This is no jealousy issue, it's the way this girl acts. She goes to my highschool and she posted really messed up and mean things online on a private Twitter account and when I called her out on it (not revealing who I am) she deleted her account. I sent her some messages asking her why she's do this stuff and why she's so rude, and her friends are like, "OMG, IF ANYONE IS BULLYING YOU THEN I'LL BEAT THEM UP OKAY," but she is literally the one bullying people and it's make me really angry when I hear people supporting her. She may act nice to your face but then she talks bad about you somewhere else. I can't help but want to punch her in the face but I'm not that mean, obviously. How do I deal with this? And today is her birthday and I hate how she's getting so many birthday comments and some presents when she's a monster on the inside..

My daughter and I have a strong motherly relationship, so she tells me everything. Well, I damn there had a heart attack with what she told me. Apparently while my daughter and her friend were hangin' out, he asked if he could watch her pee. So my daughter said yes as long as she could watch him too. So they went to the woods behind our house, and from what she told me, I think her friend was chickening out, because he told her "Ladies first." Then when my daughter pulled down her pants and urinated, he ran away before she could finish. I'm not sure what to make of this situation, nor do I know how I should approach this. Keep in mind that the boy is very well mannered and has known my daughter and I for a while, and I'' good friends with his mom. In the boy's defense, I think he and my daughter have developed a crush on each other. What should I do?

Today me and my friend were telling our secrets and I want to tell her my deepest one but I'm scared :( help

everyone makes fun of me everywhere, i'm being bullied, i'm 5'8 and everyone I know is 6+, im not that good looking everyone calls me ugly even girls at my university, its kinda sad, Im a grown up man with no friends or no one to hang out with but my 13 year old brother... I cant manage to get a date, nor a friend, Im just cursed to sit down in my room and play DotA2 and call of duty... I need to start fresh and new, but idk how.. any help? thanks

soo... me and my bestfriend quit being bestfriends over the summer and she has a new bestfriend now, and it doesn't really bother me tbh... but we get in arguments still over stupid drama that she starts at school and so far I have had nooo drama and this whole school year and school just started btw. She has been trying to start drama this year and its annoying!!! when I was her best friend we got in this huge argument and she came back to me. we didn't talk for about 7 months. But this time I am DONE! I'm cutting her off my fake friends list! and she told me she was sure jealous of me.. but anyway.... so I want to know some ways I can annoy her really bad! Like tell me anything I can do and I literally will!!

When I was 17 I went to apply at Aeropostale because I had to find an internship for a class that I was taking in high school. In the interview there was a question about what would my friends think of me and I just said something but at that time I realized I didn't have any real friends. I didn't get the internship and I also didn't get the job that I applied for at McDonald's when I was about 18 or 19. However I am 20 now and I am going to go to UEI instead of the Community College that I am at, because I am not doing well there. At UEI I am going to train to be a medical assistant. But is it hard to find a job if you don't have a friend because it is required to have friends in order to have a job. Most people I know are just acquaintances and even people who I have close relationships who aren't family are still just acquaintances even if we are friendly and get along well. They are people met in college and high school. How do I deal with this?

So I'm 22 years old and I feel like some of my current friends are like settling down which is weird because we are only 22 but I suppose everyone is different and plus they used to party a lot like during high school but I never really could because I had extremely strict parents so I feel like I missed out and now that I can party and go out places non of my friends can anymore. I mean I understand I work and go to school as well but I'm not saying let's party every week just at least every once in a while but I feel like I'm totally alone in how I feel. I love my friends but I just wish I had some fun crazy kinda friends to party with because I can't really settle down if I never even got crazy. Like i just sit at home on a Fri/sat night free yet bored and having nowhere to go but wishing I could go out and have some fun! Hahaha sounds kinda dumb I know but any advice?!?

I'm a 22 year wold woman who's had problems making female friends. I've had this issue since middle school and I am losing hope every year because I haven't found the right people So far, I've changed some of my vocabulary by using slang and constantly misspelling words on social media on purpose, and constantly posting pictures of quotes I see on Google. I've always liked rap/hip-hop/r&b growing up, but I'm putting more emphasis on my like for it because others like it. I've even taken pole dancing classes so people would stop seeing me as the weird, socially awkward girl people don't like. I'm also considering changing how I dress, carry myself, and speak. I'm so impatient and I can't wait for me to be a new person ppl want to be friends with. Before you judge me, see yourself in my shoes. If you were in my position and you were constantly getting your texts ignored by other females, or other females just unfollow/block you from all social media, wouldn't you consider yourself the common denominator and would want to change?? Please, PLEASE don't tell me to be myself or love myself because I've tried "being myself," and all I do is get snubbed by other females around my age and attract creepy, annoying middle aged men who want to be my friend (I wish they'd leave me alone!). I will never make friends if I don't shed this "weird, socially awkward girl" image I have. I want it gone because it's ruining my 20s!

He just stays on his phone whenever he comes over. We sued to have fun. He doesn't text me anymore and didn't even notice my new glasses. When I told him about it he said "Oh, sorry." We met in grade school and are now 19 (both of us) and now I feel used sort of. Like, he used me for companionship now he's just giving his attention to other random stuff. I am sad. What should I do to make him pay more attention?

im a guy and been friends with a girl more than 2 years. Something happened last week and she said "she will always be here for me and isn't going anywhere" . so later I thought she was mad at me cause she wasn't really talking to me ..soo I kept sending her long text after text for 3 days ( i know i was wrong) She told me yesterday if this continues im gonna drift her away because she's been busy. Soo later I apologized..... she said she would always be here, Did she lie??? or just needs space

I told her that they where bad pictures of me and she denies it and says I look good. She encourages me to not wear makeup and she only takes pictures with me when I don't have makeup on and I don't mind it but she won't post the ones we take where we both look really good. Am I overthinking this ? Or is she doing it on purpose?

i am a girl and i'm 13 in the 8th grade and i have been wanting an internet bestfriend for EVER !!

Ok, long story. I'm 14 yrs old in 8th grd and this is a long story. In 1st grd thru 6th grd, I had 0 friends. None. Idk but ppl hated me and it was tough There was this one kid who was kind of nice to me, tho. and throughout the yrs we became good friends. Not best friends but good friends. Now, in 7th grade, everything changed. New school, new stuff. I hit the reset button, was rly nice to everyone I met, and a month through school, I got the student of the month award. It made me rly kind of popular-ish and ppl REALLY liked me. I was king. However, it didn't last too long because this "friend", who knew me from when I used to be an outcast was climbing down on the social ladder. Whenever I was talking to my friends about something that happened or something I may have done well, he always barged in and said "Nah, you never did this, you never said that, "so-and-so" was never your friend.", and i began to notice that he never actually took me seriously. I thought maybe it was becuz it was new for him to see me as a social icon in my class, but i didnt rly pay much attention to it. At first, it was easy to brush it off cuz i had the respect of my classmates, than it became harder because he became better at roasting me. and again, i thought he was "joking" at the time. I kind of went down a little bit. Thank God i was never as hated as before, but i knida lost my edge. However, he took my throne. and he always victimized himself, like he would say "oh i have no friends." to kind of victimize himself and make ppl laugh and draw more attention, and it was kinda bugging me at the time cause i knew that he knew that he had all the friends and attention. However, I used to be an ***hat and i didnt rly realize that. I tried to confront him but it didn't work. In general, I didn't drop too much, I just went to an average level, some ppl liked me, some hated me. i still had friends and a life and stuff like that, which is whty I wasn't so worried about this issue. Now, In 8th grd, I was really confident and i was content with where I was at at the moment. I thought this dude was still my "friend" and its all good. I just realized today that he might've been using me to get back up because he was afraid that he would have to be a bottomfeeder. He was being an ***hole the past few days to me, but he was so nice to everyone else and all the girls in our class. Thank God its not too serious right now, but I want to let him know that I knew what he was doing. Now, here is my plan. what i wanna do is make him know that I know what he's doing, and i kind of want everyone to know that, so I can regain everyone. So I want to ignore him for like 4 days, than tell one of my friends that are girls what i'm doing(only if they ask), because they r more sensitive and they still like me as a friend so it'll be easier to win them over. also, the guy who used me has a crush on like 3 of them so it'll be a big gain. Now, I'm still stuck on how to confront him. That is what I need ur help on. How do I do it? With the hearts of our class won over, I stand alone and Idk what to do. Im gonna try to convert some ppl first and I already have a few on my mind. But how do i do it? Definitely not in public, I know that. But what should i day it? How? when? How do I tell ppl what he did without them reacting in the same way that he always does? ***Ik this is long but thank you soooooo much for your help. It is much needed and appreciated. Also, I'll make my best answer 20 points if someone can show me how xD. Thanks so much! I trust you and I need your help!! Thanks :))

Last week me and a buddy got caught drinking at his house, and now my mom wants me to go over and apologize to his mom. It's gonna be so akward I don't even know how to start the conversation. What can I say?

This group of friends really changed my life for the worse. Shut me out for no reason. I vowed to get my revenge. I plan on stalking every single one of the group. They're all close to each other and heaven knows I was one of them. Collecting information should be a priority for a few months. What I do with it is totally up to me. I don't have much of a moral compass but I am still at the moral high ground. They intentionally hurt me and I can't let it slide. My life can be so boring and with the time on my hands this could really spice up my world. I'm on top, 5 steps ahead, watching their every move and they wouldn't know. I know the circles pretty complex but I know them all well. Argh if only I got my hands on a pair of binoculars, I'd be truly a force to be reckoned with. Like the olden days, information is power, power is control and control is me on top of the food chain once again back where I belong. I'll plan slyly ruining relationships, breaking friendships and melting the glue that stuck them together still. I remember when I was the glue, now I'm the outside looking in. Not for long. I'd do much and more to collect intel and hurt them. On backstage yet pulling the strings.

My friend just started wedding planning and is in nursing school so I want to get her something small, because I think she s a little stressed. So any ideas to help relax or encourage someone under 25 dollars? Perferably something I can get off Amazon because she lives far away so the free shipping will help haha.

My friend and I have always been into playful "trash talk," but about a month ago I guess I accidentally went too far and angered him by saying his ex looked like Marcy Darcy (from "Married With Children"). He then blocked my number and blocked me on Facebook. We're co-workers, and when we worked together again, I apologized for offending him. He accepted the apology, but said he didn't want to be my friend and wanted us to be strictly co-workers, and that's it. I was kinda hurt but gave him space. Then about a month later he approached me at work and started talking as if nothing happened, and we were laughing and joking like old times. I asked him about it, and he said he was over his anger. So. He's a good guy and all, but I'm sort of confused. I'll admit what I said wasn't tactful, but now I'm always sort of worried about pissing him off again or somehow ruining the friendship. Maybe I am a horrible friend and maybe he's cutting me slack by tolerating me...but should I still be friends with this person?

so basically, they told me my bus number when i get on in text, i never told them it... and then they start messaging me with random spam.. Umm? help

Where would I start to look? (Highschool)

About 5 months back, I pretended to be someone I wasn't online. I hurt so many people, and lied a lot. I was in a group, when one of those people joined. I logged off, and I'm stuck in that group until they leave or get off. I really need help. I don't know how to face them. What I mean by hurt, is that I think I made them self harm. Everything is really messed up.

So one of my closest friends verbally lashed out on me out of nowhere in the middle of the hallway for no reason last week. It showed a lack of class and I made sure I didn't say a single derogatory word in response. Although it was a one-sided attack, we haven't spoken since the incident. I just wanted to know how I could make her jealous and regret ruining the friendship

My friends always call me "fat" but they say it in a jokingly way where we all laugh. (I'm not actually fat, I'm 5 pounds above average. But however when i told another friend he is weird he took it too seriously. He said he was going to tell the principal and make me get detention. How d i deal with this?

A guy who i have been talking to who really likes me.. We are just talking and i called him little baby and he said im annoyinf him and he wants to be officially my boyfriend hes not interested in being unofficial. What shall i do lol

Ok so...I'm a freshman in high school & i PEED myself in my last period class while taking a test. Out of nowhere i just had to pee like really bad, but we're taking a test and we're not allowed to use the bathroom during a test, so i was on the last question when i just peed myself..... I'm literally so mortified like.... why.... ANYWHO SO the whole class knows & the teacher sent me to the nurses office, which is where i sat until school was over & then my teacher brought my stuff down to me & she said she made the whole class promise not to tell anyone but... i MEAN come on now.... that's just probably not gonna happen... so that's my story & i just wanted some advice on how to like... handle this tomorrow when i have to see all these people again.... omg.... so yeah like what should i say if anyone mentions it???? How does a freshman girl in high school come back from pissing herself in front of everyone during a test?? Advice would be much appreciated, since i obviously don't want to tell my friends about it....

I have this friend that I've been friends with for 15 years. She had a daughter (now 18) and I have a 15-year-old daughter as well. Ever since I've known her, her daughter is very rude and disrespectful. Cussing at her mom, talking about boys and acting older than her age basically. I don't want her to be a bad influence on my 15-year-old daughter. That being said, I am also friends with her cousin which I also have been friends with for 15 years. I planned a vacation for me my kids and her cousin and her kids. since they are related and we're all friends I felt obligated to invite her. only her. so then she invited her niece which I have no problem with. she is of the same age as her daughter and is very respectable. I was on the phone with her just now and she said " yeah its just going to be me and the two girls " I did not invite her daughter because she's very rude. I didn't invite her niece but I made an exception since she a very well behaved young lady. My question is this; how can I tell her that she needs to stop inviting people without permission. and that whenever she knows something is free she wants to do everything to milk the opportunity. should I tell both of my friends that I'm not going anymore and go without them without their knowledge? How do I deal with this situation?

I mean I know where she lives. I know where she regularly hangs out and goes to school. I've talked to most of her friends and I know half very well. I also have a ton of time on my hands. All I need are binoculars basically. And if necessary a new identity and a different look. I must however look from afar for now and collect information. Controlling and worming my way into her friends' lives should come soon enough. If succesful I can prove to myself that I'm smart and flexible enough to collect information on and follow someone. Connect the pieces. And worm my way in eventually.

My roommates will be sitting in the living room watching tv sometimes and I'll have to get something from the kitchen. I quickly walk by without making eye contact or saying hello to them and then go back to my room. Sometimes when I pass one of my roommates in the apartment I will just stare straight ahead and not look at them or check the time on my phone. I'm not intending to be rude. I'm just really shy and awkward. Do you think they could be taking this the wrong way?

So I have a pretty big problem and I need some great help. So I m going to start from the beginning. I am 16. I was driving and I was very tired, I was struggling to keep my eyes open. I was trying to get home before my curfew at 10pm and it was 9:40pm. One moment I was awake and the next I was crashing. Thankfully I was not injured and ended up having that car fixed. I have to pay quite a bit if money each month to get this fixed and to pay my mom back since she paid for the damages. I again started to drive again and a few weeks later I had the problem of staying awake going home and one monent I was awake, the next I was crashing, the difference between this crash and the other is that this one was on a highway and the other was on a back road. So anyways I rolled and landed in between the highways. Thankfully I was not hurt. I had several good samaritans help me and I called 911. I called several family members including my parents. My mom is upset and is treating me wrongly and now I m lost at what to do next. I don t know if I should talk to someone or anything. I m very lost. I do not make enough money to buy another car at the moment as this one is probably totaled. I m just so lost.

My friend is a nice person who I've been knowing for many years. He lives out of state and we communicate a few times a week. Sometimes when we have conversations, I find myself frustrated with his ignorance on topics like racism, sexuality, religion and just little things that require common sense thinking. I brushed it off many times, thinking it wasn't a big deal. However, in the past year, our convos have become heated. I feel like I'm always giving him advice but when it comes to me needing it, he can't elaborate or give insight. Plus, he's very close minded and not open to seeing another point of view. Ex. He believes gay people wake up one day and choose to be gay. I don't feel like I am being fulfilled mentally when we talk. It feels like I'm talking to a person who believes tje world is flat. With my other friends, we are on the same level, even if we disagree on things. I feel bad because this is partially my fault for brushing off his ignorance. Now, almost every time we talk, I'm on the defense, fearing that he will get on my nerves. So should I distance myself?

*Before you say, "oh buy your own gift card" "you're so cheap" I NEVER said give me a gift-card. I am saying IF anyone has an unused giftcard and if they want to give it to me, may they give it to me? I'll tell you what I want one for since I'm asking for it. I want a $5 gift card of one of the following (Best Buy, Dick's, ToysRUs, GameStop, FanDango, Foot Locker, Old Navy, Olive Garden, Home Depot, Bath&BodyWorks, Red Lobster, kMart, Walmart) There's a lot more that I could use for this thing but this question would be too long. Basically why I want a $5 gift card is because there's a website called Twitch, a gaming streaming website, and on that website you can subscribe to users with gift cards and get special perks. There's a friend that I have and he streams all the time and I want to donate to him, I don't really have much money, I'm on a very, very tight budget, $5 is a lot for me now, don't really want to get into why I'm on a very tight budget because I'll get depressed again but yeah. I want to support my friend by subbing to him, his birthday is today and he starts streaming in about 6 hours. I want to sub to him while he's streaming so he'll get a notification and I'd guess he'd be happy because well one he got a subscription and two, it's me. This friend has always helped me with a lot of things, including my past depression and I want to do just a small little birthday suprise for him. Once again, you don't have to give me a gift card if you don't want to. I didn't realize this was against the rules. Oops. I don't think I can delete this post either..

so basically, they told me my bus number when i get on in text, i never told them it... and then they start messaging me with random spam.. Umm? help

I grew up in this small town. I hate it. The same people who were my classmates in kindergarten were the same classmates up until high school. I hated everyone of them. I never had any friends, I was always depressed. Finally one day, I moved to another city. I have many friends. I know many people who like the same sports, books, TV shows, music and many other things. I have close friends as well as many acquaintances. I'm always happy, people ask me how can I be happy all the time. Sometimes, I go to my hometown to visit my parents. I realize that I have no one to see, no one to call other than my parents. I never made one friend in the town I grew up with. Yet, I have so many friends where I live, so I wonder, Is there something wrong with me, or is there something wrong withy hometown.

I have a friend who seems to flake on plans that I makes. It's only when I make the plans. If they make the plans everythings good. Should I start flaking on plans they make more, should I never make plans with them? Should I call them out? Should I just stop hanging out with them?

so I'm in 8th so is he and me and him use to be best friends in the summer and then um i kinda started to like him a lot and we liked this band a lot and so did all of our friends like our "friend group" and people called us emo ig bc it was an emo band not really ?? but he got made fun of the most so he left our group and stopped listening to the bad and started to hang out with the kids who were being mean , now he's kind of me and i miss him i mean i miss him a lot i cry a lot over him and whenever we see each other at school (which is rare bc he have no classes together) we always look at eachother and give sad stares idk we're like barly clinging onto friendship but i don't want to let him go

I gave a friend of mine a kiss on the cheek as she was leaving a bar. Even though she didn't pull away, she said something like "Dan! No kissing! Friends don't kiss." Why are Americans so weird about kissing? She started sort of seeing this other guy... could that be the problem?

All the time this girl is two years younger than me and I got so sick of her disrespecting me that I ignored her and she got upset about it. Once she made fun of me in front of a bunch of people because of my bra size. Which is really middle schoolish of her bc who even cares. It still hurt me. Today she just really ticked me off. I woke up to a uti yesterday and immediately went to the dr and she asked how I even got a uti and I told her it was probably because I wasn't aware you were supposed to pee before and after sex which can cause uti's if you don't. She replies by saying "so basically you're stupid." I'm sick of this. But she always comes back to me saying "ur so pretty what the heck ily" and stuff like that but I'm just really over being called stupid by someone who's still in hs and doesn't work and pay bills like I do. I don't like being mean to people so I don't wanna go off on her so should I just ignore her for good?

She seems dismissive whenever I talk, but she still smiles whenever I say hi and she blushes. Her friend talks to me a lot, and unlike her friend, she is a lot more confident. They are both attracted to me for sure, but whenever the confident one talk's to me, she either tries to pull her away or looks angry while staying quiet. She is extremely shy and her mood changes after me and the friend talks. They are best friend friends but she really seems to annoyed when me and the confident one talks

Yesterday i fought with a boy who didn't seem strong enough to defeat me and all my friends had faith in me that i would win but we underestimated him and i badly lost this fight.All my friends started teasing me.I am feeling really depressed as this is the first time I've lost.What should I do?

I think I have done very well for myself. Without wanting to boast I have a degree and postgraduate studies and speak 3 languages. I also own 4 properties (mortgage free) and I am about to buy a 5th. I am tall and quite good-looking. I do a lot of charity work and I also like helping people. The more success I have (work or money related) the more my "friends" try to criticize me. However, I haven't messed up my life in any way.... So why would they want to put me down?

I first met my friend at the start of a new school and we were joined straight away; we had the same things (tv shows, style, humour) but I also had a small friend from my other school. As soon as these two met they weren't that close at all but began getting closer and closer as the first year went on. There was loads of drama in this year and I felt like the friend from primary was trying to push me out of the way and be the other girls best friend because she wanted what I had. Now we're in different sets (they're together and I'm with just some other good friends, I do have other friends but I just can't get that close to them like I did with the first girl. It's different. Anyway, now I feel like I've been pushed away completely; I have told one person about what I thinks happening but I feel as if this was a mistake. I shared everything with that girl I had most things in common with. I'm now classed as just a friend. When I speak to her now she kinda just replies shortly and wanders off. Don't get me wrong, she's kind mostly but I feel as if she doesn't care as much as she does. I also do have an anxiety disorder and I'm always second guessing myself, thinking maybe it's cause I'm not good enough. Help? Thanks

I get physically beaten up for no reason by few guys in class, I think that's probably because I used to insult them. But, I have stopped that now but they still hit me constantly which I'd annoying. I am really physically weak and can't really fight back. I want to know how to get rid of this prick. No, and don't tell me to "speak with an adult or teacher", no one is trustworthy in my school, in fact, in my whole city. If I were to tell an adult about it, they sure would help, but they would probably make fun of me behind my back. Same goes for the teachers... Help me please, I can't resist anymore.

Ok, I messaged a guy basically saying, if you're free sometime, let me know if you want to hang out. and he replied 'hey, yeah sure!' which I guess is a good thing but, am I supposed to suggest something now, or should I wait to see if he says anything? I think I was a bit vague in my message but .. yeah. what do i do? he literally just replied this, so it's not like a lot of time has passed.

Hey, I have completely lost my will to live. I don t want to deal with **** anymore. I want to die. But idk how... I m 14 from Australia. My parents hate me, I m bullied at school. There are too many things going on in my life. My friend killed themself, the only person that cares for me now is my gf... Everyone else hates me. I cannot stand it anymore! Don t try to help me feel better, help me kill myself. Idk how...

It is a man saying it to a woman

We worked at a golf resort back in 2004, always got along. So today by chance he was a sub at my school last week. So after school I went up to him, and he said he didn't like facebook message I sent him saying he is a fake person. He showed it to me on his phone, and didn't believe me when I said I never sent it. I have never had a facebook page. Do you believe someone else did it?

Where would I start to look? (Highschool)

I have a severe hard time starting conversations with people who don't have the same common interests with me

So basically one of my best friends asked me if i wanted to video call and I have recently failed my chemistry test and I was reviewing it so I said sorry I cant call im studying and now she is mad at me. What to do?