Tengo 14 años mi novio tiene 15 hace mas de medio año empezamos a andar, nos amamos mucho, una vez fui a su casa y pues el y yo tuvimos un faje no me toco mucho ni yo a el, tiempo después tuvimos otro pero muy pequeño ya que fue en la escuela, otro día fue en mi casa y me toco mas de ahi un dia estaba muy entrada y yo empeze a desabrochar su pantalon y el solo se dejaba pero luego me abrazo y me dijo que no era ni el momento ni el lugar indicado que el no queria lastimarme ya que era mi primera vez y que mejor esperamos mas, asi que acepte, seguimos con los fajes, pero el otro dia que estabamos en su casa nos prendimos mucho y mientras el me tocaba yo empeze a gemir y el hacia lo mismo luego mejor nos paramos y yo le pregunte si se habia exitado y me dijo que si y volvió a besarme luego comenzó a moverse muy rapido mientras me acercaba a el y respiraba muy rápido de pronto me alejo de el y me dijo mejor ya vamonos La vrdd es que yo tengo ganas de tener relaciones con el y el me dijo que le pasa lo mismo, se que estamos aun chicos pero no se que hacer?

No se siento que no soy como otras chicas que siempre están bien arregladas a mi me da igual pero no sólo es eso si no que puedo andar desarreglada me gusta el fútbol y los videojuegos suelto flatulencias en público sin importar quien este y no se sí esté mal que opinan

He claims to be happy as well and I believe him. However, sexual wise, he seems frustrated but it s not like we don t do anything. Lately though he s been pressuring me into things I don t want to do and I m telling him to seriously stop but he doesn t. At this point I m over a relationship but I don t want to tell him "we re done because I feel too pressured" so what do I do? What do I tell him

So there is this guy who is married. He is sleeping around and we want to sleep together, but I told him no originally because I cannot knowingly sleep with a married man. However, he explained to me that he loves his wife, but she can no longer have sex for health reasons. He is confused because he wants to be with her, but he is sexually frustrated. He still plans on staying with her, so I told him that I cannot sleep with him then. However, I really want to. I just don't know what to do, because on one hand, he's already cheating anyway and is going to get sex whether or not we do it together, but on the other hand, I cannot bring myself to being a helper in that process. I feel for him because it must suck for him, having tension in a relationship like this and not being able to find a solution that he and his wife agree on. So my question is, is it ok for me to sleep with him or is this still a very big no no? And I'm not talking about whether or not it's a sin to have premarital sex, I am talking on whether or not this is ok for him to go outside of his marriage to have sex with me, considering the circumstances. If you are here to scold me with religion on why I shouldn't have sex in general outside of a marriage, please do not comment. The other thing is, I think he has already kind of left her mentally in a way because of how much turmoil this has brought into the relationship. However, he is still married to her and he is very confused overall. And I think he doesn't want to be a real asshole and break her heart, especially when she needs someone at her side. I think he feels trapped in his marriage. Another update, he was honest about everything upfront and as to why he was having sex elsewhere. I was the one who told him afterwards that I couldn't do that and he has respected that wish and understands. I just still want to sleep with him though.

What does it mean when a guy says he's going to give you oral sex? Does that mean he doesn't respect you and just likes your body?

what the heck! I've recently developed an unusual attraction for little particularly male children. Unsualy desire to hold them, hug them, love them, cuddle them, kiss them. Now I know this sounds odd, but I DONT FEEL like doing anything "bad" with kids tbh. My desires are NOT to abuse them. Am I a pedo?? wth. I'm a young boy. How come I have feelings for little one's at this age?/ :( Help meee! Not too sure about that. But I have little cousins, and I have started to love them more than before. I just play with them and hug them for soo long now.. What's up with me.. I dont wanna end up being a 'bad' person as I grow up... :/

Does anyone have an idea who this guy is?

I'm not single though. Would I be judged if I befriend a person of the opposite sex?

The threesome was my hubby's idea and it never really panned out. This guy we chose really wanted just me so we backed out. Unfortunately, this buddy of mine has been being too explicitly suggestive. He asked me for a hug today and also wanted a kiss. I gave him a hug but not the kiss. This guy works in a store I go to so it sucks. Anyways, what should I do? I don't want him fired.

My boyfriend's mom was talking to me this morning and offered me some breakfast which I said sure. Everything seemed fine until I said " Walmart may hire me soon again" (I worked as a cashier and was almost to 4 occurences due to being sick a lot and my bf hurt his back and needed me to do everything for him so I had to and had no choice so they let me go.) So she looks at me and says " Oh cool just don't mess it up this time. You need to keep this job." First off, rude right? This was pretty much my first job i've ever had so it doesn't make sense. The thing is with her she talks bad behind everyone's back. So my question is why? Why does she treat me this way when I clean for her all day and take care of her daughter's baby, and cook. Does she not like me or is she just this way to everyone? She has a hot temper as well. She could knock over a trash can accidentially and then she just goes into rage mode yelling and throwing things. Just please. Help.

If a woman that is obsessed over having a baby, one day out of the blue drops it, and says "No I don't want a child now" and means it, what would you say to that? For the past 10 months my GF has been hounding me about having a baby. I guess it was more than hounding...Its been hell. So many fights have started, because she thinks I would intentionally not have sex with her everyday near ovulation, because I didn't want a kid. Now its hard to explain her anger. Very troubled girl. Had a very troubled past before we met. When I say she would get mad at me every night during this time, I am not kidding. I am not one to take the words abuse lightly, but when I say when it came to doing everything I could possibly do, it was borderline Mental Abuse. Once ovulation was over, it was all cool and fine as she waited for the results. Now this week starts her ovulation, last night we just started having sex, and she tells me "Don't *** in me" WTF>....I dunno wtf to think, what to do, nothing. I originally didn't want to have a baby with her, I thought it was to soon, but eventually she changed my mind on this, and I became all for it, now she doesn't want it? WTF kind of hell is that? Just feels like something shaddy is going on.

I'm good friend me with a close friend of mine on facebook (she's a crush) and every time I see that she's online I just want to post something so she can see and like it? Like I push a little panic button inside lol it sounds dumb but seriously. Like all I want to do is post something when she's online just so she can see what I do or what I like etc.. how do I stop this so I won't post so much? (She likes all of my posts) Why do I do that?

Besides introducing yourself in between periods

or did he just not want Cruz to one up him on the muslim hate?

They've come into money and she's typically wearing the grey tight pajamas, she's more relaxed and has turned into a bottay smellay. My friend hasn't noticed, how do I tell him?

this guy and I hit it off pretty well, and I genuinely thought the feelings were matual, cause when were in an elevator together he randomly touched my wrist & from there i kinda assume we would have this flirty/friendly relationship and it kinda was for awhile. Anyway, he had to move back to his hometown and I thought I should put myself out there & ask if we could talk more, get to know one another & he told me he didnt really have interest in creating long distance relationships/friendships because he finds them tedious and a lot of work w/ a sad face & I genuinely thought he felt bad or at least cared about my feelings so I said that I was kind of sad that, that's how he feels about them and he'll never know unless he tries & that I think it'd be nice to just have someone to talk to, wouldn't you want that & he kinda lashed out at me.. and thought he made it clear while remaining nice which was beyond rude & he also told me to respect his boundaries & not to text him again & I kinda got mad and hurt and felt the urge to text him and say if I had known he was so stubborn I wouldn't have said anything and that it was my apologies for wanting to try & know him better and that I wouldn't text him again. eventually I apologized cause I felt like I offended him and & he ignored it. just wanted someone to confide in, someone to make my life a little less lonely and boring. It would've been nice to talk to someone new but idk what his deal is :( do you think he despises me now

There is a person no one likes cause this person is always working and minds their own business. Now why dont they like this person.?

okay so i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years and things aren't going that great we are consistently fighting etc. so i asked my friend for advice and she told me to give my number to this one guy. so i gave my number to this one guy (FEELING GUILTY). He did message me (no flirting happened between us as i told him I'm very loyal to my boyfriend and if he flirts with me i will block him) anyway so we have been speaking to each other for 3 days and then suddenly last night hes like whose you friend so i told him and asked him why so he said shes kinda beautiful so i just went off at him and was like i'm so tried of people using me i don't think we should talk anymore etc and they he said no i was over reacting and making him out to be an asshole and the bad guy etc so i felt extremely bad and said sorry and that i over react because when my boyfriend and i started dating he would lie to me consistently and that I've been used so many times so then i blocked him and unblocked him and the he sent a message saying goodbye and then we blocked each other and then this morning i could see he unblocked me because i could see his profile picture on whatsapp but i still have him blocked i know he still has my number because if he didn't i wouldn't be able to see his Display pic or anything but anyway should i unblock him and what should i say in my apology? TIA xx Please help i dont know what to do! :( i will even answer questions in return

this guy and I hit it off pretty well, and I genuinely thought the feelings were matual, cause when were in an elevator together he randomly touched my wrist & from there i kinda assume we would have this flirty/friendly relationship and it kinda was for awhile. Anyway, he had to move back to his hometown and I thought I should put myself out there & ask if we could talk more, get to know one another & he told me he didnt really have interest in creating long distance relationships/friendships because he finds them tedious and a lot of work w/ a sad face & I genuinely thought he felt bad or at least cared about my feelings so I said that I was kind of sad that, that's how he feels about them and he'll never know unless he tries & that I think it'd be nice to just have someone to talk to, wouldn't you want that & he kinda lashed out at me.. and thought he made it clear while remaining nice which was beyond rude & he also told me to respect his boundaries & not to text him again & I kinda got mad and hurt and felt the urge to text him and say if I had known he was so stubborn I wouldn't have said anything and that it was my apologies for wanting to try & know him better and that I wouldn't text him again. eventually I apologized cause I felt like I offended him and & he ignored it. just wanted someone to confide in, someone to make my life a little less lonely and boring. It would've been nice to talk to someone new but idk what his deal is :( do you think he despises me now?

when in reality there is nothing wrong with them and they just cant stand the fact that you aren't who they think you should be. the person i'm talking about isnt even a member of my family, they're just an acquaintance.

My hubby was in his bf s wedding, I couldn t go bc I had just given birth. He was paired up with one of the bridesmaid, whom he s never met before. Throughout the wedding he was texting me sounding like he was bored. Long story short, I just found out he friend requested her on Facebook. I m pretty upset but he says there s nothing to worry bout it s just another friend on fb.

you feel if your wife or girlfriend NEVER wore makeup again? No answers needed after December 31, 2016. Thank you.

So this girl have been giving me hand job before. She was my cousin, we havent do anything taboo but we just giving each other a hand job. Now i ask her for a pic and she get mad, why is that??

I'm good friend me with a close friend of mine on facebook (she's a crush) and every time I see that she's online I just want to post something so she can see and like it? Like I push a little panic button inside lol it sounds dumb but seriously. Like all I want to do is post something when she's online just so she can see what I do or what I like etc.. how do I stop this so I won't post so much? (She likes all of my posts) Why do I do that?

My life experiences since i was a little boy till i became an adult has fueled this overwhelming hate i have for women. I will not talk about why i hate women but it's brought me to this point and it's shaping me to a certain type of person. I elbowed a pregnant woman in the train today and she felt hurt. For some odd reason i took pleasure from her pain and felt good about myself. I knew apologizing would be the right thing to do but i felt a sense of accomplishment after i elbowed her stomach by accident. My feeling of loneliness subsided a bit and i felt like if i can do more, I will not worry much. I went to visit my sister and punched her in the face and i felt so relieved that it felt like my bad feeling and emotions have been let out a bit. It's like what is there to loose? I've asked too many questions on this site about my issue and non has ever worked. Now I know i will be lonely forever and there is no reason to hold back on the suffering and hate, Who cares if i exist? Who cares if I get sick? Who cares if am alive or dead? Who cares enough to come to my funeral? Am just a dust in the air that nobody can see regardless of my suffering. Am already dead according to people soo, Why should my actions matter as am currently living a dead life? Before anyone judges me, Know that I've been hated all my life and Imagine yourself in my shoes and tell me how you can live a functional life when what you've been needing is happening to everyone around you except for you.

Me and my best friend are both 16 year old boys. We were thinking about partying with older friends, their ages are between 21-26, maybe it's not normal but i bet it's fun. I won't tell my parents about partying because they don't even know i have older friends. I know they already hate me and they would get really mad so i don't care about telling them anything i do. I guess it's really fun to party with older people and don't say it's not because i know it is, But is it ok for me and my friend to party with older friends? They invited us so is it ok to go??

Remind me, darling. Was it who you beat your husband or did your husband beat you? It was so long ago when you admitted it, I don't remember. Please, spill your juicy secret for all the world to see.

We're pretty close but I'm an a*****e to her I understand she's trying to help and all but how can I controlled myself?

So i have been searching for my diary everywhere cause i couldn't find it. The last place i had it was in my reading class. So today in gym, this girl told me that someone found my diary. And she told me some things i wrote in there!!! I'm very embarrassed. I had things about people i hate, and who I like and i also swore in there a lot cause i was mad at some things. I also think i might of left it in my reading classroom then she came and took it. I asked the girl in my gym class if she could get it back from the person. She said she probably could. But i'm still really worried. What happens if she tells people what i wrote in there??? What should i do??? I wrote some pretty personal information in there and she had to read it :(

Gay pervert's instincts gravitate him towards the bathroom when his dad is shltttting. He hears some farrty, sexy sounds from toilet. He goes to bathroom door and sneakily cracks it open and there he is: his sexy dad sitting on the toilet applying pressure and squirming to push out constipated Pooooooop The gay perrvert drools. He breaks the door open and sniffs the farrty, shllllty, stinky aroma. Then the perrvert grabs his dad off toilet and stares at the toilet bowl. It contained 4 thick (5 inch diameter) turds clogging the toilet. The embarrassed dad quickly flushes the toilet, but this clogs it. This only makes Llewen's sexual appetite stronger (no surprise there)! The faggggoooot then has anaI with his daddy without wiping 😉. It's poooooop vs penis battle in the anus. The faaaaag dies just days later of severe AIDS

Tengo una amiga, tengo 17 y ella 15, nos gustabamos, pero las cosas no se dieron, pero seguimos siendo amigos, ella me cuenta quien le gusta, yo igual y nos llevamos bien, siempre que tiene algo que decir, la escucho, sea lo que sea. Ya sea de quien le gusta (que es casi siempre de eso) o de lo que hace, o cosas cualquiera, igual yo, aunque muy pocas veces le cuento quien me gusta. Bueno, a ella le empezó a gustar un chico, pero a mi parecer, no le convenía porque el tipo es el típico "galán" que anda con muchas y no quería que la lastimara, después de un tiempo, ella me escucho y le dejo de gustar. Después yo le conté quien me gustaba (mi Crush) pero por razones que no diré, "Mi Crush" es imposible para mi, por lo que ella me dijo lo mismo, que la olvidara y siempre me lo dice, pero cada vez que le cuento, sobre "quien me gusta" ella se pone cortante o responde los mensajes cada 3 hrs, pero cuando ella me cuenta algo siempre la escucho y no le contesto tarde, la apoyo en todo lo que quiera hacer, pero ella no lo hace conmigo, que pasa con ella MUJERES. No la entiendo, porque le gusta contarme sus cosas, pero si yo le cuento de algo (sobre todo de "eso" quien me gusta) se pone así.

the guy I liked moved back to his hometown and I thought that we hit it pretty well so I thought I'd put myself out there & ask if we could talk more, get to know one another & he told me he didn't have any interest in creating a long distance relationship/friendship because he found them tedious and a lot of work. He said it wasnt anything personal and that I seemed nice & he wished me well but it was how he felt with a sad face & i honestly thought he felt bad or at least cared about my feelings but when I told him I was kind of sad that, that's how he feels about them and that he'll never know unless he tries and I think that it'd be nice just have someone to talk to, wouldn't you want that? And he lashed the eff out & said he thought he made it clear while remaining nice.. wtf that was beyond rude & he also told me to respect his boundaries and not to text him again & I got so mad and hurt that I felt the urge to text back & said if I had known he was so stubborn I wouldn't have said anything & that it was my apologies for wanting to try & know him better & that I wouldn't text him ever again. A few weeks later I felt bad that I might of offended him & decided apologize and he completely ignored it :( it's been like a month now & I'm still hurt by it, more hurt that it'll never be resolved.. i mean i genuinely felt there was something between us, was it all in my head? Or was he just mad or had a bad day :( I don't understand his behavior

My brother and his Girlfriend got into a pretty heated fight to the point that the cops were called that happened twice this week and now I got an eviction notice that says I have to be out by midnight tomorrow? HELP!

My father who has abandoned me gave me the name George Dugas. ('doo' - ga) I dislike my Father, and the name. (the name means someone who lives in a vast a wasteland) I want to change it to my mother's maiden name Weigand. ('vy'gand) However, my grandfather, (who I have an admiration for) might think it strange that I change my name. I am 15 years-old and might begin using this name non-legally, (and I am a person whom I believe it would be undesirable for someone to use it) and wait until I am 18 and change it. Should I begin using it?

I met a man a few months ago who I instantly hit it off with. During the our first date he did not tell me he was married. It wasn't until the second date that he told me he was married. I got mad and told him to leave me alone because I'm not interested in married cheaters. He told me that he asked me out as a platonic "friend", not as a love interest. He said he really felt a connection when we met and wanted to stay in touch to get to know me better. I agreed to be his friend but only if he told his wife about me. He said he would. He added me on facebook but we didn't see each other again for 6 months and we kind of lost touch. About 6 months later, he messaged me on FB. We chatted all night long. This turned into a regular thing & at least 3 nights a week we spent all night chatting with each other. We never got sexual with each other we just told jokes, talked about our common interest in music & movies, talked about the world, politics, travel, etc. This went on for a few months. One day he blocked me on FB and messaged me on another FB account telling that his wife saw our messages together and got mad and blocked me and said he can't talk to me anymore. I was fine w/that & told him he needs to respect his wifes wishes. We didn't talk for one month after that until he called me and begged me to meet w/him.. He said it was important so I reluctantly agreed to meet w/him. He told me he was in love with me and that he wanted to leave his wife for me. I told him I wasn't interested because I am not a homewrecker. I said that if I date him he will probably cheat on me too one day and then leave me for someone else. He said its not true. He said that him and his wife have grown apart and have been distant with each other for the last two years and that divorce would've been in their future regardless of whether he met me or not. I really really have strong feelings for him but I don't want to "steal" someone's husband and I'm worried that one day he's gonna do to same thing to me as he did to his wife. Help?!

We are not blood but are like family since we have known each other since we were babies. I'm 17 and she's 14 but acts and dresses like the average American teen for today's society (short shorts belly shirts or just a sports bra). I wouldn't be so weirded out by this if she wasn't always hugging me and hanging on me and grinding up on me sitting on my lap. I mean I'm a male teenager should I be getting erections from my cousin?

Current Situation: I am married and I have two children. My wife(26) and I(29) care for one another, but we don't get time together. My mother lives 20 minutes away from my wife and I. My mom is behind on the power curb when it comes to marriage, having a career and taking care of herself, when she needs food, transportation, etc she comes to me for it. However when I ask her to watch the children so my wife and I can have us time she won't do it unless we offer money, even if we do offer money she agrees but than blows up my cell phone, ruining the time. She doesn't want to be a grandma, doesn't want to help my wife and I, but expects us to help her. She's been giving her sisters this sob story and now they feel I should support her even if she does nothing just because shes my mom and need help....I don't feel I should I have to do that.

Young man mixed race white/yellow skin, Hispanic heritage brown eyes dark brown light black hair. Six foot two inches 139 lbs. Aged 17 clear skin. I'm not ugly I'm actually smart and I've been called cute by women who aren't my mom actually they're like 21 but still. Im a sweet guy I love carnival dates and dates where we get to walk around the city. I love traveling a lot. I'm a good driver too. I'm a family guy and have great friends. I'm a really passionate person I actually do love my life. I can play the piano, guitar, clarinet, flute. I can speak English, Spanish, French and I'm leanring Italian. I also love to cook. I know I'm artistic. And the 👸🏾👸🏻👸🏼 emoji is my favorite emoji becaus I'm more than assertive every woman deserves to be treated like the queen they are. I also don't sleep around mainly because I'm a virgin, yeah I've been hit on mainly by older girls who I actually do find cute but ive never kissed or been on a serious date where a relationship would be possible. I'm a nice guy I've noticed women look at me and this one guy told me his friend had a crush on me and she came to ask if he told me anything but I said no because I didn't want to embarrass her. I'm also a family guy I adore my nephews and nieces they're my babies ❤️❤️❤️❤️ The downsides to me are I'm soft, I deal with depression and I have a big heart so sometimes I get used by others but it's all love.

So, sorry for writing such a long question, but I need to get some advice. I have broken up with my girlfriend three times now, and the first two times were because I just didn't feel right. This time was because I didn't feel right, and I don't want to keep jerking her around. Another reason is because I think both of us need to grow up before we date. We are both 21, but our relationship has been very complex because I have gone through so many different life events such as getting my mom and I's house foreclosed on and having to get out in a week, my dad going to prison, court appearances with that, etc. I could go on and on, and basically it all sums up to the fact that we are both still immature and I need to finish college and find out what Im doing with my life. She graduates next semester. The only negative things about her I can name are: her family is very weird and narcissistic and her mom is especially rude, and she has some immaturities, and I list all these things, but for some reason I look past all of it and can't see myself with anyone else. So basically I told her that I want to finish school, and if we are both still single and willing, we could try again, and she said okay, but she wont put her life on hold, and I never expected her to. But I miss her so bad even though we still text. So I guess my question is, why do I look past all the immaturities, etc, and find myself wanting her more than ever? One more thing is we gave ourselves to each other.

If I told you (a catholic\christian) I am gay what you you say?