So my parents had 5 girls, we are all close in age which is why I thought my dad was stressed out and that s why he acted like he hated us. He always called us names like "retarded" "stupid" "whores" and we weren t bad kids.. I was but I didn t turn bad until around high school. My dad would hit us when he was angry or had a bad day at work and we irritated him.. He d just snap and start hitting us until he felt better it seemed like.. He was a monster. His mouth would twitch and he d act like we were men challenging him.. I remember feeling like I was going to faint when he wouldn t stop hitting me. I have a deviated septum now that is hard to contour with makeup, my sisters and I all have bad nervous habits because of it.. One of my sisters had seizures after being hit and now her mind isn t what it used to be.. And not that I d actually do it but I m wondering if people sue for this type of thing. None of us talk to my father now that we re older and have children of our own that we don t want exposed to him.. Amor my mother for that matter because she never tried to stop anything.

Before I get into anything, my parents go divorced when I was 16, I choose to live with my dad. We had a really great father-son relationship. When I finished high school, I told him I were to take a gap year. He said he was fine with that, as long as I don't sit around all day. He got me a job in constructions, it was really hard, especially for someone who just finished school. I worked from 6AM to 5PM and I had to ride my bike (since I don't have a car) 20km's each day. (10 there 10 back). I worked like that from June to December. In October however, he went to work in a different country. Since I (we) live in a third-world country, he got a job offer in Germany. He told me I don't have to worry financially, because he'll send me money for rent and for me. I said he doesn't need to, because even though my job sucked, I made more money than my aunt who finished college and is teaching in school and I didn't want to put any kind of pressure on him. However 2 weeks ago, I got fired (long story) and though I started looking for a new job, most jobs required experience which I don't have, or required me to work 3-6 months for free, before getting paid for what I do. Since I need to start studying for college anyways soon, I said it's not worth for me, because I'd have to quit by the time I'd start getting paid. Anyways, I decided to ask my dad if he could support me financially for a few months and started explaining why. Instead of even listening to what I had to say, he started saying things like "When I was your age I never asked my parents for money." or started bringing up names of people who required no financial support at my age. We haven't talked since. So. Am I really asking for too much? If the answers yes, I can deal with it, I just have to hear it from someone else. PS: Sorry for long post. Also, for 3 days of work, he gets paid more than enough for my monthly needs. (Bills, food, drink etc.)

My father is incredibly racist, sexist, and he discriminates everyone. My mother is 1/4 Japanese and she s also Russian. My dad always says horrible things about Japanese and Russian people. He also says awful things about my mom like she cheated on him from day one or she s a s***. He s sexist towards me. my half brothers (his sons) are the same as him. I m fifteen and I have to listen to my big brothers say all i m good for is cleaning, cooking, and letting guys use me. I m 5 foot 8 and 120 pounds yet father still tells I need to loose weight. All these remarks have completely destroyed my self esteem. I ve wanted to live with my mom since I was 8, but my father will come up with any lie/excuse to keep me from her. She s not a bad mom at all. She s amazing. He doesn t even let me see her for Christmas even though when my parents divorced they agreed she would get me some Christmases and he would have me and my younger brother (not half bro) other Christmases. My father and I live on the other side of the country from my mom and younger brother. I just don t know how I can continue living like this for another 3 years.

So, when I was 7 my parents got divorced and they've always been bitter to each other ever since. I started to alternate weeks when living with my mom and dad. When I was about 10 me, my mom, and my sister were all coming back from her friends house and I had a bloody nose and chronic headaches because of the cold winter air. Me and my sister were fighting and I did something particularity annoying and my mom turned around and slapped me. A couple minutes later my mom dropped me and my sister off with my dad and I was still crying. My dad asked me what happened and I told him about my mom slapping me. He saw the bloody nose and put the two together and thought my mom caused it. He took my mom to court and tweaked the story to make it sound worse. Slapping was changed to punching and he lied about the real cause of my bloody nose and headaches. My dad also told me all these lies and I actually started to believe him. I told the revised story to social workers without knowing how much damage that could cause my mom. My dad got full custody of me for a while and then I started going to my moms house again. This time she had a boyfriend that lived in Virginia but was working in Duluth,MN (where my mom lived) for a while. He soon got transfered back to Virginia but would fly out to Duluth on the weekends to see my mom. He would stay at our house for the whole weekend and me and my sister didn't really like him at first because he was a surprise to us. Part 2: We tried to avoid him and not talk to him and when we did talk to him there was a hint of bitterness in our voice. Things were still happening in court and my moms boyfriend saw it. I was treating my mom horribly. She thought that if me and my sister didn't care for her, she wouldn't make us keep seeing her. So then she moved to Virginia to live with her boyfriend. After she moved and I got older (14 years old), I started to notice how much of a scumbag my dad really was. Part 3: I have to buy the groceries with my own money for me and my sister because my dad goes out every night for dinner and comes back drunk sometimes. Two months ago, he brought back someone who worked at a bar. She smoked and was a big alcoholic. She was also really racist and said really inappropriate stuff. On nights when she gets seriously drunk she acts the way a serial killer would. I started hiding knives under my pillow in case she tried to hurt me or my sister. Part 4: One time I was talking to my mom on the phone and walked over by the doorway to my bedroom and she was just sitting at the end of the hallway looking at me. Once I saw her, she didn't even move or say anything. she just kept watching me. Part 5: Last summer I went to my moms house because I hadn't seen her for a long time. We hadn't fought the whole time I was there and me and her boyfriend (now her husband) got along great unlike before. She would do anything for me and I'd do the same for her. We talk on the phone most nights and I told her that I wanted to move in with her. Part 6: She talked to Rob (her husband) about it but he said that I was doing what I did to her (get her in trouble by saying she hit me) to my dad and that if I moved there I would wanna go back and I would jeopardize both of their jobs by lying about them abusing me. Part 7: I can see why he would think that I would do that but I didn't know what I was doing then and would definitely take it back now if I could. I told my mom this and she said that I should tell him that I'm sorry for what I put him and my mom through and explain/convince him why I should move in. The problem is I don't know what I should say Could you guys help me out with this?

My mom has a PhD she's extremely bright. I'm in college & ive asked her to critique my paper. Since she's so smart I feel inferior. I feel like I'll never be able to be as smart as her. I guess, I misunderstood what my teacher was asking regarding a specific question. I spent hours on it only to have to have my mother re explain the question even she said she didn't quite understand the question. I just feel like I'll never be as smart or as educated as my mom.

His 16th birthday is coming and he's invited many guests including me and my little sis. His parents will be away so it's just his friends me and my sister. Should I get my sister and me to tickle him. In front of the other guests? I am 15 years old and my sister is 13 years old.

So at Costco my mom was pushing the cart and a guy said are those two ladies with u (me and my sis). She said yes and he said why arent you or ur sis pushing the cart? Im 17, and I was tired that day and I was moody because I was PMSing, and also I was dwelling on a problem, but I admit that he has the point. It was impolite of me not to push the cart for my mom, and I feel bad and Ill make sure it will never happen again. I learned a lesson. I plan on doing the dishes today and maybe cleaning the kitchen to make it up to my mom. But is it normal?/ Does everyone do something impolite (but not on purpose). Next time, Ill make sure Ill ask my mom to let me push the cart at any market place..

My grandma and mother always yell at me,diss me and i feel like ****. I know they do it with love but it's way too much and i can't take it anymore. I feel like they disrespect me and hate me . What should i do?

My sis called me spoil because my dad goes easy on me than others since I am the second youngest and I am 13. But I don't get everything I want. I want to use my dad computer but he won't let me since he think I am going to get addicted to it. Then the computer was broke. Down due to virus. A couple of years later, I learned how to fix the computer and did it. Not really easy to fix a computer. They still call me spoiled even though I get yelled at and no one ever is on my side. Not to mention. I don't have any electronics except an I touch 2 which I still use but really slow. I am depressed too. I think they still call me spoiled because I get less punishment than them.

Do I put a stop to this at all? I'm the single dad to my son. My younger sister loves being his aunt and 9/10 times she comes over she brings him something. Toys, desserts, etc. He's 5 btw. I just don't want him going up a spoiled kid or only associated his aunt with gifts. It's already starting, yesterday I told him Aunt Hailie was coming over. His response was " I hope I get a present." She brought a massive bag of cookies. How do I address this?

Is he suppose to have *** on him when he pulls out??

My boyfriend and I originally lived in two different states. When I moved in, I had no idea he had a cat. He knows I can't stand cats. That thing pees in the bathroom, always messes up the living room, knocks drinks over all of the time, meows loudly at night and wakes us up, and there's fur everywhere! We are now looking for a new home and most places don't allow cats. He's turned down very nice affordable homes just to keep that cat and now we are about to settle for a really nasty apartment that smells like cat pee just so he can keep the thing. I've had it. We have 5 days until we have to move out. How do I convince him to find the cat a new home?

I have been thinking about this lately. My 2 cousins came to live with my mom and I when I was about 9 or 10. One of my cousins slept in my room and he was I think a year or two younger and he turned everything into a sexual situation and the other was a few months younger. I just followed through because I had no idea what was even happening. One even took control over my 2 year old sister and my mom caught him doing it. I forgive him though. I know we were young and dumb. I know he has the possibility to change. He even admitted to me and my mom that he used to be touched by his older brother also and did sexual things to him and he didnt like it. His older brother also did things to me. Even in front of my family, we were watching tv and he suddenly grabbed my hand and put it in his pants. If he didnt get what he wanted, he would get kinda controlling. I am 15 now and I constantly think about maybe it was my fault. I never pushed myself onto them or did something they didnt tell me to do. I never once controlled them but I still feel horrible like its all my fault. It's eating away at me.

My sister was always in trouble, she had bad grades, she was snotty, and I mean, she was just a horrible person in general. When I was like 10-11 she would always bring guys into her room and she even told me straight up she was um, doing "it" with them. She was like, 15 and she had a baby at 18. She also ran away and went to live with my grandma when she was 16 because my dad's wrath is pretty horrible and she couldn't handle it. My dad always said stuff about her when she lived at grandma's like, "She's not depressed just over dramatic" I feel like he is just waiting for me to make a mistake so that he can scream at me. I haven't done anything. I don't lie, I have good grades, I haven't even had my first kiss. I just wish he'd ease up a bit... is that too much to ask? I know he is just trying to protect me but... he could do it in a well, less harsh manner. I'm 14 and he acts like if I make one tiny mistake like, I don't know. Actually have a social life, the entire world is going to go into chaos.

my sister is immature and how do i put her in her place

Yesteryday I turned 14 years old, and everybody forgot it was my birthday. However, they didn't forget it was my twin brother's birthday as well. So they ignored me, but celebrated it for my twin brother. This really made me feel bad, becuase I always remember everyone else's birthday. I didn't get a happy birthday, a cake with my name on it, any presents, or even any attention. I was ordered around to make our birthday special for him. I tried to tell everyone it was my birthday too, but they all ignored or told me to tell them later. In fact, I got grounded for not wishing him a happy birthday on Facebook. Well, my life sucks, I wasnt even allowed to eat a slither of that cake. Nobody even saying my name, or including me in activities.

So for about 6 months, my mother has been getting increasingly lazier. The most work she ever does is driving, and she only has to do that to pick me up from school. She's too lazy to call my teachers back, and all she does is smoke and drink in the garage. Today I was SUPPOSED to have a thing with one of my teachers, but she was too lazy to drive me. I'm too young to drive, and we can afford gas. I'm worried that it's affecting her just as negatively as it is me. What should I do?

I am her 14 year old brother and she's 17. Every day she tickles me like crazy. Sometimes she gets me in shirtless and tied to the bed and she will tickle me in front of her friends and I hate it. I Hate It! What should I do?

I'm not old enough to get a job or car and my mom sits on her phone all week and stays in her bed and my friends usually ask me to come over and she tells me no because she doesn't want to take me over their house and I hate staying inside and I have absolutely nothing to do and my dad is never home and we have nothing at our house like food so I usually skip breakfast and lunch and I can't stand it anymore!!!!!!!!!

I remember when my 5 years old brother once said: Sister, there is a boy in my age that cries everytime he sees someone watering the flowers in the garden. Why does he cry, sister? Is it because the flowers are freezing when they get water? This was the craziest thing I've heard from a kid, but at the same time it sounds beautiful. What do you think? Oh, I forgot to ask. This reminds me of a famous quote: ''You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view… until you climb into his skin and walk around in it'' Can I connect this event with this quote, since I'm going to make a presentation in english. The character Scout has weird imaginations about Boo Radley, but with this quote she understan

Hi! I'm 16 and my little brother is 13 and autistic. Yesterday on the bus he was getting harrased by these bullies and one of them punched him. As his older brother, I fought for my brother and gave his bully a black eye. I was later kicked off the bus, along with my little brother. This is due to the bully being nephews of the bus driver. I'm also suspended untill the end of February vacation. My parents are mad at me not for standing up to the bullies, but for getting kicked off the bus. I do feel bad about the kid I punched, but I do love my brother. So that leaves me down to the main question. Did I really do the right thing?

Okay my fiance is in the military. A few months ago for his graduation me and his parents all drove up to see him. He had two days to visit with us before leaving for school. I didn't get to spend anytime alone with him!(and i had my own hotel room )'he actually come up to my room and was there maybe 5min before his mom started calling and texting me. But I let it go...well now he's on a month leave (he's also doing some type of work so that's why he gets to stay home for a bit) anyways he's about 12days in....and I still have no got to spend a whole day alone just me and him! The first night he came home his mom complained and complained until he ended up staying the night there(we have our own place ) anytime he has free time she wants him to come over! And it's really starting to get to me i don't even care about the lack of sex life it would just be nice to be able to lay in bed and watch a movie without getting 30min in and her start calling over and over again anyone else ever deal with this

So, in order to go to my boyfriend's house tonight my Dad asked I help prepare and clean the house for our Super Bowl party tomorrow, okay no problem. However, I'm trying to help, I've already tried to clean the bathroom, the floors, and the mirrors. I got yelled at for "Not doing it right" or to do something else. Since I get told to do something else or get out of the way I can't finish the job I was working on and now my Dad says I can't go because I didn't help. I don't understand.... I tried but got yelled at?

Whenever I try to voice my opinion, and he does not agree with it he tells me "shhhhh" and "shut up". I have never done anything to my Dad. Because I am the only child of his to go to a private school he calls me an ungreatful b whenever he does not agree with what I am saying or when we are in an argument. I have started sticking up for myself during our fights and he calls me an out of control psycho and an ungrateful (b) witch. Why does he treat me so poorly?

All the time too much?

Im a 17 year old girl and my mom has verbally abused me my entire life and when she gets really mad she physically abuses me. I will be going to college in a little less than a year (which by the way my DAD is paying for because my mom has never worked a day in her life). I want to see my dad but i never want to see my mother again after i leave. Can i legally prevent her from coming to see me?

As strange as this sounds, this is true. Turned 18 just recently. All my life I've been kept from girls as I have very controlling mother and get bullied in school. Very shy all the time. Unlike people my age, I can't have posters of girls on my walls because mom doesn't like stuff on the walls. My life with the opposite gender has been bland. I was afraid to look at a Victoria's Secret magazine out of shame that I shouldn't or at least I felt that way. Then one day, I just caved in and began lookin through the magazines and drawing portraits of the girls in lingerie. Then I began putting lingerie pics of the girls on the computer screen. The only thing is, it's my moms computer but I use it a lot and am not allowed to make other accounts. Never did I get yelled at for having them up. Often I get a rush knowing the pics are up at all times. Then I switched to this girl in yoga pants. She had an amazing sexy body and a cute butt too. http://girlsinyogapants.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/lupefuentes2.jpg

My mom and I didn't like each other very much during my teen years. We not only are polar opposites but she's not a very accepting person. If you don't agree with her she can't be civil with you. We haven't talked in like a month. All my friends posted normal happy photos during the holidays and my family spent the holidays causing drama. My mom can't handle that I'm not following the path in life she would have chosen for me. She can't accept that I'm not like her and I want different things out of life. After a huge blow out after Christmas, we didn't talk much and then another major argument a month ago has us not talking at all. I've always told her. I'm older now. The parent child aspect is gone, I don't live at home. In fact I live half way across the country from her. It's not better at all like I thought it would be. I'm grown after all. Everytime we did talk it was where I needed to move, attacks on my personal appearance, attacks on my boyfriend. Putting me down for what I was doing and trying to control me into doing what she wanted me to do. Why can't she just relax and quit robbing me of having a normal relationship with her?

I have 2 brothers who just eat like CRAZY. Parents are no help towards the situation, We never have food because brothers literally eat Everything in a few days. (There not fat btw, there growing boys and in sports) Fiance buys cereal and milk for herself, (she wants a little something to herself for the morning) she hasn't even opened the box, (middle)brother starts eating her cereal and milk the next morning. Were annoyed because they always eat her personal snacks when were gone. Not a big deal, but its a big deal when its a everyday thing.. I cant tell him **** or kick his ***, mom defends him too much. (thats her golden boy) If i tell mom to back tf off, Dad defends her even though he knows she and brother are in the wrong. answer to this: is to move tf out, we are this month. What are your thoughts on this?

Im so nervous rn, bc idk what shes gonna say. She didnt know, and now shes going to. She thought we were strictly friends, and now she will know we went farther. It has been 30 mins and she still has my phone. Someone reply asap. And tell me what I should do? should i leave the house and go to my other parents house? So she can calm down?

I know I already posted this two times, but tomorrow is the baby shower, and I still haven't gotten a answer in if I could go or not. I acted almost perfect all week, did a little bit of chores, and I behaved perfectly at the auction we went to. However, I did ask more than a few times about me going and I kept nagging about the baby items they were selling. But she said she would buy something (meaning she would go to the store and buy something). I also have a ride to take me. Is there any way I can make her say yes? The baby shower is tomorrow and I really want to go. Thanks so much!

So I'm 24 and female. We live in a house, and he stayed over once a week for work near by. He would be in the basement and my mom and I on the second floor. I'm a college student and I work. Living in New York is not easy with rent and I pay my own bills, if I could move out o would but college and work hours aren't enough at the moment. We were cleaning the basement together and found the wrapper ONLY (no used condom) under the bed. She stared to cry and asked herself what went wrong with raising me. I don't know how To approach this situation. Yes she is religious.

I asked this question about an hour ago but didnt know i could add more words i apologize.My mom may be in this situation but im not sure, shes old and doesnt have any skills and she never even went to highschool, she hs no skils she only knows how to clean,when she worked she used to be sort of like a janitor, she wasnt born here so shes for a lack of a better word "illegal imigrant" which makes it hard to get governmen help or get a job , im 15 so theres not much i can do to help, my stepdad supports us,he seems lke a nice guy but how can we ever know how a person actually is,i guess my question is what do old people with no ways to support themselves do? im pretty sure there are women all over the world in this situation, no skills no family to help you,what do you do, the man obviously has all the power in the relationship because he knows she has to obey his commands or shes thrown on the streets

I am in USA and my older brother is in China. He says his son will be married soon, and he decided to help his son to buy a condo house in Shanghai. He has to pay for the 1st time down payment which is about 600000RMB, but he not have that much money so he expect me to lend him 200000RMB(same as 30000US$). But my wife not allow me to lend money to my brother for his son's reason, she said his son should buy house himself instead of relying on his father. I understand,in USA, the father no need to buy house for his child, but in China, this is a must. My brother like my 2nd father, he cares me a lot when I was a child. I think I should lend money to him even if I have get loan from bank. And also I know it will be difficult for him to return so much money to me in future, but that is ok. The problem is,if he cannot return my money in future, my wife will fight to me and may divorce. Please advise should I lend money to my brother or not? How to make both my brother and my wife happy and not hate me? I lose my way now..please advise, please

15 years ago, my father & I got into a very heated argument. I vowed never to speak to him again. I have 4 brothers that I kept in touch with throughout the years. I moved across country and that was it. I heard my father became very ill & I wanted to go see him before he passed but my pride just got the best of me. I never went to see him, never went to his funeral. It's been 3 months & I finally decided take a flight & go see my mother. At first, she didn't even recognize me but quickly jumped up & hugged me. She asked me why I did what I did. That my father was heartbroken for 15 years over not speaking to. I feel an immense amount of guilt now. I've been very depressed since returning home from visiting my mother. I'm having a hard time any advice? I feel like the worlds worst son.

We're both quite stressed at this time of the year (blame it on the university) and it's quite devastating to out relationship. He's emotionally driven and often doesn't know how/when to stop talking, especially when it comes to insults. He gets mad because of something completely unrelated to me/us, starts yelling at me for almost no reason (swears at me, calls me names etc.), blames me for literally every problem he had that day and decides to apologize a day or two later. Is it time to leave?

I an a high school senior with twin step sisters my age, my step mother's daughters. They are both gorgeous with a figure to die for. They like to come in my room in the evening so I can help them do their homework. I am happy to help them as I really like them. The problem is when they come in for homework help they wear their shorty nightgown and nothing else. Everything is visible. I would NEVER EVER have sex with my sisters. However my weenee sometimes has a mind of it's own and I get a b0ner. It is totally embarrassing when this happens. They don't know I sometimes do this as I hide it from them. When I ask them to wear more clothes when the come into my room, they tell me there is no way I should be sexually attracted to them. Does this make me a perverted sick guy?

I have 3 brothers and only 2 controllers for their ps4. If one of them isn't playing, they yell at the top of their lungs. My parents refuse to do anything about it unfortunately so I have to quiet them down, which usually makes it worse. I need some help onto making them settle down. We live in an apartment and I'm not trying to be thrown out of it. Thanks!

Talking, texting mom everyday, telling her all the things about our life. Mom not valuing you enough and only in favor of talking to her son and acting so bossy, then the man doesn't agree to change the situation for the sake of the wife. Is it a good reason or can it be compromised in a way? It's been 8 years like this, just doesn't change! The guy only wants momma!

My parents are so insensitive, they smoke weed every day and around me too. They make me do their pee tests my mom puts pee in a bottle and she pretends its water but in reality she pours the pee into the pee test thing when she gets to her job. I smell like weed at school and everyone tells me I do but I will never smoke and I never have in my life. All of my clothles smell like weed also. I hate this and If I even talk to my mom about it she's gonna act stupid and ask why am I smoking weed even though she knows she is the one causing the smell. I hate my family and I want to live with my aunt. I'm 14 so couldn't I choose to leave with my aunt?

So for three years I ve been working at a dairy and really the pay was 20 50 every 2 weeks and I did a good amount of stuff correctly without hesitation. Keep in mind this is a dairy my parents own. I m not looking for a massive paycheck, just something constant because with only 20-50 bucks every two weeks to pay for gas and insurance?? It s impossible. I ve brought it up alot but nothing changes ever since last year. Is it wrong of me to be wanting to get a job somewhere else so I can save for the things I want without having to ask for more money to my parents? I ask my parents and all they basically do is threaten me of how I ll fail. That feeling isn t new or anything, but thst won t doesn t help is the bad part. If you re thinking I am a failure, I really think I m not my grades are strait A s and I don t do drugs or go and do whatever I want. I m just looking for some help on this desicion please. Thank you guys do much.

For as long as I can remember my mom has treated me like I'm worthless. I was a good kid, the only bad thing I ever did was not do my chores but she would always greet me with screams and hits. She fortunately doesn't hit me anymore but her verbal abuse has gotten worse. She's an extremely bad alcoholic now and is the worst than she's ever been. She's very very needy, she always needs attention and if I don't give it to her she gets mad. Even If I ignore her while I'm doing my homework she gets mad at me. She's also very irresponsible, she buys my 18 year old brother weed and alcohol and she ALWAYS tells me about her sex life, in extreme detail which makes me visibly uncomfortable but she just carries on. She has made me develop depression and anxiety and I even tried to kill myself because of her. But she always act like she's the victim. I once asked her if she could stop yelling at me so much because my depression was getting bad again and she kicked me out. She made me wait outside in the freezing cold for an hour before my friend could pick me up and even threatened to call the police and tell them I was high (even though I wasn't). I really don't know why she treats me like this, I'll admit I'm not the best kid somethings but it's not like I'm doing meth or failing any of my classes. I really don't know what to do anymore, I can't handle her and im worried I will do something stupid to her or myself.

I recently found out my mom was having sex with my brother. No, its not that she wanted to..its different. Over a course of a few years she has been hassling me and getting my sister to cover it up. The fact is I recently found out that after living downstairs for a long period of time, I would go upstairs to see shear vandalism. My sister's stuff would be destroyed, her room banged on. Recently, my mother had stolen the key to my room. Then I checked my brother's room last night. No where was my mom found. I heard a thumping sound, then noticed a locked door. I snuck back downstairs then waited. Lo and behold, upon the steps I was standing on, I noticed my mom coming out of the room. This explains years of abuse, and my brother's good treatment. He has a job, his room is always locked, he never gets anything stolen. It also explains my sister's sexual tendencies to gather a close relationship with me throughout the past few years. Help, I want to leave but can't. I have no actual evidence. What do I do?

So, I do twice a week training, and along side me are about 15 other people. When I told my mom that if I were to do training, I would like it to be specifically one on one, because I have severe social anxiety. Well, that didn't happen. Anyways, I've been trying to tough it out for about 3-4 sessions now, but today I have my breaking point. I was a crying mess saying I couldn't do it and my mom told me to "get over it, I spent money on this". Now, I do feel bad about her spending money on it, but shouldn't she care more about my well being than money? Also, she is a therapist. She should be able to help me with this kind of thing, but she always brushes me off . I guess I just need a third opinion on this?

I had a fight with my brother just now in my mom car.Actually it started when i said theres a car at the back(i'm joking at that time)when my mom is reversing her car.Then,my bro shouted "idiot" at me.And then i said he's an idiot too cause he use 3000dollar from my mom bonus just for a road bike.Then he just keep quiet.. When we arrived at home he shouted at me loudly "Get out from this car,pig!!!" then i'm just keep quiet.Then nothing happen.Actually i'm really hate my brother since i'm young cause he always slap me when i'm young even though i didnt do anything wrong?..and he always asked my mom for money especially for his bike and he once said that he want to change to another family cause my mom never fullfill what he want.But i'm just keep cool.Maybe i'm look fine but inside i was screaming!

I wouldnt care this if I was the one who was annyoed. in our house ,there are 3 families.When everybody's busy in their room,she calls everybody in loud voice(like she is very important),everyone is pissed off but they dont tell her. I am scared when they suddenly tell her ,she might get hurt. I have tried to tell her about this but she became mad at me and asked other people if she is annoying but of course nobody will tell her that.

I want to get my hair done it will cost around 85-100 but she is blackmailing me and using me she said ive to earn it and clean the bathrooms (3) her room my room including changing bed clothes washing up doing laundry if she asks me to do it if i say im busy or wait a mintue she threatens not to do my hair im getting sick of it if been doing everything she asks and its still not enough i think it is so unfair If i was getting money per chore i would say fair enough but i am not getting anything i have not gotten a penny i dont even get an allowence from her so its not like im being a ***** about it i am trying and if i dont do one more thing everything else i done will be for nothing she is adding on to the things i have to do

Next month is my prom, as well as my family going on vacation. What should I do? Go to prom with my friends or go abroad? The sad part is I'd be missing out. I won't have a second chance at this. Though there would be a ball next year. It won't be the same. But I would like to go abroad because I rarely leave the country. Also I have paid for my prom which is a hundred bucks. No refunds as well )-: so basically who will I leave, my best friend or my family. ****. I know the right answer is to go with my family but prom is once in a lifetime. I really need help.

We got an au pair about a month ago. She's Spanish and not just overweight, she's obese. She has a very easy lifestyle here (drop kids to school, do very light housework for about 30mins, then free to do whatever she likes until 3pm when the kids come home from school. All she has to do is sit there and mind them until my mother comes home at 6pm. The au pair doesn't have to cook dinner or anything like that) she spends her time on the laptop and wifi (we got her a seperate one as ours is limited and she'd use it all up v quickly). Drinks about 10 mugs of coffee a day with 2 spoonfuls of sugar each... I'm 16 and I've come to absolutely hating her. She annoys me in whatever she does, was tolerating her until I found out she never ever washes her hands (even after the bathroom) and now I hate her. My mother knows this but says she hates her. We were supposed to get an au pair that could help me with my horses and stuff too (not heavy work at all for her) and it turns out she won't even walk in muck... She is lazy, unmotivated and now that she's getting more comfortable with the family she's going out most nights with her friends using our jeep and diesel:/ I'm am completely sick of her and don't know what to do. I spend most of my time in my bedroom because I hate the sight of her and she's always down in the kitchen with my family .

I'm 19 and have had a ****** up life and it's all thanks to my mom. my mom haves homeschooled me since I was born.she was having a baby every year so I ended up with 12 brothers and sisters anyway my dad was extremely abusive and would physically and verbally abuse all of us kids and my mom. My mom never did any school with us we learned all on our own how to read and write etc. She wouldn't let us leave the house and we had no friend's or family and we never went anywhere other than the store so pretty much I grew up with no social interation and no friends other than my brother's and sisters. At 14 she decided to put me in school and I legit was labeled mentally retarded by my teachers on the first day and socialing was terrible I had major social anxiety. I finally found a crowd of people to accept me and got heavily involved in drugs and drinking and crime to the point where I was using everyday all day because it was the only way I felt comfortable around people. Well now I'm 19 I made it to my 10th grade year before dropping out I only completed two years of school. I've been in and out of juvinal and adult jail 10 times now. I can't keep friends unless I'm getting high or drunk with them. I want to go to college but I'm just afraid I ain't smart enough to go. I just feel like I'm never gonna amount to anything. And I don't know if I should blame my mom or myself. I honestly just feel hopeless and I'm never gonna have a chance At a good life.

I was twenty years old, I was studying in college, my family did not trouble much about economics, but they only give me money to school, was not even enough money to eat, I have to go to work beyond , throughout childhood education they do not give me money to buy clothes, books, I was stealing their money to buy things that were many times I argue with them, I said the wrong word to them because I was so angry, they do not consider me as their child, I just like slaves. I tried to explain to them, but they are always conservative. please answer seriously, I mean their offspring,

So I did something really bad last year- not something like killing someone or whatever- but I developed a bit of a lying habit last year and I lied to her about playing games and thus got pretty bad grades. I m trying my best to make up for it, and I m studying hard, but it seems like she gets madder every time she thinks about the incident. She has beat me 4 times so far with increasing fury every time, and the most recent beating was 10 minutes ago. She has also gone as far as to try to kick me out, although thankfully that never actually happened. While I stood the beatings for a while, today my mother s treatment of me dramatically worsened, and I m worried that I ll actually be kicked out with nothing but the clothes on my back. I was wondering what I should do in this case, thank you. Also, I want actual answers instead of things like "Just make up to your mother with a gift or something" since it s already way past that stage. She has also developed a kind of paranoia which makes her always think I'm lying if I even just twitch a finger in the general direction of my keyboard. Any help? Another update: It also doesn't help that my mother has almost no computer knowledge and thinks that just scrolling down on a page is changing the screen over from a game. She has even less belief that I'm actually studying, because she quizzed me on my study material RIGHT AFTER SHE BEAT ME. What does she expect, that I can actually answer coherently after she beat me around the head with my own study book?

I live with my parents and they get mad when I stay up late (even though I've told them multiple times I have insomnia which they refuse to believe and say it's about discipline but that's for another time) but anyway the kitchen is very close to their room and my fridge is very loud and my house is very quiet. I want to grab ice cream from the freezer but I'm scared I'll wake them up!

My father calls me names that I don't like! I am 13 I have a brother that is 9 and the other that is 7 they always make me and my twin sister problems and they hit us with hard and heavy things.. Now the problem is that if we got angry we hit them on their hands but not hardly and tell them to stop but they don't! My parents always blame things on us and say that we began first and never believe us and they say we are the eldest so we can't even touch them! Its ok for them if they hit us but we should never do any thing and I hate that I never did anything bad to them! My father calls me names I don't like what is the solution?! I want him to stop.

Six years ago, my son's dad was convicted to domestic violence. He spent time in jail, was put on probation and ordered to take DV classes. Instead, he fled the state moving 4000 miles away, and a warrant went out for his arrest. Never paid any child support, never attempted any contact, for six years. In October, two weeks after I got engaged, he contacted me and said he wanted to start calling our son over the phone to "build a relationship". We called him twice that month with each call only 5 minutes long, then didn't hear from him again until last week. Last phone call left our son crying because his dad said he couldn't come see him because of the warrant. Over text, I asked his dad if he was ever intending on taking care of his legal issues and he said "in a year or so". Our son doesn't remember him since he was a newborn when he dad left. He has no interest in continuing the phone calls. His dad doesn't call. When I told him I wasn't going to call him if our son doesn't want too, he told me that I was "keeping his son away from him" and was "aligning him". Yet, he is not initiating the phone calls or putting in any effort. Doesn't even text to see how he is doing. Some people are telling me to cut off contact. It feels like the sporadic phone calls are only doing more harm than good to my son. I'm not the kind of person to actually keep a child away from their parent, but I'm torn on what to do. What do you think I should do?

Just to clarify, both of them were abusive throughout my childhood and far beyond the age of 18. They did something horrible and illegal to me that I may or may not be able to prove -- but he was remorseful before he had his stroke and I'm conflicted about talking to him but feel like I want to in some weird way.