she likes me and i like her. I waited for her to text me and she did the next night then she quit texting me. Then the next day I texted her teasing her about something and so we ve been having a conversation. I like this girl how do I keep what happened from ruining what we have. I am willing to be patient. Any advice?

some pointers

First of all, I'm not popular and he and his girlfriend are. His girlfriend is blonde, and I am too. We're the only girls in the school with blonde blonde blonde hair. Whenever he makes jokes in class, he looks at me to make sure I'm laughing. In the hallway he stares at me and my friends. In class it LOOKS like he's staring at me. He's really silly, but never tries to speak to me. He's very attractive, too. Does he like me?

shes a big time singer songwritter i cant remember her name but she does live in hawaii

I am really good friends with this girl and we have only known each other since October but we have a great connection and a lot in common which is why I like her so much. So when we first got to know each other we only talked during class but now whenever either of us has a break we are always together after classes. We formed a study group for our physics class last semester and we both could easily focus on our assignments and studies. Now that we hang out whenever we try to get something done, we study for like 10 minutes before either of us gets bored and we just end up talking for hours even though we have almost three hour long breaks which should be enough. I have no idea if she gets distracted for the same reason as me because i really do like her and I have gotten other signs she might be into !e as well. I just don't know what to do since ignorimg/avoidimg her is not an option, she does mean a lot to me but i wamt to keep my grades up as well

I have a major crush on this guy. He knows and I'm pretty sure does not Like me back. Should I get him a valentine, or just ignore him..

It's about my younger brother (Max), so, our neighbors have a girl (Olivia), and ever since they were kids, they were together all the time, they were the best of friends, and by the time he was 15, they told their feelings to each other, they were both in love, so they started dating, Max loved Olivia more than anything, he treated her like a queen, he never did anything to hurt her, he did everything he could to make her as happy as possible, she was his whole life, both of them loved each other like nothing else, at some point of time he even told my mom that he wanted to marry her when they're older, he told my mom that she is the girl he wants to spend the rest of his life with, they continued dating for 3 years, and about a month ago, Olivia died in a car accident, Max was heart broken, I never saw him like this before, for 3 weeks, 3 weeks, he NEVER got out of his room, he never went to school, he was just there crying his heart out on his bed, he was devastated, we couldn't do anything about it, no one could make him feel better, one week ago, my best friend came to visit, she knew about what happened to Max, she went there to his room to try and make him feel better, she loved Max a lot and never gave up on trying to help him, somehow, she managed to do so, Max finally got out of his room. After 2 weeks, this was the first time he got out of his room. The next day he went to school, he wasn't ready, I told my parents but they forced him to go, his girlfriend's sister was in that school too, she stayed with him all the time because she knew he was still heart broken, anyway, one of the guys there always bullied Max, he saw him and went to bully him, Max told him to back off, and that guy told him "What? are you mad because your gf is a dead b*tch", Max lost it, he punched him and broke his nose. That guy was bleeding so bad they had to rush him to the hospital, Max got suspended for that, and now, it's happening again, he won't get out of his room, I can hear him cry at night, I remember the times when he used to tell her that she was his whole world, and now he lost her, I don't know what to do anymore, Max is still heart broken over what happened, what am I supposed to do?? I really want to help him but I can't, nothing I do works. My older brother is really no help at all, I mean he doesn't know how to deal with this situation, me and my mom have been trying to make him feel better but nothing works. I hate seeing my little brother like that, I hate seeing him look so weak and helpless, please help me what am I supposed to do, I just want my brother to be happy again.

I'm a female only 17 but please hear me out.. I've had 2 semi serious relationships in high school (I am a senior now about to graduate in 4 months) but I seem to always lose interest. I've broken up with both guys and even when I have little crushes I'm the reason they never work out. I want love SO badly.. real love, but I can't seem to find myself interested in a guy for long enough. I always find something wrong and I absolutely hate it and I don't know why I do it.. So many good guys but every time things get a little serious I lose interest. Me losing interest so quickly leads me to have a lot of crushes but honestly I'm beginning to think what's the point if I'm gonna lose interest. I've been on a lot of dates and ugh I don't know why I do this or how to stop. Please help?

He was my best friend for 9 years and he told me that he fell inlove with me from the first time he saw me and he still does, I don't feel the same way but that doesn't mean I hate him, I think of him as my brother, he's the kindest boy I ever met. Anyway, a couple of months ago, I started dating this guy who was cheating on me(I didn't know), he knew about it, and he told me, I didn't believe him but he kept telling me that he's cheating on you and I don't want to see you get hurt, but " god mad and told him: "Your just jealous because I love him not you, your trying to ruin my relationship by lying, how pathetic are you, don't ever talk to me again, just get of my life". I really didn't mean to say that, but I found out that he was saying the truth, that guy was cheating me. It really hurt, but what hurt the most is that I never believed him, I texted him, called him and even tried talking to him at school. But he never answered me he won't even look at me, ever since that day he never talked to me or even looked at me, I know I hurt his feelings and broke his heart, but I never meant to. It's been almost a month now. Do you think he hates me, do you think he doesn't want to be my friend anymore. I know I messed up but iI was wrong, I really care about him and I can't live without him, we've been together for my whole, he was literally always there for me when I needed him, he's more than a friend to me. What should I do, I really can't live without him.

Do you think I'm ugly or handsome? Honest opinions please. :) I want to know because girls seem to ignore me and I want to know if it's because of my appearance. Thanks.

Im a 13 year old girl and I'm dating a 17 year old boy. We met on tinder 8 months ago and we've been together for 7. For the first month I lied and told him I was 16 because I really didn't think I would be in a long term relationship with him. Anyways, when I told him he was upset because of the age difference and it took him a while to get used to it. Is it really that wrong to be with him? In my opinion, I think that it's okay as long as we don't do anything illegal. He doesn't pressure me into anything whatsoever and he's so so kind. All my friends have met him and at first they were iffy about him since again, he's 4 years older than us but they really really love him and we all get along super well. My parents don't know yet but they have met him before at church. I need help on telling them and I'd also like to see people's opinions on this situation. Thanks.

He let me crash at his place because I was drunk, and I was close friends with his room mates and there other people staying over (guys and girls) He wanted to cuddle and I said okay and then later he grabbed my *** and said I have a cute butt, rubbed it, and later when I was half asleep he put his hand down my pants and tried to rub my clit.. I said no and he kept doing it and finally moved his hand away. He tried to do this again when I was practically asleep and then moved to my hips and stopped. Did he posssibly do anything to me when I was actually asleep?

Well, I saw her yesterday. It's you she's thinking of, and she told me what to say. She said she loves you, and you know that can't be bad.

I am worried about my ex bf ruining my relationship. He has a nude picture of me that he took while we were dating.. I did not send it too him. He took it without my permission after we had sex. I thought he deleted it. Anyway my ex bf he got his friend to sent it to the last guy I was dating told him I was cheating on him when I was not. It almost ruined my relationship with him. That was 3 years ago and the guy I am dating now is the first guy I have dated since then. I am scared he going to do the same thing with the guy I am dating now. The picture was taken about 4 or 5 years ago. I am a completely different person now then I was back then. My current bf does not know about my dark past. I have told him that I have done horrible things but I have never told him what it was. He is very religious and I think he thinks I am a virgin.He is a very understanding person and I really want to tell him. I feel like he needs to know. I am pretty sure he is a virgin. I do not want to have sex or anything because of reasons. I have only done it with 2 guys and I have no STD... I am just really scared he would flip and break up with me over this

Went to a gas station to get some cigarettes (I know smoking is bad) and the girl working there was my age and was smoking outside.. could have hit it off good but I was really nervous for some reason. I want to go back and get her number.. should I go in buy something tell her she's cute and ask her for her number? Or how else?

I told older man about my age (mid 20s) and his jaw dropped. Is this good or bad? What does it mean?

I m 17... I recently became friends with this guy who has had mutual friends with me for a while, we hungout a few times as friends but a couple of days ago he asked me to go over his house for a get together he was having (only his bestfriend showed up) when I locked eyes with his bestfriend I could swear I fell in love, I feel like I picture my whole life with this kid in a matter of seconds (sounds crazy I know) I don t usually believe in love at first sight but idk how else to describe it. we kept making eye contact the whole night I feel like he felt it too.The point is I know the bestfriend thinks I m attractive because it slipped out that night but his friend who invited me to the house apparently has a crush on me and I know this because when he left the room his bestfriend told me.. now I feel like I have no chance with him because his friend likes me but I want to tell the bestfriend how I feel so badly because I can t get him off my mind. but I know that could stirr up trouble in their friendship so I need advice PLEASE!

there is this girl in my PE class who I really like, she is so pretty. I usually run into her in the lunch line and I want to go talk to her but I can't because I get nervous and can't say anything when she comes near me! how should I talk to her tomorrow?

I'm very sorry, I know it's a gross question but I have a fetish (dont judge me) and I'm just curious.

He not really abusive , he lives with us , he just always yelling at us like just a few seconds ago he called me a ~ b word ~ i told my mom She didnt respond my text yet

I'm a girl and I masturbate like once every week...I don't get why everyone tries to hide it. Girls ONLY!!!!

So theres this small coffee shop that i go to and it's connected to this small cafe/kitchen. So once I was sitting down and I look up and see a guy staring at me who works in the cafe/kitchen. I was facing his sideview but his face was turned and looking at me and smiling while he was answering a phone call. His eyebrows were slightly raised. I came back a few weeks later to grab a coffee to-go. While I was waiting, I look up again and i see him talking to someone, but his entire body is facing me, hes smiling even bigger, and his eyebrows were raised even more. So my friend and I went a week alter. When we were about to walk in, I saw him talking on his phone near the window. When he saw me, he smiled really big and his face lit up. So he works at the cafe/kitchen and those workers usually dont work the register at the cofee shop. When my friend was in line to buy a drink, he got off his phone quickly and ran to the register to ring her up. When we were sitting down, he kept staring at me. Like everywhere he walked he kept looking at me. When his shift ended, he looked at me one last time before he left.

Please answer. I sometimes see this young professor around (looks like she's in her early 30's) and whenever I'm walking towards the opposite direction of her, I always see her smiling and staring at me in a flirty way. Even today, I saw her doing this to me. I noticed that she doesn't act this way towards other students and faculty members so I know it's not because I look at her (if you're wondering).

so this guy tried snapchatting me last week and i just opened it and didn't respond and then he snapchatted me again today and i was debating if i wanted to respond or not. then like an hour later i decided to respond and when i did he just opened it and didn't send a snap back. why? is he mad that i took an hour to respond?

I am a freshman in high school and I am really shy. I try to talk to people but it just comes out as awkward words. How can I be more social and get myself out there. I don't accept one sentence answers so please elaborate. I come here to get help but all I get is talk to people more but how is the question. Be more complicated than simplistic.

This guy and I have been friends for two months. We talk a lot, and have hungout many times this semester. He flirts with me a lot and has implied he likes me, but we've just stayed friends. Recently I realized I like him. Last weekend I wanted to hangout but he said he was drunk and horny and didn't want to ruin our friendship. A few days later he started jokingly bringing up that he wanted me to give him a bj, and when I said no he texted me later and said "how is our friendship going to expand then" and seemed serious. This weekend we went to a party together and were both drunk. We danced and he was being very touchy, and tried to makeout. I said no because we were drunk. He kept saying if I make you uncomfortable tell me, and that I shouldn't be around him when he's drunk. I kissed him on the cheek and later he told me to kiss his neck. I went back to his house to get water since his was on the way to mine and he was touching my butt and humping me. I haven't heard from him yet. This was only 2 days ago, but he usually texts me a lot.. I snapchatted him twice today but he didn't reply to them. They were just funny pictures/memes and such. He only replies to snapchat half of the time though and doesn't go on a lot. But my question is what's going on? I sent the snaps to let him know that I wasn't creeped out by what happened. Is he mad because I didn't hookup with him or something?

My friend keeps getting really pissed at me for no good reason, and someone told me it's because she's jealous of me because guys like me and not her and because I'm "the pretty one" (in fact, they make fun of her behind her back). I think this theory has no validity. She has a boyfriend who she gets along great with and I'm never asked out. Like, ever. And I definitely wouldn't describe myself as pretty. Anyways, why would you be mad at a friend for something like that? Do you think that makes any sense, or do you think she's mad about something different and more reasonable?