Can I get married in foster care at age 19 in LA but in foster care in MS. And what would happened after I m married ?

Pulled up a little early to pick him up from work found him huddled up against back of building smoking with some woman it really shocked me i started to drive right past but backed up he knew i wasnt happy afterall he supposed to be working also he just had heartattack & isnt supposed to be smoking. Anyway as he walks up to car with a smirk on his face like he is enjoying that im upset he says she is his boss kibda funny since he clearly told me repeatedly he just works with guys its not about the women (hes not all that of a prize) its the constant saying he said things he didnt and wont admit his lies. Being open is an absolute for me and he knows it when things are held back to me it is like there is something he worried about so he cant be open and im tired of it all. Last night same person called at 11pm left voicemail about some carbon moboxide alarm going off instead returning her call he leaves msg through his voicemail which is pretty wierd also she called from persinal number not the work number. I am to point i cant stand

A few days ago I saw this family of four. The husband's wife was I thought very beautiful. Today I think I saw the husband and I was thinking to myself "You are a lucky SOB for having such a beautiful wife." I also thought to myself "You probably really enjoyed having sex with her." Now what do you think he would think if he was able to read my thoughts about his wife?

When I'm around my husband, I feel as if he's getting all of the attention and people are be more so friendly to him then me. I smile and say hi to everyone, but they're always looking at me like I said something disrespectful but when my husband smiles and say hi everyone become very talkive and open up to him. We have this super market that we go too and everyone there always say hi to my husband, but just look at me like I'm invisible I tried to tell my husband how I feel about this situation, but all he tells me is I'm overly reacting, he has always been the jealous type and feels as if whenever some does say hi he said to cut me off and start talking to the person himself but when people say hi to him I get a little jealous as well, but indont cut him off and usually when people don't say hi to the other spouse, their partner usually confront the situation on hand but my husband doesn't do that, he just ignore the situation like he's the only one who have feelings and I'm just a little insecure person. I just don't like to feel disrespected because then I'll start to confront the person myself and I don't want too but it the only way I can get people to show me some respect.

Me and my wife are getting ready to go to bed shes scared she can't sleep. She said Halloween had frighten her since she was a kid. She loves dressing up and getting candy but the dark kind of scares her. How can I comfort her ?

Ive been married for 4 years. During this time I have went from happy to unhappy. My husband works out of town 4 months at a time and when he is home doesn t show me much love at all. The man I met is kind, caring just everything a woman could dream of. I have fallen deeply in love with him. I love my husband and don t want to hurt him but I m not happy with him. What should I do?

My ex husband and I divorced two years ago he wanted more children I wanted to go back to school and get my degree before I had another child which led to disagreements and he decided to separate and live like a single man so I filed for divorce. He left for a year after he got his visitation then he came back and our son spends every other weekend with him. Recently my son came back with aggression he balls his fists when things does not go his way now, he's yelling and screaming at the kids I baby sit in the evening. Things he's never done until his visitation started with his dad. I figured talking would be fine but my son came home from his last visit with his dad with a busted lip and two days in school he punched another child in the throat for no reason. I told his dad he got offensive said thats what boys do and told me not to tell him dumb stuff like that again. This is not appropriate my son is too young to be so angry. What can I do for him? Should I report this behavior to my lawyer? His dad never tells me what goes on in his house its none of my business but now it is. It has spilled over into my household and the school is freaking out.

My husband and I are getting divorced because he cheated on me. We live in Nevada and own horses that he bought without my permission. He is unable to work because he badly injured his elbows in a car accident. It should also be noted that I make all the money in the marriage and yet more of if goes to his horses than anything else. Can I do something to get rid of the horses that that I don't have to pay for them after the divorce because at this point it looks like I'm going to have to pay him alimony.

Why do they need one when they have a plenty of money to take care of themselves? Men with a lot of money (millionaire/billioniare) tend to work like over 80 hours a week and don't have time for a wife or children. I don't understand. They can have all the ladies they want on dates. What's the point of getting married if they are going to cheat on their wives? And men complain about golddiggers then why don't they marry a woman who is in their level?

I want to know if I am overreacting as a parent. I have primary custody of my child. My ex has visitation only. He does NOT LIVE in my town. He lives in a dangerous neighborhood. I have a broken leg. It is my custodial day. He agreed to bring her over and have her trick or treat in my neighborhood. She is 12 and is old enough to go with friends. Instead, he did not bring her to my house. He claims he had no time to stop here. He's somewhere in my neighborhood (he won't answer his phone) and I'm sitting here and can't drive. I'm guessing he will drop her off late, on a sugar high, and just leave. Should I be mad? He said right in front of her she is coming here and mom wants pictures. This is her last halloween. Plus, he's not even supposed to be with her tonite as a parent, thoughts?

I am 34 and single. There is a perception out there that people like me are doing something wrong, or not being responsible simply because I am not married and don't have kids, nor am I on track for either of them. I get subtly regarded as a "Peter Pan" who is selfish and refuses to take on responsibility. I get treated as though I'm not as far along in life as some others. Now, it's not like I'm out getting blackout drunk every weekend or that I mooch off my parents either. Quite the opposite, actually. I have a good career that I'm advancing, a healthy lifestyle, and I'm actually LESS dependent on my parents than my friends with kids. I am tired of it. My friends with kids go to work all day, then come home and take care of the kids and the house. No time for themselves. Friday nights are spent in, and weekends are spent gardening, errands, and housework. Vacations? Maybe once a year to visit relatives. Maybe Disney after 2 years of saving up. Not to somewhere exotic. Exercise? Twice a week, if lucky? This leads to getting out of shape. Sounds like prison to me. Me, on the other hand....I can spend more time advancing my career. I can go to the gym daily. I can take vacations with MUCH less advance planning. I can ENJOY my weekends. I can sleep late. I can volunteer, or pursue hobbies. Why are people finding fault with my lifestyle?

I've been dating this guy over a month, we have not had sex yet cuz he wanted to take things slow. We went away this weekend together & he did not try to have sex with me, in fact he told me he didn't bring me to hotel to have sex & he didn't want to be "that guy." Hearing this just made me like him that much more, even though I do want to have sex with him. I didn't want to initiate it or rush & ruin things either. We still cuddled and slept in the same bed. The next day we were supposed to get breakfast & do some more sightseeing & he just wanted to go home. Then as we were driving home he starts telling me about how him & his ex got together (he's already told me how they broke up) & how they were best friends from grade school & just had sex & started dating (they've been broke up 2 yrs). He said he expects her to inbox him soon & he's ok with it & would like to be friends again. He also said that they used to hang out with each other alone while they were both in relationships with other people, before they started dating. I told him it was weird cuz they had sex & that I want my best friend to be my BF. He took it like I didn't want him to have girl friends at all or talk to anyone he had sex with. Now he's distant and barely talking to me. I don't know what happened this weekend because I had a great time with him & don't want to over react & confront the issue right now before thinking. I don't know if it's that I didn't initiate sex or that he's mad I don't like the idea of him being friends with his ex like that. He's always preaching communication and he barely wanted to talk to me about this. What should I do? I don't care if he has girl friends, I just want to be his best friend. He didn't even try to ease my mind when I brought up how I feel, just said he understood and has been distant since.

The first night we were in Mexico my husband decided to go skinny-dipping ocean with all my friends (guys and gals) while I was swimming in the swimming pool. Six months ago he told me he didn t want to have sex with me because I let myself go (5 4" 118lbs). Tonight later I found another couple having sex on our patio. I warned everyone inside our condo that was happening and not to go out there. Within five minutes my husband was looking around the condo and came in from the outside after watching them. He became angry with me and told me to loosen up when I confronted him about the situation. Now I don t know if I can trust him to be in a relationship but, he s telling me if I want to leave to go ahead. But he s not the one breaking up a family / marriage. And that he still loves me, i m what he s wants... heart broken and confused.

I've left him before for a year and he sought personal counseling before we got back together. He was an alcoholic, on anabolic steroids & verbally abusive. He has called me every name in the book, cheated & told me I should have aborted our child.... I took him back after counseling and he was actively working on being a better person. Well, 2 years later he's back at it again. I cry nearly everyday with the things he says. My 4 year old told me some mean things she overheard daddy say on the phone. "Mommy is lazy", which I'm not. "Daddy said he doesn't want you, just me and my sister". I asked her to repeat that just in case I didn't hear it right. She said "daddy was on the phone and said that". We talked about working things out but he says I have to call the counselor. Since that talk he is still saying nasty things or being extremely rude daily. In my opinion, how would counseling help now if he will only start making an effort "once we start counseling"?". To me it's almost as if he wants me to leave, but he wants to save face by saying "I told her I'd go to counseling". Don't actions speak louder than words. If he really did want things to work, wouldn't he want me to want counseling? Instead, he makes me want a lawyer. He can't be kind to me at all, it's almost as if it's weak to be kind. Any women been through this? Just to add- he also has not shown any physical affection this year at all. Nor did he wish me a happy birthday or Mother's Day. It's like I'm nothing. But sure, a counselor can help him?? Haven't called one because he shows no effort in actually wanting to change. I haven't shown affection because he's using the f word at me all the time. If the entire house is clean, he still comes home and will say "why the F is ____ sitting here?!" Feel free to insert whatever you like, because he's probably said it. Or "why the F is this not done?!" Or he'll say to the kids "looks like mommy was too lazy to ____". I'm not lazy, I pick up after them ALL day. If you knew the daily verbal beatings I get, you wouldnt be so quick to judge. If my daughter asks me "mommy why are you curling your hair??" HE will say to OUR daughter "because mommy needs to impress other people when she only needs to worry about what I think". Staying with him is looking more like a punishment everyday. I'm sorry you haven't had to go through something like this, hopefully you don't! Liz- cunting is never an admirable quality. The abuse didn't start until the pregnancy. You would do yourself some moral goodness by researching abuse during pregnancy. Then maybe you wouldn't have to resort to being such a k-u-n-t. & yes, I know how it's suppose to be spelled.

hopefully no one will judge me for this question. I m happily married for 11 years and we have 3 kids. we have a nice pool at home and my husband invites his friends over everyweek or so for bbq and they sometimes get into the pool. one of his friends is really attractive and it makes me nervous when he is around. should I tell my husband not to invite them over? have anyone been in this situation? I dont really feel good about it and dont know what to do...

Okay so me and my husband got married recently before that I was a virgin who didn't believe in sex before marriage. Because of my religious beliefs and well recently me and him had sex for the first time which was amazing and I liked being intimate with him in that way. But right after I started feeling guilty and dirty. :/ Thanks for answering everyone! <3 I will seek professional counseling that some of you recommended me to do to resolve this.

I'm 37, only been in one relationship my whole life and that was in my 20's -- should I look for a man to marry? I don't have any friends. I feel I have a lot to offer a man in the area of love.

I thought I would put this in the marriage section because I figured that people would have better answers and be more wise that's been married before. So I dated a guy for 6 months and we broke up because he pretty much cheated on me, not fully but close to it. We both lost our Virginities to eachother and haven't dated anyone since, we're both 18. It's been 3 months since we've broken up and he told me he wanted to get back together and he missed me. Well he had asked me Saturday if he could take me out for dinner on Sunday and I told him I was gonna be busy with my family which is true. And told him we could maybe next weekend. I didn't hear from him yesterday or today? I feel like he's just trying to use me for sex and for some one to hangout with. Because it's like when I can't hangout he doesn't want anything to do with me. What does this sound like?

I did not repeat not tell her she was fat. All I said was I thought she was gaining a little weight, it wasn't a big deal, and we should eat less and go for more walks. My wife is 27, we've been together 6yrs, married for 2. She weighs normally about 150-155 at 5'5. She looks good. It's not stick thin but she has a bigger frame and she's been relatively since she was in high school. When I told her, she weighed herself and said I was right, she'd gained 8lbs since the last time she weighed herself which was about 2 months ago. I think it's because her activity level is lower since summer. She's been following my advice and I thought she understood. But she's acting funny. Normally we cuddle on the couch with her laying on me and she was sitting next to me. So I said come here and she said, "I don't want to hurt me." And the other night she wouldn't get on top during sex because she was "feeling chubby". We agreed before we married, we didn't want to be one of those couples that lets themselves go. She tells me when I need to shave. Do you think I hurt her feelings? Like she knows the facts, it's only 8lbs, I don't know why she would get insecure. She's still very sexy.

asked if I could hold her while we laid down as well. Felt weird but I felt we bonded. Something we haven't done in a while. I feel that it is still important to show affection when you can. My question for those in my boat or who have been, do you enjoy that time with spouse even if it's rare? What makes you happy?

My husband is an alcoholic but denies it. When I bring it up while hes sober he either gets irritated or ignores me. This leaves me with resentment. When he drinks he doesnt know when to stop.. he will drink around 15 beers anywhere from 1-5 nights a week. When I try to get him to slow down while hes drinking he says "what im not doing anything wrong" he doesnt see an issue in it if we are at home and its not causing chaos. I worry about the long term health damage, i worry about my son being raised around this and its hard for me to be attracted to him when he is this drunk. He has legal issues due to his drinking, has missed work before, and a few friends have decided not to come over anymore due to his drinking. Its been suggested that i go to al-anon, but Im not sure about it. I know it is ultimately his decision to do something about it, but what are some things i can say that will help open his eyes? I am ready for a more stable life/enviroment

I'm done with him and want a divorce but am on social security disability so I can't afford a long drawn out process, the house we live in is my house, my dad bought for me 15 years go and I pay him rent, my dads name and mine are on the papers not my husbands, my husband moved in only 2 years ago and doesnt help with rent, I inherit the house when my dad passes away, we have no kids or property together, I want nothing of his, I have 2 girls ages 17 & 18 that I have had full legal and physical custody of since they were babies, they don't want anything to do with him, will these things make things help the divorce go faster and smoother? We live in Minnesota.

Is it really right and acceptable that he gets to line up another relationship, then confess to cheating on me, and when I leave him (which is understandable) he doesn't have to feel guilt or anything cause he has this new girl he lined up already... That's fricking bullshet. And meanwhile I am dying inside months later, having to deal with conflicting feelings of still liking a cheater who doesn't even want to be with me anymore, and trying so hard to just move on (HE ended the relationship even though I was the one who said "we're over"--and he knows it). It's just so unfair...

Been divorced a little under 4 years after my wife had an affair with her coworker and left me to chase him. we have 50/50 custody. Our kids prefer to be with me. Instead of taking the school bus home to her house, our son takes it to my house on her days often. Our daughter will make up a school-related reason to stay at my house. The kids tell me she doesnt make them food and leaves them to fend for themselves. This weekend, our son was supposed to be with my ex all weekend. He was with me until 2pm Saturday. She dropped him back.off with me last night. She calls me sometimes to complain about the kids wanting to come to my.house or that our daughter doesnt talk to.her. I warned her that her affair and the divorce she wanted were going to create 10,000 problems and cobsequences that we would both be dealing with. I remind her that she created the two homes situation for the kids to choose from. She gets mad at me. I dont eant to make the life she created easier for her. Honestly, I still am in pain over what she did. What would you do?

When I went on Amazon there's a pop up for new chapter prenatal, now it shows on my wife's history that she visited the website. The thing is I saw the pop up add two days ago and when I search for new chapter it wasn't in the history until two days later. Now does this mean she was viewing the prenatal vitamins or whatever and that's why it's popping up? Or my wife was viewing stuff from there and just one of those things just pop up? My wife is away on a business trip and I haven't gotten a chance to ask her yet. Can some help me. We have 3 girls and by the way she always put it is our last kid is the last baby, and she's been trying to back in shape and be herself again. I am pretty sure we're done. But my only question is what could this mean? She always says to our daughter "I can't wait until you all get married".

My husband was mad and wanted to walk home saying I was talking ****. I said stop the cops are gonna come and you've been drinking . I kept on insisting to stop and everytime he would go I would do my best to hold him back. He then said " Idc I can just run your fat af you won't catch me". Mind I only told him " you need to stop drinking bcus you always act like this" because I told him that he wanted to leave and said I was talking ****. It makes me really sad he would say this he doesn't even shower sometimes and his breath will stink Hes gained 20 pounds since our first daughter was born and I don't say anything. I feel like even if I do lose weight he won't deserve me because how he made me feel the way I am now being over weight. I am over weight I am 170 and 5'3 I just recently had our youngest daughter I went through 2 pregnancies in a row i used to be 160. Not thin but my body looked average. I feel really sad and confused.

Im blocking you dont contact me im just going to ignore you. Why did he say this? My husband said this to me. Thanks