Someone who contracts with my company and I briefly dated. He treated me very poorly and I asked him to cut contact. He is no good for me, but the truth is, I think he is perfect. How he acted isn't perfect - just him, his face, his movements, and I have an enormous soft spot for him. I can't think of the last time I felt this way for anyone. I will not let him into my life again. He has not apologized and we have not discussed it. I doubt he has the maturity or character to fix this or if he even wants to. But when I see him I remember the pain he caused me. It has been over 6 months and I just try not to look at him when he's around or cordially walk past him because I can't get over how much I adore him. He started walking past where I sit more often, and I'd see him glare at me from the corner of my eye, and at first I thought this was him trying to steal peeks at me until he started whipping his phone out and intently stare at the screen as he walks past. I can tell he's controlling himself to not look in my direction and also to appear aloof. When there is no phone he will ensure he's staring at the floor as he walks by! He's making it seem like he's avoiding me. Regardless of what he's actually thinking I can tell he is forcing himself to stay in lane and not look at me (unless he is taking a peek while I am not looking). Today we walked past one another by accident and I felt like he was about to grab my hand. Maybe I am losing it? What do you think?

My wife wants me sexually ragged , I have to give it to her whenever she says that she wants it , I have to please her even if I am sick as can be with the flu

Do phone calls count as cheating? His mother died in October and my Mom flew to the funeral with her son (my half-brother). Her son is not home but his Dad, her ex, called my Mom to thank her for the help. She offered him some help with the man's son's autism (son from a later marriage) as my Mom's nephew has that. They are talking about things other then their son. They never talk other then a cordial greeting at events for the son. It was a bitter divorce 26 years ago I am told. Are they in love again and if so does it count as an affair when my Mom was previously married to him? Can she have two husbands at once? Could my Dad divorce her over it? Should I tell my Dad? He was in the house but not listening in like I was.

My wife is 2 years older than me she's 25 I'm 23. Is that bad ?

Does it count as a relationship if you don't really like the person, you barely spend time with them, and you're just using them in a way? This isn't about me so I don't need any lectures lol i am just curious and want to see what other people think or have to say.

The other day I looked at my fiances phone and saw he was looking up happy endings massages and craigslist massages in our area. I confronted him about it and he admitted to it saying he was just curious and he would never actually do it. It's not like I'm not willing to try things with him in the bedroom so I don't understand why he feels the need to go outside of our relationship for this. We are supposed to get married in 6 months. Advice?

Wife woke me up after only an hr of sleep and I was exhausted after finishing night shift! I told her I was completely exhausted and to hurry up with our business. During the act, she had less mood because I was showing signs of exhaustion. She happened to mutter under her breath that she doesn't need me and that she can get there faster watching porn. I'm inclined to tell her to watch a video and leave me alone next time. I feel like she was taking advantage of me and that it's a form of emotional abuse. What do you think?

I'm the worst shopper/gift giver!! So my husband is a busy body. He works all day comes home and finds stuff to do around the house. He makes up random littler projects, fixes stuff, cleans, cooks.. he never stops going. He likes to watch movies but we have a Hulu and Netflix account. We play the ps4 but he has the games he wants and the kids usually take over the controls once we turn it on. We live in the middle of no where. We have a few restaurants and a ton of bars (he doesn't drink) closet attraction is like 45 mons away and he doesn't like driving that far. What should I give him?? Kids want to get him something to so any ideas on something from them too??

I have been married to my husband for 8 years I am 7 years older than him. Our age difference has never been an issue. He has always been extremely mature until of late. Last year he took a job as a mechanic at a recon. shop. There are 3 girls that work there. I say girls because I am old enough to be their mother. All 3 are also married witb very young children but they are highly flirty with the shop guys and the guys flirt back. In reading any social media it is very disgusting and I am shocked their husbands allow this. Anyway I feel my husband is also in this circle and I feel very old and inadequate. I can't compare to 20 somethings. He says he isn't into anything that goes on there but his work. He isn't FB friends with them. He has had texts and calls from them in the past. Nothing personal just them trying to fliet Also he has begun to act very immature lately and I have found some porn. I want to trust him as he seems genuine and faithful to me but I have a very hard time feeling more is going on than I know. How do I get past this?

My wife is officially on an anti-anxiety medicine (Zoloft), which is GREAT considering she's been controlling out lives with her tiny comfort zone for so long. But now that it is extremely obvious that she can't be trusted with as much power she has over us, I don't know how to rip the power out of her hands! Here's the real problem, she's the macro and micro manager of the family. Nothing has ever been detailed to me what happens in this house. Homework? I don't know, she just makes the kids do stuff. Chores? I dunno, I just do what I see but she has her own list of priorities in her head and she delegates accordingly. Cooking? I don't know what she bought from the store (we get groceries shipped in now) and what there is to make. Morals? Since we aren't religious, I don't know what psychology website she's obeying this week... My wife's power runs deep and she triggers MY anxiety when I can sense it (by feeling powerless). I clearly need to put my foot down and just let things fall apart until I can get the hang of it, but I just don't know how to do that. She's still starting her Zoloft, so the anxiety is still rampant. Overthinking, anxiety, and irrational fear is at peak level right now; and it's really affecting MY health too. I feel trapped/stuck like I can't do anything without "triggering" her. But she needs to be treated like a child at this point until she's finally stable!!! How do I take the reigns and guide this sleigh? Please no crazy Liberal answers. I am not an uninvolved father or husband despite how my questions "sounds". If your answer implies I should have been more involved then YOU clearly have NO understanding of how anxiety disorders work. She PUSHED me out of the family and marriage business because she couldn't trust anyone, NOT EVEN ME, to do it "RIGHT". And now, here she is, taking medicine for her anxiety problems, and severely mentally ill because of HER trust issues and her getting HER WAY.

I'm stressed today because my husband is sitting at home job hunting, or so I think, and we're struggling financially. Last week he ended a 2+ year assignment on his job that he thought would go perm. They offered him a position. Created the sport for him, he applied, then they told him they had a hiring freeze and decided to end his contract at the end of the year. Last week while at work he sends me a text to say that the internet was off and he couldn't job hunt. I paid it and got it turned back on. This morning when I got out of the shower he tells me that the cell phones were off. I lost it at that point and told him I could pay it but he'd have to pay me back. He looks at me and reminds me that we're married not roommates and we have a joint cell phone account so when his is off mine too. My husband hasn't gotten his last paycheck yet but I refuse to keep paying the bills and he not pay me back. He reminds me that he didn't ask me to just pay his cell phone but our cell phone. I know he's trying to find a job but I'm getting tired of paying all the bills. Am I wrong?

My wife confessed to cheating when I was working overseas. She said that the youngest girl might not be my daughter. So I did a DNA test on all the kids and it turns out she's not. I do not want to be a deadbeat. I'm prepared to pay child support for all my kids except the girl who isn't mine. Her real father should look after her. If I could prove to the court that she's not mine, am I still supposed to pay? And also, can I take her off my family register?

I live in CA but was married in MS on 12/22/17. I need my marriage certificate to change my name but when I called to request it by mail I was told I had to wait a certain amount of weeks till I can request one. What is the wait time and what's it for? I was married before in CA and was able to pick up my certificate after we got married in court but I wasn't given the option this time