The type of couple who has still has a kid after they've had 3 kids ages 8-13? i don't know what it is about them but i just find them slightly pathetic and annoying. Especially if i see a 23 yr old sister with a 10 yr old brother, its just doesn't look right to me. Sheena, yes you want your kids to be older before you have your last child but why would anyone wait as long 8-10 yrs? Sounds like they just can't stop having sex.

Brought my daughter to class today, (college humanities), took a picture of a my 9 month old being held by another student (girl). Wife saw the picture and became jealous instantly. "Who is this stranger holding my daughter?" "Do you like this girl?" "Why did you need to take this picture?" "What s going on in your class, do you text her or call each other?" The girl is 39 and has 2 children and have been married for at least 15 years. I was being chewed out, I felt so small. Is there a plausible explanation for this? All I could do is say "it was nothing, it meant nothing, it was just a photo...I m sorry.. I didn t know." she replied, "how would or could I know that?" Etc....etc... "what if I sent you a picture of another man holding your child." How would you feel? Hasn t been done so I don t know. how can I remedy this? She did tell me she was venting. But it s probably going to stink for a couple of days.

I weigh 105 and 5 feet 4 inches TYVM! MOFO

It took me 3.5 months to go to the social security office, 5 months to go to the dmv. I have a friend who got married 6 months ago who still hasn't done it. She change it on social media though ...

curious

According to (some) women, changing a last name is after marriage is considered sexist or part of the patriarchy. So, shouldn't sharing his income or savings, or maybe even the house with your partner also be the same case? Actually thats right, why would you marry a woman who thinks the tradition is sexist? (considering the man isn't demanding about it) @Gordon: What about your children's last name? How is that decided. AHH DARN IT, I should've given the best answer to Registered. Sorry about that! Registered's answer (and she's a female): "Women who will not change their names are too full of themselves. Let them fend for themselves."

Some men have an outrageous sense of entitlement about this. They demand their wives change their surnames upon marriage, or worse I've seen men who refused to even get married, but insist their baby born out of wedlock have HIS name, not the mother's name or a hyphen. Some people are progressive enough to make up a new name, blend or hyphenate but for those who don't they have this egregiously macho attitude about it for NO reason. They're usually the same men who expect their wives to work too, so it's not like they want the responsibility, stress and hard work that should go hand in hand with declaring yourself head of the household. I've never heard one justification for this attitude that a 3 year old couldn't poke holes in so I'm hoping Gender Studies can give me a good one. -- "it's just easier."-- for who? Not for the woman who has to completely change her identity. Social security office, DMV, bank accounts, correcting people, professional life,etc. Not "easy" at all. -- "it's tradition"-- so was slavery at one point. This "tradition" has roots in a time that was very oppressive for women, when we couldn't own property or vote. --"it's disrespectful to the man if she doesn't change her name" -- It's disrespectful to the woman to expect her to! --"many women are proud to take their husbands names."-- fooey for them, this question is about why men expect and demand it.

once you meet their expectations, they get higher expectations. they want you to change then change then change, just so they can be unhappy that you are not the same guy you were when you met them. explain.

like what she does is intentionally put her legs on my lap knowing I'll get an erection. why does she do that?

these shows inspire every woman to never be happy and want to move/ flip houses every ******* waking moment of their life.... Hey, I got an idea! LET'S JUST BE HAPPY WHERE WE ARE

My husband is 38 and his friend is 40 he moved his friend in 5 months ago when his girlfriend dumped him for another guy. The friend is on unemployment and they sit around all day and smoke pot. He started investing a bunch of money in penny Mariauna stocks that they think will spike up and make them rich after other states legalize. Him and friend make jokes at my expense and when I confronted him about it and how it made me feel he turned it around on me. This morning he said He wants a divorce and I can get put. We have been married 5 years together 7 and live in California. We've owned a home for 2 and a half years he has refinanced it twice and took my name off last time and then bought himself a $10,000.motorcycle. I work part time at a bank I don't make a lot of money and he says I won't get anything in the divot because he can afford an attorney.

A few months ago, I met my soulmate.... but he s not my husband. I married my high school sweetheart after college. We have one child together, and another on the way. I worked with someone who I connected with in every way, to the bottom of my core. I quit my job and haven t spoken to him in over a month... I ran into him last weekend, and I could literally feel my heart jumping around in excitement. I want to keep my marriage, for the sake of us, for the sake of our children. But I can t get this person out of my mind, and I have no one who has any idea how to whom I can speak to. Tl;dr: How do I get someone out of my mind I can t exactly just throw myself into someone new, and I ve tried to throw myself back into my marriage, but I find myself thinking of someone old.

I am 37 years old and I am a white guy from USA. I know this 18 years old Chinese girl from China for quite some time for few months in my workplace, she is a student and part time studying. Finally I am going back to USA and may not be returning to China, and she confessed to me she likes me just a day before I return back to USA. I told her she is too young for me and I prefer to marry back a white girl.I was at her home, after she confessed she like me, she just took off her clothes and told me to make love to her, i refuseto have sex with her but she keep seducing me . I never expected her to be a virgin because she wears sexy to work.very short skirt to work. I was so turned on and so I make love to her and I suddenly noticed blood on her private part and my penis,there was blood and she told me she is a virgin and that it is her farewell gift to me, she said her virginity is for her future husband but she loves me so much, so it is a farewell gift. She said no more sex after this till she is married, she just wanted to give me her virginity. She knows I can't be with her, but she still make love to me as she said her virginity is to someone she loves a lot. So my question is, is there such a thing as giving a guy her virginity as a gift and is there such a thing as keeping virginity for marriage? Now she say she can't keep her virginity for her future husband but at least she gave it to someone she truly loves and that she will cherish the moment we had sex together. I feel bad for taking her virginity if it is so important for her, I never expect her to be a virgin and she invited me for sex. This is the first time I have sex with a virgin, thinking back, the shape of her private part looks much nicer than other girls I had sex with, I prefer to have sex with women 30++ years old, she kept asking me for sex and seducing me and I was finally turned on and gave in.

I know someone who spends most of her time gossiping about people most especially her friends, she brags to her friends she is Engineering graduate but never had a career. Yes, she looks after her daughter but she can still able to work at home; there are many opportunities for college graduates. Everytime she sees her friends, all she does is gossiping and she also complains about her cheating husband; she rants that she cannot able to leave her cheating husband because she's dependent on him.

I find it so damned annoying that when someone cheats, they are the one at fault and the other person is seen as the victim. Seriously, most people cheat because of their partner not dispite. If you are afraid your partner will cheat, then give him a good reason not to cheat, not a bad one. The only time someone cheated on me the blame was on me and not on the other person. Or am I the only person who thinks like that?

makes me feel like the woman I am. I eat butt too are any of you men interested

they argue everyday over small things. I'm kinda scared that they want a divorce. I hope not :(

He moved this friend into our home 5 months ago after his girlfriend dumped him. My husband gets disabilility from VA and SSI and the friend is on unemployment. Now they are making all kinds of plans together for what they are going to do with all there money and to retire together. We no longer discuss our future and all I hear about is there plans for there's . Should I be worried and is this probable?

I recently got engaged to my boyfriend of over a year. He has a 6 year old son form his previous marriage. However I noticed whenever his son acts out of misbehaves, throws tantrums, my boyfriend does not discipline him and when I say something to my fiance about it he does not back me up. I believe when kids misbehave they should have toys taken away and put in time out. My fiancé does not back me up on this. His son is 6 and acts like an adult. Also lately when we have been out on dates my fiancé hasn't had much money so I have paid. I asks shim whats going on and he says things are tight but he just spent over 500 on his sons bday party and presents and never paid me back for a trip we took together like he said he would and it has been over 6 months. Should I bail? I love him a lot but this is really getting to me and I am concerned about my future well being with him.

He said his wife HAD to change her name after marriage.. she didn't have a choice. WTF. Why would he say that and think that and be that way??

Do we need to get an appointment?

This is so embarrassing and was so immature but about 6 years ago when my husband and I first started dating we got into a huge fight and I dipped his toothbrush in the toilet. It was a "clean" toilet with just toilet water and I didn't scrub the toothbrush against the toilet or anything but I know it's still disgusting. I completely forgot about this until yesterday, and I feel so bad about it I am literally sick to my stomach. It was such an immature thing to do and so out of character for me. I love him so much and feel bad that I could ever have done this because he is a huge germaphobe. I always tell my husband everything, maybe too much, and I feel compelled to tell him this but I don't want to tell him just to clear my own conscience and have him get angry over something stupid that I did so long ago. Is there any good that would come from me telling him?

I'm 27 and my husband is 30. I'm biracial and he's white. He acts like a typical white man and annoys me all the time. We have 5 children the youngest is 4 months old. My husband works long hours and I appreciate him for that but he's so annoying. He leaves a mess wherever he is and makes stupid jokes. We have been together for several years now. I'm not in love with him and haven't been for a while now. It's just the same old every day he works I take care of the kids and cook. There's no excitement. I feel lonely because we moved because of his job a couple of months ago and I miss my mother and friends so I only have him to talk to here. I'm so bored of the marriage it's just the same old all the time. He always has to act in a silly way. I usually do the grocery shopping after my husband comes from work around once or twice a week and it takes a few hours. I leave the children with him but always take the baby. I have never left him alone with the baby because I worry. I don't like the way he holds her as if he's going to drop her and he gives the kids candy even if I tell him not to and they are supposed to be in bed at 8 pm and they are still awake when I come home. He doesn't listen and I feel I can't trust my baby alone with him like I would with my mother or friend. I also don't want my kids to be influenced by their cra cker father. What do I do?

For more info read my other questions...he is a 24 year old plus we have been having some problems and he wants to put them aside and get married....and that has been the only thing he wants to talk about lately. Idfk but I am scared as hell I mean marriage!! He said it would be perfect since I turned 21 and I could have drinks at the wedding but I still don't know what to do!!! I still have so many questions and he told me he wants a answer by the end of the week he is jus so f##king pushy I feel like crying!! :(

Lets say they lied to you about stupid things, because they were insecure and wanted to impress you. Some of those things included life events, past experiences, and just random things about life.

My wife likes to think that everything I do is a tell tell sign that I'm cheating on her "again." Yes, we had a moment in our marriage a few years ago when I slept with another girl. It was a one time thing. We went to counseling and I'm trying to put it behind us but my wife would rather stay mad years later than to heal and move past it. Again, it was 4+ years ago. Anything I do that she doesn't understand or wrap her head around she relates that to me doing something again. If I get a text she asks who it's from. If I send a text she questions who I'm texting. If I type anything on my laptop then she asks who I'm talking to. If' I'm 5 or 10 minutes late from getting home from work then she starts calling. If I don't send her an email from my work account during the day then she assumes I didn't go to work that day. Anything to support her claim that I might be doing something again. Well, yesterday she did laundry and washed all the clothes. This morning she sends me a text to say, "I washed everything yesterday so why do you have dirty underwear in the hamper? Did you change underwear last night?" I do not shower everyday but I do change my underwear several times a week. As long as my wife has known me she knows I do not shower everyday. That doesn't mean I smell or I'm dirty but I still put on fresh underwear ever couple of days. Yes, she's trying to say that had I not been doing something with someone else I wouldn't have a need to put on fresh underwear. I can't win for loosing. No, I'm not doing anything. I just put on fresh underwear that she saw in the hamper after she did laundry. Who cares? How do I tell her AGAIN that I'm not doing anything? It's dirty underwear that everyone has at one point. It's not like there was lipstick on my collar or a woman's earring in my shirt pocket. I changed and put on fresh underwear so now I'm suspect. If she never saw dirty underwear in the hamper I'm sure she'd question that. There have been times when she's actually counted them and questioned why I had so many. If I begin to shower more, yes, that's a sign. When can I ever get from under the "cheating spouse" umbrella or does that label ever go away? Again, we're not talking like she just found out this past summer. This was several years ago. It's time to move on or divorce.

We have it in our decree that each of us will have to take our son to extra curricular activities. We have both in compliance but now my ex states they do not have follow it because , according to them, "that part of the decree is just a suggestion and not binding" . In the decree it clearly states that each parent will take my son to extra curricular activities. The logic my ex uses is that for some reason the word "mandatory activities" makes it "non-binding". What do I do to get my son to his baseball games? He love playing and wants to go to them. My ex is always more than welcome to attend but now just does not want to go or take him any more. My ex has been fine with this decree for 3 years now and not said a word but now states they don't have to follow it. Any advice would be helpful?

One of my guy friends I talk to at the local restaurant was talking to me and not my husband. He wouldn't acknowledge him which made my husband suspicious. He asked why I didn't tell him that I got married and that I was your husband? I told him I wasn't thinking about it which made my husband suspicious. Was I wrong?

I recently met a guy on a social networking website called Badoo last month and everything was going great and I felt comfortable until he admitted to me that he had been separated from his wife for three years. Before we met in person he talked to me on the phone about his wife for literally almost half an hour and it seemed like he still has feelings for her since she left him. He told me that he liked me because I reminded him of her. He told me how beautiful she was and even talked to me about their sex life. Not only that but recently I looked through his phone at his messages and noticed that he's still trying to reconcile with his wife. He was apologizing and saying how much he loves and misses her. I tried breaking things off with him before but he didn't take no for an answer. I know separation and even divorce is a process but I'm extremely nervous and worried because he's still actively trying to get back with his wife and I don't know his wife personally but just by looking at her profile on facebook it looks like she's moved on and doesn't want to get back with him. Sometimes I feel like I'm being used as a rebound and deep down inside I have the feeling that there's a chance him and his wife could work things out and get back together. Even though he says he wants to continue the relationship with me I think he's still hoping to get back with his wife. What should I do? I just don't want to end up hurt and heartbroken.

should I contact him? I broke up with him

I have been living with my boyfriend for a year now. He is in the military and says he's scared to marry me yet expects that I just continue to act like a "wife" like taking care of the house, cooking ECT. Even wanting babies but won't do a legal marriage. I know he's divorced (seen the paperwork) so can it just be too soon? Or is it me that he's scared of?

My father never cheated on mom. I have two brothers, they also never tried cheating. I had a grandpa who died more than 15 years ago, he was very loyal to grandma. I have lots of guy friends and they never tried cheating even once in their life. I can go on but I think I made my point.....

She was in the teen club dancing dirty with a bunch of kids half her age. I danced with her and got lucky. She took me back tothe room her and her husband were sharing. I had unprotected sex with her and came inside her... Stupid move. I was young and dumb.

My husband and I are friends with another married couple and we have been in talks to have a foursome. We were planning on having this foursome tomorrow. We all decided to get together tonight to just loosen up around eachother at a bar. It was agreed we wouldn't be having any kind of sexual activity tonight, but we at least wanted to get used to flirting with each other. I wasn't planning on any physical activity, but my husband eventually started grabbing my hand and putting it on the woman's leg. Later on I leaned over to sip on a drink and he grabbed her hand and put it on my ***. He did this several times throughout the night and soon, the other woman and myself got more intimate with one another. Eventually she and I were interested in going back to our place for more "fun". My husband had been smiling and happy all night and was suddenly very serious and angry. He said he didn't want them coming over tonight, and I couldn't hide my disappointment. I said, "K. Fine...are you sure you wouldn't want to watch me and her?" Which made him madder. He's mad at me because he said "no sexual activity with them tonight", and I had a hard time accepting no as an answer. But I'm a little confused. He had been physically grabbing our hands and making us touch eachother. My suggestion to have him watch me and her was because I was hoping two women going at it would turn him on. Am I wrong for being disappointed? He kept making us touch eachother so I'm super confused.

It took four years, two kids and a house for her to marry me. I don't blame her for leaving me, I cheated one time and immediately told her afterwards because it was a mistake, but she wouldn't listen. It took that long for her to even be with me because of her history of holding onto past hurts and grudges and due to some asshole, made her hate men. She was a virgin until she met me and we were friends a long time before I finally told her how I felt and she could openly return it. I don't know why I did what I did, and I've had no more contact with the other woman, but she refuses to try and work things out not even for the sake of our sons. At this point she's served me divorce papers, she won't let me anywhere near her, though she hasn't barred me access to our kids or done anything drama wise which just makes me want her back even more. She refuses a counselor, doesn't want to hear anything about me ending my communication with the woman I cheated with, and even when she threw me out she didn't overreact or even cry. This makes me wonder if she cares at all, or if she fell out of love with me just as fast. She is a good woman and I love her, but I'm at a point where I don't know what to do. I know in her past she had an incident with some guy who lied to her about his own marriage and ended up making her out to be something she isn't (a whore) despite not having sex (I was her first) but I thought she had long gotten past it. I've been trying for months.