Family: Question: Feeling suicidal because of my dad??

Question: Feeling suicidal because of my dad??

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 01:48 PM PDT

Okay so for the past like two years my dad has been snapping at me for little reasons. Today he hit me and snapped at me because I simply forgot to do the laundry. He also threatened me by saying this: "I dare you to not have this laundry folded by the time I get home. I dare you! Next time it happens, it'll be your ***! It will be YOUR ***." This causes me to feel suicidal. Do not give me numbers to talk to people because I can handle it though.

Question: Depression or just a loveless marriage?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 01:46 PM PDT

I have been married 4 years to a man I once loved more than I ever thought possible but over the last year that has slowly started to change, I feel I've become less attracted to him and I have become distant towards him, He owns his own business which requires him to travel frequently so I am putting most of it down to that. I have a feeling he senses my change towards him from the way he looks at me and he keeps buying me gifts that I tell him I don't want or need. I love when he is away and I dread when he is coming home - no wife should be like this with their husband and I feel awful but I cant help it. He is very hands on with me which is starting to annoy me. He told me today he booked next weekend away for us, I had to pretend to be happy about it but the truth is I'm dreading being alone with him. I don't know what has caused me to go like this with him, He hasn't done anything wrong, I do love him but I don't think I am in love with him anymore. Its driving me crazy all I can think about is packing a bag and running away and being free because I know if I was to leave he wouldn't make it easy for me to leave. Any advice would be appreciated.

Question: Were can i get a joitt and weed fror my gran?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 01:44 PM PDT

my garn keeps asking me to gte her a jonit and weed but im only 13 so i dotn know were to go plese help

Question: What do I say to my narcissistic brother?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 01:38 PM PDT

First of all, don't get me wrong I love him to pieces But he deep down somehow thinks that because he (19) is a few years older than me (16) he is superior to me I personally think that there isn't a heirarchial divide and that he is delusional and enjoys talking down to me. He talks in a condescending manner as if he is a very wise and all knowing person who has had much more life experience than me (which just simply is not true). He also believes that when we are home alone together (parents and younger siblings out) he can make me do chores for him and give me orders like he is my parent because he is 'over the age of 18 and therefore my acting legal guardian'. I hate to sound arrogant but I am far more capable of doing things than he is. He can't even work the damn toaster. I've been getting by with just using sarcasm and logic as a way to sort of show to him that he is not superior to me. But what I'm asking for from you guys is a calm and well thought out phrase that I can use against him when he tells me that 'i have a lot to learn' or when he spreads lies to my parents about whatever I'm doing - which by the way is very annoying, I'll tell him something very personal and that I know damn well he did at my age (such as drinking at a party) and he will straight up grass me up and make it look ten times worse! Please help me out, thanks 🙏🏼

Question: Do you have a good relationship with your siblings?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 01:37 PM PDT

My brother was visiting with his gf this weekend. It was nice seeing him. Me and him don't really have a good connection in that sense. It's not bad but had we not been brothers we would not be hanging out. We are just very different people. My brother is very pretentious, even snobby to a point. He's a guy of few words and it can be hard to communicate with him. He loves football, I can't stand it. He likes the finer things in life when it comes to clothes/cars/things in general. I once spent 12 months backpacking and living on $15/day. I am also 5 years older so there is also a difference there. I just wish I had a closer connection to him because he is my brother. But it's hard you know. This weekend I had planned a bunch of things for us to do but he mostly wanted to be with his gf. Felt like I was forcing him. It is what it is I guess. Well he calls me at least when he needs help with his university homework. Hopefully it will be better when he gets older. Do you have a good relationship with your siblings? If not, did it get better?

Question: Why she wants to hurt me ?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 01:32 PM PDT

I told my mother that I got raped and we were arguing and she said hence why you got raped for been an idiot ... I felt so bad

Question: Please help me about muy stepdad!!!?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 01:30 PM PDT

I cant stand him anymore. He says that i lié steal and eat in my room. All of which I do but is nothing major all he says that I m stealing is food from our house which I don t know how is that stealing. He makes my room a tornado literally takes all of the stuff from my room and tosses it up. He calls me names all the time I m literally his servant because all mess in the house is his and expects me to do everything for him. Please tell me if this is illegal and if there is a way that I can leave the house.

Question: Teenage girls who can drive would you have done this?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 01:15 PM PDT

I just got back from picking up my sister at her friends house. Since it was warm out and I did not go in anyplace I drove in my bare feet and did not bring my shoes.

Question: How to deal with an incredibly clingy unwell 3yr old?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 01:11 PM PDT

My 3 year old daughter has recently been very ill, I actually posted on YA a few days back when she was going into surgery. She's had her surgery now and we are back home. She's always been a clingy child but the last few days have literally been hell. I still nurse her, as well as her 3 week old sister. She hates nursing at the same time as her sister but because she's been wanting to nurse SO frequently the past few days I am pretty much constantly switching between the two and am beyond exhausted... She's clingy to the point where if I go to the kitchen (even for 2 seconds), I have to bring her. And not just let her follow me, I have to carry her and she will cry when I put her down. Her surgery was only 3 days ago and she is still recovering, it's a lot for a small child to go through but I can't deal with this for much longer. My husband has been doing his best to help out but she won't go to him. I haven't slept or showered in 36 hours... Please don't suggest that I simply wean her because 1. There's nothing simple about that and 2. I don't have an issue with nursing, I have an issue with her being so dependent. A child can nurse and still be independent. Any ideas?

Question: Can parents have favourites?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 01:10 PM PDT

Like my brother never gets in trouble and I do but my mom takes my brothers photo and tablet but she doesn't take mine. My brother is younger that me be 2 years

Question: My daughter fell asleep and her boyfriend got her boobs out in the pool with us. should I pull her bikini up or hold her boobs?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 12:55 PM PDT

Question: Why do married men at work stare at my crotch and butt?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 12:42 PM PDT

Is it because they have lousy wives or am I their type?

Question: Is America not a free country when you are a minor?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 12:41 PM PDT

I am 14 years old and when my mom and I get into an argument my stepdad being the douchebag that he is intervenes. If it's over something stupid when I'm arguing with my mom( annoying my brother, sharing my personal opinion on something, etc.) I always say "it's a free country" or "freedom of speech". When I say these things, sometimes my stepdad will say "I hate to break it to you, but you aren't 18, it isn't a free country for you" or "until you're 18, this isn't a free country for you". I don't know what to say to these things. Is he right? Do I not have rights, freedom of speech, freedom of religion; freedom in general???

Question: Is it okay for a Negroe male to wear Caucasian male attire instead of "hoodies"?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 12:36 PM PDT

Question: Help my wife wants to leave me?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 12:28 PM PDT

My wife saw the questions I wrote on Yahoo Answers and I told her it was a joke now she wants to leave me! What do I do?

Question: I just want to get out get a job and do things for myself and actually feel like I have some independence should I feel this way?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 12:28 PM PDT

I let my mom control my life and I feel so stupid because I could be living and doing what I actually want to do. I'm 20 year's old and I just feel like I should be doing things for myself instead of my mom telling me what I don't need to do. I know exactly what I want to do with my life but it's like my mom just wants to keep me at home and from experiencing things on my own and I just feel so trapped. I feel like I'll never have a life of my own if I just keep letting my mom tell me everything. She's very overprotective and overbearing it's like she has a fear or something of me being on my own. I'm just trying to live for myself for once in my life.

Question: Babysitting tips?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 12:26 PM PDT

Okay, so im 13 and I m babysitting 4 kids this Thursday. 2, 6 and 7 year old girls and one 12 year old boy from 5pm-9:30pm. Its my first time really babysitting and the parents obviously wont be there. I don t know how to change a diaper so that s a problem and I dont know how to make sure they go to sleep on time. How do i keep an eye on the youngest but still pay attention and have fun with the others? It s also a school night and I dont know if the parents will let me bring my homework and stuff over there. Any answers will help:)

Question: My stepdad raped me and I can't tell anyone?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 12:23 PM PDT

For a little over a year, my step father has been molesting/raping me (I am 17). My situation seems to be a very bad one. I don't get to see my real father, my stepdad is the one teaching me how to drive, i have two half brothers and I don't want them to live without their real father, and I doubt my mother would believe me. I need advice. How do I avoid things flying off the handle? EDIT: You people seem to not realize, telling would make things spiral WAY out of control. Do you people not think that I have thought over the consequences?!

Question: My Dad lied to me this weekend. He is a liar, how do I get over my hurt and anger over his lying?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 12:23 PM PDT

I asked on Thursday if I could go see a relative of his with him who is in the hospital and he said he was going Saturday and I could come along. Come Saturday he said "no I am just going to go because I want to make it a brief visit" and yet my mother went with him. So he told me Thursday I could go Saturday and then told me Saturday I could not. This person's condition has not changed and it is so much like my Dad to say yes one day and no another, he is a liar. How do I get over the hurt and anger of having a Dad who does this and did it this week? @Jadzia Dax-----He is the parent who LIED

Question: We are never intimate anymore after birth of son?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 12:21 PM PDT

Me and my partner are both 20. And 11 months after the birth we have struggled to get the spark back in our relationship. Basically I still live at home with my mom and brother and am sharing a room with my son. My partner lives with his mom but stays here a couple times a week, we are looking at moving out but at the moment we can not afford it. We have attempted to be intimate at a night time but our son is a really light sleeper and the slightest of noise will wake him up so it soon comes to an end. Then in the week my partner is at work and doesn't get back here until 6pm and by that time my mom is home from work, so again we are never on our own. On the weekends my mom goes out in the day but then my brother and his girlfriend are in so still never alone. We literally are never on our own to even think about having sex and my oh is getting very agitated about our non existent sex life I feel the same and it upsets me because it's like he thinks I'm doing it on purpose and he just wants me to get anyone to look after our son just so we can have sex. And I do not feel comfortable with that I can't just palm my own child of on anyone just so we can have sex. I'm just lost in what to do anymore because I can not see a solution, my mom does help out with our son but while he's young she has said she doesn't want to have him on her own over night so if she does babysit we normally just go for something to eat or to the cinemas. Any ideas. Thankyou in advance.

Question: What do narcissists do when they can't get what they want?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 12:18 PM PDT

A while ago, my Nmom, cousin, and I arrived at our home from shopping, but we left some things not so important on the taxi (it's like a tube thing attached at the bottom-back of a wheelchair to prevent the user from falling backwards in case). I'm a very forgetful and inattentive person especially when I'm beginning to feel tired. Since my mom is an amputee and cant walk, she uses the wheely. Now, she's extremely disappointed, and then later she bluntly criticizes both of us of being careless/irresponsible/absent-minded (calmly which is weird) since we are somehow responsible for the things that she rely on us since she have limited mobility. And then later, she called the taxi company and then the things are (since it's two pieces) finally here. (Pardon my english) Is this normal? Am I just overreacting?

Question: My life isn't ruined please help?!?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 12:14 PM PDT

I'm 13 female. I'm going on a big class trip Monday though Friday. We leave the state tomorrow. Anyway my cut my hair way to short and I hate it. She said there is nothing she can do. My brother isn't laughing at me and making fun of me and I so yelled at him. I got in trouble for yelling and now they are taking away the trip money they gave me (100 dollars). My hair looks horrible and my life is ruined what do I do now?😭😭😭

Question: My mom wants to come to more of my football games yet she calls me a hoe?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 12:10 PM PDT

This year i started doing cheerleading for highschool and my mom hates that i do it. She's always calling me a slut and a hoe straight to my face for doing cheer. Also behind my back. Nothing hurts more than your mom calling you a hoe or a slut and it's something you love doing. She hates seeing me in spandex cause that's what we have to wear to practice and my mom doesn't it like. I live right next to my school and she doesn't even let me walk to it cause she says i look too much like a slut walking up the street. I've lied about every single football game I've had to cheer at to both my dad and mom because my moms just gonna say rude stuff to my face. Well last week was the first time I told them i actually have a football game and they both said okay. When they came to pick me up late at night, mom said she went to the game and that the cheerleaders were really cool. She was also talking to my dad how she wants to go more often to the games but i don't want her to go!!! I'm not gonna let someone who has called me a hoe and a slut because of something i love to do and then want to come to all my games!! what should i do if she keeps calling me a hoe or slut? what should i do if she tries coming to my game?

Question: Need help on what to do about a bad family situation? (Extreme)?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 11:54 AM PDT

So I m 15 and my brother is 21 and he got kicked out of college twice so he s living upstairs and has NO plans to leave since all he does is play video games. He "works" with my dad and doesn t pay rent or help with bills or anything. He refuses to go back to college bc he s a loser. No matter what he does my mom protects him and will let him stay until she dies. The whole situation is f*cked up and what pushed me over the edge is when he physically abused me today (it s been going on but got especially bad). I m 5ft, 15 year old girl and he s 6ft, 21 year old man and he seriously hurt me. My only option is to get A s in school and gtfo of there, which is what I m trying to do. But how can I convince my parents to just kick him out. He s trying to be like my 30 year old cousins that have NEVER worked, dropped out of high school, and STILL live at home. I can t really call the police on him since my mom will make up something and lie about the bruises to protect him... I really just want to die at this point

Question: Sister chooses boyfriend over me on OUR BIRTHDAY?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 11:40 AM PDT

My twin sister has been dating this guy for 2 years. She says she "loves him", which I get, but she also proceeds to tell me that she s hanging out and spending time with him on our birthday. And leaving me alone by myself. She keeps saying how it s "no big deal" but it s our birthday, that we ve always spent together. And she would leave me alone? I can t be the only one who thinks this is selfish. She can hangout with him any other day, but really , on our birthday?

Question: Is it bad if I dont go to the hospital for my family member?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 11:33 AM PDT

Hey my family member just got into a hit and run as a victim. Everyone in my household is going but I dont want to go this time because I dont know if i can handle it, she is in really bad condition and I dont want to see it but I am willing to go next time is that bad or am i just scared please help

Question: I want to take viagra at 16??

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 11:24 AM PDT

I'm 16 and i want to take viagra because i feel like i'm not getting fully erect and i dont get hard like i used to... i'm worried, i don't know if i have problems but i want to try viagra for one night, but how much viagra should i take?

Question: What would you say to someone who feels guilty for "no" reason?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 11:16 AM PDT

imagine the situation i'm, i'm gambling. theres two people at the table making most of the money. I have a really improbibly hand and if i play it i will win everybody's money, including that if the 4 other people who are losing over and over again. They are practically not trying, they're like people playing the slots. They like giving their money away because they think they dont deserve it. how do i take both their money and that of the people who dont feel guilty? i'm in the hole at the moment and i regret going to the table to begin with, even though to be honest i feel a lot better for some reason. yes, but those other people are like me. not all people practice self preservation, some people only protect themselves if their lives are in immediate peril and they depend on others. i didnt mean this as a metaphor for life, but it could be taken that way, and what you are saying (i'm sure this isnt what you meant, but it could be taken that way) is that i should kill myself

Question: I always sit in the house and I always feel like I'm missing something. My mom barley even wants to go anywhere what should I do?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 11:15 AM PDT

I'm 20 year's old and my mom treats me like a little kid. I even told her that I'm saving some money to get my own apartment and she asked why I'm in a rush to move out but I'm old enough to be on my own. She just doesn't understand that I need some type of freedom. I just want to explore new things and be on my own actually be independent for once and just live my own life. She doesn't even let me hangout with my friends because she's so overprotective which is ridiculous because I'm 20 year's old I shouldn't have to have permission to leave out and just hangout with my friends. It's like she just doesn't want me to do anything for myself. She doesn't even encourage me to do anything for myself so that's why I'm trying to do something that'll make me happy for once. I mean I love my mom but it's just too much sometimes.

Question: Opinions On This?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 10:57 AM PDT

there was this time that my cousin spreaded a rumor saying how i had a crush on him. But i didn't and up to this day people still accuse me of this. But i believe thats i am. not the problem. Because whenever people ask him questions about him he asks them what i said. and whenever i come around i notice that he watches me. So dont you think he's the one causing the problem and not me? Because whenever i say something about him he so eager to find out what i said. The reason i asked this is bc i want to stop this family drama thats been going on. Opinions?

Question: Should I ground my son?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 10:56 AM PDT

I lifted my sons cover and he was jacking off to that HD porn and ejaculated all over me. I made him lick his own semen with his tongue and made him sleep outside. If he ever does that again, I'll set him up for adoption

Question: My dad didn't wish me a happy birthday?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 10:36 AM PDT

He lives 10 minutes away. 3 days after my birthday, he passed by my home. He didn't even apologize. He hopped straight into making an excuse. His excuse was, "I remembered, but I had no money on my phone to call." What I was thinking was, If he remembered and he didn't find a way to call, that's worse than forgetting my birthday altogether. It wasn't even a public holiday, he could've gone out and recharged his balance. What do you think? Am I wrong to be angry. Do you think he's full of sh*t?

Question: Are they a scam?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 10:35 AM PDT

Are these sites that show up on tv commercials about finding your family tree and ancestry all a scam? I wanted to see where my family came from but I wasn't sure if they were legit

Question: Why are my grandparents so driven by the fact im not voting?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 10:34 AM PDT

For what i dont care about life here to me its shitless. I coukd give a damn about who wins (as if my one little vote could make a change). Im so sick of hearing this ish i wish they would stop talking about ( well dont complain if Trump wins). What the hell? They're part of the reason i can even find a decent job but im not gone get into it and now they not speaking to me. Well i say forget them too? I dont understand why they're mad. Even if i would have voted for trump would they have still been mad?

Question: Is my dad verbally abusive?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 10:19 AM PDT

I'm 14. He called me a ***** on a regular basis and even though I try my hardest to be a smart daughter he loves pointing out all my flaws. He's told me I look like a slut at times and this morning told my mom that she needs to be a better mother. I can't stand up to him or else ill be spanked. My brother once limped around school because my dad smashed his balls with a metal rod. Cps was called. I lied quite a bit cuz I loved him. He's broken my trust to many times and I feel he hates me. The other day I asked why he awaY yells at me Nd he said it's because I do everything wrong. I started crying in front of him and he says that I need to grow up.

Question: Should I do what my ex wife wants me to do?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 10:16 AM PDT

I am divorced but my ex wife is still my friend. We did not have any children. We email each other occasionally just to catch up on what the other is doing. She has since remarried and we have both moved on with our lives. I got an email from her inviting me to dinner with her and her new husband. She said he wants to meet me. I am not sure I should go. I don't want to become buddies with her new husband. I can not imagine why he would want to meet me. I thought most husbands did not want there wife to have anything to do with their ex husband. Am I wrong about this? Would you please give the good and bad of meetings your ex wife's husband? Should I go to meet him?

Question: My mom does not want to teach me how to drive, why?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 09:40 AM PDT

My parents are divorced and my brother went to go live with my dad and I told her when I learn how to drive im leaving to, do you think is because of that?

Question: Muy mom blames siblings and I for dad's death?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 09:24 AM PDT

My dad had cancer and passed away in January. Everytime my mom gets angry, my mom says that we killed my father already and we just to kill her now. She says we stressed him out so much that he got cancer. Does that make any sense? My siblings aren't the greatest, but they're not horrible either. They're just a little irresponsible. I've never have caused any trouble for parents so I'm not sure where this is coming from.

Question: My mom only lets me leave the house to do anything once a week.?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 09:03 AM PDT

My mom only lets me leave to hang out with anyone once a week so I have very little friends, she says its because my dog barks while I'm away and it distracts her from her college work but I think she does it as a means of controlling me. Is she being unreasonable trapping a 17 year old at home 6 days a week? I'm home schooled too so this place is starting to feel like a prison

Question: Why is my mom so moody with me?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 08:55 AM PDT

I'm 16 and literally my mom is always so moody with me. its like she hates me almost. one minute she is nice to me and the next minute she wants to yell at me and be mad for hours and I don't even do anything. she is never mad at my little baby brother or my younger sister. I am the oldest :( i hate my life. i work the hardest and i am the nicest and she still treats me like crap. how can i cheer myself up? thx!!!

Question: Ladies, How do you break up?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 08:55 AM PDT

17 right now but I need to be a trophy husband by my early 40s mid to late 30s. I don't just put myself out there I've only been in love once with an older woman but it turns out I was just the other guy. I wouldn't be bitter is buy you a purse a couple of shoes and a dress before breaking up with but what is the most respectful way to say it's over. I don't want anyone to feel cheated or bitter

Question: Dad being a complete douche?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 08:48 AM PDT

i dont even know where to start i have been working my *** of for my dad for about 3 weeks now all in one day i mowed the lawn raked the leaves rearranged his tools lying on the floor of the basement (basement is a complete mess) now im 15 years old and yes i am a stoner i used to steal buds from my dad all the time but i quit doing it now down in my basement i was drying about a ounce of bud downstairs i had it down there for about 3 days and i went down to check it and it was all gone just the trimmings were left i went into a panic searching for it untill i went up and asked my dad and he gave that sarcastic "i dont know" so i knew he took it and now he is just starting a big fight telling me to move out if i want to and **** he is being really immature on my part i am kind of irresponsible i lost my school computer and cannot find it everything i thought was fine untill this morning and he just keeps me lecturing me about my life and im tired off it he never seems to see my point of view i need some advice i was thinking if i saw the weed i would just take it and do the same "Oh i dont know what happend to it" but i dont want to sink to his level and my dad has put his hands on me before and he scares me somtimes i dont know what to do im so stressed out

Question: Is my mom ok looking.she feels plain?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 08:41 AM PDT

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Question: I don't know what to do..help?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 08:39 AM PDT

Hi, I am a 15 year old girl who has strict Muslim parents, especially my dad. He is a strict Muslim and due to his strictness I'm forbidden from doing anything including talking to guys, makeup, nail polish, clothes that I prefer, going out with friends unless my brother is always by my side or my mother. No phone for me (I'm using one right now but it's my moms old phone which she gave me once she got a new one, and the one I'm using currently is practically dead). I can't listen to music, sing, dance, do sports, etc. everything I like is forbidden. I'm also verbally, emotionally and sometimes physically abused by him. My plans for my future are dead, since I can't go to college, can't travel and live where I want to until I get married (which I'm not even intending to do). I even converted into Christianity at the beginning of this year since I really got into it and I love the religion. My parents don't know that and if they find out I'll be in a wheelchair. My close friends know about this and so does my sister and they're supporting me, and my best friend even offered me to stay at her house. I had an eating disorder and it was all due to my parents and I'm in depression currently. I told my mom about moving out and she started calling me a prostitute and that girls who move out are prostitutes and only Christians, Catholics, Jews, etc. do that. I got hurt by her words.I wanna runaway to my friends' house but i don't know what they'd do. What should I do please help.

Question: Idk what to do... help please?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 08:35 AM PDT

My mom rarely ever goes to church, and today she decided to. Unluckily, I woke up 5 minutes before she was going to leave. She never told me except for when I got up. Little backstory: my parents tend to take my phone or laptop away when I don't do something to their satisfaction. I understand it sometimes, but there are times where I didn't really do anything wrong. Right when I woke up, my mom was standing in my door way, saying to me that I shouldn't have slept for so long. I put the pieces together, and realized that my mom had decided to go to church today. I'm always able to get ready for school in under 5 minutes, so I didn't see the problem. We argued for a minute about me getting ready in time. It ended with her taking away my phone. Right afterwards, my dad came in and said "As mom's daughter you suck." I looked at him kinda puzzled. Then he said "You never make her happy, not one bit." He left my room, partially slammed my door. And now I'm writing this and crying slightly.

Question: How should I deal with my parents?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 08:31 AM PDT

Since I left for college I haven't really spent any time with them. My college is half way across the country so I'm pretty far away. They've always been very overprotective & I've never felt comfortable telling them my deep secrets or feelings because I feel those feelings will be shot down and they will try to "talk sense" into me, when in fact those feelings are real. I have been out of the home 3 years now and much have changed since. In those 3 years I have been home only 2 weeks. I went on a life changing mission trip, I have fallen in and out of love, changed my major, etc. Now I just joined this music group and we're making a film production and this has inspired me to finally do something with music. I've always had a nack with music and I pick things up very easily. I taught myself piano and I sing well without vocal lessons or ever being in choir until college. I have been working and saving for a banjo for months and yesterday I bought it. I called my dad before doing so and asked and he said it would be a waste of money because he never knew I wanted one and that I would probably get too busy to practice and that I should just focus on school. Well I thought "screw it" and bought one anyways because I'm done with the crap. I'm making my dreams reality and doing something with my talents. And I had worked for it. This morning they checked my account and saw I bought it and they've sent me a huge text and they're angry. Idk what to do anymore.

Question: I want to kill myself (I know just how to do it to avoid pain and discomfort) but I don't want to ruin my parents?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 08:21 AM PDT

their relationship is already ****** up. my mom will have nothing to drive her. my dad might lose it in a dangerous way. but I don't think I can wait the ideations are more common and specific and enticing

Question: Am I wrong?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 08:03 AM PDT

My mom complains about me being in the house "all the time". Monday-Friday I m at school 7:00 am to 3:00 and I usually don t get home until 5:00 because I m involved in clubs. On the weekends I like to just be at home and relax and my mom bitches at me that I m in the house all the time. Like big deal if I want to be in the house on the weekends I bust my *** at school and just want time to relax. She bitches that I m in the house all the time, but she s literally in the house more than me.

Question: Why is my mom so weird?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 07:56 AM PDT

I'm not sure how else to describe it but when I posted about a cockroach on facebook she got upset that I didn't call it a palmetto big she would say people would think that our house is messy, but there is a dog toy that looks like a dildo we have she said we should post a picture on it. Seriously that's not worse what I did? She didn't do it cause I basically said no I don't care what people think like she does that would just be worse then what i did.

Question: Why is that my parents never tell us stuff beforehand?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 07:47 AM PDT

So my parents decided to kill 100 chickens next week Saturday and we never knew about it until now. And she's making all of us help her kill it. But the thing is that, she never told us about it or at least see if any of us are busy that day. But no, she assumed that we're just gonna help her because she's our mother. We have our own lives to continue.. -.-' What do you guys think?

Question: Why don't my parents trust me?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 07:28 AM PDT

My parents have a camera on my computer and don't think I do my best with chores.... Help!!!!

Question: Why don t my parents trust me?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 07:26 AM PDT

Im doing school on my computer, K12, and I have a camera on me to make sure ilI don t play games like I did in the past. There are also a lot of other littls things that show me that they don t trust me. Also, in chores I do my best and they scold me about the things I didn t see. They are very good parents, other than that.

Question: Is this normal?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 06:57 AM PDT

So, I've got an older cousin who is 24. I kid you not, she still goes trick or treating and dresses up for it. Isn't she a bit too old? I've been too old for trick or treating since I was 15, but at 24 she still gets to go! -Bill

Question: How to deal with overprotective parents at 18 years old?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 06:49 AM PDT

I'm 18 years old, my parents never allow me to do lots of things. They only allow me to wear clothes they tell me to wear even though I never wore any revealing clothes. I missed out a lot of opportunities to socialise with my friends because my parents restrict the things I do so much. They never allow me to have a sleepover at a friend's house or to attend a party. I told them about my unhappiness towards their parenting but yet they yell at me and told me that I'm turning bad and that I'm influenced by friends who are wild and decadent. I'm pretty sure my friends aren't like that, they are decent people with good grades and parents that are reasonable. They don't allow me to move out, they say I've to stay at their house as long as they're living. They say I've to follow their rules no matter how old I'm because they are my parents. I honestly can't stand my parents anymore, I don't feel like living if I don't even have control of my own life. I'm already an adult but yet they control every aspect of my life. I'm going to college but they apply a college so near their house that they can fetch me to and from college. They're unhappy with me going out and I have to pretend that I'm going to the library to study in order for them to allow me to go out. It's getting unbearable, I don't even dare to imagine a future like that, it's like being a prisoner. I begin feeling depressed and I've contemplated suicide in the past. I honestly don't know how to live my life like that

Question: My Parents Have Taken My Phone For At The Most, 3 Years?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 06:46 AM PDT

I m a 15 year old girl. I m grounded because I wrote smut, listened to explicit music, and talked to my best friend about how we felt about certain topics that my parents didnt agree with. My parents say they ll give me my phone back when I REALLY submit to God and they see a difference (which my dad thinks is in about 3 Years, when I graduate). Should I actually try to get on board with them, or should I just raise hell? Also I ve gotten in trouble for sexual things on my phone 3 times prior to this. (I never sent or recieved nudes, or talked to guys inappropriately though) They won t let me talk to my friend who lives 2 hours away from me, I don t have any other friends where I live. My mother signed me up for beta club and I m secretary and she s forcing me to use her phone.

Question: I walked in on my older brother having anal sex with our boxer dog. What should I do?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 06:44 AM PDT

My HP printer is using different colors than what the image on the picture shows. All of the colors are full. How do I fix this?

Question: Grandparents, how excited are you when your children and grandchildren who live far away come to visit?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 06:32 AM PDT

On a scale of 1 to 10 (1 = "not at all"; 10 = "extremely"): How much do you love your children who live far away? How much do you love your grandchildren who live far away? How excited are you when your children who live far away come to visit? How excited are you when your grandchildren who live far away come to visit?

Question: I want to move, not happy where I am.?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 06:20 AM PDT

Hey, for the past few years I ve been wanting to move out of my home state. I want to move to Los Angeles with the rest of my friends working their way into the entertainment industry, so do I. Lately I went through a horrible breakup with a guy, I hate my job a lot. My boss always finds ways to humiliate me. My mom works at the same place and is always telling me that if I quit she will have a stroke. It s because I need healthcare to pay for my meds. But I don t want to disappoint her. I just want to get out and chase my dreams. I m 27 by the way.

Question: My parents are way too protective, what can i do? They wont even let me go living alone, even though im 18?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 06:20 AM PDT

They wont let me do anything i want, anything i want to buy..... like: Me: hey dad, i decided to buy a motorcycle! Dad: no!! I will buy you a nice decent car, once you got your license, i promise. Me: i know you will but, its not about car i just love motorcycles more, it feels amazing when you ride, and i have saved money for everything, a decent one, insurance......etc Dad: no! Its not about the money, its dangerous! Me: but you knoe im cowardly person for those kinds of things, which means i ride really really slow! Dad: no, going either slow or fast, once you fall you are done for! I will never forgive you if you buy it! Me: but dad........ Dad: drop it! This conversation is over! *sigh* for **** sake im 18 years old!!!!!!!!

Question: My daughters bra and dress strap broke in church. What should we do? Her right boob is showing.?

Posted: 16 Oct 2016 06:12 AM PDT