Who is right me or her

My son isn't in college and he doesn't have a job. Despite that I pay his rent, phone bill, cable bill, car insurance, and any other bill you can think of, plus I give him money to have in his pocket so he can buy food, clothes, etc. He came to me and my husband a few days ago asking for cash because he spent all the pocket money we gave him. When we refused to give him money he blew up and basically threw a temper tantrum and called me and my husband degregory names. My husband feels that making him pay for his own things will teach him not to be so spoiled and stubborn. I on the other hand feel that it's better if we continue supporting him because otherwise he won't know what to do and I don't want my boy extremely frustrated.

Its been a long time since grammer school, but this act of putting "me" in front of everything is driving me crazy. Am I wrong or is this incorrect grammer?.: Me and my husband. Me and the kids. Me and mary. Me and Mom.. Why would anyone think putting themselves first is appropriate?

My husband and I got married because I was in the military and I could make more money. He was one of my good friends and it was only supposed to be for the money. We have now been married for 4 years. We have since stayed married because the relationship worked. I am wondering if it is really worth it to be married still though. It feels like we are just roomates that sleep in the same bed. We hardly ever talk and when we do it same thing "how was work?" kind of stuff. I feel like I want more. I have told him that I want date night or something and he just agrees and nothing comes of it. I don t know what to do but I am starting to think that our marriage isn t going to work out. I want to know if I should try and move on before we have a family and he is apart of my life forever.

Ok so my ex of a year and a half dumped me right before thanksgiving via text because he claimed our relationship "ran its course" and he was incapable in relationships right now and he needed to find himself again and its better for him to be single" anyways it crushed me cause he was my first love even tho we were on and off for a year and a half we had great times went on vacations , he showed me off to his whole family and at one point he told me i was the one and we almost moved in together anyways so i asked him after a month of him not explaining how things really went wrong i said "hey did you leave me over things lacking in our sex life ? or did i fail to do other things i just hope i did everything to keep us together thats all i wanted " and he responded with " it wasnt sex or anything you didnt do in particular, Im just a complicated person and it simply just didnt work. I hope that gives you some clarity to move on" so exactly what was he trying to say? he's 32 & divorced and im 23 and i feel like a used piece of young a$$ now and like he sold me a dream so was he really just saying he got tired of me? I Almost feel like if i would have let him it raw he would have stayed with me but i was just too scared of getting pregnant by a man who wasnt madly in love with me.... he use to tell me that i wasnt on his "maturity level" and i needed to grow up when i said things he didnt agree with and would also make fun of the fact that i would always make him use a condom (im not on birth control) and didnt want to get pregnant and we broke up on our anniversary in august (he cursed me out at a bar) then we got back together a month later and he never told his family he were back together & didnt want me around his family anymore like he use to before we broke up

I have an issue. I am completely in love with a married friend of mine. He is SO kind to me, it's ridiculous and he's not that way with any other mutual friend. I don't have a license currently and whenever I need a ride to or from somewhere, he doesn't hesitate to give me a ride. He always comments on posts and says encouraging things and gives advice and really good opinions, but I literally never see him comment on any other mutual friends' posts. I am having a birthday dinner tomorrow night and he said he'd pay for mine if he was able to make it. Also, I found out that him and his family and another family got together and decided to take me out for a birthday lunch tomorrow (which is funny because I've never seen them do that with anybody else). Yesterday was my actual birthday and I knew he was busy most of the day (his job is insane lol), but finally at the end of the night, he told me happy birthday and he was my longest and sweetest birthday post all day. I've never seen him wish mutual friends a "happy birthday" at all lol. Why do you think he's so much kinder to me and how can I fall out of love with him when he is so dang good to me? And I know this sounds really bad, as I have a good relationship with his wife and kids, but I've had these feelings long before I met his family. I'm ashamed, but it's like every time I need to think of him as just my friend, he makes me swoon even more!!! I honestly don't think he knows how I feel about him or if he does, he's milking it! Anonymous, I don't plan on getting involved romantically with him. I respect his marriage and family and I love them. I just don't know how to turn these feelings off and he's not making this any easier lol. We've been innocently flirty for a long time. He's kind of protective over me when it comes to me being interested in a guy, like he thinks I deserve the best. I was casually talking to one of his coworkers and I asked him about the guy and he was telling me all about how sketchy this guy is There have been numerous things that made me question what his feelings, deep down, are but that is too much to type here.

A male friend of mine flew into town to be with me while my mother was ill and passed. I am married but my husband was busy working and wasn't great support at the time. Was this inappropriate?

For her friends wedding or should I go to Chicago with my mother for her birthday with my daughter and mother without my girlfriend? Both trip are around the same time.

How much was it? Is it real? Do you wear it everywhere? I always wanted to get married

He was NOT financially supporting me at any point in 2017, though we were still technically married until OCT of 2017

There's a married man who keeps staring at me, making suggestive comments, etc. Today, more happened. few days ago, not during practice, they had another event and his wife was there. She was sitting down and he was standing. I approached, sat behind her, and he proceeded to greet me. I said hi back, and he seemed nervous, but smiling a lot. No introduction to his wife. I left quickly, so nothing else happened. As I had anticipated, his wife was there today as well. Game day. He ran into me in the hall, by himself, I was busy with my son so we just greeted each other. I sat a little farther away from his wife. Another mother approached him to sit down next to them... He introduced that woman to his wife. I felt a mix of bliss and rejection, all rolled into one. There was one more moment or staring, with his wife right there, and I caught her looking at me as well. At the end of the day, I again was at the restaurant by the exit. His wife was walking behind him. He turned to my son and said "Good game!" . Then he looked at me and said "See you Tuesday?". I managed to say "Yes... Tuesday" because nothing else came out. I was terrified that his wife would see how I felt, and felt completely puzzled that he would single me out to say that when there were other parents from our team there. Is he trying to have an affair? Why single me out to say what he did?

The engagement ring I gave to her is very important for me. It was in my family for almost a hundred years. It was my great grandmothers ring. I asked her kindly to give it back and she refused. I even asked to buy it no matter the cost and she also refused. What can I do now? I think she's doing this out of spite.

Remember that they don't give you the disability income just because you don't feel like working. They give it to you that because the stress of working full time is too much for you.

They told me to love those who treat me well, and for those who can't, support them anyway. He left but framed it as I kicked him out and his family told me I can't do that. His aunt told me to go on pills. She didn't specify which kind but she barely has spent any time with me so I wanted the bish to shut up. Does this sound like they are pushing me to enable him?

I live with my two year old daughters dad. I am pregnant with our second child now. Him and I just argue all the time now. He doesn't have a job or a car. He's a landscaper who only works in the summer time. So I have asked him to stay home with the kids and take care of the house to save on daycare costs. For his sanity I still pay for daycare for two days a week. I let him take my car on those days and try to find odd jobs to make money. He acts like we're together but he won't sleep in a bed at night with me unless he wants to have sexual it seems. We still go on vacation together, and go on dates together and celebrate all holidays together. But there's this older woman who starts arguments between us. She is 42 and has daughters the same age as us. In the past he slept with two of her daughters. And now he's sleeping with her. I have asked him to stop talking to the whole Family in general considering he has cheated on me multiple times with the mother at this point. I try to forget the cheating he's done with her. But he took it to far when he took our daughter to this woman's house behind my back. I felt disrespected. I am trying to get over it but i can't. This has caused us to break up.

My Mom says when he divorced her he divorced all of us so I can't see him until he comes back. He calls but I am not allowed to want to see him so I only do when the law requires. I like him but I don't want Mom to find out I do or I will be in trouble with her. She hates him and says he doesn't love us or he wouldn't have left us.

My friend, 33 and no children and sells pot, is dating a man who is 47, recently divorced since December 2016, has three kids. They divorced because he said the wife was cheating on him, but has said throughout the current relation ship 'I didn't want to get divorced, I had to!"

During the past 3 months I have caught my wife lying multiple times. I have subsequently lost all trust in her. Does this mean that I have never really known her? She apologises and says she is sorry, and then she lies again and I find out again. And the process repeats. Should a lying partner ever be trusted? Do you give a lying partner a second chance? Do liars ever change? Since our trust is totally gone, is separation the better option?

What are some signs that a marriage is not salvageable? I've known my husband for over 20 years and have been married for 14 years. We have two children. He travels for work. He's a Merchant Mariner. When he came back recently in August, he seemed different. We've been arguing more and it seems everything I do he criticizes me. We often would go to a movie and/or take walks. He started doing his own thing and would drop off our kids and then be gone all day long until it's time to pick up our children from school. When I ask him where he goes and what he's doing all day he gets annoyed and will retort with "what do you do all day?" I'm a stay at home mom full time. I worked full time before I had children. He has asked me if I ever think of going back to working but I tell him that I'm happy being a full time Mom. He stopped giving me hugs and kisses. He doesn't give me any affection. In his text messages he used to always preface it with "Honey" and end his texts or emails with "Love, ______". But now he just addresses me by my name and doesn't say "Love, ____". He turned 47 recently. Could this be a mid life crisis or can someone you've known so long just fall out of love? I'm get quite discouraged and sad about the way my husband ignores me and withholds affection. Any advise would be appreciated.

The lovemaking has been smoking hot ever since I got my fiancée in on the act. Now my sister-in-law follows us around like a little puppy dog. I'm afraid my brother will find out.

We were arguing and he said he is not attracted to me anymore. We made up and he apologized, but that is sticking with me. We don't have sex as often and sometime he will have an erection when we start out and then when I get on top, he loses the erection. What do you think about all of it?