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- Question: Why is this girl so immature?
- Question: Is my friend's reaction to LSD normal?
- Question: Why does my friend gets overly excited when she sees me?
- Question: Is it okay for a 15 year old to hang out with a 20 year old?
- Question: Right decision?
- Question: Are my co workers treating me different because I am a woman?
- Question: How to talk to a girl?
- Question: How to get over being this shy?
- Question: "Friend" wants me to drive them to lunch and I don't really like them. What should I tell them?
- Question: Was this a good way to stop the heckling?
- Question: How do I stop worrying?
- Question: Is it okay to break a promise?
- Question: Is there anything sexual about this?
- Question: I messed up by telling my bestfriend something bad ?? what do i do?
- Question: Why am I so bothered by a friend who acted lie he didn't see me?
- Question: My friend and I were sexually assaulted and can't do anything about it?
- Question: Why doesn't any of the girls like me or wanna be friends with me.?
- Question: Please don't criticize me. ..?
- Question: I have no friends, and no one likes me. Very Depressed, thinking of suicide.?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: I have way more friends that are girls than guys.?
- Question: What to do about this lonely situation?
- Question: How to deal with rape?
- Question: If you were to help internall displaced persons(IDPS), what would you do?
- Question: How am I supposed to make friends in college?
- Question: Why do people do this?
- Question: Is this a fake friend?
- Question: Friendship problem?
- Question: I feel left out from my friends... :(?
- Question: My best friends are dating (both girls) and I didn't know what this means for our friendship?
- Question: How do I overcome this fear...It's making me terrible at making friends?
- Question: Should I choose sides between my two best friends? (Fake names are in the details so my friends don't find out and get mad)?
- Question: Urgent!!! Please help...?
- Question: I stopped talking to ALL my friends?
- Question: Can someone pray for me to get more friends in college and to do good in school.... :( Im so sad?
- Question: Her kid invited my kids to his birthday party. Was I suppose to thank them for inviting my kids even though we're no longer friends?
- Question: What's the best way to approach this "friend"?
- Question: Why would people be so mean to such a nice person?
- Question: Someone is stalking me?
- Question: If you do something stupid and annoying in class, do people getover/forget about it?
- Question: Why atoms are newtral?
- Question: I work at a gas station I was wondering about this I was to scared to ask them before?
- Question: How do I make my friend more comfortable around me?
- Question: What should I do about a teacher who I used share anything with but now disses me and doesn't give me eye contact whatsoever ?
- Question: I miss my old friends :/?
- Question: I have this weird friend?
- Question: Words don't mean anything to me anymore, is that bad?
- Question: Was this rude of me?
- Question: My parents won't let me see my best friend?!?
- Question: What is wrong with my best friend?
- Question: The internet acts as a substitute for friends?
- Question: I really need your opinion?
- Question: I PROMISE this is serious and I'm NOT trolling! How can I help this person?
- Question: Is it okay that I dont feel bad?
- Question: How do I tell me friend that she is wrong?
- Question: Teen seems to be pulling away from me?
- Question: Do you think he'll meet me?
- Question: Good excuses why I don't want to be in the class picture :/?
- Question: I have sex with my abusive ex boyfriend because I'm depressed and don't have anyone else to talk to.?
- Question: Can I email somebody or something. I need to get something off my chest :(?
| Question: Why is this girl so immature? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 05:38 PM PDT This girl I know is like almost 20 and she cries over being broke and schoolwork and her job. Seriously she's not 9 anymore smh like grow up! I'm a 14 year old and i think she's really immature, she's bad at handling relationships too |
| Question: Is my friend's reaction to LSD normal? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 05:31 PM PDT A few nights ago, my friends and I got together and took LSD. I had one tab, Checkie had 2, and Cooper, Cavan and Staley all had 5. Everything was fine at first, we were all chilling out in the living room playing video games and having a good time. As the night progresses, Checkie starts to get EXTREMELY violent. He punches a guy that was hanging out with us in the eye and we had to pry Checkie off of him. That guy ended up going to the hospital and having surgery later that night A little while after that incident, I was standing in the kitchen by myself minding my own business when Checkie punches me right in the forehead. HARD. I was knocked onto the floor and my other friends threw him against the wall to keep him away from me. Soon, it's just me Checkie and Staley left in the house. Checkie ended up stripping completely naked, unresponsive & started to walk around the house shouting random incoherent things, like: "biology and Mr. Schmidt" "I want to LIVE" "I'm going to rape Emily" "I'm going to rape Aubrey (me)" "It's all her fault" "I need more money" He started throwing things around violently and broke glass all over the floor and continued to walk over the glass. I stood by the door to keep him from running out of the house. He came up to me multiple times & slid his hands up my thighs, & tugging hard on my shorts while saying "Oh, this gonna feel so good." I bashed my fist on his head & screamed at him until he stopped. Is this kind of reaction normal? There are a lot of details that I could not fit into the character limit, but these are just the main events that happened that night |
| Question: Why does my friend gets overly excited when she sees me? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 05:25 PM PDT my friend vanessa is starting to get overly excited when she sees me, even her friend says it. I've been knowing her since last year.. why is she acting this way? she kinda embarrassed me during parent-teacher conference day, she shrieked my name loud "Hi Jesse!" and her parents and my parents were staring at me and a few other people. She's also very shy and quiet so it's very odd that she's getting overly excited, i am shy and quiet too so i don't know how to act when she's like that. |
| Question: Is it okay for a 15 year old to hang out with a 20 year old? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 05:15 PM PDT I'm 15 and i hang out with a 20 year old a lot. We are both girls and we both live in a nice neighborhood in Australia but we're not blood related or family but we did both immigrate to Australia at a young age because our parents wanted to work here. We have a lot in common and i don't have many friends at school |
| Posted: 10 Oct 2016 04:49 PM PDT Kicked a friend out of my life, after they ignored me and used me (long story, but they used me a LOT). Eventually heard from them later on saying they were sorry for ignoring me, they have been busy with work and school, and that they were going to try and put in more effort to be there for me, and keep in contact with me. I decided to give them another shot, added them as a friend again on social media, so on. Time goes by and they never add me back, however, they ask me for help with something. I reluctantly oblige and then they go straight back to ignoring me. They are posting on social media and adding other people but still can't find the time to contact me. Even when I reached out, forgave them, asked them to hangout in person, and asked them to catch me up in their life. I re-deleted them, and this time deleted them and blocked them (phone number too). Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. Was this wrong? |
| Question: Are my co workers treating me different because I am a woman? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 04:47 PM PDT I am a single mom working in an office of 9 people. I am the only woman in the office. My coworkers are the greatest guys ever and I love them dearly. They are always available to help me when I need help. I trust them completely. If I have to take time off for a school event or to take my child to a dr. appointment, they will cover for me. On the few occasions I have unexpectedly had to work late, one of them will pick up my child from school, take her to a restaurant for a meal and then take her to my home and stay with her until I get there. They will not take any money for doing these things for me. I was telling my female friends that I strongly believe in equal treatment of women in the workplace and that is what happens at my place of work. All pay and promotions are based on merit. They pointed out to me that all the things my fellow employees are doing for me looks to them like they are doing it because I am a woman. They asked me if I had ever done anything similar for the guys and the answer was no. Am I getting special treatment because I am a woman or is it because I am a single mom? |
| Question: How to talk to a girl? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 04:43 PM PDT So there's this girl who I have a crush on. I'm going to try to talk to her sometime this month. But I'm nervous. I don't know what to say. And I don't want her to think that I like her. She's in colorguard I'm in band so we are in the same program. I'm a freshman she's a sophomore thanks! |
| Question: How to get over being this shy? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 04:43 PM PDT if its even that to be honest, i want to do a home stay in japan in a few years but im shy or maybe awkward i dont really know. When i go to someones house i will just stay in one spot and wont move and i cant even use the bathroom. its so embarrassing and i just want to be comfortable enough to carry on conversations and make friends and pee. i want to be able to get up in the morning and greet everyone easily but i cant. how do i solve this what do i do? this is something i really want to do but i want it to be a good memory instead of a bad one. |
| Posted: 10 Oct 2016 04:42 PM PDT My so called "friend" is younger than me and I am turning 16 tomorow and he wants me to take him to lunch tommorow after I get my license and I already planned to take my good friend and we both don't really like this kid because all the drama he causes. I can totally tell that he is trying to suck up to me and be a closer friend because he knows I'm getting my license.( I have been his friend for a long time and know what type of person he is and would like to not be around that). Heres the problem. I'm too nice! I basically already told him I would take him like a week ago because he basically invited himself and I didint know what to do. Me and my friend have been stressing out because we feel like we have to take him and if we do take him he will want to go with us every single time tell he gets his license (like 8 months) If you know what we should do please help us out... We don't want to be rude but we also don't want to lie too much cause that will only work once. Thanks, josh |
| Question: Was this a good way to stop the heckling? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 04:39 PM PDT I had to give a speech in one of my high school classes. The jocks in the class who had a negative IQ thought it would be fun to heckle me during my speech. They would ask questions that had nothing to do with my speech. One of them ask "Is it OK for men to have multiple wives"? I wanted to shut them up for good so I said. "Only if you are hung so that leaves you out doesn't it shorty"? The class erupted in laughter and I was not heckled again. Was that a good way to stop the heckling? |
| Question: How do I stop worrying? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 04:34 PM PDT The other night, I was at a football game for my school with a ton of my friends. Near the end, I saw one of my guy friends named Josh. I went over to him and told him I had a secret to tell him. When I got close to his ear, I quickly game him a kiss on the cheek and then ran back to my group of friends. I honestly don't know why I did it, and I regret it. I'm worried about if people are going to say anything to me at school tomorrow. I just want to forget it ever happened. Do you have any suggestions or advise? |
| Question: Is it okay to break a promise? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 04:28 PM PDT |
| Question: Is there anything sexual about this? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 04:10 PM PDT I told my bf to "get off my whatsapp" and blocked him. He blocked me back and added me on snapchat ( i dont have him on my snapchat) but did i say anything dirty without knowing? Lol Thanks |
| Question: I messed up by telling my bestfriend something bad ?? what do i do? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 04:08 PM PDT okay so im a girl andd i had this guy bestfriend and he plays around with me so much i wanted to do it back to him both of our families are close and i have him for most of my classes and he doesnt talk to me at all, so likei said i like u and he had aactualy liked me back but i was playing and the next day i told him and now hes mad and ignorning me, what can i telll him to make him happu or just to talk to me i miss him and hes my best friend |
| Question: Why am I so bothered by a friend who acted lie he didn't see me? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 03:45 PM PDT This guy I knew from college a couple years ago, we had several classes together and worked on some projects as partners. He lives not far from me, I even went to his house a few times. He was like "you're always welcome at my house". Then classes were finished so we didn't see each other for a while. We're friends on Facebook and Linkedin though. I'd been hoping to work with him on other projects. Then one night about 6 months ago I walked into the grocery store. I looked up and saw him in an aisle looking right at me, but as soon as I caught his glance, he looked away and pretended like he didn't see me. Sometimes you don't feel like being sociable, I get that. But still I'm bothered by it. I'd always thought when I have a creative project that I need to hire staff to work, that I'd call him and we'd work together again. But I guess he doesn't consider me a friend really after all. I'm not sure why I feel so bothered by this but I do. It just felt like a hard diss. |
| Question: My friend and I were sexually assaulted and can't do anything about it? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 03:42 PM PDT At a party this past weekend, my good friend was drunk and so was a boy who is a year older than us. We're both 16, and he's 18. I was completely sober, but they were both drunk. He kept trying to play with my hair and give me back/shoulder massages. He would grab my knees and rub my thighs and I was very uncomfortable. At one point he had his arms wrapped around me while I was laying on a couch and wouldn't get off of me, even after I said stop. He didn't get off until my best guy friend came and told him to get off. What he did to my drunk friend though is worse. They were laying on the floor near each other and he kept pulling her pants and unbuckling her belt. She also told him to stop but he didn't and she was so scared she couldn't do anything. He had his hands in between her thighs and that's all she remembers. We can't tell any adults or else we'll be in trouble for drinking and lying to our parents. But it makes us super uncomfortable. How should we handle the situation? |
| Question: Why doesn't any of the girls like me or wanna be friends with me.? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 03:32 PM PDT I go to this new school and none of the girls like me. I have no friends and no one wants to be friends. Im always alone. PLEASE HELP i honestly want to commit suicide I'm so depressed/. |
| Question: Please don't criticize me. ..? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 03:31 PM PDT I was on a pro ana chat on kik and felt really guilty so I deleted it. I just don't beleive that I should be exposed to people trying to encourage me to starve myself. I deleted the app. Did I do the right thing? |
| Question: I have no friends, and no one likes me. Very Depressed, thinking of suicide.? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 03:28 PM PDT Ive been going to a new school and i only have 1 friend. I mean don't get me wrong i have some "acquaintances" but only 1 close friend. Yesterday i told her who i like and she told a whole bunch of people after i told her not to tell anyone and she promised. I found out she told people when about three guys walked up to me in class like "OOOH YOU LIKE ****, YOUR BEST FRIEND ****** TOLD ME." So my friend doesn't exactly know that i know she told them but i don't want to confront her about it and then have no friends and be alone. Also in my group for studying some guy that i thought was my friend was like "you know that like no one likes you right" i pretended it didn't bother me and faked a smile the rest of the day. The girls at my school just don't like me and idk why. All my life i just haven't "fit in" and i dont know what i am doing wrong. I want to be home schooled but my parents said no to both regular home school and online school. I think about suicide a lot because my life is so bad. And i know a lot of people are going to comment the easy "don't commit suicide, try to make friends" well you don't know what I'm going through I CANT MAKE FRIENDS! no one likes me! i don't fit in! and to be honest i probably will commit suicide because honestly i can't deal with this anymore, suicide is the only way out for me. |
| Posted: 10 Oct 2016 02:56 PM PDT Alright, prepare yourself for a rather long question; here it goes. I've known an online friend of mine for about 3 years, considering I am 15 now, she is also 15 (this question is not about a catfish or anything). Regardless, I've skyped her a lot recently (we only started doing that a month ago) however, her parents don't necessarily agree with her skyping ANYONE online out of fear she will be catfished (she's seen my face and everything lol I'm not going to lie about who I am). I have feelings for her (she has them for me as well) which makes the situation all that much more complicated. I have no clue what to really do here, she shouldn't even be talking to me, and we can't really "meet up" for another 3 years or so (I also don't want to encourage her to disobey her parents, nor do I like her doing it). Icing on the cake here, since I'm a Christian the fifth commandment states "honour thy father and thy mother" and I feel like I am causing her to do just the opposite. |
| Question: I have way more friends that are girls than guys.? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 02:52 PM PDT Im a sophomore and i have only like 5 guy friends( one is gay). and 10 friends that are girls. Girls just seem to be more friendly to me in general and guys dont really talk to me. Im not a macho manly man but more of a "sup brah" chillaxin dude. And no i am not gay. |
| Question: What to do about this lonely situation? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 02:47 PM PDT I m so depressed, because I have no friends. Through my teenage years I had only two best friends. I m 20 now, and a year ago is when this all started. I met my boyfriend who I m still with, and my friends were always busy so I spent a lot of time with him, eventually we fell in love and were together almost all the time. But a few days out of the week I d plan a day to spend with my friends. At first he brushed it off but seemed sad. Eventually when we got even closer, he began to get angry. They both stopped talking to me because they figured he didn t like them. It hurt for a long time but I adjusted without them and my boyfriend became my best friend. But it hasn t been the same ever since without a female friend to talk to. I have been depressed ever since. And now it s worse, because my boyfriend is drifting apart. At first he wanted to be together every day, I told him it was bad for us and tried to do other things but he didn t understand. Now he s tired of being together for so long that I m left with nobody when he s gone which is almost all the time. I barely feel loved anymore I cry all the time and I m always so lonely. I have literally nobody to talk to besides parents but thats not the same as a friend and especially a best friend. I don t know where to meet friends at I ve tried rekindling with old friends they do not answer and ignore me. |
| Question: How to deal with rape? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 02:40 PM PDT I am a 14 year old guy and just last year I was raped by a girl who I thought was my friend. We were joking around and she actually cuffed me to a pole. She proceeded to rape me. I have not told many people about this. It's been bothering me a lot lately please help? |
| Question: If you were to help internall displaced persons(IDPS), what would you do? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 02:37 PM PDT |
| Question: How am I supposed to make friends in college? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 02:35 PM PDT We are 7 weeks into class and I literally have maybe one friend. How the hell am I supposed to make friends half way through a semester when everyone already has their groups of friends? I don't drink, I'm not in a frat, my roommate basically ignores me, I hate my suite mates. So what the hell am I supposed to do I'm so lost, someone explain what I'm supposed to do |
| Question: Why do people do this? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 02:31 PM PDT People sometimes tells me how lazy I am all I do is sit in my room blah blah blah when I'm happy they don't even know my situation or know that I really am working on getting my life together but when I say it they basically tell me to stop it's so annoying. They don't even ask about my situation. |
| Question: Is this a fake friend? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 02:27 PM PDT I've had this friend for a while and we've had a countless amount of arguments, misunderstandings and just plain hoopla over the years of our friendship. I've been generally unhappy with having her as a friend for a while. When we were younger she would constantly talk behind my back and tell people she only hangs out with me cause she feels bad for me and my 'unpopular' status. It was evident, even to me, that she didn't like being around me. She bullied me many times years and years ago with some mutual friends of ours but as we grew older, this stopped occurring. We would talk more often and be able to understand each other. We still talk but I'm not sure if she still thinks the same way she did back then. In school when she's around her other friends, she completely zones me out and ignores me. We have two classes together and she doesn't even look my way so I ignore her too. But she calls me almost every day like we're all of a sudden best friends again. I avoid contact with her because I get the feeling she was never really my friend. It even surprises me when she still calls/texts me like we're good friends. So her behavior is confusing me. What do you guys say? |
| Posted: 10 Oct 2016 02:17 PM PDT Ok so im in a fight with my, now ex, friend. Basically what happened is, i did something she didnt want me to so she went and said TERRIBLE things about me behind my back. Now heres the real problem; Her and sit next to eachother in band and we arent aloud to move seats. Idk what to do? |
| Question: I feel left out from my friends... :(? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 01:50 PM PDT So my best friend left schools (we were the closest) now it was just me and my other 3 friends. Now they brought their friend and it was my first time meeting her. I'm shy around new people I don't act like myself since I'm really hyper and fun but with around new people I act shy. My friends introduced me and her so it was okay. But when it's lunch we hang out but she ignores me. She never says hello to me, never talks to me, always being close to my friends making me look like a loner :s. And my friends don't pay attention to me and they know I get shy. How am I suppose to get to know her if she ignores me? I try to talk to her but she goes back to my friends. I cried today cuz I had this experience before and I don't want it to happen again. Do you think she hates me or something? If this keeps happening I'll just hang out with my other friends :( |
| Posted: 10 Oct 2016 01:39 PM PDT today after school my best friends revealed to me (both girls) that they are dating. I don't know what this means for our friendship? Whose best friend am I? Do I even have a best friend now? I can't wrap my head around it and it makes me feel really bad. I knew one of them was bi but the other one always said she was straight. And what happens if they break up? What happens to our friendship? Am I third wheel now should I even hangout with them? Would that make me third wheeling? I know I'm not jealous or anything like that because I have a boyfriend. But it's not like I could hangout with him because he lives far away and doesn't go to our school.. help me out what do I do?? I don't feel ok with this, but I'm trying and it's not working. |
| Question: How do I overcome this fear...It's making me terrible at making friends? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 01:16 PM PDT I'm a 14 year old girl and I've had these kind of issues since I started middle school, it's come as far me being depressed from time to time and being emotionally unstable. To say the truth, I hate my current "best friends". They are very judgemental and I feel uncomfortable with them. One of them smokes (which my mom would kill me if she found out I hang out with these kind of people lol) and the other is just ugh, obnoxious and VERY rude and so on... As I started highschool now (I entered school pretty young) I just want to make REAL friends. But I feel like everybody thinks i'm boring and uninteresting, I wish that I'm not always the one that starts the conversation and even though I always do that, I'm bad at it. I get social anxiety very easily. Anyhow, this new girl is a person that I really want to befriend, I feel like we have very similar personalities and she's such a kind and a cool person. Problem is...I'm terrible at befriending people like I said. I have this fear that she might think of me as a stuck up person. So i sometimes keep my distance from her because I'm afraid she might end up hating me. When in fact, she asked jokingly why I stopped talking to her which got me very confused. So pretty much my question is how do I get over this fear and start actually talk normally? And this might sound stupid but...is there any way I can do to get closer to her? |
| Posted: 10 Oct 2016 01:13 PM PDT I have two close friends that started dating back in May and ended last month. Secretly, I didn't like it, but I was very supportive of it. They broke up and it was a very messy break up. The two live in a different state than I do since I moved right before they started dating. I got tired of them complaining to each other to me, so I tried to fix it. They felt like my parents going through divorce. I tried fixing them and at least getting them to be friends, but nothing worked. It was to the point where Britnee would rant on Facebook that I should butt out. After that, I was out. The girl, Britnee, has been my friend for two years, is the one who ended the relationship. Noah, the guy, I've known for a while, but never talked to much before all this. The group of friends they had all rushed to Britnee's side, like they always seem to. Now, Noah has no friends left other than me. Since I don't know much about what happened, I decided to stay neutral. Britnee feels betrayed that I'm not on her side. She said if I were her best friend, I would be. Noah doesn't want me to choose sides and I don't either. Britnee's been distancing herself from me and making me feel bad for not choosing. She's been slowly turning to her friend, Justin, who's completely on her side. It feels like Noah's more a friend to me than she is now. Noah knows how I feel because my heart was just broken by a guy like his was by Britnee (but that's a whole different story) Was I wrong for staying neutral? |
| Question: Urgent!!! Please help...? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 01:12 PM PDT My friend is being bullied... Because of the fact, she's a lesbian and that we both love history... We go to different schools, and she's admitted to me that she really likes me... But today she got a harassment by someone who goes to her school, bullying her and telling her things such as like she didn't have anyone and that she didn't have any friends... I'm honestly tired of the way people treat her... And now I was trying to defend her by messaging the girl who was bullying her but the girl, let's call her Bully, she said to me that she and her group of immature friends would attack her tomorrow during school and get in on video... I'm scared for my friend... I don't know what to do... I just want her to be safe and all, but this got me really worried... She's already complained to me that the principal does nothing to them but give them referrals and detention... And on top of that when I told her that they would attack her, she refused to call the police... I'm really so scared for her right now... I don't know what to do because her parents won't help her either... |
| Question: I stopped talking to ALL my friends? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 01:09 PM PDT I am 22 year old guy, i used to have a few super close friends that i talked to everyday, and i was shy but social in school , i dated different girls And guys,, i made friends with people from all 'cliques'. I just ignore my friends now, since i was 19 or 20 i have been ignoring people. , i have been getting messages from them for months before i respond,, some over a year they message me alot saying "why are you ignoring me :(" i feel so bad, but for some reason i dont want to start a convo because i feel i wont say anything interesting, and i dont want them to get bored of me. And i dont want to hang out either. Like i will send a selfie and videos to them , but i feel awkward to hang out. i dont know what has changed in me, but i dont respond to anyone, i feel like i only like being alone now,,, but i miss hanging out , and going out with my friends., i only respond occasionally but then i just stop talking again for awhile. And they show up at my house sometimes and i make up an excuse for them to leave. I know they love me and will always be here for me,, but i dont want to talk, i feel so insecure for some reason, i gained like 20 pounds since a year,, im not fat , but they notice i gained weight and they say it. i used to be the skinniest person,, and they still look at me the same but i just dont want them to notice.. i cant keep a job because i dont want people to judge me. i am attractive but they judge me for being dumb. i wish i loved people like i used to :( |
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| Posted: 10 Oct 2016 01:07 PM PDT I had a falling out with a friend last year. Our kids attended the same school and have remained close. My kids went over to her house for the party. When we picked our children up, we gave the gift card to their son, thanked him and said goodbye. I know it's awkward but the falling out involved her meddling with my marital issues which almost cost me my marriage. Was I good in doing this? Her kids invited my kids by text. What would you do differently? |
| Question: What's the best way to approach this "friend"? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 01:01 PM PDT So I invited my friend to an event, 3 weeks later I find out he's going with another group, after he said he would let me know once he asked for the time off work. I feel pretty disrespected but idk if its worth the trouble of confronting the guy since it will probably end in us not speaking to each other again. |
| Question: Why would people be so mean to such a nice person? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 12:46 PM PDT why would people be so mean to such a nice person?im confused- im a really good person, im smart, pretty kind, so many good things. I treat everyone with respect. But it's weird- women I know who are horrible people guys like them and date and marry them but oddly with me, all men do is put me down or abuse me. I have no friends and people where i live just seem to dislike me or be mean to me or jealous. Why would someone who's a great person get treated so badly while horrible people get treated so well. I was at a restaurant and me and the guy I went with went to play some kind of beer game. The guy running the game got annoyed I was doing well and then he sabotaged me- he told me and my friend to use the extra cups there which had more beer. Was my first time playing the game and then I lost. Also when I put my cup out to pour beer, he purposely wouldn't fill it. People are always mean to me, trying to bring me down or threatened by me- but im this nice gentle person. My date was so rude to me after b/c i didn't give him a hug. Everyone is so mean to me but im such a nice person. People everywhere treat me so badly the sick answers are pathetic- most people treat nice people worse and take advantage of them..didnt expect to get more psychos and jerks answering...get lost you pathetic freaks |
| Question: Someone is stalking me? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 12:34 PM PDT So I'm a 15 year old guy if you wanted to know. I got someone that is always stalking me on IG, Snapchat and Twitter (I know for a fact that it's him). He seems like a shy person in school and he's very quiet but he always stares at me for some reason. We got a mutual friend and he told our friend that I'm staring at him for no reason when he's actually staring. I think that he might have a crush on me or something. I don't wanna tell the police because he seems so harmless and I don't wanna put him in an uncomfortable situation. How do I deal with him? Also please no fighting, I don't like that. |
| Question: If you do something stupid and annoying in class, do people getover/forget about it? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 12:21 PM PDT |
| Question: Why atoms are newtral? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 12:19 PM PDT |
| Question: I work at a gas station I was wondering about this I was to scared to ask them before? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 12:13 PM PDT I work at a gas station at circle k. I have a person coming in that talks to me about how he likes to stick something in his mouth that is very inappropriate. I have a group of others that come in saying something similar to me but are different than him and not friends with him. No connections. One of the things that bothers me about this is they come to me talking about these things I am just the one checking them out. A manager of mine talks about how this guy is so good at it then she talks about how disgusting I am. They say things like I am still going to look and I cannot be different. I was once a shepherd of a church known for its odd look and odd size. I have been a superintendent before. Right now I am kind of separated from that job so I am with my family and working at a gas station I know I am going to be back at my job soon. I was separated because of something I hid from every one. I humbled myself and I changed the way i thought and acted. Don't read pass comments you wont find it there. You will just get confused. Something that is very hidden and is long gone. No record of it. This job is just a pass time job because I never minded small jobs like these. I never minded them. I was different than them. A little different. But these people seem so arrogant saying I am the same their is a group of females as well. Not at the gas station but at my pass job as a Over Shepherd and Superintendent were they were asking me to come away with them. I just had no desire for them. No I am not saying I am big there. I never seen myself as big person or big minister. I have always seen myself little while Christ is the big one. It's just them thinking they can say what they want to say. Then the managers think they can do what they want with me because I am small and not good looking to them. Then they say things like I don't know anything. Or am not different than other men and I am a pig. Then they make comments about how my penis. |
| Question: How do I make my friend more comfortable around me? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 12:07 PM PDT Like everyone has a fun side right? And my friend is really nice but I can literally tall to her about nothing because she just nods and replies with one word answers. Plus, I like laid back friends that can actually make fun of me and you get it. She site next to me in accounts and I have no one else to talk to, so I would like to actually have a good time maybe. |
| Posted: 10 Oct 2016 12:07 PM PDT I used to be one of his best students but now he's rude all the time and acts like he isn't there anymore. And the crazy thing about it is that he talks about me in gym class on my basketball , job etc. But treats me like he doesn't know me. What would you do ? Just ignore and drop the whole thing or figure out why he's being so distant ? Honest answer you guys. |
| Question: I miss my old friends :/? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 11:41 AM PDT I've been friends with them since middle school so over 10 years. We've all been through college and living life as adults. The last time I saw them was last year around this month. We went to a nice restaurant. It was a blast and I remember we all agreed we should make this an event every year. We're all really busy. Occasionally we all talk through Facebook, but that's it. I would really like to hangout with them again because we all had fun. I have friends that I've met, but when I hang out...it's never the same as it was with my old friends. Of course I don't want to drop my new friends, I just don't connect to them as I do with my old ones. Anyways, how do I contact my old friends again and ask to hangout? I feel as though I'll be intruding but I miss hanging with them lol. |
| Question: I have this weird friend? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 11:21 AM PDT So yesterday she had her friends saying add me on snapchat on her snapchat story. I asked her to do me and she said okay send a pic of yourself .so I did and she never put it on her story(keep in mind we have had trouble before). Today I texted her and said lmfao if you hate me or think I'm annoying or something then just delete me or block me. She didn't delete me or block me and she opened the text and she didnt reply. In the past Ive asked her why she did me wrong and she never explains herself. Why is she like this?and I have decided to not talk to her anymore |
| Question: Words don't mean anything to me anymore, is that bad? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 11:07 AM PDT If someone like my blood relatives tells me they love me it doesn't mean anything because they don't really show it. Or if someone hates on me it doesn't even hurt anymore I am just like whatever. |
| Question: Was this rude of me? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 10:55 AM PDT My friend said "You sweat a lot when we run" and I responded "Well duh am fat and fat people get tired easily and we need a better effort than skinny people" and then she just rolled her eyes and left. |
| Question: My parents won't let me see my best friend?!? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 10:53 AM PDT So my parents snooped on my conversation with my best friend when we were joking about drinking, we weren't actually going to drink but you get the point. So that was a few months ago, I thought everything was fine and I was unaware they listened in until like 2 months later (we were both too busy to see each other until then), so I asked to see her for a sleepover and then they lectured me about how they don't want me hanging around her & she's a "bad influence" & talked about the words they heard her saying in our convo...so now my best friend has a birthday party this weekend and I really want to see her so bad and she said if I didn't come she would stop talking to me. She says I don't get what she's going through when we both are dealing with this together and it's frustratingly. Help & they also think she's "bad" bc she doesn't go to church when she sleeps over (my parents are really religious). What do I do? I really want to see her and I can't handle losing a friendship like this, HELP!? |
| Question: What is wrong with my best friend? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 10:34 AM PDT At the start of the year we used to talk all the time, we told knew literally everything about each other then he went on a church camp for a week and when he got back he just never wanted to talk anymore. I see him at school everyday but of course I would like to be able to communicate with him during the holidays, weekends and after school, I mean we are best friends after all? I tried talking to him about it and he always just says he doesn't like texting but he never used to feel that way, nowadays he only comes online about twice a day and replied to me and a lot of the time he just reads the message and doesn't reply but the last.. It just makes me feel like a desperate looser and like I am trying too hard in our friendship straw that made me really start to wonder whether I was trying too hard to be a good friend was last week when I stayed up all night till exactly 12:00am to be the first to wish him happy birthday in a long message thanking him for being such a cool friend and all that jazz. To my surprise, I woke up in the morning to a message saying "I'm not gonna read that mate" because it was too long I suppose... It really annoys me because we used to be so close and I am still pretty annoyed about it.. Please help someone what is wrong with him. (I am 15 and he is 16) |
| Question: The internet acts as a substitute for friends? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 10:21 AM PDT |
| Question: I really need your opinion? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 10:14 AM PDT Hey everyone. Ok this has to be quick. I have this dear friend who is going through absolute **** right now, his mom and granny have been diagnosed with cancer this month and they re so close to him. His parents are divorced and he has 2 younger siblings whom he s taking care of solo now while his mom takes therapy. His life is upside down and he s a 3rd yr med student, has no time for studying, and everything is falling apart. I can t meet him any time soon or even talk on the phone so its just whatsapp chat and I barely have anything to comfort him with now. I recently asked how everything is going and he just said "nothing is okay" and now I m tongue-tied mind-blocked and I seriously need help. What can I say that wouldn t sound cliché??????? 😭😭 obviously nothing is working, and I don t want to leave him like that. He was such a cheery person now all he s seeing is darkness over darkness, please help me😭 |
| Question: I PROMISE this is serious and I'm NOT trolling! How can I help this person? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 09:57 AM PDT Last night, one of my former teachers died in a car wreck. She had 3 kids that I believe weren't in the wreck, but I know they'll be so sad! We're on fall break this week (and I can't help but notice she won't return from fall break!) but one of her kids is now a freshman in high school. When we go back next Minday, who can I help comfort her son? I want to go talk to him at lunch and try to comfort him. What should I say? |
| Question: Is it okay that I dont feel bad? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 09:56 AM PDT I am really mad at my Best friend. Heres the Reason why: When I was bullied by This Girl. My Best friend laughed every time the bully bullied me and backed my bully up. (I'm not getting bullied anymore) I didn't want to get mad at her back Then. (Dont ask why. I dont even know) This other day my bestfriend Said she hates when people say we look a like, because she thinks I'm ugly. She keeps saying Sorry (even though she doesn't know why I'm mad) And she keeps texting me. Is it bad that I dont feel bad about her saying Sorry and that I dont answer any of her text? |
| Question: How do I tell me friend that she is wrong? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 09:49 AM PDT I have a friend that is extremely upset with an ex friend. My friend is mad because she asked this young lady for a favor. When she came to me with idea I told her don't do it because, she was asking this girl to borrow $3000 and she was going to lie on why she needed the money. She asked her anyway and of course she said no. I have tried to tell her more than once that (in a nice way) that she way wrong asking her for that favor because, they really weren't close friends anymore and that's something you have to be really close to do for someone. It's almost a year since this has happen and she is ridiculous. Every opportunity she gets she vents about her. On Sunday we were at her mother's house and her mother told that she was wrong because this ex friend of hers did a lot for her (like take her son to the zoo and gave her $400 once). Her mother told her to grow up because she had no intention of paying this money back and it would have been worse. I wasn't aware of what a good friend that girl was to her and it explains why they are no longer friends. It was a lot more to the story, but I really want to tell her she's wrong and she needs to apologize. I am considering distancing myself from her as well. |
| Question: Teen seems to be pulling away from me? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 09:44 AM PDT I have helped be like a "father figure" or mentor for a boy in my hometown since he was 9 years old. He is now 16. We spent a lot of time talking and hanging out doing fun stuff. It seems now that he doesn't really want me around anymore? Don't hear from him as much and he always seems busy or doesn't want to spend time anymore? Any suggestions or normal teen behavior? Just hate it because I financially support the kid basically. |
| Question: Do you think he'll meet me? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 09:21 AM PDT |
| Question: Good excuses why I don't want to be in the class picture :/? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 09:21 AM PDT I don't want to be in the class picture mainly because I've never felt that I actually belonged in that class nor do I have any friends there. The school wants everyone to have their photo taken as a class photo. But I don't want to. Any good excuses I could use? I can't take the day off because I have a couple of tests... any advice would be appreciated thanks. |
| Posted: 10 Oct 2016 08:51 AM PDT Last April, I left my bf of 4 years for good. He was emotionally and sometimes physically abusive to me 2 of the years. We went about two months without talking. I went out of town for most of the summer, but had to come back in late August because I ended up going back to college. I've also struggled with depression and anxiety for as long as I can remember. I also don't have any friends. All my old female friends were toxic and fake. They made me feel like **** about myself, even more so than I already did. Most people in the town I live in don't like me. I'm not close with my family because they are very judgmental of me. Once college started, I became more lonely than ever. Most of my classes are online, but I do go on campus about once a week. When I do, I don't have anyone to talk to. I have tried to make friends but no one likes me. It makes me even more sad to see other people laughing and talking. I think I would be a lot less depressed if I did fun stuff, but I don't have anyone to do stuff with. Like I can't even go to a movie or a concert because I'd have to go alone. I started answering my ex again because of this. He's actually kind when he's not being abusive. However, he snapped on me once, and on another occasion took $20 out of my purse without asking. When we hang out, he basically forces me into having sex with him. I hate it. But I feel like I don't have a choice. I don't want to be alone all the time. It's depressing to be friendless at my age. |
| Question: Can I email somebody or something. I need to get something off my chest :(? Posted: 10 Oct 2016 08:36 AM PDT I really need somebody to talk to and need a bit of feedback. It's too long to write here. If somebody is willing to give their emails, thanks :) Its nothing bad I just have nobody to talk to |
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