Im a divorced mother of a 7 year old I share with my ex husband. My ex husband has major issues which is why we are no longer married however I would like to coparent with him as friends for our sons sake. I have been married to my husband for a little over a year now (we have been together for three years) and we are starting our new life together and he is a great father to my son. Is it weird that I would like him to hang out with my ex and we all do holidays together? A friend of mine and a counsellor both suggested this was not a good idea because our marriage is still new and needs to grow first. What are your thoughts? My husband said he would do it and be nice but didnt seem too thrilled about the idea. He encourages my son to spend time with his dad and does not talk bad about him even though he was never a great father to our son.

How many kids do you have now? How did they change your marriage? Kinda freaking out at my impending parenthood and worrying since everyone says kids change everything?

My cousin is 41 and he has messed up a lot of things. He should be a homeowner and a car owner by now! I feel as if my family and I have been enabling him forever. I'm 26. My mom let him live with us when he was evicted, against my wishes. I love him, but he puts us through so much stress and we can't have that, especially right now. My mom, who temporarily can't drive. She let him use her car. Something else she did without my permission. (I moved back in with her to help her out and have made a lot of decisions to keep the family afloat.) He ends up messing up her car and not being able to drive it anymore. I've been having to take him to work, which is 30 minutes away. He can't call into work because he missed over 200 hours of work, also his fault. I started working and our schedules conflict. My job is also 30+ minutes away. I would pretty much have to take him to work and stay in the city we both work in for a few hours or go home until time for work and end up driving to the same area 3-4 times a day. He can't even afford to give me anymore gas money until next week, if even then, since he's trying to get a car. I only have my unemployment money until I start this new job. I feel like if I keep helping him and not making him own his mistakes, it's enabling. But if I refuse to take him to work, I'd be considered a selfish jerk and he'll lose his job and be here forever. My car and I can't take this anymore! It's so stressful and he's very spoiled and entitled. What should I do?

My ex husband and I share children. He refuses to take the kids to his place on the weekends and insists on coming over to my place and hanging out with them instead. This has created an awkward situation because even though the kids love their dad I want to move on with my life and feel he is in my personal space. Ive tried to get him to take the kids on weekends to his place, or at least out somewhere for the day but he says he doesnt want to. He will hang out at my house while I am there, or sometimes I am not there, and watch tv , play video games on my couch and sometimes even eat food in my fridge. He wants to come over halloweens and go trick or treating with us but I do not want him there and wish he would take initiative to do something with out kids instead of it always being me planning and hosting his and his parents. What should I do?

Este chico me pidió que fuera su novia pero yo era novia de su mejor amigo y le dije que no pero lo termine porque sentía lo mismo que el y cuando le dije que si quería estar con el ya tenia novia y ahora seguimos hablando y quiero saber si aun siente algo por mi

What do you call people that hold their children to the highest form of loyalty and/or respect to them, where if they slip up in the least, they are treated with the worst scorn ever, yet when other family members or close friends disrespect them or betray them, they don't take it as hard? Is this extreme expectation from their children considered narcissistic parenting?

My boyfriend tells me daily I'm stupid, ugly, lazy, fat, he hits and kicks me in front of our child. I work really hard and go to school. I do all the cleaning, cooking, shopping, paying bills and child rearing. I keep trying to break up with him, and he just beats me up, threatens to kill us. He'll be really angry, then really nice saying he loves me, that I'm everything. And I'm sure he's cheating. He scares me, so I end up giving in, but it just get worse. Will he change, can I do something different, I'm so confused and sad, my son always saying he wants me to stay with his daddy. He is a good father though

The guy who took my senior pictures recently came over to drop them off. I learned that we both got hired at a new, local restaurant. We started texting a little bit, since work starts soon. A friend of mine who knows him told me he's a little creepy, 34, and has multiple DWIs. After I told him I'm 18, he said it's good to know I'm legal, asked if I'd ever do a "sexy" shoot (which I declined to), and asked if I want to hang with him some day. He asked what time I check in to work on Mondays so he could see me briefly. We talked about photography and got to talking about other things. He asked what bra and waist size I have (to use for quick draw) and so that he could order clothes and lingerie for shoots and know it'd fit me - after I said I wasn't interested in another shoot, said that he's always admired my body, and proceeded to ask for a date. I explained that I'm extremely busy with school and didn't know if I'd be able to find time and he got REALLY irritated, said he felt stupid for asking since he hasn't asked a girl out in 3yrs, whatever, and would never ask again. I didn't want him to be upset so I told him if I found time I would & like him as a friend. He said he was glad he got me to admit that I "like and want him" after months of him trying to get me to. He continued to mssg me all night and I woke up to a bunch of txts. Last night he texted me a question about my work schedule, and since he wasn't acting flirtatious anymore, I answered him. He then asked if he could ask me something personal - if I was a virgin - and when I said yes, he said he could tell. When I asked him why, he said "Don't you worry about that." and then told me what he thinks about and wants. I told him that I'm not ready for that, and he said nothing would change with us all because I said he was down-to-earth. I told him I'm not ready, but feel like I'm leading him on as he continue talking about it. I told him if I was ready, it wouldn't mean anything because I want to wait. Through this, he also told ne that he was married before, for a really short time, because "she was abusive and cheated all the time, so he 'bailed'" which seemed a weird thing to say after a divorce. I'm just very weirded out and don't know where to go from here.

One is, I think 12 she acts like a teenager and stays on her phone. The other is 15 or 16, she's usually the hi and bye type of person but she's starting to act funny too. The 12 yr old is my step dad's cousin (I've known their family since I was 2), she's a spoiled brat, always has an attitude. The other acts like she's family (her brothers dad is the others uncle). They both act like I don't exist even when I said hi but we used to be closer especially me and the younger one because I've known her for so long. I say hi and thats the most i get back. I usually don't care but I don't like feeling left out, especially when I get stuck with entertaining the younger cousins ( I don't mind but I'd like to be with those closer to my age). Not only that but most of the others, adults and teens welcome her way more, happily, everyone hugs her. ( i guess it might be because she's around more, but when i do come around i dont feel welcomed so id spend time with my grandparents where i was more than welcomed) I already don't have a close connection with my dad's family thanks to my mom, and my mom's nieces are petty. So theyre all I really have left now that my grandparents have died.

If not, did it matter to you? If you were, then what was the best part of being popular?

So I am writing an essay on why the separation of church and state is necessary.... but I need examples of events or groups that happened from unifying them

I recently had a baby with a man I only knew for a month when I got pregnant. We ve been together a year now and are engaged. I moved two hours away from everything and everyone I knew to be with him and all the emotions are starting to get to me. I m starting to question if I want to marry him and I m also tired of living in sin by being with him and not being married. I do love him but I m not ready to be married and the best thing would be to move back but I don t want to potentially ruin my chances of being with him in the future and also hurting him by moving away and just giving myself time to come to my senses on what I need to do. I want to do what is religiously correct from the situation I put myself in and I want him to respect my wishes. Not really a question but I need some sort of feed back because I m just so lost and confused on what I ve done to myself.

She can't walk and she is to heavy for me to lift,I can't do it by myself and do all the cooking and cleaning and look after myself because he doesn't have time to help. I live with her and my brother,he works alot so he says he's to busy and that its my responsibility to care for her and if I won't I need to move out.I was trying to move out before this even happened and I can't get my SSI because she doesn't want me messing with her stuff so now I am trying to figure out how am I going to make it on my own.

This guys said I'm a slut because i had sex before marriage and had a baby.he also said this You're wrong, you know, about being a single mother. Its not honorable. All it says is that 1) you're easy, and will **** pretty much anybody, and 2) you weren't a good enough **** to entice the guy to hang around. Maybe you should have sucked his cock - guys dig that - it makes them hang around. If you How would you respond?? Also, the dude says he's married and has been faithful. And never had sex before he was married. Is this suppose to make him a christian man, picking on and judging me? He's also a racist

There is only one way to describe my mother in law (Pam). She is beautiful. From looking at her, you would never know she could have a daughter my age. She is also one of the nicest persons you ever will meet. Pam and I work in the same office building. Occasionally we have lunch at a local restaurant. Sometimes when my wife can get off work, she joins us for lunch. At the last lunch, it was just Pam and me. Some of my female co workers who know my wife saw us and when I got back from lunch, they got on my case about me being a married man and having lunch with a beautiful blonde. I told them my wife was OK with me having lunch with this blonde. They said "Typical man". "No wife would approve of her husband having lunch alone with such a beautiful woman". I thought I would explain she was my mother in law but I decided they would probably not believe me anyway. Gals, am I right about this? I knew these women would probably call my wife and tell her what I did. That should be a fun conversation to listen to. I think they are going to be embarrassed when they find out that blonde was my mother in law. Should I have told them I was having lunch with my mother in law?

Sneezing in hands then touching food? I'm a 20 year old male and I'm living with my grandparents...anyway I've witnessed on a few occasions my grandfather sneeze into his hands then straight after prepare food without washing them...I always end up throwing most of the food in the bin or just not eating it at all..then I get a bollocking for wasting food..my grand father is really over the top when it comes to wasting food..but what does he expect when he's so un hygienic? Thing is I don't really want to say anything because I don't want to come across bossy or like I'm being fussy or having a go..most of the time I try eating out to avoid having to eat the food he makes but then that costs a fortune...what can I do to solve this?

We meet a few months ago and it seemed like we were going to start dating,he was always trying to take me out but as time went on we got into a sexual relationship and now we are having a lot of sex...Long story short he knows that I am not on any birth control pills and we have this weird relationship going on and he is always trying to ejaculate inside of me, every time we have sex. He talks about it and I tell him not to and he still tries to every time.He even asked me what I would do if I got pregnant and when I told him that is why some women have abortions, he got offended. I never said I would have one,as I don't believe in them and just can't see myself killing my baby, but I said that to see how serious he is about having a baby, because I do really want a baby myself, but with this weird sexual relationship we have, I just don't want to let him know that and scare him away ...Recently he just flat out asked me why I won't let him ejaculate inside of me and I told him because he is not my husband and that offend him.. My question is, if he wants to ejaculate inside of me and doesn't care if I have his child, then why doesn't he just be with me, so we can stop all this fwb nonsense ? -Yes we are both very financially stable and I am well prepared financially, emotionally and mentally to have a baby( before anyone ask), I was going to go to a sperm bank, before I started being with him. I am in my late 20's almost 30. If you don't like what has been asked, then don't read it or comment on here, plain and simple. To the girl who made herself unknown after her long, unnecessary comment, woman go to sperm banks all the time, to get pregnant, and not every child raised in a two parent home suffer's, yes it is not ideal I agree but it happens unfortunately all the time... If I was going to a sperm bank before I meet him to impregnate myself, don't you think I am well prepared to raise a child without the father.

When a married man will not mention his wife around you and always rolls his eyes when he does. Will also anytime he does mention all the facts like how she reminds him if the mistakes he's made and how he doesn't like how she's "let herself go" and does not like being around her when she comes in and will flirt with you when she is around. after he told me all those things he came over and just stared at me with this admiring look in his eyes. He would t stop contact with me. He also liked to check me out (full body) then ended up focusing more on my face and eye contact. I looked at some pics of them long before we met and they were always posting thibgs of them together. They seemed happy now I've seen some recent and there all old photos of them together. I can't help but think he's probably wondering about things. Now they don't do it. And right before he left he kept dropping hints of where he goes and things like that so I can maybe run into him. He liked being around me and people even thought we were dating. He also took lots of vacations and would come back and pretty much complain about then to me the fact he was with his wife. Yes it true we don't talk since he left. his fb unlike hers will not accept friends, unlike hers. it shows that he's married where hers doesn't. I also found out that he refused to let her be a part of some of his credit cards. So why would he like me?

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.....chubby without being mixed with eastern/Southern European people and non-European ethnic groups ?

So I'm 18 and lost my virginty to some ugly white hoe. I had to cut her off Im ashamed for many reasons. I dont know what I was thinking but she wanted it I should have took my chances with other girls. Im usually really picky and my cousin and his friend told me I'm too picky and just need to take what comes to me no matter how they look. So anyway my experience was not the greatest I used to watch porn everyday and dreamed of that moment to happen.  I didn't  use a condom and ****** her in all three holes in my car. However, I kept getting soft and when she sucked my dick she used teeth it wasn't good. I dont think I ever really nutted maybe a little pre *** but  I would go from hard to soft in no time it honestly didn't feel that great. My questions ____________________________________________ 1.) Am I scarred for life? 2 ) Why did I keep getting soft and not really enjoy it? 3.) Why did I only pre *** and not actually nut? Please help...

My ex and I broke up about a month ago because I stood her up and we got into a really bad argument about since. Since then maybe every two weeks she'll text me telling me that she misses. Yesterday, she told me that she missed me really bad and asked if she could meet me somewhere so we could talk. I told her that I'm broke right now maybe the end of the week would be better when i get paid. She said don't worry about it, I got you. I only want to have a drink or two. I told her I had an appointment that evening and I would let her know later. I text her later and told her that I wasn't comfortable with my financial situation right now and we should wait until the end of the week. She got upset and said I told you I got you but you obviously have other plans because money has never been an issue with us. I just wanted to see you for a minute because i miss you really bad. She said she appreciated me at least reaching out to her and saying something but not to worry about us getting together at the end of the week. She said she can't go through this with me again and if I really wanted to see her that I'd make time for it. I tried calling her but the phone kept going to voicemail. Why wasn't she more understanding or was I wrong to cancel? Should I just gone to meet up with her?

So I recently started going to therapy for about three months or so. My counselor is a very hot hispanic or latino lady who is probably in her 40s but she is absolutely gorgeous and she and I get along pretty good and she helps me out a lot. She has an amazing body and a cute bottom too. I recently noticed that I am starting to fall for her a little and I am doing my best to keep myself together and not creep her out. She is going on a trip this weekend and she told me about it so I said have a safe trip and I will see you next week and she said thanks. I am worried that I did something by just saying have a safe trip. Did I do anything wrong by saying have a safe trip to her ? Is this normal of me to be attracted to her ? I am a single guy and I am 25.

There s this really sociable girl who might be around 18-19? The only times we meet is on the bus to school, I don t know why but she started waving to me or saying hi to me whenever we see each other on the bus. So I wave back so that she wouldn t feel awkward if I ignored her. Today we met in the bus and she started a conversation with me, sure, nothing much. Then she asked for my phone number, BEING THE ******** I AM I FRIGGIN GAVE IT TO HER, she snatched away my phone and name herself my friend . At first I thought she was lonely and wanted friends but it s kinda scaring me that she starts calling and texting me continuously (things that I don t even understand) so I was wondering if I should block her ? But how should I act if I see her in person on the way to school, it would be so awkward if I ignore her (should I pretend to sleep? Listen to music? Ignore or answer in one words to give a sign that I don t want to talk?) Im a 16 year old girl btw😅

I sit down every night out side with tears in my eyes I live in a low class how we all ways have to move we never keep up with the bill we struggle with money and food ihate seeing my mom struggle she does all she can to support me and my brother's I'm jus so sad all day jus looking at other kids and.how they have it clean healthy lives happy with both there parents I'm jus so depressed plus I broke up with my ex it jus made things worse now she's with a different guy it jus hurts so much old what to do in life anymore I'm 16 and hate filling like this

So recently my bf &I broke up after being on a break cause he didn't have feelings for me. I had just found out last night that during our break (about 2 weeks) he hooked up w a girl. He claims the frustration I gave him made him do it. Last night one of his really good friends added me on snapchat (I know him)&was snap chatting me, but nothing. He has a gf so if he tried anything I would tell her. Anyway, today the gf discovered he was my #1 friend on snapchat (bc my ex who is usually #1 deleted me and the places changed)&it literally takes 2 snaps to get onto my friends list. So she saw that& starting flipping out&told my ex, then my ex's roommate &my ex kept facetiming me until I answered. Not kidding, I was being screamed at over the phone for adding his friend in the first place. He kept calling me a f*cking idiot, I'm psycho&I "took a low blow, even lower than him hooking up w some girl"&he had to add in "yeah we had some great shower sex"(I didn't know). calling me names& saying "wow I'm glad this is over". the gf texted me saying that we "know the kind of person u are &she tried to help me get over the break up all night" (everything I told to her she showed to my ex).Stopped answering b/c I was crying, ex texted me saying "answer her texts u back stabbing ****". I'm just hurt. I have never had someone say such rude things to me&coming from multiple people at the same time it's really hard to handle.

me and my dad never talked about it but I've always have had a thing for goth girls and the other day i borrowed my dads tablet and there is pictures stored of ppl like Morticia Addams, Elvira and Lily Munster, is this handed down or...?

Ok so I met him at my friends house over the summer and he was very nice to me he told me he thought i was beautiful and all he wanted to do is "take care of me" I'm 18 years old and i plan on starting medical school in January i figured I'd take advantage of the opportunity and allow him to pay for my schooling i do wanna point out that he never told me i had to have sex with him it kinda just happenend he has been married for 3 years and his wife has just had a baby 2 weeks ago im just really scared ... He wants me to keep the baby and tell his wife he has even went as far as wanting me to stay in his home along with his wife and newborn son!!? but i don't want her to find out im not even sure if i want to have the kid i doubt he'll pay for an abortion sense he wants me to keep the baby i just don't know what to do my friends dad is really good friends with him i feel like once he tells my friends dad then my parents will find out from them and it's embarrassing being pregnant by a married man i don't really have any intentions on being in a relationship with him he loves his wife and i want him to stay with her but he feels i need him more then she does so he wants to leave her for me but i just don't know i want to tell him i don't want the baby but what if he gets mad and decides not to pay for my schooling?? I admit hes a really nice man but i dont like him as much as he likes me Advise please and if your wondering he's 28 I'm 18 Sorry for the lack of punctuation.

That never made sense to me. I'm not talking about being hit first. I'm just saying one of those control freaks who act crazy. What's up with that. I'm a guy too, and I could never bring myself to the point where I'm beating on my girlfriend. Like wtf is wrong with them?

Personally I have given my best lad a couple handys when he was hard and wanted help butt stuff never but I'm chill with helping a friend out with a handy IT they want it

I am 15 and I love to rub my older sisters feet. She seems to be okay with it but I do not know if I should keep doing it. I like rubing her feet very much. I have rubbed them 2 times before and each time I rubbed them was for about an hour. What techniques could I use to help relieve my sister of pain? I just really love rubbing my sisters feet. What do you think she would do if I put my face near her feet? Please help!

I'm a male in my late 20's and I have poor self esteem. I am mostly insecure about the size of my manly hood, and because of that I shy away from relationships and getting close to someone in general because of that. I never measured, but based on an estimate I THINK I'm anywhere between 5.4-6" How can I gain confidence? I'm miserable at times. I have been with one person but it never lasted longer than a few months.

*please share your opinions* my coworker and I hit it pretty well, right from the beginning I instantly felt this connection and genuinely thought the feelings were matual cause when were in an elevator together he randomly touched my wrist, like you don't just randomly touch someone's wrist unless you're attractive to them or you want to flirt with them and from there i kinda assume we would have like this flirty/friendship relationship and it kinda was for awhile. I felt like he was genuinely into me, am I crazy for that? Anyway, he had to move back to his hometown and I thought I should put myself out there & ask if we could talk more, get to know one another & he told me he doesn't really have any interest in creating any long distance relationships/friendships because he finds them tedious and a lot of work, he said it wasn't anything personal was just how he felt w/ a sad face & I genuinely thought he felt bad so I said he'll never know unless he tries & that I think it'd be nice to just have someone to talk to, wouldn't you want that & he kinda lashed out at me.. told me to respect his boundaries & not to text him again & I kinda got mad and did anyway. eventually I apologized for disrespecting him & he ignored it  i just wanted someone to confide in, someone to make my life a little less boring and lonely. It just genuinely hurts me because i felt like there was something between us and it sucks he had to move back do you think he dislikes me as a person now? :(

So I came home earlier than usual today, I didn t feel like parking my car in the driveway so I parked it in the street, I entered the house and it was all dark. My mom s car was parked right outside so I assumed she was asleep. My room is right next to hers so when I was heading to my room I heard moaning noises. My mom is 53 years old, single and not in a relationship that I know of. I m 22 btw, so when i slightly opened the door, I saw my 22 year old cousin on top of her! I immediately ran to my room to grab a bat, I went back to the room and wack the **** out of him, both of them were surprised of my presence. I left the house and I haven t been home since. I really need someone to talk about this because nobody will believe me if I told any of my friends. What do I do? Why did she do this? Especially him? That s incest! Someone help!

My friend's twin sister slept with many guys at college. I told her father and my friend to stop her from doing this. They told me, "its her business, not anyone else's, because she is an adult." Now she is pregnant, and sick at home. No guy in this world wants her. Everyone in her family worried now, because she has no future. But still they dont regret what they didn't, because sleeping around was what she wanted to do. Do you care if your female family member uses drug or becomes a slut?

I'm 18 years old, just got a job in downtown as a waitress, living in a fairly small town we have regulars. There is a security guard that works at the campus across the street, he comes in Wednesday/Thursday for a burger and fries. He usually requests me when he can, meaning he asks my manager where I am. Sometimes I think it will be a normal table and nothing will happen, Last week he was very flirty asking what He could do with me for free food. Not letting me into the door after I ran out to my car, coming in from my brake Untill I said hello to him. He waited till I was on service to eat. Along with when I was on window cleaning today, he walked past the window and winked at me. Since he works across the street I see him quite a bit. and He tries to talk to me as much as he can, Going out of his way to stop me. This man is half my age and will try to touch my arms, leave no tip but a nasty note, in which I typically throw away. he's twice my age ( about in his 40's it seems from what I've noticed/) I really can't quit my job. I need it really bad. I'm tempted to tell my manager, sometimes Ill hide in the back and I'll hear later in my shift he was looking for me. I have no clue what to do.

My aunt HATES me!!!!!

Long story short. My former professor and I have become close. She was my first favorite professor. Her daughter passed away 10 years ago. For her 10th anniversary I bought the professor flowers to cheer her up on that terrible day. Little did I know it would spark a friendship. She told me she believed her daughter channeled a message to her from me. Because I included a flower that was between her and her daughter and I didnt know. From that moment on the professor would sit near me in class, smile and wink at me. Then she started hugging me. She told me I was her best encouragement and I was a wonderful person. During an email I confessed that I loved and cared about her. Well she didn't reply to the email. So I thought I made her uncomfortable. Well I saw her today in the hallway and I was very embarrassed. But she smiled at me and opened her arms for a hug. I quickly hugged her and went on with what I was doing. I felt bad instantly because I was very short with her. I emailed her and told her that I was embarrassed because I thought I made her uncomfortable. She replied everything's fine. But as a woman, I know that phrase never really means that. What do you think? Is everything fine? She's 60 and I'm 25. Needless to say, I'm around her deceased daughters age.

I'm 22 and still with my 1st boyfriend. I'm not happy and haven't been for a while. I was 16 he was 19 when we started dating. There's this other guy and I know I'm going to be judged but he's barely 18. I love him and have known him since he was 11 & I was 16. It was apparent he had a crush on me but he was a kid I didn't see him as an option. But he's more than that honestly. He's someone who opens up to me. Yeah he's depressed but I want to help him. He's just the sweetest guy I've ever known. I started noticing I was attracted to him last year when he was about to turn 17. But he's smart funny cute handsome and he listens to me. With my boyfriend it feels like he gets home says hi turns on the tv goes on his phone it's not romantic at all. But this other guy has taken my family and I places that are so beautiful and I never knew existed like these mandirs. He took me to see fireworks. My sister and mom love him so much even my dad. They don't like my boyfriend. This guy makes me feel special and my boyfriend doesn't it feels like it should be the other way around. And my boyfriend controls me he doesn't like me texting the "other guy One makes me happy but I almost have to escape to spend time with him and the other is controlling and doesn't make me feel like a strong woman.He'd rather spend money on sneakers on me rather than take me out to dinner. With my best friend it's always new. We celebrated Chinese New Year and all sorts of random holidays just to celebrate

one of my coworkers and I hit it pretty well, right from the beginning I instantly felt this connection and genuinely thought the feelings were matual cause when were in an elevator together he randomly touched my wrist, like you don't just randomly touch someone's wrist unless you're attractive to them or you want to flirt with them and from there i kinda assume we would have like this flirty/friendship relationship and it kinda was for awhile. I felt like he was genuinely into me, am I crazy for that? Anyway, he had to move back to his hometown and I thought I should put myself out there & ask if we could talk more, get to know one another & he told me he doesn't really have any interest in creating any long distance relationships/friendships because he finds them tedious and a lot of work, he said it wasn't anything personal was just how he felt w/ a sad face & I genuinely thought he felt bad so I said he'll never know unless he tries & that I think it'd be nice to just have someone to talk to, wouldn't you want that & he kinda lashed out at me.. told me to respect his boundaries & not to text him again & I kinda got mad and did anyway. eventually I apologized for disrespecting him & he ignored it  i just wanted someone to confide in, someone to make my life a little less boring and lonely. It just genuinely hurts me because i felt like there was something between us and it sucks he had to move back do you think he dislikes me as a person now? :(

I have an iPhone 6 and I am on iOS 10. I don't see the notifications until I turn on my phone. I checked and all of the notifications are on along with sound and banners but it doesn't sound when I have a text or a snapchat from someone. Is there something I can change in my settings?

Me and my boyfriend have been together almost six months now. I'm 17 and he's 20. He's my best friend and I love his company. When we first got together he didn't treat me too well and I felt extremely isolated and I met up with my ex (who was a good friend) and cheated. I told him what happened and we got through it. That was nearly six months ago now. Yesterday I couldn't het hold of him all day and when he called me he told me his ex was as round his house. She had already been there three hours and some of that time they were home alone. I got really upset and said I couldn't deal with it and needed some space (as in 30 minutes to cool down) but then he said he couldn't be with someone who doesn't trust him and essentially broke up with me. I called him and we fixed things but now he wants to go out on Friday night with his ex and all her friends and is angry at me for asking him calmly if he would mind going another time when i'm able to come too (for reassurance that they are trustworthy people and not likely to lure him into bad things). He's saying I have no right to request this because of what I did in the past and that i'm controlling but I changed so much and completely cut off everyone from my past for him and I don't feel my request is too drastic. What do you think? Am I right asking him to stay home??