I'm known to be blunt and say it like it is. I'm not judging her for her actions but is it wrong for me to tell one of my friends she can have fun but just respect herself. I say that because i do hang out with her a lot and the way she carries herself is kind of  like not good, and i don't want other men around us to think I'm the same way she is because people say you are who you hang out with. 

So I made a Instagram friend and basically we started face timing a lot for almost 7 months now. So usually we have conversation and its cool but these last two weeks they have been acting different . They will argue with me over the phone . The "friend will tell me what they really don't wanna hear about in the conversation. Overall just coming off rude and saying they don't care . Then when I try to end to conversation they Say I'm just playing and make me feel guilty ,when I do the same. But we use to get along really well . But I did some thinking and i know if they keep acting like this ima have to cut them off . Overall , I like them as a friend but not enough to keep getting treated like they don't care . I treat others the same way I expect to be treated . So any advice because the more I think about it, the more I want to delete their number and never answer again . I mean fake as not a genuine "friend " . They are a real person . But thanks 

and I feel others stares as an invasion. 

Looks like everyone hates me.

As someone with autism, I had a difficult time making friends because I have some genetic makeup inherited from my mother and grandmother. We're private people and we don't like many people and would prefer to have a small group of friends over a large group of friends. I had to be put in special ed classes because of behavioral issues. I didn't like sharing my games because I'm territorial like that. It doesn't help I have trust issues due to picking fights with other kids and kids would tease me for my autism and love of video games. I say I want friends but change my mind later on not wanting anything to do with them. I'm not fond of chatty people to begin with. I think friendship is a childish concept made up by children. A few of my special ed teachers would encourage me to make friends which lessen my desire to make friends. The kids from the special ed kids expect me to be friendly and be open to friendships. When I said I'm not here to make friends and one of them says yes you are which irritated the living daylights out of me. I didn't like the special ed kids (high functioning or not). It doesn't help I have trust issues now these days. I try so hard on making friends by constantly thinking about friendship, looking up on friendship articles, how to spot a bad/toixc friend. I force myself to make friends so because neurotypicals make friends easily than autistic people, and friends help you grow as a person and develop social skills. People without friends tend to get looked down by society sadly. I don't like small chat either. I dislike extroverts with a burning passion. Whenever I say I don't want friends people will tell me that I'm missing out on memories and other things found in a friendship. I hate it when people tell me that socialization is important because I feel pressured to socialize. It also doesn't help I don't have a lot of confidence in my social skills as well as coping with social situations. I rely on the staff and my family to help me guide me through these situations. Due to my isolation growing up, it impaired my ability to navigate socially. I overthink social situations too which isn't good for me. The main reason why I isolate myself because I have hurt people before and I regret it. Plus there are times I want to be left alone and I want to give other people space too. I don't want to permanently damage a relationship with anyone either. I fear I may hurt or bother people.

Soooo... Therese is a girl who is my best friend. She recently started going in our school. She was actually my best friends really close friend so we became friends real quick. She was really nice and funny. I really like her... But recently I noticed smthing was starnge. She was bi(as well as my other friend) and i noticed she started to kinda compliment me and saying bad things about my crush. And my other friend told me she is kind of into me. But im straight. And i dont want to loose a friend like her. Tell me what should i do???

I have a son (early middle school age) who wants to be just like a good friend of his. He wants the same toys, to do the same activities/sports, to go to the same places, and to live a life identical to his friend's. Problem is, our family is tighter on money and we can't afford to get him all these things he wants (his friend's family isn't super wealthy, we just don't have as much money as they do). Lately, my son has been complaining a lot about how he like's his friend's family's life better than ours and that he feels he's a misfit and was born into the wrong family. I've explained to him several times that no two people have identical lives and that he should enjoy what he has. He doesn't like what he has and wishes he lived with his friend instead of us and had all the things he has (not that his friend has more things than him, but because they're different and more appealing to him). We've also had a few incidents were he wouldn't want to leave his friend's house because he likes it there so much. He is very angry and unhappy about not getting to live like his friend and doesn't enjoy our own lifestyle/traditions. This has also taken a heavy toll on his school performance (his grades are down and he lacks motivation). He just doesn't accept what he has and who he is! We are concerned about him, where do we go from here? Just to clarify: He's not envious of his friend because he has more things or lives in a wealthier family, he just likes their style of living better than ours.

I am 16 and in grade 10. The girls from grade 11 keep calling me a kid and they're only a year older, 17. They're however friends with the grade 12's, so basically the age difference they have is the same as the ones we do. So why do they keep calling us kids? Does it make them feel cool or something?

ive been in love with this lightskin for at least 2 years. hes literally my bestfriend, my mom is so strict and she hates black people idk why. im Albanian and im friends with almost all the black people and lightskins in my school. why are they so raceist? they are all so nice and overprotective. my mom wont even let me hang out with boys and if she sees me next to a  boy she always takes a picture of them and i fould plenty in her camera roll and shes like oh hes cute he cute but they are white. she said if she ever saw a black person step foot in "her" house shes gonna kill me and them. whats her problem!!

About a year ago I lost my group of friends. Left college to moved back home because of it. The whole time I lived only with my dad, and had 1 friend that I saw sometimes. Currently at another college across the country. Im in a sorority but don't have any friends. Everyone Ive tried to become close to just seems to not care about me. Ive worked on the way that I come off and am around other people, but others still seem to not like me. I don't talk much to my roommates. When I go back home I don't even want to talk to my dad. Im becoming so depressed and feeling socially awkward when once I had so many friends. I don't know what to do

that light skin women have an easier life. and i said i wanted to punch a window

Are friends supposed to check on you first? What actually makes a good friend? Because I struggle in this area 

I'm 19 years old and my girlfriend is 20. We been together for 6 months and we were both planning to study business in community college and we were so happy together. 2 months ago, I got the opportunity to travel and study in a prestigious university which resulted in a break up between me and my girlfriend. 3rd day after the breakup, she begged me not to love her and she desperately needs me and loves me but I told her I need to do it for my future and apologised.  Now month and a half passed and I'm on 2 weeks break so I came back here and thought to myself I want to be with my girlfriend and study in community with her since that what will make me happy so yesterday when I asked if we could get back together, she tells me she really doesn't know if she loves me anymore saying I deeply hurt her and tore her apart. She said she doesn't know if she still have feelings for me and doesn't know what she wants anymore. Honestly after that I started questioning myself if she did really love me or not cause how she suddenly only after 1 month not sure whether she wants me or not anymore. How could she unlove me in 1 month? Do you think I made the right decision? I really regretted breaking up with her until I heard that she unloved me 1 month after the breakup 

So when my friend is intrested in a subject he just goes on, and on about it. Hes been drawing lately, and he goes on and on about it. I can only listes to so much until I just reply with "yeah" "cool" "okay". I think he picked up that I didnt want to hear anymore, and he was like "you don't seem very interested in what I'm saying" I said "yeah, not really, sorry" he said "okay....", and was quiet for a minute afterwards.