I left a note to the guy I liked letting him know it was nice meeting him and that I wish I had gotten to know him more & hope he texts me sometimes and at the end I put ps I leave notes for people I like and looking back I thought it was a cute sweet thing to do but maybe it was a bit immature since he's a few years older than me anyway, i had to call him to ask about something & he randomly told me he was moving half way across and I randomly decided to text him like a day or two later just out of curiosity where he was moving to & he never got back to me... so a few weeks later I wanted to be straight up & honest w/ him & ask if maybe we could talk, get to know each other if he wants to, cause I didn't want to sound demanding.. and he told me he wasn't interested in long distance relationships he found them tedious & a lot of work in general and it wasn't anything personal was just how he felt w/ a sad face & I told him I was kind of sad that, that's how he feels cause he'll know unless he tries & that it'd be nice to just have someone to talk to... and he lashed the eff out and told me to respect his boundaries and not to text him again & I felt so crushed I cried for like a good 10 minutes then got so mad & texted him back saying if I had known he was so stubborn I wouldn't have said anything & that it was my apologies for wanting to try & know him better & that I won't ever text him again. And then after while I felt bad that I offended him & aplogized

The guy who took my senior pictures recently came over to drop them off. I learned that we both got hired at a new, local restaurant. We started texting a little bit, since work starts soon. A friend of mine who knows him told me he's a little creepy, 34, and has a DWI when I asked her about him. After I told him I'm 18, he said it's good to know I'm legal, asked if I'd ever do a "sexy" shoot (which I declined to), and asked if I want to hang with him some day. He asked what time I check in to work on Mondays so he could see me briefly. We talked about photography and got to talking about other things. He asked what bra and waist size I have (to use for quick draw) and so that he could order clothes and lingerie for shoots and know it'd fit me - after I said I wasn't interested in another shoot, said that he's always admired my body, and proceeded to ask for a date. I explained that I'm extremely busy with school and didn't know if I'd be able to find time and he got REALLY irritated, said he felt stupid for asking since he hasn't asked a girl out in 3yrs, whatever, and would never ask again. I didn't want him to be upset so I told him if I found time I would & like him as a friend. He said he was glad he got me to admit that I "like and want him" after months of him trying to get me to. He continued to mssg me all night and I woke up to a bunch of txts. I don't want to hurt his feelings, and feel terrible that he got the insinuation that I want this type of relationship/interaction from him, but that doesn't take away from the fact that I'm very uncomfortable now. I'm not sure if I should confront him and risk hurting his feelings for an awkward workspace in return, or what to do. I just don't see how he expects something like he thinks is going work.

I'm getting sick of the city. Too much stress and anxiety. I want to leave and go far away. I have one problem though. My wife ain't coming. She says she wants to be with her family and friends. I'm going no matter what. I already made up my mind. Do you think it's time for a divorce?

I've lost a friend, relatives and a pet in just over a year (Being sad about a cat does sound stupid, but I really loved her. She would follow me around the house and 'kiss' me). My mom just walked in and told me that my grandmother passed away this morning. She left and I can barely feel anything. I loved her very much, so why can't I feel anything?

He and I dated before he went into the air force, we broke up because the distance was too much but we still loved each other deeply, we planned out getting married and having children ourselves. 2 years later I message him to see how he's doing and he confesses his love for me. That he has always loved me, that he made me a promise and intends to keep it....and that he's married. He said they are both very unhappy and that she absolutely hates him and that the only reason they are together is for financial reasons (either can't be without the other and survive).They have been married for 5 months. He intends on getting a better job and after his service he plans to leave her and see me. I am NOT a home wrecker, but I told him I will wait when he is a single man to have any relationship with him. What do I do?

I was just wondering. I mean I know married couples are 50/50 but lets say the spouse buys a car or a boat and the other spouse didn't know about. Or what if someone when on a shopping spree and whatever? I was just curious I read some questions about it so I'm just curious.

My friend jessy lost her sibling (Joel) last week, Joel and I were very close as he helped me with my down times in my life. Jessy and I mourn the loss together, share memories and give encouraging words to each other all the time. It's been hard on us both. Although jessy has been so very supportive to me, gives me advice and is so loving for all she's dealing with. I've been taking it very hard.. I Sent jessy a photo album with all the photos of Joel and I as memory's. Of course on the back of each photo would it would explain the memory. Along with a letter saying what a blessing she's been, how thankful I am for her friendship, love and support. Rather then sending it in just a text message.. What do you think, will she like it? I'm afraid she won't or I didn't do a good thing?What do you think?

This is a poll/survey. Just say what you like about what boys do, or what you dislike. This can be things that they think make them good but actually girls don't like it. So this is from the girls veiw. It can be about any boy (dad, brother, friend, uncle ect...) or your boyfriend/crush. Thanks!

We talk about almost anything. We're not in that level of friendship, yet because we rarely see each other. He's 26 and I'm 40 who live like 5 minute from each other. I'm not physically attracted to this guy. If you are in his shoes, what would you think if I ask him yo be my friend? Creepy or not really?

Ever since I was little I've always imagined myself taking my husbands name. My mom did, and her mom, and her mom, and so on. I'm actually excited to do so but now there's all this stuff about being strong and independent (which I am) and not taking your husbands name. I'm just curious if taking my husbands name will do me a disservice. Thanks!

She took the baby and went to her parents place. Saying she will file for divorce. What should i do? I really miss them.

I found out my bd is cheating with a married woman with a child ... I know where she lives and idk if o should tell her husband since the way how I found out was because they were hanging out together and she did not stop seen him after I told her my story ... I want revenges

I went through his phone and read his text messages. I got the other woman's number and text her from his phone. She did the same thing. She went through his phone and text me. She got my phone number from him and she has been calling and texting me since. She has embarrassed him public by throwing drinks on him and punching him in the face in front of his friends. She even cut up some of his clothes and left them outside of his apartment building. He told me that he doesn't trust me because I've gone through his phone and for all he knows I've been through his wallet and pockets. I was slightly insulted because all he's done is lie to me and tell me that he was no longer seeing this woman. I went through his phone just to verify that he was still in contact with her and still seeing her. He has stood me up with not calling. Now he's telling me that he is choosing not see me because he can't trust me, but why does he still trust her enough to still see her?

My neighbor stares at me ALL the time . its so obvious and he doesn't care that I see him. He never has a smile on his face when he does it . he will stare up at me while on my balcony for forever until I look away.or in the parking lot. Even when my bf is around. Hes about my age maybe older. I'm 25. People say its creepy but I like to think maybe its just a coincidence and doesn't realize it??

my husband was physically, verbally and mentally abusive for over 30 years. i finally got an order of protection against him. every day i went to my part time job he took more and more marital owned assets including motorhome, tractor, trailers, race cars, 2 corvettes, dragster, camaro and more and hid them before the divorce was filed. am i still entitled to these assets.?hes says he sold them years ago or they were friends when they were physically in my yard for over 10 years and some i have copies of titles to. what about the ones i dont have copies of titles to, but everyone knows we had them. can i bring witnesses in to court.?

I find this very weird, but I came from vacation I (27 y/o) was out of the country for like two months, so I came back and I went out with my boyfriend (36y/o) yesterday and before we were getting read for him to bring me back home , he told he did not want me to say ''hello'' to his front house neighbor which happens to be a girl and her family, and in fact I happen to know her from the gym that I used to go, anyway I asked him why? And he said because he had parked the car close to her house the other days and they were looking at him in a weird attitude manner since he is a foreigner he has these ''ideas'', and when we were walking out of his house he told me to walk towards the front of the car and not behind the car (which was closer to her since she was outside chatting with some other girl) I wonder if he has cheated with her because I find it so weird that he did not want me to say ''hello'' to her, he was like '' I don't want you to say ''hello'' to those people'' The real reason I don't know,,,, I mean they are poor and we live in the Caribbean, but I still find it Awkward and weird, what do you think? I would love to see her one day and ask her stuff, but I don't have her mobile, neither her Facebook, but I would love to.

He recently got arrested for dv he choked and punched me. I forgave him because he never hurt me that bad before. I don't want to leave because something is wrong with him because he is a good guy he took care of me and his family and he forgave me for my many wrongs and arguments insecurities and fights. The day he choked me and punched me in said some pretty hurtful things that day to him. so I'm not the typical victim and I don't feel in fear. because I know you get what you put in. But he said sorry for hitting me and choking me and he is now back home. But this is the end of this roller-coaster for me. I want to be healed and get my mental health in order. I told my husband I want to leave and I'm taking our son. He has been crying confused and hurt that I'm leaving and it makes me feel so bad. He feels like I'm giving up on us. what's even harder is that he forgave me for worse and stayed but all it did was get worse for us to stay together.

It feels like everything and everybody I invest in disappears? And I go through an withdrawal phase which leaves me empty time and time and eventually i will become empty. My only friend that I made at work is leaving because she was choose to go to a different location like everyone else. *I really don't lose people that could be easily replaced its the people who you see something in that you will not see ever again in a lifetime.* If you dealt with this before or believe or could understand, how should i cope? Feeling alone.

Sometimes I wonder if people do things because they genuinly want to do them or because that's what you are suppose to do. For instance this whole family, house, kids, dog and all that. It feels like you are almost forced to do it. Like that is the right thing to do. And any other way is unacceptable and deemed as a failure. Do you feel like that sometimes?

The guy who took my senior pictures recently came over to drop them off. I learned that we both got hired at a new, local restaurant. We started texting more, since work starts soon. A friend of mine told me he's a little creepy, 34, and has a DWI when I asked her about him. After I told him I'm 18, he said it's good to know I'm legal, asked if I'd ever do a "sexy" shoot which I declined to, and asked if I want to hang with him someday. He asked what time I check in to work on Mondays so he could see me briefly. We talked about photography and got to talking about other things. He asked what bra and waist size I have (to use for quick draw) and so that he could order clothes and lingerie for shoots and know it'd fit me, said that he's always admired my body, and proceeded to ask for a date. I'm extremely busy with school and didn't know if I'd be able to find time and he got REALLY upset, said he felt stupid for asking since he hasn't asked a girl out in 3yrs, and would never ask again. Of course I'm an idiot, and told him if I found time I would. I told him that I liked him since he asked (as a friend) and he said he was glad he got me to admit that I "like and want him" after months of him trying. I said I was going to bed, he continued to text me, &I woke up to a bunch of mssgs. I don't want to hurt his feelings, and feel terrible that he got the insinuation that I want this type of relationship/interaction from him, but that doesn't take away from the fact that I'm very uncomfortable now. I'm not sure if I should confront him and risk hurting his feelings for an awkward workspace in return, or what to do.

So my girlfriend doesn t live with her mom and isn t close to her because her other is on drugs like meth. She calls me all the time crying about how her mom is looking worse every time she sees her and how her mom calls her a ***** for reason. All I say is she needs to get help and not to take it too personal and that her mom is going through it with her self. I have no idea what to do and I feel like I am not the right person for this situation , I will support but I cannot give any advice because I do not know how. What can she do?????

I'm 7 Months Pregnant Sometimes i get angry and slap and punch my husband alot, it's okay cause i'm a girl but he came home from work tired, and when i asked him to give me a footrub because my feet are hurting he said he was tired and went to the bed, i kept trying to talk to him because i was bored, but he sweared at me and said i need to sleep. I got really angry and punched him 10 times in his face. He got super angry and punched me in the face and stomach alot and said he's so tired of me and wants nothing to do with my baby and me. he forced me to get in my car and i slept there for the night, he hasn't returned any of my calls or texts, and i'm at my moms house. i'm astounded that he'd hit a girl, a pregnant one! i think he's abusive... i didn't call the cops because i'd probably get arrested because i hit him first, i'm alone and scared.. i'm unemployed and i don't really have any money and cant raise this baby alone, what to do??

I messed up, how do I get my wife back? I love my wife. Let me say that first, she and I have been married for a year and a half. So we live in Provo Utah but I have been dealing with some stuff and so I took up very heavy drinking. When I was drinking I would pass out drunk and wake up hung over the next day, shower brush my teeth use mouth wash and go to classes/work. One night when drinking I fell and hit my head and broke both my legs, I fell down the stairs. Anyway I was given some pain medicine and started taking it with alcohol and was rushed to the ER. I guess the final straw was when my wife tried to take my vodka away and I pushed her....I hate to admit that that happened. I do not like to think about what that does to her. I am experiencing night terrors from being abused as a child, was homeless for four years until a family from my church took me in. I am a damaged man wanting to get help but I don't want to deal with these feelings alone how do I get her back? I need her to be there with me when I go to counseling and I need her to be there when I get back. As you can tell from the question my wife left me and went to stay with her sister at her place. She said I need to think about us. How do I apologize and show I want to get better.

Why is my wife still fat after only having one child??? I am so sick of it, I got her gym? membership (fancy gym too) when sheasked for one,swearing she would use it all the time...so far she has only used it about 4 total times since december...i bought all healthy food likeshe asked, i paid for her expensive workout clothes and 2 new shoes to wear at the gym...but she is still fat and its just turning me off, our kid is 2 years old, i think that is enough time to have lost the weight, i know lots of other women who managed to get back to pre baby weight after having kids only a year later! I know i probably sound rotten to you but this is serious, she does ZERO to do anything about it, she whines and complains i look at other women (sorry but women are everywhere, i dont stare!) she says she is trying but wheni come home fro work she is right there on the couch, with a blanket and still in her sweat pants she wore to bed the night before, its gross and im fed up...i met her when she was about 130 pounds at 5,4 and she is now about 200 pounds..and it shows...she does nothing about it, but complain shes fat and i get home and she does nothing, the house is usually messy and she has LOTS of time when im home to go out to the gym...she doesnt,...i dont knowwhat to do, i really dont find her attractive anymore, she looks like a melted candle...i guess thats mean but still...help!

I really wanna do it sitting right on my front porch!

If two people are at point A and they both have to get to point B at the same time. Person 1 has a car and person 2 always has gas money ready. Why should person 2 have to call someone else to give her a ride? My boyfriend and I argued about this for hours and it's still not resolved. He feels like my sorority sister should find another ride to our meetings although we are like neighbors and have to be at the same place for our meetings. (My fiance doesn't ride) He doesn't like her, he doesn't like any of my friends but that's not the question. Can anyone help me understand?

Some time ago I made this Xbox gamer friend that I really enjoyed gaming with. Then after a couple months of being his friend there was drama that started. I joined an Uno game that he was playing with his lady gamer friend. After the game was over she kicked me from the game for no reason. I got angry because he wouldn't talk to her to be nicer to me so I started sending him hate messages about her. He finally got fed up and he deleted me and blocked me. A couple years later I had a gamer friend of mine talk to him about adding me and he said no. I was really bent about that Now the past several months I asked out a few ladies and they all said no. I wasn't as bent about that than my old gamer friend not wanting to be friends with me. Now shouldn't it be the other way around? Why was I more bent about my old gamer friend deleting me than being rejected by a lady?

Mañana cumple años mi ex, no se si regalarle algo, verán ya tengo 3 meses sin nada de contacto, contacto 0, hace como 2 meses nos tiramos indirectas con imagenes en facebook obvio positivos, yo publicaba algo, ella igual lo hacía obvio con nuestro respectivo like! Solo quiero saber si puedo recuperarla! Les agradecería mucho! La quiero mucho aún, después de 1 año que terminamos siento muy dentro de mi que aún puede resurgir algo! Un amigo hace poco regresó con su ex, despues de 2 años de ruptura y eso mantiene mis esperanzas un poco! Ella en mi cumpleaños que fue hace poco si se acordó de mi, inclusive su mamá se acordó de mi cumpleaños! Sus hermanos! Solo quiero tenerla de vuelta y daría muchisimas cosas por tenerla de vuelta! La he buscado, pero por cosas del destino ya no nos hemos hablado! De antemano muchas gracias! Pd: Pienso enviarle un arreglo de flores y una dotación de dulces, de sus favoritos!

I don't feel right about our Son being good friends with our neighbor's daughter. How do you feel about this? They've only been friends since this past summer. Each of them is in 3rd grade but Cynthia is only seven. This is my Son's first friend who is a girl! Cynthia on the weekends is usually wearing one of her many short dresses like she had on today. I think she is cute but i am not thrilled with her wearing these cute dresses. I have reminded Johnny to act respectful if Cynthia's undies might show. Another boy I heard laughed at her undies cause they are white nylon. What happen this afternoon is I took Cynthia home when her Father called she got a spanking while I talking with her Mother in the kitchen. In the living room her Father put her across his lap with her dress up showing her white underpants. I guess Phil has nothing to hide to do this I was there??? I told my Husband how Phil spanked and he said it sounds normal. Would you agree with this??? Cynthia appear to not be harshly spanked (hard licks or with other then Daddy's hand) but instead she got spanked on her underpants for what seemed a few minutes. Just a longer experience across Daddy's lap instead of making it really hurt is better?? I guess I am just not used to girls that are that age. My Husband reminds me that little girls Cynthia's age like to wear short dresses yet sometimes they get spankings. Should I not worry about my Son's friendship with Cynthia???

Not forcibly and I don't want to disrespect her but she's an attractive young woman whom I happen to care for & find sexy

My girlfriend asked that I book a plane ticket to go see her (were doing a semester apart)... I spent $400 on a plane ticket to visit her and she suddenly decided that she no longer wanted to be in a relationship. Should she pay me back for the plane ticket?

Does that mean you affected them that much ? My ex now broke up with me with no closure on Tuesday because I found out something then when I confronted him he's like "I love you but can't deal with this rn I'll text you later" and he never did!! He blocked my number actually so there's no closure . I am making a trip to New York for a while and I'm posting tons of selfies and such how fun I'm having Etc. it's funny because when we were dating he never deleted his exs or girls he liked but he UNFOLLOWED ME!!! What does that mean ???

I recently emailed an old contact of mine, asking for a fairly big and personal favor. I sent the email, explaining the situation, he replied back relatively quickly, saying he'd pray about my suggestion. I waited about 3 business days, and sent an email to him, mainly contact info but more an attempt to get a reply. It has now been 10 days since his reply, and I really need a response. This is a big issue, and it has been stressing me for a while now. When is the appropriate time to email him again, if at all, and what is a good way to ask for an answer? Thanks

Help should I break up with him? My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. The past year I've been dealing with a lot of stress with him. He'll wake up really early to call all these girls and friends then after I wake up he'll go back to sleep. I finally got a job and sometimes I have to work over night but when I do I don't even hear from him at all. He shuts his phone off or won't answer me for hours. Lately he's been "sneaking" out of the house early morning before I wake up and doesn't tell me where he's going.. I've thought maybe there's something he's not happy with so when I am home I try to make him happy like take him out or cook him stuff he likes.. but its fine for that moment then it gets back to the same.. we've had many fights about this and each time I get I love u and Im sorry but its almost like the next hour or day he'll forget and it's the same thing. Idk what to do I stress every time.

In this area the people are intolerant towards different, they all seem to have a vicious outburst of wrath, there are barely any races out here other than white folks. The people tends to have a desire to bully, to start stuff. they seem to 'get off' by hurting animals. They seem to go bezerk when they are faced with a personality and individuality, and a different background, for everyone out here talks the same way and dresses alike and has the same background. What is wrong with this area?

I'm nearly 28, SO is nearly 35. We have a great relationship and talk of marriage and children. Emotionally, I feel ready for a child now (or very soon). I understand what comes with taking care of a child, but I want that responsibility. To love and care for our child. My SO is completely on board with having a child if/when I want. My concern: finances. I have read so many stories and listened to folks say that raising a child on $20-30k/year is doable. And while I think yes, it could be, because we're both content with very little and I'm cautious with spending, I still wonder... We both work FT. Before taxes, I bring in about $25k and he brings in $20k. A combined total of $45k/year before taxes. In part this seems like 'enough', but then I think about the 'what if' scenarios and not being able to afford costs of living. I wonder if I should wait until I'm 30-35 before trying; maybe we would be earning more. Then again, maybe we wouldn't. Money isn't everything, but I want to be able to afford a decent life for my child(ren). My SO seems less concerned about the financial aspect. He states not to worry, a way will always be found. Do any of you have experiences with raising children on an income of $20-40k? How doable is this? Is the 'right' time now, when I feel emotionally ready, or waiting another 5 years to see if by some miracle our income is increased an additional $10k/year? (Although, at 35, SO really doesn't want to wait more than another 2-4 years).

Ever since I was young I loved this girl. We couldn't be together because she lived too far, and we were too young to make it work and we both knew it. We saw each other once a year every summer for many years, and we talked very often throughout the year for a long time. We haven't seen each other in 5 years, and haven't talked in about 2. In the past year she met and married a new, different man. I was heartbroken even though we hadn't talked in all these years. Recently, she reached out to me just to see how I was doing. It was so clear to both of us that our connection was still there and strong as ever. Recently our conversation began to get sexual. I didn't mean for it to go there I don't think she did either it just did. We always loved each other and we still do, even though we haven't admitted it yet. We keep saying we need to see each other but I don't want to cross any lines since she is now married. She says things in her marriage moved to fast she barely knew him before they got married and she doesnt see it lasting much longer. I want her to leave him on her own terms and not because of me but I can not help myself because I love her so much. It has been years of not seeing her and our love and connection is just as strong as it ever was. Now that we are older we would be able to be together and make it work, but she is married and I don't want her to betray her husband. We have been in love for so long it is so real, we are meant to be together. Please help. Just because we couldn't be together doesn't mean we wouldn't have been all those years ago. We loved each other and still do, we both just assumed the other's feelings had gone away and we were embarrassed that our own hadn't faded after all that time. She will forever be the one that got away. I never thought I would believe in soulmates, but she is mine. I don't want to be the one to break up a marriage. But it is not sin to love someone. After all, I loved her first. And it is NOT just because I am horny for her. Am I attracted to her? Yes extremely, but that is not it. I love her, every part of her. The person she is, the way she makes me feel, how easy it is between us. I always have loved her and always will.

Been married 7 yrs. Husband is always delegating to me. He tells me how to cook, what to give our son etc. Today we had an argument as usual and he threw a large chunk of food in my face. It stung. I'm not sure what to do?

So his brother that is 40 years old and were 27 has been asking for money ever since we moved to texas. We came to texas for a better opportunity we use to live in miami.My husband got a better job. And since then his brother that lives in Nicaragua has been non-stop asking for money. Not like $20 but like $100 dollars. The first time we gave him $50 and I was ok with that. There's nothing wrong helping family if they need and you have a lil bit extra. But now biweekly that my husband gets paid. His brothers ask for money. And he doesn't take no for an answer. He will manipulate my husband with were better than him. His mom didn't give him money and makes the whole guilt trip on my husband. And my husband falls for it. And now is even going against my will and sending him money. I told him that today was the last time. We have 2 little boys and we need the money. His been supper mean. And told me today that he known his brother more than me. I was shock he said that. First he hasent hasn't seen his brother for like 15 years. And I been the one always there for him. Nobody else has. And he basically told me his brother 40 year old brother is more important than me. That's stupid how could that be.

My best friend and I have known each other since Pre-K. A few years ago, l had a boyfriend who I loved very much. We broke up, and 3 years later, we're still in the same classroom. I get along very well with my ex, lately we've been talking a lot more. We text, call, hang out and laugh. We are both VERY CLEAR ON THE FACT THAT THIS IS JUST A FRIENDSHIP. However, everyone at school always thinks we're a couple again (which doesn't really bother me, I get it. It's curiosity and I'm fine with it.) what really bothers me is my closest friends' really immature and inappropriate comments. I've made it perfectly clear that the comments and the jokes annoy me. And we've been friends for so long, I don't want to lose their friendship. The other day I was talking to him, then I turned my seat around to talk to her, I told her I had shaved my legs (bc we joke around about that) and she yells "I guess being in love makes your legs extra smooth, right?" It pisses me off so much! The whole class burst in "OHHHH"s and "Awww"s. After, she came towards me and whispered "I love you, I only joked about it because you've been ignoring me." That is bullcrap, I know she did it so the whole class would hear her obnoxious comment and laugh with her. This whole situation has changed my mood completely. I've stopped talking, stopped being the class clown and stopped trying to talk to them as much. What should I do? Should I keep giving her a chance? Or should I just stop talking with her?

he likes sniffing my stinky feet and licking them too. does he love me?

Well he was cheating on me with another girl and the girl messaged me asking to leave her bf alone after he messaged me saying to leave him alone. And after that i had enough so i messaged him saying his gf is threateming me and asked him to leave ME alone and called him an idiot and asked him to get off my whatsapp ( he started the relationship and asked for my whatsapp) did i do the right thing? Why did he block me after i blocked him and removed his picture? Thank you