I love that universe as a matter of fact I adore it

So today my brother got an iPhone 5 and I don't have a phone he is always hitting me and calling me names but I seem to be in trouble and I don't have anything when he does something bad. my mum is also always calling me fat,pig,greedy e.t.c I have tried to talk to her and say he's too young for a phone but then she just shouts at me what should I do :-(

I'm good friend me with a close friend of mine on facebook (she's a crush) and every time I see that she's online I just want to post something so she can see and like it? Like I push a little panic button inside lol it sounds dumb but seriously. Like all I want to do is post something when she's online just so she can see what I do or what I like etc.. how do I stop this so I won't post so much? (She likes all of my posts) Why do I do that?

I've got strait As. My room/house is clean/entertaining. I have friends. They may not be very close, but their still friends. I've even been getting enough sleep lately too! I have perfect health (besides tourettes, but that doesnt bother me too much.) My mother abandoned me a few months ago, and I'm living with my father, but its so much better there than with my mom. I have no idea what could be missing! Help?

So long story; my 18 yr old sister has a friend (she's 19) who never got along with her mom and her mom didn't approve of her relationship with her boyfriend (they're not together anymore) so that girl moved out and got her own place. Of course she didn't have enough money to maintain a house and food etc... She didn't want to move in back with her mom so she asked my sister if she could move in with us until she finds a job and a new place to stay. We were all okay with it, we wanted to help her. She's been living in our house for 6 months now (free, she pays nothing, literally). She found a job but isn't really looking for houses or anything. My parents have been divorced since I was little so my mom is on her own. We're not that rich, my mom works a lot and so does my sister and I go to school and have a student job. But my sister has lots of other friends so she hangs out with them a lot, so the girl and my sister don't really talk to each other. I do talk to her bc I'm home a lot. But lately she's been very "ungrateful". She says bad things about my sister (whenever I talk about my sister to her she says things like '**** her life". She gets annoyed easily, she sometimes even has a go at me and later acts like nothing happened. My mom has had enough because she can't afford another person living with us. But my mom is too scared to say anything (she's very kind hearted). She has money, she stacks it on her bank account (obviously bc she doesn't have to pay for anything like rent or wifi or gas or food). She buys a lot of things but only for herself. (not saying she HAS to share but still) She bought a straightener the other day and I asked if i could use it and she said no. She always hides it from me now. She uses our stuff ALL THE TIME. like my clothes or my sister's, or my makeup sometimes. I've had enough too I've had enough too. I've tried asking her if she already looked for houses or when she's planning on moving out in like a subtle way but she kinda ignores it. how do I tell her she has to move out? I'm very shy and I'm kinda scared to tell her or that she's gonna be mad.

I'm in school to become a pharmacist. I've been doing well in school but it's been so hard for me. My dad gambles away money and my mom doesn't work. I have 4 younger siblings that can't work to buy their own food. So I work two jobs full time. I consider myself very motivated to finish school I have currently a 3.5 gpa as a chemistry major. This semester I can't seem to focus or get anything straight. My dad gambles his money so I end up paying for bills my mom quit her job to focus on nursing school so I pretty much take care of everything in the house. Yesterday I saw that my dad used my credit card to go to an all you can eat Chinese buffet with a friend. I'm about to lose my patience. I can't leave because I know My siblings depend on me. It breaks my heart for my sisters to call me that they hasn't eaten all day when my dads home. I'm tired. I can't keep doing this. What should I do? Im literally having anxiety attacks everyday.

First IDK how I will get marry but there 2 possible choices. I'm Indian. First I marry a man of there choice ONLY not mine.Marriage is arrange I call it "force" since I have no voice and I'm being pressure. And after marriage I must become a servitude to that man, do everything he says even his lazy needs. And there's NO ROMANTIC LOVE since it a arrange (force) marriage. And it don't matter if I'm disable to my parents, his parents, or the man himself I MUST do the 11 hour house work when I don't do job work. And divorce is a NO since it look bad on family reputation.Im not interest having kids from arrange(force) marriage either there no ROMANTIC LOVE. Second I could also marry my first cousin, he will come live in NY with my family since we're marry and he will enjoy the NY benefits (citizenship, going college, working) in NY these are his dreams. My parents will do all the cooking for us. So I'll feel useless that I'm doing noting and how will this marriage benefit me? And there NO ROMANTIC LOVE between me and cousin I think of as older brother, and I won't have kids with him. That will result in birth defects babies since we are very related. Will they be arrested if I was to be married in either these 2 ways?

I'm a male who is 18, reserved when it comes to girls. I'm nervous around them all the time. Growing up I've been teased at by relatives and people in school. Often I would just think about girls I like when stressed over homework or home life. Whenever a Victoria's Secret magazine came into the mail, I'd get nervous about being caught glancing at it for a second. Never am I allowed to have posters on my wall in my room. One day I snapped and began to loosen up and not care. I started flipping through the pages of the vs mag and then leaving it elsewhere in the house. Kinda like I'm saying that I notice these girls. They in malls at the vs store and on tv being seen by everyone. Now I'm getting comfortable in my stage of young adulthood. I use the main pc a lot but it belongs to my mom. Since I can't ever have posters on my wall I put this girl up as screen pic. I was so nervous I'd be yelled at for leaving this girl up all the time too. I was not though. However the excitement sored. I get a rush from this freedom. I like this girl. She is beautiful and has a cute sexy butt too. http://www.girlsinyogapants.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/lupefuentes2.jpg

I'm a 18 year old girl , I have been living with my stepdad since I was 7 and I never really got along with because of his personality. I'm a quiet person and shy most of the time. As a kid at first meeting my stepdad I was a devil child cause I was always mean to him I would fight and argue with him , I was 10 years old and younger. I never liked him , my dad lives pretty far from me but I always felt like my dad was a friend and I feel comfortable talking to my dad although I don't see him most times . With my stepdad he never really was a friend cause he and I never had a conversation together and we do talk I feel like I'm talking to a stranger and not someone I knew for a long time. Growing up I was surrounded mostly by family so I never paid attention to my stepdad but we ended up moving pretty far from family and now I only have my mom and brother to really talk to. I respect my mom and I wish her the best. I know she's happy with him. I only mind my business, I stay quiet most times and I just stay in my room when he's around. I'm 18 and I'm now an adult, is it my fault that I grew up feeling uncomfortable around my stepdad. Maybe he has done stuff to me as a little girl and I've forgotten most and try not to remember. I know life isn't fair. Please some advice. I don't have money to move around, so I'm stuck living in the house. I do need a job but I don't have a car to drive. Please help.

He will not let me in his apartment. I've seen the outside of the building but in 6 months he's never invited me in. We can only stay at my place. He dates other women. I have seen him out on dates with other women. I've gone through his phone and seen messages to other women that he's dating. His car is a mess. It's old, damaged and he takes his plates off whenever he parks to keep it from getting booted. He sometimes ignores my calls and texts for days at a time. There are days when he's very attentive but then there are other days when he doesn't answer or call back. I've given him money. He got hurt on his job and his workman comp. wasn't enough to cover his expenses so I offered to do his laundry, and give me some pocket money. We have fought in public. I get mad whenever I see him with other women and I throw drinks at him and start fights. He often disrespects me by ignoring me in public and acting like he doesn't care. We still see each other behind closed doors occasionally but he doesn't invite me to hang out in public anymore

I look so different from my family like for example, I have different interests from my family and I don't look alike any of my siblings or parents. They treat me different from my siblings and also the #1 concern is that I get sick less often from my family. I only get sick once a year, maybe an occasional 2 times a year and everyone else gets sick 2-4 times a year from my family

I am a 16 year old girl with a beautiful 36 year old single mom. We are very close and I feel I can share most things with her. Many of the guys I know and even some of the girls tell me that I have a hot and sexy mom. I am not sure how I should feel about that. Should I tell her what they said? Is that a complement that she would appreciate? A couple of older guys I know ask me to set them up with a date with mom. Do I dare share that with her? If you were my mom, would you want me to share this info with you? Thanks for your advice.

My family from my mother's side who is living in other city are constantly interesing what i'm doing. Especialy my 2 aunts, uncle and 2 cousins. They will text me every second day ask me how i am, asking for photos and calling my mother to ask her did she know what i'm doing. I'm 27 years old and they are acting like i'm 5 or something. In the summer i went to Mallorca for vacations with my friends and when my aunt found out she called my mother screaming "your daughter is going to be raped!!! call the airport to stop her!! she can't go there!! Spanish people will rape her!!" Also when she and my cousin found out last month that i have boyfriend they started to scream that he is a criminalist, he is going to rape and kill me. (Actualy he is working at the bank) They don't know nothing about him but they assume that i probably hang out with criminalist and bad people which i never did. Also i didn't text my uncle happy birthday week ago because i was busy with my studies and i just forgot and the next day he texted me "thanks for forgetting about my b-day,you don't have uncle anymore you little brat". Also my cousin is obsessed what i'm wearing or what i'm doing.She will buy clothes to look like me, do the same make up and she even will do the same pose on photos like me. When i try to cut contact with them they will call my mother and scream at her asking why i don't talk with them and if i'm pregnant. I want them to leave alone! What i can do?

I'm 16. My french teacher is soo hot. I noticed she ALWAYS touch me in some areas and i think she likes me. So i took her number and i asked her if she can help me with studying 'french' and she said i can come to her house. I'm going to her house tomorrow but what should i do if she touched me? She's so hot i bet she wants to have sex with me. What should i do with her tomorrow? Please tell me.

im a 14 year old guy and the youngest of 5 kids, i have 3 older brothers and one older sister. my sister is 18 was Valedictorian, in college, and got a full scholarship to college, my 20 year old brother was salutatorian, got into a very good college with a full scholarship as well. my 22 year old brother is in law school, while my 24 year old brother is in medical school. i don't think i could do any of that. I'm not smart, i don't know what i want to do in life, i struggle in school,i just don't want to disappoint my parents. when i come home with a bad grade they don't say maybe you need help, but your older siblings never got this grade, try harder. but how could i try harder if I'm up all night studying and still failing. i just don't know what to do. sometimes i feel like i should have never been born since i was a mistake to begin with.

So, there's so much going on in my life right now. I don't really have anyone to talk to being that my entire family is pretty much dead, in prison, or just unconcerned. So my younger brother recently got arrested for drug dealing and now my mom might be evicted. I am a 24 year old male and he's 19 years old. He hangs out with drug dealers and wannabe gang members. I work a part time job and I'm saving up money to move out of my parents house. This morning my mom locked my brother outside of the house because he hangs out all night until like 4:00AM and he sleeps all day. My mom told him either he goes back to school (because he dropped out) or finds himself a job. He gets pissed and starts saying "I hate you!" "I hope you die!" "I don't care about this family!" Etc etc. This while situation is just irritating me. I feel like soon I'm going to snap on this kid. I have a lot going for myself and I don't want to spend the rest of my life in prison because of him. If anyone has any advice Id really appreciate it. Thank you

I'm 14 and my parent won't give me contacts (EVEN THOUGH I NEED THEM TO SEE!) and a cellphone (I don't care if I get a track phone. I just need one in case for emergency and when I need my parents to pick me up because one time they forgot and picked me up late. :/) They don't even let me hang out with friends and go to their house. I couldn't even go to birthday parties when I was younger. They wouldn't even let me go to homecoming or anything! I'm just so mad because I feel like they don't care about my happiness. They're so controlling and prohibit me from doing what I want to do. I feel so out of place at school because I don't have any real friends that I'm close to. My parents just don't understand that I feel this way and they get mad whenever I ask for contacts or a phone or to hang out with someone to even do homework. Don't they know how controlling they are? Don't they know that it affects me? Don't they know I cry because I don't have any friends? I one time told my parents I could get a job to pay for contacts and a cell phone but then they got mad and I don't know why! Money's not even a problem to us. In fact, we have enough to buy what we need and want. :/ The question is what can I do to persuade them to get/do the things I want?

My husband and I live in our own home across town from my grandma. My mom and her often talk about he and I behind our backs. For instance, one year my mom asked me to come to her house and bake the Thanksgiving pies. I left the mixer beaters in the sink to soak because they had stuck on pumpkin. My mom ran to my grandma and said that I had "torn up her kitchen and left the beaters in the sink". Grandma couldnt wait to call me up and say "I wanna know why you felt it was necessary to tear your mothers house up like you did. I dont ever wanna hear about you messing up again ya hear?!" She always chastises my husband or I in our homes, heck last year she badmouthed my husband to his own parents face. Today I ripped her a new one and told her this behavior wont be tolerated and that is why she can sit her hateful self at home during the holidays because we are sick of the drama. She denied everything, but she truly chews me out for some hearsay at least once a week and chews me out for stuff from 20 years ago. This has nothing to do with her being "old and grouchy", she was like this when she was young too my mom said. What can I do?

I'm good friend me with a close friend of mine on facebook (she's a crush) and every time I see that she's online I just want to post something so she can see and like it? Like I push a little panic button inside lol it sounds dumb but seriously. Like all I want to do is post something when she's online just so she can see what I do or what I like etc.. how do I stop this so I won't post so much? (She likes all of my posts) Why do I do that?

I DON'T WANT ANOTHER SIBLING!

20 years ago, when I was very young, I immigrated to another country. My brother was there and we rented an apartment together. I had limited amount of money and put it in our common closet and told him he could spend some if he needed it. The next morning when I woke up he was left with all the money. For three months I was with no food and no money. I lived with only 20$ for three months and starved most of time till I found a job. from time to time he was coming home to get money and even 2$ was working for him. He used my identity and got credit card and used my address,...It got to a point that police was after him and I asked him not to come to my place anymore. He kept using my identity and address till I changed my address and hided from him. After 10 years, he got a job, made a family and we had a mutual relationship together. I even went to his city several times when he needed me for medical reason but he didn't pay me a visit when I gave birth and was alone...Now, he is asking me for 4k since he lost his job. I offered him 1k but he is asking for more. He keeps sending me his daughters photo and wants to get money. When he found out that I am not giving him more than 1k, he got very mad and started teasing me. I plan to disconnect my relation with him again but not sure if it's the right decision. My mother also took his side and told me that I should have given him the amount that he asked....

If a 13 year old starved herself on purpose for a whole month (no solid food) and her parents let her, is that okay? Serious answers only please

My boyfriend's mother (47 years old) has been staying with us, sleeping in our son's room. She does not work, and only get foodstamps which she gives to her grown daughter. I work full time (sometimes overtime), I go to school and take care of my family. She doesn't clean, doesn't buy or make her own food, brings her daughter's daughter over and doesn't pay attention to her, doesn't contribute to the household, no toilet paper, paper towels, soap, nothing, barely showers, drinks first thing in the morning, has tv and lights on all night, and worst of all smokes cigarettes in the house. Anyways I had enough when my mother took my son on vacation, and I took the whole weekend off. So Friday I get off from work, buy my boyfriend and myself really good, expensive take out dinner. I get home, I'm really tired so I take a nap from about 7 to 9 before my boyfriend gets home later. I get up to go eat my food and I notice his mother left, cause the door was open (the screen was closed) and both my food and my boyfriend food had been eaten. I locked the screen door, locked the wooden door, and didn't answer the knocks. My boyfriend could deal with it when he got home. He said I was being childish, his mother ended up leaving and going to her daughter's before he got there. Now we've been arguing since then, him saying I put his mom out. I did and I didn't, she could come back when she learns to act right. Who rights?

Im 5 years into raising a child. I'm depressed but at the actual fact that i have to share and lose a big chunk of my privacy and free time as a parent. So much depressed infact that its being seen wherever i go and i feel horrible being around the ; Parent Crowd" as i dont feel like i am one of those or want to be. I know a lot of unexpected parents rationalise that this is my new reality as a parent,but i have trouble holding jobs down because of how i feel. How do parents who didnt want to be hold down jobs care about themselves when so much has been taken away from their lives?

I'm 19 and planning on going to school. There's so much arguing in my household and I can't stand it. Even tho those people aren't mad at me directly I can't stand the arguing. I really want to move out but I want to help with the bills, cause she's struggling. But I know when I get my degree I'll be out and on my own. Is there hope that there would be peace?

My parents are from Lebanon. They moved to Canada about 30 years ago, not sure why, I guess to start a new life like most immigrants do. Their family tho stayed in Lebanon. I was born and raised in Canada all my life, I barely know Arabic, all my friends are non Arabs, everything about my personality is Canadian. Im 20 right now. Every couple years my parents go to Lebanon and visit their family for a month and come back. So they came back from their trip, and they came back with a different attitude. They came back being all "thats it. We got to pack our stuff and move back with our family". At first I thought it was just a little phase, theyll miss Lebanon but then get back to their Canadian lives and Canadian friends and stuff. But its been a while they been going on, and now they seem dead serious about permanently moving back there. They want me to come aswell. They want me to finish this semester of college and then go to Lebanon with them and finish school there. I really dont want to move. I been to Lebanon, nice county, but its not for me. I barely know Arabic, and I want to continue living in Canada where everyone is more open minded about beliefs and safer and no conflicts with religions and stuff. What can I do to convince them to stay in Canada?

Hello, I am a 16 year old male. I would hope to think that I have a good relationship with my parents, but as of late, I haven t, mostly due to my own fault. One minute I m really happy and having an in depth conversation with one of them, and then the next, I get annoyed, unhappy and frankly horrible when they ve not even done anything. I hate this, and I really want to stop, but I don t know how. Why am I like this, and how do I control it?

I might be wrong to think this but basically, I'm the youngest of 3 (1 brother and sister) and I always get told what to do by everyone but that's not the point. My mum says I'm the youngest so she would use me to do things and favours most of the time. She never asks my brother and my sister volunteers to do things for her which is nice. But when she doesn't, I'm first choice of doing everything for her if she needs it. I don't mind tbh but sometimes I just want to relax after a stressed day of school (I'm always depressed at school and socially awkward) but she says what do I have to stress about as I'm still young but that's stupid. She nags me all the time for school stuff which gets on my nerves as I hate it. I get that's it normal for a mum to nag but she nags me the most.

Honestly I'm tired of her bickering about what she feels I don't do. When she was yelling about the dishes this morning. I scream and said"THERE CLEAN STOP YELLING AT ME SO MUCH" She then screamed at me and told me to go upstairs to my room and honestly I'm tired of it. I mean I'm really thinking about moving out of the house and living with dad or a friend cause it is real stressful and her yelling gives me headaches.

Can someone love you if they don't contact you on your birthday or ever, say they wanna meet to work on the relationship but then make excuses to not meet, they never wanna see you or talk to you or reach out. This is a sister relationship, by the way.

My mother keeps yelling at my older sister, but I don't know why. She helps me with my homework and some other stuff all the time but our mom keeps telling her that she is useless, and that she will never be as successful as anybody. She always tells her that she's ugly and that she wishes she had a celebrity as her daughter, because of how beautiful and more feminine she is. What should I do to encourage my sister and tell my mom to stop?

I know my mother has the right to see who she wishes and this woman might be a nice lady in all other ways. However, I am disgusted this friend is trying to stir up feuding between my mother and my mother's sister (my aunt). The woman knows my aunt from work and my mother as a friend. How do I vent my disgust without disrespecting my mother's right to see who she wishes and without making a fool of myself? I am 19.

Most people think that the stress of my parents' divorce caused my depression but it didn't. My dad is very nice and doesn't scream at me all the time. My mom forced my dad out of the house and from then on was being a complete ***** to me. She screams at me for little things and when I make a small mistake I'm grounded. She treats me like I'm 9 and can't face the fact that I'm not a little kid anymore. She thinks my friends (the ones helping me get through the problems SHE caused) are bad friends and threatens to change my schooling and move away. I dislike school but sometimes I don't want to go home to my mom because she's so horrible. I don't see my dad enough and he's the nice one. I went to the doctor and told her my mom makes me feel shitty and she didn't do anything. I also flat-out told my mom that she makes me feel horrible and she told me to stop blaming my problems on her. I don't like science in school much and I get bad grades and she yelled at me for it, threatening to change schools. I self harm and she yells at me for that. I don't even feel safe in MY OWN HOME anymore. Can someone please help?

I want to be one of the active relatives that everyone knows rather then one of the distant relatives. However, this is hard since my parents and siblings don't participate in family activities much. How can I show my generation (my cousins) that I am an active member of the extended family without imposing on them? They are all teenagers and young adults and I am aged 30. My parents extended families seem to have the active relatives we all know and the inactive relatives who are forgotten about. I want to be one of the active ones. It comes natural for my cousins since their parents participate a lot in extended family time, it is harder for me since my parents don't due to personal issues my Mom has.

If the daughter is 15, and the father keeps hitting her just because "she is too ugly and he hates seeing her face" or just because she goes to her room when her father starts smoking, is it OK? Weapons used to beat her: fists(punches), legs(kicks her), belts, remots of TV or just anything in his way. I am sorry you guys if I sounded dumb. I live in a community where police don't really give a damn about parents being abusive towards their children. Also my parents are Muslims(I am Christian) and in their religion, it says beating their own children is okay.

Her 30 year old son had a stroke. He goes off for no reason, blows everything out of paportion, and wants to punch everyone. Me and his sister both saw him raise his fist up like he was about to punch his mother and they got into a mild pushing match. He even told his mom his step dad literally pushes him around. Guess what she said! "Well I know deep down inside he loves you.." But when I told my aunt my cousin makes me feel threatened she went the hell off. "When you talk about the child I had like that it makes me feel like I need to go there with you!" He literally told me he almost punched me! I was 15. That's how she does things though. When it comes to her kids, grandkids, and husband none of her other 'family' matters. Her second son literally told me if I make him feel threatened he's going to get me. I was still 15. When it comes to her kids and husband its f everyone else. In her opinion everything her kids do is "absurd" meaning that's ridiculous and didn't happen. She calls me compulsive liars and everything but when her kids so something she basically says they didn't do it. Her second son molested me when I was 3. Another guy! He was 14. I don't hold it against him at all but when I told and she found out about it guess what she said! You got it! He didn't do it! She let her husband get away with pulling an ak-47 on her two oldest boys that aren't his. She did nothing about that but almost had her sister sent to prison for 8 years over a damn threat.

two years ago my mother and step father had heart attack and stroke in the same week. so i've been helping them since to do anything they need includes running thier businesses for them where i do it for free to help them. i'm happy to do it. my step father passed away this week. and my aunts and uncles came out and told my mother they have doubts that i'm taking care of my mother or her businesses. i'm offended by this by why do they think i have such low character to not help my mother. they also want my mother to go with them and live in chicago with or by them and leave me alone in indiana to run her business for free by my self. i'm offended what do you think?

We was in first period an I walked up to Mr. Rangle's desk to give him my note form the docter an on the way back to my desk a big puff of air shot out of my anushole. I SWEAR I did not mean to toot but it cane out right in Mark Kerner's face, he was furiously mad, said as soon as class was over he was gonna kill me an I got scared an ran out of the room an have been hiding in the libary ever sense. My bookbag is still in Mr. Rangle's room but I cant go get it or Mark Kerner will kill me! I told the principle an all he cared about was my grades! I was like WTF do my grades have to do with Mark Kerner killing me? He told me to get back to class but I am still here in the libary. What can I do? Help!?

It just enrages them that I don't crawl up into a corner and cry.

To begin with, thank you for reading this. A brief story would be that I have been dating my boyfriend since the age of 13. I am now 19. 6 years of relationship. Yet, we were an on and off relationship for many years due to maturity levels and being young. The past two years of this relationship have been very serious. This is definitely the man I d like to spend the rest of my life with. Now the problems started when I moved further from town with my family and started college. Things were great at first he would come and see me often eventually he was permitted to stay once or twice a week. When I began classes I started getting stressed out being a full time student and working a full time job. The past 3 months have been horrible. Fighting all the time, for not having time for each other. For disagreeing on things. Although it wa a bad we talked through most things and found a solution. Until this recent problem. 1 month ago we were having a get together at my house with family. My father asked my boyfriend (thier relationship has never been too great but they both manage) to grab a plate from the kitchen for him since he was in the pool. My boyfriends response was " get it yourself" supposedly because my dad was very demanding and demeaning to him. Yes, my father has a very authorative tone and if kind of scary. Staying with him would imply what he did was correct or unimportant in a way.

My 7 year old cousin always used to spy on me, copy me, and worshiped what I said. I was 13 at that time, even though they were kids her age. Then she bullied me.

So this morning my mom came in and said it's time for school. She turned my shower on and told me to get up and get into the shower. So I told her to please leave the room and I would get up into the shower (because I had morning wood). She started yelling at me to get up and I started saying that if she would leave the room I would get up. She walked into my bathroom, turned the shower off and said "don't ask for anything extra. I'm not buying you sh*t. Don't ask for a baseball bat, don't ask for battlefield 1, don't ask for anything!" Then she just walked out of my room. I got up into the shower the second she walked out, but I don't know what to do. She's pissed at me and won't be getting me a baseball bat before the season starts. I know I wasn't listening to what she was telling me to do, but it was only because I didn't want her to see my d*ck popping out through my shorts. What do I say to her so that she gets in-pissed, how do I explain to her that I had morning wood and that is the ONLY reason I didn't get up? Help me please.

How can I be happy come Christmas, it is like it is not Christmas without them. My one set of grandparents died and this will be the 1st year without my paternal grandmother (my grandfather died 3 years ago). And my mother's parents are traveling to see my aunt. I understand them going as they don't get to see her much and I think the aunt is upset at holidays about that. However. I feel sad it will be so different. It will be my immediate family (parents and two siblings) and my aunt and her daughter.

My name is Ziya. I m 13 and want to kill myself. I have a lot of depression. I live in Azerbaijan which is the most crappy country ever, no one helps you. I dont have friends. My dad and my mom is not together. They broke up 1 year ago. And now i live 1 time in my home(where my dad lives, our original home.) and one time(my moms home) my mom is not that good person and my dad is just an a**hole, he hurts me, he even tried to kill me. I want to get out of this crappy country but i cant because im 13. My mom doesnt helps me. My grades all G,F. In our country we have 5 system. 5-A+4-B and it decreases i always get 1,2. I just cant focus on my homeworks im so depressed and i want to kill myself. I have a girlfriend but she is too far away from me(we find each other on a video game), and my school is full of gays,lesbians. I want to be computer programmer and i am really a good programmer but my parents are taking it away from me, and i think its better to kill myself its the easy way out. Im 8th grade i just cant wait in this pain. Hot lines does nothing, they just dont care. No one really knows english that good, im just talented very well. But my parents doesnt know what person i am. I want to go to england,london because my love is there but i cant. Im 13.

Once seniors and dated that whole last year in hs. she wanted no sex since she said she wasn't ready blah blah blah. i being a high respectful guy respected that so we kept it pg13 and don't get me wrong we'd still fool around etc. Anyway the year ended and she had to leave to college. I stayed local at a community college while she left. we broke up and we'd still talk here and there. I started dating a new girl and slept with this new girl. My hs ex sweetheart moves back home a year later. She randomly phoned me and asked if she wanted to meet up. I said yeah and keep in mind that my new gf i am no longer dating her too so i am NOW single. I was anxious to know if my ex dated anyone/slept with anyone while out there during her year in college. She said she "dated but nothing serious". I asked how far she got and she wouldn't answer it. She kept ignoring the question. She asked me and i told her i slept with a girl. she got mad & said she never wants to see me again and threaten me with cops if i ever bother her again (im guessing she was super pissed not even listening to herself). well needless we broke up but what do you think did she slept around???? or no???? we are 19. I mean why else would she get mad and threaten me with cops if I ever reach her again.

I found out she was being a little dirty whore and rubbing her clitoris when i came in her room to vacuum, i bought a chastity belt and put it on her and locked it, she is 14 and has been in it for about a week, how long until her bad habit will go away? She is crying and wanting to be a slut and masturbate, so after i whipped her butt with a extension cord, she is still crying with a sore ***.

I want to ask something to women who have children, a daughter in particular; my mom and I don't really have a relationship, she has 3 kids total including myself (I'm her only daughter) I have two brothers and one of them is a half brother but I love him the same; my half brother is 3 years old and my mom had me and my other brother with my father who she divorced from, when they got a divorce my dad won custody of us (I'm 17 now and my middle brother is 14 now) I ended up moving back with my mom because my dad was physically and mentally abusive to me, I have been back with my mom since I was 13 and since I've been back and she's had my youngest brother with her boyfriend she doesn't even bother to have any relationship with me, she doesn't contact my 14 year old brother or even send him anything on his birthday or call him, when me and him lived together with my dad she RARELY called us; like once every few months and didn't bother to try and contact us any other way, she doesn't know anything about me, when I try to talk to her she won't even look at me or acknowledge me, she mainly is with her boyfriend and my youngest brother, it is bothering me now that I will be turning 18 soon I might not even bother having a relationship with her because throughout all the time I've been back with her she doesn't even bother to get to know me is it normal for moms to be this way? Do you think I'm just taking this to heart? Everyone's input is welcomed I just want to know. She can't kick me out she doesn't have her own place this is my grandmothers house, I rather be here then at an abusive house hold where I didn't even get food so I'm not sure what "work" you're referring to.

I'm 12 years old, and I miss my dad. He left right after I was born, but he's still my dad. He visited every holiday, every other weekend of the month, all the time. (My mom and him were good friends after they broke up since they wanted me happy) Until I was about 7 years old, he started coming less and less. My mom broke off full contact with him when I was 8. I miss him horribly, and I want a good relationship with him, but my mom is trying to replace him with her boyfriend of 10 months. What should I do?

Okay, so the story starts when I was younger, about 14-15 years old, and I was passing through a lot of problems in my life, aside the problems I already had. I wrote it all on my journal, and I added some lies about me but also some secrets, and worst of all, I roasted everyone in my family and group of friends. And when I say everyone, I mean it. Like, even my mom. I felt bad in the moment I wrote those words, they were lies and it wasn't how I really felt about everybody, it was more a way for me to take all the anger I was feeling out without hurting anyone. In the next day I wrote that I was regretted, then in the other day I wrote I bad things again. It was clear that I was unstable. But then, my nosy cousin, went through my stuff and read my diary - which by the way was mostly talking about how I would steal her life, calling her fat and all that teenager drama. She was the main target because she was the one who was pissing me off the most back then. Now, has been 4 years, basically, where she is crazily competing with me at everything and trying so hard to be me. Besides that, she's trying to make my life a living hell. She's doing everything I said I would do to her in my diary. And she told everyone in the family about this. I swear to God that I wouldn't do those things to her, I have a good heart, but I let the anger take the best of me that week. I deserve it, but the next year is coming and I want to start fresh. But I don't want to do it before she gets really good with her life, my cousin. Since she started competing with me she's being the best version of herself, even though she acts like a ***** now. But she lost a lot of weight which was an important thing to her, because she used to have a major issue with her mother about it. So I want to ask sorry to her in the end of the year, before New Year's Eve or during Christmas or something. And right now I want to tell my mom about all of this bc after all, she might know better than me and I need to ask sorry mostly to her for my behavior. She didn't raised me to be like this and I want to tell her mostly because just in case something happens to me, I want to be sure at least my mom knows the truth about me. So, what do you guys think? Can you give me some other advice? Should I stay quiet and fight back or ask sorry?

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A week ago, i got an F in Geography. She asked me some questions and i didn't know the answers,so i got an F. But i didn't tell my parents. And yesterday was the last day i had Geography with that same teacher. She asked who wants to get asked on the board,and i raised my hand. I got a B,but then she said things like "you disappointed me,i thought you were more mature" and stuff. I realized i didn't tell my parents about the F,so when i came home,i told my parents i got an F that same day because i forgot my notebook. They told me they're gonna go have a talk with the teacher about it,and im scared of it cause then obviously i'll get caught lying. I begged them not to go find her because i'll be really mad if they do,and they promised they wouldn't if i have a talk with the school psychologist today. But i don't believe their promise,and i'm really scared. What to do??? Help!

once seniors and dated that whole last year in hs. she wanted no sex since she said she wasn't ready blah blah blah. i being a high respectful guy respected that so we kept it pg13 and don't get me wrong we'd still fool around. Anyway the year ended and she had to leave to college. I stayed local at a community college while she left. we broke up and we'd still talk here and there. I started dating a new girl and slept with this new girl. My hs ex sweetheart moves back a year later. She randomly phoned me and asked if she wanted to meet up. I said yeah and keep in mind that new gf i am no longer dating her too so i am single. I was anxious to know if my ex dated anyone/slept with anyone while out there during her year in college. She said she "dated but nothing serious". I asked how far she got and she wouldn't answer it. She kept ignoring the question. She asked me and i told her i slept with a girl. she got mad & said she never wants to see me again and threaten me with cops if i ever bother her again (im guessing she was super pissed not even listening to herself). well needless to say do you think she slept around???? or no???? we are 19

I'm looking for my cousin and I know where he goes to school at accept I don't know his last name because I'm related to him through his mom (my aunt) so that means he has his dads last name. Both of his parents are dead. Its been so long since I've seen and I really do miss him. If I call up to the school and I'm only able to give a first name can they go in their records and figure out who I'm talking about?

Issue 3 .... she doesnt understand how to do anything, dhs, college applications, electricity. Even calling her doctor is a calculous task for her. Why??? Why!!!! I always try to do it or help her with it but its just too much. Im married and my husband is fed up. Shes just soooooo errrrrr... what to do?? Do i leave her alone? But she could harm this baby. I just need advice. She wont let me ever tell her what to do, shes sassy, rude and unappreciative. Its frustrating. I love her and want to help her and take care of her but she doesnt even want to live with me even if that means no bills , she never has money even to eat?? She doesnt finish her task of signing food stamp applications. And she wont luve with me because she likes having friends over and me and my husband are a bit more reserved. Help. And even my poor mom is in so much stress but she is even rude to her unless she needs money from us.

My sister is 19 ,pregnant , from a drug addict that i put in rehab and will never be in her life no more. So she is very proud, extremely, as soon as you try to talk to her or give some advice she rapidly wants to change subject or shut you up harshly. Issue one.. shes pregnant, she seems happy, but she has no job, ambition, just putting on makeup and hanging out with frriends

My step son just found out he had a cousin he never got to meet. She died long before he was born. He feels bad because she died in a tragic way. She was murdered. The scariest thing is the murderer is still alive but he's been in jail for years since he killed her. He feels terrible and scared he wishes he could have met her. It was a cousin from his dads side. His dad died 13 years ago. His mom has been raising him on her own. She had to tell him the horrible story of what happened to his cousin. He was more close to his dad even though he wasn't really around he died when he was just 2 1/2. He was a lot older than his mom way older. He said he's gonna have nightmares tonight he wants his partner to sleep with him but his mom doesn't like him sleeping with other kids yet. He's 16 he's been with his boyfriend for almost 5 months. His mom won't let them sleep together. He feels really scared and upset. How can I help him ? He wants to know if his cousin and his dad can see him and if they're watching him ?

i have younger sister and since one month she hates me and told that you are no longer my brother.as when she came to my home i made fun of her and took pictures of her from her phone without asking so now she is not ready to forget those things and she is living in qatar so it is difficult for me to improve the situation so plzz help me what should i do??really neded help