Family: Question: I dont want to live to like this!! Should i suicide?? My dad is cheating on my mom i gave her chance once but he cheated again i want to?

Question: I dont want to live to like this!! Should i suicide?? My dad is cheating on my mom i gave her chance once but he cheated again i want to?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 01:54 PM PDT

Tell my mom about this but i cant what happens if i tell her and she commits suicide...i cant see her in pain so i think i should kill myself and leave a message for her about my cheating father

Question: Why do my Indian grandparents hate me just because I live in the USA?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 01:54 PM PDT

So, here's what's up. I'm a 16 year old guy. My mom is indian, and my dad is from St Louis (where we still live lol). Everyone is always surprised when I tell them my ethnicity (I have black hair and brown eyes like mom, but I have very pale skin the facial features of my dad.) I don't really know any g the holidays, and I don't really eat any indian food. I can speak Tamil (my mom's language) but can't read or write it. Whenever I visit India, my grandparents always treat my cousins (who live there) better than me. They are always trying to convince me to live with them and eat indian food, which I don't like. I had my parents bring them over to our house ere fir a couple weeks so they can understand the differences of society here and there so they would get off my back. Turns out, that was a ******* bad idea because they criticise EVERYTHING! First off, my gf. We had a date scheduled last saturday. They say that people my age shouldn't have gfs, an they got really mad when I kissed her goodnight (I mean, it was only a peck, and they obviously don't know what ither kids my age are doing.) They also call my car (68 mustang) a death trap. They also criticise my fashion choices (apparently, my jeans are too skinny, leather is bad because either harms animals, I use too much hair gel) and my music choices (green day, FOB etc). They seen to think that I shoukd follow indian culture exactly. Obviously, they don't know how it works here. Why do my grandparents hate me so much?

Question: My daughter fell asleep while breastfeeding in a sling shot bikini on the beach should I unlatch her daughter and pull her bikini up or not?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 01:44 PM PDT

Question: If I flash my younger brother my **** and *** is that a crime? He's curious and won't stop bugging me...?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 01:44 PM PDT

Question: Please answer..?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 01:32 PM PDT

My 5 year old nephew choked on food and he turned blue my sister called me crying. I live an hour away from them and My parents are driving over there. I can't stop crying or shaking is he going to be okay? Please answer I'm so scared

Question: How can i get my son-in-law to support his wife and 3 children?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 01:24 PM PDT

Question: Family think I'm anorexic.?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 01:17 PM PDT

So, my family think I'm anorexic. I'm not. I've even eaten in front of them. How can I prove to them that I'm not anorexic?

Question: My 12yo brother likes to record me twerking. I make the videos for my boyfriend. Is this a good idea? He really enjoys it.?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 12:26 PM PDT

I try to be cool so I let him keep a couple the Vids for himself and I let him get to 3rd base. I pretty much have an idea what he uses them for.

Question: Financially dependent mother is mad I want to move out, I'm 28 years old.?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 12:14 PM PDT

My mother is angry because I want to move out. She is financially dependent on me as well as my sister. I am 28 and my sister is 34. We got into an argument because I told her I want to live on my own. She told me I am selfish because basically she needs my income and I want to move out. She has been a great mother. She worked two jobs when I was growing up and did everything she could to provide for us. I have my own bills to pay and I help with hers as well. Am I being selfish because I want to have my own place? She even went as far as to say that she wouldn't desert someone who needed her. I asked how am I deserting her if I still live with her and I contribute towards the household? She gets mad at me because she prefers for me to pay her credit card bills for her.I know all the passwords and I am basically her secretary. She will even text me while I'm at work to remind me to pay her bills as well as household bills.We don't own a home, we rent. What should I do?

Question: My uncle wont talk to my Dad because my Dad lost something valuable of his, how do I get my uncle to let me see his kids, my cousins?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 11:59 AM PDT

I still want to be a part of the extended family and it hurts a lot that I cannot be. The other uncle is on the side against my Dad so I miss out.

Question: My brother wont go to school, could he be arrested for this (he is 16 and my parents were called to his school today)?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 11:56 AM PDT

Question: I am nervous I will make a social goof up at a family funeral this weekend, how do I get over this anxiety?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 11:56 AM PDT

Question: My fiancé's niece calls him daddy. Is this normal?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 11:44 AM PDT

My FH's sister is a single mom (the father does not want to be involved) and my FH has basically raised the child since birth as they all lived in the same house. The child has been calling him daddy her whole life and no one has ever corrected the error. Now that she is 13 she know he is her uncle but still calls him daddy. I came into the picture 4 yrs ago. I have noticed how the child is also very jealous of me. If I'm sitting next to my FH and get up, she will run into my seat so when I return I have to sit somewhere else. She's like gum when ever I'm near. I know she probably feels like I'm taking her "daddy" away, but the problem is...HE IS NOT HER FATHER! When she found out we were engaged the girl locked herself in her room crying. Isn't this the act of a child of divorce when they find out their parents are getting remarried? I've told my FH about my feeling and he says my being ridiculous and selfish. He says he feels honored she should look at him as a father bc he knows how it feels to grow up without one. But where does it end? I feel that my future children have been cheated out of "firsts" in his life. She gets him Father's Day gifts he goes to her parent teacher nights. Not to mention he pays for everything. If she needs sneakers for school,his phone is ringing. She even said she wants this big fab sweet sixteen party. Who do you think she will ask to pay for that? I want her to stop calling him daddy but I know he will definitely leave me.

Question: DO YOU go shopping or eat out with FAMILY MEMBER who are NOT YOUR BIOLOGICAL PARENTS OFTEN?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 11:31 AM PDT

Question: Open Casket Funeral?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 11:30 AM PDT

So I'm 15, and my mother passed away on Monday. Her funeral is tonight, and it's open casket. As her daughter, do I have to go up? I said my good-byes Monday and saw her then, and it was extremely hard. I'm just not sure if I can do it. I don't want to see her like that. I just don't want to seem rude if I don't. If I did go up, my best friend would go up with me. I just don't know if I can

Question: I lost my music lessons fee. and it's a lot of money!! how do i explain to my mum?!?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 11:14 AM PDT

i do music lessons at school and at the beginning of they year we always give the music fee. my mum put lots of cash and the slip and she put everthing in an envelope and gave it to me to give to my school. it's been a month and i suddenly remembered about the envelope. i did not give it in and i have searched everywhere for it and had no luck -- meaning i have lost it. i have to tell my mum but she's going to kill me (not literally). HOW DO I TELL HER?!?!

Question: Confused by his actions?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 11:11 AM PDT

My bf and I broke up almost a month ago because I caught him cheating. I miss him terribly though. Even though I caught him cheating he said that he can't trust me because I went through his phone. I broke down and called him yesterday. We talked about normal stuff but no the relationship. I tried to end the conversation and wanted to keep it going. He told me that I missed me and I said I missed him too. If he misses though why does he not respond to my texts my he'll answer my calls. Why doesn't he want to see me if we both agree that we miss each other??

Question: Should adult kids be allowed to live at home blowing their money living like teenagers?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 11:02 AM PDT

My wife and I have a very different view on adult kids living at home and it has caused many problems and a divorce.my feelings were always ignored on the matter and she did everything her way.to me that's not marriage.i have no problem helping kids get on their feet but I'm not for being took advantage of just so adults don't have to have any responsibility.my wife had a 21 year old son who quit college,then quit a job making good money just because he just didn't want to anymore .he sat on our couch 2 year and blew every dime of 20,000 he had saved while he did work.he never looked for a job or contributed to the house.several attempts to discuss it with my wife were ignored.now she has a 19 year old daughter who moved back in w us after only being on her own 3 months.she quit college and worked full time.she moved back because her bf wouldn't keep a job.shes been here almost a year.no money saved,no attempt to be on her own and doesn't contribute to the house.while living w us she buys new cell phones,hair done regularly and buys clothes.again my wife sees no problem with it.has also got a credit card while living with us and maxed it out.how in hell can kids grown up to be productive if you allow that behavior?needles to say I'm in the process of a divorce

Question: My parents were bullying me to the point that I hurt myself. Can my mom lose guardianship of me?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 11:00 AM PDT

I'm 23 and my mom is my legal guardian for personal reasons. She was yelling at me today cos I wouldn't take out the recycling like my dad wanted me to. So she told me to get off my fatass and do it. That I'm lazy. She makes me feel bad about myself. I already getting bullied cos of my weight. The reason why I didn't want to take out the recycling is cos I was really tired. I only got 3 hours of sleep cos I don't sleep well anymore. I get ssi and live on my own. But my mom comes picks me up twice a week. Can my mom lose guardianship of me? Cos she was also yelling at me too. I'm pretty good about taking the recycling about when they want me to I just didn't do it this time. Also my dad mocked me when I said that I'm going to kill myself. Also another thing is that my mom told me that she is my mom that is why she can talk to me that way. I have pdd and ad/hd and I'm special needs that is why I have a guardian.

Question: Daughter has a friend who is 15 that is keeping naked pictures of her 10 year old brother on her iphone to blackmail him with?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 11:00 AM PDT

This girl is the biological daughter in the family and boy is one of 3 younger siblings that are adopted. Mom abuses these 3 siblings mentally and big sis is following in her footsteps. They already have social services on them for the abuse and have 1 child taken away. Should I call and report this about these pictures?

Question: Abusive mom?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 10:49 AM PDT

Well, my mom was pretty normal until last year. She started yelling at me in about July and now she's started hitting me. She burns me with her cigarettes sometimes but claims it was an 'accident'. She throws high heels at me too. I'm her only daughter but I have 8 brothers and she lets them do what they want. Sometimes she forces me to eat me food I'm allergic too as well. ..and, idk what to do.

Question: Is it possible for a young kid to have a positive impact on an adult? Has a kid ever moved you?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 10:48 AM PDT

Question: Was my dad a good person?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 10:39 AM PDT

I highly doubt it but I want your opinion. My was nice to me in my childhood, and took me to some places when I was little. He let me have a pretty decent childhood, except, he didn't let me have friends, he never bought a house (only an apartment) when he had enough money to buy one, beat my mom, yell at her, kicked her out, now he's all alone and he's still giving us trouble and saying that he's going to move in with us because he lost his job. I hate him so much I want to see him ******* die!!! I'm in a poor country in asia so I have no other choice but to be nice to him so he can move me back. I also had to be named after him!!! He made my life horrible! Can I have a decent answer???

Question: Difference between 'my parents are embarrassed of me' and 'my parents are embarrassed by me'?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 10:34 AM PDT

Question: My mother is worried about me traveling to Peru alone?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 10:13 AM PDT

So this Saturday, I have a flight going to Lima, Peru for 2 weeks and I will be staying with my girlfriend. I am 22 years old. But my mother recently called me today and almost begged me to not go because she s worried about my safety. She said she could not live with herself if something happened. My dad on the other hand is not worried at all. I think it is because my mom has never met my girlfriends parents before and she doesn t know anything about Peru or traveling internationally. I told her that I will be with her family for the whole two weeks and they will treat me like their own son. Anything else I can do to calm her down? Tonight my mom and her mom are going to talk on Facebook messenger to see if that helps.

Question: I want to be with my exes dad?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 10:11 AM PDT

How do I go about bringing that up or even mentioning it to the dad. No I'm not a troll.

Question: Is family really such a great thing?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 10:02 AM PDT

Everyone always says family is important and it happy and it amazing and great and you should enjoy your time with them. It's talked about a lot in school. I'm just a normal high school student and the amount of times I hear these things a day makes me sick. Not everyone likes their family. All my emotional pain is caused by them I always feel looked down on I'm always put down, have my things broken, attacked, every time I have to be in the same room as them I end up leaving crying. They don't support my morals or anything either even though I don't interfere with theirs. They don't support and look down on what I want to do. Music is my get away so I listen to it a lot and stay in my room to stay away from them all. They've caused issues with making friends and trusting people because I'm afraid of being hurt. I'm also learning Italian in hopes to move to Italy far away from them and speak a language they can't understand.

Question: How do I tell my mother I don't want to go on vacation? I've already tried multiple times.?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 09:56 AM PDT

My mother raised me and my two siblings. My 24 year old brother still lives at home. My mom is extremely clingy. Im 21, and I am going to get a full time job. My mom wants me to go on an 18 day (not including transportation to and from) vacation to Europe. It's been stressing me out to no end because she won't listen and is manipulating me into going. I've asked multiple times not to. She's suggested I quit my job or stretch the rules and never get another vacation day. Every day it stresses me out. I don't know how to get through to her without wrecking our relationship.

Question: I feel like I'm all alone?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 09:34 AM PDT

To be honest. The title says it all. My parents are divorced and I don't speak to my dad (my mom really tore us apart). When I was young and they got divorced my mom would put things in my head and I would treat my dad like crap, which ruined our relationship. He gives her $500 a month for me. I'm in college now & I have my own apartment this year (rent is 600 a month). So basically the only thing my mom pays for me is my cell phone bill b/c I'm on her plan and my car insurance (even though I give her money towards both every month), I'm still on her insurance. I recently had to get a new car, my payments are 350 a month. But my mom treats me like ****. She never gave me a dime and everytime I get a refund check she takes all of my money because she said it basically belongs to "her" and that I owe her. To be honest, I kind of just want to get on my own insurance, my own phone plan, and do anything I can to distance myself from her. She treats my older sister like a queen, pays her phone bill, electricity bill, and car insurance, etc. for her every month, and my sister is married! But me, I get treated like the ugly step child. I don't have family, as they're all connected to my mom so they all follow behind her. I'm just scared because I'm only 20 and I'm basically going to be doing all of this on my own, even though that's life. What do you guys think I should do? Better yet, what would you do?

Question: My Dad is always in a hurry even when he has nothing to do he finds something to make him in a hurry, what makes someone like this?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 09:25 AM PDT

When we visit people he cant stay more then five minutes because he is in a hurry and then he is in a hurry for something else. It is embarrassing. He is always busy even when he is not really busy. What makes someone like this? He did well in school so he is not ADHD.

Question: Why might it be that my Dad gets so mad at me when I am anxious about stuff?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 09:16 AM PDT

Why is being anxious offensive?

Question: I am a freshman , and I want my job to be a software engineer but my mother wants me to work in the medical field. What should I do.?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 08:41 AM PDT

Question: Why i don't have any talents from my parents or grandparents ? My father and mother are artists, my grandfather was singer.?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 08:38 AM PDT

Why i don't have any talents from my parents or grandparents ? My father and mother are artists, my grandfather was singer. Grandmother to was skilled in drawing and singing. But I cant even draw straight line, i cant sing, tough my hearing isn't bad. I thought i was adopted but unfortunately not !..... Only things i am good at is photography and cooking apparently my grand grand grand grandmother was great cook as she cooked in manor for landlord. And i can learn languages fast. Otherwise i don't posses any other talents or skills.. why is that ?

Question: Does my mum not care that I was sexually assaulted as a child?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 08:36 AM PDT

When I was a child, I was indecently assaulted and sexually harassed. I didn't tell my parents, or anyone, at the time, because I was scared and embarrassed. When I was 14 and in high school, I finally confided in a friend about it, and then told a bit of it to my mum one day. My mum said: "What?... you never told me!" But from then on, when I sometimes mentioned it, my mum would say: "I DON'T want to hear about it!" I remember when I was 16, I was still dealing with the aftermath of the abuse and would get upset very easily. My mum said: "while you're whining, your teen years are going by you" Now my mum was raised very traditionally. She went to Catholic schools run by nuns, not teachers, and she knows everything about the Bible. So anything that is taboo - or to do with sex - she gets angry and shouts at you like you had been whipped. She won't hear a word of any of it. So basically for years, I kept the story to myself before visiting a psychologist. When I told my mum I was to see a psychologist to talk about the sexual abuse, she said it was not true and I was wasting my time. She then informed my dad that I was to visit the psychologist to say that I "was assaulted at school". So I don't know if mum even cares or takes it seriously that I was assaulted. She is fine to attack movies that feature sexual abuse and similar taboos and talk about that, but never talks about my own story. the attacker was a girl from my class at school, who did it. Prior to the assault, I only mentioned the girl to my mum once - but again, that was before she indecently assaulted me.

Question: How do I get my sister to stop being so lazy about not coming to family events?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 08:28 AM PDT

Only thing she has attended is a funeral and a wedding and she left the wedding early.

Question: My Dad and his brother have had a fight, how do I get over my fear that if they never speak again I won't be able to talk to my cousins?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 08:27 AM PDT

My mother's family has always been chuppy like this where the kids of enemies dont talk. Like my mother doesn't speak to her cousins whose Dads were not nice to her Mom. So I am worried my cousin's wont speak to me again because my Dad and his brother had a spat about something my uncle said about my step-mother that wasn't nice. Like we won't be invited again around our cousins or welcome to visit.

Question: Who is in the wrong?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 08:15 AM PDT

My name is Kevin, I am 53. I have wanted my kids gone for 15 years, my son is 17 and my daughter is 18. I have been distancing myself from them for 10 years. I have allowed them to have very minimal contact with anyone from outside as I have had them in online schooling for 10 years. These kids are spolied rotten, they claim it is my job to take them to work if they apply to applications but no where in the law does it say that. We live off of a highway, my son and daughter are unable to walk as there are cars everywhere and no sidewalks or areas to walk on the side of the highway on. I did not teach my son and daughter how to drive at 15 and 16, and I am sure not going to start now. I have taken them before to apply for jobs, but no one hires them as they have no learners permit, no license and no car. They also have no money since they have never found a job yet because of this. Why do they claim it is "my" job to teach them to drive or drive them if they find a job? No where in the law does it say it is my job. It only says you have to feed and shelter them. I want to kick them out, or I would like for them to sneak out and never come back. I have wanted them gone for 15 years, my wife is on my side as I have ADHD as well as bipolar.

Question: I am devastated.. what to do?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 08:00 AM PDT

My mom and my 21 year old sister lives in with me and my wife and our 2 kids who are 2 and 4 yrs old. My Sister just came to America last month and still has not mastered the American way just yet Or maybe she is just not matured enough yet. She is the care-taker of my mother who has Vascular Dementia. She baths, cooks and basically provide her daily needs and keeps an eye on her daily while I am at work. My wife, who also works has to get up and get the kids ready for school in the morning...(bath, cloth, prepare their food and take them to school), while i pick them up from school because I usually leave to work in the morning before they even wake up to get ready. But my wife constantly calls me on the phone screaming about how my sister does not help her get the kids ready, does not do my daughters hair when she sees it is messed up etc... Basically she is saying my family (Sister) isn't any help. Meanwhile, my Sister cooks 3 different meals while we are out and store in the freezer for us to use that week. Anyway, my wife complains, complains , complains about my sister and how she is no help and how she has no common sense, this and that and how she does not need to tell my sister that she needs her help and should automatically offer help without being asked. I keep telling her to let my sister know because if i tell my sister, she'll automatically know that my wife has been complaining to me and that's another grudge waiting to happen. I am overwhelmed!

Question: It is normal for the father talk about sex with her daughter?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 07:39 AM PDT

My father asks of my intimate life with my boyfriend, asks if I use a condom, if I take the pill. I get a little embarrassed.

Question: Shall I spend Christmas with my dad or cousins?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 07:36 AM PDT

Shall I spend Christmas with my dad or cousins? I'm 31 Last year my mom passed away in December this will be a different Christmas. Every year when my mom was alive I always went to my cousins for Christmas. I haven't spend Christmas with my dad since I was young. I am going to my cousins for thanksgiving. If I decide to celebrate it with my dad I could spend New Years with my cousins. I know Christmas is two months away I could always ask my dad for advice. I'm staying with my oldest uncle for a short term I don't have a place yet which is why I'm thinking of celebrating it with my dad.

Question: How to hide instagram from parents?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 07:31 AM PDT

My parents check my phone regularly and might see the app. How do i make sure that they don't?? My parents won't let me have instagram.

Question: Is this emotional abuse?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 07:14 AM PDT

I'm 19 I'm having problems with my mom, and I'm wondering if this is considered emotional abuse. she makes fun of me, she wont let me go out with my friends. She makes sarcastic comments. My dad makes fun of me and she just laughs and I told her that i don't like it when they mock me and she told me that its just a joke. She won't let me do the things I want like volunteer at a shelter...have a sleep over, work at certain places. She has made fun of the way I talk, she has told me I'm lucky to have glasses because with out it I would look ugly. I was hospitalized for a week do to suicidal ideation and on the day I was discharged she told me I better get my act together and stop all this. She has told me to not go out with my friends because they're bad for me... She has called me lazy, retarded, crazy, stupid, immature. She and my brother talk about how they can fix me, and they plan my future out for me. Sometimes when we're talking about something serious she looks at me like she hates me or that she wants to kill me. She doesn't want me taking anti-depressants even tho it has been helping, she doesn't want me in therapy so I have to lie to her and tell her I'm going to class.....I can't talk to her about anything... I Know she loves me and cares about me a lot, but is this normal? Also she will let me go out as long as she comes with me.... I'm not allowed to move out

Question: Family furious over decision to elope. Advice?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 07:12 AM PDT

My husband and I have been together a little over a year and 3 weeks ago prior to our trip to Mexico we decided to get married at the City Clerks Office, We'd only been engaged a week but I knew I want to spend my life with him. He liked the idea of eloping but wanted me to have the dream wedding I wanted but given that our decision to be together was not approved by most we know because people were hurt in doing so, I decided that eloping would be the best option for us, we didn't want a wedding, we wanted a marriage. It was the best decision we made, our week away was perfect. When we got home I told my parents that we married before we went away, I was excited to tell them, My dad was really upset about it, He said he was disappointed i didnt inform him about it, bare in mind I am a 28yo woman. My mom is insisting that we have a big celebration party in the next week or two for our families to celebrate our marriage, my dad said he wont waste his time going because i didnt think of anyone with my actions. He is being bitter about this and wont even hold a conversation with me. Any ideas on what I can do about this?

Question: Who is my niece s half sibling s mom to her?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 06:59 AM PDT

My brother in-law got a girl pregnant. He already has a child with an ex girlfriend, so we know the two children will be half siblings, but what does that make the mom to be to our family other than the mother of my niece and niece s half sister?

Question: I honestly hate my children?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 06:46 AM PDT

My name is Kevin, I am 53. I have a son( 18 )and a daughter(17) 9 years ago, I started to distance myself away from them, I had them in virtual online schooling around that time as well. I have ADHD and Bipolar it causes me to have outbursts towards them often. My wife is normally on my side though. When kids were 8 and 9, I stopped celebrating their birthdays and made my wife stop as well. Was that the right thing? My sisters all have kids they're 23, 24, 22. They also get babied in my opinion. My sisters still celebrate their children's birthdays. Another thing, my son( 18 )and daughter(17) can get a job if they want, I could really care less. The only thing stopping them, is we live off of a highway. They cannot walk to a job. I have let them fill out applications before, no one has hired them as they have no permit, license or car. I have never taught them to drive at 15 and 16 and I'm sure not going to start now. It is not my problem. They have no learners permit no license and no car. I also refuse to drive them if they ever got a job. I want them to move out, or leave never tell me and never come back. I really have wanted them gone since they were 9 years old, Any advice? This normal? I am not a "troll"

Question: Should I stop talking to my mom completely after moving out?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 06:34 AM PDT

She just treats me bad sometimes emotionally one time she basically told me to stop complaining she was tired of it when I brought it up she acted like she forgot and she likes to ignore me sometimes I do it back just to show how it feels I tried talking about that one day with her to but when I first started to do it back she said you're ignoring me I said it's payback she didn't say a word after that had a guilt face plus she body shamed me the other day about being skinny she has done a lot more she will act like she didn't do it and won't admit it unless I put out my feelings on facebook because I have no one to talk to. She makes me sad sometimes I even might just not talk to her again when I move out possibly a restraining order if it gets bad. Sad but true :/. Seriously lol I was thinking of going that far only if I have to if it got that far not for no reason at all. I used to show only love but I don't let people just walk all over me anymore I treat them the same way they treat me now. Some people are tired of being nice when they don't get it back so they stop I am one of them. Nice answers on here would be great.

Question: With regard to parenting, what experiences or methods do you hope to emulate from your parents and what do you hope to avoid?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 06:30 AM PDT

I had an amazing childhood! Although extremely poor, my six siblings and I always felt loved and secure by both of my parents who were together (while we were raised) My parents always took the time to do fun things with us. Even with little money, they brought us places and did things with us all the time. Every year, we took fall foliage trips, went camping, etc. I hope I can impart a sense of love and security to my children the way my parents did. But, my parents were very religious and they imposed their beliefs too strongly upon us, I feel. As I aged and developed my own sense of what I believed in, or did not, unless my opinions or feelings were in sync with theirs, my thoughts were readily disregarded as having no merit or value. It is from these memories or experiences that I have developed my determination as a mother to embrace each child as their own person, including their own belief systems, thoughts on life, God, etc. I do not have a controlling bone in my body, as a person or a parent and it comes natural to me to love every child of mine for their individuality, including their beliefs however different or like to mine.

Question: How to make your parents let you do something with bad grades?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 06:23 AM PDT

so my mom wants to check my grades tonight, shes a pyscho b**ch who makes me miserable and never lets me do anything, so i partially blame that on my grades. im working hard to raise them she doesnt see that and she wonts listen if i say it. today theres something afterschool that i really want to do that she said i cant do unless i ahve goodg rades but i dont want to miss it please help

Question: My cousin lied about us fooling around.?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 06:11 AM PDT

Okay so let me start off by saying my cousin LOVES to lie and i mean she loves it so basically we where hanging out watching TV we and played some fifa but that was about it nothing else btw it was in my room so then right before she left she said (my name) why would you touch me like that and both my parents and hers when they where picking us up heard that and i got into a ton of trouble now i am not allowed to see her anymore and if i have a girl over i have to stay either in the living room or outside and i am grounded. fyi i am 15 she is about to turn 16 Btw she said how i "touched" her in detail before she left when i didn't lay a finger on her So how should i tell them that she is a lier?

Question: Why are my cousins so rude to me?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 06:05 AM PDT

How overweight are these people? https://s16.postimg.org/yboytd7ud/image.jpg https://s13.postimg.org/cgvfyen3r/image.jpg https://s13.postimg.org/67c99q2pj/image.jpg Those people are my cousins they all get mad when I tell them to lose 20kg how overweight do my cousins appear to you? They cuss at me when I tell them that

Question: I need your opinion please help?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 05:16 AM PDT

So when I was little, my friend and I found this porn site and watched for a bit. My friend then went home and told her brother about this site and he told the whole family about it. Since then, that family has hated me and broken ties with my family. They have the right to do so, if I was in their place I would do the same. So my parents over the year have tried to contact them and they have completely ignore us, my parents don t know what happened. Since that time, I felt incredibly guilty for what happened and it s been over 8 years but like this thing is completely eating away at me, I start to have anxiety when I think about it. The guilt is so heavy!! What should I do? Should I apologise to her brother? Idk what to do, I just need to get rid of this!

Question: How do I get over the pain of my only sibling refusing to speak to me?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 04:57 AM PDT

He refuses to talk to me because when I was in college I was immature and did drugs. I became addicted. I have since been sober for 15 years but this brother wont talk to me because I lied about him when addicted to get out of trouble. I have apologized repeatedly but he won't forgive me. He is a cold cordial if he has to see me at funerals or weddings but that is it and his kids are scared of me as if I am still an addict. The lie was little but it was more then once. I have apologized repeatedly and do in my birthday message to him each year. How do I get him to forgive me? It has been 15 years. We were close growing up (both boys) and now he hates me and gets others in the family to think poor of me. I am honestly sober and have been so I don't get why he doesn't see it was wrong of me but in the past. Our parents have died (our Dad died when we were 12 and 15 and our mother died suddenly two years ago).

Question: Should I keep dating him?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 04:47 AM PDT

In the 6 months that we've been seeing each other he has never once invited me inside his apartment. I've seen the outside of the building but he won't let me in. I have caught him dating other women even when he told me that he wasn't seeing them anymore. I cook for him and pay for his dry cleaning. He still disrespects me by not answering or returning my calls for days or hours at a time. We have fought in public. The other women have shown up on my block looking for him. He has blocked me from facebook and she Called my phone telling me they were with him and he still calls me and text me almost everyday. Now he will not come by my place anymore because his tires got slashed while he was there. He still answers and returns my calls. We still talk like friends but he said he doesn't trust whether or I was involved in his car getting damaged. I still like him and want to see him. Yesterday he told me that he misses me but he hasn't asked to see me. Will he want to see me again if he said that he misses me?

Question: My brother is beyond rude to our parents, how do I get him to see the hurt he is causing them?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 04:39 AM PDT

My question is how do I get him to see this? the story is below if you want to read it in whole He is 24 and has been like this since he was about 12. He was adopted at birth and he hates them because of it. This hate is like an addiction to him. Last August he didn't call them for over a week and they feared he was dead, turned out he was alive and fine and just not returning their call. No reason, no fight between them, just him being a dick. He has raged at our mother and called her a white f...ing b..ch and he even pulled a knife on her once. I never sensed my parents let it go to far except my mother would scream back whereas my father resorted to lectures and not screaming. He was sent away for 6 months to a residential school for at-risk teens but it didn't help much. Either way our parents are very loving and my brother is horrible. He is especially horrible to our parents (if it were just him I might like him okay other then his womanizing). So my question is this how do I get him to see this?

Question: I took my 17 years old son computer phone and tablet away and now he hates me? What to do? Help?!?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 04:30 AM PDT

Yesterday my son skipped school with his girlfriend. But he was unlucky because the princical call us to ask if he was sick. When he came home "from school" me and his mother asked where he really was. He lied to us. He said that he was to school. I said to him about the call. I was really angry that he skipped school, but i was more angry because he lied. So i come up with a punishment. I took away his cellphone his laptop his tablet and his mp3. I told to him that he is gonna get them back in one month IF his behavior is good. Well now here is the bad one. He hates me. He is saying that i Am not a good father. That i hate him. I dont know what to do really. Keep the punishment on or unpunish him? Talk to him? What to say

Question: How do I detach from certain family members so I remain close but what they think doesn't matter so much to me?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 04:28 AM PDT

Also so I enjoy seeing them but seeing them isn't SO important where I feel like I have to see them at certain times? My siblings I am mainly this way with (when they were living it was my grandparents)

Question: Why do children always fall in love with me?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 04:08 AM PDT

My name is Jason i'm 16 years old. I really love kids like i always play with my little cousins etc. But they always act like they're in love with me. They'll hug me and say that they love me more then their brother. They even kiss me and when we have a sleepover they be like i want to slee with Jason!!! And my friends little sister too. Shes 9 and is in love with me. She told me herself So why do kids always fall in love with me? Is it because i act too nice?

Question: Advice needed what do you think?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 03:56 AM PDT

My name is Kevin, I am 53. I have a son( 18 )and a daughter(17) 9 years ago, I started to distance myself away from them, I had them in virtual online schooling around that time as well. I have ADHD and Bipolar it causes me to have outbursts towards them often. My wife is normally on my side though. When kids were 8 and 9, I stopped celebrating their birthdays and made my wife stop as well. Was that the right thing? My sisters all have kids they're 23, 24, 22. They also get babied in my opinion. My sisters still celebrate their children's birthdays. Another thing, my son( 18 )and daughter(17) can get a job if they want, I could really care less. The only thing stopping them, is we live off of a highway. They cannot walk to a job. I have let them fill out applications before, no one has hired them as they have no permit, license or car. I have never taught them to drive at 15 and 16 and I'm sure not going to start now. It is not my problem. They have no learners permit no license and no car. I also refuse to drive them if they ever got a job. I want them to move out, or leave never tell me and never come back. I really have wanted them gone since they were 9 years old, Any advice? This normal?

Question: Should i move and start fresh?

Posted: 20 Oct 2016 03:14 AM PDT

My mom passed 2 months ago at age 47 im 27 i have twins both boys, age 5 im divorced, i live in wisconsin i have a job not career not has been happy here or going right dating life not working out, ,my mom was sick ever since i was in high school with heart failure. My dad never was in the picture , i have one sibiling who is in the military and he is full time and travels a lot says im welcome,to,come with him but i will be traveling as much with and thats to much on my children . i lived in wisconsin all my life and nothing but more sad and bad memories here. I have no family my,mom was all i had.i tried reaching out to people for mental support and some people can be so cruel and only use you for thier own benefit. Should i move and start fresh where would i move.

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