He is 30 I am 17 yes I know it's big bug we went to eat at a friends house who brought his daughter and when we left my husband knew his daughter was 12 but he asked me "do u think she's pretty?" I said she's a normal kid why and he said idk and then yesterday he told me he wants me to gain some weight and for an example he said that guys daughter he said "you saw her?" I said yes he said he thinks her weight is attractive and it's so wierd he comments in verry young girls a lot .. Is that normal or should I leave him

Hola. es que yo tengo experiencia en taekwondo, muay thai, MMA, etc... Pero cuando me molestan o quieren abusar de mi me pongo nervioso y me cargo de adrenalina empiezo a temblar y como que siento que voy a llorar. ayúdenme. al que me de lo mas eficaz y util 5 estrellas gracias

Would I be born to the different mother or father?

I know that porn is an incredibly warped portrayal of actual sex but how exactly does it differ? My sex education was practically non existent and there's no way I'm talking about this to my day whom I live with. Is it quieter, slower, longer? I don't know what to expect when it happens for the first time.

I feel so behind in life.I have no drivers license no relationship experience, still a virgin,and never kissed a guy.I ll soon be in my mid 20s.I feel like a big loser especially when I see younger family members who have these things.I have anxiety(mainly social anxiety)so it s hard for me to accomplish my goals. Sometimes I think I m doing better as far as my anxiety but then I really envy those who these experiences come easy to them.The only good thing I have accomplished is getting good grades in college.Other than that I m a failure at life it seems.I tried counseling it didn t really help the counselor seems to think that since I m "attractive"I shouldn t be anxious :( but I am still anxious and it s not looks related it is just how I am..idk why?Any tips on how to change, feel better, anything?

It feels heavy on my stomach am I going to contract disease and die now from drinking a beer?

Hi guys, I need your help here, I'm trying to get hold of my girlfriend but for some reason the call doesnt go through anymore, it says "I dialled an incorrect number" it's so strange because we was talking on the phone all this time and this happened while we was talking on whatsapp, I was responding to her message and then my message couldn't go through. She has an iPhone and I don't know whether it's the phone or the network, I tried calling her number with a different phone but still the same. Anyone had the same problem?

In high school there was this teacher who helped me writing stories and such. Thats at least what it looks, but honestly her help meant much more to me especially that i was going through a hard time. She probably doesn't know that. I asked her on the last day of school if it's ok to keep in contact. She said that she will sure be glad to hear from me and would like it if i kept sending her my works of writing. She even said that she enjoys reading and discussing them with me. Now, i am in college. It have been 6 months since she said that. I wrote something which i really want her read. Not for any particular reason, i just enjoy letting her read them and she is the ONLY person who i am comfortable sharing my works with. I don't know if it's okay to send it to her. I know that she said it's fine, but what if it was just out of kindness? I don't want to be a burden on her! How am i supposed to know when i am a burden ?? Deeply apologise for writing too much.. i am not so good with expressing what i need xD

I have history with an ex - 6 years on and off. We used to work together. He was a higher up. I left the company, we started our relationship, he always tried to get me to work for him and I always said no. About two years ago, he was fired from that director level position. I reached out to him, he refused to tell me what happened. That was the last time we spoke. I found out he was fired for cheating on his expense account. He is now doing "consulting" work, which in our industry means temp jobs. I've tried to reach out and he doesn't respond. I know through friends that he's not seeing anyone else. My therapist says he is embarrassed bc of the loss of status. I keep hoping he will come back when he gets a steady job. He hasn't even updated his LINKEDIN profile, even though he uses it every day for work. I still love him - have for 9 years. Is this hopeless? Do I wait until he gets a new job?! Can anyone explain his behavior?

ok my boyfriend is 31 and im 22 so clearly my sex drive is higher it's only been 2 weeks since we had sex but I've never been in a relationship with a guy who wasnt trying to f**k me every chance he got the thing that bothers me about my current boyfriend is if i get too sexual with him at the wrong time like when he just gets off work or is sleepy he gets annoyed and tells me im trying too hard and asks me why is it always about sex with me ...its not i truly adore him which is why i wanna bone him more LOL the first month we f**ked every chance we got now its only 3 months in and i feel him getting "comforable" he doesnt dirty talk me thru text anymore when i come over after he comes home from a business trip he rather cook and cuddle then go to sleep than f**k me he does kiss me and hug but he's just not as sexual and complmentary as he use to be he says its cause him traveling from work is draining but its worrying me how do i tell him I NEED MORE SEX?? AND MORE COMPLIMENTS?? i know he's a storm chaser and always on the road but damn!

I need help my boyfriend is mad at me over the stupidest thing in the world but this made me realize that I don't need a man like him in my life. You see I puted this picture up on whatsapp that I got off of google and he thinks is me and "this guy" 👎😞😒 I tried to explain but it was too late he had deleted his whatsapp I tried calling he won't pick up He told me in the message that he hopes he never see's me never in his life again💔that just broke my heart because I love him but don't need nobody to not trust me especially not him I messaged him and he sended me the picture I told him it was from google and that I wasn't asking for us to be together again that I haven't done anything wrong that I just needed to know what is going to happend you see I'm 6 weeks pregnant I haven't seen him in so long idk what to do I can't have this baby by myself is not fair But I'm not begging no man either when I have not donde anything wrong. I was thinking of going to his house to talk to him only about the baby what do you guys think? Please help ); The worst I can't find the image on google anymore I just want to throw it in his face that is from google and show him I do not want to be with him anymore so many things have happened and he has not been there for me but I just want to clear things up so he can see and regret it. This is the picture 👇👇

Never usually send him anything, we don't get on. But this year I have got him a personalised dog tag for his new dog's collar and I also bought a personalised zippo lighter for him.

please rate these men from 1-10 (the white haired, the dark shirt man, the long haired, the gold gym man and finally the last dark haired.) If you leave a link I will answer your too. Thanks https://www.flickr.com/photos/142447686@N06/?

Or is it just a normal thing. Just when they were saying goodbye and said see you soon, he winked at me as they were walking out and I felt a it uncomfortable. This is the first time i met him.

I want to start out with this premise: Why, in general, do people value more how they see others (attraction) vs how others treat them (logic)? What is it about a person that attracts so many to them without saying a word? Yet, others seem to not attract even repel other? I've heard stories about people not being attracted to a person but after talking they end up either liking the person as a friend or more. So is this initial attraction thing really some type of bias or prejudice a person have towards another?

Why do I get such huge different reactions from girls on dating apps than I do from girls in real life? I know I look decent. Skinny, average height, 6 ft tall, a caramel mixed skinned brother with a short haircut. Solid. yet I will use dating apps for the hell of it mostly for visual stimuli and message girls and my reactions are completely pathetic. tinder? no-go. Bumble? nahh. POF? not today... Mostly no reply's. Not even a hi. but then i will go to places like gas stations, stores, bars, clubs... or any social gathering with a congregation of anything with a vagina that moves... and the reactions I get is like dynamite to a flame. I DON'T GET IT!! I get stares, smiles, looks with a wide range of emotions and willingness. Even girls with their boyfriends gives me the devious sneaky little glance and look away. I admit that I've pulled plenty of bumble bees off the streets ( actually not really the "streets" but social events.. schools, colleges... normal places. without being awkward) and into bed. I've done that plenty of times, but when i'm on dating apps?... ZERO! Meanwhile I have a friend of mine who looks decent. NO HOMO. blue eyes, white dude,skinny and he would get great result! but online only... In real life hes average to completely terrible in clubs and other social places. He gets more rejections. but me? no.. in real life I destroy him. I will get females of different types looking and giving me the okay if i do decide to approach. I just don't understand why we get such a different reactions in different ways like that... what is upp with online apps?

I'm an actor and I find it's tough getting parts for characters with the same race as me because casting people tell me that I "don't look like my race." And since I have an accent, I can't play an American/Caucasian part. It's very frustrating. So please tell me, what race do I look like I could be? Just answer whatever comes to mind. Thank you!

this guy I liked recently moved back to his hometown and I wanted to talk to him more, kinda keep in touch here thought it'd be nice if we continued talking anyway I decided to be straightforward and honest and ask if we could talk more, get to know one another that is if he wants to and he told he doesn't really have any interest in creating a long distance relationship/friendship and otherwise because he finds them tedious and a lot of work and he knows it might sound harsh but he doesn't mean anything personal by it and that I seemed nice & he wished me well but that's how he felt w/ a sad emoji and I ended up saying the most stupidest thing, I was like I am nice, I am too nice & I'm kind of sad that, that's how you feel about them. You'll never know unless you try and I think it'd nice to just have someone to talk to you, and said wouldn't you want you that? Cause I mean who doesn't want someone to keep them company throughout the day, someone you can talk to about anything. I genuinely thought he would want that.. anyway after I said that he lashed out and said I do not want that & thought he made it clear while remaining nice & I was like wtf... and he told me to respect his boundaries & not to text him again.. after that I just felt so confused like am I crazy for thinking he genuinely felt bad? cause that's what he made it out to be, he should've just told me he wasn't into me like that and not use the sad face, maybe I'm just naive but I was so hurt & still am 

I'm confused and would appreciate any help anyone can give me please nothing negative I'm just asking for advice my child's father has hardly been in the picture, when he is he ask about her like how is she then it comes back to how he loves and misses me. He never signed birth certificate, help support her or took the time out to know her , when he did it ended up with me pushed on to floor , screamed at and told to stay out of his life in front of her I moved a hour away to get away from this cause I couldn't have him doing that to me or in front of her . She's 5 he's seen her 4 times end of last year he called said he was dying worse mistake was not knowing her so I agreed to meet but after I refused him sex it got ugly

Sure it does Ashlee! You just have to be smart and willing to exert control.

After the main funeral reception is over?

this guy I liked recently moved back to his hometown and I wanted to talk to him more, kinda keep in touch here thought it'd be nice if we continued talking anyway I decided to be straightforward and honest and ask if we could talk more, get to know one another that is if he wants to and he told he doesn't really have any interest in creating a long distance relationship/friendship and otherwise because he finds them tedious and a lot of work and he knows it might sound harsh but he doesn't mean anything personal by it and that I seemed nice & he wished me well but that's how he felt w/ a sad emoji and I ended up saying the most stupidest thing, I was like I am nice, I am too nice & I'm kind of sad that, that's how you feel about them. You'll never know unless you try and I think it'd nice to just have someone to talk to you, and said wouldn't you want you that? Cause I mean who doesn't want someone to keep them company throughout the day, someone you can talk to about anything. I genuinely thought he would want that.. anyway after I said that he lashed out and said I do not want that & thought he made it clear while remaining nice & I was like wtf... and he told me to respect his boundaries & not to text him again.. after that I just felt so confused like am I crazy for thinking he genuinely felt bad? cause that's what he made it out to be, he should've just told me he wasn't into me like that and not use the sad face, maybe I'm just naive but I was so hurt & still am 

Immediate family number one: parents and children. Immediate family number two: spouse and children. Do we have two immediate families? Family number 1: parent and sibling. Family number 2: spouse and child.

Okay, my family has a lot going on right now. I moved back in with my mother a couple of years ago to help her with bills and taxes on her house. My father and grandfather (who was the family patriarch) passed away just last year. I love my cousin and I often believe in second chances and we get along sometimes, but the main concerns I have with him are that he's so ungrateful and he always has a story. He's a 41 year old screw up. He's one of those people you sometimes have to love at a distance. In the past (not recently) he's been violent and on drugs. Anyway, my mom hasn't been able to drive, so I take her around everywhere. She let him take her car one day when I wasn't home. She knew I would never have allowed that to happen if I were here. Months later, he gets evicted. Apparently, he thinks when he's depressed he can skip work. I get depressed, but I rarely miss work. I go to counseling, journal, use coping skills, and keep it moving. Yes, he has insurance, so he can afford counseling. She talked to me about him coming here. I vetoed the idea. Not out of selfish reasons, but he's just a negative energy for everyone. My mom gets so frustrated with him. She let him live with us anyway. Keep in mind, he has such a sense of entitlement and always expects bail outs. He messed around and didn't get the necessary work done on the car, so it's in the city in front of his friend's house, and we're wanting to tow it out here. I've been having to take him to work. Of course, I said it's his problem at first. Be an adult. Yes, I've had help a few times, but I usually handle things independently. I don't ask for help unless it's a last resort and I often have to pull myself up by my own bootstraps. Whereas, he screws up and it's everyone else's problem. He gives me gas money and every once in awhile he buys food even though we told him to not buy food because we do and he doesn't save money very well. But it's wear and tear on my car and I have to Rearrange my schedule for him. And he wants things just so. Like, we buy food. The only thing he has to pay for is gas to take him where he needs to go. My mom didn't charge him rent because he needs to save his money to get out. But if he wants a certain food, he'll buy it or want a ride to the store. He has no sense of inconvenience or what other people have to do. And once I start my new job, I really won't be able to take him around. He's the one that missed over 200 hours of work and can't Miss anymore. I know family is supposed to help each other out and I always do, but am I wrong for wanting to have limits? Am I wrong for lowkey being mad at my mother for allowing this situation to happen and continuing to enable him? I'm 26. Why is he such a baby? What should I do?

My wife and I do not see eye to eye on everything as most couples don't. However, the biggest problem we have right now are how to raise the kids. She had 2 sons from her first marriage and I had a daughter from a previous relationship (not married). She coddles her sons to the point to where "I think" they rely on her too much. Oldest son started getting into trouble and eventually started getting arrested. He's 21 now with a felony record. Youngest son, we got him into college after he graduated h.s. and he flunked out his first year, got his girlfriend pregnant on purpose, really has no drive to do better. He did enroll in a community college in our town and is about to graduate with an associates degree in graphic design. He thinks that is enough to get him a high powered sales job at a major firm. He's 20 now and still living at home. Oldest son left long time ago. My daughter is now in her 2nd year of college and doing well working on her bachelor's and is already talking about her master's. I told my wife that her youngest needs to find a better job than Jimmy John's cause it's time he started paying bills or rent around the house. My idea of rent is a measly $200 a month. She said he doesn't make that much at J.J. to afford that. Well, that just means that he heeds to find a better job. My wife feels that since my daughter isnt' paying any bills when she's home then why should her son? Ok, again, different rules for different people. He's here 24/7 eating food, using water, lights, cable, internet, and even driving the cars but he's not suppose to pay any bills or contribute to the rent simply because my daughter, who's away at college, isn't paying anything. The thing is this. When my daughter graduates she will be subject to the same rules as her son. You can't graduate from college and still expect to live scott free because someone else is. Am I wrong on that? My wife thinks I'm the one being unfair to him. Am I wrong for just trying to teach some responsibility cause I do not want these kids living with us until they're into their thirties. She feels that you help kids till they get out on their own. Well, if you do everything for them and don't require them to pay their own way they're never going to leave the nest. Again, do you apply the same rules to everyone in the house simply because one isn't living up to his or her potential? When my siblings and I graduated college and came back home, the minute we started working was the day we started paying around the house. Why? Because momma was washing all our clothes. She was cooking all our meals and we were eating just as much groceries as everyone else. We were using lights, water, cable, etc. It was only right. Her son should be exempt why? Cause he's her baby? I think now!