My wife came home from work and she wasn't feeling good. Her mother had just died a week ago and she had a major headache. I asked her if we could have fun in bed tonight and she said no, so I slapped her and she ran to her room crying and slammed the door. The door is locked and she won't let me sleep with her in my bed. She called me a jerk and said I could sleep on the couch.

I've been with my fiancé since 16, we're now 21. We got engaged almost a year ago and plan on having our wedding next year. My family is fully acceptable of our decision, but my fiancé's family is not. We have our own home and have been living with each other for about 3 years. My finaces uncle  said "we're too young, but if we want to ruin our life so be it" just because of our choice to get married. Majority of his family is against it due to our age. I feel that my family is more acceptable of it because marriages on my side have been pretty successful. My parents got married in their 20s and still are married, also my aunt and uncle and many other family members. Not one single person in my fiancé's family has ever stayed married. They've at least all been divorced once, which is completely taboo in my family. They've always created irrational assumptions that aren't true for "why" we're getting married.. I just don't understand how to deal with this. It's a choice we are happy with making, not because of the length of time we've been together, even though it does add value to our relationship but it's more than just that. We've been through a lot together. We watched each other grow individually, overcame challenges, understand one another on a whole different level, our connection is beyond words, not only are we a couple, but we hold a strong bond and friendship. We absolutely love one another. I feel hurt to feel like we have to defend our marriage decision. 

Easy points.  Best answer is going to be given to those who tell me what I WANT to hear.  Hear me out. There is NO way you can tell me that im not a POS who deserves to die by his own hand Basically im a 31 year old fat and ugly depressed and anxious man. Im also tremendously lonely, with only a mother and a few cousins and aunts and uncles as family. I only have 5 friends in the world and they live far away.  I have never dated because i was confused about my sexuality for a while, am depressed and fear rejection. Im afraid of approaching a woman and ashamed of the fact i see all attractive women as sex objects. Im desperate for both sex and a meaningful relationship and im sure it shows.  Sadly, im also very shallow and feel that life isn't worth living if i cant get a woman who is an 8+ on the looks scale. Unfortunately die to my loneliness and intense sex drive i became addicted to porn. I feel like if i lower my standards to a 3 like the fat ugly monster i am, that ill be miserable forever. Every time i think about ending up alone or with a fat woman i get an immense desire for instant suicide. I dont just want sex, i want a good relationship, but to me a good relationship relies heavily on good sex— i can not fathom and dont think i ever can, how ANYONE can have good sex with a fat and ugly person, or how personality makes up in the sack for being fatter than an elephant. I do NOT hate women; i understand im out of their league and totally unattractive. No one not even other ugly people want to be with ugly people, and i do t hold them against it. Ive been trying to change my self with therapists for 15 years, im so lonly and depressed and hopeless i want to kill myself as a "fk you" to the universe for screwing me and as a way of refusing to lower my standrds.. i will not be alone forever, and i wont accept an ugly person— so suicide is the only option. I wish i could change but i cant and i give up.  Now, based on all of that HOW CAN YOU NOT AGREE a turd like me deserves to die?

The two had a terribly dysfunctional marriage with my uncle verbally abusive and my aunt anti-forgiveness. Finally they are divorced.

But ladies, being as proper as you are, how could you not trust your fellow women?

She was afraid that people would buy out all toilet paper due to coronavirus but I was like.. that's crazy talk.  Now I went to several stores and none of them had toilet paper.  What should I do? @Meep Meep - she only wants double pry ultra soft.  

It was taken at our family parade where we live in Provo. 

Divorce laws have always fascinated me ever since my parents divorced when I was nine. Our mom brought us into the divorce and so I became interested in it as she was giving us all the dirt on our dad to get him back. So my dad's brother is getting divorced and my dad went with him to the lawyer's office to be the witness on the signing of the divorce contract. Does that mean the uncle is officially divorced now or is there a waiting period? The papers were signed this past week.

I feel like in visiting her it'll make her think everything's OK at the same time if she dies I don't want to have the guilt of having not seen her one last time as I do still love her and the family sense. 

The family hates her that's why I'm wondering since I assume I'm supposed to hit or two for them that the divorce is more his doing.

A)love B)having childrenC)providing emotional support for a spouseD)providing financial support for children

She was the divorcer. I meant to give Nunya best answer. He is right about women. 

Last week after the Anniversary didn't go as planned we got in a big argument the whole week has been her telling me she needs space and needs to rebuild herself she wants to start living more. Now this weekend she goes out with her friend who she says was her homegirl but never could answer the phone & only text me. She wants me to leave out of the house but she'll give me time to get on my feet. I think she's getting attention from someone else & listening to her parents who never really liked me. She says she's fallen out of love?

My husband and I have been married for 14 months. I have 3 children from my previous marriage. Since May we have not been doing well. He's very needy and I'm not. I found out I september he had an emotional affair, even though he denies it. We've gone to counseling and thought we improved. In the last 3 months he's thrown out divorce to me 3 times. Twice saying he wants one and then 12 hours later changing his mind. Last week he said it again and came home really late and said to our dogs "I met 2 girls last night!!" I didn't say anything and left the room. He's now saying he doesn't want a divorce and I'm the one choosing to leave. He's not a great stepdad (doesn't play with them or really interact) last week the kids were playing around him, he got annoyed and punched a hole in the door. I was in the shower and didn't see what happened. He's never been violent or have a temper and I just feel lost. I don't want my kids to be devastated if we leave. My two younger ones are not crazy about him but my oldest is. 

What should he do if some day those Bosses comment about his wife in front of the whole staff just for fun and all the staff supports them as they are bound to support the Boss?  Consider that changing a permsnent job is not easy?

Will the wife feel more confident and like a Boss and treat the husband as her subordinate? Or else what will go inside the mind of the experienced wife?

even if I clean the entire house top to bottom, it will be dirty in less than a day because my husband just leaves crap everywhere. Trash, dishes, food, etc. just laying everywhere! It is driving me nuts! I can't live in a dirty house and be happy, so I clean it up. If I ask him to do anything, he immediately asks my 10-year-old son to do whatever it was that I asked him to do. I have asked him to stop doing this, but it doesn't matter. I have asked 1000x so I'm done asking. Other than this problem, we have absolutely no issues in our marriage. I don't want to do anything drastic over this problem, because we are so great together. Any Advice? 

Like when I saw her I was in a lot of trouble for being all nice to her. When her mother who is ill dies we are to boycott the funeral. My cousin was in a lot of trouble for having her to his wedding that she declined the invitation. So is it normal that the older relatives request that we hate her? I'm going along with the hate just to avoid conflict with family. She is the mother of four cousins of mine

On this board, I've been told that marriage is the end all to be all, nothing better but also been told it's the worst of the worst. Furthermore, each marriage is different with some lax and some strict on the rules. I've been told marriage is freedom and also imprisonment. Finally, to speak against it or ask questions is as taboo as asking about a woman's seedy "juicy details" history before marriage. How is any sane person supposed to make sense of any of this!? Rabid proponents of marriage, can you explain that to me? This coming from a guy that's been married 20+ years.  I might as well be asking about the meaning of life or about the afterlife or life on other planets. Nobody really knows.

I m a Christian who met someone online (his profile said single). We chatted online, texted, and then spoke on the phone. We re very compatible and he has some great qualities. He mentioned that he was going through a divorce, that his marriage had been over for a few years, and that the divorce would be final in a few weeks. He even texted me copies of the divorce paper and it said the final hearing date (uncontested) which is in a few weeks. I was able to check public records for his address and the house was transferred out of his wife s name to just his a few years ago and public records do show the divorce was filed a few years ago. He said she filed because she wasn t happy, but he was happy and came to find out she was dating someone else. Should I wait until after the divorce to continue contact? I don t want someone else to snatch him up.

My husband has a really high libido and sometimes he has sex woth me when I'm not horny because I wanna be a good wife.