Although I'm only 1,5 years younger than him he tends to be overprotective (calls me "kid" all the times)- probably because of his height (he's 6'5 whereas I am only 5'6) and sometimes even talk to me as if I was a retard (especially when he refers to his job). He's a wonderful person but I sometimes feel stupid Why does my boyfriend treat me like a child? Um BlueChief I agree on finding your other half but you don't necessarily have to be married. Also the point of a relationship is having a good time with each other obviously

When I last saw him, he lent me his backpack to put my work laptop in and we ended up sleeping together. He kept bringing it up as an excuse to see me. He even said it would be a good excuse to see you again. But I old him don't want to sleep with someone I'm not with, even if we did once. I've offered to meet him after work and post it, but he wants me to come to his to give it back, or come to mine. He lives really far away and I don't know the room number of his new flat. Should I feel bad for keeping it? He actually blocked me on whatsapp because I won't go see him. Then we text & he said he isn't just about sex, that we always got along and he misses that. But if he cared he would have swallowed his pride and said he wants me back. He's 33 not 18. He is offended I won't bring the bag, which will end up with us sleeping together.

Why do they do this?

When I last saw him, he lent me his backpack to put my work laptop in. He kept bringing it up as an excuse to see me. He even said it would be a good excuse to see you again. But I old him don't want to sleep with someone I'm not with, even if we did once. I've offered to meet him after work and post it, but he wants me to come to his to give it back, or come to mine. He lives really far away and I don't know the room number of his new flat. Should I feel bad for keeping it? He actually blocked me on whatsapp because I won't go see him. Then we text & he said he isn't just about sex, that we always got along and he misses that. But if he cared he would have swallowed his pride and said he wants me back. He's 33 not 18. He is offended I won't bring the bag, which will end up with us sleeping together.

I'm 22 and still with my 1st boyfriend. I'm not happy and haven't been for a while. I was 16 he was 19 when we started dating. There's this other guy and I know I'm going to be judged but he's barely 18. I love him and have known him since he was 11 & I was 16. It was apparent he had a crush on me but he was a kid I didn't see him as an option. But he's more than that honestly. He's someone who opens up to me. Yeah he's depressed but I want to help him. He's just the sweetest guy I've ever known. I started noticing I was attracted to him last year when he was about to turn 17. But he's smart funny cute handsome and he listens to me. With my boyfriend it feels like he gets home says hi turns on the tv goes on his phone it's not romantic at all. But this other guy has taken my family and I places that are so beautiful and I never knew existed like these mandirs. He took me to see fireworks. My sister and mom love him so much even my dad. They don't like my boyfriend. This guy makes me feel special and my boyfriend doesn't it feels like it should be the other way around. And my boyfriend controls me he doesn't like me texting the "other guy One makes me happy but I almost have to escape to spend time with him and the other is controlling and doesn't make me feel like a strong woman.He'd rather spend money on sneakers on me rather than take me out to dinner. With my best friend it's always new. We celebrated Chinese New Year and all sorts of random holidays just to celebrate

Es egoísta buscar una mujer virgen o reprochar a tu actual pareja el que haya tenido una vida sexual antes de consolidar algo contigo? En mi caso preferiría una mujer virgen para casarme con ella.

Am I just an annoying awful person, or did they maybe think I was going to ask them out and are mad that I didn't? Help, I don't speak woman....

Would I be born to the different mother or father?

This one is different because I absolutely have no romantic feelings the person I can't stop thinking about. But still I think about him all the time ever since we met (not too long ago tho). I love him as a friend of course but this is getting annoying and is really bad for my concentration. Amy advice on how I can end this misery?

Hola, use patector por primera vez el mes pasado... tengo algo de confusion en cuanto a CUANDO debe aplicarse. Consegui la inyeccion por medio de un pariente que es doctor y tiene farmacia, y las indicaciones que me dio para cuando ponerla eran un poco diferentes a lo que dice la caja de la inyeccion (del 7mo al 10mo dia) pero cuando hice cita con otro doctor para estar mas informada me dijo que no tenia que esperarme al 7mo dia de mi ciclo, que ese mismo dia (dia 5to de mi ciclo) podia aplicarla. Es correcto esto? Debo vovler a ponerme la 2da en el 5to dia otra vez? Como mi regla solo dura 3 dias... estoy protegida los dias siguientes hasta la proxima aplicacion? Se que lo ideal es ir con un doctor pero como ven todos me dicen cosas diferentes. Aprecio sus respuestas...gracias!

Hello. I am a 22 year old male who is kind of in a Polyamory relationship (if it can be called that) with two other guys (27 and 26). Basically they are both dating me, with mutual consent, even though they aren't really fond of each other. Anyways, this is my first ever Polyamory relationship and my first ever serious one and I need some help in how to deal with a few issues that keep arising in our relationship. My partner who is 27 years old, is a bit on the possessive side (he never really gives me and the other partner a chance to be together without basically hovering over us) and it causes a lot of issues with my 26 year old partner. I know it is a mutual agreement between the three of us, but they are always trying to get my attention focused on them and them alone and it's really bothering me because it's like a rivalry and that the last thing I wanted in this relationship. I know they don't necessarily love each other, they just kind of tolerate each other for me and I do know they both love me a lot, but it can be stressful when the two of them start arguing or fighting, or getting on each other's nerves. They fight about literally everything. The only thing they don't fight about is sex and that is because they are both involved in it. It's getting ridiculous. I wish that they could understand, I love them both equally and be content with that. Please, it anyone has any ideas of what I can do to stop this fighting between them, I would greatly appreciate it.

my brother busted and caught me in the act. I'm worried he'll tell my mom or dad about it and I'll get "the talk." Any advice on how to prevent my brother from telling my parents?

I have a friend who is 25 and has know me for 4-5 years.. shes always feeding me and buying me things.. she treats me like her daughter when shes actually just my leader/mentor. Why does that occur? I love it althoghter though, because it fills a gap

The father of my 5 month old baby is a terrible man. I could go into detail on how terrible he is but this post would be too long. To make it simple, when I got with him I had no self worth or self esteem and I only have myself to blame for letting this man into my life. Well, a lot of my family is pushing me to take him for child support but I honestly don t want him to be involved in me or my sons life at all. A week ago a lot of people been tell me that he is saying the baby isn t his ( there is 0 chance the baby isn t his) telling people I slept around and all that ( all not true, he just wants poor under age girls to pity **** him) I messaged him this:Since you like to disown your son at the drop of a ****** dime 24/7 and claim he isn t yours how about you do me and michael a ****** favor, I ll get the papers and you can terminate your right to be his parent that way I can change his last name and he doesn t have to ******* know you. It would be for the best that you don t go ******* up his life." he agreed that he would sign the papers but now my family is mad saying he needs to pay and I can t let him go free. So my question is do I take him to court and deal with him for the rest of my life just to make him pay or do I have him sign the papers and walk out of our lives for good.

They've been dating for 10 months, but I feel she is paying more attention to him and his daughter, instead of me and my brother. I don't want my dad being replaced, sure we have a rocky relationship and we don't talk a lot, but he's still my dad. And ever since my mum met him, she's been acting weird towards me, defending him in every way possible. I want her to be happy, but I can't accept them, I don't think I ever will. And their already talking about getting married one day, and his daughter is horrible and rude, what should I do?

What should I do? I am worried that this could harm my references. I've worked there before having kids, Now, I've got 3 kids. My husband is a farmer. He keeps saying we will see if this will work or not. I wish I wasn't in this position any more. He is driving me crazy. Either he takes the kids to school for 1 or 2 days. The lady that hired me is wanting me to work more during off season which is from mid November to April which gives me more hours, but not much. I guess I will have to find someone to watch them during the summer. But for 3 kids??? He was the one that pressured me in the first place to apply there.

When a married man will not mention his wife around you and always rolls his eyes when he does. Will also anytime he does mention all the facts like how she reminds him if the mistakes he's made and how he doesn't like how she's "let herself go" and does not like being around her when she comes in and will flirt with you when she is around. after he told me all those things he came over and just stared at me with this admiring look in his eyes. He would t stop contact with me. He also liked to check me out (full body) then ended up focusing more on my face and eye contact. I looked at some pics of them long before we met and they were always posting thibgs of them together. They seemed happy now I've seen some recent and there all old photos of them together. I can't help but think he's probably wondering about things. Now they don't do it. And right before he left he kept dropping hints of where he goes and things like that so I can maybe run into him. He liked being around me and people even rhohvt we were dating. He also took lots of vacations and would come back and pretty much complain about then to me the fact he was with his wife. Yes it true we don't talk since he left. his fb unlike hers will not accept friends, unlike hers. it shows that he's married where hers doesn't. So why would he like me?

He perfect for me and they are complete narcissists and closed minded how did my soulmate come from two people I hate I have had to get restraining orders on both of them have court in a couple days

I am a 27 year old woman and i really look up to and admire my boss She has helped me very much with life and work. After i had started working at the company that i have now worked at for several years, i realised i was a lesbian, and i was sad about it and my boss helped me through it, she is a lesbian herself and she is 55 and has been with her female partner for over 30 years, So she kind of made me realise it is ok. Also i eventually met a woman, and my boss actually gave me some advice as she has been dating a woman for many years, and that helped a lot, Also i am now married to the woman i met, and my boss and her partner were guests when my wife and i married. Also i habe health problems, anxiety disorder, which made me have panic attacks, i also have chronic fatigue syndrome which makes it harder to do some things at the office, i even struggle to get up sometimes, So it was affecting my job and i was even having panic attacks at work, so my boss didnt fire me, she offered me another job at the same company, it is less hours and a bit less pay but it is far less taxing on my health than my previous job, she says sje didnt want to lose me, so i took it and it is much easier than it was. So is it ok to consider my boss a friend? My wife and i do meet my boss and her partner socially sometimes

one of my coworkers and I hit it pretty well, right from the beginning I instantly felt this connection and was comfortable talking to him and genuinely thought it was the same way for him cause when were in an elevator together he randomly touched my wrist, like you don't just randomly touch someone's wrist unless you're attractive to them or you want to flirt with them and from there i kinda assume we would have like this flirty/friendship relationship and it kinda was for awhile. I felt like he was genuinely into me, am I crazy for that? Anyway, he had to move back to his hometown and I thought I should put myself out there & ask if we could talk more, get to know one another & he told me he doesn't really have any interest in creating any long distance relationships/friendships because he finds them tedious and a lot of work, he said it wasn't anything personal was just how he felt w/ a sad face & I genuinely thought he felt bad so I said he'll never know unless he tries & that I think it'd be nice to just have someone to talk to, wouldn't you want that & he kinda lashed out at me.. told me to respect his boundaries & not to text him again & I kinda got mad and did anyway. eventually I apologized for disrespecting him & he ignored it  i just wanted a friend, someone to confide in, someone to make my life a little less boring and lonely. Do you think if he knew I wanted to confide in him, he'd at least consider being friends?

Well, I've pretty much been going through this since 2013, and I don't think I can handle much more. I've thought about suicide, and just need some advice on how to stay strong. Thanks

I'm 22 and still with my 1st boyfriend. I'm not happy and haven't been for a while. I was 16 he was 19 when we started dating. There's this other guy and I know I'm going to be judged but he's barely 18. I love him and have known him since he was 11 & I was 16. It was apparent he had a crush on me but he was a kid I didn't see him as an option. But he's more than that honestly. He's someone who opens up to me. Yeah he's depressed but I want to help him. He's just the sweetest guy I've ever known. I started noticing I was attracted to him last year when he was about to turn 17. But he's smart funny cute handsome and he listens to me. With my boyfriend it feels like he gets home says hi turns on the tv goes on his phone it's not romantic at all. But this other guy has taken my family and I places that are so beautiful and I never knew existed like these mandirs. He took me to see fireworks. My sister and mom love him so much even my dad. They don't like my boyfriend. This guy makes me feel special and my boyfriend doesn't it feels like it should be the other way around. And my boyfriend controls me he doesn't like me texting the "other guy One makes me happy but I almost have to escape to spend time with him and the other is controlling and doesn't make me feel like a strong woman.He'd rather spend money on sneakers on me rather than take me out to dinner. With my best friend it's always new. We celebrated Chinese New Year and all sorts of random holidays just to celebrate

Having a boyfriend just doesn't feel right to me

Everytime starting in the afternoon. I start chanting "Go blue team" continuously. If someone is near me, I will say that there are on the blue team and I will ask them to fight another random guy. And I will say he is on the white team, kill him. What is going on. Only afterward do I realize I was acting weird. It happens everyday.

She recently moved out. She hasn't asked a single question about the cancer.... such what type it is or how bad is it. This really irritates me to the point I don't want to help her with any of her bills (phone, school, etc). Do you think she just doesn't care at all. She has asked me for money and rides but not if anyone in the family needed any help. Is she a narcissist? It has been 2 weeks since I told her. Anyone here heard of empathy? She has none.

I pretty sure that I need glasses, but I don t know how to ask my dad. I don t desperatly need them, but it d make life easier. I know that he ll probably agree to get me checked out. That still hasn t gotten me the nerve to ask him.

So I am 17 and my boyfriend of 2 years is the same age. We want to have sex but I am scared of getting pregnant. I can not get the pill since I'm only 17 and my parents can't know and they won't get it for me. We can get condoms but that's about it. So I just feel scared about pregnancy and guilty about sneaking behind my parents back, but it's what we've been wanting to do. Any advice?

I was seeing this woman for a while but a few months later I discovered she's married. Originally I intended to leave but she says I'm the only one who makes her feel safe from her abusive husband she's too scared to leave because of what he'll do to her. I've seen pictures of him and he doesn't look that tough. Maybe he could learn it's not okay to hit women. I don't know. I just don't want to keep this secret going. It feels wrong yet I understand her position. I was thinking of standing by her while she grabs all her stuff and run away. I don't have this plan sorted out yet.

*sorry im latvian sorry for my bad english but ill try to explain my situaction)vme and my ex broke up like 9 months ago but in that time we contacted one another on facebook maybe like few msgs in 1-2 months we were just talking things like you know ''how are you and stuff like that'' what\s weird in September she started to writing me and usually she mentioned how we broke up and I dumped her all the bad things what happened between us which I would respond her ''it's all in the past and it should stay in past'' Then she calmed down in like beginning of October I received new msg from her we again start talking everything was okai she said she got bf and stuff which i said that's great I'm happy for her that she has someone and all of sudden she flips out and tells all these things ''he treats me so much better than you'' and i respond im sorry if I wasn;t good bf i made couple mistakes and why should she care if she has new bf ok she calmed down. After few days she writes me again in process in talking she said she broke up with her bf again we were talking and she said SHE LOVES ME ,i said to stop telling me these things it happened 2 weeks ago now she got a new bf theyve been together now for 4 days. Like wtf is wrong with this girl? why she flips out on me later she tells she loves me and after 2 weeks gets a new bf what does it mean?

I ve always felt like she does. I m the youngest of three boys, the one my mom favors is the middle child (our ages are 27, 25, 21). My relationship with my brother is rather bumpy. Some days he s really nice to me, and on other days he s almost violent towards me. He s always had a temper problem and my mom ALWAYS takes his side. She ll either deny something he s said or done to me (Threatening me with a golf club, calling me a piece of s---, etc.) or she ll say that "He s just dealing with a lot right now." And it s not like he treats her any different, while not as severe, he still treats everyone else like crap. But no one ever says anything to him about it. The most recent example being when he and I nearly got into a fist fight last weekend because he thought I was being an asshole (I wasn t doing anything, he just gets pissed off whenever I ask a question about anything.) Instead of actually dealing with the situation, my parents just yelled at me (we were in the middle of a museum), and my mom dragged me off. He s moving back in with my parents and I in a few weeks and I m running out of time and options and every time I "complain" about him to my parents, my mom just flips out and yells at me. Any advice would be helpful. (I can t move out of my parents house because I m chronically ill)

So recently my best friend lost her grandmother, they were really close. She became very sad and I was there for her through everything.since then she had been acting different around me...for example, were in the same class and she talks to everyone but me... She only say "hi" to me..... wtff!!! I be thinking I did something wrong. Who does their bestfriend like that? ?? It hurts me sooo much that it breaks my heart. And I've talked to her about. ..Nothing has changed. We've been best friends for almost 5 years now. ... and I recently told her I was crushing on her. ..So you know I be in my feelings over everything she does . I need help! Should I let her go? ?