i got into this really upsetting situation with the guy I like and I'm having a hard time getting over it. So basically he had to move back to his hometown and I could tell he was a bit sad about so I thought I'd put myself out there and ask if we could talk more, get to know one another cause we hit off pretty well, he'd always share random stories about himself and one time we were talking about getting shots and he out of nowhere touched my wrist... and from there I kinda assumed we would have like this flirty/friendly relationship and it was for awhile. Anway, he told me he didn't have any interest in creating long distance relationships/friendships because they were tedious & a lot of work a sad face and i really thought he felt bad or at least cared about my feelings until I tried to get him to at least try it & that I think it'd be nice just to have someone to talk to, wouldn't you want that & he lashed out told me he thought he made it clear while remaining nice wtf.. that was beyond rude & he also told me to respect his boundaries & not to text him again and after I read that I felt so crushed and cried for like 10 minutes and just felt mad after that so I ended up texting him back and called him stubborn and that it was my apologies for wanting to try and know him better... and that I won't ever text him again. Eventually I felt bad that I might of offended him and apologized and he just completely ignored it  anyway, if you were him, how would you feel about it?

@anon, I didn't thumb anyone down. I respect all answers since I did ask your opinions. Thank you.

A um mês atrás sai com um garoto de 19 e eu tenho 18 ,saímos 4 vezes tava tudo lindo ele conversava cmg todo dia me elogiava e tal mas só era beijo nunca transamos.Até q ele some e eu pergunto porque ele sumiu,então ele me liga e conta q só queria sexo e q no momento n quer namorar e eu sou garota para namoro e ele quer sexo facil e q ia sumir da minha vida e eu disse q tava tudo bem.Ele sumiu durante uns 30 dias e depois disso fica me mandando snapchat algumas vezes mt obvio q é pra mim ,então avezes mando um para ele e ele comenta só q em foto de snap me elogiando dizendo q to gata ,eu realmente n to entendendo o q ta acontecendo e a verdade e q eu sou louquinha com ele e quero fica com ele de volta ,o que está acontecendo ? porque ele faz isso?e o q devo fazer para telo de volta por mais q ele n queira nada kk?

sorry its a bit long. why does my mom hate me. she always shouts at me and tell me everything thats wrong with me and start arguments and blame it on me. Then she calls my older sister and blame it on me, she called councilors and said i have anger problems (which i don't) and say i'm a mental syco. She treats my nieces and sister like saints and does anything for them, but she always stops me from doing anything. and she starts arguments to get out of helping me and there is alot more. HELP!!!

Hello, I just wanted to ask an opinion. My brother and I (Hes 18 and I'm 15) have been kind of enemies most of our lives. Then, two years ago, I guess he matured and we started to get really close. Like best friends, inseparable, etc... Now, it's just not the same... We aren't best friends anymore, he's not as nice, and we've just drifted apart. I can never tell him how I feel. He relies on me whenever he gets upset, but other than that he never has my back or anything. He plays video games all the time (and I know this seems weird, but our family we are very against swearing and his friends in the video games swear, and even if he tries not to sometimes he accidentally swears) and hardly ever spends time with me. Again, sometimes he gives me gifts or pays for lunch, but we never have anything to talk about and he's just plain rude. Constantly sending me mixed messages. Sometimes I want to cry because I miss my big brother. How do I get close to him when he is not emotionally mature, going down a path that I don't want to go down, have nothing in common, and he does video games all the time? I don't want to talk to my parents because they don't understand how he is and I just don't want to tattle-tale if he's accidentally swearing or something. I don't feel morally safe with him (he's kind of being his own person and I don't want to be like him). What do I do?

Duda por que en mis estudios de ultrasonido sale una variación de 1 a 2 semanas después de los días que tuvimos intimidad. El trabaja fuera y cree que estuve con otro. No es así. Ya lo lleve con doctores y sigue dudando x k nuestro bb tiene de una a dos semanas menos de gestación. M siento muy triste el es bueno y me apoya pero m molesta k siga diciendome k duda de mi. Por eso termine con el. Tengo 3 meses y un hijo de 12 años d una relación anterior. Mucha gente m dice k m haga tonta y lo ignore. Pero no puedo. M molesta su actitud

I've been dating this guy over a month, we have not had sex yet cuz he wanted to take things slow. We went away this weekend together & he did not try to have sex with me, in fact he told me he didn't bring me to hotel to have sex & he didn't want to be "that guy." Hearing this just made me like him that much more, even though I do want to have sex with him. I'm not going to initiate it or rush and ruin things either. We still cuddled and slept in the same bed. The next day we were supposed to get breakfast & do some more sightseeing & he just wanted to go home. Then as we were driving home he starts telling me about how him & his ex got together (he's already told me how they broke up) and how they were best friends & just had sex & started dating. He said he expects her to inbox him soon & he's ok with it & would like to be friends again. He also said that they used to hang out with each other alone while they were both in relationships with other people, before they started dating. I told him it was weird cuz they had sex and that I want my best friend to be my BF. He took it like I didn't want him to have girl friends or talk to anyone he had sex with. I told him that would be like me trying to be best friends with my ex while in a relationship with him. Now he's distant and barely talking to me. I don't know what happened this weekend because I had a great time with him & don't want to over react & confront the issue right now before thinking. So I don't know if it's that I didn't initiate sex or that he's mad I don't like the idea of him being friends with his ex like that. He's always preaching communication and he barely wanted to talk to me about this. I don't know what to do.

when this girl i liked came back to class cause she was feeling sick so she stayed home all week & on Friday she came late to class & when she walked in to class I was paying attention on the teacher & when I turn around i saw the girl i liked looking at me & i just looked away

Hey,there is this girl in my English class that i have a crush on,we talk regularly but we are both very shy,i think she likes me to,i would ask her a question about how her paper was coming along and she would just giggle and smile and answer,she smiles and we keep eye contact when talking and she laughs at what crappy jokes i say.but lately she is acting very shy or awkward around me and gives me 5 word answers and i am having to start the conversations,does she like me or am i creeping her?

I live in an apartment and my upstairs neighbors are from literal hell. Their kids run around the husband doesn t know how to play music quietyl and the mother is the worst part. She yells, stomps and yells at her kids to shut up when they re crying. This morning my mom yelled at her to shut up and the neighbor started calling her a ***** *** ho. So I need to defend my mom s honor. Any suggestions? (Has to be legal, though)

Hey, there is this girl in my English class that i have a crush on, we talk regularly but we are both very shy. she has showed hints of liking me back, i would ask her a question about how her paper was coming along and she would just giggle and smile and answer, she smiles and we keep eye contact when talking and she laughs at what crappy jokes i say. but lately she is acting very shy or awkward around me and gives me 5 word answers and i am having to start the conversations, am i creeping her? Also i may add, I really dont know if she likes me or not, she has showed hints, i even asked her out and she told me she just got out of a relationship 3 months earlier and she said was not ready to be back in a relationship, she acts normal around other guys and people but around me shes shy and 5 words sentences, am i creeping her out or idk, its really bothering me.

I'm not a super buff guy I'm far from being mr universe but I'm not overweight either I'm slim but fit and some muscle on me just not steroid esq muscles. I'd like to think I'm smart I'm 17 & have had all honors classes and an A in all of them. I'm the richest guy but I'm not poor either. I know I'm not ugly while some older guys might make fun of me for my appearance some women have hit on me and called me cute so I know I'm not ugly. I guess I'm a sweet guy this one girl and her sister always awe at everything I say or do. I try to dress as professional as possible as often as possible. I'm a family guy but I'm also really soft. I'm not emo I'm actually pretty social but I don't sleep around like everybody else. I get attached and emotional I'm not afraid to thank people and tell them how much they mean to me. I've a niece and two nephews they're my life support when a girl breaks my heart. I love dates where we get to travel around the city have a concordat ion and get know each other I guess I'm a nerd but I am handsome from what some women who aren't my mom but like 21-27 have told me

My mother has always been very irresponsible. Ive stepped in so many times. Ive even moved to another state to get my own life together and she folllows me and moves to the same state. The issue is she now has stage 4 cancer after not going to the doctor since i was born and im 40. The first time ger leg hurt and i told her to go to the doc and she didnt. For 2 years this went on. Finally she fell and was taken to the emergency room where they discovered the cancer. After getting treated ect. She then irresponsibly topped taking the meds and fell again and is now in the hospital i moved from one state to another prior to so she yet again moved with me as she was evicted. I tild her she could stay for a short time and she brought her pet rabbbit. Im not supposed to have animals in my condo. Fast forward she is in the hospil and this rabbit is too much. My daughter loves the rabbit and my mom is making me feel guilty to keep it. Her cancer is even worse so she will be in rehab for 6 weeks then who knows im done with all of it sadly. I love my mom but the rabbit has to go. Also while staying with me she got him a huge cage and it was bigger than she stated so it takes up a huge space ect... its constant cleaning ect.. and i dont even want to go home. Help

Now notice that that same neighbor has a red fold up chair just like mine., table lights similar to mine, bird feeders to compete closely with mine. Saw some coffee stains on my deck that I had to clean (not mine). But there's no proof that they're from him of course. Yet makes me wonder how much he and his wife snoop and spy when they know my husband and I aren't home. Thoughts-why do I get a sudden creepy feeling about them?

Charles is active on online dating, and goes on dates. but this week he is on a vacation with his girlfriend of 5 months. what is up with this situation?

My daughters dad wife wants me too sleep with her husband which is my ex btw too get me pregnant to give them a child. I find it too be completey disrespectful and twisted. His wife can not bare children and I suggested adoption and other ways - they insisted on volunteering me. I declined?. My daughters dad has not seen his daughter since birth 4 years. I let him come and visit his daughter every other weekend. I just find all of it strange and eerie. Thinking about calling my attonery and getting some kind of restricted visitation established because Idk what kind of people I am dealing with. I would never let her go stay with him. I do not trust them both. Not happening here Pick This. Irene because I just took him to court for child support. I just started the littlle visits Saturday when he saw his daughter for the 1st time in 4 years. Now arent you nosey Irene?

My fiancé and I been together for 6 years and knowing each other for over 10. We just welcomed our first child together two months ago. We both have children from our previous relationships. He relocated from MS to GA two years to be closer to my son and I. He has been in my sons life since he was one and my son even calls him daddy. My fiancé is great in the areas of being a family man, being a great father and provider but he falls short of his way of dealing with challenging situations that's between us. He is verbally aggressive and he doesn't know how to fight fair in an agreement we may have. He insecurities are tearing us apart. Two months ago I moved out the home we shared together because I had enough of my son having to see us verbally fight and being disrespectful to one another. Ny fiancé words can be so cruel and run deep that I'm ready to become physical with him. Even thou the verbal fights aren't happening every day but it's happening to many times that my son is now 6 yrs and asking my fiancé and I "why can't we learn to how to get along when we are mad?Now that I have physically removed my self from the home we shared and got an apartment I'm wondering if I should make this a permanent removal or just ride out this year lease but in the meantime see how things can go between with new forces living arrangement.

I screwed up my friendships with people. How do I start over with new friends and make sure I don't repeat the same mistakes?

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Ive always had trouble when it comes to being independent I always rely on guys and I was in a 5 years relationship and I relied on him with everything. And I ended up getting my heart broken and I told.myself I would NEVER rely on a guy again but I been dating this guy for 8 months now and I'm starting to repeat myself always texting him always calling him and just overthinking ans being an annoying girlfriend lol and itso starting to seem like he's less attractive towards me he barely makes the effort like he use to in the beginning.. I don't have friends so how would I make myself more unavailable for my own sake so I can be more independent but keep my relationship and also I feel like if I'm not available so much he might seem more interested in me.and make more of an effort to keep me .. what should I do?

Me and my.boyfriend have been dating for about 8 months and the first couple months he was always wanting to hangout and talk and would be all about me and once he finally got me things kind of slowed down .. the sex is good but sometimes it feels like it's jus a physical connection .. I feel like I'm the one that always wants to hangout and talk now and it makes me feel like I'm boring or something or he's just not into me anymore .. I really want to make myself more unavailable so maybe that will get his attraction towards me back and he'll work harder to keep me and actually do sweet things for me but idk how to do that? I don't really have alot of friends so that's why I rely on him so much but I don't want to rely on another guy again .. any ideas?

Don't know what's going on with this? So, I have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years and she is the love of my life, I can't picture my life without her. but recently she has been hanging around with my best friend alot, she went away for a week to his house (he lives in another town) and now that she's back he is staying at her house even when I leave...and when I am around neither of them really talk to me, they sing and talk to each other, am I just being paranoid or does this seem wrong to anyone else?

I graduated in 2013 and the cheerleaders that bullied me are either married, engaged, pregnant, or have kids. Could karma come to them soon? They made fun of me for being a fat braceface back in high school.

When my husband died the men on my street said they would help me lift heavy things. No women ever gave condolences. Hurt my feelings.

I saw a black woman with a white guy in a suit. The suit had swastika symbol all over it. The guy clearly a nazi but there together.