This is really weird because I'm really jealous when it comes to my boyfriend but the thought of him cheating and getting away with it turns me on. I saw in his messages where he had sex with another girl once 5 months into the relationship but I didn't confront him because it turns me on for him to think I don't know. He hasn't done it since but I would confront him if he did it again there's just something that turns me on about him doing it once and getting away with it. We've been together 4 years. I don't like girls or anything so it's not the idea of a threesome that turns me on. I don't know what it is. Why is this? I'm 19 and he's 21

If I talk about a problems going on that I have like with my husband or my inlaws or work my mom always changes the subject . I want to talk to her about it but she always avoids it . I don't know what to talk about with her anymore so the only person that doesn't is my dad . My sister just tells me to let it go because they just don't want to talk about it .

So I've been talking to this girl I really really really like for the past 5-6 month through text/snapchat and sometimes in person. (We don't have many classes in school together) I really want to ask her out or on a date but i'm terrified of rejection. I'm scared if she rejects me out friendship will be awkward and go down the daring which is the last thing I want with this girl (We are in 10th grade btw) She smiles at me in the hallway and we talk in person sometimes. Im just scared of rejection. Should I go ahead and ask her out? Should I ask her how she feels or something? Or should I look for more signs that she wants to take our relationship to the next level? She never seems uninterested when we text or snap, and she gives mixed signals sometimes. I'm just really confused and could use any advice. Thanks.

Please explain why or why not? I want to know what you think! My own opinion is pointless and will taint the purity of the question.

So hi everyone, i have spent the last 5 years in a girl's school and I still need to complete 2 more years before going to university. The thing is that I was now offered the opportunity to attend a really good school but it is a mixed one (there are both boys and girls there). My parents really want me to complete my remaining 2 years there as they say that a "change in my school environment will do me some good" Throughout these past years i nearly no interactions with boys and i had been facing difficulties with making friends at tuitions(both girls and boys). So i am scared that i will not be able to adapt myself there. But i don't really like my lifestyle. Everyone say that i am shy and reserved but i want be more sociable. Do you think that going to this school will make me more sociable? Will i be able to make friends with both boys and girls? Oh also my parents are not aware of my difficulty of socialising with boys. Thanks

I am a 23 year old white guy whose, 5'3 120 pounds, with defined lean muscle, and work as a personal trainer. My landlord is a 50 year old woman from India she is a doctor. I live my own room in the same apartment as her but we share the rest of the apartment. She's a large woman who is 6'7 weighing around 280 pounds. My rent is ridiculously cheep also. She is really nice as takes me out to dinner for free. She asks me to watch movies with her on the couch. But at the same time I think she might be obsessed with me. She always loves to talk about our size difference in her thick indian accent. She feels up on my body saying "you are so small compared to me" She will compare the size of her feet, the length of her legs, the size of her thighs to me. She also made a comment saying "you are so small you can hide u inside my dress." She also feels up on my muscles and says "you are a strong little man, you can protect a big woman like me. Such a tiny man but so strong he can carry giant woman in his arms" I overheard her on the phone crying and saying that she was a virgin at 50. She said that from the day she came to America back in her early 20s she has been actively pursuing men from meeting them at bars work street etc, and even tried dating services. Almost 30 years of continuous rejection from thousands of men due to her size and her thick accent.

Ok, please no trolling. I was jumping on my trampoline with my guy friend earlier, doing gymnastics routines and he was taking pics with his phone. At one point, while I was mid air I decided to quickly pull my shorts down in back and moon him. I actually didn't mean it in a sexual way, I just thought it was funny. Later when he was looking through the photos he started laughing and actually said "omg, I see your butthole!" I looked and he had shot me while I was in air mooning him and I accidentally had shown off my anus and everything 😱. I asked him to delete it and he said no and thought it was funny. I tried to act like I didn't care but should I ask him again and be serious? This is so embarrassing!

Bueno vereis he empezado hace poco con un chico y me gusta mucho pero el problema es que estamos hablando todo el dia y llega un momento en el que nos quedamos sin cosas de las que hablar y es un poco incomodo. Y no quiero dejarle en visto ni nada de eso para que no piense que no me gusta hablar con el, si me gusta lo que no quiero es que estemos 24/7 hablando. Plss decidme que puedo hacer :/

I was 10 I got caught by a girl picking my nose and she told her friend on me that I was picking my nose and another person knew and they made fun of me. This was embarrassing. So although she saw me in high school and said hi to me and I was attracted to her, 10 years later I cursed her out on Twitter saying **** you for making fun of me in 5th grade. I also got her friends number and made up a lie that I knew her and asked for her number and she told me she doesn't have it and then I told her I'm not stupid I know you have it. At least have the balls to tell me you don't have it but don't lie to me. And then I told her anyways when you see her tell her she's not a real woman since she won't apologize for what she did. Then her friend called me from a restricted number first time I didn't pick up and then 5 minutes later she called and I picked up and I was really nervous to speak and then she was like if you don't stop and then she sensed that I was nervous she screamed listen at me and I couldn't talk back and then she was being obnoxious to me and it sounded like she was laughing with her friends and then she said if you don't stop I'll send someone after you.. I then sent her friend text messages in August getting really angry daring her friend to send someone after me and I threatened revenge because of the trauma. She responded stay away from her she's done nothing to you and you can't do anything to her. Was this right?

So i had a soccer game yesterday and i was talking to a girl i been talking to her for a while and yesterday she was playing on my team to help my team up since we didn't had players so second half we had a break and i asked her do you walk home ? she said yea and i told her if i could take her home after the game she just smile big and said yea sure then the game was over and we were leaving and she was saying bye to her friends and her friends were looking at me smiling while we were leaving then we were walking to my car i was droping her of while we were at the car we were laughing, smiling, and messing around, then when i droped her off i asked her for her number and she gave it to me but on the whole ride she was holding my phone cause i was receiving messages from my squad on a group chat cx

She doesn't like chocolate....She said she likes a specific flower and I said yes. I'll buy them for her and I'll also buy her a gifted wrap set of rose. I want to carry her out to a restaurant but I don't know what to give her...Help me please...

When my gf is around her siblings I feel unwanted. I don't feel part of them. And I would love to, but I honestly feel they don't like me or want her with me. I feel they try taking her away from me. She recently found out I felt that way , and she broke up with me. I tried expressing to her about how I feel when she's around them, like she ignores me and I feel last. She barely talks to me when she's around Them and acts different. She says I'm sick and the way I feel is sad as in I need help. Smh. I never make her feel unwanted when I'm with my coworkers or sister. I always make her feel part of things. And what I hate the most is her siblings always calling her when she's with me and it's like why they call when we're together. My people don't do that at all. I feel they do it purposely. Anywhoo she broke up with me I don't know what to do now

my mother hates black people, my husband is Dominican because he has nappy hair my mom keeps calling him black and saying I'm having a black baby and that no one is going to accept my child because it's half white and half black. That my kid will be born with a brillow pad for hair and that it's going to be ghetto It's really upsetting me for one my husbands not black, but even if he was my child wouldn't be born smoking a blunt and listening to rap music just because it's dark skinned. I think she's just teasing me but with a hint of what she really thinks.She's a holly roller and I told her God doesn't like racist people and she said if God doesn't like it he will change it in me! I'm really starting to get annoyed with her and her stupid racist bs. My husband is also very hurt, he's been called black all his life but he and his family are Spanish, he speaks Spanish he eats Spanish food he doesn't have anything to do with the little bit of black he has in him nor does he want to, he loves being Spanish and telling him he's a ****** really hurts his feelings a lot. I'm feeling like I'll have to leave my mom so I can spare my husband and child Also I have the same issue with his family, they hate me because I'm white, they wanted him to marry a Spanish girl! His family keeps saying my child isn't his because I'm white and there for a whore a lier a cheater and just plain and simple a white Devil, his sister want to fight me because I won't leave him. What can we do?

My girlfriend has trouble making eye contact with me at times; and, she flinches when I go to touch her sometimes. She also tenses when I hug her. I don't know how to ask her why without seeming judgemental

I just started work at a restaurant and I met this gal she s 17 and she ll be leaving for college in the summer. She s so cool and I m 19 so after summer I won t ever see her. Is it worth becoming her friend? Or should I just leave her as an acquaintance? I just moved here and I have no friends so Im like in desperate need for friends (but she s in high school) and she s so pretty too and nice. This is such a big deal to me

Hola tengo 16 años y mi enamorado 21 ,llevamos 6 meses de relación y últimamente él al besarme me agarra las nalgas para ser sincera yo también lo hago pues me encantan :3 ,él jamás ha hecho algo que yo no quiera pues él siempre me respeto...podremos tocarnos y todo eso pero no hemos perdido ese respeto que nos teníamos,él siempre piensa y me comenta sobre un futuro juntos ,incluso me apoya y ayuda mucho para poder ser una Gran Cirujana Pediatra, me dice mi Futura Doctora :3 ,él dice que me ama y lo demuestra de muchas formas ,también dice que él no permitirá que pasa (osea que tengamos relaciones sexuales)porque yo soy muy importante para él pero la ultima vez metió su mano bajo mi buso y me agarro la nalga ,me asusta que él solo me quiera para divertirse ,la verdad ya no se que ni que pensar :(( ,ayúdeme por favor ,gracias . Pd:Yo aún soy virgen y bueno él no se, no me atrevo a preguntarle..además soy su segunda enamorada y es la primera vez que le sucede algo así con una chica.

I'm 18 and he is 39... When I told my girlfriends they just couldn't believe it and thought it was disgusting. But I don't really mind... Just curious about outside opinions

I m 16, a sophomore in high school. I met this teacher freshman year. He is very handsome, but his personality definitely outweighs his looks. I find his personality absolutely charming and perfect to my eyes. Some background info, I m very very picky, hate teenagers (yes, I am aware that I m unfortunately a teenager but I do not act as such), and I ve always been into older men. I m not saying college boys, I m saying 30s and up. Maybe late twenties. Guys who have their s h i t together. Okay so back to my teacher. He is snarky, arrogant, sarcastic, hilarious, and has the most adorable laugh. He loves to mock students when they say stupid things which is "unethical" but c mon. It s freaking hilarious and we are all thinking it, he just isn t afraid to gloat his intelligence and have some fun. He kind of reminds me of Greg House, but way better personality wise. He is probably in his 40s, and has a wife and two kids. I am aware that even if I would somehow be able to seduce him, I d be a home wrecker and ruin his life (if anyone found out). So I guess what I m looking for is advice on how to go about this. Should I flirt? Should I just be friends with him? If so, how? I want to have at least SOME sort of relationship with him. I can t just wait for this to pass because I don t want to. There are NO men like this anywhere. Help!?

One is an orphan after all......secret/perhaps unknown illegit child in another town from a business trip one night stand perhaps??

My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years we are both legal adults. My girlfriend and her mother went to the doctor and the doctor asked if my girlfriend was sexually active. She had told her mother a lie before saying no she wasn t, and she told the doctor yes. My girlfriends mother has always liked me and told me I was a good guy for her daughter. Now that my girlfriend has been caught in the lie her mother hates my guts and wont let us see each other whatsoever. Her mother has always been very controlling and has always instilled fear to an extreme degree in her. What should I do I am not breaking up with my girlfriend, I can t really talk to her mother because she wont talk to me. I need help. Edit: I ended up talking to her mother today, at her mothers request, she completely hates me and blames me for her daughter lying to her about things. Her mother gave me a long lecture and she isn't letting us see each other still. This can't go on forever can it?

I am divorced but my ex wife and I are on friendly terms. We email each other on rare occasions. She has remarried. Her last email said she very much wanted to go to her high school reunion but she did not have the money for an airline ticket. I told her that I had some good news for her. I had a pass for a free airline trip anywhere in the US from being bumped off a flight. I would give it to her for free. That made her VERY HAPPY. I got a call from her current husband and he asked me where his free airline ticket was. I though this is odd as I have never talked to or met him before. I told him I only had 1 ticket. He said if I really was her friend I would get him a ticket also. He told me that if I did not get him a ticket, he was not going to let her go. My thought at the time is this guy is NUTS. I am not about to buy him an airline ticket. If he wants to tell his wife he will not let her go, that is NONE OF MY BUSINESS. I am not getting involved in her and her husbands affairs. I thought about telling her what he told me but that would probably just cause them to have a fight so I didn't tell her. Did I do the correct thing by not telling her? Did I do something wrong offering to give her a free airline ticket?

Is he turned on?

This has been going on for some time now. And I just don't know how to respond. I been nice and at time I have been to th point of just crying. It's been sad and I even feel that its everyone. I find answers to question being very vague and a great amount of contradiction. I even have caught a couple of people lying to me and then trying to save their own lie. It has been just painful. Does anyone have any advice out there???