With a gameplan i mean: talk about common things, ask questions, speak about yourself sometimes, etc etc Without a gameplan i mean: dont think and let it flow freely, whatever happens happens (i feel like this one is risky tho)

The kid and I went out for 20 mins to get something for the video game we were only 5 mins away from the house we left the pizza wide open on the counter and when we got back the pizza and box were half gone and all over the floor then the dog crapped on the floor downstairs the kid called the dogs owner his moms bf and the whole time I was trying not to cry but ended up laughing about it while I was apologizing when they got home I just said we were outside that we didn't leave the house when all this happened and the whole time while apologizing I started laughing and crying 

i struggle with mental health and su*cide a lot. i see ppl posting about how they need help and ppl actually reach out to them and make them feel better. but when i'm crying out for help, needing a friend no one cares. no one listens. i just want ppl to care..

So, I've recently been dealing with a friend that has bpd which I'm still getting accustomed to how to help and be there for her. She's recently told me that she's been using me as emotional crutch which shocked me, but I want to talk to her about it because I don't want to stay if I'm only being used. I'm just nervous a little bit about talking about it to her. However, I do want to see her get better and have her live a fulfilling life, yet I'm not trying to lose her as a friend nor to suicide. I just want our friendship to be a growing, even, and healthy friendship and be able understand what she's going through even though I don't have it. I don't want to lose her as friend, but I'm not trying to be selfish at all, but I don't want to be used. To all those who have bpd or not, I do hope that you're all keeping your head up as best as you can and I do hope for the best outcomes in your lives too. I just need some advice or something helpful. Thanks for taking the time to read this as well. :) 

So I signed my lease last July and everything went good I'm in student housing and loved my roommates .one of them graduated in January.Then just last month they told us a new roommate is moving in .he moved in yesterday and he's 35 years old which is ridiculous.and he's not even a student.he looks bumpy and it's very awkward.I have no idea what to do.Its ridiculous 

The last time I talk to this guy was on Tuesday. And he was talking about how he wants to have sex with me and he's into me. I haven't talk to him since then and I've messaged him on Wednesday and again today. And still nothing i'm not texting him again. I wonder if he's in the hospital again last month he was in the hospital because he had two seizures so I'm kind of worried that he might be again.

I'm a 21 year old with no friends in real life. I have a job but its all people way older than me,and I know nobody my age in my city. Help 

Sometimes when I'm sad I reach out to my friends. I tell them that I'm sad and yes in a way I am looking for attention but I just want someone to talk to. The other day I sent a Snapchat to two of my friends because I was sad about my grandmother passing away. I didn't take a full on crying selfie but I was crying and I sent a small part of my face and I heard from my friend that my other friend made a comment about me sending a pic of me crying. I was trying to come off a certain way I was just sad and yeah I did want attention I mean damn. My grandmother passed away. I wanted to talk to someone. What's the difference between attention seeking and just wanting help?? And what's wrong with wanting some attention when you are sad and struggling? I didn't post pics all over social media of me crying. I was barely even in the pic and it was only sent to a couple of my friends It just rubbed me the wrong way that my friend had to make a comment about me reaching out and admitting I was crying. 

I was taking the advice of not touching my face very seriously, washing hands all the time etc. But I got into an argument with an ethnically Chinese boy at school, and he slapped me hard on my face. I freaked out not because of the slap, which was bad enough, but because I don't know if he washed his hands before he hit my face, and obviously if I don't touch my face, I didn't want him touching mine either. Am I at greater risk after the slap?

I'm 30 and she's 59. She likes to stand real close to me and loves to hear me talk. She said "I don't know how you do it with that voice!" She enjoys my company and smiles a lot around me. I just have a feeling she's attracted to me.  I want to ask her out but she lives at the apartment building in which I work. Should I ask my boss if it's against workplace policy?

1/2 I used to have an online best friend who was a girl (I'm a guy) who used to be like a sister to me. up until over a year ago back in December of 2018 our friendship started in October, 2015 and ended 3 years later in December, 2018 like I said before. However I did something stupid I regretted (not going into details) and she stopped being my friend over it, however it wasn't just that, I also had an obsession with her and took her for granted, and I deeply regretted that as well. I tried apologizing to her on other account I had on the website for different reasons. I'm not saying which website it was. But she blocked me on them. But there was one last account she didn't block yet, and out of stupidity I apologized to her again a few months ago, and blocked me one that one too. Right now I am feeling different emotions about her at different times, sometimes I hate her and want to yell at her really loud and flip her off or not excepting my apology, and others I feel is regret and nostalgia. I don't plan on killing myself, but sometimes when I die I just want to be in the void all with sad and melancholic music playing in the background, and be a non-being for the rest of eternity. I am not obsessed with her anymore and sometimes I just hate her with all my heart and soul. I never had any middle ground feelings for her. I would if she accepted my apology and became friends with her again. But that chance is little to none, and sometimes I am an emotional masochist who wa 2/2 nts to embrace pain and misery. Is this normal or is there something wrong with me?

The last time I talk to this guy was on Tuesday. And he was talking about how he wants to have sex with me etc. I haven't talk to him since then and I've messaged him on Wednesday and again today. And still nothing i'm not texting him again. I wonder if he's in the hospital again last month he was in the hospital because he had two seizures so I'm kind of worried that he might be again.

Urg my best friend decided to prank me by putting a bag of cocaine in my locker (WHICH IS A BAD PRANK AND MAKES NO SENSE) at school, and my teachers JUST SO HAPPENED TO bring the police dogs to sniff everyones lockers to see if they've got drugs. MY LUCK AM I RIGHT!! They found the bag of cocaine but it's not even mine! Like it's my best friends but if I say she had it, then she'll be busted for being a drug dealer at school. what ever shall I do because I'm thinking of confessing, but I don't want to rat her. I mean she's the one who put the thing in my locker! Anyway, my teachers expelled me from school for a couple weeks. I'm not allowed back and i'm being investigated by the police. Idk should I tell on my bestie? Or say I did it and possibly face the consequences? The timing in this suckkssss

This guy and I met online in 2015 we are friends and we've been having a fling since then. We both live in different states we had an agreement that I would help him financially for his services. He helps me when he can he gives me books, material things and helps me with my academics. He lives in his car which is what he wants to do. He actually has a family that would help him but he doesn't want their help.  I've been helping him for over a year now I give him money for food and gas daily. I guess now he completely depends on me financially.

The last time I talk to this guy was on Tuesday. And he was talking about how he wants to have sex with me etc. I haven't talked to him since then and I've messaged him on Wednesday and again today. And still, nothing I'm not texting him again. I wonder if he's in the hospital again last month he was in the hospital because he had two seizures so I'm kind of worried that he might be again. @Linda: Can you read? I'm not sure why you are assuming that he's not interested in me. He has said that he is interested in me. No, we haven't actually had sex learn to comprehend what you read and not assume things. @Dead inside: He wanted to have sex with me can you read? Troll.

I find it impossible to find real love and friends. All people go after interest, if you can't bring advantage to them (money, work, other important contacts, you are a loser and if you die people won't give a damn). Why is it so bad nowadays? I've been leaving abroad for some years and the people who I spent my childhoood with don't even bother to call or send a stupid message with an 'how are you'. That's even too much for them, a stupid, free message. And people will underline the fact that they don't give a damn about you. They skip your birthday for some other people, always excuses... other people are always more important than you. I'm better off alone. But it's like I am depriving myself of many things

I have finished the college some years ago and now I don't have anymore any contact with my college friends. Is it weird? Are you still have contacts with your college or even high school friends after graduating?

I have a good long time friend Norma who recently got married. She introduced me to her new husband Sam, I became friends with Sam. Their house needed some repairs and Sam asked me if I could replace the cooktop, repair some of the plumbing leaks, and install new light fixtures. I did this one day when they were both at work. Sam paid me in cash and asked me not to say anything about it to Norma as he wanted to surprise her. About a week later I was at a social meeting and Norma was there. She was telling people how handy around the house her new husband was. She said he had taken a day off from work and replaced the cooktop, repaired some of the plumbing leaks, and installed new light fixtures. My first reaction was to say "Sam didn't do that, I did". But I had second thoughts and didn't say anything. If she wants people to think Sam is handy around the house, I don't think I should be the one to tell her that he isn't. Did I do the right thing by keeping my mouth shut?

I am a 28 year old woman from India who has lived in the US for 3 years. I have 4 close friends(22-25) who were my house mates and since ive been in the country they have truly supported me. I am the odd one out of my friends, they are 5'2-5'4 petite white women, yet I am 6'7 300 pound dark skinned brown woman. This has been an ongoing insecurity since they would continuously date many attractive guys, yet I would be getting rejected. Now they all have boyfriends who are all 6'0-6'3 muscular white men, around their age. They have all been in relationships from 10-16 months. My friends still treat me the same, and still truly care for me like a friend. On top of that, I get along well with their boyfriends and they seem to respect me. Our friendship has grown stronger if anything. But even though I should feel happy for having such supportive friends I still feel insecurity around them. I have gotten more self conscious about by height and weight, being both taller and heavier than everyone in the group including their bfs. Ironically I am more self conscious about my race and cultural differences even though I am more assimilated. I spend alot of time around them so I want them to understand my insecurities, inorder to strengthen our friendship.

Give her a special price and let her stay at hostel ?  Let say you are the staff working in a hostel

Normally in a group setting, people stand so that they are equally facing everyone. In a group of three, there's about a 45 degree angle between everyone. In a group setting of three, a person often moves so that they are standing closer to and side-by-side with one particular person in the group...with this, they are both full on facing the third person. Does this body language indicate that they see this person they're standing beside as more of a friend and feels closer to them than to that third person?

When i was in college i use to hang with a lot of guys they was fun and funny i know i was the only female in the group but i felt like i belonged however when everyone thought i was a dyke i stopped hanging out with my guy friends and started hanging with females and it was drama and i ended up losing my girl friends and my guy friends started transferring schools so we didn't hang anymore everyone split up.

For almost 2 years i had a work friend named Sofia.  I always had feelings for Sofia, but she was married with kids.  I noticed Sofia would stare at me like crazy.  I never made a move on her because i had reapecr.  But one day Sofia told somone as a secret,  that she was beginning to have feelings for me.  Apperantly she felt guilty because she's married.  Me and Sofia continued being work friends and she thought i didn't know about her feelings. Later coworkers began complaining, because Sofia and i would flirt all the time. Later there was drama at work because everyone began to talk.  Back in January of last year,  sofia told management that my precense on the floor was  affecting her and she couldn't focus on work anymore.  So my manager moved me to another department far away from her....  Sofia left work for 1 whole year and even blocked me on facebook.  Sofia returned to work early this month.   Ive ran into her a few times in the cafeteria,  and she tries so hard to Not look at me or she looks down fast.  She acts like i dont exist anymore.  I always stare at her and i make it obvious, but she stares at the ground and smiles a little bit Does she hate me now??????? Please help :(